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May 16, 2014
Pitru-paksha (Mahalaya-paksha – The dark fortnight in the
Hindu almanac
month of Bhadrapad, when some rituals are performed for
the ancestors)
Importance
1. The dark fortnight in the Hindu lunar month of Bhadrapad is termed
as ‘Pitru-paksha’. This fortnight is very dear to the pitars (Departed
ancestors). The shraddha (Special rituals performed for the departed
ancestors) performed in Pitru-paksha is called Mahalaya shraddha. If
Mahalaya shraddha is performed for the pitars during this fortnight,
they remain satisfied throughout the year.
Meaning : How can a householder who infuriates his pitars (by not
performing shraddha during the period when the sun is in the zodiac
sign of Virgo), earn money or be gifted with a male child etc. ?
Additionally,the Pitrulok (Region where Pitars reside) is vacant till the
sun moves from the zodiac signs of Virgo and Libra into the zodiac
sign of Scorpio.
The Pitrulok remaining vacant implies that during this period, all of
them come close to their descendants to bless them, and if shraddha
is not performed, they become disappointed and return. Hence, it is
important to perform shraddha during this period.
A list of all such names along with their gotras (Lineage) shouldalways
be maintained. It will be useful while performing a Mahalaya
shraddha. (Such in-depth study has been carried out only by the
Hindu Dharma ! – H. H. Dr Athavale)
Bharni shraddha
If shraddha is performed when the Bharni lunar asterism is in position
during Pitru-paksha, it yields benefit equivalent to performing a
shraddha at the Holy place of Gaya. As per the scriptures, Bharni
shraddha should be performed after the annual shraddha.
Sapindikarana shraddha is performed before the annual shraddha. If
Bharni shraddha is performed after that, it helps the deceased to get
released from the Preta-yoni (Species of the dead).This shraddha
should be performed in every Pitru-paksha. As per the tradition that
has become prevalent according to the times, the Sapindikarana
shraddha is performed on the 12th day itself after the death of an
individual. Therefore, according to some scholars of scriptures, it is
acceptable if Bharni shraddha is performed duringthe Pitru-paksha of
the same year.
B. Definition
The definition of Shraddha as given in the ‘Shraddha’ chapter within
the Brahmapuran Holy text is as follows :
C. Associated words
Shraddhattva Pinda, Pitru Puja (ritualistic worship of deceased
ancestors), Pitru Yagna (sacrificial fires performed for deceased
ancestors)
B. Manu was the first one to perform the ritual of Shraddha. Hence he
is called the Deity of Shraddha.
C. After Shriram, Sita and Lakshman left for their stay in forest, Bharat
met them in the forest and apprised them about the death of their
father. The epic Ramayana mentions that Shriram later performed the
ritual of Shraddha for His deceased father at an appropriate time.
The information regarding the time period when the worship of Pinda
started is documented in the holy text Mahabharata (Shantiparva
12.3.345) – Varaha, incarnation of Vishnu, introduced Shraddha to the
entire world. He created three Pindas from His molar tooth and placed
it on a Darbha (dried grass twig) towards the southern direction.
Varaha advised ‘Let the 3 Pindas be considered as a representation
of the father, grandfather and great grandfather’ and then He
vanished after performing the ritualistic worship of the Pindas using
sesame seeds in a scientific manner. Thus began the worship of
Pinda for deceased ancestors as per the guidance of Varaha.
1.2 Vasu-Rudra-Aditya
1.‘Shraddha is associated with the benevolent Deities Vasu, Rudra
and Aditya of the ancestors’ souls. The mantras chanted during the
Shraddha and the rites performed enables one to connect to these
Deities.’ (6)
2. Types of Shraddha
2.1 Main and commonly known types
Matsya Puran mentions ‘िन ं नै िमि कं का ं ि िवध ा मु ते ।’,
meaning, primarily there are three types of Shraddha – one performed
daily, periodically and with purpose (Kamya). In addition to these,
Yamasmruti defines Nandi Shraddha and Parvan Shraddha as
additional main types.
Tuesday Victory
Sunday Health
B. Date (as per Hindu calendar) and the derived result of the
Shraddha
Date of performing Result derived from the Shraddha
Shraddha
First day in Hindu Lunar fortnight Gaining a good fowl and being able to give birth to
a healthy baby boy.
Fifth day in Hindu Lunar fortnight Having a lot of good looking male
children
Fourteenth day in Hindu Lunar The persons, who have died due
fortnight to the stroke of a weapon or on a
battlefield, get momentum to
attain a higher sub-plane.
Gaining good citizens.
Note 1 : Except full moon night, all other dates that belong to the dark
fortnight and corresponding dates in dark fortnight of the month of
Bhadrapad, bestow special benefit.
B.1 Bhishmashtami Shraddha
When Brahmaṇs are not available to represent Deities and the pitars
during the Shraddha rites, darbha is placed at their designated place
in the rite. They (darbha) are termed as ‘chata’ (or ‘Darbhabatu’. Since
the shraddha is performed by placing the chata, it is termed as chata
Shraddha.
C) If the definite date of death is not known then the shraddha can be
performed on the date when the news of the death was received.
The holy texts of Puranas say that, on the day of Akshaya Trutiya one
should donate uncooked food (aamanna), a water pot, a fan made of
mint grass, an umbrella, footwear etc with the intension of offering
them to the deceased ancestors’ souls. It is mentioned in Garud
Puran that, once the donations are made with the intention of offering
them to deceased ancestors’ souls on this day, the messengers of
DeityYama do not cause distress to the ancestors’ souls.
Meaning : When clothes and ornaments are donated, the dark, brown
eyed, cruel messengers of Deity Yama having sharp and long teeth
do not cause distress to the deceased ancestors’ souls.
4.3 Pitru fortnight (Pitrupaksha) (Mahalaypaksha)
A) Importance
1. The dark fortnight in the Hindu calendar month of Bhadrapad is
called as ‘Pitrupaksha’. This fortnight is very dear to the deceased
ancestors’ souls. If Mahalay Shraddha is performed for the deceased
ancestors’ souls during this fortnight, they remain satisfied for the
entire year.
Mahalay Shraddha
2. ा ं क ागते भानौ यो न कुयाद् गृहा मी ।
धनं पु ाः कुतत िपतृकोपाि पीडनात् ।।
याव क ातुलयोः मादा े िदवाकरः ।
शू ं े तपु रं तावद् यावद् वृि कदशनम् ।। – Mahabharat
2. Hindu Dharma that does not give any cause for excuse
for not performing shraddha due to the absence of a
particular person!
Son (including the one whose threading ceremony has not been done),
daughter, grandson, great grandson, wife, daughter’s son (if he is one of the
heirs), real brother, nephew, cousin’s son, father, mother, daughter-in-law, son
of elder and younger sisters, maternal uncle, anyone in the seven generations
and from the same lineage (sapinda), anyone after the seven generations and
belonging to the same family domain (samanodak), disciple, priests
(upadhyay), friend, son-in-law of the deceased person can perform Shraddha
in that order.
