THE

QUICKSTART GUIDE
TO BUILDING A

KILLER
SOCIAL
CIRCLE
THE SOCIAL CIRCLE QUICKSTART GUIDE
HOW TO BUILD A KILLER SOCIAL CIRCLE THAT MOVES YOU TOWARDS
YOUR LIFESTLYE GOALS

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 ABOUT
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 CONTENT
Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
1 Goals & Inner Circle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
2 Meeting People &
Getting To Know Your Stomping Ground . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13
3 Creating An Ecosystem . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18
INTRODUCTION

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 INTRODUCTION
They say the best of friends make the good times better, and the bad
times easier and after spending the better part of a decade traveling
around the world, I’ve had an interesting realization…

When people ask me which cities I’ve enjoyed the most, I’ve realized that
the fun I had in any given city had very little to do with the location, and
EVERYTHING to do with the friends I was there with.

Ask yourself, what does it matter the success you have if you have no one
to enjoy it with?

And of course, we’ve all heard the axiom, “You are the average of your 5
closest friends”…

Take a hard look at your current friends and ask yourself if you want the
lives they have.

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 INTRODUCTION
If not, it’s time to step outside your comfort zone and create a killer social
circle!

Follows this comprehensive guide that will take you through the process of
building up your social circle, and we’ll start off with shining the mirror back
on yourself and determining WHY you want what you want…

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 CHAPTER ONE:
Goals & Inner Circle

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 GOALS & INNER CIRCLE
Every structure needs a solid foundation. Your “inner circle” made up of
yourself and 3–6 other guys and/or girls is that foundation. The people that
make up your inner circle need to be aligned with your specific goals as
the type of people that make up your foundation will determine your wider
social circle.

Before you go out and begin building that foundation the first step you
need to take it to determine the 3 goals that your social circle will be
moving you towards. Here is an example of what those goals might be in
order of importance, replace the goals and create your own version with
the same structure.

Primary Goal : Create a business to fund a lifestyle of freedom.

Secondary Goal: Become more successful with women.

Tertiary Goal : Travel to 30 countries before age 30.

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 GOALS & INNER CIRCLE
Solidifying these goals is invaluable as understanding exactly what you
want and why will not only give you clarity and motivation but by having
concrete goals your focus will begin to shift. Opportunities you may have
missed without your newfound clarity will continue to arise and by being
constantly aware of your goals the actions you take and decisions you
make will be influenced by the driving force that’s at the forefront of your
mind.

Once you’ve determined what these goals are for yourself, it will be very
clear what you need to do and the kinds of people you should be doing
it with to keep moving in the right direction.

With every person you meet you need to be aware of whether or not they
are in alignment with where you want to go, now I don't want anyone to
fall into a trap and being blindly selfish and and self-important but you
want to be aware of what is working for and against you in any given sit-
uation and with every decision.

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 GOALS & INNER CIRCLE
So if your primary goal right now is “Having access to beautiful women”
then your inner circle should reflect that, with that goal in mind your inner
circle should primarily consist of beautiful women and/or men that have
access to beautiful women.

If your primary goal is building success in the business world then your
inner circle should be made up of successful businessmen and those who
have achieved financial success.

No matter what is important to you, your inner circle must move you to-
wards those things or you’re shooting yourself in the foot.

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 CHAPTER TWO:
Meeting People & Getting To
Know Your Stomping Ground

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 MEETING PEOPLE & GETTING TO KNOW YOUR STOMPING GROUND
Most people are NOT pro-active when it comes to choosing the type of
people they surround themselves with, now that you have a clear idea of
what your goals are you should have an idea of the kinds of people that
are going to help you in that direction, now all you need to know is where
to go to meet them.

Take a look at the activities and hobbies you enjoy or want to learn about,
it is important that the people you associate with align not only with your
goals but the way you perceive the world and who you are or at least
who you want to become. Do the necessary research to determine what
venues and events the kind of people you’re looking for frequent.

Start off by utilizing online resources like EventBrite or Meetup to discover

different events in your area. Looking for upcoming events in areas you
find interesting or want to learn about, put yourself out and there and jump
into as much as you can handle most of the people attend these events
for the same reasons you will so don’t overthink it just dive in.

