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By Michelle Beorden
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' reiterates the Biblical mandat'e of different light Against her par-
shunning former membero, r& ents' wisheg eho stBrted working
hen former Jehovah'e . minding followere that such disci- full-time at Smitty's and attending
Witness Linda Welton ' pline is a "te6t of loyalty to God' claeses at Phoenix C,ollege.
hnally got up the cour- and "can yield peaceable fruit." Not only did her commitments
age F cgltact her par-
ents last year, she blocked out'her
Rusk says: "We're not anxious cut into her church-going t!me, it
fcars of rtjection and dialed the
to kick people out of the organiza- also opened up a new circle of
number of thcir Paradise Valley
tion. We glve fallen membere friende and experiences. Welton
every opportunity to repent. But if started questioning the religion's
home.
they continue to ignore the truth, rigid regulations and eventually,
A stranger answered. The for- then we have no choice but to take
mcr occul)ants, Welton was told, after her marriage to a Catlrolic,
this action." she drifted away from the organi-
had moved back to the Midwest.
IIc wasn't sure rvherr. That explanation doers not ease zation.
the burden for WelLon, who, since It wasn't until she was officially
"Tlral's when I knew the ties her expulsion, has given birth to
had really been cut," recalls Wcl- expelled by the church elders that
ton, a 3O-yearold mother of two her second child and has been Welton felt the ultimate blow of
severely injured in a car accidenL her actions.
and a sales represcntatiye for a Neither event was enough to
camera compsny. "lIere my par- "lf you've never been a Witness,
resiore the support of her parents you're a potential \Yitness. There's
ents had moved and didn't even
leave me a forwarding address. If
and older sister. still hope for you," she explains,
that's not insult to iniurv. .. ',
"You can understand why I bitterness edging into her voiee.
Iler voice trails'off and her consider the Witnesses a culL "But a Witness who knows the
What kind of religion pits family 'truth' and gives it up? You're no
bright eyes darken. After a mG members against each other?" she better than the spit on the ground.
pelt, she regains her composure.
It has been nearly three vearc 88y8. And that's just how you're
since slre has talkcd to hei par-
It angers Welton that she must treaced."
pay such a dear price for leaving Jack Schulze, a substitute
e.nts, and the pain, though duiled,
Iingers.
an organization that wasn't even teacher who serves as the overseer
her choice in the first place. Raised for Tempe-area Jehovah's Wit
The cause of Welton'e.estrange'
men{,.tls one only understood 6v
in the Baptist faith, her parents declined io be interviewed
nesses,
became Jehovah's Witnesses when about shunning, saying "it's better
Jehovah's Witnesies; follower.s of i
3.4 million-member denomination
she was 10. Living under her off to be misundersbood than to
parent's roof, she had no choice have something in print that can't,
with worldwide headquarters in
but to conform to the Witness be understood."
Brooklyn, N.Y.
lifestyle. "What you have (with shunning)
Irt' the eyes of this apocalyptic
That meant not attending high ia good people doing hard things
secf;, Welton had committed'iwo
school and earning a correspond- for the sake of righteousness," he
grave sins: She altowed a Chrish
ence degree ins[ead, so she could. says. "Read the Bible
mas tree in the home she shared and it will
wilh.her husband, wlro was raised "pioneer" door-todoor for the - make sense."
church to recruit new memberg. David Brown, a volunteer who
a Calholic, and she maintained a The church bases its beliefs on the
relationship with her vounser Bible's teaching that "bad associa-
counsels former Witnesses through
blother, a fornrer Jehova-h's Wil-
ncss'who had been expelled for
tions apoil useful habits," and the nondenominational
OmegaMinist,ries in
Alpha and
Phoenix,
frowns upon schooling past the thinks otherwise. A Protcslant
wayrtrard bchavior, such' as drink-
etaie's mandatory requ i remen t.
ing urrtl snroking. who convertcd to thc Jelrovah's
l,'or her actions, considcredr un-
It meant not, celebrating birth- Witnesses against his palents'
days or holidays, because the wishes when he was 15, Brown
denlably destructive by the or- organization believes these are
gani/ation, she was "disiellowshipr. spent 11 years in the organization,
heathenish activities. There was
pcq"" in absentia by a :
.. .:, i Lo Vems Horrir, Phocnix Gozelle no need to register to vote, because
including three years working at
thrbe-member court of elders'from the headquarterg in the publishing
hcr'local church. The sentence Jehovoh's Wilne:ses shun oll members who leove rhu ioia; o proctici thot splits up mqny fomilies. that also is forbidden.
department.
carries a heavy penalty: complete
It meant mainly aseociating "I bought the whole story. I
membere who have either resigned adquartere in Brooklyn : trerg who leave annually, either with other Jehovah'e Witnesses, believed ii all, even enough to
osl,racism by family membera and ft'"Yes, attending the required five meet'
fricnds who remain devout WiL or been expclled from the church. it can be traumatic. But through voluntary disaEsociation ings a week, and essgntially mak- work in New York in exchange for
nesses. "lt's nol something we pulled sometimes a traumalic situation or expulsion by a committee from ing the church the cenler of her my ?oom and board and $'30 a
ACcording to a spokesman for out of the air. It's .a scriptural can help a person underaland the their local church, is confidential. life. month," says Brown, now a book-
the Watchtower Bible and Tract rtt;uilenrcnt righ! out of the lli- truth and lead him back to the In the April 15 issue of Watch- When Welton moved into her binder. "I was dedicated to God's
Q*ig.ty, the group's formal name, ble," Fred Rusk says in a tele- right pa[1r." tower magazine, published semi- own apartment at age 19, she service and I thought,I was making
thci'e's sound reason to banish phone intcrryiew from the church'g Rusk says the number.of mem- monthly by the society, an article began to see the world in a See I Shunned, B-7
i : i.
: From 8-6
s Shunned last name revealed, epent 21 years in the
the ultimate commitmenl con[act is forbidden. '
braced
-to
aeal with the shunning, it still wag decisions," the elder says. "It can cause such "The disfellowshipping is just their way of
painful to be cut off from his former peer8. pain and bitterness. I'm not comfortable with punishing Xou, emotionally and - mentally.
iL" ': Feople tt'ith-*eak minds can't stand.up q iL"
"I had good friends and good times as a Ba!B; "lf that'a not I brainwashing
Witness," he aays. "My biggest problem is with In the elder's opinion, the practice of Jan- techniqrie,I don't know what is-"
the leadere, who claim so much authority. disfellowshipping and shunning "keeps qgoRle
Their track record of failed prophecies and in ignoranie" and puts more emp}esia on But like all former members, the threesome
strained theology wa.s unacceptable to me." orgaiizational requirements than Biblical bs has had to live with the pain of being shunned
liefs. by family and.friende.
Not being a Witness required adjus[ment'at "It was, like gtarting all over,' she' says.
home because his wife did not follow his path. 'There is so much good in the eociety"' he
The aociety "highly regards", the marriage says softly. "But if I could change one thing, it "Still, we don't trave a single regret over
Bacrament irnd only considers aduitery a sound would be allowing more coneideration for one's leaving. If anything, we're angry at ourselves
reason for dissolving a union. It does not own @nscience, iather than laying down rules for being so durnb and staying in so long. Never
require couples to divorce when one leaves the and making all meinbers march fo their tune'o again witt I accept things blindly without'
organization, Brown sa)r, but any spiritual
' Jan, a Scottsdale'woman who didn'! want her questionng or researching."
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