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Wealth
Spells
By Derek Rydall
The 5 Hypnotic
Wealth
Spells
and how to snap out of them
By Derek Rydall
Table of ContentS
4 Introduction
Snapping Out of The
5 Hypnotic Wealth Spells
70 Staying Awake
Introduction
The man tried desperately to chase the white poodle off the stage,
as the person conducting the exercise directed him. But no mat-
ter how much he dodged and darted, trying to cut the poodle off,
scare the poodle, or grab the poodle, his attempts failed. Exhaust-
ed, the man sat back down in his chair on stage, frustrated, pant-
ing, feeling like a failure, staring out of the corner his eye at that
god-forsaken white poodle standing just a few feet out of his reach.
The audience watched in awe and wonder, eyes wide, some
covering their mouth in shock and surprise. Why? Because from
their perspective, there was no white poodle. All they saw was a
wild man chasing nothing around the stage, driving himself cra-
zy until he collapsed in a pool of anger and perspiration. You see,
the man had been hypnotized to believe there was a white poodle.
And to his awareness, it was as real as anything else.
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“I’m going to count backwards from five to one now,” The hypnotist
said in a calm, steady voice. “And when I reach one, you’ ll wake up,
feeling refreshed and rejuvenated. Five, four, three, two, one…” He
snapped his fingers. Like a curtain had been pulled back, the man’s
face grew brighter. He took a breath, became suddenly relaxed, and
sat up straight, full of renewed energy. The poodle was gone. The au-
dience applauded. And the hypnotist asked for the next volunteer…
So where was that poodle? Where did it come from and
where did it go? To the hypnotized man, it was as real as any dog.
But there was nothing there. It was all a projection of his mind,
which had been implanted with an hypnotic suggestion. He wasn’t
reacting to anything ‘out there,’ he was reacting to his own belief of
a white poodle. This same trick has caused people to do all kinds of
things and have all kinds of experiences that are as real as everyday
life. People have been hypnotized to believe they can’t move, and
try as they might, they’re stuck. They’ve been hypnotized to believe
their arms were ten times their normal weight, and as if it were so,
their arms fell to their side like slabs of concrete. They’ve been hyp-
notized to believe they’re surrounded by snakes, and they cower in
fear, completely paralyzed.
Many studies have been done where people were covert-
ly ‘primed’ with suggestions (basically hypnotized in more subtle
ways), then observed as they responded biologically to these sugges-
tions without knowing they were puppets in someone’s psychologi-
cal game. In one study, students would walk up to someone with a
book of matches, strike a hot match, blow it out then, unbeknownst
to the subject, touch their hand with a totally cold match. The re-
sult: a statistically significant sample of the subjects would form
heat blisters – as if a hot match had touched them. Another exam-
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ple had two sets of people fill out surveys where they answered a
series of questions, one version layering in suggestions of old age
and its accompanying symptoms, the other layering in suggestions
of youth and vitality. Afterwards, they were studied and there was a
significant change in the speed and gait of their walk, the posture in
their body, and various other markers that reflected signs of aging.
There have also been experiments that did the reverse;
where a group of elderly men were put in a house that had been
converted to reflect all the signs and suggestions of their youth.
The result? After a week of being in this environment, they had all
shown significant signs of age reversal. Some going in on a wheel-
chair came out with only a cane. Some that couldn’t even pull up
their own socks ended the week playing touch football! But soon
after this, as they returned to the world full of suggestions that
they were old, they reverted back. Even more bizarre are the ac-
counts of people with multiple personalities whose biology chang-
es when they change personalities. One personality has a particular
disease, allergy, or other ailment, another personality doesn’t have
it – and depending on which personality they inhabit, the prob-
lem appears and disappears, as if it never existed. There have even
been accounts of one personality having one eye color and when
they switch, their eye color changes!
So where was the disease, the youthfulness, the old age, the
allergies, the cause of eye color, the heat of the match, or the white
poodle? It was all in their mind! Please don’t brush over that sen-
tence, because if you can truly understand that, your life will never
be the same. All of these examples and numerous more have prov-
en over and over that we don’t experience life as it is, we experience
life as we are, through the filters of our conditioned beliefs, expecta-
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Hypnotic Wealth Spell # 3
“You Have to Believe It To Receive (or Achieve) It”
Awakened Wealth Truth: You Have to Ask to Receive It
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Now there may well be more than five, and there are many distinc-
tions and permutations of each of these. However in working with
good-hearted, conscientious people who sincerely want to have more
abundance, but are struggling to make it happen, these are the core
patterns I’ve uncovered. So let’s dive into them…
Chapter One
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his is the number one lie that hobbles many people in
their ability to achieve abundance of any kind in a sus-
tainable way. This is touched upon in the foundational
chapter, where we discussed how the substance of all creation is
within us and we can never be separate from it. Here, I want to ex-
pand on the characteristics of someone caught in this trance and
someone awakened from it, so that you can identify when you’ve
fallen under this spell, and have practices for snapping out of it. I
go in-depth to help you fully understand this issue, so if you’re in a
rush to get to the ‘wealth and money stuff,’ please be patient. Hav-
ing a solid foundation will help you make lasting change.
