Maturity : kedewasaan Convinced : meyakinkan Immediate : dg segera Careful : hati2 Underlying : pokok yg mendasari Conscience : kata hati, hati nurani Eventually : nantinya, akhirnya Embodied : Mewujudkan Acute : takut, nyeri, tajam Sincerely : sungguh2 Approach : mendekat/ menjelang Seek : mencari, menggapai,tanya Gabbing(gab) : mengobrol Cease : berhenti Hassled : percekcokan ( dlm hkm) Sow : menaburkan Dozen : lusin Composite : gabungan Less : Kurang Conscious : sadar Pace : langkah Voyage : perjalanan Rekindle : Menyalakan kembali Adequate : cukup / memadai Spouse : suami / isteri Admit : mengakui, menerima Empower : Memberi kuasa Bedded : nongkrong Recognized : Diakui Procrastination : penundaan , penangguhan Precede : Mendahului Selfishness : egois Futile : sia-sia Impatience : ketidaksabaran Interdependence : keadaan saling tergantung Desire : hasrat, keinginan Happiness : kebahagiaan Unless : Kecuali Immobilized : melumpuhkan Maturity : Kedewasaan Circumstance : keadaan Infant : Bayi Confess : mengakui Further : selanjutnya Dispute : perselisihan, cekcok Accordance : kesesuaian Worth : berharga, layak embodying = perwujudan Supreme : sangat, tertinggi inevitably = takdapat dihindarkan Nevertheless : namun Enthrones : menobatkan Avow : mengakui Emphasis : penekanan, perhatian Shackle : belenggu/kungkung Liberate :membebaskan Assert : menyatakan/menegaskan Ruin : menghancurkan / merusak Derive : mendapat, mengambil Obscure : tdk jelas Glittering : kemegahan, gemilang Incredulous : meragukan Rush : menyerbu, buru2 imprisoned = Dipenjarakan repugnant = menjijikkan decency = kesopanan shudder = rasa ngeri torture = siksaan endowments = anugrah conscience = kata hati govern = memengaruhi miserable = tidak senang/ sengsara transcended = Melebihi we began and to know the place for the first time. "Sow a thought, reap an action; sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny," the maxim goes. For our purposes, we will define a habit as the intersection of knowledge, skill, and desire Knowledge is the theoretical paradigm, the what to do and the why. Skill is the how to do. And desire is the motivation, the want to do. Catatan Baru The being/seeing change is an This new level of thinking is what upward process -- being Seven Habits of Highly Effective changing, seeing, which in turn People is about. It's a principle- changes being, and so forth, as we move in an upward spiral of centered, character-based, growth. By working on "Inside-Out" approach to knowledge, skill, and desire, we personal and interpersonal can break through to new levels effectiveness. of personal and interpersonal "Inside-Out" : start first with self; effectiveness as we break with old paradigms that may have even more fundamentally, to been a source of pseudo-security start with the most inside part of for years. self -- with your paradigms, your character, and your motives. It's sometimes a painful process. It's a change that has to be We must not cease from motivated by a higher purpose, exploration and the end of all our by the willingness to subordinate exploring will be to arrive where what you think you want now for what you want later. But this process produces happiness, "the Effectiveness lies in the balance -- object and design of our what I call the P/PC Balance TM. P existence." Happiness can be stands for production of desired defined, in part at least, as the results, the golden eggs. PC fruit of the desire and ability to stands for production capability, sacrifice what we want now for the ability or asset that produces what we want eventually. the golden eggs.
That's why Habits 1, 2, and 3 in
the following chapters deal with self-mastery. They move a person from dependence to independence. They are the "Private Victories," the essence of character growth. Private Victories precede Public Victories. You can't invert that process anymore than you can harvest a crop before you plant it. It's Inside-Out. True effectiveness is a function of two things: what is produced (the golden eggs) and the producing asset or capacity to produce (the goose).
If you adopt a pattern of life that
focuses on golden eggs and neglects the goose, you will soon be without the asset that produces golden eggs. On the other hand, if you only take care of the goose with no aim toward the golden eggs, you soon won't have the wherewithal to feed yourself or the goose.