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Study: Tefillin good for the ticker


● People who wrap leather who did not. the discomfort users often report
straps around their arms may be To put on tefillin, you wrap a when they do it — may serve as a
protecting themselves from the leather strap tightly around one of form of preconditioning against
worst effects of heart attacks, a your arms, depending on whether acute ischemic reperfusion injury
study found. you are left- or right-handed, for and offer a substantial degree of
Of course, that’s not why they do about half an hour six days a week. protection against it. (Acute isch-
it — or at least until now that hasn’t The strap often is tight enough to emic reperfusion injury is what hap-
been why Jews do it. (We have no leave grooves in your skin for a few pens when a section of the heart is
idea if anyone else does.) They do it minutes after it is removed. deprived of oxygen and then dam-
to prepare for daily morning prayers. The researchers measured par- aged when re-oxygenated, and can
A pilot study by researchers at the ticipants’ vital signs, drew blood to be a result of a heart attack.)
University of Cincinnati College of analyze its circulating cytokines and Ischemic preconditioning essen-
Medicine found that regular users of monocyte function, and also mea- tially mimics the effects of exercise
tefillin may receive cardiovascular sured blood flow in the user’s domi- by placing the heart and vessels un-
health benefits through remote isch- Team Israelder
nant arm — the one without tefillin. players
light lining
stress.up for the national
emic preconditioning — that is, brief- Blood flow was higher for men who prior “We
anthem to thefound people
World who wear
Baseball tefillin
Classic game
ly restricting blood flow and oxygen wore tefillin daily and improved in all the in
against either the short
Netherlands or long
in Tokyo, term 13,
March re-2017.
CONTENTS to the heart and then restoring it. participants after they wore it just corded a measurable positive effect
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BRIEFLY LOCAL .....................................................14 lished last month online in the Ameri- Jack Rubinstein, a UC Health cardi- associated with better outcomes in
COVER STORY ........................................................18 can Journal of Physiology-Heart and ologist and associate professor in its heart disease,” Rubinstein said.
FINANCE.................................................................. 23 Circulatory Physiology. The study division of cardiovascular health and Israeli studies have shown that
JEWISH WORLD ...................................................30 involved 20 Jewish men from the disease, headed the study. He said in Orthodox men have a lower risk of
HEALTHY LIVING & greater Cincinnati area, including an article posted on the university’s dying of heart disease than non-Or-
ADULT LIFESTYLES............................................. 39 nine who wore tefillin daily and 11 website that binding an arm — and thodox men do. JTA WIRE SERVICE
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Want to daven from Marilyn Monroe’s siddur?
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Though the couple divorced five him that she was still committed to contains notes that are “apparently
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Noshes
“You just told me that the animals are coming
out of the ark. Will there be bears?”
— Rabbi Shai Held’s 3-year-old, staring at the ark holding the Torah
during Shabbat services last week, when the story of Noah and
the other ark was read, as Rabbi Held recounted on Facebook.

MOVIES AND HITS:

Tribesmen add
to playoff drama
“The Oath” is a (1908-2004). She had third baseman ALEX
searing dirt on Lauder, like BREGMAN, 24. Boston
political knowing Lauder came got Kinsler in a trade in
comedy that from Queens, not Eu- August.. The question
was written and direct- rope, as Lauder claimed. now is whether he’s in
ed by IKE BARINHOLTZ, Lauder tried to bribe the twilight of a great
41, who also stars in it. Israel to kill the book, career that includes be-
Chris (Barinholtz) is a but Israel refused. The ing named an All-Star
political progressive book was not a success four times. He was out
who is outraged when and Israel went into an with injuries in 2017 and
he learns that Ameri- alcohol-fueled career he didn’t hit well in 2018.
cans are being asked to tailspin. To support her- Kinsler is the secular son
sign a loyalty oath or self, she wrote and sold of a Jewish father and a
lose tax credits. The fake letters that pur- Ike Barinholtz Tiffany Hadish Joc Pederson non-Jewish mother.
deadline to sign the portedly had been writ- Bregman has two
oath coincides with a ten by famous people. Jewish parents, both of
family Thanksgiving She was very good at whom are lawyers. He
meal that Chris and his it, but the FBI did catch grew up in Albuquer-
wife, Kai (TIFFANY up with her in about que, New Mexico, where
HADDISH, 38), are set a year and she served his family belongs to
to host. Chris and his a short jail sentence. a synagogue and he
relatives, some conser- NICOLE HOLOFCENER, was a bar mitzvah. His
vative, agree in advance 58, co-wrote the father moved to New
that they will not discuss film’s screenplay. Mexico to play baseball
politics. But that pact for the University of
frays quickly and breaks Baseball this year: New Mexico. His pa-
down completely when Tell a friend! ternal grandfather was
two government agents As I write this, the general counsel for
come to Chris’s door. the two Ryan Braun Ian Kinsler Alex Bregman the old Washington
Co-stars include CAR- baseball Senators and his great-
RIE BROWNSTEIN, 44, League JOC PEDERSON, 26, is Jewish (his father is of a Jewish father and a grandfather, a Russian
as Alice, Chris’s Championship series and Milwaukee Brew- not). He calls himself non-Jewish mother. He’s immigrant, promoted
lefty sister. have not begun, but I’m ers outfielder and first religiously “a nothing,” been a mensch about all boxing matches. As
“Can You Forgive sure that both teams in baseman RYAN BRAUN, but he did play for Israel attention he’s got from a hitter, Bregman has
Me?” is a comedy/drama the World Series (which 34. Pederson is a streaky in the 2013 World Base- Jewish fans. He calls him- been on a hot streak
based on a memoir of begins on Sunday, power hitter. In 2017, ball Classic. self Jewish when asked, since mid-season 2017.
the same name by LEE October 23), will have a he was in such a hitting Braun, an 11-year vet- while noting that he He hit well over .300 in
ISRAEL, who died in Jewish player on their slump that he was sent eran, has a plausible shot didn’t grow up celebrat- the second half of 2017
2014 at 75. Israel (played roster. Yes, tribe mem- to the minors near the at the Hall-of-Fame. The ing Jewish holidays. He’s and followed up in 2018
by Melissa McCarthy) bers, go forth and shout season’s end. A stellar .254 he hit in 2018 was also said that he’s proud with a .286 season aver-
had some success in this to the hills: for the performance in the 2017 a career low, but he did to be role model for Jew- age and 31 home runs.
the 1960s writing pro- first time ever, all four World Series saved his manage to hit 20 hom- ish kids. This year, he became the
files and books about teams in the LC have a MLB baseball career. He ers. He was 2007 Rookie In the American first Jewish player to be
celebrities. In 1983, she Jewish player. seems to be a Mr. Octo- of the Year and the 2011 League, there’s Boston named the MVP of the
got a contract to write a Over in the National ber — he hit .908 in the MVP, and he’s been on Red Sox second base- All-Star game.
biography of cosmetics League, there is Los An- 2018 division playoff se- All-Star teams six times. man IAN KINSLER, 36, –N.B.
mogul ESTEE LAUDER geles Dodger outfielder ries. Pederson’s mother Braun is the secular son and Houston Astros

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Promoting tolerance
Hinam comes to Teaneck to model how to talk to, not past, each other
JOANNE PALMER

I
t’s much easier to hate people you
don’t recognize as human. It’s so
easy that there’s a term for the
most important step in the process
— dehumanization.
On the other hand, it’s not so easy to
hate people you’ve shared meals with,
people you’ve watched breathe and seen
blink, whose hands you’d recognized, and
most likely have shaken. It’s not easy to
hate someone you know to be fully human.
Yeah yeah yeah, we all know that, right?
Well, yes, but acting on that isn’t so easy.
Hinam, a three-year-old Israeli non-
profit, sponsored in part by some Ameri-
can federations and Israeli and American
foundations, is putting together groups
of wildly varied Israelis — Jewish, Mus-
lims, Christians, Druze; secular and lib-
eral and modern Orthodox and centrist
Orthodox and charedi Jews; settlers and
left-wingers, Ashkenazim and Sephardim
and Mizrahim and Ethiopians and Anglos
— who spend anywhere from one to four
months together.
And now it’s bringing a group of 20
Israelis, representing as many demo-
graphic groups as 20 people possibly can,
to the United States. Specifically they’re Israelis from a range of backgrounds gather for discussion in Hinam’s beit midrash in an old building in Abu Ghosh as the
coming to Teaneck, where they’ll present organization works to build tolerance.
a program at the Jewish Center of Teaneck
this Tuesday. (See box.) lives in his own Bible, and hates another tribe of Jews, and they and Israe-
Yaron Kanner is the creator and CEO of all the others. lis should develop a deep and real under-
the Hinam Center for Social Tolerance. “That is the main challenge standing of each other.
The name Hinam “come s from for today’s society.” And, he In Israel, Hinam has developed pro-
Havdalah,” the ceremony that marks the added, he believes it to be the grams for business and political leaders;
transition from the sweetness of Shabbat challenge in other societies as the country’s attorney general has gone,
to the beginning of a new week. “When well; perhaps even this one. along with his top staff. Yehuda Glick, the
Sephardim say Havdalah, they open with Hinami’s core program, Achi Knesset member who controversially has
words from the Bible, ‘Rishon L’Zion, henei Israeli — My Brother the Israeli defended Jews’ right to parts of the West-
hinam,” Mr. Kanner said. “Hinam means — takes a group of 15 young peo- ern Wall to which they are denied access,
here they are. All the people. Everyone.” Yaron Kanner Rabbi Daniel Fridman ple, all at transitional times in who was shot and wounded in an assas-
Hinam, he said, is an entirely apoliti- their lives — before or after the sination attempt, and who participated
cal organization. “We have no agenda. not in his environment. IDF, after college, before finding or begin- in Women Wage Peace last year — who, in
We don’t want to bring anyone to any “If you want to get to know someone, ning a job — when they have the time and other words, is impossible to label — also
ideology. That’s our first principle. And go to his village. To his neighborhood. To the inclination for openness. “They live has taken part in the program.
the other is that we know that tolerance his settlement. To his house. Try to under- together in the same place; a month in an This fall, Mr. Kanner is leading a group
takes time. stand their family, their foods. If you are Arab village, a month in a settlement in of 20 Israelis on another trip; they’re
“You can’t have a one-shot meeting as doing it right, you will stop seeing, say the Gush Etzion, a month in an ultra-Orthodox starting in Teaneck, where they stay in
a tool to promote a tolerant society. You Arab, and you will start seeing the emet.” community in Sfad, a month in an Ethio- people’s houses and learn about their
can’t take a secular high school and an The truth. “The human being. pian neighborhood. And they simply live lives, and will move across the river to
Orthodox high school, or a Jewish high “It is like a miracle, and we see it happen the daily life of the community. Riverdale halfway through their 10-day
school and an Arab high school, and get all the time. “It sounds like nothing — it’s like ‘Sein- stay. “The goal is to understand American
them together once a year for a one-hour “Even if your way of life is very differ- feld,’ a show about nothing — but really it’s Jews, and the way to do it is to live with
session. That doesn’t help anything. ent, even if you don’t agree, you don’t hate everything.” them for a period of time, and to get to
“In those meetings, they just come to him. You respect him. And then the argu- Once that program proved to be a suc- know them,” he said.
win an argument. They don’t come to lis- ment is more soft. More respectful. cess, Hinam branched out, offering other Mr. Kanner, 50, lives with his family in
ten to the other. They don’t come to open “The main problem is that in Israeli programs, some for high school stu- Modi’in. He grew up in Holon, in an obser-
their minds. They just focus on their own society, people simply hate each other. If dents, some for older people. And some vant family; his father was born in Vienna
arguments. And you cannot get to know you are not like me, you are the enemy. take Israelis to the United States, on the and his family was slaughtered in the Holo-
someone in one hour, especially if you are We cannot live in harmony if everyone understanding that American Jews are yet caust, and his mother was born in Tunisia.

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“That’s not unusual now, but a marriage group of people, from charedim to secular alternative point of view.” technological platforms really is leading
like that wasn’t common in the 1960s,” Jews to local Arabs. “We all sat and learned That situation — the fact that so few of us us toward a very unhealthy polarization,
he said. He went to a modern Orthodox and ate together,” he said; they learned as know anyone whose ideas are profoundly where we never have to encounter the
yeshiva in Jerusalem, and then a less mod- much from the shared meals as from the different from our own — is made worse humanity of another person.
ern one. He was part of an undercover IDF more formal lectures. by social media, he said. “If you are having “There always will be people who can
unit in Gaza during the First Intifada; he The Jewish Center’s Rabbi Daniel Frid- a debate in a comment section, you don’t maintain hateful views and are comfort-
became a journalist, first in print and then man is grateful for the opportunity to see the person you’re arguing with. It’s just able expressing them in person, but the
on television; and then he became a lawyer. have the kinds of conversations Hinam a keyboard. It’s just an avatar. average person tends toward moderation
As an attorney, he worked in the Jerusalem will begin. “The best way to talk is to bring “That’s true in general of the different in face-to-face encounters,” Rabbi Frid-
district attorney’s office, and the moved people face to face,” he said. “People who platforms on social media. Just sitting man concluded. Hatred is a threat to civ-
to the nonprofit world. He became CEO come from different racial, religious, eth- down with someone is a way of mitigating ilization, now as always; his hope is that
of Kol B’Ramah, “an ultra-Orthodox Sep- nic, and socioeconomic backgrounds — unhealthy extremism. The very nature of the kind of openness to others Hinam pro-
hardic radio station,” which ran into legal and don’t underestimate the importance human exposure, of seeing that this is a motes will lead to the kind of tolerance
problems because station leadership — not of different socioeconomics,” he added. person who breathes the same air that I that any civilization needs, both in Israel
including him — did not want to allow wom- “It will give better a sense of what the do, promotes moderation. and here in the United States.
en’s voices on its air. Next, he became CEO modern state of Israel is like.” “It can help us understand the nuances
of Panim, “the union of Jewish renewal It also will help model a way for Ameri- of the state of Israel, and it also allows us Who: Rabbi Daniel Fridman of the
organizations in Israel,” he said. cans to talk to each other, he suggested. to have an experience that itself reminds Jewish Center of Teaneck and Yaron
After these experiences, which took in “People are all locked in their silos.” With us how important it is to put down our Kanner of Hinam
a wider range of experiences than most the groups from Hinam, “What does it phones and our apps and to engage with What: Present an evening of small-
people experience firsthand, Mr. Kanner mean to be of Ethiopian extraction, or the people around us if we are to have any group discussion
put them all together and founded Hinam. an Orthodox person, or an immigrant hope of understanding the other’s. point When: On Tuesday, October, 23, at 8
“About three months ago, we estab- from an Arab country, or from a Western of view. p.m.
lished a unique beit midrash” — study country? Everybody comes with their “All the research on the sociology of
Where: At the Jewish Center, 70 Ster-
house — “called a tolerance beit midrash,” own story.” genocide and hatred has demonstrated, ling St., Teaneck
he said. “It is in a very large, very old build- He was interested in hosting the pro- clearly and persuasively, that dehuman-
How much: Free and open to the com-
ing in the Arab village of Abu Ghosh, near gram, Rabbi Fridman said, because “one izing is a necessary prerequisite to geno-
munity
Jerusalem. It will be a home for tolerance of the great ills of our culture is the terrible cide. As a society, we are in a very precari-
For more information: Go to www.jcot.
in Israel.” It opened in Elul, the month polarization, which I see as a consequence ous space right now, not fully appreciating
org or call (201) 833-0515
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NCJW program to explore ‘fake news’


Joe Amditis to speak on media literacy and how to check things out
LOIS GOLDRICH someone’s voice,” he said. “One exercise I use during

A
sessions is to create a spot showing how easy it is to fake
sked whether she is a longtime member of someone’s voice. It allows advertisers to market their
the Bergen County section of the National products in different countries” — creating ads spoken in
Council of Jewish Women, Ginny Wasserman the country’s native language but in the voice of a celeb-
of Fort Lee hesitated. While 10 years might rity. “It had an innocent purpose, but now there are fake
seem like a long time to some, Ms. Wasserman said, she radio ads, fake audio, created for fun or to manipulate
was one of the section’s newer members. others into being more afraid.” Another exercise used in
“Some of them have been there forever,” she said. “I literacy training interactive workshops centers on visual
know a lot of people in their 90s.” media accuracy, using clues in four different images to
The organization’s upcoming Timely Topics and Tasty figure out where the photos were taken.
Treats program was designed with that in mind. As part Media literacy is an evolving skill, Ms. Amditis said,
of NCJW’s effort to attract younger people, the October and the practice should be nonpartisan. “Just be aware.
20 presentation will focus on media literacy, a topic that Slow things down. Don’t make decisions based on one
certainly is timely, while also accommodating the need piece of news.” His goal, he said, is to get across three
to nosh. major points.
In the past, such NCJW programs were billed as study First, “Who wrote it? Why would they write it? What
groups. “We felt we needed to update it and appeal to a are the stakes here? Are the stakes high?” High stakes,
wider range of people,” Ms. Wasserman, who is the pre- he said, might be upcoming elections or preparing to
sentation’s chair, said. bomb a county that didn’t attack us. “It doesn’t matter
“When you hear the term ‘study group,’ you think after the first bomb,” he said. “Apologies can’t catch up.”
more of academic learning,” Ms. Wasserman said. “It As for elections, we need to be “more on guard. There’s
wouldn’t be a draw. We wanted to reframe the title in a deadline for that information. They need to get it out
a catchier, more relevant way, to draw a more diverse before the deadline.”
population.” Joe Amditis CENTER FOR COOPERATIVE MEDIA Second,” Who is the source? The closer it aligns with
Ms. Wasserman, who worked at Hackensack Medi- your preconceived notions, the more you should check
cal Center for many years, said that the program came Media literacy goes beyond understanding what is it. People are fed confirming information that aligns
about as a result of discussions between the director of true, Mr. Amditis said. It’s also “developing a deeper with their notions to solidify the base.”
her organization and the director of the Network for understanding of how media is made. How we know Next, “What is the source of that reporting? You need to
Responsible Public Policy, which is co-sponsoring it. what we think we know — process-related questions. Not get it from multiple sources. Is it being reported by more
“We decided on our topic because of the upcoming elec- just where one piece of media comes from, but how it is than one news outlet? If not, sit on it, then check again.”
made, who benefits from it, what their interests are, and Asked how someone might verify a particular piece
how it fits into a larger context.” of news, Mr. Amditis said that it might be necessary to
He pointed out that the term “fake news,” now asso- spend most of the day doing so, “veering into becom-
ciated with President Trump, originally was coined as ing a journalist. There’s too much information out there
What is the source of a “response to an active attempt by people in foreign to spend too much time verifying it. Find people with
countries to undermine the credibility of our media.” a consistent track record, who have been proven right
that reporting? You The term ultimately was co-opted and “flipped back after the fact. Use discretion in who you follow. Choose
need to get it from around,” Mr. Amditis said. The president “wound up the people to follow based on their record.”
winning the battle,” but by now the rallying cry has Mr. Amditis, who grew up in the South, “used to be
multiple sources. Is become “almost trite.” very conservative,” he said. “We didn’t believe in climate
it being reported by People vilify the press when it is in their interests to change, and when I was deployed to Iraq, I was fully
do so, he said. “When a system of information and com- onboard. I’m familiar with that mode of thinking, so I’m
more than one news munication reveals flawed intentions, you end up with uniquely able to address it.” While he does not live in
outlet? If not, sit on it, people who go against that.” And today, “anyone can be Bergen County — although he has lived in both Passaic
a member of the press. It’s a lot easier to produce media. and Essex counties — “my parents went to Indian Hills
then check again. Before, there was a monopoly on putting out informa- in Oakland, and my grandmother is in Hawthorne,” he
tion. Now, anyone can make a website.” said. He served in the New Jersey National Guard and
tions,” she said. “We want our members to be able to While blaming the press is easy, it is not new but can was deployed to Iraq from 2008 to 2009. He narrates,
distinguish between facts and fiction. How do we know be traced back to the late 1700s, he said. “Hamilton edits, and produces a podcast on national politics; it’s
when something is true? How do we evaluate what we wrote, using pseudonyms, to trash Jefferson. They had called “WTF Just Happened Today?”
see on Facebook? Who are the sources of real news? campaigns against each other, they wrote clandestine
What is fake news?” op eds.
Joe Amditis, associate director of the Center for “They had no qualms about it. People have a lot of fear Who: Joe Amditis
Cooperative Media, will be NCJW’s guest speaker. The about the media. There are a lot of buzzwords, of fear- What: Will deliver a talk on “Media Literacy in Today’s
center, housed within the school of communication at mongering. But I like to read a lot and I’ve never found a World”
Montclair State University and funded by grants from better source of comfort than to know that people have When: On October 30 at 2:30 p.m.
the John S. and James L. Knight Foundation, the Geral- been writing about the same fears for hundreds of years.
Where: At the Senior Source, The Shops at Riverside,
dine R. Dodge Foundation, the Democracy Fund, and These arguments have been circulating forever. In the
second floor, Hackensack
the Abrams Foundation, was created to “improve and words of Mark Twain, ‘History doesn’t repeat itself, but
sustain local news and information in New Jersey,” Mr. it often rhymes.’” Cost: The program is free for members and $10 for
Amditis said. In other words, it was created to grow and Mr. Amditis, who graduated from Rutgers University nonmembers, applicable toward membership if you
join that day.
strengthen local journalism. It does this through train- and earned a master’s degree from the CUNY Gradu-
ing, workshops, and collaborative projects with news ate School of Journalism, said that he is fascinated by Information: Email office@ncjwbcs.org,
and information partners. It also holds events for New the new technology available to teachers. “I spent two call (201) 385-4847, or go to www.ncjwbcs.org.
Jersey residents and members of the press. hours on a new free program, Lyrebird, which recreates

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7:30 p.m. 7:00 p.m.