In case of a joint family, the eldest and earning male person should perform
Shraddha. In case of the unit family, everyone should perform shraddha
independently.
Hindu Dharma has made arrangement so that for each and every dead
person the shraddha can be performed so as to give momentum to that
person to progress to a higher sub-plane. Holy text Dharma Sindhu mentions
that, ‘If a particular dead person does not have any relative or a close person,
then it is the duty of the king to perform Shraddha for that person’.
2. The woman performing shraddha should place a clean cotton cloth on her
shoulder while performing ‘Savya-Apasavya’
Contents
1. Terminology of Shraddha
2. Tarpanand Pitru tarpan
2.1 Tarpan
1. Significance and meaning
2. Objective
3. Types
4. Method of performing Tarpan
2.2. Pitru tarpan
1. Meaning
2. Why should it be done?
3. Importance
4. Pitrutirtha: When should it be done?
5. Tarpanof sesame seeds (tila tarpan)
6. Importance of performing tila tarpan
1. Terminology of Shraddha
A) Pitar
When a human being dies, its subtle body gets freed from the dead body after
performing the ritual of Shraddha and it gets position in the subtle plane meant
for souls of dead persons. At that moment it assumes the designation of Pitar.
B) Parvan
After performing Sapindikaran Shraddha (Shraddha performed one day prior
to one-year completion after the death of the person is called Sapindikaran
Shraddha), the soul that has assumed the designation of Pitar now joins other
Pitars and then gets further categorised as Parvan. Also, it gains authority so
as to allow its descendants to perform Parvan Shraddha for it.
D) Jivatpitruk
When there is a male person whose father is alive, then such a person does
not have authority to perform Shraddha. But he has right to perform Shraddha
for his mother and grandfather (mother’s father). Also, generally, he even
does not have the right to perform rituals of Narayannagbali, Tripindi etc;
however if these rituals are performed with the objective of conceiving a child,
then the jivatpitruk can do so. In order to perform ‘Apasavya’, a jivatpitruk can
only hold the thread in the thumb of the left hand and cannot hold it completely
in his left hand.
E) Three ways of wearing the thread (janve) are Savya, Apasavya and
Nivit
The thread should always be worn on the left shoulder. This style of wearing
the thread is known as ‘savya’. When it is worn on the right shoulder it is
known as ‘Apasavya’. When worn as a necklace, it is known as ‘Nivit’.
F) Offering ‘kshan’
During the ritual of shraddha, the deity and the deceased ancestors’ soul are
invited by offering grass twigs (darbha) to them. This is called the offering
‘kshan’.
G) Pishangi
Rangoli drawn using ash and with chanting of mantras around the meal plate
arranged for the priest (Brahmin) is called as pishangi. (Offering food to priest
(Brahmin) is considered as an important part of Shraddha). Rangoli is drawn
in a clockwise direction (similar to circumambulation) around the food offering
plate arranged for the deity and in the reverse direction around the plate
arranged for the ancestors’ soul. Pishangi is one of the aspects of the ritual of
shraddha. Nowadays, Pishangi is drawn only in case of offering of Pinda
(Pinda daan). However, Pishangi should be drawn during all types of
shraddha.
H) Vikir
During Shraddha, after finishing offering of Pinda (Pinda daan) and worship of
Pinda, ‘Savya’ is performed and a morsel of rice is kept in front of the plate
with the food offering arranged for the Deity. This is termed as Vikir.
I) Prakir
After performing Vikir, ‘Apasavya’ is done and a morsel of rice is kept in front
of the plate which has the meal arranged for deceased ancestors’ soul. This is
called as Prakir.
J) Ucchista Pinda
After performing Prakir, pinda is kept for the ones who have died by getting
burnt in a fire or due to partial burning, or for the dead foetus, near the plate of
food arranged for the deceased ancestors’ soul or close to other offerings of
pinda.
K) Shraddha Sampat
If two shraddhas occur on the same date (as per Hindu calendar) then it is
termed as Shraddha Sampat.
B) Objective
The objective of performing tarpan is that God, deceased ancestors’ souls etc.
whose names are pronounced while performing Tarpan, should bestow
happiness on us.
C) Types
Brahmayadnyang (performed during sacrificial fires), snanang (performed
daily after bath), shraddhang (performed during Shraddha) are the various
types of Tarpans that are part of the various rituals and should be performed
during the respective occasions.
2. Tarpan for God and Sages should be performed by facing East and that for
deceased ancestors’ souls it should be performed by facing South.
3. As per science, tarpan for God should be performed after doing ‘Savya’,
that for Sages should be performed after doing ‘Nivit’ and for deceased
ancestors’ souls after doing ‘Apasavya’.
4. A dried grass twig (darbha) is necessary for performing tarpan. Tarpan for
God is performed from the tip of the darbha, tarpan for Sages should be
performed by folding the darbha in the middle, and tarpan for deceased
ancestors’ souls should be performed from the tip and root of the two darbhas.
5. Offering of water (tarpan) to deities should be done using the finger tips,
while offering of water to Sages should be done from the base of the little
finger and the third finger and that to the deceased ancestors’ souls should be
done through the mid of the thumb and the first finger of the hand.
6. Tarpan should be performed taking one handful (anjali) of water for each
deity, two handful of water for Sages and three handful of water for deceased
ancestors’ souls. In case of matrutrayi (mother, grandmother and great
grandmother) three handful of water should be used and for other females
ancestors’ souls one handful of water should be used for tarpan.(8)
C) Importance
By performing tarpan, the deceased ancestors’ souls not only get satisfied and
leave us, but they also bestow long life, radiance, superior intellect
(brahmavarchaswa), wealth, success and foodstuff (ability to digest the food
consumed) on the host performing the tarpan and satisfies him too.
D)Pitrutirtha
When should it be done?
1. Tarpan for God, Sages and deceased ancestors’ souls should be
performed regularly (daily). The daily ritual of tarpan should be accomplished
in the early morning after having bath. If it is not possible to perform Shraddha
for deceased ancestors’ souls daily, then one should at least perform tarpan.
2. Pitru tarpan should be performed on the day following the day on which
Parvan Shraddha is performed.
1. Tila tarpan means offering sesame seeds mixed in water to the deceased
ancestors’ souls.
2. Tila tarpan (as a part of Shraddha) should be offered to the same number of
ancestors’ souls for whom the shraddha has been performed.
