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No belly showing, skin should not stick to your chair, and not too much of arms exposed. As
they said this, I was unsticking my skin from my chair because I have something to say to my
school: Screw you.
Now listen, I understand dress code and appropriate clothing and whatever but seriously? Sure,
not showing the belly I get but do they even make shorts for girls that will allow skin not to
stick? Do I even need to say something about exposed arms? You’re kidding me, right?
Originally dress codes were created just so the school wouldn’t have to say uniform, but I feel
like recently the only thing dress codes have been used for is to stop distracting boys. I didn’t
realize that the muscle on my arm would turn on a boy in class. Are the back of my thighs too
sexy for algebra? I don’t understand why a rule needs to be enforced because hormones can’t be
kept in check.
But this has to do with more than hormones, this has to do with how the female body is being
perceived. Media sexualizes women. Media leads women to believe that less clothing is more
attractive, yet in schools and public, women are rebuked for wearing something that shows off
their shoulders. People are making the female body something to lust after when in reality,
female bodies are just as gross as male bodies. Yet females are yelled at to cover up. Well, I’m
tired of it. Why do guys get to walk around with unbuttoned shirts and not get scolded? Do I get
to take off my shirt when I get too hot during a workout? My school announced that I couldn’t
wear a tank top, yet yesterday I saw a guy walking around with just shorts on. I am expected to
cover every inch of my skin while guys can parade around with less on. How about people start
enforcing dress codes for all genders? We can talk about this again after that.
I don’t need administration telling me that I’m distracting. No one needs this dress code because
no matter what, exposed skin is going to shock everyone. What is too much skin? Apparently, it
is my shoulders. How about you deal with some real problems and then we can discuss dress
code?
Dear school, I’m sorry my shoulders are too much but I’m going to continue wearing tank tops.
Want to know why? It’s f***ing hot and I deserve to cool off. This is the 21st century, and
modesty isn’t the same thing as hiding.
Source#4 (Krischer)
Is Your Body Appropriate to Wear to School?
Hayley Krischer
April 17, 2018
Source #6 (Valenti)
Enforcing School Dress Codes Teaches Girls to be ashamed, not ‘Modest’
Jessica Valenti
May 21, 2014
Now that the warm weather is here, everyone is happily boxing away sweaters and breaking out
their summer clothes. But as students across the country are bringing out their t-shirts and
dresses, school administrators are ramping up their efforts to quash cleavage and "risqué" outfits.
According to educators and even some parents, young women's outfits – their bodies, really – are
too distracting for men to be expected to comport themselves with dignity and respect. It's the
season of the dress code - so instead of teaching girls math or literature, schools are enforcing
arbitrary and sexist rules that teach them to be ashamed of their bodies.
Take the example of a young woman in Virginia who was kicked out of her prom this month
because fathers attending the event though her dress was giving rise to "impure thoughts". Clare,
17, says her dress was well within guidelines for the event's dress code - it was "fingertip
length". She wrote on her sister's blog, "I even tried it on with my shoes, just to be sure."
Still, she was asked to leave – thanks to a group of ogling dads perched on a balcony above the
dance floor. "I am so tired of people who abuse their power to make women feel violated and
ashamed because she has an ass, or has breasts, or has long legs," she wrote
It's not just proms that make for problematic interactions for young women. Everyday school
dress codes disproportionately target, shame, and punish girls – especially girls who are more
developed than their peers. In 2012, students at Stuyvesant High School in New York (my old
school) protested the biased implementation of the school's dress code. One student noted that
the “curvier” girls were singled out – a v-neck t-shirt considered acceptable on one student was
seen as absolutely scandalous on another.
Like the fathers at Clare's prom, Stuyvesant administrators defended the sexist dress code by
saying girls shorts and spaghetti strap tank tops are "distracting" to male students and teachers.
This is a common theme when policing the way women dress - just last month a junior high
school in Illinois banned girls wearing leggings because they're "distracting to boys".
To assuage the supposed distraction, girls caught wearing leggings are forced to put on blue
school shorts over them. At Stuyvesant, dress code violators are pulled out of class and made to
change into a large baggy shirt. (There are dress codes for boys, but they're not as frequently
enforced and all a male student generally has to do is keep his pants up and t-shirts referencing
drugs inside-out.)
As I've previously written, this sends a clear message about who the schools r eally care about.
Because truly, what's more distracting: boys and teachers having to deal with the occasional
glimpse of a girl's leg, or girls being pulled from class, humiliated and made to change before
returning?
Dress codes assume that it's male students whose learning needs to be protected – and adult
males who need protection from themselves. What girls need doesn't rate consideration.
Instead of mandating that girls cover their bodies or adhere to rules meant to humiliate them,
perhaps men and boys who truly can't control their gaze should be forced to wear blindfolds
when they're around women they otherwise would be "distracted" by.
Sound ridiculous? So is throwing large swaths of fabric over girls with the hope that boys won't
notice their bodies.
We could, instead, try having some more faith in young men – they are, in fact, fully-formed
humans with the capacity to exercise self control. And despite all the leggings, skirts, tight tops
and various awesome female bodies throughout history on which they could rest their gazes,
most boys are able to learn – and grow up – just fine.
The onus cannot be on women and girls to try to control male lust. As any woman who has
walked down any street can tell you, we could all wear full sweatsuits and still get catcalled.
Besides, sending the message to students that girls' outfits provoke male behavior is a dangerous
slippery slope. Clare, the young woman from Virginia, said it better than I ever could: "I'm not
responsible for some perverted 45-year-old dad lusting after me." Nor should she be.
Source #7 (Halkedis)
Students Say Dress Codes More for Girls Than Boys
Almost 60 percent of schools enforce a strict dress code around the country, according to the
latest findings from the National Center for Education Statistics based in Washington, D.C.
Requirements, however, vary from school to school.
https://womensenews.org/2014/12/students-say-dress-codes-more-for-girls-than-boys/