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Local

Talmud club for retirees


Men’s beit midrash will launch in Jewish Center of Teaneck
LARRY YUDELSON physical manifestations in their brains of Alzheimer’s — the

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tangles, the knots. But the symptoms didn’t occur. The thing
ome study Torah. It’s good for you. that was unique about the community was that there was
That’s part of the pitch that Leonard Grunstein a great deal of intellectual engagement in a social setting.
of Teaneck makes for the new Teaneck Beit They had book clubs, they played bridge.”
Midrash, or study hall, aimed at retired people They probably did not study Talmud. And talmudists Leonard Grunstein Rabbi Ronen Dvash
and open only to men, that will meet on Mondays and tend not to have their brains dissected posthumously. But
Wednesdays at the Jewish Center of Teaneck. (On Sunday, the principle would seem to apply. than the lecture that followed, he said.
to highlight the program, Rabbi Ari Berman, the president The Teaneck Beit Midrash is an Orthodox institution. Mr. The Teaneck Beit Midrash will start at 9:15 a.m. with the
of Yeshiva University, will headline a yom iyyun, or Torah Grunstein is a member of Congregation Bnai Yeshurun. His men dividing up into groups and preparing for the lesson
study day, at the Jewish Center. See box.) colleagues on the committee that founded it include mem- with source sheets in Hebrew and Aramaic, and translated
The pitch goes like this: One of the most important tasks bers of other Teaneck Orthodox synagogues. The program is into English. Moderators will help with the discussions.
of retirement is preparing a social network. “It’s the lack being run in conjunction with the Orthodox Union, Yeshiva At 10, Rabbi Ronen Dvash, who teaches at Heichal Hato-
of a social network that makes retirement a failure,” Mr. University, and Heichal Hatorah, the Orthodox yeshiva high rah, will give a 45-minute Talmud class. This will be followed
Grunstein says, citing an article he read in Fortune Maga- school that owns the Teaneck Jewish Center building. by a class on a topic in Jewish law or philosophy. “We’ll be
zine 20 years ago on how to have a successful retirement. But a key spark to the program took place at Congrega- drawing from all the departments of Yeshiva University to
And then there’s the role that intellectual stimulations plays tion Beth Sholom, Teaneck’s Conservative congregation. Mr. staff that part of the program,” Mr. Grunstein said. After that,
in warding off dementia and Alzheimer’s disease. Grunstein was there for a study program the congregation Rabbi Hayyim Angel will give a class on the Bible, starting
“There was a 30-year longitudinal study that looked at an held together with neighboring Orthodox Rinat Yisrael. with the seldom studied Book of Nechemiah.
age-restricted community that had almost no incidents of “It was magnificent,” he said. “There were 180 people. Add Mincha, the afternoon prayers, and the program
Alzheimer’s or dementia,” Mr. Grunstein said. “They allowed Everyone had a source sheet in front of them. We divided should wrap up around 1 p.m.
their brains to be autopsied. They found that they had all the up into groups of six to 10 people, with a moderator direct- In the future, once the beit midrash has achieved a critical
ing the discussion. It was thrilling. A social and intellectually mass, “hopefully we will have afternoon chesed programs,
engaging experience. whether its visiting the sick in the hospital or mentoring,”
What: Yom Iyun to launch the Beit Midrash of Teaneck program
“This is a way to energize people because sitting in a lecture Mr. Grunstein said.
Who: Rabbis Ari Berman, Herschel Schachter, and Ari Weiss
— I notice all too often that people my age” — Mr. Grunstein is Another of the program’s goals is to include program-
When: Sunday, October 21, 11 a.m. 66 — “tend to fall asleep unless they’re personally engaged. ming for women. Mr. Grunstein said the decision to hold
Where: Jewish Center of Teaneck, 70 Sterling Place, Teaneck His experience at the program reminded him of his single-sex classes reflected the desires of the people he
How to RSVP: Email grunsteinl@gmail.com experience as a young man in yeshiva. “The best part was spoke to about the program in the Orthodox community
sitting in the beit midrash preparing” for the class, rather — both men and women.

Letter from Israel: Bimba Juke


ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN super sturdy, with a low center of gravity. This is the

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bimba of choice — the Cadillac of bimbas, if you will — for
ur youngest granddaughter, Avital, turned 2 the 3-and-under set.
this summer. After asking her parents for a “Juke” is slang for “cockroach” so I was a little taken
gift idea, I hopped on a bus to their town on a aback when my daughter-in-law specifically requested a
Friday morning — when most of us begin our bimba juke for Avital, but that’s what this super-popular

ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN


weekend here, but older kids are in school till noon — and riding toy is nicknamed, probably because its shape is
buckled her into her stroller for a walk to the toy store. somewhat bug-like.
The friendly proprietor is the husband of the ganenet — Standing outside with me, where many of the toys were
preschool teacher — of one of our other granddaughters displayed because the shop is pretty small, Shopkeeper
and we like to patronize his shop when we buy presents Jr. asked what sort of bimba I was seeking: a regular or a
for our four munchkins. bimba juke? Bimba juke, I answered confidently.
On this Friday morning, I found the store had been left “We have a red one right here if you like that color,” he A bimba juke at an Israeli toy store.
in the capable hands of the owner’s 8-year-old son. Why said, pulling a box off a shelf just inside the door.
this child wasn’t in school I cannot say; he seemed hale Seeing that Avital had fallen asleep, I had to make the jam-packed, narrow aisles were barely wide enough to
and hearty. decision on my own. “Perfect,” I said. “I’ll take it.” accommodate Avital in her stroller.
“My abba had to step out to run some errands,” the boy Then, surely sizing me up as a rich American sort of I turned to Shopkeeper Jr. “Would you watch her out-
said genially, coming outside to greet me. “How can I help grandmother based on my accent, he inquired whether side while I pay?” I asked.
you?” I preferred a “standard” doll stroller or a “high-quality” Clearly pleased to be entrusted with a new responsibil-
“Well,” I explained in Hebrew, “I am looking for a doll model. This was to be a gift from my mother — Avital’s ity now that his shop-keeping stint had ended, the child
stroller and a bimba.” great-grandmother, far away in New York — so I pointed nodded and expertly set the brake on the stroller, keeping
“Bimba” is one of many fun Israeli slang words (mostly to a luxurious-looking double doll stroller with a pink sun- a protective hold on the handle.
borrowed from Arabic) that I never knew before we shade. Shopkeeper Jr. smiled and yanked it off the outdoor When I came out, I tried to give him a 2-shekel coin
moved here 11 years ago. The first time I heard it, I thought display hook. (worth about 50 cents). “This is for helping me so well,”
it must be a variation of “bimbo,” but actually an Israeli Just then his abba returned. I said.
bimbo is a “fraykha.” A bimba, it turns out, is any kind of “Your son is so helpful!” I complimented Shopkeeper “Oh no,” the child responded uneasily. “I can’t take
riding toy propelled by foot. Sr. “He knew exactly where to find what I wanted.” your money. I didn’t do anything.”
There are bimbas shaped like little cars or little motor- The proud father beamed. “Yes, my boy is a champ!” “Yes, you did,” I insisted. “Listen, if you don’t want to
cycles and there are bimbas with a handle so an adult can he agreed. keep the money for yourself you can give it to charity.”
push them. And then there are bimba jukes. As he started carrying my purchases to the cash regis- The smile returned to his face, he pocketed the coin,
Bimba jukes have no bells and whistles but they’re ter in the back of the store, I pondered what to do. The and I set off for home pushing both the stroller and the

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to be as engaging as work, and hopes the Teaneck beit
midrash will replicate the experience.
“The Socratic method is part of the charm,” he said.
“When the rebbe calls on you asks you to read that
Gemara, and say what you think it means — you have to
be engaged. All too often we have these extraordinary
lecturers who are recording themselves and not engag-
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midrash is to replicate the yeshiva experience and with
source sheets prepare everyone so they can participate.
We have to create an environment for people of uneven

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skills or whose skills have to be refreshed.”
Would-be students can come by the Jewish Center
and “just drop in.” But Mr. Grunstein would appreciate
an advance email reservation, at grunsteinl@gmail.com,
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source sheets to copy. So far the response has been
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Beyond Teaneck, “People are coming from Fair Lawn,
Fort Lee, Englewood, even as far away as Riverdale.”

doll stroller, the large bag containing the boxed-up


bimba juke dangling heavily from one wrist. My
granddaughter woke up as we reached her house.
She was utterly delighted to see the stroller and ran
to get a doll.
A few minutes later, her older siblings bounded in
from school and immediately spotted the box with the
bimba sitting in the hallway.
“Cool, a new bimba!” Yehuda (Hudi for short)
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN

shouted.
“Yes, it’s our birthday present for Avital, but I don’t
know how to assemble it,” I said.
“Never fear, Hudi is here!” our 9½-year-old bilingual
wonder replied. “I’ll get it set up in two seconds.”
And he did, to the great joy of Avital, who promptly
parked the stroller in the playroom and climbed
aboard the bimba for a trial run. A broad grin appeared
under her honey curls as she rode out the front door
into the garden.
“Shalom!” she called out sweetly and waved bye-bye
before reaching the gate and turning around to zoom
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Local

Pink challah?
Jewish women, 12 and older, invited to Passaic to learn preparation
and support Sharsheret in its fight against women’s cancers
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN

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What: Jewish Journeys Great Pink
hether kneading and braid- Challah Bake
ing Sabbath challah bread When: Thursday, October 25, 7:30 p.m.
is part of your weekly rou- (Doors open at 6 p.m.)
tine or whether you’ve
Where: Factory 220, 220 Passaic St.,
never punched down a bowlful of yeast Passaic
dough in your life, if you are female, Jewish,
Who: Women and girls 12 and older
and 12 years old or older, you can take part in
the Jewish Journeys Great Pink Challah Bake How much: $36
on October 25 at Factory 220 in Passaic. Pre-registration is required. Email
During the week of October 22, about a jjgreatpinkchallahbake@gmail.
million Jewish women are expected to join com or go to the calendar on the
in challah-baking events in conjunction with Jewish Federation of Northern New
Jersey’s website, www.jfnnj.org. BRCA
the worldwide Shabbat Project. In fact, Valley
screening and testing by a local
Chabad also offers a bake that day. (See box.) provider will be available before the
As it is also Breast Cancer Awareness event. If you are interested in being
Month, the Jewish Journeys challah bake screened/tested, come at 6 and bring
has a pink theme and is being held in part- your insurance card.
nership with Sharsheret — a Teaneck-based
national nonprofit organization dedicated Participants in the 2017 Jewish Journeys Great Pink Challah Bake.DEBBIE ROSALIMSKY Passaic, and an anonymous donor providing
to addressing the needs of Jewish women the challah ingredients,” Ms. Rosalimsky said.
and families facing breast and ovarian can- Women’s Renaissance Project trip to Israel Sharsheret’s senior adviser Shera Dubitsky Other business sponsors include A&E Fine
cer — and Myriad Women’s Health of Myr- for Jewish mothers from Bergen County (described as “fabulous and funny” by Ms. Art, Berkshire Bank, Myriad Women’s Health,
iad Genetics, which will offer educational with limited Jewish background and chil- Rosalimsky) will be the evening’s emcee. Northeast Private Client Group, North Jersey
resources to participants. dren under 18. Follow-up programming at Devorah Kigel, a dating and marriage coach Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery, and Sari’s Wigs.
Screening services will be available at the home includes classes, challah bakes, Shab- and public speaker from Passaic, will give Ms. Rosalimsky said that she only started
beginning of the evening for women who bat and holiday celebrations, chesed pro- a live challah-making demo. There will be baking challah five years ago, after attending
wish to know if they carry the BRCA gene, grams, and social activities. dancing while the challah rises, followed by a similar event in New York City, and since
which increases the lifetime risk of develop- Ms. Rosalimsky said the bake also aims a braiding demonstration by Ms. Rosalimsky has “become a totally passionate challah
ing breast and/or ovarian cancer up to 84 “to share the beauty and mitzvah behind and finally a raffle and silent auction. baker/teacher/mentor” who films challah-
percent. Women and men of Ashkenazi Jew- challah-making as well as the how-tos so Participants arriving at their assigned braiding videos for groups and bakes hol-
ish heritage have a 1 in 40 chance of being that perhaps the women will leave feel- workstations will find an apron, a bowl iday-themed breads — a Purim loaf in the
BRCA-positive. ing inspired and comfortable to make it at with pre-sorted ingredients, a laminated shape of a large hamantash and a Chanukah
“This year, because of our partnership home. Just as important, we want to gather placemat complete with challah recipes, challah that looks like a menorah.
with Sharsheret and Myriad Women’s Health, women of different ages and Jewish back- challah-making instructions, an expla- Teal and Pink Shabbat, the name
I’m referring to it as a challah bake for the grounds for an evening of unity, fun, danc- nation of the spiritual meanings behind Sharsheret has trademarked for its annual
body and the soul,” said Debbie Rosalimsky ing, and connecting.” each ingredient, and instructions for sep- national community-based initiative to edu-
of Teaneck, who is chairing the bake. “Rais- Since 2014, the annual challah bake has arating a small piece of dough symbolic cate Jews about ovarian (teal) and breast
ing awareness to women’s health is critical.” attracted many participants from across the of the biblical challah offering. (pink) cancer, will be marked by many
One of the Great Pink Challah Bake’s goals Jewish spectrum in Northern Jersey. “Water is the only ingredient the women events in October and November.
is to introduce the community to Jewish In fact, last year the organizers decided will have to measure,” Ms. Rosalimsky said. Locally, in addition to the Great Pink
Journeys, a grassroots organization whose to set a limit of 800 women — all pre-reg- “It takes a village to organize an event like Challah Bake, Sharsheret Teal/Pink Shab-
mission is to strengthen the Jewish home. istered, no walk-ins allowed — because the this,” she added. “Along with adult volunteers bat events are planned in Fair Lawn at Fair
Under the umbrella of Jinspire Bergen, bake had grown too large to handle — sort of who have graciously offered their time, we Lawn Jewish Center/Congregation B’nai
Jewish Journeys leads a subsidized Jewish like when bread dough rises out of control. are very grateful to some of the local Jewish Israel on October 13 and at Congregation
day school students who will be helping sort Ahavat Achim on October 27. Congregation
the ingredients and set up the venue.” Beth Sholom in Teaneck will host an event
Corporate sponsors provided monetary on November 17.
donations or offered services and supplies On October 14, the Kaplen JCC on the
for free or at cost. Palisades in Tenafly will hold an outdoor
“A big thank-you goes to Factory 220, workout; donations for Sharsheret will be
which is hosting the Challah Bake free of collected there, and information and goody
charge for the third year in a row, BML- bags will be handed out. Women of Reform
Blackbird of Secaucus, Inflated Creations of Judaism will run a community service proj-
ect and Pink Dinner for Sharsheret during
What: Valley Chabad Mega its Atlantic District Convention at the Clin-
Challah Bake ton Inn in Tenafly on October 18 to 21, and a
When: Thursday, October 25, 7 p.m. Pink Challah Bake will be hosted in a private
Where: Hilton Woodcliff Lake, 200 Tice Tenafly home on October 28.
Boulevard, Woodcliff Lake Ridgewood’s Alex and Ani jewelry store
will donate 15 percent of proceeds from
How Much: $45
sales on October 28 to Sharsheret, and Uni-
Pre-registration is required. Email
All the necessary challah-making implements and ingredients are in place for lever in Englewood will host a Sharsheret
ValleyChabad.org.
the Great Pink Bake. Lunch and Learn program on October 30.

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Speaker rebuffs Rutgers


after talk is reinstated
Alumna Lisa Daftari targeted campus radicalism The Next Frontier of
Breast Cancer Risk
LARRY YUDELSON the office of Ben Sifuentes-Jáuregui, the

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university’s vice chancellor for under-
utgers University invited Lisa graduate academic affairs. (Dr. Sifuentes-

& Genetic Testing


Daftari to speak to students Jáuregui did not reply to an email asking
about the threats radicalism for comment for this story.)
poses to dialogue and learning Then, last Monday, one student launched
on campus. an online petition against Ms. Daftari. In the
“I was going to speak about freedom of petition, Adeel Ahmed described Ms. Daft-
speech, and how we have to go beyond pro- ari as “an unapologetic Islamaphobe” — a
test,” Ms. Daftari said last Friday. That was
four days before the announced date of her
charge she heatedly denies.
The petition singled out a sentence
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 26, 2018
talk, “Radicalism on College Campuses,” about ISIS recruiting in a talk she gave to 8 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
which was scheduled for Tuesday, October the Heritage Foundation. “I have always
16, and was to be sponsored by Rutgers’ differentiated between Muslim people John Theurer Cancer Center, Conference Rooms 1 & 2
office of undergraduate academic affairs. versus the distortion of Islam in politics 92 Second Street, Hackensack, NJ 07601
Ms. Daftari, a Rutgers and radicalism,” Ms. Daft-
graduate who grew up in ari told the Daily Targum in
Paramus and now lives in response to the petition. PROGRAM FACULTY
Los Angeles, was looking for- The Rutgers Univer-
ward to this homecoming. sity Student Assembly got 8 a.m.
Since graduating with a involved, passing a bill Stanley Waintraub, M.D., FACP
Registration and Breakfast Chief of Hematology
triple major in Middle East- denouncing the invitation.
8:15 a.m. Co-Chief of Breast Oncology
ern studies, Spanish, and According to the Targum,
Welcoming Remarks John Theurer Cancer Center
vocal performance, Ms. the university’s student Hackensack University Medical Center
Daftari has won journalism newspaper, the bill was Stanley Waintraub, M.D.
Hackensack, NJ
awards and crafted a career Lisa Daftari drafted by the Assembly’s 8:30 a.m.
as a journalist and public Student Affairs Committee, Freya Schnabel, M.D.
Breast Cancer Risk Assessment: Co-President of ISC-RAM
speaker. The child of Iranian Jewish immi- with help from student groups includ- Is it Still Necessary After All Professor of Surgery, Director of Breast Surgery
grants, she has focused on human rights ing the Muslim Student Association, the
These Years? NYU Perlmutter Cancer Center
abuses in the Middle East. Muslim Public Relations Council, and the New York, NY
Freya Schnabel, M.D.
But radicals threatened to protest her Latino Student Council.
speech. The Rutgers administration learned 9:15 a.m. Banu Arun, M.D.
Co-President of ISC-RAM
And then Rutgers canceled it. that students opposed to the talk would Hereditary Mutations
Professor of Breast Medical Oncology
Ms. Daftari went public with the story be attending, and they began to get ner- and Panel Testing Co-Director of Clinical Cancer Genetics and
last week. vous about providing security. Banu Arun, M.D. Clinical Cancer Prevention
And on Monday, Rutgers wrote her to So on Friday, the university announced The University of Texas,
10 a.m.
ask to reschedule the talk for November — the talk had been “postponed.” M.D. Anderson Cancer Center
Q&A, Break
and sent a copy of that letter to the press. “LET’S BE CLEAR- this was not a ‘post- Houston, TX
“Rutgers University would like to elimi- ponement,’” Ms. Daftari tweeted to her 10:30 a.m.
Claudine Isaacs, M.D.
nate any confusion about its invitation for 35,000 followers. “That is public rela- Clinical Management of Professor of Medicine and Oncology
Lisa Daftari to speak on campus,” Rutgers’ tions talk for a cowardly CANCELLA- High Risk Patients Medical Director of the Cancer Assessment and
director of public and media relations, John TION. @RutgersU told me the event was Claudine Isaacs, M.D. Risk Evaluation Program
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Dr. Pramod K. Mistry Dr. Neal Weinreb Dr. Heather Lau Shira Feuerstein Jayne Petak Alan Scharfstein

Ask experts about Gaucher Disease JFCS will honor 3 at gala


To mark Gaucher Awareness Month, the educational grants from Pfizer, Sanofi Jewish Family & Children’s Services of co-president of JFNNJ’s Women’s Phi-
National Gaucher Foundation holds “Ask Genzyme, and Shire Human Genetic Northern New Jersey will hold its annual lanthropy, and chaired JFNNJ’s Planning
the Experts,” a panel discussion featur- Therapies. gala on Sunday, November 18, at the Edge- & Allocation Committee. She is a board
ing three experts, and champagne des- Gaucher’s Disease, an inherited con- wood Country Club in River Vale. A stroll- member of the JCC of Northern New Jer-
sert reception, on October 27 at 7:30 dition, is most common amount Ashke- ing dinner begins at 5:30 p.m., followed by sey and the Jewish Home at Rockleigh.
p.m. at the Mezzanine, 55 Broadway, in nazim Jewry. For more information, go the awards presentation at 7:15 and dessert She and her husband, David, live in River
Manhattan. The evening is supported by to GaucherDisease.org/asktheexperts. at 8. Vale and are members of Valley Chabad in
Shira Feuerstein, Jayne Petak, and Alan Woodcliff Lake.
Scharfstein are the honorees. Alan Scharfstein has served in many
Deadline extended for applicants Shira Feuerstein and her family founded
the Wheels for Meals Bike Ride, which
leadership roles at the Jewish Federation
of Northern New Jersey, most recently
in Kaplen JCC scholar-athlete contest benefits JFCS, eight years ago. She is a Rus- as president from 2008 to 2011. He was
sell Berrie Foundation Fellow, has been a responsible for a number of initiatives that
The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades has As part of the application process, JFCS board member for nine years, and is changed the face of the federation and its
extended the deadline for applications students will be asked to submit a 500- a JFCS past president. Shira also is on the strategic direction. He has served on the
for the Joseph Taub Scholar Athlete to 750-word personal essay, two letters Women’s Philanthropy Board at Jewish National Board of Jewish Federations of
award to October 22. The award goes to of recommendation, and their most Federation of Northern New Jersey. She North America and the board of Yeshiva
high school senior student-athletes who recent high school transcript. For more and her husband, Robert, live in Alpine University’s Sy Syms School of Business.
demonstrate exceptional academic abil- information, go to www.jccotp.org/ and are members of Temple Emanu-El in He lives in Woodcliff Lake with his wife,
ity and strong leadership skills in sports, athleteawards. Closter. Karen, and is a member of Temple Eman-
their schools, and their communities. The Joseph Taub Scholar Athlete Jayne Petak has been a leader in the uel of the Pascack Valley.
Bergen County high school seniors Award has been established in memory Jewish community for more than 30 years Tickets and digital journal ads are avail-
can apply. They do not have to be JCC of Joseph Taub, a JCC founding member and volunteers to support local agencies. able at GALA2018.jfcsnnj.org. For more
members to apply or to win. Winners and former co-owner of the New Jersey She is a past president of the Jewish Fed- information, call Jaymie Kerr at (201) 837-
will be notified in early November. First Nets and a founder of Automatic Data eration of Northern New Jersey, has been 9090 or email her at JaymieK@jfcsnnj.org.
place winners, one male and one female, Processing, who dedicated his time and
each will receive a $3,600 scholarship; resources to supporting underserved
the second place prize $900; third place young people in the area of athletics. An
is $540. avid philanthropist, he made dreams of a
All winners will be recognized and better life possible for countless teenag-
honored at the JCC’s second annual ers by providing scholarship assistance
Sports Night of Champions, on Thurs- and creating a successful after-school
day, November 29. The community basketball league as a safe haven for stu-
fundraising evening will feature sports dents in the Paterson public school dis-
celebrities Ron Darling and Tino Mar- trict, where he grew up.
tinez as keynote speakers; it supports For more information, call Fran
scholarships for children, families in Koszer at (201) 408-1404 or email her at
need, and seniors who benefit from JCC fkoszer@jccotp.org.
programs and services.