We’ve been conditioned from birth to believe that we are a
separate being, separate from each other, separate from our envi-
ronment, and separate from the things we want and need. In fact,
the ego is basically a separation-creating program. That’s actually
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its job – to create programs that ensure the survival of the separate
self and its body. It allows us to experience ourselves as something
distinct from the environment so that we don’t walk into a tree or
off a cliff. It allows us to feel separate from other animals, so that we
don’t just hug a lion (although that would be pretty cool if the lion
let us). And it makes us feel separate from other humans, so that
we don’t trust everyone, let down our guard, and walk into enemy
territory unarmed. It also allowed us to create programs that made
our family, friends, ethnicity, tribe, village, and nation separate -- so
that we would make its preservation a priority.
Now clearly this had its benefits. As we were evolving and
didn’t have the brain capacity to question our perceptions and be-
liefs – metacognition – it created in us an instinctive mechanism
that increased our chances of survival. By seeing ourselves as sepa-
rate, we protected our body. By seeing our family as separate, each
person could more easily protect that unit of the tribe called their
family. By seeing our ethnicity as separate, we could preserve our
unique heritage so that it endured long enough to bring forth its
specific gifts, rather than becoming subsumed into other ethnici-
ties and being lost forever. By seeing our tribe, village, and nation as
separate, it allowed us to focus on developing the unique qualities,
capacities, and ultimate purpose of this larger unit of life. It makes
sense, in the same way that when we really want to master a thing,
we isolate it and dive deeply into it until we can discover, extract,
and integrate its potential.
The problem, however, is that a paradigm of separation can
only take us so far. It can help us understand or preserve an isolat-
ed, distinct part, but it can never bring us to an awareness of the
whole and how it really operates. This is the problem with much of
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belief that we are separate from our source of life and creation is the
primary cause behind all acts of violence and cruelty, to ourselves
and others, all wars, and all destruction of our beautiful planet. And
the only solution to our personal and global problems is to come back
into a realization of our oneness with life itself, and all that entails.
When we know, truly know, that we are one with life, with
source, with everything that is real, what could we possibly want
for? Why would we ever lie, cheat, steal, harm or kill anyone or any-
thing when we know that we are connected to the source of all cre-
ation, including its capacity to create whatever we truly need? The
answer is we wouldn’t.
When the bible says “I and my father are one, and all that the
father has is mine…the cattle on a thousand hills…the earth and the
fullness thereof…” it is speaking of this realization of oneness with
the Fountain of All Creation. When it talks about the Prodigal
Son who leaves his father’s house, takes his inheritance, and tries
to make it on his own, only to become broke and broken and final-
ly return home again, it’s describing our human journey of leaving
our sense of oneness with the source of creation, creating a separate
sense of existence that leads to all the pain and suffering, lack and
loss of the human drama, until we eventually wake up in a hovel
with pigs and prostitutes and go ‘what the heck was I thinking?’ and
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begin our journey back home to oneness. This is also the mean-
ing behind the metaphor of the vine and its branches, and how a
human is like a branch cut off from the vine or tree, which with-
ers and dies. Once you understand this principle, if you go back
and read the great scriptures of the world (from all religions), you
will start to see what they’re really teaching. And it boils down to
this: we are dreaming that we are separate from God, Source, Life,
which is creating all our suffering, and we need to wake up – snap
out of this hypnotic spell – to realize our oneness again.
Now you may be thinking, “ holy smokes, this is some deep
stuff, man, I just want to pay my rent, not become a saint!” And
I hear you. Some of this can feel like we’re going down the rabbit
hole. If that’s the case, just let it wash over you. Let it plant the seeds
of truth in you. In time, with care and feeding, they will take root
and sprout into a harvest that bears rich fruit! The main thing to
take away from this first hypnotic wealth spell is that most of us
have been asleep to who we really are, where we really are, and what
we really have – a divine inheritance of infinite proportions.
And this sense of separation has led to many of the neurot-
ic, destructive patterns we have found ourselves in, and the many
ways we have tried, in vain, to get ourselves out of these messes.
