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CONTENTS
To the Reader 1
Preface 2
1: Introduction: Why Installations? 4
2: Self Discovery for Artists and Performers 5
3: The Next Level for Successful People 9
4: Business Acceleration for Small and Medium Enterprises 12
5: Creating Real Change with NLP for Coaches 16
6: Converting Passion into Business for Aspiring Entrepreneurs 21
7: Lead from the Beginning with Excellence for the Young Generation 25
8: Breakthrough in Challenging Times for Everyone 29
9: Fast Career Growth for Professionals 33
10: Find Love as a Happier Family for Everyone 37
11: uP!withNLP: Version2 evolved even more 40
Personal Invitation 42
Resources 45
To the Reader
T his short book is our attempt to answer the question, what exactly do I get
from uP! with NLP? The challenge in answering that question stems from
the fact that we never ‘boxed’ the program and instead let each of our participants
shape what their experience is going to be.
In the program people come and ask us for various things. And truly, real changes
in their lives starts with real changes in them. So, the critical job, that Harini and
I perform is to identify what change do you need in you as a person to get the
life you desire? NLP beyond the trail of techniques it has created in the past 40
years, is primarily an information gathering tool. It allows a practitioner to gather
precise information of the unconscious processes of an individual, moment by
moment. And Harini and I always look for the ‘gap’ in the unconscious processes,
as in, what is the most important change that has to happen for a person to get
maximum returns in their effort. And we look for these gaps based on the NLP
models that have been created by modelling geniuses from all walks of life. We
gather this information of how you think from your language, from the sequences
of your non verbals in response to carefully crafted parables and so on.
All this leads to one thing, superior capabilities, which means: a better you, who
has benefited from personally targeted and artfully engineered conversational
programming.
So truly, what you get from uP! depends on who you are, what you desire and
most importantly how much life you have ahead of you? In the remaining pages,
we have outlined the learning and outcomes for people from different walks of
life. We are not boxing you into any one of the nine categorizes illustrated, rather
you may find yourself intrigued and interested to grow in certain aspects of your
life, and identify yourself from examples from more than one of the outlined
categories. After all, your story is unique, and so is what you will get from the
superior capabilities after the uP! experience. We are as curious as you are to
discover what the tapestry of your story is going to be from the uP! Experience.
I t all started in November 2011, when Harini and I innocently walked into the
hall to deliver what we called an ‘NLP Practitioner’ program. And just before
we started we realised that people who had come there, not only wanted to learn
what happens when we do this? The person is suddenly able to solve challenging
situations by becoming their own consultant, they are able to think out of the
box, they are able to handle conflicts better because they are able to shift the
NLP, they wanted some very serious changes in their life. That was the birth of subjective feel they have and look at it from a neutral point of view. Now, I call
the uP! Program. Instead of another regular NLP Training, we used our NLP this a capability because it helps the person build multiple competencies once this
Skills to help people get Real changes in their Life. skill is available. To illustrate with an analogy, playing a musical instrument like
Our approach to changing people’s lives involved making the necessary changes guitar is a competency but the ear to differentiate the minor variations in sound
in the person first. Harini and I figured what fundamental capability, if available, is a capability. With this capability a person can learn to play any instrument
would make ‘this’ person get the life he or she wants as a natural consequence well, they can hear analogue marks in tonality that people use to make subtle yet
of who they have now become. After about a year of delivering the program, powerful points in casual communication, they can train their voice, and do so
we figured some of the common capabilities that we were installing during the much more. However, if one does not have the capability to differentiate the subtle
batch, helped people get the life they want and grow fast holistically. It was at differences in sound, no amount of practice will lead to any musical competency.
this moment, we came up with the tagline ‘Superior Capabilities. Installed.’ to So, the ability to disassociate and shift perceptual positions is just one of the
express what happened at the uP!withNLP program. 30+ capabilities that is installed during uP!. The fun part is what happens after
the installation. In the next 6 months, the person starts to develop multiple
S U P E R I O R CA PA B I L I T I E S
competencies that feel natural. For examples, they may feel like they are attracting
Generally in a training program or a motivational workshop or in a coaching
good people around them and are forming better relationships. It may appear
session, a participant learns new things, gets insight and develops awareness. And
like their luck has shifted. But what really has happened is the new capabilities,
when these things are implemented with conscious efforts, they do (at times)
have become so innate like an aura, that whatever they used to do, they are now
produce some changes in the person or their life. What we do is different. We
doing the same things better with subtle differences and that produces profoundly
directly target the change. We perform Personalised Neuro Linguistic Programming
different results.
interventions to bring about the desired change in the person first. And since this
After over four years of sailing through successfully, making delightful
is done at the level of UnConscious Patterning, the new behaviour feels innate.
discoveries, thousands of success stories and new revelations, we have arrived at
It feels natural. And sometimes, the change we bring could be so fundamental a
a potentially useful description of how the whole is greater than the sum of the
capability that it starts impacting every aspect of the person’s life.
parts in this specific case of uP!withNLP. We hope this also serves to provide a
Let me share an example of what I mean here by ‘capability’. Consider this
framework based on the case studies to the potential of human excellence that
simple and yet very profound skill that the top artists seems to enjoy — the
opens up with targeted, personal changes.
ability to completely look at their own work as a third person would. To literally
disconnect any association they feel towards the work they do and to see it from
W hat has to happen for Small or Medium businesses to accelerate and grow
even quicker? Founders and CXO’s of such organizations want to make
it big for a variety of reasons. The fame, the sense of achievement, the sheer
didn’t stop with that! He continued to innovate by adding new elements which
further made his business more authentic and credible; he was able to provide
improved value additions to his clients. He says with pride, “I was beginning with
excitement of growing a small business into a large empire and all the success nothing but today, I have so much to show for my growth.”
