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but perhaps the most difficult communication skill to develop and yet it is
often a neglected task in the classroom. This may perhaps explain why most
students perform poorly in some important listening activities such as
listening to academic lectures or other forms of oral presentations in class. In
the workplace, as noted by some business experts, graduates also
demonstrate inability to listen effectively during business planning and oral
presentations, and their inability to listen better often results in profit loss.
You do not just talk to others; you must also listen. Listening is, in fact,
the first step in the learning process. A child picks up a language by first
listening to those around him before he tries to imitate what they say. It is
said that a baby was once left in the woods where she grew up in the
company of wolves. When she was found many years later the sounds she
produced were the guttural sounds of wolves. We learn, therefore, from what
we listen to.
Now can you think of other reasons why you need to listen to others?
2. Assuming. Ineffective listeners may assume that they already know the
topic and therefore it is just a waste of time to listen to it. Effective listeners,
in contrast, think otherwise. If the topic does sound familiar, they still show
eagerness to listen to it, hoping that they can derive more or newer insights
about it.
9. Faking attention. You may physically fake that you are actively listening
just to please the speakers, but in reality you are not.
5. N – Note-taking. Take down notes while you listen. Write down key ideas
or phrases so you have something to go back to when you want to recall the
information. Be sure to write one point per line and separate supporting
points from the main ideas. One cue that the speaker is presenting a main
point is when s/he slows down. S/he usually goes faster when s/he elaborates
on the key points s/he mentioned. Explicit signals may likewise be given in
the form of remarks like “And this is important…”
Aside from notes, you may also want to write questions which you can raise
later after the listening task.
4. C – Concluding part of the message. Listen for signals telling you that
the speaker is wrapping up or asking the audience to act on something. At
this point, the speaker may restate what he/she said in the introduction –
his/her main purpose and sum up the main points for you to take note of and
remember.
In conclusion, it is worth quoting from Nichols (1995) who says that “to
listen well, you must forget yourself and give your focused attention to what
the speaker says.”