As long as we’re asleep to this hypnotic spell, even our solutions
will keep us stuck in our problems! That’s why Einstein said you
can’t solve a problem at the level of thinking that created it. That’s
why, even when people use these strategies to make more money --
even when they get a bigger paycheck -- they just find themselves
broke at a higher income bracket! As long as we’re operating from
separation, true wealth and fulfillment will always be ‘out there’
no matter how much we have.
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Well, first you have to recognize you’re in it. What are some of
the signs that you have been hypnotized by a sense of separation?
A feeling that you are incomplete without something or someone
(some condition) and will only be complete once you have it.
use these tools, but if you find yourself feeling you must use
them or you will lose out, or you feel a sense of fear, excite
ment, or pushing around your goals, you just might be
chasing a white poodle.
Now this list isn’t meant to be exhaustive; there are many other
possible clues that you have been hypnotized by this spell. But it
should be enough to alert you when you have taken the bait and
are walking asleep, dreaming you’re awake.
snap out of it
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hat most people strive after isn’t really what they
want – which is the inner quality, the inner connec-
tion, the inner experience. What everyone is actu-
ally going for, even when they think otherwise, is a state of being,
whether that’s peace, love, joy, freedom, or fulfillment. The belief is
that we must purchase this state of being by attaining a certain level
of external wealth or things. The irony is that, for many people, the
struggle to get the outer things they believe will finally give them
the inner experience, often robs them of the very state of being they
were striving for in the first place.
The outer expressions of abundance are mere symbols of real
wealth, just as the fruit on a tree is not the wealth of the tree but an
effect of the invisible process within the tree – the real source of its
abundance. As we come to truly understand this, we no longer strive
and struggle after the outer things, the effects, but become more in-
terested and invested in the source, the real cause. Our value system
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This is why all the great masters have taught us to make that
inner connection, whether they called it the Kingdom of Heaven,
Nirvana, the Tao, or any of the various names this inner dimension
has been given. Jesus told us to ‘take no thought for your life’ or any
of the things of life, but instead to ‘seek first the kingdom of heaven’ --
which he said was within us -- and all those other things would be
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‘added unto us.’ Buddha taught the same thing, in his own way. This
isn’t a religious teaching, it’s a perennial truth, a universal principle.
In other words, when we make that inner connection with the real
substance of life, it always takes form in our experience. But the form
is the ‘added thing,’ not the thing itself. And when we’re anchored
to the Real Thing within us, no matter what seemingly threatens,
diminishes or even destroys the outer form, we can always recreate
it out of the indestructible, incorruptible reality of our being from
which it came.
This is the real power of snapping out of this hypnotic spell.
When you believe that money and things are wealth, you must give
your power away to them. You become attached to them. And you
fear all the many ways the world can take them away. This leads to
all manner of conflict and control until we are twisted into such a
pretzel that we can barely function as the authentic brilliant mas-
terful beings we truly are. But when you understand that all those
‘outer things’ are just the fruit of an invisible principle, you know
that no matter how much you have hanging on your branches, or
how much has been eaten by the birds, blown away by the winds,
or dried out from temporary draughts, you can always generate a
whole new harvest.
Now the fact that everything ‘out there’ is nothing more
than a symbol of something real within you doesn’t make the sym-
bols bad or unimportant, it just puts them in their proper perspec-
tive. This is not such an absolutist teaching as to say that this world
doesn’t matter, that it’s nothing but an illusion and we should only
care about waking up and getting out of here! There have been
many teachings that have made this world bad and separated it from
God or Life. It’s true that the world you see, taste, touch, and sense is
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not real in the absolute sense, because it’s temporary, always chang-
ing, and everything that appears eventually disappears. But that
doesn’t mean it has no value. A painting or photograph of a person
or landscape isn’t the real person or territory, but it’s still a valuable
painting or picture as far as those things go. We can gain many things
from the capacity it gives us to slow things down, focus on the details,
discover the distinctions, and unpack different interpretations.
We can experience great joy, love, laughter, inspiration, and
enlightenment from our interaction with the world of appearanc-
es, like we can with great works of art. But while we may enjoy and
learn from a beautiful painting or powerful story, we don’t want
to lose ourselves in it or become so identified with it that we forget
who we are separate from it. You can paint a beautiful picture of a
road, but it won’t literally take you anywhere. You can snap amazing
photographs of food, but none of them will actually feed you. And
you can admire masterpieces of human portraiture, but you’ll nev-
er know true love and connection by simply staring at a picture of
someone. As with much of this work, it’s about being in the world
but not of it, enjoying all the fruits, all the outer symbols, but never
becoming attached to them or believing they are your source.