Norpac
meeting
features
Menendez
A competitor partcipates in this year’s Special Games.  COURTESY JCCOTP

Senator Robert Menendez


(D-N.J.) will be at a pro-
Israel Norpac meeting in
Special games for special people
Teaneck hosted by Esther More than 120 differently abled athletes including golf putt, basketball, softball
and Mort Fridman on Sun- and more than 75 volunteers participated and lacrosse throws, Frisbee toss, soc-
day, October 21, at 12:30 in the annual Special Games, an inclusive cer kick, bowling, volleyball, and an agil-
p.m. For more information, Esther and Mort Fridman flank Senator Robert field day presented by the Chuck Gutten- ity course. All athletes received Special
call (201) 788-5133 or email Menendez. COURTESY NORPAC berg Center for the Physically Challenged Games T-shirts; they also were given rib-
Avi@NORPAC.net. at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in bons for each event in which they partici-
Tenafly. pated. Music was by DJ Randi Rae; and a
There were 14 events at the games, barbeque highlighted the day.

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Teaneck shul will host program


on addiction and substance abuse
A panel addressing “Addiction and Sub- in Bergen County. Dr. Matis Shulman
stance Abuse: Understanding the Land- will answer questions about the medical
scape and Its Impact on Us” will meet on and physiological aspects of addiction.
Sunday, November 4, at Congregation Rabbi Larry Rothwachs of Congrega-
Keter Torah in Teaneck at 7:30 p.m. The tion Beth Aaron will explore communal
discussion will include information on efforts and awareness. Rabbi Tully Harc-
recent drug trends, state and local initia- sztark, the principal of SAR High School,
tives, addiction, and what we can do to will answer questions about policies and
address and prevent it. protocols in schools. Etiel Forman will
Speakers will include Christopher describe how addiction feels to family
Jakim, a Drug Enforcement Adminis- members, and offer ways for the com-
tration special agent who will provide munity to help.
information about the current drug cri- For more information or to sub-
Simchat Torah in Teaneck sis and state measures against traffick-
ing. Shelley Stuart, the director of the
mit questions to the panel, go to
www.time2talkaddiction.org or email
Temple Emeth held its Simchat Torah celebration with singing and dancing with the Center for Alcohol and Drug Resources, Time2TalkAddiction@gmail.com.
Torahs, candy apples, and a candy bar. will talk about programs and initiatives

Bris Avrohom
Teens lead drive for kids with cancer reaches out
Leo Strizhevsky, Brianna
to travelers
Leopold, Sabrina Fried, Bris Avrohom of Hillside
and William Milund were maintains a Jewish informa-
among Bergen Count y tion stand at El Al Airlines at
High School of Jewish Stud- Newark Liberty International
ies students who partici- Airport. The group offers
pated in a collection drive travelers flying to Israel Tefil-
for Tackle Kids Cancer lat Haderech — the traveler’s
patients. Students donated prayer — and helps them put
items to help teens with on tefillin. The stand is under
BARBARA BALKIN

cancer pass the time while the direction of Rabbi Avremy

COURTESY BRIS AVROHOM


they are undergoing treat- Kanelsky, Bris Avrohom’s
ments. Tackle Kids Cancer youth and Torah education
was started at the Chil- director. The group pictured
dren’s Cancer Institute at at El Al security staff head-
Hackensack University Medical Center to raise funds and awareness for pediatric cancer quarters shared High Holy Day
patients. insights, blew shofar, and ate
apples dipped in honey, and
honey cake.

Three generations from


one family bake challah
together. Roberta
Soltnick, left, her
daughter, Shari Pillar of
Woodcliff Lake, and Ms.
Soltnick’s granddaughter,
Camryn Pillar, at Valley
Chabad’s Mega Challah
COURTESY NCJW

Bake last year.


SRIVKI PHOTOGRAPHY

Hundreds expected to participate


Get out and vote at Valley Chabad Mega Challah Bake
Vicki Monaloy, Ina Pearlman Laman, and Joan Donow, members of the Jersey Hills sec- Hundreds of women from the Pascack Participants will learn how to mix,
tion of the National Council of Jewish Women, participated in a voter registration drive Valley and Saddle River Community knead, and shape their own traditional
at Bergen Community College. will join on Thursday, October 25, at 7 challah. There also will be wine, song,
p.m., at the Hilton Woodcliff Lake for and refreshments. There still are a few
Valley Chabad Women’s Circle’s Mega spots available. To reserve a seat, go to
Challah Bake. valleychabad.org.

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Abe Barzelay of Paramus is a
master of both the harmonica
and the acoustics of concert
stages and recording studios.

Cover Story

What a life
Harmonica virtuoso, acoustic engineer,
and high-tech troubleshooter
Abe Barzelay to play at the Kaplen JCC

A
Joanne Palmer performance space upstairs at the Kaplen they set out for the real thing. His mother, Ramat Rachel, not very far from Jerusalem.
JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly, is celebrat- Pesya, got a visa for Palestine and arrived “When it got very bad, they put all
vraham Barzelay of Para- ing its 25th anniversary. A wonderfully at Ramat Rachel with its founders, and the little children in one big house,”
mus will be responsible designed small theater, with wonderful then waited there for two years for her he remembers. “They put sandbags all
for the music the audi- sightlines and even better acoustics, it was fiancé to arrive. His father, Joseph — that around it. There were fighters shooting out
ence at the Eric Brown carefully designed by the master acoustic fiancé — stayed behind to help organize from the window, and I remember one of
Theater hears on Satur- engineer Avraham Barzelay. illegal immigration to Palestine. He got the fighters asked the kids around him for
day night, and he also Oh yes, that’s the same Abe Barzelay on the last boat out (a malodorous vessel more bullets.
will be responsible for the way they hear it. whose troubleshooting work for Boeing, that had been used to ferry pigs). Most of “And then he got one. Right away. A bul-
He will play music by Beethoven, Ger- among other major corporations, incor- the rest of both of their families died in let in his mouth.”
shwin, and Grieg, among others; Itay porates his unimpeded imagination, long the Holocaust. Abe remembers that; he remembers
Goren will accompany him on piano as he life experience, and rare open-eyed com- Like the other children on the kibbutz, being scared, and that other adults came
plays the harmonica. (The what? Yes. The mon sense to fix the problems other peo- Abe slept in the children’s house; like and got him out of there quickly. But the
chromatic harmonica, the small, unlikely ple consign to him as otherwise unfixable. other parents, his would come to say good- memory lingered.
instrument out of which Abe draws soul- So who exactly is Avraham Barzelay? night to him and his older sister. His father “They decided a few days later that it
ful sounds, and to whose modern pio- Mr. Barzelay was born in Kibbutz would sing him a lullaby, he remembers. was too much for the kids, so they decided
neers, Shmuel Gogol and Larry Adler, Ramat Rachel, in what was then manda- When Abe was about 4 1/2, Israel was to take us out of there, to take us to Jeru-
Abe is heir.) tory Palestine, in 1944. He was the child declared a state, and then the War of Inde- salem,” he said. “So they put steel plates
(See the box for more information about of two Polish-born Jews, who met in the pendence broke out, as its Arab neighbors around a bus — they armored it — and they
the performance.) kibbutz in Poland that young Zionists set tried to smother the newborn nation in took us to Jerusalem, about 40 kids, from
The Eric Brown Theater, the jewel-box up as a place to train themselves before its cradle. The war soon made its way to babies to 5-year-olds, and some of the

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Cover Story

Clockwise from top:


Abe Barzelay, center,
his back to the camera,
suggested major
improvements in the
landing gear of jetliners
manufactured by Boeing.
Th aircraft firm thanked him
with a plaque and desktop
model of its 777-300.
Barzelay also helped solve
a problem NASA had in
balancing the space shuttle.

mothers.” That included his mother. idiosyncratic memory is, and how very nurse. bachelor’s degree in math and another in
“The bigger kids, including my sister, much unexpectedly and all at once some- “It was an agricultural kibbutz, with physics by the time he finished his school
walked to Jerusalem,” he continued. “It thing that was okay can become too much. one factory, where they made polysty- at the kibbutz.
was just about a mile away, but the trip The evacuated families were taken to rene,” Abe said. “I had a regular life on the Another strong thread that has been
took about five hours by bus, because Atlit, a camp the British had built to house kibbutz, and I went to school there.” Yes, woven throughout Abe’s life was evident
there were landmines and shooting, and illegal immigrants to Israel; soon Mr. Bar- of course, he went to school there, but, from the beginning. He loved music.
at one point I started to cry because there zelay’s father joined his family, and Pesya as his wife, Hana Arad, pointed out, he “When I was very young, there was just
was no water, and I was thirsty, so very and Joseph’s third child, another son, was also went to the Technion for his last two one radio on the kibbutz,” he said. “I
thirsty, and I wanted water. born there. The Barzelays were among the years of high school. As it turned out, Mr. would go and sit by the window, just to be
“So my mother asked me, ‘What can I builders of Kibbutz Ain Carmel, where Abe Barzelay was so gifted at math and physics able to listen to the music on the radio.”
do to make you stop crying?’ and I said, Barzelay spent the rest of his childhood that his teachers gave up on him — there There would be concerts on the kib-
‘Sing me the lullaby, the one that my father and adolescence. is nothing worse than a bored student butz. When he was 8, he listened to one
sings me.’ And she started to sing, but she His father was an engineer — “mechani- who fights ennui by showing how much that affected him strongly. “About six
couldn’t do it right, she did not know how cal, electrical, you name it,” he said — and more he knows than his teachers do — so months before the concert, my mother’s
to sing, and I started to cry more and a very talented man. He went to school he was shipped off to take college-level brother, my uncle, who had escaped
more, saying, ‘No, no, you are not doing for engineering in Poland, and maybe one courses. (“I took two sandwiches and two Poland before the war — the only one
it right. or two years in Germany. I would build buses every day,” he said.) Because he who survived — came from Cuba,” where
“So the worst part of the trauma for me machines with my father. I got a lot of had not yet graduated from high school, he had found shelter from the Shoah,
was with my mother not singing the lul- hands-on experience from him. He was he could not matriculate, and therefore Mr. Barzelay said. “He brought me a very
laby right,” he said; it is a valuable child’s my inspiration.” could not earn an undergraduate degree, small, simple harmonica from Cuba, and
eye view of how resilient children are, how His mother was the kibbutz’s head but he had done all the coursework for a that’s what I started to play.

Jewish Standard OCTOBER 19, 2018 19


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an orchestra for kids, and let them play the harmonica.’ do it right,” he said. It’s far easier to play harmonica for
And Krinitzi gave him what he wanted.” blues or jazz or folk; then, “you don’t need a chromatic
After Gogol’s performance at Ain Carmel, some kib- harmonica.” A diatonic is far easier.
butzniks introduced Abe to him, and Abe played for him. He owns about 50 harmonicas, he said; they vary in
Abe had played a basic diatonic instrument — the much many ways, including in key. “Sometimes I’ll try different
less challenging kind, better for beginners — but Gogol ones to see which is right for each piece,” he said, and that
sent him a chromatic one. decision may vary for a range of reasons.
During his time on the kibbutz, a musician who came to During this time, Mr. Barzelay continued to work in the
test the children there to see if any had musical ability sug- kibbutz. He managed its garage; it still was mainly agri-
gested that Abe be sent to a conservatory — not only did he cultural, so he oversaw its combines and other heavy
have talent, he also had perfect pitch, the expert said, and machinery.
“why is he wasting it like this, on the harmonica?” — but In 1967, the Six-Day War broke out; Mr. Barzelay was in
his parents decided against it. “My parents had enough the reserves, so he was called up. He doesn’t want to talk
problems,” he said. “They thought maybe it would be bet- about his military experiences, but something else hap-
ter for me to be a doctor, instead of a musician.” pened to him that affected the course of his life. He met
After graduation — which came a year early, because the Larry Adler, the American-born harmonica player — the
kibbutz’s educators had him skip first grade — Abe joined only harmonica player most Americans who can name
the Israel Defense Forces. He was in the Air Force, stayed any harmonica player could name — who left the United
in for four years, and left with the rank of major. Even all States for England during the McCarthy era and rarely
these years later, he says that he should not — in fact, he returned.
cannot — talk about what he did there. It was classified. Mr. Adler “used to come on the first week of any war
Throughout his time in the IDF, Abe played harmonica; in Israel to play for the injured and for the soldiers,” Mr.
he’d go back to the kibbutz on weekends, “and on Friday Barzelay said. “That was the first time I met him; I played
nights, after dinner, the whole kibbutz would dance, and ‘Jerusalem of Gold’ with him on the stage.
I would play for the dance.” “In 1973, during the Yom Kippur War, Larry Adler came
“The first time I met Abe, he told me that he couldn’t again, and again we played together, and he offered me to
dance,” Hana said. “That’s because whenever he was at a be his student. But he lived in London, and I did not have
dance, he was always playing.” the money to go there.”
When he left the Air Force in 1964, “I went back to the But, to jump ahead a little in his story, in 1976 Mr. Bar-
kibbutz, but I wanted to study in the music academy. The zelay and his family moved to the United States, “and I
IDF wanted me to stay, and the kibbutz wanted me to go think two years later I started to go to lessons with him. I
back, but I wanted to go to the academy. It was burning in met him in New York, in Manhattan, because his daughter
my body. The kibbutz said to me that I had to work for two lived there, and then I would go to London for lessons. I
years there, and after that we can send you. And I said, would stay with him for one week in his home every two
Abe Barzelay played harmonica at his 1968 wedding ‘No. I want it now.’” months. He did not let me stay in a hotel.” They became
to Batya. He applied to the country’s two biggest music schools, so close, in fact, Mr. Barzelay added, that he played har-
one in Tel Aviv and the other in Jerusalem, asking for both monica at Mr. Adler’s funeral, in 2001.
“The player at that concert was a harmonica player admission and a scholarship. Both turned him down. He Meanwhile, Mr. Barzelay married; his first wife, Batya, a
named Shmuel Gogol,” he continued. “To understand this had no formal training in music, and anyway the harmon- gifted photographer, died in 2004. In the spare time that
part of my story, you have to know his story.” ica was a toy, wasn’t it? it is impossible to imagine he had, he played sports on the
Shmuel Gogol was born in Poland in 1924; he was But then something happened. kibbutz. “When I was in the IDF, I took the championship
orphaned, and ended up in the orphanage run by Janusz “My girlfriend at the time was Nechama Hendel, and
Korczak, the famous Polish Jewish educator who refused she was the biggest singer in Israel,” Abe said. “She was
to leave his charges and instead accompanied them to really a star.”
their deaths — and his own — in Treblinka. The Haifa Symphony was planning a concert, and “a
Before the Nazis came, Korczak would give children a friend invited me to play two solo pieces there,” he went
coin — the Polish equivalent of a penny — whenever their on. Ms. Hendel “invited the president of the music acad-
teeth would fall out, Abe said. “He gave coins to Gogol, emy in Tel Aviv and the president of the music academy
and eventually, when all his teeth had fallen out, Gogol in Jerusalem to the concert. She was a queen; if the queen
went to him, and said, ‘You gave me a lot of money. I want invites you, you don’t say no. So they went to the concert,
you to buy me a harmonica with it.’” And he did. and then they went out to coffee with her, and she said,
“A few weeks later, the Nazis came.” Gogol escaped, but ‘So, what do you think?’ And they said, ‘The orchestra is
ended up in Auschwitz, without his instrument, which he eh…’” — to illustrate, Abe puts his hand out, palm flat, and
had to leave behind. In the death camp, he “heard some- rocks it up and down. So-so. “‘But the young kibbutznik is
one playing the harmonica, and he asked to buy it.” They talented, and this is something that we never heard before.’
bartered — the harmonica for two weeks’ worth of bread “So she said, ‘Let me tell you something. You both
— and “Gogol got the harmonica, and a Nazi officer heard rejected him.’
him play, and he got him to play in the death orchestra.” “Long story short, two months later I got two scholar-
That was the group of musicians who sat outside the gas ships, one to the music academy in Tel Aviv and the other
chambers and played as the doomed prisoners were to the music academy in Jerusalem.”
herded in. “And he was playing there, and suddenly he The schools allowed Mr. Barzelay to combine the schol-
saw members of his own family going in there,” Mr. Barz- arships and take personal lessons. “I did the whole pro-
elay said. “And from then on, he played only with his eyes gram and graduated in two and a half years, although it
closed. usually takes four,” he said.
“And he promised himself that if he ever got out alive, Although he also learned how to play the flute, the
he would dedicate himself to teaching kids to play the harmonica was and remains his main instrument. Why
harmonica. is it so undervalued? Because, he said, it is very hard to
“He got lucky, and he survived, and he immigrated to play classical music well on it. It’s easy to begin to play it,
Israel, and a few years after he got there, the mayor of but after that the curve is steep. “You need a special tech-
Ramat Gan, Avraham Krinitzi, heard him play the harmon- nique to work with your shell,” he said, gesturing toward
ica, and said to him, ‘I will give you anything you want. the bottom part of his face; it’s your jaw and the inside Harmonica virtuoso Larry Adler had a formative
What do you want?’ and he said, ‘All that I want is to have of your mouth, including your tongue. “It’s very hard to influence on Abe’s work and life.

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“We moved directly to New Jersey with companies as an extremely high-


because my brother David had moved level troubleshooter. He’s worked with,
here two years earlier. He also has three among other companies, Boeing, which
nieces, who have my heart,” he added. thanked him publicly for the major
“We moved to an attic, and it was improvements he made to its jets’ land-
August, and there was no air condition- ing gear. He worked with NASA; he’s
ing,” he said. “It really was a shock. And responsible for figuring out how to bal-
we came with only $500.” ance the space shuttle. “It was the only
But things got better quickly. “After I was problem that he just couldn’t solve,” his
here a year and a half, I was a consultant, wife, Hana, said. “He was struggling and
and I worked at Carnegie Hall,” he said. struggling with it.
The family soon moved to Teaneck, where “And then one day he and his late wife
Abe and Batya lived until they moved to went to the ballet, and he was sitting and
Paramus, six months before she died. “She watching, and he saw how the ballerina
was happy here every day,” he said. The twirls, with her arms stretched out over
house backs onto a wide swath of green her head, and then she lowered her arms
that runs for miles, from Ridgewood to when she stops.” Hana demonstrates the
Saddle Brook, he said; it’s got a brook, movement, twirling and then lowering
and wildlife, and it’s lovely. “Eight miles her arms to her sides as she slows and
of walks and deer, who just look at you, stops. “He jumped up from his seat, and
like they’re saying, ‘Why are you coming he said ‘I have the solution!’”
to bother us?’” And he did, and NASA has honored
Mr. Barzelay created the Eric Brown The- him for it.
ater during that time. He also created Bruce He’s worked on many other proj-
Springsteen’s home studio, a fact upon ects, including medical technolo�y —
which he expands only when prodded. CAT scans, MRIs, ultrasound devices,
“The story of Bruce’s studio was that mammography machines. “It’s all part
years ago, my friend, the owner of pro- of mechanical engineering,” he said,
fessional studio equipment, asked me almost dismissively; yet another dis-
to come and consult for somebody who cipline he’s mastered, almost without
wanted to build a studio in his house,” trying. Everything that he does, as dis-
Abe said. He didn’t know who the client parate as it is, is connected by math-
was. When he got there, he met some ematics, and the way that intellectual
guy who “introduced himself to me as rigor and clarity of vision combine
‘Bruce,’ and I introduced myself. I said with commonsense and the wisdom
‘I am Abe.’ And when we came to more gained through experience and filtered
details, I asked him what kind of music through logic.
he wants me to design the studio for, so He has at least 23 patents with Boe-
everybody started to look a little white ing, he said, and some with other com-
and they started to look at me. I didn’t panies, but he does not know how
know what happened. many.
“Then it came out that this guy was Mr. Barzelay and Hana Arad married
famous.” in 2014. He continues to work as a con-
Bruce’s last name was Springsteen. sultant and acoustical engineer, and he
Abe didn’t know Springsteen then, and continues to play.
didn’t pretend to, and the singer compli- This summer, he went to Auschwitz,
mented the acoustical engineer on his and he played harmonica there. He
honesty. “The result of this meeting was played the haunting song “Eli, Eli,” the
a very nice studio in his house,” as well as poem about faith and hope written by
an invitation to all Springsteen’s local con- Hannah Senesh, soon before the Nazis
certs, Abe said. killed her.
Mr. Barzelay continued to be a per- He was following the model of his
fectionist. He worked with the conduc- early teacher and inspiration, Shmuel
tor Kurt Masur at the New York Philhar- Gogol, who went back to Auschwitz,
monic for six years; he tells the story of the inferno he had survived, in 1993,
how one day, when they were recording to play the songs that he’d been made
Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 4, union to play then, including the mourning Yid- An Israeli newspaper reported on Mr. Barzelay’s mentor and role model,
rules demanded a break. After the break, dish song “Mayn Shtetele Belz.” In 1993, Shmuel Gogol, who returned to Auschwitz to play there in 1993 and died
“I hear a small noise. So I say, ‘Maestro, he played “with his eyes open,” Mr. Bar- soon afterward; Mr. Barzelay played there, echoing Mr. Gogol, this summer.
stop, please. I hear a noise. Give me a few zelay said. And then, just a few days later,
minutes.’” After checking, ruling out pos- he had a heart attack and died. He was 69
sibility after possibility, he saw that the years old. Who: abraham Barzelay, on harmonica, accompanied by itay Goren on piano
noise was coming from the direction of It’s a life of good and bad that Mr. Barz- What: will play the works of Beethoven, Block, Gershwin, Grieg, Kriesler, sarasate,
the French horns. It came from an elderly elay looks back on, just like everybody’s, and others
player who had switched his hearing aid of course, but arguably more dramatic and When: On saturday, October 20, at 7:30 p.m.
on during the break and forgot to turn it event-filled than most. This is just a sketch,
Where: at the eric Brown theater at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, 411 east Clinton
off. “Kurt started to laugh,” Abe said, and a mere outline, of the hundreds more sto- ave., tenafly
he teased Abele, as he called his acoustics ries that he hasn’t yet told.
Why: as part of the JCC thurnauer school of Music’s guest artist recital series
engineer, for the extraordinary acuity of When he plays at the Eric Brown The-
his hearing. ater on Saturday, Mr. Barzely will be call- How much: tickets are $25
Still, there is another entirely separate ing on all of those stories, as well as the For more information or reservations: Call (201) 408-1465 or go to www.jccopt.org
part to Mr. Barzelay’s career. He consults ones yet to come. and follow the links to the music school’s listing of concerts and events.

