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Adoptions
A mother that dies during childbirth Original Trauma
If you are living with Cancer,
HIV/AIDS, MS and other conditions When the original trauma within the soul of
related to immune function a family is resolved and healed, we often
Victims and families of 9/11 experience a new lease of life and a
special freedom to live life with more
freedom, knowing our place in the world
Ancestral Healing more clearly.
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The death of our first love through Forced separation of mother and
accident or illness child owing to illness or other
Forced separation of the couple circumstances
owing to social and cultural Accidents
demands Sexual abuse and violence
Our first love relocates owing to Adoption
study, financial or cultural needs
As children, our first experience of intimacy
Second & Subsequent Marriages and is with our mother. She carries us in her
Relationships body, breast feeds us and nurtures us.
When a mother dies when we are young,
Second marriages often falter owing to or we are separated from her owing to
unresolved issues with a previous spouse or illness or birth trauma we can often suffer
partner, this is especially true when children from what has been termed an
were born to the first spouse. ‘interrupted reaching out movement’. As
a child, we naturally ‘reach out’ to our
We have often observed that a second mother for safety, caring, nurturing and for
husband or wife will be loyal to the children love. When this natural reaching out
of the first spouse when their partner process is interrupted, it often leads to
disrespects their mother or father. Through difficulties later on in life in attaining
this loyalty, he or she will sabotage their intimacy with our partners.
relationship. Conversely, when the new
partner is unable to respect the first partner This is especially true when an individual
or spouse, the marriage often falters. has been placed in an orphanage or has
been given up for adoption.
Gay & Lesbian Relationships
Themes, Questions, Feelings and
Gay and Lesbian relationships often face Challenges
great challenges in terms or remaining as a
couple over a long period of time. As Quite often individuals can become a little
many, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and trans- confused by the term ‘Family
gendered individuals have suffered Constellations’ believing that this cutting
rejection by family, friends and society in edge therapy is only designed for resolving
general, it is very difficult for the couple to relationship issues with one’s family, spouse
know their place in the world. We often see or children. This is not so. The term ‘Family
that such individuals become either the Constellations’ simply refers to the
‘black sheep’ or the ‘scapegoat’ of a evidence that most of our life’s challenges
family system and these burdens alone can be attributed to patterns that can
make it difficult to remain in a stable long come from our family, be that parents or
term relationship. Other elements that stemming from several generations ago.
affect gay and lesbian relationships:
During a family constellations workshop you
Parental rejection can also work with themes such as:
Parenthood through artificial
means of conception, surrogacy, Feelings that seem to have no
or donor ship logical basis
Gender identification issues Typically, we may work with depression,
Religious abuse guilt, shame or addictions
Adoption
Recurrent dreams
Childhood Trauma Nightmares, recurring themes
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Clarity on interpersonal work relationships,
departmental relationships, relationships to
suppliers and major clients The Healing of Individuals, Families and
Nations – John L Payne (Findhorn Press)
Projects and New Ventures
Major Decisions
The chakras
The major organs of the physical
body
The Language of the Soul – John L Payne
We have observed that specific feelings, (Findhorn Press)
whether our own or not, can be stored in
the Liver, Kidneys, Spleen, Lungs, Heart and
so on and so forth. Structural constellations
can bring healing to these emotions
leaving us feeling revitalised and Available from
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Spiritual Work
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Similarly we welcome you irrespective of
your gender, gender orientation, sexual
orientation, race or ethnicity. We welcome
both victims and perpetrators of crime,
violence, sexual and physical abuse.
Exclusions
Responsibility
Contact:
eMail: john@johnlpayne.com
Website: www.familyconstellations.net