Imagine the power you could possess if you no longer believed
the outer world was your source, and no longer worried that it could
take anything away? Imagine what you would be capable of if you no
longer wasted time and energy in struggling for the outer symbols,
defending what you had, fearing its loss, or fighting to get it back?
Imagine who you could become if you knew that all wealth
and abundance was within you, infinite, inexhaustible, and uncon-
ditional, merely awaiting your activation and expression. This is not
only possible, it’s how you were designed to live!
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You are willing to sacrifice your true calling, your deeper pur-
pose, the work you most want to do, for a job or opportunity
that only brings you money. This can be as extreme as not go-
ing for your dreams because you don’t believe you can make a
living at it, to compromising your true vision on any level be-
cause you are afraid it will cause you to lose or never get the
opportunities you desire. (This doesn’t mean you don’t some-
times have to work a ‘regular job,’ or work part of the time to
pay the bills so you can use the rest of your time to pursue your
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You are putting your real life on the layaway plan, waiting for
some future condition when you will have ‘enough’ of what
ever you think you need (time, money, ability, relationships)
to go for what you really want, be who you really are, and ful
fill the deeper reason you’re here. The only reason you would
do this is because you believe some outer symbol is the source.
When you know that the source of all abundance – an abun
dance of time, money, ability, love, etc. – is within you, then t
here’s nothing to wait for.
conditions – then you can absolutely have a big outer goal that you
are working towards.
Your deepest devotion, investment, priority, and attach-
ment must remain on the inner goal, the inner connection, the
‘peace that passes all human understanding.’ Because if you have
that, you have the real thing, the real wealth, and it will appear
outwardly as the ‘added things.’ But if you pursue the outer things
and lose that inner connection, no matter how much you get ‘out
there,’ you will be in poverty. This is the meaning of the ancient
text, ‘ for what does it profit a man if he gains the world but loses his
soul.’ All you end up with is a gallery full of pictures and none of the
real things of life. Those pictures won’t feed you, comfort you, hold
your hand, or love you. You will wander the gallery of your mind, star-
ing at one-dimensional images of reality, lost, alone, broke, and broken.
I know that’s harsh, but that’s the truth, that’s the master teaching.
snap out of it
As with all of these, there are the staples of waking up: a daily
practice of meditation, prayer, affirmation, journaling, inspiration-
al reading, moment to moment mindfulness, the one minute mys-
tic, and studying the letter of truth. As these things become a way
of life, you become a candidate for real revelation, real insight into
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the ultimate nature of life. Beyond that, there is a fun and powerful
practice for building your awareness of the real wealth behind the
symbols of wealth, what I call ‘mastering the energy of money.’
expand to fill your being. Let it loosen any places where you might
feel separate, where you are holding on, believing you are in control.
Breathe and receive this enormous gift of grace that life is, recog-
nizing that you didn’t personally do anything to earn all of this,
and there’s no way you ever could. You didn’t set all the systems up
that allow this fuel to get to you. You didn’t create those farms or
raise those farmers or teach those truck drivers or drill for oil or
mine the raw materials. It wasn’t your time, energy, or education
that made all that happen. No single person, no matter how bril-
liant they are, could ever begin to create, master, or manage such
a diverse, complex system – all of which is required to deliver that
fuel to you. Only grace has made it so.
As you rest in this grace, turn your attention now to all the
ways this fuel serves you, your family, friends, and loved ones. See all
the possibilities it gives you.
You can drive to a job that employees you, pick up your chil-
dren from school, take your family on a fun vacation, explore and
experience the world, deliver your gifts, and so much more. Ex-
pand your vision to imagine all the ripple effects of your activities.
For example, because you can bring your child to school, they can
become an educated citizen who then goes out into the world and
adds their contribution. Because you can go to work, you can give
gifts that help all the people your business serves and earn mon-
ey to support your family and all their endeavors. If you run out
of ways this fuel blesses you, imagine all the other ways it blesses,
allowing firefighters, police officers, paramedics, and other service
people to help those in need, save lives, and keep the peace. Truly
the blessings of this one thing are far and wide.
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his has caused so much pain and frustration, as sincere
seekers have put their life on the layaway plan think-
ing they couldn’t go for what they wanted until they
believed in themselves or the goal enough – in other words, until
they felt ‘good about it,’ ‘worthy of it,’ ‘confident they could do it,’ or
at least not afraid. While our state of feeling and belief is certainly
a powerful force, it isn’t necessary in order to go for what we want,
ask for what we want, or in many cases actually get what we want.