4. Tila tarpan is not performed during Nandi Shraddha, Sapindi Shraddha etc.
(9)
2. On the day of Shraddha, sesame seeds should be sprinkled all over the
house, sesame seeds mixed in water should be given to the invited priests
(Brahmins) and sesame seeds should be donated. – Jaiminiya Ghruya sutra
(2.1), Boudhayan Dharmasutra (2.8.8) and Boudhayan Ghruya sutra
1. Importance
2. Enabling one to break bonds with others and liberate oneself
3. Importance of this book on Shraddha
4. Young Generation and Shraddha(Preface of book)
5. Scope of this articles series
6. Prayer
1. Importance
The ritual of Shraddha not only repays debts towards deceased ancestors, but
also makes it easy to repay debts towards God and Sages. As debts towards
ancestors need to be repaid by actions, it becomes simple and easy to repay
these debts through the ritual of Shraddha. Therefore, in order to be able to
repay other debts in a good manner, it is necessary that everyone relies upon
debts towards ancestors that acts as link between God and Sages, satisfy
them by performing these rituals and try to embark upon the progress towards
attaining final liberation. By performing the ritual of Shraddha, with the help of
the ancestors’ souls one can slowly progress towards reaching God and
Sages and by the virtue of combined support from Vasu, Rudra and Aditya
(Vasu means aspirations, Rudra means dissolution and Aditya means
radiance or action), one can provide momentum to the deceased father,
grandfather and great grandfather and in turn acquire blessings from God.
People, who lack faith in ritualistic worship or Shraddha and consider social
service superior, have very naïve views. They feel that instead of performing
Shraddha for deceased ancestors, they would rather donate food to the poor
or provide help to schools. Of course, many of these people do not act upon
their own views by actually putting them into practice. In addition they are also
unaware that doing this is as ludicrous as saying, ‘Instead of performing
surgery to treat a particular disease, we will donate food to the poor or provide
help to the schools’.
The spiritually potent mantra that are chanted during the ritual of Shraddha
have the subtle power of providing momentum to the subtle bodies of
deceased ancestors therefore they can progress to a higher sub-plane of
existence after the ritual is performed. In view of this one can easily see the
folly in maintaining the uninformed views mentioned above. Therefore the aim
of this book is to eliminate the blindfold of ignorance that such people have
and to change their thinking so they may develop a positive and spiritual view
towards the sacred ritual of Shraddha which is prescribed by the Hindu
religion.
Indian culture teaches us that we have to perform certain duties towards our
parents and close relatives after their death, just as we serve them when they
are alive as a part of obeying our Dharma. The ritual of Shraddha provides us
with an excellent mechanism to fulfill our duties and in turn repay our debts
towards ancestors. Our parents have taken the utmost care of us during our
childhood. The ritual of Shraddha is necessary so that their journey after their
death is full of comfort and devoid of any distress and that they acquire
momentum, which allows them to progress to a higher sub-plane.
If one performs Shraddha on a particular day, date (as per the Hindu
calendar) as per the position of the stars (nakshatra), then apart from one’s
duty towards ancestors getting fulfilled, some specific benefit can also be
derived. The importance and benefits of performing Shraddha have been
elaborated through such various aspects in this book.
6. Prayer
We pray at Shri Guru’s Holy Feet that by studying this book may everyone
attain a pure intellect to conserve the cultural wealth imparted to us by our
great Sages in the form of ‘Shraddha’ and let Shraddha be performed with
faith and the spiritual progress of ancestors and oneself be achieved.
Spiritual experience
Experiencing the smell of Puranpoli, an Indian sweet delicacy, for five minutes;
the next day a friend saying that, ‘I wanted to give you Puranpoli’ and then
having the realisation of his subtle-body getting the Puranpoli due to the intense
desire of his friend
One day I got the smell of Puranpoli. Then I started getting hiccups. I felt that
‘My friend is remembering me.’ The next day my friend said, “We had made
Puranpoli last night and I really wanted you to have it.” My subtle-body (ling-
deha) had got the Puranpoli due to his intense desire.
This spiritual experience confirms that the holy sacrament (naivedya) offered
ardently to Deities and the Pitars reaches them. Through this spiritual
experience we understand that the Pitars are satiated by performing shraddha
ardently.
B) If two brahmins are not available then seat the brahmin on the seat for
Pitars (Pitrusthan), place an idol of Shaligram or baby Krushna on the seat of
the Deity (Devasthan) and make a resolve to perform the shraddha.
C) If due to some reason one is unable to perform shraddha, then he can get
the shraddha performed through his son, disciple or a brahmin.
D) Invite a brahmin, after he has washed his hands and feet, offer him a seat
and after worship with five substances offer him a meal.
In Hindu Dharma, at the time of shraddha of the father, pinda is offered in the
name of the grandfather and the great grandfather also. This seeker had the
practical spiritual experience of the theoretical part explained by Hindu
Dharma.
One can understand from this type of spiritual experiences whether the Pitars
have been satisfied or not. Contrary to this, when they are not satisfied with
the shraddha, their subtle bodies keep wandering in the atmosphere. Then
various distresses are felt at the place associated with the Pitars like
heaviness of head, giddiness, reduction of vital energy etc.
5. Importance of chanting ‘Sri Gurudeva Datta’
It is important to chant the Name of Deity Dattatreya along with the ritual of
shraddha.Deity Dattatreya is the Principle created from the combination of the
Principles of the three main Deities, Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh. One of His
functions is to give momentum to the journey of our deceased ancestors
(Pitars) to the next region. Hence, once should chant ‘Sri Gurudeva Datta’.
To listen the Datta chant, click here !
B) Play the audio of the chant ‘Shri Gurudeva Datta’ in low volume.
C) Before the shraddha, worship the sattvik picture of Deity Dattatreya and
offer arati.
The Energy and Chaitanya of Deity Dattatreya is emitted in the venue of the
shraddha and the family gets its benefit.
Contents
B) Satisfying wishes and desires of the souls of the deceased ancestors from
ones’ family who are trapped in the negative regions due to unfulfilled desires
and providing momentum for their further progress.
B) Ancestors’ soul becomes satisfied only after receiving pinda and water from
their son. In relation to this, following is a verse in the holy text Mahabharat
that describes ‘who qualifies to be called as son’ :
Meaning : One should not commit mistakes in any task performed towards
God or ancestors’ souls. One should not avoid these rituals.
D) Following verse, regarding people who do not perform Shraddha, in the
holy text Gita is insightful
G) One who performs the ritual of Shraddha diligently and in accordance with
ones financial state, he satisfies everyone right from Deity Brahma to the
insignificant blade of grass. No one in the family of the person performing
Shraddha remains unhappy. – Brahma Puran
A rule laid down by the Vedas is, The entire world is in the form of fire (Agni)
and Soma. In the agnoukaran ritual, by offering oblation of rice in the form of
Soma Principle in the fire which is in the form of darbha, the pitars get the
essence of food.
In the ritual of shraddha, reference to Gaya ji appears many times. The place,
Gaya ji is charged with subtle, inferior desire vibrations. Hence, shraddha
performed there is more fruitful.
A) The banana leaf is offered to the pitars by placing the bent left knee on the
ground in front of the pitar-brahman.
C) Now the person performing the shraddha says, ‘I have offered you the
meal considering you in place of my pitars of this particular lineage (gotra).
Please partake it. Let me acquire the fruit similar to food offered at Gaya.
F) After the meal is over, the person performing the shraddha stands up and
asks, ‘Are you satiated?’
The Moon channel gets activated by sitting with the right knee on the ground.