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Finance & Planned Giving

The big blockchain lie comes crashing down


Nouriel Roubini In practice, blockchain is nothing more

W
than a glorified spreadsheet. But it has But one need only consider the
ith the value of Bitcoin
having fallen by around
also become the byword for a libertar-
ian ideology that treats all governments,
massive centralization of power
70% since its peak late central banks, traditional financial insti- among cryptocurrency “miners,”
last year, the mother of
all bubbles has now gone bust. More gen-
tutions, and real-world currencies as evil
concentrations of power that must be
exchanges, developers, and
erally, cryptocurrencies have entered a destroyed. Blockchain fundamentalists’ wealth holders to see that
not-so-cryptic apocalypse. The value of
leading coins such as Ether, EOS, Litecoin,
ideal world is one in which all economic
activity and human interactions are sub-
blockchain is not about
and XRP have all fallen by over 80 percent, ject to anarchist or libertarian decen- decentralization and
thousands of other digital currencies have
plummeted by 90-99 percent, and the rest
tralization. They would like the entirety
of social and political life to end up on
democracy; it is about greed.
have been exposed as outright frauds. No public ledgers that are supposedly “per-
one should be surprised by this: four out missionless” (accessible to everyone) massive centralization of power among put our faith in an anonymous cartel sub-
of five initial coin offerings (ICOs) were and “trustless” (not reliant on a credible cryptocurrency “miners,” exchanges, ject to no rule of law, rather than trust
scams to begin with. intermediary such as a bank). developers, and wealth holders to see central banks and regulated financial
Faced with the public spectacle of a Yet far from ushering in a utopia, that blockchain is not about decentral- intermediaries.
market bloodbath, boosters have fled to blockchain has given rise to a familiar ization and democracy; it is about greed. A similar pattern has emerged in cryp-
the last refuge of the crypto scoundrel: a form of economic hell. A few self-serv- For example, a small group of compa- tocurrency trading. Fully 99 percent of
defense of “blockchain,” the distributed- ing white men (there are hardly any nies — mostly located in such bastions of all transactions occur on centralized
ledger software underpinning all crypto- women or minorities in the blockchain democracy as Russia, Georgia, and China exchanges that are hacked on a regular
currencies. Blockchain has been heralded universe) pretending to be messiahs for — control between two-thirds and three- basis. And, unlike with real money, once
as a potential panacea for everything from the world’s impoverished, marginalized, quarters of all crypto-mining activity, and your crypto wealth is hacked, it is gone
poverty and famine to cancer. In fact, it is and unbanked masses claim to have cre- all routinely jack up transaction costs to forever.
the most overhyped — and least useful — ated billions of dollars of wealth out of increase their fat profit margins. Appar- Moreover, the centraliz ation of
technology in human history. nothing. But one need only consider the ently, blockchain fanatics would have us crypto development — for example,

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fundamentalists have named Ethereum
creator Vitalik Buterin a “benevolent
dictator for life” — already has given
highly valuable information should be
recorded publicly.
Moreover, in cases where distributed-
FUNDS
lie to the claim that “code is law,” as if ledger technologies — so-called enter-
the software underpinning blockchain prise DLT — are actually being used,
applications is immutable. The truth they have nothing to do with block-
is that the developers have absolute chain. They are private, centralized,
power to act as judge and jury. When and recorded on just a few controlled
something goes wrong in one of their ledgers. They require permission for
buggy “smart” pseudo-contracts and access, which is granted to qualified
massive hacking occurs, they simply individuals. And, perhaps most impor-
change the code and “fork” a failing tant, they are based on trusted authori-
coin into another one by arbitrary fiat, ties that have established their cred-
revealing the entire “trustless” enter- ibility over time. All of which is to say,
prise to have been untrustworthy from these are “blockchains” in name only.
the start. It is telling that all “decentralized”
Lastly, wealth in the crypto universe blockchains end up being centralized,
is even more concentrated than it is in permissioned databases when they are
North Korea. Whereas a Gini coefficient actually put into use. As such, block-
of 1.0 means that a single person con- chain has not even improved upon the
trols 100 percent of a country’s income/ standard electronic spreadsheet, which
wealth, North Korea scores 0.86, the was invented in 1979.
rather unequal United States scores 0.41, No serious institution would ever
and Bitcoin scores an astonishing 0.88 allow its transactions to be verified by
As should be clear, the claim of an anonymous cartel operating from
“decentralization” is a myth propa- the shadows of the world’s authoritar-
gated by the pseudo-billionaires who
control this pseudo-industry. Now that
the retail investors who were suck-
ian kleptocracies. So it is no surprise
that whenever “blockchain” has been
piloted in a traditional setting, it has
TOMORROW’S
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lost their shirts, the snake-oil salesmen
who remain are sitting on piles of fake
either been thrown in the trash bin
or turned into a private permissioned
database that is nothing more than an
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Scared of outliving
your money?
Questions and answers about QLACs
Malcolm Berko

Dear Readers: I’ve received several • Can I buy a QLAC for my 401(k)?
dozen questions about a relatively new Yes, if you manage the 401(k), but
retirement product called a qualified if your company manages the plan,
longevity annuity contract. Though you must ask the plan administrator.
I’m not an annuity aficionado, I think The maximum contribution is also
this annuity may be an impressive $125,000.
product. Like many folks, if you are • Will QLAC amounts increase? Yes.
concerned about the risk of outliving Today’s $125,000 maximum will be
your money, a QLAC could be an inter- indexed for inflation and then adjusted
esting solution. According to Morning- in $10,000 increments.
star’s mortality tables, the median life
expectancy of a 65-year-old man is 86,
and for a woman, it’s 88. For a mar-
ried couple who are both 65, there’s
a 50 percent chance one of them will A $100,000
live to 92. A $100,000 investment in a
QLAC at age 65 could, by the time you
investment in
are 85, pay you $50,000 a year for life. a QLAC at age
If you’re fearful of living too long, con-
tinue reading.
65 could, by
• What is a QLAC? A qualified lon- the time you
Establish a Donor Advised Fund with
gevity annuity contract is a deferred
income annuity that allows the owner
are 85, pay
Jewish Federation to defer his required minimum distribu- you $50,000 a
• Give stock that has gained in value to lock in your
tion, or RMD. QLACs were authorized
by the Department of the Treasury in
year for life.
July 2014. Currently, with traditional
profit and avoid capital gains taxes retirement plans, participants must • At what age must I begin to take
begin taking distributions at age 70 1/2. distributions? You must begin taking
• Organize your charitable giving in a single account However, the Treasury Department, distributions no later than your 85th
with the approval of Congress, allows birthday. You may begin taking pay-
• Contribute assets at any time and request
retirement plan investors to defer a ment prior to 70 1/2, though it may not
distributions at your convenience portion of their RMD until age 85 via be financially appropriate.
the purchase of a QLAC. • Is there a minimum or maximum
• View and track your charitable giving online • Can I purchase a QLAC at 70 1/2? age to buy a QLAC? The minimum age
Any individual retirement account, or is 18, and the maximum age is 75.
• Get a single tax receipt IRA, owner can purchase a QLAC, as • What if I buy a QLAC and decide I
long as he or she has satisfied his or her don’t want it? The rules are strict. It’s
• Receive a charitable tax deduction RMD requirements. But the maximum irrevocable. When you fund a QLAC, it
issue age is 75. can’t be unfunded.
• Engage family in philanthropic decision making • What is the maximum amount one • What happens if the insured dies
can invest? An investment in a QLAC before payments begin? The pay-
• Demonstrate Jewish Federation’s impact as a
can’t exceed $125,000 or 25 percent ments can be directed to a spouse or
philanthropic force in the broader community of the money in your traditional IRAs, beneficiary.
whichever is less. • What are my tax liabilities? The
• Can I buy a QLAC with my Roth exact tax responsibility depends on
IRA? Roth IRA balances can’t be put your marginal tax rate.
into a QLAC, and they are not used in • Can I use the assets in a fixed annu-
the 25 percent calculation above. ity or a variable annuity that is in my
• If I have several retirement IRA to buy a QLAC? Yes. But the Trea-
accounts, how do I calculate the pre- sury requires a new contract to be
mium? Assume your Roth IRA is worth written, and you will have to pay any
$200,000, your traditional IRA has a early withdrawal fees or market value
$400,000 balance and your 401(k) is adjustments.
worth $300,000. Follow the numbers: • What insurance company should I use?
1) Roth funds are not included when Select the insurer with the highest finan-
calculating your QLAC investment cial rating and an insurance professional
amount. 2) Your $400,000 IRA allows whom you can trust implicitly. Northwest-
you to invest 25 percent, or $100,000, ern Mutual, MassMutual and MetLife are
in a QLAC. 3) If you transfer $100,000 excellent insurers.  Creators.com
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Gambling and losing


the Social Security game
Tom Margenau for my Social Security earlier. But what
What’s special
I want to know now is what can I do
I have written many columns caution-
ing people to not play around too much
with their Social Security benefits by
to make sure my wife gets the highest
widow’s benefit possible? Just so you
know, my full retirement age benefit
about a Jewish
trying to squeeze every last nickel out would have been $2,480.

legacy gift?
of their nest egg. A: I am so sorry to hear about your
And I know where the compulsion health prognosis. And it certainly is
to do this comes from. Senior citizens noble of you to be thinking about your
are barraged with messages in the mail, wife at a time like this. If you really want
in media and online, telling them that her to get the highest widow’s benefit
they are missing out on thousands of possible, then you should simply not
dollars in benefits if they don’t employ file for any Social Security benefits.
some kind of “maximizing” strategy. Upon your death, your wife’s widow’s
And then they are encouraged to attend rate will be based on what you would
seminars or buy books that supposedly have been due at the time of death.
will tell them the secrets to this hidden Let me explain. You get an extra
treasure trove of benefits.
Essentially, the “secret” message
comes down to this: Wait as long as
credit of two-thirds of 1 percent added
to your benefit rate for each month you
delay taking Social Security after age
You care about Jewish community.
possible to file for your benefits. If you 66. Let’s say you pass away at the age
know you are going to live into your late of 68 years and 6 months. That would A “legacy gift” means that you donate
80s and beyond, that might be good be a total of 30 months after age 66,
advice. But of course, no one really meaning an extra 20 percent would current assets or put plans in place for a
knows how long he or she is going to be added to your retirement benefit, future gift that will generate income for
live. Today’s questions come from peo-
ple, or from spouses of people, who future charitable needs.
gambled on their longevity and, sadly,
lost that bet.
Q: My husband waited until age 70 to
file for his Social Security. He died two
Senior citizens
are barraged Top 10 reasons to make a legacy gift to
months ago. He was 71. Since he turned
66, I had been encouraging him to file with messages Jewish Federation
for Social Security. He never listened.
He said our financial planner told him in the mail, • Demonstrate gratitude for life’s blessings
to delay filing for benefits as long as
possible. That’s what he did. And look
in media and • Give back or “pay it forward”
what happened! Please tell your read- online, telling • Inspire children and grandchildren
ers that it isn’t always worth it to try to them that they
get the highest benefit possible. • Impart Jewish values and traditions
A: I’m so sorry to hear about your are missing out
husband’s death. But thank you for
sharing your message. In defense of
on thousands • Contribute resources for a specific cause

financial planners, I will pass along this of dollars in • Provide financial stability for Jewish organizations
bit of advice from a good friend of mine
who is one. He said his job is to help
benefits here and in Israel

people plan for, and be financially pre-


• Care for Jews in need, always
pared for, what possibly might happen which would become your wife’s wid- • Benefit from tax savings
— not for what probably will happen. ow’s benefit. So she would get $2,976
And I guess it’s possible your husband per month in widow’s benefits. • Be remembered for doing good
might have lived a much longer life. But let’s just look at another option.
There is an upside to your husband You might want to file for benefits right • Protect your investment in the community
delaying starting his Social Security now. And you could claim up to six
benefits. Because he did that, you will months in retroactive benefits. In other
get higher widow’s benefits. Assuming words, your benefit start date would be
you are 66 or older and are not getting age 67 and 6 months. That would be 18
higher benefits on your own record, months after age 66, which translates
you will get his full benefit, including into an extra 12 percent in delayed
the 32 percent in delayed retirement retirement credits. So your benefit rate
credits he got for waiting until age 70. would be $2,777 per month. And that
Q: I just turned 68 years old. I was would be your wife’s eventual wid-
planning to wait until 70 to apply for ow’s rate. That is $199 less per month
my Social Security. However, I was than the first option I gave you. How-
recently diagnosed with stage 4 non- ever, you would get a back paycheck of
Hodgkin lymphoma. I probably have $16,662. (And that does not include any For more information, please contact
less than six months to live. I realize possible back pay spousal benefits your
Robin Rochlin at 201-820-3970 or robinr@jfnnj.org
now I made a bad decision by not filing See Social Security page 29

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this episode better, I have long rec- already been accomplished.
ommended four books, in particular: To be sure, there still would have
“Manias, Panics, and Crashes,” by the been around $750 billion worth of
You can Make a Difference twentieth-century economist Charles P. financial-asset losses in the form of
Kindleberger; “This Time Is Different,” defaults on subprime mortgages and
Feeding the Hungry by Carmen M. Reinhart and Kenneth home-equity loans. But that is only one-
S. Rogoff of Harvard University; “The quarter of what global equity markets
Caring for the Elderly Shifts and the Shocks,” by the Financial lost in seven hours on October 19, 1987.
Times economics commentator Mar- In other words, it would not have been
Helping those in Crisis tin Wolf; and “Hall of Mirrors,” by my enough to sink the global financial sys-
University of California, Berkeley, col- tem. Ben Bernanke, then chair of the
league Barry Eichengreen. U.S. Federal Reserve, seemed confident
Now, I want to add a fifth book to in the summer of 2008 that the correc-
the list: “A Crisis of Beliefs: Investor tion in housing prices had not triggered
Jewish Family & Children’s Services Psychology and Financial Fragility,” by any unmanageable financial crisis. At
of Northern New Jersey the economists Nicola Gennaioli and the time, he was mainly focused on the
Andrei Shleifer. (Full disclosure: Shle- dangers of rising inflation.
has served Bergen and Passaic counties ifer was my roommate in college and And then the bottom fell out. The
for generations graduate school; to this day, I credit reason, Gennaioli and Shleifer show,
him with whatever positive skills or is that beliefs changed. Investors
reputation I may have.) came to believe that financial mar-
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tem became a reality. Like triage nurses
investors in an emergency room, they quickly
scrambled to assessed the patient and then ran with
their initial diagnosis as if there were
dump assets. no other option.
And yet nothing about the fallout
“A Crisis of Beliefs” is important for from the crisis was inevitable. Had the
three reasons. First, it offers a welcome Fed been in possession of contingency
rejoinder to those who argue that the plans for putting too-big-to-fail institu-
past decade was an unavoidable result tions into receivership and becoming
more than 411,000 likes. of the housing bubble in the United the risk-bearer of last resort, we would
States. Many experts still claim that the probably be living in a very different

Like us on Facebook. bubble’s deflation triggered the finan-


cial crisis. But the fact is that the bub-
ble had already deflated substantially
world today. Unlike those who look
back and conclude that it was all an
inevitable consequence of the housing
before the crisis erupted. bubble, Gennaioli and Shleifer recog-
Recall that by mid-2008, home prices nize the central role that contingency
had returned to, or even fallen below, played in the crisis and its aftermath.

J. Bradford DeLong is Professor of Economics at the University of California at Berkeley


and a research associate at the National Bureau of Economic Research. He was Deputy
Assistant U.S. Treasury Secretary during the Clinton Administration, where he was
heavily involved in budget and trade negotiations. His role in designing the bailout
facebook.com/jewishstandard of Mexico during the 1994 peso crisis placed him at the forefront of Latin America’s
transformation into a region of open economies, and cemented his stature as a leading
voice in economic-policy debates.
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Gennaioli and Shleifer’s second
important contribution is to show that
Transform Lives
“crises of beliefs” like the one that pre-
cipitated the disaster of 2008-2009 are
deeply rooted in human psychology, so
Gennaioli and
much so that we will never be free of Shleifer’s
them. Thus, neither prudent policies
nor crisis-response measures should
investors-as-
treat these occurrences as flukes or triage-nurses
one-off exceptions. Crises of belief are
manifestations of a chronic condition
framework
that must be managed. shows great
Thus, central banks and fiscal
authorities should not use the end of
promise
a crisis as an excuse to step back or to for being
take their hands off the wheel. When
fundamental beliefs have shifted per-
considered
manently, one should not expect the alongside other
same policy mix that supported full
employment, low inflation, and bal-
model-building
anced growth before the crisis to do strategies.
so afterwards. Moreover, the seeds of
the next Kindlebergian sequence – dis- now, no alternative approach has ever
placement, optimism, enthusiasm, gained any traction. Gennaioli and
crash, panic, revulsion, discrediting Shleifer’s investors-as-triage-nurses
– have already been sown by the very framework shows great promise for
policies that were needed to address being considered alongside other
the last downturn. model-building strategies.
The third reason why Gennaioli and For a decade now, people have been
Shleifer’s book is important is more looking for a silver lining to the disas-
technical, and applies directly to the ters of 2008-2018, hoping that this
field of economics. Economists have period will bring about a more produc-
long recognized that requiring one’s tive integration of finance, behavioral
representative agent to hold rational economics, and macroeconomic ortho-
expectations of the future tends to pro- doxy. So far, they have been searching
duce models that are profoundly inap- in vain. But with the publication of “A
plicable to the real world. But, until Crisis of Beliefs,” there is hope yet.

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Chelsea soccer club develops a plan to combat


anti-Semitism by fans: Send them to tour Auschwitz
CNAAN LIPHSHIZ The team’s owner, Roman Abramovich, who is Jewish, has offenders, according to the report, which said the
spearheaded the initiative to combat anti-Semitism, according Auschwitz trips would be “educational.” Fans who
The British soccer club Chelsea is planning to send fans who to a report about the plan in the Sun. Chelsea would cover all do not wish to go to Auschwitz would face season
are caught chanting anti-Semitic songs on a tour of Auschwitz, the costs. bans or longer penalties.
the former death camp, rather than punishing them. The tours will replace the team’s policy — it now bans The initiative is designed to combat the prevalent phe-
nomenon of anti-Semitism in soccer chants, especially
when Chelsea faces the Tottenham Hotspur, a north Lon-
don group widely associated with the Jewish people.
Many Hotspur fans refer to themselves proudly as
ts “yids.” Supporters of rival teams taunt them with anti-
Presen
Fed eration Semitic chants, including about the Holocaust in what
Jewish
anti-Semitism experts say is a major arena of banali-
zation of the Holocaust and mainstreaming of anti-
Semitic hate speech.
Several other soccer teams throughout Europe are
associated with Jews, none more than Amsterdam’s Ajax,
whose fans fly Israeli flags at matches. Supporters of rival
teams often chants about Hamas, the SS, and gassing Jews.
“If you just ban people, you will never change
their behavior,” the Sun quoted Chelsea chairman

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Bruce Buck as saying. “This policy gives them the
chance to realize what they have done, to make them
want to behave better.”
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joyceg@jfnnj.org • 201-820-3907 www.jfnnj.org/filmfestival effective, and we will consider more as well as other
things that will affect people,” Buck said.
Committee Suzette Diamond (Chair), Lauri Bader, Susan Benkel, Ariella Drori, Nancy Eichenbaum, Etti Inbal, The idea has been backed by the World Jewish Con-
Nina Kampler, Donna Kissler, Joan Krieger, Lynn Karpo-Lantz, Gail Loewenstein, Jo Resnick Rosen, gress, the Holocaust Education Trust, and a leading Jew-
Marian Salamon, Ava Silverstein, Wendy Zuckerberg ish scholar, Rabbi Barry Marcus.
“Banning doesn’t work,” Marcus said.
Critics of correctional trips like the ones envisaged by
Chelsea say they are ineffective because of how many
offenders do not suffer from particular ignorance about
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Film takes contemporary look at Waldheim resume:


U.N. chief, Austrian president, and stalwart Nazi
TOM TUGEND the protesters against his campaign at the time was Ruth
Beckermann, a budding Jewish Viennese filmmaker who
LOS ANGELES — Kurt Waldheim managed an impressive shot some of the larger Austrian demonstrations against
feat. Waldheim and the counter rallies.
After serving as a soldier and intelligence officer in the Some decades and more than a dozen films later —
Nazi army during World War II, he was twice elected sec- including the very Jewish documentaries “Zorro’s Bar
retary-general of the United Nations before topping off his Mitzvah” and “Toward Jerusalem” — Beckermann decided
career as president of his native Austria from 1986 to 1992. to take another look at her earlier footage.
How did he do it? Her new film, “The Waldheim Waltz,” choreographs the
Largely by massaging his biography to convince the agile steps of one of the odder actors in recent world his-
world that he had been merely an ordinary soldier dur- tory, whose career nevertheless still can be seen as a fore-
ing the war and that he simply had been following orders. bear of recent political swings in Europe and the United
He also persuaded his fellow countrymen and the world States. The film, recently selected as her country’s entry
that Austria was the first victim of Nazi aggression when Kurt Waldheim in a still from Ruth Beckermann’s film into the Oscars’ foreign film race, opens in New York on
native son Adolf Hitler annexed the country in 1938 — to “The Waldheim Waltz.” COURTESY OF RUTH BECKERMANN October 19 and gets a national rollout to other cities start-
nationwide enthusiasm. ing on November 16.
As a popular joke at the time had it, Austrian diplo- German, was Austrian. In the early 1980s, between Waldheim’s terms as U.N.
mats managed to convince the public that Hitler, an Nevertheless, by the time Waldheim ran for president in secretary-general and Austrian president, the World
Austrian, was a native German, and that Beethoven, a 1986, his war record had come back to haunt him. Among SEE WALDHEIM PAGE 63

