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• Callback Humor Amplifies the “Play-
ground Effect”...........................141
• Dumbing Your Humor Down to
the Playground Level.........143
• Part 4 Templates and Examples....................146
• Audio Note: Part 4.....................................147
Phase5:SexualizedHumor....................................150
• The Perfect Combo: Sexual Statements
Mixed with Humor........................153
• Sexual Priming: The Rejection-Proof Way
to Get In Her Pants...........................157
• Part 5 Templates and Examples.............162
• Audio Note: Part 5........................................163
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introduction:
When she’s
laughing...
Humor alone will get you a laugh or two; humor in a
specific sequence will get you LAID as well
as prevent you from “spinning your wheels”...
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hey weren’t lying…
What you may not know, however, is that ANY guy can get wom-
en laughing. And I mean, ANY guy. This isn’t to say that every guy
is a comedian—or even funny. You don’t need jokes or elaborate
punch lines to women laughing their pants off (quite literally).
Before we can even delve into this course, first you MUST un-
derstand that “comedy”—as you probably know it—is almost
something entirely different from cultivating the ability to “make
women laugh.” Here’s why:
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That’s why even guys who can tell funny jokes often don’t
come across attractive (probably you know a guy who’s “hi-
larious” yet women just don’t seem to like him). On the oth-
er hand, you’ve probably seen a guy who can get away with
saying absolute to stupidity to women…
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Before We Get to
the Funny Business
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here is a method to the madness of what some people
think of as ‘being funny.’ Once you understand how
a humorous/flirty interaction is supposed to look, you
will begin to see them as I do, and the mystery will be-
gin to unravel itself.
There are ‘loopholes’ that exist as well, and I’ve identified them,
and I know precisely when to “exploit” those loopholes. The
techniques that Rob and I have discovered and the “templates”
we have assembled are going to crack this code that very few
men take advantage of… and allow you to capitalize on what
we call the “Theory of Expectations” to make her horny with
humor.
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Having this understanding will put the odds back in your favor,
and give you the control so that you can consistently spark at-
traction in conversations.
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f you’re anything like me, you can probably think back to a
time…
...and then, weirdly, did you find yourself “living up to” her ex-
pectations?
It’s like I let their ‘image of me’ shape how I act. And soon
enough… I become “the shy guy.”
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f you’ve accepted that self-fulfilling prophecies are real, if
you can relate to feeling pigeonholed as the shy or “nice”
guy, then it leaves you with TWO choices:
I don’t know about you… but I like to take every advantage I can
get when I’m out there talking to girls!
So here’s the thing… the longer you wait to begin flirting with/
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joking around with women, the more resistance you are go-
ing to face when/if you do and so the harder it is going to be
to make the transition from ‘friendly conversation’ to ‘flirta-
tious conversation.’ In fact, you may never even get a chance
to start flirting… because she might have already dismissed
you as another boring chump.
...so if she views you as the boring sort of guy she is going to
respond to you in a boring sort of way and give you NOTHING
to work with, hoping that you get the point and walk away.
(Thus living up to her expectations.)
However…
Make it your JOB to quickly get her thinking “Oh… this is the
type of interaction this is going to be FUN… THIS guy GETS
IT.” Most guys don’t “get it.” And so they REALLY don’t get
it (Get it?). So when you show her that you do… things get A
LOT easier.
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ltimately it all comes down to displaying to her that
you are the kind of guy who is comfortable and con-
fident joking around with hot girls.
The quicker she sees you as this sort of guy… the easier the rest
of the conversation is going to go. And more importantly, the
easier it will be to take a conversation from ‘friendly’ to ‘laugh-
ing’ to ‘sexual.’
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Once you plant that thought her in mind… the “Theory of Ex-
pectation” takes over and everything else becomes so much
easier. It’s like you begin to swim with the tide… instead of
against it.
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ave you ever been around someone who just seemed
to “dictate” the pace of a conversation? Or maybe
you’ve been in a situation where YOU dictated the
pace, a time when you immediately feel “in control”
of the conversation.
Acting this way is NOT bossy or rude. But it does get people to
feel as they need to live up YOUR standards—and not vice versa.