Hence, the person performing the shraddha can easily receive the frequencies
of Deities. The Sun channel gets activated by sitting with the left knee on the
ground. Sun channel is associated with raja guna. It becomes easier to invoke
the pitars with the help of this raja guna. In a way, brahman bhojan is an
oblation given in the fire present in the stomachs of the pitars and Deities.
The remaining portion of the rice meant for Agnoukaran is added along with
Tilodak, black sesame seeds, curd, honey and ghee to the rice. Four big
pindas and other small pindas are made as per requirement. The big pindas
should be of the size of a Bel fruit. The venue is purified with the Tilodak and
darbha is spread on it. Darbha is purified. While placing every pinda, the
person performing the shraddha says, ‘I am offering the pinda in the name of
so-and-so relative of so-and-so name in the form of Vasu or Rudra or Aditya
of so-and-so lineage, that is, gotra. It is my faith that I am offering the pinda in
Gaya.'
After offering a pinda for those about whom one has definite information, a
Dharmapinda is offered. This Dharmapinda is given to the deceased
ancestors who are in the Hell region of Asipatravan and Kumbhipak, those
whose family lineage has ended and others. Kajal is made by mixing ghee
with burnt darbha. The deceased ancestors in the form the pinda are offered
kajal, a thread of wool, a flower, a Tulasi leaf, maize, incense, lamp etc. They
are then offered Holy sacrament (naivedya), water for drinking, washing hands
and cleaning the mouth and a betel leaf for mouth freshness. Now the person
performing the shraddha stands, offers barley and black sesame seeds and
says, “O my deceased ancestors! I Pray for food and strength for my family
and that all should progress. O deceased ancestors! Grace us with wellbeing.’
Thereafter the Pitru-brahman is given Tilodak and the Dev-brahmin Yavodak
and water is released on the pinda.
Tilodak is offered on a special pinda made for those deceased ancestors who
had died by burning in fire or who died in the womb. The person performing
the shraddha asks, ‘Are the Vishvedev appeased ?’ ‘Are the deceased
ancestors appeased ?’ After saying, ‘Let all the Deities be appeased and the
karma of shraddha be done as per the Scriptures’, the person performing the
shraddha pays obeisance. The priests say, ‘'Let the desire of the person
performing the shraddha be fulfilled by the grace of Deities and the deceased
ancestors’'. Thereafter, the other members of the family pay obeisance to the
pindas.
After this, the person performing the Shraddha remembers the seven places
that bestow Final Liberation; Ayodhya, Mathura, Gaya, Kashi, Avantika,
Dwaraka and Jagannathapuri and places the pindas in a big vessel.
The person performing the shraddha pays obeisance after the conclusion of
the ritual. The pindas are immersed in clean flowing water before sunset.
Food is served on a leaf outside the house for the crow. In the ritual of tarpan,
first tarpan is done for the Vishvedev and thereafter for the deceased
ancestors. The person performing the shraddha says, ‘I am offering water, I
am offering water, I am offering water in the name of so-and-so relative of so-
and-so name in the form of Vasu or Rudra or Aditya of so-and-so lineage, that
is, gotra.’ Thereafter for the sake of those born in the family lineage (gotra)
who had no sons, a corner of a cloth is dipped in the Tilodak, the cloth is
squeezed and water is released.
तस्माच् छा ं नरोभवत् या
शाकैरिपयथािविध।
कुव त ् यातस्य
कुलेकश् िचन्नसीदित।।
Meaning : If a person performs shraddha using mere grass but with faith and
devotion, then nobody in his family becomes unhappy.
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Shraddha
1. Deities of Shraddha
2. When should one perform Mahalaya Shraddha during the Pitrupaksha?
3. Preparation for the ritual of Mahalaya Shraddha
3.1 Substances required for the Mahalaya Shraddha
3.2 Preparation for the person performing Shraddha
3.3 Religious actions to be performed before the main ritual
3.4 The welcome of the priest and Annaprokshan
3.5 Invocation and worship of Vishvedev
3.6 Invocation and worship of the ancestors
Mahalaya Shraddha
1. Deities of Shraddha
Our deceased ancestors could be in various forms of being and they need
food according to that form of being. Except in the Earth region, food is
unavailable in any other subtle region. In the ritual of Mahalaya Shraddha,
Vasu, Rudra and Aditya are the presiding Deities of the deceased ancestors.
Vasu means desire, Rudra means dissolution and Aditya means Absolute Fire
Principle and action. With the combination of the three, the father, grandfather
and great grandfather respectively can be liberated.
The mission associated with the presiding Deities of the departed ancestors
Presiding Deity
of
Associated mission
the departed
ancestors
Vasu Desire
Rudra Dissolution
Aditya Action
A) The person performing the Shraddha should wear a white dhoti and an
upavastra for the ritual.
B) He should commence the ritual with sipping of water, that is, achaman.
C) After this, he should apply Holy ash on the various parts of the body.
D) Thereafter he should hold darbha, that is, a specific type of grass in hand
and on various parts of the body.
E) Now he should make a ritualistic narration to God about the time period
and the time of the ritual.
F) After this he should make a resolve for the ritual. In Mahalaya he should
make a resolve for the Vishvedev called Dhurilochan.
G) After this he should make apasavya, that is, hold the Holy thread on the
right shoulder and make a resolve for the ancestors.
A) After this, invoke the Holy rivers of Ganga, Yamuna, Saraswati etc. and
prepare Yavodak, that is, the water mixed with sandalwood paste, flower,
Basil leaf, that is, Tulasi, coins, a betel nut and darbha.
B) Similarly prepare Tilodak, that is, the water mixed with black sesame seeds
and maize and charge it by reciting mantras.
The host says, ‘Let me get the authority today to perform the Shraddha of
ancestors. Thereafter he hands over the darbha to the God-priest. This action
is called ‘giving kshan’. Then he gives kshan to the Pitru-priest. Now, in front
of the God-priest, the darbha of Yavodak is moved in this manner and a line is
drawn with barley. In front of the Pitru-priest, the Tilodak is used first and then
black sesame seeds are used. Now circumambulation is done in reverse
direction around oneself, that is, from his right to left and the sesame seeds
are showered in the eight directions. Then one goes in the kitchen and the
charged water is sprinkled on the food. By showering of sesame seeds in the
four directions by the host, round circles of frequencies of deceased ancestors
are created in the premise. The subtle bodies of the deceased ancestors
situated in the premise are attracted to these circles. By doing this ritual the
premise gets the form of the region of Pitar.
B) The betel nut, darbha and sesame seeds are placed in the hands of the
Pitru-priest and with this the rituals of this worship are complete.
C) The host says, "If there is any mistake on my part in the worship, please
forgive me."
D) Water, flower and sesame seeds are put in the vessel kept in front of the
Pitru-priest.
F) Now the sesame seeds are put on the body of the Pitru-priest right from the
feet to the head.
G) Now ‘arghya’ is offered to the deceased ancestors. After this the host
stands in one place and does circumambulation around himself.