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Democrats push back after New York Times


says the party is drifting on policy toward Israel
RON KAMPEAS Netanyahu, arising in part from his open article, “We’re talking about a handful of Lara Friedman, the president of the
pro-Trump partisanship. people; they’re certainly not going to move Foundation for Middle East Peace, com-
WASHINGTON Senator Robert Menendez The Times named four candidates chal- Congress’s wall-to-wall support for Israel.” piled statements from 10 legislators in her
(D-N.J.) hardly has to establish his pro- lenging for seats in the U.S. House of Rep- Nevertheless, the Times helps shape the weekly legislative roundup, including Jew-
Israel bona fides. resentatives: Ilhan Omar in Minnesota, narrative, so Democrats are pushing back. ish and black Democrats and Rep. Steny
He is guaranteed a standing ovation Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez in New York, “Today I want to once again reaffirm Hoyer (D-Md.), the Democratic whip.
every time he appears at the annual con- Rashida Tlaib in Michigan, and Leslie that the United States Congress stands Rep. Beto O’Rourke (D-Texas), who
ference of the American Israel Public Cockburn in Virginia. All four have been firmly behind a strong U.S.-Israel relation- is hoping to unseat Republican Senator
Affairs Committee, and pro-Israel politi- tough on Israel in the past, and commen- ship,” Menendez said in a statement sent Ted Cruz, is telling constituents that “he
cal donors are lining up to back him in an tary from Omar has been outright hostile. on October 10. “As threats to Israel con- believes Israel is critically important to
unexpectedly close race for re-election. Tlaib favors ending assistance to Israel. tinue to increase, as her enemies continue the United States because it is the home
But the New Jersey’s senior senator (Others mentioned in the article have been to grow ever-closer, the United States will of the Jewish people, because it is an
joined a gaggle of colleagues last week in targeted by Republicans using guilt-by- stand firm in our commitments.” exemplary democracy that shares our
reaffirming one of his signature issues after association tactics, but have conventional He added: “Despite partisanship inter- values, and because it is a crucial contrib-
the New York Times suggested that the views on Israel.) fering with so many pressing policy issues utor to our national security objectives in
Democrats’ support for Israel is tottering. In the piece, Matt Brooks, the executive today, an overwhelming majority of mem- the region.”
The story, headlined “A New Wave of director of the Republican Jewish Coali- bers of all political parties continue to Representative Grace Meng (D-N.Y.), as
Democrats Tests the Party’s Blanket Sup- tion, laments the “fact that this is allowed reaffirm Congressional support for this solidly pro-Israel as Menendez, reminded
port for Israel,” may have overstated its to metastasize in the Democratic Party relationship.” reporters this week of her leading role in
case. There have been a handful of high- without any real pushback.” Rep. Ted Deutch (D-Fla.), who is Jewish securing defense assistance for Israel.
profile nominees among Democrats Others deny that it’s a “wave” — at least and the ranking Democrat on the House And Chuck Schumer, the New York sena-
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on the 538 blog unless otherwise noted.) RON COHEN, CPA; 17th District covering Silicon Val-
ley, challenging incumbent Democrat Ro Khanna.
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attacks in 2001 were an inside job, that Michelle Obama
NEW YORK is a man, and that the Obamas’ children were sired by
LEE ZELDIN, 38; 1st others. He has deleted or apologized for some of these
District, eastern Long theories, but the California GOP has said it will not assist
Island, in Congress him and county GOPs have pulled their endorsements.
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Trump from charges Rep. Lee Zeldin Wasserman Schultz. He is a frequent contributor to
that his campaign col- Frontpage Mag, where he recently wrote about a pur-
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cies on stemming undocumented immigration and has Prospects: Nil.
sponsored legislation that would revoke the citizenship
of Americans found to be members of gangs. MASSACHUSETTS
Jewish stuff: An email from the Republican National JOSEPH SCHNEIDER, consultant to the aerospace
Committee sent to New York Jewish Republicans called industry; 6th District in the state’s northeast corner, Traditional. Modern. Contemporary.
Zeldin “perhaps the most important pro-Israel” member challenging incumbent Democrat Seth Moulton.
of Congress. He has joined and in some cases led many Know this: Schneider’s family fled from communist Traditional. Modern. Contemporary.
legislative efforts championed by the centrist and right- Romania when he was a child, and he became a Green
wing pro-Israel community, including bids to cut fund- Beret. He told the Boston Globe’s Jeff Jacoby that he is
ing to the Palestinians. Zeldin was a leading opponent not a fan of Trump’s “cult of personality” but chides
of the Iran deal. Democrats for reflexively opposing the president.
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Guide Senator Jeff Van Drew. NEW YORK was the president of the campus Hillel.
FROM PAGE 33 Know this: The National Republican AMEER BENNO, lawyer; 4th District He moved to New York to work in cloth-
June, she said the Jewish-founded Franklin Congressional Committee has cut off encompassing parts of Nassau County, ing. Trump’s friendship with Russian
Hills Country Club canceled a planned fun- this former Atlantic City councilor, who challenging incumbent Democrat Kath- President Vladimir Putin rattles Rabin. “I
draiser for her, and she decried a lack of has on his Facebook page linked to rac- leen Rice. have a big problem with people humor-
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Endorsements: Republican Jewish victory was an upset over an establish- for Hillel International and Camp murderer,” he told Town-Village, an East
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Prospects: Not great: a 1 in 6 chance of cally embraced Trump and has adopted Bellmore Jewish Community Council ing the purchase of assault rifles.
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Know this: The district includes a sub- ing Princeton University, challenging challenging longtime incumbent Jerrold Know this: Goldstein’s campaign
stantial population of Chaldeans, the incumbent Democrat Bonnie Watson Nadler. website says she has been active in the
ancient community of Iraqi Christians Coleman. Know this: Levin’s campaign bio says Republican Jewish Coalition and Chris-
who speak a version of Aramaic. He told Know this: Kipnis does not mention she speaks four languages, including tians United for Israel. She has also been
the Chaldean News that as a Jew he feels Trump on his website and favors a path Hebrew and Russian, “spoken by many active with ACT! for America, a group the
an affinity with the group, noting that to citizenship for “dreamers,” undocu- in the district.” Anti-Defamation League calls the “largest
both communities have preserved the mented migrants who came as chil- Prospects: Nil. anti-Muslim group in the United States.”
Aramaic language. dren, a position directly at odds with Prospects: Nil.
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state’s liberal tendencies. Kipnis praised District, encompassing Manhattan’s East PENNSYLVANIA
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encompassing the state’s south, running Prospects: Extremely unlikely: a 1 in Know this: Rabin, from South Caro- of Philadelphia, challenging incumbent
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Tiny Denmark, which protected all of its Jews,


commemorates the Holocaust in ‘upbeat’ fashion
CNAAN LIPHSHIZ There are other ways in which what happened in Den- their escape, which was carried out with the help of their
mark contrasted with the rest of Nazi-controlled Europe. family doctor, the late resistance hero Borghild Andersson.
COPENHAGEN, DENMARK — All over the world, Annelise Tchernia, 79, recalls finding her family’s home Andersson also took care of Tchernia’s childhood home,
Holocaust commemoration events follow a certain “exactly as we left it” after she and her parents returned letting those in need of housing stay there — but under the
protocol. from Sweden. They had spent at least three years there after SEE DENMARK PAGE 38
They usually are somber affairs, where participants
dress modestly, in dark colors, and they usually fea-
ture a soulful rendition of the “El Malei Rachamim”
prayer, sung by an anguished cantor who names Nazi
death camps and the horrible ways Jews were mur-
dered there.
Less traditional ceremonies may include a low-key
mourning song, often from Israel, and “Hatikvah,” the
Israeli national anthem.
Not so in Denmark, the world’s only country where
nearly all the members of the Jewish minority were
rescued from the Holocaust by the local population
in a grassroots operation that involved thousands of
people. It culminated 75 years ago, when 7,200 Jews
from the Nazi-occupied Scandinavian land were fer-
ried aboard small ships to neutral Sweden in a matter
of just a few days.
The annual commemoration here occurs on the
anniversary of the rescue. There is mourning for the
51 Jews from Denmark who died in the genocide. But
it is mostly a cheerful event, where one unique com-
munity unites to celebrate its rescue amid song, back-
slapping, expressions of gratitude, and sometimes a
festive communal dinner.
This was certainly the case earlier this month, on
the 75th anniversary of the rescue.
On October 11, hundreds filled the Great Syna-
gogue of Copenhagen to capacity, greeting their
Crown Prince Federik with a silent ovation and
Israeli President Reuven Rivlin with a roaring one.
Susanne Bier, an Oscar-winning Jewish director,
wore a tight red dress reminiscent of gala wear. The
ceremony ended with an upbeat performance by a
girls choir from a Jewish school singing “Ya’ase Sha-
lom” and a patriotic Danish song written by national
writer Hans-Christian Andersen.
“This ceremony has some sadness for those who
didn’t make it and for our brethren who perished,”
said Helle Fromberg, a kindergarten teacher whose
mother was rescued. “But inevitably it’s also a celebra-
tion of the rescue, without which most of the people
here would not be alive today.”
Fromberg and her husband, Norwegian-born
Thomas Gorlen, celebrate how the Danish resistance
movement made the country a more hospitable place
for its Jews right up to the present. “There is this men-
tality here that it doesn’t matter so much who or what
you are as long as you follow the rules and integrate,”
he said. “And Danish Jews did, so they were never seen
as the ‘other.’”
The couple, who lived together in Norway, are “very
happy we ended up settling in Denmark and raising
our children here,” Fromberg said. Denmark’s his-
tory means that “the Jewish community is more self-
assured and belonging” than in countries where Jews
were killed by the Nazis, most often with significant
collaboration by locals.
“Throughout most of Europe, police helped the
Nazis kill the Jews,” Fromberg said. “Here, police
helped the Jews escape the Nazis. Of course this has
a profound effect on how a Jew feels growing up in
this society.”

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Denmark attack on Danish Jews,” he said, “is an
FROM PAGE 37 attack on Denmark.”
condition that they leave as soon as the Still, Danish Jewry’s rescue had less
owners return. photogenic aspects. Many of the fisher-
Whereas some Danish Jews did lose men and sailors who transported the
some property during their absence, its Jews to Sweden across to Oresund Straits
return in full to others is almost unheard demanded payment, in some cases the
of anywhere else in Europe, where equivalent of thousands of dollars. Tch-
countless survivors and asylum seekers ernia remembers that on the eve of her
who returned were turned away, some family’s departure, her father called his
Musical T with deadly violence. bank manager after hours to receive
heater In Denmark, concern for the Jews ran enough cash to pay for the boat ride.
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for Kids did not, contrary to popular myth, ride
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Serving the Jewish community
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the leaves start to change, a a half-cup serving of pureed pumpkin,
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Hackensack University Medical Center among first hospitals


to acquire innovative da Vinci single port robotic systems

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ackensack Meridian Health urinary tract reconstruction surgery. of the year. Michael Stifelman, chair of urology and
Hackensack University Medi- “Hackensack Meridian Health is com- “Hackensack University Medical Cen- director of robotic surgery, Hackensack
cal Center is among the first mitted to pushing the boundaries of medi- ter is the first in New Jersey and among University Medical Center. “Hackensack
hospitals in the world to cine to reach new heights of research the first hospitals in the world to acquire University Medical Center is focused on
acquire the innovative da Vinci single port and innovation,” said Robert C. Garrett, the da Vinci single port robotic system,” bringing the most advanced technol-
(SP) system, a cutting-edge robotic-assisted co-CEO, Hackensack Meridian Health. “It said Dr. Ihor S. Sawczuk, regional presi- ogy and the most experienced surgeons
technology used by surgeons to perform is no surprise that Hackensack Univer- dent, Northern Market, Hackensack together to constantly improve patient
complex urological procedures. Hacken- sity Medical Center, which is a center for Meridian Health. “Hackensack Univer- outcomes. The da Vinci SP technology is
sack University Medical Center, a center excellence in advanced robotic surgery, is sity Medical Center is a world leader in transformative as it enables our surgeons
for excellence in advanced robotic sur- among the first hospitals in the world to robotic surgery, and we look forward to to perform the most complex surgeries
gery, is the first and only hospital in New acquire the groundbreaking da Vinci SP utilizing this innovative technology to in the hardest to reach places, using just
Jersey to have access to this groundbreak- technology. We look forward to utilizing improve patient outcomes.” one small incision.”
ing technology. this revolutionary technology to deliver “Hackensack University Medical Cen- The da Vinci SP is the fourth-genera-
The da Vinci SP technology’s revolution- the health care of tomorrow, today.” ter’s urologic robotics program is the top tion da Vinci surgical device. The FDA
ary design enables single port surgery, This pioneering technology will enable program in New Jersey, has the highest approved da Vinci SP for urologic proce-
narrow access surgery, triangulation, and Hackensack University Medical Center’s volume of procedures in the state and top dures in June 2018. It is anticipated that
360-degree rotation. Surgeons only need to renowned urologic robotics program three in the New York Metro area,” said within the next year, the FDA will decide
make a one-inch incision utilizing da Vinci to perform the most complex surgeries Mark D. Sparta, president of Hackensack on the approval of the da Vinci SP for addi-
SP, which may cause less stress, shorten through a one-inch incision. The medi- University Medical Center. “Since 2002, tional procedures, such as ear, nose and
recovery time, and improve cosmesis. cal center will acquire the technology Hackensack University Medical Center throat (ENT) and colorectal surgery.
Currently, the robotic system has received in November and train a select group of has established a center for excellence in For additional information about Hack-
U.S. Food & Drug Administration (FDA) advanced urologic surgeons and staff. robotic urological surgery.” ensack University Medical Center’s urol-
approval for minimally invasive surgery Hackensack University Medical Center “This acquisition places Hackensack ogy robotics department, visit https://
in urologic procedures, including pros- surgeons anticipate performing their first University Medical Center’s urology www.hackensackumc.org/services/
tate cancer, kidney cancer, and advanced surgery with da Vinci SP before the end program on the world stage,” said Dr. urology/our-services/robotic-surgery/.

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Red Cross issues a plea for volunteers to hosts winter blood drives

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very two seconds someone in the U.S. needs are made at blood drives hosted by volunteers, blood drive drive logistics, and I help by asking my friends and family to
blood. To help meet the constant demand partners play a vital role in helping ensure a sufficient blood schedule an appointment to give blood at the drive.”
for lifesaving blood donations and prevent supply for patients in need. A Red Cross representative works with the host every step
blood shortages this winter, the American Organizing a blood drive is easier than many expect, and of the way, providing planning assistance, tools to recruit
Red Cross is urging individuals and organizations to be blood drive coordinator Joe Turner agrees. Since 2016, Turner blood donors, equipment and supplies, and the trained staff
winter heroes by hosting a blood drive. has hosted an annual blood drive at his church in memory needed to screen donors and collect donations. Blood drive
Right now, the Red Cross needs about 6,500 additional of his father, Woody, who battled cancer for many years and hosts provide a large, open location, identify volunteers to
groups across the country to host blood drives in Decem- needed platelets during treatment. support donor recruitment, and recruit and schedule blood
ber, January, and February to ensure blood will be there “Hosting a blood drive with Red Cross is pretty simple,” said donors. Turner actively recruits blood donors for the drive
for patients who rely on blood products. In this area, Turner. “The donor recruitment manager takes care of the using social media, flyers, and a SleevesUp campaign.
about 310 more blood drive hosts are needed. During
the winter, there is often a decrease in the number of
blood drives, which can contribute to blood shortages.
“When someone hosts a blood drive, they give donors
a chance to donate lifesaving blood, in turn helping
to save dozens or even hundreds of lives,” said Cliff
Numark, senior vice president of biomedical services.
“Blood shortages are not uncommon during the win-
ter months, and these shortages could cause delays in
patient care. But with the help of volunteer blood drive
partners, the Red Cross can be better prepared to meet
patient needs all winter long.”
To learn more about hosting a blood drive and to sign
up, visit RedCrossBlood.org/HostADrive. Blood drive
partners who host a drive between December 20 and
January 6 will receive long-sleeved Red Cross T-shirts
for all who come to give, and if the partner achieves its
donation goal, it will be recognized in a national news-
paper highlighting its lifesaving work.
Because more than 80 percent of blood donations

Senior fitness programs


Fitness expert Michael Blauner has been delivering fit-
ness to the Jewish community in New Jersey for over 30
years. His programs have helped countless people enjoy
healthy, happy lives. Many of his clients are seniors.
In order for seniors to enjoy a vibrant, vital, and active

“They cared about me


lifestyle, physical fitness should be a top priority.
There are many ways one can approach getting fit.
Michael Blauner recommends trying numerous methods
until you find your fitness passion and it can be more
than one method . Variety tends to keep people moti- as a person.”
vated. But, most importantly it’s finding an exercise pro-
gram you truly enjoy. This will keep one involved. Some
choices would be cardio-fitness training in the form of
brisk walking; perhaps biking, either indoor or outdoors;
tennis; even gardening can be considered exercise!
There are many options.
However, in order to ensure the maintenance of over-
Valley Health System’s cancer care team
all functional strength, Blauner highly recommends a Alex
sound, safe, and manageable resistance training pro-
now works with Mount Sinai Health System.
Defeated breast cancer
gram that includes his unique style of functional training. In addition to having Mount Sinai doctors
Functional training is his method of using certain exer- practice at Valley, we collaborate so we can
cises that work the body in a way that emulates critical be even better at preventing and beating
daily motions with certain levels of resistance added to cancer. Here’s Alex’s story.
increase strength. This will ensure that your body keeps
its musculature and ability to do all the activities you’ve
Alex was a healthy runner and mother of two.
long enjoyed. There are many ways one can do strength
Cancer was never on her radar because she didn’t
training and Blauner has worked with countless seniors
have a family history. Then, at a yearly wellness
in developing and maintaining their overall health and
visit, Alex’s doctor discovered a cancerous lump
fitness. Strength training plays a large part in that.
in her breast. After careful consideration, she
It has been proven that a senior who has not exer-
chose Valley — a decision that resulted in finding
cised in a significant amount of time can increase their
undiagnosed cancer in her other breast.
strength exponentially in a relatively short amount of
time. So, regardless of your fitness level, it’s always a See how Alex’s decision changed her life at
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BRIAN BLUM algorithms. “A mechanical device might
provide 99 percent accuracy,” Lepek
Mosquito-borne illnesses, responsible says. “But we need more like 99.99996
for up to 750,000 deaths a year world- percent accuracy.”
wide, include tropical killers such as BioMosquito will run much like a bot-
(Resident, Lillian Grunfeld with her daughter, malaria and dengue, along with terrify- tling plant. The mosquitos enter from
Dir. of Community Relations, Debbie Corwin) ing upstarts like Zika, which can cause one end, are sorted and then output
birth defects and have invaded parts of into cartridges, each containing thou-
…WHERE OUR RESIDENTS MAINTAIN THE LEVEL OF INDEPENDENCE the southern United States. sands of male mosquitos. (The females
THEY DESIRE WHILE RECEIVING THE CARE THEY NEED. Google parent company Alphabet, are destroyed.)
along with the International Atomic The cartridges are key to the next step
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• RN DIRECTOR OF WELLNESS PROGRAM CHESTNUT RIDGE, NY 10977 sterile, non-biting male mosquitos into hundred or so meters over its lifetime, so
• RESPITE PROGRAM AVAILABLE an infested area. Senecio’s solution enables a “slow drip”
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targeted region’s mosquito population tridges — that is, opening them one after
can be reduced by up to 80 percent in another in a controlled manner — while
under a month. flying at 250 kilometers an hour. Senecio
Mass deploying such a mosquito- uses software combined with GPS track-
VISIT US ON THE WEB AT PROMENADESENIOR.COM eradication system will require solu- ing to ensure the release is slow enough
tions for separating male mosquitos that the male mosquitos survive the trip.
from the females before they’re intro- Senecio has partnered with Dynamic
duced into the wild, and for safely trans- Aviation, a Virginia-based aircraft firm,
porting the millions of fragile mosquitos to test BioMosquito. Senecio’s new pat-
across wide distances. ent is based on work initially funded by
Israeli startup Senecio has taken on the BIRD Foundation.
this challenge by developing the sorting,
packaging, and distribution technology Puffing out mosquitos
needed to set the plan in motion. Senecio has also received patents to use
The Kfar Saba-based company has its sequential cartridge system on the
already received several patents for its ground and via pilot-less drones, and
mechanisms, which Senecio CEO Hanan for the release pod mechanism itself,
Lepek says are “indifferent to the type of which “puffs” the mosquitos out a tube
mosquito and how you sterilize them.” using air, rather than simply opening
That’s important because there are the door.
several different sterilization methods, The latter is standard operating pro-
including genetic modification (Oxitec’s cedure in developing countries such as
approach), using X-rays (the IAEA’s tech- Brazil and China, where the only deliv-
nique) and introducing a type of bacte- ery system available is often a van or a
ria called Wolbachia that interferes with three-wheeler — or even a worker with
We offer the mosquitos’ chromosomes (which a box of sterile male mosquitos on his or

In-offIce and In-Home is how MosquitoMate and Alphabet’s


Debug work).
her back. A plane, by contrast, can carry
up to 10 million mosquitos at a time.
PHysIcal THeraPy Sex sorting
Lepek estimates that to suppress a
mosquito population properly, anti-
• New State-of-the-Art The first step toward commercializing mosquito warriors must release up to
Physical Therapy Clinic in Tenafly Senecio’s BioMosquito system is “sex 800 sterile mosquitos for every person
• In-Home Physical and Occupational sorting” the critters. Release too many in the targeted area.
Therapy - We bring equipment females and not only do you defeat the We wondered whether ridding a
sterilization goal, you’ve added biting region of mosquitos — even if they carry
to your home mosquitos to the human population (the deadly diseases — might have unex-
• One-on-One Treatment females feed on blood to lay their eggs). pected negative side effects on the eco-
The basic way to sex-sort mosquitos system. Lepek told us not to worry.
is by hand, “checking them one-by-one “These mosquitos are an invasive spe-
Over 20 years We accept using a microscope,” Lepek says. But cies. They’re not supposed to be in the
of experience all insurances since covering even a small geographic cities, so it’s no problem to eradicate
area requires the release of millions of them,” he explains. Nor are they being
Experience the difference of PRIME mosquitos a day, hand-sorting is not “eradicated from the jungles, just from
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Second annual Mark Samitt 5K Run a rousing success

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he second annual Mark Samitt 5K Run was a began and ended at Temple Beth Or in Washington Town- run went smoothly and safely.
smashing success on Sunday, October 14. More ship. The community came together to make this event a The overall top male finisher was Josh Kramer, 25, and
than 180 runners and walkers registered to success with 40 local volunteers deployed at the registra- the overall top female finisher was Ally Greenberg, 19, of
compete on the USATF-certified course, which tion and staging area and out on the course to ensure the Woodcliff Lake. Other top finishers were:

Male 10 and under: Yoel Katzir, age 9, of Tenafly Male ages 30-39: Noah Fabricant, 36, of Ridgewood
Female 10 and under: Dalia Gewirtz, 8, of River Edge Female ages 30-39: Andrea Kapr, 32, of Park Ridge
Male ages 11-14: Andrew Pasdar, 11, of Emerson Male ages 40-49: David Halsband, 47, of Park Ridge
Female ages 11-14: Nicole Dicaprio, 14, of Woodcliff Lake Female ages 40-49: Lauren Cherkas, 42, of Woodcliff Lake
Male ages 15-19: Jason Greenberg, 15, of Woodcliff Lake Male ages 50-59: Phil Mania, 52, of Park Ridge
Female ages 15-19: Sierra Halsband, 16, of Park Ridge Female ages 50-59: Alice Vlasak, 55, of Washington Township
Male ages 20-29: Gary Peters, 20, of Washington Township Male ages 60 and up: Leonard Manis, 63, of Paramus
Female ages 20-29: Ariel Rokito, 24, of Hillsdale Female ages 60 and up: Danielle Manis, 61, of Paramus

All the top sponsorship levels for the Mark Samitt 5K Township Volunteer Ambulance Corps donated their
Run were sold out. Many local sponsors showed sup- emergency services. Balloon Artistry supplied the beau-
port for this charity event by signing on as signature tiful balloon stands at the Start/Finish Line and at the
sponsors. For the second year in a row, Title Sponsor Hackensack UMC at Pascack Valley Winner’s Circle.
was Hackensack UMC at Pascack Valley. This year’s Plat- Proceeds from the run will benefit two of Mark
inum Sponsor was Berkeley College and the Diamond Samitt’s passions: Temple Beth Or and The Melanoma
Sponsor was Porky Products. NIA National Realty, Inc. Research Foundation (MRF). Mark Samitt was a beloved
was the T-Shirt Sponsor. Bagel Nosh of Waldwick and family man, devoted friend, Temple Beth Or board
The Rowbottom Family were this year’s two Gold Spon- member, runner, and successful business professional
sors. Kilometer Marker Silver Sponsors were: Blue Moon who died at age 52 in May 2015 after a long and valiant
Mexican Café, Camp Ramaquois, Haley Stuart Group, fight with melanoma, the deadliest form of skin cancer.
and Nicholas Markets Foodtown of Township of Wash- In the midst of his battle, Mark created Mark the SPOT! —
ington. Bronze Sponsors were: Mania Hair Studio, Weg- a campaign affiliated with the MRF aimed at generating
mans, Abeles Dermatology Aesthetic & Laser Arts, The awareness among the hairstylist community about spot-
Spine & Health Center of New Jersey, Superdome Sports, ting unusual moles or lesions during the routine styl-

A Reason to Smile and The Mittleman Family. Township of Washington’s


Charlie Brown’s Fresh Grill and Knights of Columbus
ing process. The campaign urged stylists, “If you SPOT
something, say something!”
graciously donated their parking lots Sunday morning To learn more about melanoma, Mark the Spot!, and
for volunteers, runners, and walkers. The Washington this event, visit www.marksamittrun.org.