Often just acting or asking opens the channels for receiving, or ac-
tivates an inner feeling that starts generating the necessary energy
to bring it to fruition. Snapping out of this hypnotic spell will free
you from this waiting game and get you into bold action toward
your vision of awakened wealth.
The first layer of conditioning that has bred this limited per-
ception is the idea that our feelings or emotions have power over
us and determine what we do. It’s an easy assumption to make. Af-
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what form. But we are not our beliefs and are not at the effect of
them. This means that even when we have limited beliefs that are
hard to overcome, we can begin to override them by acting accord-
ing to our vision regardless of our belief. Our actions then become
like affirmations in work clothes – what I call ‘Active believing,’
akin to active imagination -- generating new energy that accelerates
our more empowered belief or completely shatters the old one.
When the ancient spiritual texts say ‘Ask and you shall re-
ceive,’ it’s pointing us to this powerful principle. The reason this
works is because everything is already here, already happening, in
the quantum field or spiritual reality. Even more, it’s actively seek-
ing to find outlets for its expression. So the act of ‘asking’ opens the
channel to receive what is always being given. The other scriptur-
al quotes that are similarly pointing to this principle are ‘Seek and
you shall find…knock and the door shall be opened.’ All of these are
illustrating a practice for making ourselves available to the good
that is always trying to flow to and through us, but we have to
open the channel by ‘asking, seeking, and knocking.’
The second layer of conditioning we have to address and re-
lease is the teaching of many spiritual, self-help, and new thought
practices, which puts a great emphasis on the fact that our thoughts
and beliefs create our reality. While this is true, it’s also misleading.
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First, it’s not just our thoughts and beliefs that create our reality, it is
the activity of our consciousness to be more specific. And our con-
sciousness includes thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and actions. All of that
is within the realm of our consciousness. And, as already stated, when
we use our actions as moving affirmations or active believing, we
stimulate consciousness and accelerate our expanded beliefs. But the
more important distinction here is that, while our thoughts and be-
liefs create our experience of reality, they don’t prevent us from think-
ing, and ultimately acting, independently of our thoughts and beliefs
– because we are not our thoughts and beliefs. We have the capacity
of metacognition, which means our ability to think about what we’re
thinking about. So regardless of what we think or believe or even
what appears possible, with expanded awareness, we can choose to
act in alignment with our higher vision, activate higher vibrational
feelings, and move out of those limited perceptions.
The biggest side effect of all the teachings on how our be-
liefs create our reality is that it has inadvertently made us victims
of our current mindset, causing us to think we can’t create a new
reality until we believe and feel it. So like the emotional reason-
ing disorder, we fall prey to an equivalent mental disorder, a ‘ be-
lief reasoning’ if you will. We look within ourselves and see that
we don’t believe we’re worth charging more for our services, which
generates a feeling of unworthiness and perhaps fear, sadness, etc.
We then see and feel this and say to ourselves, ‘Well, I guess I’m
not ready to…ask for the promotion…raise my prices…start this proj-
ect…ask this person out…I’ ll have to do more work on my thoughts,
beliefs, and feelings, until I feel and believe I am worthy and capa-
ble…then I’ ll take that action.’ This leads to the legions of navel
gazing aspirants on the path – or I should say sitting on the side
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of the path – praying, affirming, and waiting for their beliefs and
feelings to be at a certain level before they can start moving to-
ward what they really want.
Maybe that’s you. Maybe you’ve been doing all this inner
work, going to classes, reading books, trying to build that inner
sense of confidence and belief in yourself or your dream, in order
to finally take bold action toward it. If so, I have some really good
news: you can stop waiting now! The truth is that whatever you’re
waiting for, you’re waiting with and often weighing it down.
And after that, I began to practice it more and more, and be-
gan to experience the fruition of many of the things I had mere-
ly been praying, affirming, and hoping for. I had finally replaced
my wishbone with a real backbone. I had lost all the ‘wait’ and had
real momentum at last!
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You hear yourself saying, internally or out loud, that you need
to do more research, study more, or improve more before you
are ready to pursue the thing you truly want. This doesn’t
mean you don’t need to study, improve, or get support, but if
this has been a chronic story keeping you from stepping out –
you’ve been hypnotized!
and taking new programs – but if you’re not also taking pro-
gressive actions toward your vision, you might be hypnotized.
Generally, any time you truly want to pursue something, raise your
prices, ask for a raise, start an important project, or put yourself out
there in a newer, bigger way, but you’re waiting to feel ‘ready,’ ‘safe,’
‘confident,’ ‘good enough,’ or to not feel fear, doubt, worry, or uncer-
tainty, you might be caught in this hypnotic spell. (Again, this doesn’t
mean you shouldn’t be prepared, study, develop yourself, do your
research, do your due diligence, get support, and strive for excellence --
but if you’re doing your best in these areas and still waiting to feel a
certain way before you go for it, you might be under this spell.)