1. Darbha
1.1 Effect of the use of Darbha in the shraddha ritual
1.2 How should the Darbha be selected ?
1.3 Reason underlying the use of Darbha with roots in the shraddha
1.4 The reason underlying not plucking Darbha by hitting many times on it or
cutting with the nails
1.5 The reason underlying placing Darbha if a brahmin is not available for the
seat of Deity or the Pitars
2. Black sesame seeds
3. Akshat
4. Maka (leaf of Bhrungaraj and Tulasi)
The important and requisite components for the shraddha ritual are Darbha,
Bhrungaraj leaf, Tulasi, black sesame, white rice, barley, honey, black gram,
white fragrant flowers etc. Red coloured flowers are forbidden in the shraddha
ritual as destroyer frequencies are emitted from them. Fruits like the Indian
gooseberry (amla), pomegranate, musk melon (kharbuja) are specially used in
the shraddha ritual.
1. Darbha
Darbha
Darbha is a very important component in the shraddha ritual. Darbha
generates radiance (Tej). When Darbha is used in the shraddha ritual, by the
influence of the frequencies of Tej emitted by Darbha, the interference of raja-
tama particles in each ritual of the shraddha is reduced. The deceased
ancestors (Pitars) absorb the energy of a specific level from the ritual.
Meaning: For the purpose of shraddha of the Pitars, pluck the Darbha along
with its root. The reason for this is that we can gain victory over the Pitruloka
with the help of the root of the Darbha.
1.3 Reason underlying the use of Darbha with roots in the shraddha
The Water Principle-dominant particles of Tej in the Darbha with roots are
conducive for disintegration of raja-tama particles. The energy emanating from
the actions done with the Darbha with roots touches the subtle sheath of the
Pitars in a shorter time. In addition to gaining victory on the Pitruloka, that is,
causing disintegration of raja-tama particles at each level of Martyaloka (the
subtle region of the dead), the Pitars also get the strength of Tej.
1.4 The reason underlying not plucking Darbha by hitting many times
on it or cutting with the nails
The raja-tama-dominant sound frequencies generated by hitting many times
on the Darbha or cutting it with the nails are spread in the Darbha, which
reduces the sensitivity associated with sattva of the Darbha. The ability of the
Tej Principle-dominant air emitted by the Darbha to move in the upward
direction is also reduced. Hence, the proportion of benefit accrued from the
shraddha ritual is reduced.
Following mantra is recited at the time of plucking the Darbha for shraddha
नुदसवािणपापािनदभस् वस्ितकरोभव।।
Due to the ability of the Darbha to attract the Principles of superior Deities, it is
used as the smallest particles of Divine Consciousness (pavitrak) in each
ritual of worship.
At that time, according to the invocation made in the shraddha, subtle bodies
of particular Pitars are attracted towards these vibrations and enter Earth's
environment. In this process, with help of the raja-tama frequencies emitted
from the black sesame seeds, reaching the place of shraddha ritual becomes
easier for the subtle bodies of Pitars.
Black sesame seeds are showered at the place of the shraddha by the host.
Due to the frequencies of Pitars getting attracted towards the black sesame
seeds, the place of the shraddha becomes charged with the Pitar frequencies.
The Desire sheath present around the subtle bodies gets activated due to the
frequencies emitted from the black sesame seeds and the Pitars get satiated
by partaking their portion of shraddha in air form. In shraddha, water
containing black sesame seeds charged with mantras (Tilodaka) has special
spiritual importance.
3. Akshat
After the host pays obeisance to the Dev-brahman and Pitru-brahman, the
brahmins bless the host by showering unbroken rice (akshat) on him.
Unbroken rice should be used as akshat. In the shraddha ritual barley is also
used. White unbroken rice is used if barley is not available.
Barley
Bhrungaraj
At the time of shraddha some of the Pitars coming to Earth are not satiated.
Due to the unsatisfied desires of these Pitars, polluted air or speed of
emission of subtle frequencies generated from tamasic object increases. Due
to the speed of these frequencies, tamasic energy is generated. Movement of
raja-tama particles gains momentum. To restrain this momentum, these two
substances, maka, that is, leaf of Bhrungaraj and Tulasi are used.
Features of maka
Usage Benefit
B) Division of raja-tama particles. Due to the Tej frequencies emitted from the
Bhrungaraj leaf, the ability of the raja-tama particles to function collectively
reduces.
Meaning : Let the ancestors residing on Earth attain an evolved region. Let
the ancestors who are in heaven, that is, at a higher plane of existence, never
degrade. Let the ones who are at a medium plane of existence, attain a higher
plane. Let the ancestors who symbolise the Truth protect us.
Also, prayer is offered to the ancestors for the continuation of the lineage, ‘O
Pitru-deities, give birth to a son like Ashwini Kumar, who is beautiful, healthy
and who can fulfil the wishes of Deities, ancestors and all humans.
Meaning : Let our lineage (gotra) grow. To this the brahmins bestow
blessings, ‘Let your lineage grow.”
B. 'वीरं मेद िपतर:।'
It is evident from this prayer that the Hindu Dharma teaches us to express
gratitude not only to our own but also towards our benefactors, other beings
and trees and plants.
C) If the wife of the one who performs the shraddha has menses, then
Mahayala can be done any time after those five days. When the lady
performing the shraddha has menses then no regulations need to be followed.
D) If the shraddha falls on Ekadashi, then the person performing the shraddha
should merely smell the meal of the shraddha and offer it to a cow or one
should perform Hiranya-shraddha.
Here two points become evident. One is that every ritual has been considered
subtly from a worldly perspective in Sanatan Hindu Dharma. The second is
that women can also perform shraddha.
The Bharani asterism that falls in the Pitrupaksha is also made of a triangle of
three stars. The Deity of this triangle is Lord Yama. The Yama frequencies
active in the Universe in higher proportion on this day are associated with
desire-energy. When performing shraddha on this tithi, the desire-frequencies
on Earth associated with this asterism are activated. Due to this, the place of
shraddha becomes akin to that in Gaya. In the ritual of shraddha performed on
the Bharani asterism, the Yama frequencies are activated in higher proportion.
The deceased ancestors benefit from these frequencies.
For this reason, shraddha has been recommended in the religious Scriptures.
Instead of shraddha, on this day some people offer food to the poor or money
to a school as per their mind. By doing this no spiritual benefit is gained.
Categories
Om Sri MahaaGanapathaye Namah Om Sri Gurubhyo Namah Om Rishibhyo Namah
Introduction
External rituals are meant to create the internal visualization needed to affect desirable internal changes in the long run. For example,
one offers a full coconut into fire as poornaahuti (complete offering) at the end of a homam (fire ritual). This is symbolic of
surrendering one’s head or ego (sense of I-ness) to god and burning it in the fire of wisdom and becoming free from ego. As one keeps
engaging in this act again and again, the visualization becomes stronger and stronger and ego is slowly reduced.
One important ritual of Hinduism is tarpana. Tarpana means “satisfying” or “satiating”. One acknowledges the debt one has to devas
(gods), rishis (sages) and pitris (ancestral manes) and tries to satisfy them using this ritual. Just as gods are invoked in fire in a homam,
pitris are invoked in water in this ritual, then held in the palm and released in a specific way conducive to freeing them.