Zika anymore,” Lepek says. The mosquitos, with their short


FROM PAGE 46 lifespans, quickly adapt and “creating new chemicals
of mosquitos, but only three to four are the types we takes a lot of time, money and regulations.”
want to suppress,” Lepek explains. Tops on that list: the Introducing sterile male insects was first tried suc-
Aedes aegypti, which carries Zika, yellow fever and chi- cessfully with fruit flies as far back as 1978. In a famous
kungunya; and the anopheles mosquito, the primary early example, Mexico and Guatemala stopped a med-
carrier of malaria. fly infestation that was threatening millions of acres of
Even so, some mosquito researchers do worry about crops by releasing billions of sterilized flies. Guatemala
a possible environmental cascade effect. While the continues to release 1.3 billion sterile male medflies a
Aedes aegypti are not native to the Western hemisphere, week to maintain a “biological barrier.”
TEANECK DENTIST they’ve settled into the local ecosystem. “We don’t Mosquitos are more fragile than fruit flies, Lepek
think there’s been adequate safety testing of the genetic points out, which is why a more sophisticated approach
change itself,” GeneWatch U.K. director Helen Wallace such as Senecio’s cartridges is required.
We put the Care told Time magazine. And even if the Aedes aegypti were So far, releasing sterile mosquitos has been limited to
into Dental Care! eliminated, another type of mosquito could step in and fairly small trial-size areas, but that could soon change.
continue spreading the same disease. Senecio just raised more than $2 million to commercial-
Richard S. Gertler, DMD, FAGD Still, it’s better than what existed before the advent ize its technology and Lepek has been traveling around
Ari Frohlich, DMD of Sterile Insect Technique (SIT), when mosquitos were the world, attending conferences and meeting with
Sami Solaimanzadeh, DMD killed using pesticides. “Chemicals don’t work well stakeholders. ISRAEL21C.ORG

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Dr. Aalap Chokshi joins Englewood Health Physician Network


Specialist in advanced cardiac imaging welcomes new patients
Cardiologist Aalap Chokshi has joined the Englewood presented team findings at dozens of scientific conferences. Dr. Chokshi is member of the American College of Cardi-
Health Physician Network and Englewood Hospital. He is a recipient of the American Medical Association Foun- ology and the American Heart Association. In addition to
Dr. Chokshi is an expert in the diagnosis and treat- dation’s Award for Overall Excellence in Clinical Research English, he is fluent in Gujarati and has working knowledge
ment of all forms of adult heart disease, with special and served as an abstract reviewer for the American College of Hindi and Spanish.
expertise in advanced cardiac imaging, including car- of Cardiology’s clinical decision-making scientific sessions To reach Dr. Chokshi or to find a physician at Englewood
diac MRI and CT angiography. His clinical interests in 2017 and 2018. Health, visit englewoodhealth.org or call (833) 234-2234.
include coronary artery disease, valvular heart dis-
ease, cardiomyopathy, and congestive heart failure.
He is in practice with Englewood Cardiology Consul-
tants and accepting new patients at their office on
North Dean Street, Englewood.
“My goal is always to develop a relationship of
mutual trust with my patients,” says Dr. Chokshi. “I
believe that by respectfully listening to patients and
educating them about their condition, using the tools
of modern medicine, and practicing evidence-based
When your home
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outcome. I am excited to join the Englewood Health
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tise in advanced cardiac imaging and work closely
with colleagues throughout Englewood Health for the
benefit of patients with heart disease.”
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Dr. Chokshi is board certified in cardiovascular
disease and internal medicine, with additional certi- DAUGHTERS OF MIRIAM CENTER
fications in adult comprehensive echocardiography
and nuclear cardiology. He received his degree from
knows that you want the best for
Albany Medical College and did his internal medicine your elderly loved ones.
t residency at Rhode Island Hospital–Brown University,
. followed by fellowships in cardiovascular disease at With 90 years of experience, we
Tufts Medical Center and in advanced cardiac imag-
know how to make a home for
ing at the Mount Sinai Hospital.
- “We are very excited to welcome Dr. Aalap Chokshi our residents while still meeting
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Dr. Chokshi’s expertise in cardiology will help meet an do it while maintaining the
important need in our community,” said Dr. Stephen Jewish traditions that are the
d Brunnquell, president of the Englewood Health Phy- We know we are among the best and
heart of a home. Daughters of have proven it by becoming a JCAHO
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Editorial
Portraits in courage … not
KEEPING THE FAITH

How to ‘mar’ a perfectly


W legitimate observance
hat exactly is going on in our Ms. Daftari, incensed, said no thank you, in
universities? an ice-cold, entirely appropriate response.

T
Is it a fit of anti-Zionism? An Thanks, Rutgers, for teaching about courage,
anti-Semitic snit? Or a less-ideo- integrity, and the value of truth. omorrow — Saturday, Octo- this column and read it every October
logical but carefully played inter-college spasm Meanwhile, at William Paterson University, ber 20 — is Information 20 because it will overload you with
of sheer cowardice? Professor Clyde Magarelli has retired. Overload Day. information you never realized you
Who should be allowed to speak on cam- Readers might remember Larry’s story about Seriously. could live without and probably will
puses? Everyone? Including anti-Semites and him in our June 5 issue. A student called out his According to the website daysofthe- forget soon after you have googled
racists and overt bigots, whether on the right Holocaust denial, among other instances of anti- year.com, the observance was estab- your way into realizing I did not make
or the left? Or no one who possibly could Semitism and other kinds of virulent and also lished by a group of companies con- any of this up.
cause anybody to feel uncomfortable, per- idiotic racism and other conspiracist lunacy; cerned about how much money was Let us, therefore, discuss the ques-
haps by making that person think? So does as it turns out, Dr. Magarelli had been teaching being lost because employees were tion of what the current Jewish month
that mean no one other than the occasional both standard sociology and less standard les- spending time checking their emails is called.
happy-talk babbler? sons since 1951. There have been complaints and other social media Question No. 1: Is it
How do we figure it out? against him for decades, but it was not until last components. That “Marcheshvan,” as some
Last week, Lisa Daftari, a Middle East analyst year, when the student filmed him on her phone price tag is somewhere call it, or is it “Cheshvan”
— and a young woman whose Iranian Jewish par- and posted the video on Twitter, that the univer- around $180 billion, or “Heshvan,” with or
ents brought her up in Paramus — was set to speak sity took action. which is why Informa- without a dot under the
at Rutgers University, the school from which she’d And this is the action it took — we don’t know tion Overload Day came capital H, which is just
graduated with a triple major in Middle Eastern why Dr. Magarelli, who certainly has reached to be, because “clearly about how every Jewish
studies, Spanish, and vocal performance. retirement age, retired. We don’t know whose something needed to calendar lists it?
Her talk, as Larry Yudelson describes on choice it was — his or the school’s. But we do be done,” the website Question No. 2: Most
page 13, was to be about radicalism on college know what the school said. proclaims. people would answer
campuses. In an email in response to Larry’s question Among the ways to Shammai the previous question
There are perhaps items in her resume that about Dr. Magarelli, the school’s director of pub- “celebrate” the day, it Engelmayer by saying Cheshvan is
trip some people’s alarms, in these incredibly lic relations, Mary Beth Zeman, wrote this: suggests, is to “stop its “real” name. If so,
polarized and unhappy times. She does often “University administrators learned in June checking your email why did someone tack
speak on Fox News, and that in itself is divisive. of complaints by a student against a Univer- every time it dings…, log [into your on that “Mar”?
Beyond that, it might be that a young woman sity professor. The University then began a email] only five times a day…, turn off Question No. 3: Some people may
— and a Jew — daring to speak about Islam thorough process, applying established insti- the ringer on your phone, including opt for “Marcheshvan” as being cor-
might be seen as provocative, even though Ms. tutional procedures, to determine if the pro- the vibration.” rect. If so, why is it correct — or are
Daftari’s goal is not to provoke, but merely to fessor’s teaching and conduct were consistent The trouble is, that could not have they also wrong?
explain and explore. with University policies and standards for aca- worked for many of us, at least not Answer No. 1: Neither Cheshvan
It seems that her talk was canceled after a demic integrity and excellence. While there this year, assuming we are aware of nor Marcheshvan is correct, although
petition circulated calling her “an unapologetic has been no finding of violations of our dis- “I-O Day.” That is because October 20 Marcheshvan comes closer to the
Islamophobe.” She denies that charge angrily. crimination and harassment policies, the pro- is a Shabbat, which means that many actual name.
Rutgers quickly canceled her talk, which had cess revealed issues related to pedagogy and of my faithful readers will go beyond Answer No. 2: The common belief
been planned for more than a year, after worry- teaching effectiveness. The University took these suggestions, and they will do so is that Cheshvan is correct and “mar”
ing that the university could not provide enough appropriate action. Since this is a personnel again next Shabbat, and the one after was added because it means bitter in
security. matter, the details are confidential between that, and so on. Perhaps that means Hebrew, and “Cheshvan” is a “bitter”
Then, Rutgers’ director of public and media the University and the individual faculty mem- that observant Jews observe a Jewish month. Why that is the case is another
relations, John Cramer, wrote an email say- ber. After 51 years of service at William Pater- Information Overload Day 65 times story. Either it is bitter because it is
ing, among other mealy-mouthed apparent son, Dr. Magarelli chose to retire as of Septem- every secular year. (This includes all the month in which the Great Flood
untruths, “Our position on the free exchange of ber 1, 2018.” of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and began (the anniversary of which, by
ideas is clear; the ability to respectfully present, So teaching Holocaust denial, among other the pilgrimage festivals’ opening and the way, was last Shabbat), or because
discuss and debate matters in the public inter- anti-Semitic, racist, and just plain crackpot closing days.) That being the case, it is the only Jewish month in which
est is at the heart of what every great university ideas, is not wrong. The only problem is “issues observing the day on the proper day there supposedly are no formal Jew-
does. Such free and respectful discussion is fun- related to pedagogy and teaching effectiveness,” is one day too much, so how else may ish observances.
damental to Rutgers’ core values and is prac- which is, of course, true, as far as it goes. we observe it? These, however, are just myths.
ticed every day at Rutgers.” So kudos to you, Rutgers, and to you, Wil- My suggestion would be to save Answer No. 3: As noted,
Would that this were true. If it were not true, liam Paterson, for your straightforward,
would that Rutgers would be straightforward clearly reasoned acts of pure courage. Teach Shammai Engelmayer is rabbi of Congregation Beth Israel of the Palisades, now
about it. your students well. — JP in Fort Lee.

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Opinion

Marcheshvan comes closest to the actual name, but


probably it should be pronounced as two words, Talmudic politics of personal abuse

I
“Marach shavan,” as Yemenite Jews pronounce it.
The original name of the month is spelled with letters n the late first century, Rabban Gamliel II, also
that we do pronounce as “Marcheshvan.” In the Babylo- known as Gamliel of Yavneh, was nasi — the pres-
nian Talmud, for example, in tractate Pesachim 94b, we ident, or head — of the Sanhedrin, the Jewish
find “MRCHSHVN” at the center of a three-month cycle people’s national deliberative body and its high-
in which the sun “travels over the seas in order to dry est court. The Sanhedrin tried criminal cases, debated
the rivers,” presumably because that helps bring rain to and determined ritual law, resolved civil disputes, and
agricultural regions. addressed matters of all sorts affecting the public weal.
In BT Rosh Hashanah 7a, there is a lively discussion A brilliant scholar and an able leader, Gamliel had a
of whether Nisan or Tishrei is the “seventh month” fatal character flaw. He repeatedly introduced bitter par-
referred to in the Torah. An anonymous someone pro- tisan rhetoric and ad hominem attacks into the Sanhe-
poses that the actual seventh month is “MRCHSHVN,” drin’s debates. Tellingly, he referred to that august rab-
but this is rejected because the seventh month requires binic institution’s members as baalei trisim — “armored
crops to be harvested, and this month begins after the combatants” (Berachot 27B).
harvest ends. Specifically, a belligerent Rabban Gamliel demeaned
In fact, according to BT Bava Metzia 106b, this month Rabbi Yehoshua on a series of occasions. Before there This version of Talmudic-era debate in the Sanhedrin
is smack in the middle of the planting season, an opin- was a fixed Jewish calendar, there was disagreement is on display at Beit Ha-Tefutzot in Israel.
ion uttered by the head of the Sanhedrin, Rabban Shi- about the scheduling of Yom Kippur. Pre-
mon ben Gamliel II, who was quoting Rabbi Meir, the dictably, Gamliel and Yehoshua took oppos- v’neizil, they said. “How long can we toler-
Sanhedrin’s Number 3 sage at the time (known as the ing positions. In an extraordinary exercise ate this abusive behavior?”
Chacham). That he did quote Rabbi Meir is interesting of his authority, Gamliel ordered Yehoshua Gamliel’s removal, of course, left a criti-
in itself, since he ejected Rabbi Meir from the Sanhedrin to take actions on the day that Yehoshua cal vacancy. Who would succeed him? Not
because of a clash of egos, and then banned anyone believed to be Yom Kippur, and they were Rabbi Yehoshua: he was tainted as a party to
from quoting law in Rabbi Meir’s name (see BT Horayot actions that would desecrate the holy day. the antagonistic exchange. His appointment
13b). We are told that Rabbi Shimon ben Menasya agreed Gamliel thus quashed a dissenting opinion would be too harsh a blow to Gamliel, exacer-
with this opinion, but that Rabbi Yehudah and Rabbi and coerced his colleague to subordinate bating the very divisiveness that the Sanhedrin
Shimon had their own ideas. Both, however, included himself to the nasi’s power. members found so improper. Rabbi Akiba was
“MRCHSHVN” in their opinions. G a m l i e l a l s o p u b l i c ly hu m i l i ate d Rabbi Joseph a prospective successor, but he was rejected
Rashi uses the name at least eight times in the Talmud, Yehoshua in the course of a subsequent dis- H. Prouser (a bit shockingly by today’s democratic stan-
and once in a comment to a verse in last Shabbat’s Torah cussion by the Sanhedrin concerning sacri- dards) because he was of undistinguished
reading (see his comment to Gen. 7:11). We also find it ficial protocols. ancestry. That made him unlike Gamliel, the
in Rambam, in the Shulchan Aruch, and in many other Since Gamliel came to power after the destruction of great-great-grandson of Hillel. Ultimately, 18-year-old Elazar
rabbinic writings. the Temple and the cessation of the sacrificial cult, such ben Azarya was appointed nasi (though his sagacious young
As for why “MRCHSHVN” is more likely pronounced a debate was purely academic; expressions of personal wife expressed well-placed misgivings about assuming lead-
as “Marach shavan,” that takes a bit of explaining. animus were all the more unnecessary. ership in such a toxic political climate!).
The name of the month actually originates in ancient Rabban Gamliel went on to reprise his politics of per- In case you were wondering, the halacha was estab-
Akkadian, a language in which the letters mem and vav sonal abuse on a third and fateful occasion. A student lished in accordance with the view of Rabbi Yehoshua:
are interchangeable, which is then carried over into appeared before Rabbi Yehoshua and asked a matter of Maariv — the evening service — was declared optional.
ancient Hebrew, which also used to interchange the let- ritual and liturgical practice. Is “Maariv” — the evening However, the Jewish people took the evening prayer upon
ters vav and yod. (That is why in the Torah “hee,” mean- prayer — obligatory, or is it optional? Rabbi Yehoshua themselves as a sacred trust, in practical terms render-
ing she, most often is written as “hoo,” meaning he.) ruled that the evening service is optional. For some ing it every bit as obligatory as the morning and after-
Thus, “mar” in Akkadian could be “var,” and “chesh- reason, the same student then went to Rabban Gamliel noon prayers. Popular sentiment forged a compromise
van” could be “cheshman.” Put those letters together and asked the same question. The nasi told the student that entrenched and that partisan national leaders were
and we get “VRCHSHMN” (“VaRaCHSHaMNu”), which that the evening prayer was obligatory. The student unwilling or unable to reach.
actually is two words — “VaRaCH SHaMNu.” In Akka- objected: “But Rabbi Yehoshua says it is optional.” Gam- As for the youthful Elazar, his dark beard famously is
dian, that phrase means “eighth month.” Interchange liel had the student appear before the Sanhedrin when it said miraculously to have sprouted gray hairs overnight.
those letters in Hebrew and you get YRCHSHMN, which next convened and made him ask his question in public. Perhaps that was so that the teenage nasi might look the
is pronounced as two words, “YeReCH SH’MiNi,” and When he did so, Gamliel repeated his ruling: “The eve- part — or perhaps it was a warning, a sign of how the oner-
also means “eight month.” Since Tishrei is the seventh ning prayer is obligatory,” adding imperiously: “Is there ous burdens and challenges of national leadership quickly
month and this month follows it, “YRCHSHMN” is anyone here who disagrees?” age those who occupy high public office.
exactly right. When Rabbi Yehoshua remained silent, Gamliel Elazar’s first act as nasi was to increase transparency in
Now the interchanging comes into play. Instead of sprang his trap, citing Yehoshua’s earlier ruling, portray- the Sanhedrin, by adding 400 (some say 700!) benches to
YRCHSHMN, we get MRCHSHVN. Yemenite Jews divide it ing him as a liar, and threatening to call witnesses before its gallery, accommodating as many scholars and observ-
into two and pronounce it as “MaRaCH SHaVaN,” mim- the Sanhedrin to testify against him. Yehoshua crypti- ers as possible.
icking the two words “YeReCH SH’MiNi.” It is just as easy, cally conceded that he would be unable to contradict Nineteen hundred years ago, Jewish tradition under-
of course, to pronounce MRCHSHVN as “MaRCHeSH- any such witnesses. A vindictive and petulant Gamliel stood … that there must be effective checks on national
VaN,” but that would reduce the name to one word, ordered Yehoshua to stand up, and to remain standing leaders, lest they abuse their power … that dysfunctional
when clearly it began as two words. while the nasi’s lecture and the Sanhedrin’s delibera- national leadership demands a change … that broad popu-
In any case, there is nothing bitter about Marach sha- tions continued. lar engagement in the deliberative process is required …
van, or Marcheshvan. True, the Great Flood began in this It was an act of rank disrespect to Yehoshua, a blatant and that a principled new generation of leaders may have
month, but it also ended in this month (on the 27th, which breach of the great scholar’s dignity, and a willful and a critical role to play.
is November 5 this year) with the exit from the Ark. That is arrogant violation of time-honored norms. “Ad kama n’tza-arei v’neizil?” “How long can we toler-
a sweet thing, not a bitter one. For another, there really is Principled Sanhedrin members — perhaps reflect- ate this abusive behavior?”
a Jewish observance of a sort, Rosh Chodesh, which once ing public sentiment — finally objected to Gamliel’s
upon a time was celebrated as a minor festival and still unseemly, divisive conduct, and deposed him from Joseph H. Prouser is the rabbi of Temple Emanuel of North
retains many of the trappings of one. leadership, removing him as nasi. Ad kama n’tza-arei Jersey in Franklin Lakes.
Too much information? Maybe, but at least now you
can celebrate Information Overload Day every year by The opinions expressed here are those of the authors, not necessarily those of the newspaper’s editors, publishers,
reading this column aloud to anyone willing to listen. or other staffers. We welcome letters to the editor. Send them to jstandardletters@gmail.com.
Then pop a cork and say, “Oy Vey, it’s I-O Day!”