Even if you say something the other person doesn’t necessarily
find funny, they will probably laugh anyway! That’s the feeling
you need to get women to feel around you. Because that feeling
almost always leads to attraction.
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Most guys allow this to happen because it’s easy and it feels
like “the nice thing” to do. Indeed, when women have you
stuck in your head, you’re less likely to encounter friction or
have arguments.
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Finally, Remember:
Clowns Don’t Get Laid!
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omen MAY love to laugh, but they DON’T want
a clown or even an entertainer. Even the fun-
niest standup comedy routines can fail mis-
erably on a date... and sometimes EVEN IF a
woman is cracking-up laughing, she’s uncon-
sciously losing respect and attraction for the same man who’s
making her laugh!
Therefore, it’s crucial that you always remember the golden rule
of attractive humor:
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That means the subtext of the joke—or what the joke im-
plies— is more important than how funny it is. Take, as an ex-
ample, two jokes:
Regardless if you find these jokes funny or not, there are two
very different subtexts in each joke. The subtext of joke A is
that you find dead babies funny. The subtext of joke B is that
you understand how men and women interact. In one joke,
you show your apathy and insensitiveness, whereas in the
other joke you demonstrate that you understand gender rela-
tions and social subtleties.
Most guys find dead baby jokes funny because it’s “cool” to
be apathetic and insensitive around other guys—that’s the
essence of “being tough.” Women don’t find such qualities
endearing, however.
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Module 2
introduction
Introduction: The Why of Humor
• Why we created this program
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dorphins
• Most importantly Humor serves very specific functions
in various phases of a seduction. This is where most guys
blow it. They stick with humor that is only conducive to
one phase and serves only one purpose
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“Cool Vulnerability”
• A specific type of humor we’re going to talk about that
creates a bond with her.
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phase 1:
Breaking Her
State
Used within the first few seconds of meeting a
girl; the first few minutes of a date; in a
first text message you send her....
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think we can all agree that women put up sort of a “Bitch
Shield” when they first begin talking to guy they are uncer-
tain about.
These women don’t want to give off too much interest and
encourage him to keep talking, so often they will appear bitchy,
bored, tired, or uptight. It is your job to use bantering to break
through this ‘shield.’
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Also, don’t dwell on the banter line. If she tries to pry or wants
you to explain more… just let it roll off, give her a sly smile,
and change the subject.
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ll humor comes from the unexpected. In fact, all the
humor formulas and templates in this course have
some element of the “unexpected.” If a girl can pre-
dict how a joke will end, she probably won’t laugh.
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once asked an attractive woman I was dating, who’d heard
every pickup line in the book, if there was such a thing as a
good pickup line. She said yes, but only if a guy is funny and
ironic about it. That way, it seems as if he’s acknowledging
the awkwardness of it and, by doing so, makes it funny and
not awkward.
It’s kind of like when someone says, “I’m going to tell you some-
thing but you can’t get mad…” or “I don’t mean to sound racist,
but…” and then they say something that normally would have
been really offensive…yet it’s somehow less offensive because
they acknowledged it!
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And since most guys act this way, it sets up a GREAT opportu-
nity for humor. Not only is acting shameless unexpected/un-
predictable, but it also injects A LOT of healthy tension into the
interaction, which is what will get women laughing uncontrol-
lably…even if what you’re saying isn’t objectively very funny.
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my friend and the girl said something like, “It’s girls night, I
can’t talk to you!”
The girl and her friend were like, “What? What are you talking
about?”
You also want to do things like connect the dots. For instance,
if she leaves something out, fill it in for her. Maybe she’s telling
a story about a guy that she met off Match.com, and it didn’t
work out. You can say, “Yeah. So the sex got boring?” or, “No
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It may take some time, a little practice, and whole lot of hones-
ty, but if you can get yourself feeling comfortable about your
desire for women, you will keep them laughing while escalat-
ing the conversation toward sex.
One final point before we get into a few quick examples: feel-
ing comfortable about your desire for women DOES NOT mean
you’re chasing them and kissing their ass. Absolutely not! Be-
ing honest with your desire doesn’t mean constantly telling a
woman how beautiful she is, or how much you like her.