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snap out of it
themselves much higher than their actual skill levels are, and that
consequently this false sense of confidence leads to less motiva-
tion and openness to growth and improvement, or even accidents,
product defects, and malpractice. In other words, false confidence
breeds apathy, laziness, mediocrity, and stagnation.
I know that the guidance to ‘ just do it’ sounds simplistic,
but one of the things you’re hopefully realizing as we go through
these, is that our thoughts, beliefs, and feelings don’t have any real
power over us, and our capacity to move and change the energy
in our lives is much greater than we know. Regardless of what we
think, believe, or feel, if we just take positive productive action in
the direction of our dreams, we can begin to activate the energy,
inspiration, and transformation that we’ve been waiting for.
I’m not saying we don’t need to work on the inner world –
obviously that’s critical – but because of our metacognition (our
ability to think and act independently of our thoughts and feel-
ings) we don’t have to put our life on the layaway plan for some
internal or external change to ‘ be the change’ we want to see in
the world.
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o ‘adapt’ to something, from the definition, is to ‘adjust,
confirm, or fit into’ some new condition. In its most basic
sense, it is a capacity we have to cope and survive against
all odds. In our evolutionary history, when the weather turned
harsh, our ability to find shelter, create protective clothing, and
store food were adaptive abilities that allowed our species to stay
alive. Evolution is the story of how things learned to adapt in order
to survive, and how that drove change and growth in certain areas.
And it’s a good thing we had this capacity. It was a necessary mech-
anism to increase the chances that this human experiment would
work out. But natural evolution can only take us so far. Its purpose
was not necessarily progress but protection. It was more about sur-
viving than truly thriving. This is especially important for species
without the capacity to think independently of their circumstances,
something only humans seem to have. But for humans, the natu-
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ral flow of evolution and adaptation is not enough. Worse, the very
thing that helped us survive now puts us on the brink of extinction
-- if not literal death than at least stagnation of our true potential.
The process of adapting is about survival, it’s not about real
progress, real innovation -- that is something we must embrace
consciously. We must co-create with life to bring forth our true po-
tential; it won’t just happen. The problem is that we have been so
conditioned to adapt that it’s hard to override this impulse. When
conditions contract, our tendency is to merely problem solve or
shrink to fit the problem. If we lose our job, we fall into surviv-
al mode, seeing it as a bad thing, cut back, become less creative,
and simply try to find a new job. It seems perfectly logical, and it is
logical, but it’s not progressive and it won’t lead to a greater, more
abundant expression of life. From a spiritual evolutionary perspec-
tive, adapting is the worse thing we can do. When we adapt in the
face of limited conditions, we shrink the channels of our capacity
and end up smaller on the other side.
but in our vision of possibility. The result: on the other side of the
limited condition, we are smaller, mentally, emotionally, energeti-
cally, and often financially. The Awakened Wealth truth, however,
is quite different. It states that we must ‘expand in the face of con-
traction,’ which activates a powerful evolutionary force within us
that uses the limited experience to make us bigger and stronger,
able to carry more energy.
say because one partner is angry or unhappy with the other, the
natural human response is to react by defending, attacking, with-
drawing, or even leaving. This is shrinking to fit, lowering their
emotional, mental, spiritual, and energetic setpoint to the level of
the partner – they ‘sell’ when things go down. But the savvy part-
ner does the opposite: when there’s a low point in the relationship
or their partner, they expand in the face of it and bring an in-
crease of love, wisdom, service, energy, etc. – they ‘ buy’ or invest
more when things go down. I’m not saying this is easy. You might
have to dig deeper in yourself, release resistance and fear, heal old
wounds. But the key is that during the low or contracted points,
you bring more of yourself, not less. And when the high point
comes again, if not before, you reap the rewards. This is the deep-
er meaning of Jesus’ statement, ‘turn the other cheek.’ Contrary to
some interpretations, this doesn’t mean to let someone hit you on
the other side of the face! It means to return a different, higher en-
ergy than the one you received; to return love for hate, peace for
chaos, or give when someone is trying to take.