JEWISH STANDARD OCTOBER 19, 2018 51


Opinion

Canary Mission turns bigoted words on bigots

S
omething odd hap- a racist, the world should know.” The site profiles people
pened during the Viet- who are in violation of the U.S. State Department defini-
nam War. tion of anti-Semitism, who support terrorists, who vio-
Actually, a lot of late the personal safety of Jews or supporters of Israel, Canary Mission —
odd things happened during promote BDS, and so on. Canary Mission uses only open
the Vietnam War, but I want sources (tweets, posts, articles, and the like), so there’s no whose name comes
to focus on one of them. Time spying on anybody. from the proverbial
magazine had a cover story Here’s a small sampling of Canary Mission profiles:
about the war. On the cover Alex Abbasi of Harvard called for a stone-throwing inti- canary in the coal mine,
was a picture of a naked, cry- Rabbi Robert fada in Israel, expressed solidarity with terrorist organi- the first alert of danger
ing baby. It turns out the upper L. Wolkoff zations Hamas and Hezbollah, denied that Israel has a
crust ladies of Dallas, Texas, right to self-defense, and claimed that Israel was trying to — catalogues the anti-
took great offense at the idea mutate Palestinians genetically. Israel and anti-Semitic
that Time would do something so atrocious as to show Rabab Abdulhadi, a professor at San Francisco State
a baby’s naked tush on its cover. So they insisted that University, called for a Third Intifada, organized a trip to comments that pollute
every issue of Time magazine had a post-it note glued on the Middle East where participants met with convicted our college campuses.
to cover the baby, and thereby avoid offending the good terrorist and hijacker Leila Khaled, and supports BDS.
citizens of Dallas. Mohammad G. Hammad, a former student at San
The irony, of course, is that if anything was atrocious, it Francisco State, praised the terrorist organization PFLP, Who, in case you didn’t know, is us.
was the war itself, not the baby’s tush. But in this case the and posted a picture of himself holding a knife and say- Atrocious stuff, certainly. And you would think that a
real atrocity was ignored, while there was endless cluck- ing, “I seriously can not get over how much I love this website that identified these people should be congratu-
clucking and tut-tutting about the evidence of the atrocity. blade. It is the sharpest thing I own and cuts through lated. After all, when the neo-Nazis from Charlottesville
Something similar is taking place today with a website everything like butter and just holding it makes me want were named and shamed, nobody complained about it.
called Canary Mission. to stab an Israeli soldier.” He also commented that when To the contrary. @YesYoureRacist has nearly 400 thou-
Canary Mission — whose name comes from the pro- he saw a picture of an Israeli soldier, “The only ‘peace’ sand followers.
verbial canary in the coal mine, the first alert of danger I’m interest in is the head of this f•cking scum on a plate, But now, believe it or not, Canary Mission itself — not
— catalogues the anti-Israel and anti-Semitic comments as well as the heads of all others like her, and all others the anti-Semites it exposes — is under fire.
that pollute our college campuses. Its motto is: “If you’re who support the IDF.” Why? Well, beside the gutter anti-Semites like Hammad,

‘Our Struggle Is My Struggle’


Three inspired hoaxers expose the dangers of grievance studies

T
he world of aca- indigenous astrology,” was enthusiastically received by
demia has been academic reviewers with a request for only minor revi-
riveted by the full sions. Most spectacularly, the feminist social-work jour-
account of an elabo- nal Affilia published a hoax paper titled “Our Struggle The scientific
rate hoax that resulted in sev- Is My Struggle: Solidarity Feminism as an Intersectional
eral high-profile academic jour- Reply to Neoliberal and Choice Feminism” that was com- standards and
nals publishing articles based posed of passages lifted from Adolf Hitler’s Mein Kampf rationalist principles
on ludicrous notions and fake with, in the words of the three hoaxers, “fashionable
field research, but couched in buzzwords switched in.” that underlie the
the language of social justice Ben Cohen Many academics have protested that the hoax project exploration of what
and identity politics. was unethical because its methodology hinged upon dis-
The hoax was the brainchild honest dealings with the editors and peer reviewers of constitutes truth are
of three academics — editor and writer Helen Pluckrose, the journals where these papers were published. There being assailed by what
mathematician James Lindsay, and philosopher Peter is some merit to that argument, but more importantly
Boghossian — none of whom are likely to receive A-list still, we can learn a great deal about human behavior the hoaxers call
university posts now that they have performed this valu- from these types of underhand experiments. When the “the identitarian
able service. Over a period of about a year, the three of controversial American social psychologists Stanley Mil-
them concocted 20 hoax papers relating to themes like gram and Philip Zimbardo carried out their respective madness coming
identity, sexuality, body shape, and the significance of studies of obedience more than 50 years ago — in Mil- out of the academic
intersectional struggles. By the time they called a halt to gram’s case, setting up unknowing subjects to believe
the project, seven of these hoaxes had been published in that they were inflicting electric shocks on others at the and activist left.”
various academic journals, essentially confirming their behest of an “authority figure,” and in Zimbardo’s, plac-
initial suspicion that as long as it is in the proper political ing student volunteers in “guard” and “inmate” roles in dramatic as the exploration of human cruelty. Its frame-
packaging, there are plenty of journal editors out there a laboratory “prison” — these were similarly denounced work of enquiry was restricted to academic journals
receptive to any old garbage. as unethical. But they also demonstrated that willfully only. And its purpose was to establish whether what the
One paper about “rape culture” in dog parks in Port- engaging in state-sanctioned brutality is something that authors call “grievance studies” — the collection of disci-
land, Ore., received a special citation from the journal all human beings are vulnerable to, even when doing plines spanning gender, race and culture that are served
that published it. Another paper, on how “masculin- so violates the values and standards taught to them all by the journals in question — is “corrupting academic
ist and Western bias” in the science of astronomy “can their lives. research.” Their short answer is “yes.”
best be corrected by including feminist, queer and The focus of this present hoax was not, of course, as At stake here is more than the irresponsible use of facts

52 JEWISH STANDARD OCTOBER 19, 2018


Opinion Letter

Menendez called a friend of Jews and immigrants


As fall begins and our attention whip- Senator Bob Menendez’s re-election
saws between the Trump scandal du campaign. Not only is he a major sup-
Canary Mission also lists the people who are humble opinion. You break it, you buy it. jour and the general busy-ness of our porter of Israel, but in 2013 Senator
actively involved in the BDS movement, like And remember: the Internet is forever. daily lives, a national tragedy that Menendez was a member of the Gang
Rebecca Vilkomerson, head of Jewish Voice The ante has been upped, now, because began in the spring continues to haunt of 8, a bipartisan group of senators
for Peace. And people like this don’t think evidently Israeli immigration authorities are our country today. I am of course talk- that came together to draft compre-
they should be on the same list as the gut- aware of Canary Mission and use it to help ing about the Trump administration’s hensive immigration reform legisla-
ter anti-Semites because, you see, they have determine who gets to enter Israel. And they family separation policy. It is partly tion. The bill both created a pathway
high morals. don’t like people coming to their country for this reason why I have become so to citizenship for immigrants already
Unlike the rest of us. that are actively working for its destruction. involved in the United States Senate living in the United States and con-
So when they disrupt Israeli speak- Go figure. race in my home state of New Jersey, tributing to our communities. The
ers, compare Israelis to Nazis, and seek to And make no mistake, the goal of BDS even while running for mayor in my bill passed the Senate 68-32. House
destroy the livelihood of millions of Jews is the destruction of Israel. As Princeton’s town of Englewood. We have a choice Republicans then capitulated to
through BDS, they think they should get a own resident anti-Semite, Richard Falk, has between Senator Bob Menendez, who the far-right wing of their party and
medal. And the website that simply repeats written, the purpose of BDS is “to shake the is a leading voice on immigration stopped it from reaching President
what they have publicly said and done is foundations of the Zionist insistence on a issues, and Bob Hugin, a Trump shill Obama’s desk. It was beyond disap-
committing an atrocity. McCarthyism! Intim- Jewish state.” Success for BDS will ruin (if who barely pretends to care about pointing that so many Republicans
idation! Blacklisting! Demonization! Scare not end) the lives of millions and millions of the horrors inflicted on the separated sided with xenophobia over common-
tactics! Defamation! Jews. And we’re not supposed to even talk families and children. sense public policy.
Wait…. what? How can it be defamation about it? Beginning in April, the administra- In contrast, Senator Menendez’s
to quote accurately what a person says pub- Sorry, but “sha shtill” (“quiet down, don’t tion announced a “zero tolerance” opponent, Bob Hugin, may try to
licly, and to describe accurately what a per- make trouble”) is no longer an option for us. policy in which immigrant families come across as a sensible Republican,
son does publicly? And if that makes life tough for anti-Semites, caught attempting to cross the bor- but nothing in his history supports
One student with a Canary Mission pro- well, you are known for who you are. der into the United States would that notion. Perhaps most tellingly,
file, Nadine Jawad (who is active in BDS and be separated so that children and at the same time that Senator Menen-
accused Israel of “demonic acts,” “state Robert L. Wolkoff has lectured and written parents could not even be incarcer- dez was pursuing groundbreaking
sponsored terrorism,” and “massacre”) com- internationally on Israel and Judaism. ated together. Chaos, psychologi- immigration legislation, Hugin wrote
mented, “When you google my name, this He is the rabbi of Congregation B’nai cal trauma, and even death ensued. a half-million-dollar check to the
comes up. How is it going to be perceived?” Tikvah in North Brunswick and is a JNF At its peak, the program separated influential Heritage Foundation, an
Exactly as it should be perceived, in my Rabbi for Israel. 2,500 people. Fortunately, our fed- extreme right-wing think tank and
eral judiciary stepped up and man- political advocacy group. That same
dated that the federal government year, Heritage achieved particu-
reunify all families. Unfortunately, lar notoriety for publishing a sham
our government has yet to reunite study that suggested immigration
hundreds of individuals who are try- reform will cost the public trillions
ing to desperately to see their fami- of dollars in government subsidies.
lies again. The total disorganization One of the authors had previously
exhibited by our immigration offi- written that the IQ of immigrants was
by academics or the ideological assump- has become the standard by which we cials is indeed deeply disturbing. “substantially lower than that of the
tions behind much research in social sci- ascertain what is true, and therefore, As an immigration attorney, my cli- white native population, and the dif-
ence. Ultimately, we are dealing with what what is false as well. ents’ experiences have run the gamut. ference is likely to persist over several
the hoaxers rightly identify as a crisis in While the three hoaxers don’t claim that Many have dealt with unspeakable generations.”
epistemology — the venerable branch of the entire university system has been con- hardships while others have had This wasn’t a one-off conserva-
philosophy concerned with what we know sumed by identity politics and its dubious more fortunate livelihoods. The rea- tive donation. Hugin also donated
and how we know it, ranging from simple methods of attaining the truth, the prob- son I find the government’s zero tol- $100,000 to Trump’s campaign. In
observations (“it’s raining”) to more com- lem is evidently significant enough for us erance policy so troubling is because turn, it should then come as no sur-
plex judgements (“you did the right thing”). laypeople to worry about it. From a Jew- it should never be the United States prise that Hugin, well into his thirties,
The scientific standards and rationalist ish philosophical perspective, there is no that creates the horrors for people sought to keep women out his exclu-
principles that underlie the exploration of serious quarrel with the scientific method; wanting to immigrate here. Our coun- sive college club. After the New Jersey
what constitutes truth are being assailed Maimonides wrote that “knowledge of the try must of course have security poli- Supreme Court ruled his former club
by what the hoaxers call “the identitarian Divine cannot be attained except through cies in place, but there is no rationale could no longer discriminate against
madness coming out of the academic and knowledge of the natural sciences.” why we cannot carry out our laws women, he called the decision “politi-
activist left.” Madness it may be, but at the But far more practically, we shouldn’t with humanity and respect. If we cally correct fascism.” Please. We Jews
same time it has become a useful tool for shy away from saying that the academic are to be a democratic nation that know what fascism looks like, and a
scholars who “bully students, administra- study of the Nazi Holocaust — particularly serves as a beacon of hope and vir- court decision advancing social jus-
tors and other departments into adhering as carried out in Israel by Yad Vashem and tue for the rest of the world, our gov- tice isn’t it.
to their worldview.” other institutions — provides us with a ernment officials and policies must Clearly we need a senator like Bob
Increasingly, students are taught that model to examine human suffering that is never fall short of the highest ideals Menendez who knows how to reach
the veracity of a particular claim cannot be far more rigorous than anything purveyed set forth by our Founding Fathers in across the aisle to make laws that
separated from the identity of the person by the identitarians. Because if this darkly the Declaration of Independence and maintain a deep sense of compassion.
making it — and that suggesting otherwise amusing hoax has taught us anything, it’s the Constitution. Let us enter the voting booth with a
is a surrender to patriarchy and racism. that the study of grievances is too impor- As a Jew, I am also disappointed in moral compass. Our country needs it
Central to this approach as well — as tant to be left to the practitioners of griev- our leaders. I need not recite the his- more than ever.
my colleague Jonathan S. Tobin recently ance studies. JNS.ORG tory of forced migration of the Jewish Michael Wildes
pointed out in a different context focus- people in this publication. As excru- Englewood
ing on environmental activists — is the Ben Cohen writes a weekly column for ciating as it was for our ancestors to
abandonment of the skepticism that is so JNS on Jewish affairs and Middle Eastern be rejected by some countries, it was Michael Wildes is a candidate for
essential to the scientific method. Ideo- politics. His work has been published in equally joyous to be welcomed to the mayor in Englewood, an immigration
logical conviction and an in-built bias Commentary, the New York Post, Haaretz, United States where our community attorney, and the author of the recently
toward some human identities over oth- the Wall Street Journal, and many other continues to thrive. published “Safe Haven in America:
ers, rather than testing and observation, publications. This mindset is why I support Battles to Open the Golden Door.”

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Jewish World

Kushner bromance with Saudi Prince Mohammed


grows murkier with each passing meeting
RON KAMPEAS reporting in the Washington Post and the
New York Times, as well as in other places,

JABIN BOTSFORD/GETTY IMAGES, FAYEZ NURELDINE/AFP/GETTY IMAGES


WASHINGTON — In March, Saudi Arabia has made clear, that $110 billion figure is
was on the brink of a new age of moder- highly inflated at best.
nity. And Prince Mohammed bin Salman Saudi Arabia also figures large in Trump
and Jared Kushner, President Donald administration plans to isolate Iran.
Trump’s son-in-law and top adviser, were Kushner, whom Trump has tasked with
at the epicenter of that transformation. relaunching the Israeli-Palestinian peace
But allegations this week that bin Salman talks, is at the center of the U.S.-Saudi rela-
— or MBS, as he is known — ordered the tionship. The drive for a peace deal osten-
brazen murder and dismemberment of a sibly is what brought Kushner and MBS
dissident Saudi journalist in Istanbul, Tur- together, but their relationship has broad-
key, have roiled the prince’s reputation as ened to include arms sales and regional
a modernizer. strategy making.
So where does that leave Kushner, who Here are five key moments in the Kush-
cultivated a close friendship with MBS, in ner-MBS bromance.
part to advance his efforts to revive the
Israeli-Palestinian peace talks? Does Kush- The first meeting
ner counsel the president to distance the According to the Washington Post, MBS
United States from Saudi Arabia? Or does and Kushner became friendly when
he wait out the storm and return to the the crown prince first visited Trump in Jared Kushner, left, and Mohammed bin Salman
bromance when things are quieter? March 2017, soon after he became presi-
Despite some favorable media coverage dent. A meeting with German Chancel- Saudi Arabia to resign, citing the over- the same month as Hariri, November
at the time of his last U.S. visit in March, lor Angela Merkel was next on the agenda weening influence in his country of Hez- 2017. What was said was not clear, but
much reporting suggested — even before but was delayed by a snowstorm, which bollah, the Shiite militia aligned with Iran. according to subsequent reports, MBS
last week, when Jamal Khashoggi, a per- allowed the two 30somethings to become It was a bizarre moment, and soon pressed Abbas to accept Kushner’s terms
manent resident of the United States, dis- acquainted. That set off a long-distance Hariri was back in Lebanon, after rescind- for a peace deal that would comprise a
appeared after walking into the Saudi relationship, with frequent phone calls, ing his resignation. What happened? Palestinian quasi state with its capital in
embassy in Istanbul — that MBS’s reforms the Post reported. Hariri has close business and family Jerusalem’s suburbs, as opposed to the
were more show than substance. relations in Saudi Arabia, and MBS may city itself.
Yes, women could drive — but the activ- Open arms and an arms deal have coerced his resignation as a means Abbas reportedly declined, and Saudi
ists who helped bring about the change One result of the closeness was a major of sowing chaos in Lebanon — chaos he statements denied that MBS had ever
were languishing in jail. Yes, MSB seemed shift: A president’s inaugural trip tradi- reportedly hoped would spark a punish- embraced such a proposal.
ready for closer relations with Israel — tionally has been to a neighbor, Canada ing Israeli assault on Hezbollah. No one
while also bombing Yemen into submis- or Mexico. Trump instead first headed to told the Israelis, and they were not game One year later ...
sion, with little regard for civilian casual- Saudi Arabia, in May 2017, and Kushner to be Saudi Arabia’s proxy in its longstand- A year after their snowbound bromance
ties. Yes, the extended Saudi royal family was instrumental in setting the agenda — ing dispute with Iran. began, MBS was back in the United States
seemed on board with his changes — but so instrumental that he says he got a rab- Did Kushner give MBS a green light? They for what was to be a turning point in the
maybe a period of imprisonment and tor- bi’s permission to join his father-in-law on chatted until 4 a.m. during the visit. We may U.S.-Saudi relationship. He met with
ture in 2017 had something to do with that. the Shabbat flight. (Which rabbi? That’s never know what they discussed, but the Trump, and Kushner helped organize
With the Khashoggi crisis in full bloom, still a mystery.) proximity and secrecy of his visit, so close a busy itinerary for the prince, includ-
the Trump administration is scrambling The trip went off smoothly — remember to the Lebanon fiasco, led to speculation ing stops in high-tech centers on the
for a strategy. Trump is wary of penal- that glowing orb that Trump and MBS’s that Kushner winked at MBS’s maneuvering. East and West coasts to talk investment.
izing a nation that spends big money on dad touched together? And Trump signed The crown prince arrested a bunch of his MBS and his modernization proposals
U.S. arms. “I don’t like stopping massive a theoretical $110 billion arms sale deal extended family at around the same time. received glowing attention from influen-
amounts of money that’s being poured with the country. That was the second round of arrests; the tial columnists.
into our country on — I know they’re talk- first was in June, soon after the Trump visit. Marring the visit was the revelation, first
ing about different kinds of sanctions,” he That Lebanon business Making matters murkier, Trump praised the reported at the time by The Intercept, that
said last Thursday, referring to moves in Kushner visited with MBS in Saudi Arabia prince for the arrests in a tweet. MBS told Persian Gulf buddies that he had
Congress to sanction Saudi Arabia, “but in October 2017, supposedly to discuss Kushner “in his pocket.”
they’re spending $110 billion on military advancing the Israeli-Palestinian peace That peace deal Is that the case? The Khashoggi mys-
equipment and on things that create jobs, deal. A week or so later, Saad Hariri, the Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud tery is not going away, and we may learn
like jobs and others, for this country.” (As Lebanese prime minister, turned up in Abbas was summoned to Saudi Arabia more soon. JTA WIRE SERVICE

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D’var Torah
Lech Lecha: Embracing the journey

W
hen I was a kid, I dreamt after his missing son. Joseph There is an interesting law Journeys might be the hallmark of Juda-
about growing up and is moved against his will to that applies to a mourner. ism. We are a dynamic people. We pray
becoming a truck driver. Egypt. We are a people con- If someone is a regular the same liturgy everyday. Some days,
I was fascinated with big stantly on the move. No one attendee at synagogue, they certain prayers speak to us more than
rigs, 18 wheelers, and the different engines figure demonstrates that most likely have an estab- others. Often the same prayers inspire
of trucks. I thought it would be so fun to more boldly than Abram in lished seat. This is referred different thoughts. Each year we re-read
drive across this glorious country and see this week’s Torah portion of to as a makom kavua. The the Torah from the beginning making
so many different sites and landscapes and Lech Lecha. law teaches that in the unfor- our way through the last word. During
have the excitement of a truck’s wheel on Abram is told by God, tunate case of a loved one’s every cycle we analyze different verses
my hands. Lech lecha. Go, pack up Rabbi David- death, we must change our of the Torah, understand new concepts,
I think this obsession came from my your things and go from this Seth Kirshner makom kavua, our estab- apply ancient words to the here and
childhood where we moved a lot. Large land, your birthplace, your Temple Emanu-El, lished seat, for the entire year now. The watchwords of Conservative
Closter,
men, usually named Spike or Roy, would father’s land to a land that I Conservative
of mourning. At a time when Judaism are “tradition and change.” The
come to our home every few years and will show you. we would naturally question “change” is the essential ingredient to
take our belongings and put them on a Similar to my family, it God the most, we need to sit our survival. We must work at changing
truck and take them to wherever we wasn’t Abram’s failure or calamity which somewhere that would give us a new and our perspectives.
would make our home for the years caused his move, rather something was different perspective so we can continue The Talmud Bavli teaches, “mishaneh
to come. We left that which was com- lacking. Spiritually Abram was not fulfilled to advance our relationship with God. That makom mishaneh mazal,” by changing
fortable, and started on the road to a and God wanted to develop a relationship is a beautiful code in our tradition encour- our place in life we can change our for-
new beginning. with Abram. And, in order for that to hap- aging us to maintain our connection with tune. I suggest that we translate the text a
By the time I was sixteen years young I pen, God required that Abram move physi- God, regardless of circumstance. bit differently. Instead of changing our for-
had lived in six different places. Each of cally in order to move spiritually. Changing, moving, looking at things tune, we should understand it as changing
them was different and unique. Living in Rashi explains the words “Lech lecha,” from a new point of view — these are some our destiny.
these places gave me a special perspective as “Abram, go, begin your journey, and of the most difficult things in the world Abram took a physical journey in his
on dialects, pace of life, values of regions, there, you will worship me in the land of to do. We all love our routine. We all feel life and it led him to a deeper relationship
temperatures and, of course, the topogra- Israel, because all of the time you are out- secure with familiar neighborhoods. We with God that we all inherit today. Like
phy of each location. side the land you have no relationship with love to walk into the diner and order the Moses, Miriam, Abram, Joseph, the peo-
Seeing things from a new perspective God.” It is clear from this source that the same drink and bagel without change. ple of Israel, we are always seeking out our
is an important principle. That is perhaps point of the physical journey was to grow When we escape from our regular order, destiny. Like our ancestors, we are always
the reason why every figure in the Bible spiritually and augment Abram’s relation- something seems different. It never tastes on a journey.
takes journeys and most likely the rea- ship with God. right and it inevitably throws our days off Some of us have spiritual journeys. All
son there is never an “arrival” moment in The Zohar explains the redundancy of balance. Sometimes, we find ourselves of us take journeys, journeys that are dif-
Jewish history. We are a dynamic people the words “Lech Lecha” as a directive, changing our orders, we find ourselves on ferent in nature, but all of them strengthen
always on the move. explaining that for someone to move spiri- journeys. Most of the times we aren’t pre- our individual character and change our
Adam and Eve are banished from the tually they must move physically too. pared for these journeys and they could perspective. Allow Lech Lecha to embrace
Garden of Eden, Noah rides the waves To gain perspective on things you have not come at more inopportune time. the journey to the new and unknown
of destruction to a new creation. Moses to shake it up a little, change them around. Nonetheless, by embarking on them, and allow it to open our possibilities for
leads the Israelites through an Exodus. These changes are integral in advancing we naturally cultivate our relationship deepening our connection with Judaism
Jacob runs from his brother and runs your relationship with God. with God and God.