that comes along. Growing an organization has multiple challenges starting from
K A B I TA AG R AWA L
hiring the right to getting things done on time, being able to manage one’s own
Kabita is an educationist, and runs a school called ‘Kidzee’ under the Zee schools
emotions, family life etc. and still lead a happy life with positivity. After uP!, these
banners in Jamshedpur. Kabita also heads a team of quality assessment for schools
already successful individuals accelerate their growth further. Following are 4
in her area. At uP! she learned the technology of ‘how’ to make changes happen
Examples of Business Owners who Grew their Business after uP!
quickly. Excited about the possibilities how this can be applied to children, she
S H I V R AT TA N applied NLP patterning on some of the students to overcome their limitations. Over
Shiv is a man of varied experiences: from being one of the most respected and time, she developed specific techniques based on NLP to help her students study
powerful lawyers in Delhi and Haryana, to being the director of some very better. She also helped teachers in her school personalise teaching methodology for
successful colleges as well as having scrupulous success in his passion for Real each child. And as a result of all the success stories from the Kidzee school, Kabita
Estate. In one of our conversations, he mentioned his Goal is to achieve 100 started another school, Mount Litera Zee School, for children from Grade 1 to
Crores in profit before he retires. Within the first month after his experience at Grade 12, a huge facility with her own signature methodologies for creative learning
uP!, Shiv felt the shift that was happening in his life with regard to his business she implemented using NLP. This school within two years got recognized as one
and clients, where he found work flowing into him easily. His business seemed of the best schools in Jamshedpur for quality education and holistic child growth.
to be growing on auto-pilot with very little effort. There was an entire shift in his
N A N DA K I S H O R E
attitude as well and he began to want to explore unchartered territories, literally.
Nanda Kishore joined his father’s business and was determined to grow it.
His success has now funded fascinating Travel dreams of Shiv, and in the last 8
And during the journey, he decided to join uP!. And he experienced personal
months, he has completed three independent tours to Antarctica, South America
transformation that allowed him be creative and resourceful on-demand. He
and Croatia Islands for leisure!
doubled his revenue within 6 months and he says he worked precisely half the time
ABHIJITH SHANKAR with zero stress & multi-fold increased productivity.. He dropped his preconceived
Abhijith is Founder and Director of V Verifyy, a company in the Background notions about certain clients and started meeting them. He converted what used
Verifications space. He attended the uP! Program in May 2014, recommended by to be ‘free’ sales meetings into hourly paid consultative services. His client base
his friend Nanda Kishore, another successful SME owner. Abhijith had explored increased steadily and he has introduced new verticals in the business. During
a few business earlier and wanted to do something different, but had not yet this period, Nanda Kishore also pursued his passion of playing the guitar. Today,
figured out what exactly to do. He was waiting for a breakthrough for all his he has started performing at big platforms across the Country, has a dedicated
Y our situation in life is unique. And only you know, if you, truly desire a change.
Only you know, if you are considering what next? And if you do, how to get
there? Sometimes in life, when we have not gotten the change we desire, it is easy
suggested that no part of his body could move below his shoulders, I helped him
regain movements enough to be fully independant again.
These two incidents made me realize that change is often easier and more
to get numb to the situation, until that moment, when you suddenly decide that practical when the right technology is leveraged and can be painful and elusive
it is finally time for a change. otherwise. So, Harini and I got together in an attempt to change 1 Million Lives
I have helped, personally, over 4000 individuals get real changes in their life! within the next 10 years.
And today, I am here to share that I can help you get the change you desire in Some Lives we touch Directly. And some through the specialists we create. And
your life. Maybe you are wondering ‘what next?’ or maybe you exactly know uP! provides us a platform to bring about these changes to more people, directly.
what you want. My journey of delivering personalized change started when I was And so, Harini and I invite you to be part of the exclusive group of people who
in highschool trying some ‘new’ stuff, called Neuro Linguistic Programming, to directly experience real changes from the both of us by participating in the uP!
help my classmates learn things faster. The most powerful change I experienced Program.
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teller. I used my evolved personality to consult and provide software solutions
for tech companies even before I graduated. But my passion with NLP was so
intense that in spite of my full day job as the Chief Technology Officer and an
author of various books on programming, instead of being called the tech geek,
I was known in my circle as the NLP Wizard.
I have always been intrigued by people who achieve noteworthy milestones at a
very young age. Antano Solar John was hired as Chief Technology Officer in
2008, when he was barely 25! He had already authored a few books on computer
About 5 years ago, I met Megha Singer (aka Harini) this young passionate
programming and information technology. When he walked in to office, the
lady with a vision. I helped her evolve to her next level in her singing. She was
non-verbals of people would just change, to deep respect, admiration and
puzzled and surprised as to how a 45 minute interaction could possibly continue
command. I remember my HR colleague jokingly exclaim, “We must really do
to evolve further her artistry.
a background check on Antano. How can he be so young and be recruited into
She asked me two very powerful questions:
Top Management?”
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much money in training, and there was a rat race grabbing new certifications.
In a month, just following this interaction with her, I had another magic
They would hop from seminar to seminar, completing certifications. Yet, none
moment. I adapted the patterning that I had learnt with the guidance of Dr John
of that directly translated into their productivity at work nor their personality!
Grinder to help Phani Kumar, a young IITian, get movements in his body after a
They didn’t grow quickly and meaningfully in their career like they intended to.
near-fatal accident which rendered him paralysed. Even though the medical reports