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Using Misinterpretation
the Right Way
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magine a woman showing up to a first date with a guy she’s
met only once, very briefly, and whom she hardly remem-
bers. Imagine her walking into a colorful lounge and scaning
the room...
A man notices her, smiles, and waves. As she’s making her way
over to him, she thinks, “Oh God, I hope this guy isn’t boring. I
really don’t want to sit through an hour of bad conversation...”
“Sorry I’m late,” she says, preparing to enter into the boring
small talk she so hates. “Did the waitress already come?”
The man smirks a little, waits a moment to respond, and says, “I’m
not sure, but that would explain why she’s smiling so much...”
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While the comment was a bit edgy, the man sitting across from
the woman is someone VERY comfortable
around women. He’s a man who understands
how to attractively misinterpret something “... misinterpret her or
accuse her of some-
a woman says so that he can playfully get a thing-even in a joking
woman in a flirty/sexual mood without being way-she will immedi-
creepy or too obvious. ately feel a need to
respond”
This puts a woman “in her head” because she has to scram-
ble to clarify or “defend” herself. If you misinterpret her or
accuse her of something—even in a joking way—she will im-
mediately feel a need to respond.
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Phase 1
Until you get comfortable thinking of your feet, you may find it
easier to use a formula to misinterpret things about a woman.
I like using templates because if I’m in a jam or she’s not giving
me much to work with, I can just use a template answer.
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layfully “accusing” a girl of something is great for so-
cial humor.
For example, you may say to a girl, “Wow, you’re EVIL!” to which
she’ll usually retort, “No I’m not! Why do you think that?”
That’s the perfect “setup” for SO MUCH social humor. For ex-
ample you could say…
• “Yeah right! You are so evil. I’ll bet your head twists around
like the Exorcist!”
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You know you’re doing it right if the girl plays along— even if
she acts offended or indignant. She might say, “What?! I didn’t
say that! Why would you think that?” but if she’s saying it with
enthusiasm or a little smirk, she’s enjoying herself.
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e hate canned pickup lines. Most are just not
funny. And the few that are typically DO NOT
contain the type of humor that’s going to get
you laid because the subtext is all wrong. Pick-
up lines ooze with the subtext “I’m trying to
impress you” (at best) or “I’m sleazy” (at worst).
Yet there ARE times when having a few “lines” up your sleeve can
be extremely effective. One of those moments is when trying to
break a woman’s state. Breaking her state so she flirts with you
is CRUCIAL. Unfortunately, most guys strike out because they’re
either NOT using humor at all, or using the wrong type of humor,
to do that.
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like better. Point is: figure out a surefire to always spark a flirty
vibe, right from the start. Here’s a flow chart that spells out
the formula to create a flirty vibe...
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Part 1: Breaking Her State
Unpr t y
ed ictabili >“You have an accent! where’s it
from? Lemme guess. Guam…”
>“___________ is EVIL!”
>“What’s new in _____(Ironic Place)__?”
Radic
al Truth >“I’m going to flirt shamelessly
with you for the next 32 seconds...”
>“I’m taking you on a speed date!”
>“...you can’t really blame me...”
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sn
Misin i o
terpretat >“If by ____ you mean ____, then yes!”
>“You are such a (badass/flirt/diva/nerd/
dork)!”
>“I’ll bet you are” (if she says, “I’m
wet...”)
Pop C
ulture >“Wait, I’m calling a Zack Morris
timeout.”
>“I kissed a girl…and liked it!”
>“Bling, bling!”
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Incon
gruence >“It’s guys’ night out!”
“You’re going to be my new body-
guard!”
>“Stop staring at my man-cleavage!”
S pec l s
i
ific deta >“A girl drinking an Appletini WOULD
say something like that.”
>“Wear that dress you know I love!”
>“What are you doing at 8:03 tonite?”
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Module 2
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Phase 1
PRO TIP: We’ll talk more specifically about going into a char-
acter in a later phase.. but something that will help is to put
yourself into a comedic character… Barney from How I Met
Your Mother is an example…
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