One owes a lot to one’s parents and ancestors. In modern scientific terms, one owes all of one’s genetic characteristics to one’s parents
and ancestors. Each ancestor is actually present in the person as a genetic characteristic. In karmik terms, one inherits some karmas of
one’s parents and ancestors and each ancestor is actually present in the person as a kaarmik predisposition. The latter approach
obviously extends to multiple lives and some karmik predisposition is inherited from the ancestors from a past life too, though they
may not be related to one in this life.
By thinking of the deceased ancestors with gratitude and trying to give them an emancipation, one is actually trying to free oneself
from various kaarmic predispositions that one has as a result of the rina (karmik debt) with several people. One can view this as an
external event of satisfying and emancipating an external entity (a pitri). Alternately, one can view this as an internal event of
satisfying and releasing an internal kaarmik predisposition. Ultimately, it is the latter. However, one needs to externalize first and
perform external rituals, while thinking of what it means internally. This builds up one’s visualization and slowly brings about internal
changes and eventually the desired internal change itself. One with living parents also can perform pitri tarpanas for departed
ancestors of this life and previous lives.
Two external spiritual sadhanas are particularly powerful, useful and recommended for every person desirous of fast spiritual
progress:
(1) Homam (fire ritual): Gods are invoked in fire and satisfied with offerings with mantras. Please see the homam website at
http://www.VedicAstrologer.org/homam for more. In the long run, a regular practice of this ritual increases the subtle fire burning
inside one’s subtle body, burns various impediments to spiritual progress and gives clarity, focus and stability to the mind.
(2) Tarpana (water ritual): Gods, sages and manes are invoked in water and satisfied with emancipation given to them. In the long
run, a regular practice of this ritual increases the release of various kaarmik predispositions and weaknesses that are blocking
one’s spiritual and material progress.
This document describes the procedure of pitri tarpana with the relevant mantras using a simple approach. This document is the
regular procedure. There are also documents giving a short procedure and a super-short procedure for the benefit of those with
time constraints or problem with Sanskrita language. Download them from http://www.VedicAstrologer.org/tarpana.
There are some restrictions. Tarpana with water containing sesame seeds (which is needed for pitris) should not be performed:
(1) on a Sunday that has saptami tithi (7th day of the lunar fortnight),
(2) on a Friday that has a nanda tithi (1st, 6th and 11th tithis of the lunar fortnights),
(3) on a Sunday with Moon in Bharani, Krittika or Magha nakshatra, and,
(4) on one’s birthday.
On these days, tarpanas not requiring water with sesame seed can be performed, but not the ones requiring water with sesame seeds.
Materials Needed
One needs the following materials:
(1) Water pot made ideally of gold, silver, copper, bronze, brass or panchalohas (five metals). It should ideally not be made of iron,
steel or clay. However, it is better to make compromises when you have no suitable pot, than skipping the ritual altogether.
(2) Some akshatas made by mixing uncooked plain white (or brown) rice grains with turmeric powder and a drop of ghee (clarified
butter) or an oil. In the absence of turmeric powder, just plain rice grains can be used as akshatas. In the absence of rice grains,
use a grain that is locally popular and available.
(3) Black sesame seeds. Try your best to get them. If you cannot get them, use white or brown sesame seeds as a substitute. If you
cannot get any of them, use akshatas (see (2) above) instead of sesame seeds.
(4) Darbhas or kushas, a sacred grass. Each darbha has a sharp edge and a base. You need to hold three of them in your right palm,
while holding and leaving water. If you do not have darbha, use a locally available grass. If that cannot be done, just ignore
darbhas in all directions and proceed without them.
(5) A ring made of darbha, known as pavitram, is to be worn on the right hand ring finger during the ritual. If that is not available, it
is acceptable to wear any ring made of any gemstone or gold or silver. So wear some ring on the right hand ring finger. If that is
not possible, proceed without it.
Sankalpam (vow)
While sitting cross-legged, the empty left-hand palm is placed on the right knee with the palm facing up. Some akshatas are taken in
the right hand, it is closed and the closed fist of the right hand is placed on the left palm with the palm of the closed right fist facing
down (towards the left hand palm). The following is recited to take a sankalpa (vow) to perform this ritual. It means “on this
auspicious day and auspicious time, I shall perform tarpana to Devas, Rishis and Pitris to the best of my ability”. After reciting it, the
akshatas are dropped on the ground in front of one.
Now say the following mantras once each. Pour some water with the left hand into the open right palm. You can pour directly from
the pot or use a spoon to pour. Once water is poured into the right palm, say one mantra and release the water. The water should be
released such that it falls out of the right hand palm from the tips of the four fingers, i.e. from the area marked as “1” in the picture. If
you have 3 darbhas, place them on the right hand palm with the tips of the darbhas aligned with the tips of fingers. You may insert
them in a ring or something to force them to stay on the palm and not move off. If you do not have darbhas, do not worry.
If you are performing this in a river, you can stand in the river, make a bowl (an anjali) with both the palms joined together, take water
in that bowl, raise the hands as high as you can, say the mantra and then drop the water via the tips of the fingers of both hands.
Rishi Tarpana
You need to continue to sit facing east with the right knee in contact with earth. You need to use the water containing akshatas and do
the same way as in Deva tarpana. Use the following mantras.
NA PÀ±Àå¥ÀB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA CwæB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA ªÀ¹µÀ×B vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA «±Áé«ÄvÀæB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA UËvÀªÀÄB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA
¨sÀgÀzÁédB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA dªÀÄzÀVßB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA CAVgÁB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA PÀÄvÀìB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï | NA ¨sÀÈUÀÄB vÀÈ¥ÀåvÁªÀiï |
The style of releasing water from now onwards: Take some water, hold it in the right palm, say each mantra and release it sideways
from the area below the base of the index finger, i.e. from the area marked as “3” in the picture. Three offerings are made with each
mantra now. If you have 3 darbhas in your hand, place them on the index finger, with the tips of darbhas aligned with the tip of the
index finger. Water should be touching the base of darbhas as it leaves the palm. If you do not have darbhas, do not worry.
Yama Tarpana
These are offerings to Lord Yama, who is the keeper of dharma and judge of people’s karmas. Release water (in the style previously
mentioned) whenever you encounter a namah.
Use the following mantras and release water 3 times or one time with each mantra on encountering numbers, in the style previously
mentioned. Please note that 3 offerings are made to 3 generations of maternal and paternal ancestors, while only one offering is made
to other people.
These are generic mantras to cover all people who have a strong kaarmik connection to you, either in this life or the ones before.
These mantras are applicable to all, irrespective of whether any of one’s parents and other relations are alive or not. Some
specific customizable mantras giving the names of a specific deceased relatives you want to cover will be given at the end.