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 MEETING PEOPLE & GETTING TO KNOW YOUR STOMPING GROUND
As you are working to build your social circle you want to make it as easy
for yourself as possible design your lifestyle to maximize your social oppor-
tunities. Get a gym membership make conversation with everyone you
come across, do everything you can to be around people and be a social
person.

As you go about your day make an effort to approach women you find in-
teresting or attractive and approach guy might like to befriend. A great
way to make this easy for yourself is to greet everyone you pass some will
politely respond with a hello and go about their day, some will ignore you
and many of them will stop and have a conversation, what’s important is
that you get that momentum going. While nothing beats socializing in
person be sure to make use of apps like Tinder and Okcupid to find poten-
tial friends both romantic and platonic.

Start hitting up the venues that are popular with the kind of people you’re
looking for. Look for the people that are the most “valuable” in each envi-

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 MEETING PEOPLE & GETTING TO KNOW YOUR STOMPING GROUND
-ronment and befriend them, you want to be a strategic as possible.

If you’re looking to make a new friend simply introduce yourself and give
them an honest compliment, people love to talk about themselves so all
you have to do is ask relevant questions and show genuine interest and
talk about things you find interesting and look for commonalities.

At the end of the day the worst that can happen is the conversation ends
with a simple “we’ll it was nice to meet you”, others will turn into a fun night
and some will end with new friends gained, what’s important not to judg-
ing any of it and just enjoying yourself. Show your face as much possible
and get comfortable with your surrounding, the more you go out the
better the more friends you’ll make and the better results you will get.

Let’s say that one of your goals if to become more successful in the busi-
ness world, the best way to do that is to find mentors that are more suc-
cessful than you in the areas you’re interested in, here is an example of

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 MEETING PEOPLE & GETTING TO KNOW YOUR STOMPING GROUND
what you can do to create a relationship with your very own mentor:

First of create a list of possible mentors. Once you have a list find out all
the possible ways of contacting them (social media, phone, in person).
When you have a means of contacting them determine what you can do
to create value for these individuals, maybe you have a skills they can use
or you can exchange labour for knowledge. It does matter how but you
must provide some form of value.

As soon as you know how you can provide value, contact each person
on your list via whichever medium is possible, lead the dialog with what
you appreciate about them/their work and why you wish to foster a rela-
tionship with them, then close with articulating how you plan to offer value.

There are very few people in the world who will turn down a proposition
that stands to benefit their life.

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 CHAPTER THREE:
Creating An Ecosystem

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 CREATING AN ECOSYSTEM
Now that you know how to go about gain friends and mentors, it is im-
portant to know how to build on the foundation you have create and turn
the city you live into a positive “ecosystem” that will maximize your prog-
ress. We discussed previously the importance of value.

Understand that all relationships are about value, people create and main-
tain relationships that bring value to some part of their life. If you want to
create great relationships and build a social circle, increasing the ways in
which you can create value for others is an invaluable skill and by devel-
oping a deep rapport with yourself you will be aware of the best ways to
do so.

Fill your free time with hobbies and activities you enjoy and that will move
your towards your goals. Take an acting class, learn to a new skill anything
that you are interested in there are others who are too, take advantage
of that and keep building. The more action you take the better you will get
to know yourself and he more opportunities you’ll get to socialize.

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 CREATING AN ECOSYSTEM
In creating a positive ecosystem be strategic about where you go, what
you do and who you do it with, become a “regular” at venues you plan
to frequent, get to know the staff, be social and make these places your
“home”. Not only will this make you at ease and comfortable in those envi-
ronments and will allow you to generate massive social proof.

Now that you know how to create the foundation and ecosystem to build
a killer social circle wouldn’t you like to know how to boost your confi-
dence to get out there and put this into action, how to maintain your new-
found relationships and develop the characteristics of a man of value.

Check out The 3i Core Confidence Formula that will get you to stop
caring what other think about you, to learn to take charge and start living
life on your own terms.

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