Guide not mention Trump and his issues page challengers (half of the party’s 18 Jew- and have raised their children as Jewish.
FROM PAGE 36 repudiates many hallmarks of the Trump ish challengers); and three Republican They join at least two incumbent House
Know this: A year ago Leib, 32, made presidency: Gangs pose a greater threat House challengers. Democrats who have done the same:
headlines in his city (and earned a spot to Mexicans than Americans, Aronoff Inspired by dad John Sarbanes in Maryland and Rose
on “Fox & Friends”) for coming out as a says, and border security “doesn’t Two women House Democratic challeng- DeLauro in Connecticut.
Republican who couldn’t get dates in a require some big expensive wall.” He ers, Chrissy Houlahan in Pennsylvania
Democratic city. wants a path to citizenship for dreamers and Kara Eastman in Nebraska, do not Jew vs. Jew
Prospects: Like the nice guy on the dat- and wants to reinstate a work visa pro- identify as Jewish, but each says her Jew- Three House races pit a Jewish Demo-
ing app, nil. gram for Mexicans. ish father shaped her outlook as a liberal crat against a Jewish Republican: Nadler
Prospects: 1 in 99 in a district that is Democrat. against Levin in New York; Perry Gershon
TEXAS solidly liberal. against Zeldin in New York; and Debbie
P H I L L I P A R O N O F F, retired steel Three Levins Wasserman Schultz against Kaufman in
exporter; 29th District, encompassing Here are some other There are three Levins running: Mike in Florida.
the eastern portion of the greater Hous- noteworthy tidbits on the California and Andy in Michigan, both
ton area, running to replace incumbent midterms: Democrats, and Naomi in New York, a In the states
Democrat Gene Green, who is retiring. The year of women? Republican. Four Jews are in gubernatorial races, all
His opponent is Sylvia Garcia, a Demo- Of 56 Jewish candidates in the Senate and Democrats: J.B. Pritzker tops the ticket in
cratic member of the Texas State Senate. the House, 20 are women, among them Married to the tribe Illinois, as does Jared Polis in Colorado.
Know this: Aronoff has been the hon- two, an incumbent and a challenger, in Two Democratic House nominees, David Susan Turnbull in Maryland and David
orary consul in Houston for Hungary the Senate; six Democratic incumbents Trone in Maryland and Angie Craig in Zuckerman in Vermont are running for
for 13 years. His campaign website does in the House; nine Democratic House Minnesota, are married to Jewish spouses lieutenant governor. JTA WIRE SERVICE

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Kosher Crossword
“WORD ASSOCIATION”BY YONI GLATT,
The Frazzled Housewife
KOSHERCROSSWORDS@GMAIL.COM
DIFFICULTLY LEVEL: MEDIUM ACROSS

Picture Day

I
t’s picture day. well play the song “Sunrise Sunset”
For those of us who hate dress- every time you read my column. My
ing up and having our hair done adorable little baby, my little cutie boy
all pretty, picture day was a whose foot was as big as my thumb
nightmare. My mother always used to when he was born, is graduating from
make me wear ribbons on my ponytails high school. I might be posting the fol-
(don’t ask) and one year, out of defi- lowing on Teaneck shuls: “Looking for
ance, I took them off before pictures. I a scientist to regrow my umbilical cord
just wanted to look like everyone else, so my baby will be reattached to me
and not like an extra on the set of “Lit- so he won’t leave when he graduates.”
tle House on the Prairie.” Needless to Too much? Perhaps, but I am trying
say, when the pictures came back, she to take this year as slowly as possible.
was none too pleased. If this means having
In any event, back in the him be late for davening
80s, when my generation every morning so I can
would get ready for picture just stare at him when
day, there were no pleas on he sleeps, then so be it.
Teaneck shuls, “Looking I am just not ready for
for hairdresser and makeup this. At all. And today
person to come and fix up was his picture day. For
my daughter for pictures — his senior graduating
will pay anything and will pictures. In his suit. All
go anywhere and at any- Banji dressed up. A far cry
time!!!!” Let’s look at those Ganchrow from when he was first
last few lines again and born and I was looking
have some commentary. at him and singing the
1. There were no Teaneck shuls in the “My Three Sons” theme song (which,
Across Down 80s. Whether that is good or bad is not of course, I did).
1. Tater 1. Sly up for discussion, it just wasn’t. So he comes downstairs all dressed
5. When I say “Cain” you say..... 2. Kitchen tool 2. I am pretty sure that none of my up, and off he goes to school, and I am
9. Gadget 3. Elegant in manner
friends had their hair or makeup done standing at the door, flashing back to
14. Esther or Mordechai, e.g. 4. Kosher animal not often on a menu
15. Goal of medical research, often 5. “Defending our rights” org. ever. Big hair was big in the 80s and his first Picture Day and how he let me
16. NBA Finals MVP in 2000, 2001 and 6. Ripped it was very easy to do it yourself. The dress him up in a plaid shirt and pants
2002 7. Lose ground, literally worse it looked, the better. with a vest. And then he let me comb
17. ....”Bar Kokhba”.... 8. Goodman of “Dancing with the Stars” 3. Makeup might be another story. I his hair and he looked so adorable I just
19. Cherished 9. ...”David”...
still don’t think any of my friends had wanted to shmush his face off.
20. She, in Rio 10. Knowing, as a secret
21. “___ Lang Syne” 11. Hebrew wolf their makeup done. What I do know Of course, I wanted to do the same
22. Israel’s Gedi 12. Fannie follower, in banks is that blue eyeliner and blue mascara thing to him today, but I refrained. Sort
23. Darling of “Peter Pan” 13. ...”Methusaleh”... was very “in” back then. Enough said… of. After all, he still is my baby!
25. Prefix meaning “four” 18. “Now I ___ down... “ So fast forward to Picture Day 2018. And today my baby took his senior
27. TV investigation letters 22. 1.78 is considered outstanding
I certainly hope that all of those young pictures. There was no hair and
30. ...”Joseph”... 24. Flowery girls name
32. Goes to a restaurant 26. It needs to be charged before you can ladies looking for hair and makeup makeup, there was no drama about his
34. Maggie’s “The Dark Knight” co-star, go people bright and early in the morn- outfit not looking right or his hair being
and others 27. Hip ing were not disappointed. After all, too frizzy — this being the joy of having
37. Nuclear explosive, briefly 28. Sport in the Israeli film “A Matter of pictures are forever. And you will be boys. Watching him leave the house, all
38. One way to Israel Size”
looking at your yearbook quite often tall and handsome in his suit, with his
41. ...”Jonah”... 29. “What’ll ___?”
43. Balm ingredient 31. Visited over the next 30 years. You know, in whole future ahead of him and me look-
44. Bloomer of Amsterdam 33. Food court pizza chain between having babies, nursing, look- ing at him getting into his car praying
46. Youngest of Aaron 35. When repeated, a calming word ing for the perfect nursery school, that his picture, and his life, turn out
48. Forecast for improved weather 36. Shabbat wear, for some carpool, after-school activities….there exactly the way he wants them to.
50. ...”Samson”... 38. Make an impression?
is going to be LOTS of time for your
54. “Star Wars” General 39. Berg Opera in which Jack the Ripper
55. “There’s ___ every crowd” is a character yearbook, so make sure that picture is Banji Ganchrow of Teaneck is going
58. Israeli doctor 40. Hamilton, for short perfect. to be going through many boxes of
59. Advanced HS classes 42. Hatzolah letters Clearly I am discussing Picture Day tissues this year. For both rational and
60. 54- Across appears in this episode 45. ...”Elijah”... for a reason. This whole year is going irrational reasons….
62. Big do, in slang 47. Heart chambers
to be emotional for me. You might as
63. Monkeylike 49. Nav. rank
66. ...”Judah”... 51. Ignore a trigger warning, maybe
68. Make a bow again
69. Huber of women’s tennis
52. Sea nymph of Greek myth
53. House haunters So he comes downstairs all
70. “...and step ___!”
71. Patriots owner
56. Founder of a Russian dynasty
57. Kroll and Jonas dressed up, and off he goes to
72. ...”Solomon”...
73. Tries to figure out a KenKen puzzle,
59. “In your dreams!”
61. Beverage with brainfreeze potential
school, and I am standing at
perhaps 63. ...”Noah”...
64. Word with annum or capita
the door, flashing back to his
65. “Give ___ minute...” first Picture Day and how he
66. Paw’s woman
67. Squeezing snake let me dress him up in a plaid
The solution to last week’s puzzle is on page 63. shirt and pants with a vest.
56 JEWISH STANDARD OCTOBER 19, 2018
Actors Barry Atsma, left, and
Jacob Derwig play Walraven and
Gijs van Hall, respectively, in “The
Resistance Banker.” DUTCH FILMWORKS

ARTS & CULTURE


Holland reacts enthusiastically to film
on banker brothers who duped Nazis
CNAAN LIPHSHIZ production of a multimillion-dollar film

O
titled “The Resistance Banker,” which won
pposite the Dutch national the Netherlands’ national award for best
bank here in Amsterdam lies film in 2018 and is the country’s Academy
one of Europe’s least conspicu- Award submission.
ous monuments to a war hero. The film, where the persecution of Jews
“Fallen Tree,” as the metal statue for plays a central role, is the first treatment of
resistance fighter Walraven van Hall is its kind about the actions of van Hall and
called, looks very realistic. So realistic, in his brother, Gijsbert. Members of a promi-
fact, that for months after it was unveiled in nent banking family, for three years they COURTESY OF THE VAN HALL FAMILY
2010, the municipality would receive calls bankrolled the Dutch resistance, supply-
reporting the statue, whose brown-painted ing it with the equivalent of $500 million.
branches are strewn over a small square, It’s taken a surprisingly long time, con-
was storm debris in need of removal. sidering the scale of van Hall’s actions,
A departure from the bombastic reliefs which historians say helped make the
commemorating other European World Dutch resistance one of Europe’s fiercest
War II heroes, it’s a fitting tribute to Wal- and most effective. There are also power-
raven van Hall. For decades he had gone ful dramatic elements in the van Hall story,
unrecognized in his own country, even a tale full of valor, betrayal, death, devo-
though he used cunning and courage to tion — and even a bank robbery of unprec- Walraven van Hall, right, and his brother Gijs in the 1930s.
save hundreds of Jews from the Holocaust edented proportions.
while inflicting painful damage on the Nazi Dutch moviegoers have noticed. daily newspaper, De Volkskrant. The film of money that it cost to keep this organiza-
war machine — until German soldiers exe- With 400,000 ticket sales, “The Resis- debuted in Dutch theaters in September tion — the resistance — running,” the film’s
cuted him in 1945. tance Banker” is by far the highest-gross- and is now available in the United States director, Joram Lürsen, said.
This year, however, for the first time, ing locally made film production in the on Netflix. But resistance leaders knew this all too
van Hall’s bravery has moved from obscu- Netherlands this year and it is one of the “When people think of the resistance ... well in 1942, when van Hall, an ex-marine
rity to the mainstream, thanks to the industry’s all-time hits, according to a they rarely think of the enormous amounts SEE VAN HALL PAGE 60

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Calendar Aaron. After Kiddush,
he will discuss “The Games in Wyckoff:
Animal Kingdom in Temple Beth Rishon’s
Jewish Thought.” At Women’s Club hosts “Get
4:45, his topic will be Your Game On!” at the
“The Sages and Science,” shul, 10 a.m. Women can
and between the 5:45 learn to play mahjong or
Mincha and the 6:51 canasta. 585 Russell Ave.
Maariv, he will speak (201) 891-4466 or www.
about “Rationalism vs. bethrishon.org.
Mysticism: Schisms
in Traditional Jewish
Thought.” At 8, there
will be a multimedia
presentation,
“Encounters with
Animals,” and his books
will be on sale. 950
Queen Anne Road.
(201) 836-6210 or www.
bethaaron.org.
Marina Rostow
Cairo Geniza: Professor
Marina Rustow gives the
Ilana Sasson Memorial
Lecture, focusing on the
“materiality’ of Cairo
geniza,” at Congregation
Beth Sholom in Teaneck,
7:30 p.m. 354 Maitland
Ave. (201) 833-2620 or
A commemorative concert marking the 80th anniversary of cbsteaneck.org.
OCT.
Kristallnacht, the night of broken glass, will feature the Madison
21 Monday 
Avraham Barzeley
String Quartet, pianist Itay Goren, baritone Steven Scheschareg, RACHEL BANAI
and Cantor David Perper at Temple Beth Haverim Shir Shalom OCTOBER 22
Music in Tenafly: Israel-
in Mahwah, at 2 p.m. Co-sponsored by Ramapo College’s Gross Center for born harmonica virtuoso Jewish filmmakers:
Holocaust and Genocide Studies. 280 Ramapo Valley Road (Route 202). Avraham Barzeley, Visiting scholar Dr. Eric
joined by pianist Itay Goldman continues a
(201) 512-1983 or www.bethhaverim.org. COURTESY RAMAPO
Goren, performs music series, “Iconic Jewish
by Beethoven, Bloch, Filmmakers,” for the
Gershwin, Kreisler, JCC of Fort Lee/
at Ramapo College Yisrael, 4:45 p.m., as part Sarasate, and others Congregation Gesher
Friday , in Mahwah, 1:45 p.m.
Sponsored by Ramapo’s
Saturday  of a series of shiurim
in memory of Rabbi
in the Eric Brown Shalom’s CSI Scholar
OCTOBER 19 Gross Center for OCTOBER 20 Ozer Glickman. 389 W.
Theater of the Kaplen Fund and Sisterhood, at
JCC on the Palisades, shul. Refreshments at
Holocaust and Genocide Englewood Ave. (201) 7:30 p.m. 411 E. Clinton 12:30 p.m.; program at 1.
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Arts & Culture

van Hall
FROM PAGE 57
whom Israel recognized in 1978 as a Righ-
teous Among the Nations, a non-Jew who
risked his life to save Jews during the Holo-
caust, joined them.
He and his brother stole the equivalent
of $250 million from Nazi-controlled cof-
fers and borrowed another $250 million
from other bankers to carry out attacks,
smuggle Allied pilots to safety, and provide
financial support to at least 8,000 Jews in
hiding during World War II.
They did all this “through an incredibly
complicated web of front companies, falsi-
fications, and bureaucratic sleight of hand

They did all


this “through
an incredibly
complicated
web of front
companies, This Amsterdam monument commemorates Walraven van Hall. WIKIMEDIA COMMONS

falsifications, and just its complexity.


bureaucratic “For many decades there was a reluc-
tance in the banking industry of this coun-
sleight of hand.” try to go into the details of the van Halls’
actions, because doing so would expose
that is tricky to pack into a two-hour fea- many of the system’s weak points,” Lürsen
ture film,” or even a biographical novel, said. “No one wanted to publish a manual
Lürsen said. An attempt to “truly explain for mass bank fraud.”
the genius of their actions” would lose But the industry has changed over time,
most filmgoers within the first 20 minutes, and the unofficial veil of silence that bedev-
he added. iled historians’ attempts to get to the bot-
To tackle this storytelling challenge, tom of the van Halls’ operation was lifted.
Lürsen focused on the most daring action Gijsbert van Hall, the elder brother, who
the brothers undertook — the theft and later became mayor of Amsterdam, kept a
cashing in of central bank bonds, which at meticulous record of each and every cent
that point was the largest-scale bank rob- dispensed by his operation. Auditors after
bery in European history. the war found no discrepancies in the
“This one element of the story contains bookkeeping after studying it for months.
everything you need in a Hollywood action The Netherlands had many collabora-
film,” Lürsen said. “It’s as easy to follow tors with the Nazis, who helped murder 75
and full of suspense as a casino heist.” percent of the country’s Jewish population
Not everyone is pleased with the short- — the highest death rate in Nazi-occupied
cuts and artistic license that Lürsen and Western Europe. But for the size of its pop-
his team have taken. From left, Jacob Derwig, Barry Atsma and director Joram Lürsen after they won ulation and Jewish minority, it also had a
Harm Ede Botje, a senior analyst for a the Golden Calf film award at the Netherlands Film Festival in Utrecht, Holland vastly disproportionate number of Righ-
magazine, Vrij Nederland, and an expert on October 5, 2018. COURTESY OF THE NATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL OF THE NETHERLANDS teous Among the Nations — 5,669 of them,
in World War II history, accused the film- the second-highest number in the world,
makers of gratuitous melodrama and dis- a suicide in that suburb of Amsterdam, writes. In the film, van Hall is executed trailing Poland’s 6,863. Many of the rescu-
regard for historical detail in a withering according to Ede Botje. two months before the war’s end, after the ers’ efforts were facilitated by the support
critique of the film in March. He noted a “It’s true,” Lürsen said of how persecu- Germans and collaborators identify him as extended to them by the van Halls.
powerful scene in which an exhausted tion of the Jews is highlighted and perhaps van Tuyl and the “oil man” — one of the Holland also saw the first major show
van Hall, nicknamed Wallie, draws resolve amplified in his film. “I made a film about many false identities he wore. of public disobedience over the fate of the
from looking out from his train window two courageous brothers, their lives, their But in reality, the Germans had no Jews in Nazi-occupied Europe in the so-
and seeing Jews in cattle wagons zoom- love. Of course I had to make cinemato- idea who van Hall was to the bitter end. called February Strike of 1942.
ing past as fellow passengers look away in graphic and dramaturgical decisions, but it He was shot along with several other sus- For a small, flat country with few natu-
embarrassment. But Ede Botje says that was important to include in a digestible way pected resistance fighters in retaliation for ral hiding places like woods, marshes or
Jews were never transported in the day- the background. Should I have spent less a Nazi officer’s assassination. To this day, mountains, resistance to the Nazis was in
time in occupied Holland. attention to the worst genocide in Dutch historians do not know why the Germans some respects “fierce,” and in no small
In the film, the trigger for van Hall’s history because I have no evidence of Wal- arrested van Hall. part thanks to the actions of the van Halls,
decision to enter the resistance is the sui- lie ever witnessing it? I don’t think so.” The relative obscurity of the van Halls’ according to Johannes Houwink ten Cate, a
cide of a Jewish family of former clients in Another departure from the historical story — despite its significance, it has historian who is one of the world’s leading
Zaandam. But there is no evidence to sug- record diminishes the van Halls’ incred- been the subject of only one dryly written experts on the Holocaust in Holland.
gest this is true — and no records of such ible ability to evade Nazi detection, Botje book, in the 1990s — owes to more than JTA WIRE SERVICE

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Obituaries
Stanley Haskel Fair Lawn, and grandchildren, Jaime Kaminer
Stanley A. Haskel, 90, of Livingston, formerly of Long ( Jared Bacall), Elysa Kaminer, and Alec Kaminer.
Island, died October 9. Donations can be sent to Fair Lawn All-Sports
An Army veteran of the Korean War, he owned Association or the American Heart Association.
Haskel Brothers Monument Co. in Manhattan and was Arrangements were by Robert Schoem’s Menorah
a member of the Morristown Jewish Center. Chapel, Paramus.
He is survived by his wife, Judy, née Glassman,
children, Robin Haskel Epstein of Livingston and Audrey Lissak
Steven of Paramus, and four grandchildren. Audrey S. Lissak, née Teitelbaum, of Fair Lawn
Arrangements were by Eden Memorial Chapels, died October 7.
Fort Lee. Predeceased by her first husband Norman Dolin,
and a brother, Arthur Teitelbaum, she is survived by
Betty Kaminer her husband, Wilbert Lissak, children, Cheryl Dolin
Betty Kaminer, née Cohen, 88, of Fair Lawn died (Russell Aubertin) and Charles Dolin (Ann), and
October 14. She was a longtime volunteer at the Fair grandchildren, Naomi, Nathan, Ryan, Eric, and Leah.
Lawn Jewish Center. Donations can be made to City of Hope.
Predeceased by her husband, Artie, she is survived Arrangements were by Louis Suburban Chapel,
by her children, Bruce (Susan) of Paramus and Beth of Fair Lawn.

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vote on a parliamentary resolution whose premise is that Ruth, meeting new people and making new friends.
nonmedical circumcision of boys is a form of child abuse. We continue to be Jewish family managed, Morty was a kind and gentle man, and everyone who
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on page 56. Waldheim,” while his supporters countered with “We Trump in the United States.
Austrians elect who we want” and “Waldheim, an Aus- During Waldheim’s term as president, he was consid-
trian who the world trusts.” ered persona non grata by the United States and other
Waldheim was known for his love of horses, and Western governments. (He was allowed in Arab coun-
one opponent declared with a straight face: “We never tries and the Vatican, which he visited twice.) At his
believed that Waldheim was a member of the SA — only funeral in 2007, then-Austrian President Heinz Fischer
his horse was.” Another skeptic labeled the candidate’s said that Waldheim “deserves his lifetime to be seen as
inability to remember his wartime activities as a symp- a whole.”
tom of “Waldheim’s Disease.” Despite her dejected tone, Beckermann discerns a
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