To beings who played the role of father’s father in various lives to you:
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£ÀªÀÄB ||3||
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To beings who played the role of father’s mother in various lives to you:
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£ÀªÀÄB ||3||
To beings who played the role of father’s father’s mother in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of mother’s father in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of mother’s father’s father in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of mother’s father’s father’s father in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of mother’s mother in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of mother’s father’s father’s mother in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of guru (teacher) in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of a dear one in various lives to you:
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To beings who played the role of one born in the same lineage in various lives to you:
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Now, if you want to offer tarpana to a specific deceased person, use the following customization. Based on whether the deceased is a
man or woman, pick the correct mantra from below. Substitute the gotra, relation and name in the mantra to get a customized mantra.
Get the Sanskrit words for relationship from the table below.
List B (others):
Wife: ¥Àwßà Husband: ¥ÀwB Son: ¥ÀÄvÀæB Daughter: PÀ£Áå
Daughter-in-law: ¥ÀÄvÀæ¥Àwßà . Son’s son: ¥ËvÀæB Son’s daughter: ¥ËwæÃ
Son-in-law: eÁªÀiÁvÁ Daughter’s son: zË»vÀæB Daughter’s daughter: zË»wæÃ
Brother: ¨sÁævÁ Sister: ¨sÀV¤Ã
Step-mother: ¸Á¥ÀvÀߪÀiÁvÁ . Step-father: ¸Á¥ÀvÀߦvÁ
Step-brother: ¸Á¥ÀvÀߨsÁævÁ Step-sister: ¸Á¥ÀvÀߨsÀV¤Ã
Father’s brother: ¦vÀȪÀåB Mother’s brother: ªÀiÁvÀÄ®B
Father’s sister: ¦vÀȨsÀV¤Ã Mother’s sister: ªÀiÁvÀȨsÀV¤Ã
Father-in-law: ±Àé±ÀÄgÀB Mother-in-law: ±Àé±ÀÄgÀ¥ÀwßÃ
Male teacher: UÀÄgÀÄB Male teacher’s wife: UÀÄgÀÄ¥ÀwßÃ
Female teacher: UÀÄ«Ãð Female teacher’s husband: UÀÄ«Ãð¥ÀwB
Disciple: ²µÀåB Friend: ¸ÀSÁ
A dear one: D¥ÀÛd£ÀB One born in the same lineage: ¸ÀéPÀÄ®eÁvÀB
Conclusion
While releasing water continuously in the style previously mentioned, recite the following verses.
Now throw away the remaining water in the pot, clean it and take fresh water in it. Put back the sacred thread in the normal way (see
previous sections for the description). Sit facing the east. Say the following and think that you have surrendered the doership of the
just finished action to the Lord. Now you should try to completely abandon the thought that “you” did it.
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Introduction
External rituals are meant to create the internal visualization needed to affect desirable internal changes in the long run. For example,
one offers a full coconut into fire as poornaahuti (complete offering) at the end of a homam (fire ritual). This is symbolic of
surrendering one’s head or ego (sense of I-ness) to god and burning it in the fire of wisdom and becoming free from ego. As one keeps
engaging in this act again and again, the visualization becomes stronger and stronger and ego is slowly reduced.
One important ritual of Hinduism is tarpana. Tarpana means “satisfying” or “satiating”. One acknowledges the debt one has to devas
(gods), rishis (sages) and pitris (ancestral manes) and tries to satisfy them using this ritual. Just as gods are invoked in fire in a homam,
pitris are invoked in water in this ritual, then held in the palm and released in a specific way conducive to freeing them.
One owes a lot to one’s parents and ancestors. In modern scientific terms, one owes all of one’s genetic characteristics to one’s parents
and ancestors. Each ancestor is actually present in the person as a genetic characteristic. In karmik terms, one inherits some karmas of
one’s parents and ancestors and each ancestor is actually present in the person as a kaarmik predisposition. The latter approach
obviously extends to multiple lives and some karmik predisposition is inherited from the ancestors from a past life too, though they
may not be related to one in this life.
By thinking of the deceased ancestors with gratitude and trying to give them an emancipation, one is actually trying to free oneself
from various kaarmic predispositions that one has as a result of the rina (karmik debt) with several people. One can view this as an
external event of satisfying and emancipating an external entity (a pitri). Alternately, one can view this as an internal event of
satisfying and releasing an internal kaarmik predisposition. Ultimately, it is the latter. However, one needs to externalize first and
perform external rituals, while thinking of what it means internally. This builds up one’s visualization and slowly brings about internal
changes and eventually the desired internal change itself. One with living parents also can perform pitri tarpanas for departed
ancestors of this life and previous lives.
Two external spiritual sadhanas are particularly powerful, useful and recommended for every person desirous of fast spiritual
progress:
(1) Homam (fire ritual): Gods are invoked in fire and satisfied with offerings with mantras. Please see the homam website at
http://www.VedicAstrologer.org/homam for more. In the long run, a regular practice of this ritual increases the subtle fire burning
inside one’s subtle body, burns various impediments to spiritual progress and gives clarity, focus and stability to the mind.
(2) Tarpana (water ritual): Gods, sages and manes are invoked in water and satisfied with emancipation given to them. In the long
run, a regular practice of this ritual increases the release of various kaarmik predispositions and weaknesses that are blocking
one’s spiritual and material progress.
This document describes the procedure of pitri tarpana with the relevant mantras using a simple approach. This document is the
super-short procedure. There are also documents giving a regular procedure and a short procedure for those with less time
constraints. Download them from http://www.VedicAstrologer.org/tarpana.
There are some restrictions. Tarpana with water containing sesame seeds (which is needed for pitris) should not be performed:
(1) on a Sunday that has saptami tithi (7th day of the lunar fortnight),
(2) on a Friday that has a nanda tithi (1st, 6th and 11th tithis of the lunar fortnights),
(3) on a Sunday with Moon in Bharani, Krittika or Magha nakshatra, and,
(4) on one’s birthday.
On these days, tarpanas not requiring water with sesame seed can be performed, but not the ones requiring water with sesame seeds.
Materials Needed
One needs the following materials:
(1) Water pot made ideally of gold, silver, copper, bronze, brass or panchalohas (five metals). It should ideally not be made of iron,
steel or clay. However, it is better to make compromises when you have no suitable pot, than skipping the ritual altogether.
(2) Some akshatas made by mixing uncooked plain white (or brown) rice grains with turmeric powder and a drop of ghee (clarified
butter) or an oil. In the absence of turmeric powder, just plain rice grains can be used as akshatas. In the absence of rice grains,
use a grain that is locally popular and available.
(3) Black sesame seeds. Try your best to get them. If you cannot get them, use white or brown sesame seeds as a substitute. If you
cannot get any of them, use akshatas (see (2) above) instead of sesame seeds.
(4) Darbhas or kushas, a sacred grass. Each darbha has a sharp edge and a base. You need to hold three of them in your right palm,
while holding and leaving water. If you do not have darbha, use a locally available grass. If that cannot be done, just ignore
darbhas in all directions and proceed without them.