We can see this same principle play out in business. When
everyone else is watching the clock, trying to make sure they don’t
give more time than they’re being paid for, it’s the one who shows up
early and leaves late that ultimately gets promoted. When the boss is
not appreciating the employees or is more of a dominating, control-
ling type, it’s the employee that focuses on how they can serve and
add value to the boss or company who gets noticed by the boss and
ultimately treated better. In fact, Stephen Covey, author of the
classic The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People called this being a
‘trim tab.’ A trim tab is the small rudder that moves the big rudder
on a ship. It appears to be very tiny compared to the large rudder,
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and especially to the ship, but it’s actually what moves the whole
thing. He gave an example of a person in a company who could have
easily felt like they had little power in the face of the hierarchical
structure, but who nonetheless decided to give their all, give their
best, and continuously add value. The result was that they eventu-
ally rose to the top, while the others who were just ‘giving as good as
they got’ remained stuck at their level or worse.
There are examples of this in nature as well. Certain plants
require rough soil to activate their potential. When the ground gets
hard and rocky, they don’t just give up, give in, or lower their abil-
ity to grow based on the harsh condition – they activate certain en-
zymes that develop thicker bark and a heartier system that allows
them to thrive in those conditions. They dig deep and come out the
other side more than they were before the challenge. This is what
all great individuals have done, whether it’s athletes, politicians,
artists, entrepreneurs, or spiritual leaders. The ones that rise to the
top don’t adapt, they expand, they dig deeper, they demand more of
themselves, they look for the blessing, the lesson, the opportunity to
become more than they ever thought possible.
The ones that rise to the top don’t adapt, they expand,
they dig deeper, they demand more of themselves,
they look for the blessing, the lesson, the opportunity
to become more than they ever thought possible.
This isn’t to say that there’s never a time to ‘sell on the down-
swing’ or adapt temporarily until you have the strength or resources
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to expand. But it should be the exception to the rule, not the pre-
dominant strategy that governs your life.
One biblical story that beautifully illustrates this princi-
ple is Joseph. God had given him a powerful vision, but when Jo-
septh shared it, his brothers were jealous and sold him into slavery.
While a servant, he could have been angry, bitter, shrank his po-
tential, and given up on his dreams. Instead he began to give more,
give excellence, and expand his capacities. As a result, he become
well loved and well treated. Unfortunately, the master’s wife took
a liking to him, and when he didn’t bow to all her inappropriate
demands, she framed him and he went to prison. Again, he could
have been bitter, shriveled up into an angry, resentful man, but he
expanded in the face of this limitation and rose to a prominent
position of authority in the prison. This led to him meeting and
counseling the Pharaoh’s cook, who had been imprisoned tempo-
rarily. The cook told Joseph of a dream the Pharaoh had, which Jo-
seph interpreted to mean that there was going to be a great famine.
When this got back to the Pharaoh, he acted on the
dream, storing food and water and wild stock. And when the
famine hit, because of Joseph’s interpretation, the land was saved
and Joseph was made the right hand of the Pharaoh, becoming
the second most powerful man in the known world. In the end,
Joseph’s brothers were brought before him and were convinced
he would have them executed for their crime. But Joseph has so
developed his ability to ‘turn the other cheek’ and give a high-
er, better energy, that he pardoned them and left them with the
statement, ‘Man may have meant it for evil, but God meant it for
good,’ essentially saying that everything was conspiring so that
Joseph could fulfill his purpose and save the land, his original vi-
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snap out of it
Besides the foundational suggestions I’ve given for the other hyp-
notic spells, this one is about the practice of stretching yourself
beyond your comfort zone, giving more than you are getting, and
continuing to go for your big vision regardless of conditions. As
you do this, you will invariably come up against all the reasons
why you can’t do it, don’t want to do it, or feel it’s not fair that you
have to! The mental patterns of lack, limitation, and feeling like a
victim will most assuredly be stirred to the surface, as will the un-
digested emotions from past wounds. And then your work will be
to address those, to dive more deeply into the letter of truth until
it’s more real to you than the experience, and to feel your feeling
fully until they have run their course and released. This is not for
the faint of heart!
This means you can’t wait for it to feel safe, secure, comfort-
able or convenient. You must be brave, have courage, and become
a hero to yourself.
It didn’t feel safe or secure for me to double my charitable contri-
butions when the economy turned. It didn’t feel comfortable for
me to give my best at a job where I was routinely being unappreci-
ated. And I’m sure it wasn’t fun or convenient for Joseph to keep
getting up after being betrayed by his brothers, framed by his mas-
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T
his spell has hobbled so many heart-centered people.
One of the earliest culprits was the saying ‘the love of
money is the root of all evil,’ often misquoted as, ‘money
is the root of all evil.’ But money and the things it can buy are only
symbols of wealth, not wealth itself, just as the fruit on a tree isn’t
the wealth of a tree, it’s the outer evidence of it. The real meaning
of this saying is that the love of the symbols of wealth, the attach-
ment to them, is the actual root of evil. Once we know the source
of supply is spiritual, invisible, and within us, we begin to lose our
attachment to the outer symbols. Once we know that the fruits
will keep appearing as long as we nurture the roots, we have less
need to hoard our fruits in barns where they rot and do little good
for us or anyone. This frees us up to truly enjoy the fruits, to savor
them, to have them in abundance without guilt, and to share them
freely without fear.