(5) A ring made of darbha, known as pavitram, is to be worn on the right hand ring finger during the ritual. If that is not available, it
is acceptable to wear any ring made of any gemstone or gold or silver. So wear some ring on the right hand ring finger. If that is
not possible, proceed without it.
Sankalpam (vow)
While sitting cross-legged, the empty left-hand palm is placed on the right knee with the palm facing up. Some akshatas are taken in
the right hand, it is closed and the closed fist of the right hand is placed on the left palm with the palm of the closed right fist facing
down (towards the left hand palm). The following is recited to take a sankalpa (vow) to perform this ritual. It means “on this
auspicious day and auspicious time, I shall perform tarpana to Devas, Rishis and Pitris to the best of my ability”. After reciting it, the
akshatas are dropped on the ground in front of one.
Now say the following mantras once each. Pour some water with the left hand into the open right palm. You can pour directly from
the pot or use a spoon to pour. Once water is poured into the right palm, say one mantra and release the water. The water should be
released such that it falls out of the right hand palm from the tips of the four fingers, i.e. from the area marked as “1” in the picture. If
you have 3 darbhas, place them on the right hand palm with the tips of the darbhas aligned with the tips of fingers. You may insert
them in a ring or something to force them to stay on the palm and not move off. If you do not have darbhas, do not worry.
If you are performing this in a river, you can stand in the river, make a bowl (an anjali) with both the palms joined together, take water
in that bowl, raise the hands as high as you can, say the mantra and then drop the water via the tips of the fingers of both hands.
` deva> t&PyNtam!, ` deVy> t&PyNtam!, ` vsv> t&PyNtam!, ` éÔa> t&PyNtam!, ` AaidTya> t&PyNtam!, ` DNda<is
t&PyNtam!, ` veda> t&PyNtam!, ` \;y> t&PyNtam!, ` gNxvaR> t&PyNtam!, ` APsrs> t&PyNtam!, ` naga> t&PyNtam!, `
Aae;xy> t&PyNtam!,
Rishi Tarpana
You need to continue to sit facing east with the right knee in contact with earth. You need to use the water containing akshatas and do
the same way as in Deva tarpana. Use the following mantras.
` kZyp> t&Pytam!, ` AiÇ> t&Pytam!, ` visó> t&Pytam!, ` ivñaimÇ> t&Pytam!, ` gaEtm> t&Pytam!, ` ÉrÖaj>
The style of releasing water from now onwards: Take some water, hold it in the right palm, say each mantra and release it sideways
from the area below the base of the index finger, i.e. from the area marked as “3” in the picture. Three offerings are made with each
mantra now. If you have 3 darbhas in your hand, place them on the index finger, with the tips of darbhas aligned with the tip of the
index finger. Water should be touching the base of darbhas as it leaves the palm. If you do not have darbhas, do not worry.
Pitri Tarpana
These are offerings to various deceased ancestors of various lives. First place the water pot in front of you, bow to it and say the
following. This means “may my ancestors come here and accept my water oblations”.
These are generic mantras to cover all people who have a strong kaarmik connection to you, either in this life or the ones before.
These mantras are applicable to all, irrespective of whether any of one’s parents and other relations are alive or not. Some
specific customizable mantras giving the names of a specific deceased relatives you want to cover will be given at the end.
To beings who played the role of father’s father in various lives to you:
mm svRjNme;u iptamha> t&PyNtam! #d< itlaedk< Svxaiy_y> te_y> Svxa nm>.1. te_y> Svxa nm>.2. te_y> Svxa
nm>.3.
To beings who played the role of father’s father’s father in various lives to you:
mm svRjNme;u àiptamha> t&PyNtam! #d< itlaedk< Svxaiy_y> te_y> Svxa nm>.1. te_y> Svxa nm>.2. te_y> Svxa
nm>.3.
To beings who played the role of father’s mother in various lives to you:
mm svRjNme;u iptamý> t&PyNtam! #d< itlaedk< Svxaiy_y> ta_y> Svxa nm>.1. ta_y> Svxa nm>.2. ta_y> Svxa
nm>.3.
To beings who played the role of father’s father’s mother in various lives to you:
mm svRjNme;u àiptamý> t&PyNtam! #d< itlaedk< Svxaiy_y> ta_y> Svxa nm>.1. ta_y> Svxa nm>.2. ta_y> Svxa
nm>.3.
To beings who played the role of a dear one in various lives to you:
mm svRjNme;u AaÝjna> t&PyNtam! #d< itlaedk< Svxaiy_y> te_y> Svxa nm>.1.
To beings who played the role of one born in the same lineage in various lives to you:
mm svRjNme;u Svk…ljata> t&PyNtam! #d< itlaedk< Svxaiy_y> te_y> Svxa nm>.1.
Now, if you want to offer tarpana to a specific deceased person, use the following customization. Based on whether the deceased is a
man or woman, pick the correct mantra from below. Substitute the gotra, relation and name in the mantra to get a customized mantra.
Gotra gaeÇ> mm Relation Name t&Pytam! #d< itlaedk< tSmE Svxa nm>.1. tSmE Svxa nm>.2. tSmE Svxa nm>.3.
Gotra gaeÇa mm Relation Name t&Pytam! #d< itlaedk< tSyE Svxa nm>.1. tSyE Svxa nm>.2. tSyE Svxa nm>.3.
Gotra gaeÇ> mm Relation Name t&Pytam! #d< itlaedk< tSmE Svxa nm>.1.
Gotra gaeÇa mm Relation Name t&Pytam! #d< itlaedk< tSyE Svxa nm>.1.
In all the cases, the word “Gotra” in the mantras is to be replaced by the gotra name of the deceased person (e.g. Vasishtha, Gautama,
Angirasa, Bharadwaja, Kaushika, Atri etc). Gotra of a person traces to the Rishi (sage) from whom the family line originated. If the
gotra is not known, one can use Achyuta (ACyut) for those who prefer Vishnu and Shiva (izv) for those who prefer Shiva, as the
default gotra. The word “Name” in the mantras is to be replaced by the actual name of the deceased person. The word “Relation” in
the mantras is to be replaced by the Sanskrit word describing the relationship of the deceased person to you. Get it from the following
tables. Please note that tarpana can be offered to several specific people. In that case, repeat the above mantra by inserting the gotra,
name and relationship corresponding to each.
Get the Sanskrit words for relationship from the table below.
List B (others):
Wife: pÆI Husband: pit> Son: puÇ> Daughter: kNya
Conclusion
Now throw away the remaining water in the pot. Put back the sacred thread in the normal way (see previous sections for the
description). Sit facing the east. Say the following and think that you have surrendered the doership of the just finished action to the
Lord. Now you should try to completely abandon the thought that “you” did it.
Anen ywazi´k«ten devi;Ript& tpR[aOyen kmR[a Égvan! ipt&SvêpI jnadRn vasudev> àIyta< n mm, ` tt! st!, ` svRm! ïI
k«:[apR[mStu, ` laeka> smSta> suionae ÉvNtu, ` sveR jna> suionae ÉvNtu, ` zaiNt> zaiNt> zaiNt>,