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But this hypnotic spell goes much deeper. It’s one of the core rea-
sons why the world is largely run by more materially-minded people
with values that don’t necessarily lend themselves to love, commu-
nity, service, and the true betterment of the planet and humanity,
while the deeply spiritual, heart-centered, or creative are the ser-
vants of these masters and structures. Now to be fair, there are many
conscious, conscientious, wonderful people with a lot of money, and
they are doing great works in the world. So this is not meant to be
an anti-rich commentary, not at all. It can also be said that some of
the greatest acts of global innovation, evolution, and value-adding
impact have come from some of the richest, most successful, but not
necessarily most enlightened beings. The development of the steel
industry, the railroads, the computer, the internet, and many other
major inventions or industries, often created by ego-driven, greedy,
or megalomaniacal men, have nevertheless led to some of the great-
est advantages on the planet – including a reduction in crime, vi-
olence, war, poverty, and greater access to food, water, housing,
education, and opportunity.
Still, so many heart-centered, spiritually-minded, truly
good people with amazing talents, gifts, and abilities that could
help this planet evolve to a whole new level, remain in the back-
ground, in the corners of the world, struggling to make ends meet,
dying with their music still in them – often because they had so
much baggage around money, wealth, sales, and success. If the
most enlightened, heart-centered, creative people are going to rise
into positions of prominence and power, and have the resources to
fund their visions, and the greater visions of the planet, we need
to heal this. In a sense, that is the whole purpose of this book, to
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didn’t say you should, you know, make ends meet, otherwise you’re
a terrible sinner! But the deeper psychological reason why so many
heart-centered people struggle with this goes even further than just
money or material gain. Its roots are in our core wounds.
The key takeaway for now is to understand that the idea that
money or wealth is not spiritual is a coping mechanism born from
this core wound. The truth is that it’s impossible for anything to
be unspiritual in the absolute sense, since all there is, is spirit. God
is in everything, and everything is in God (and by ‘God’ I am not
referring to a man in the sky, but the intelligence, principle, and
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power behind all creation). That doesn’t mean we see things correct-
ly and are experiencing them in their true divine nature – certainly
we’re not. But everything, in its true essence, is a divine perfect idea,
whether it’s money, the body, sex, business, art, commerce, or any
other area of human life. We don’t want to reject any part of our
humanity, including money -- we want to understand its true na-
ture and its correct application, so that it can find its rightful, con-
structive expression in the world. Money is an expression of divine
energy, consciousness, even love. When we earn it, grow it, and cir-
culate it consciously, we supply the resources for more good to man-
ifest for all. We don’t think it’s wrong to have an endless supply of
health, love, peace, joy, or creativity. When you understand that
wealth and its expression in money or any form of abundance is just
another spiritual quality, you realize that it’s just as holy to have and
express as much of it as you desire!
Please don’t brush over this point too quickly: wealth and
abundance in all its forms is really a spiritual idea, quality, or activ-
ity, as sacred and divine as love, peace, joy, beauty, or any other spiri-
tual quality. There is no division, no separation, in the mind of God.
There is no spot where God is not – which means there is no spot
where all the qualities of Ultimate Good are not. When you judge
or reject any part of creation, including wealth in its many forms,
you are rejecting a part of God – a part of your true self.
And to that extent, Life, Love, and Abundance can’t express
through you and manifest in your experience. This appears as vari-
ous forms of lack, which can often appear like they’re circumstances
out of your control – the loss of a job, unexpected bills, a lack of op-
portunity or ideas for new opportunities, a stagnation around your
creativity, and conflict with others in the area of wealth or finances
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You don’t like talking about money, and even feel guilty, ner-
vous or ashamed around the topic.
You take a strange pride in how much you give away for free,
how you don’t charge much, how little you have, how you’re
not part of that ‘capitalist’ culture -- and/or you feel guilt
around admitting that you have made a lot or have a lot.
You can’t keep what you earn. Because you feel guilty or
ashamed for having more than others, you have to spend it or
give it away (this is often not conscious, but you know it’s hap-
pening if money burns a whole in your pocket or goes out the
door as fast as it comes in!)
How you handle money can be a big clue. Do you crumple it up,
stuff it in your wallet or purse like some contraband you don’t
want anyone to see? Or do you have it nicely folded or laid out,
the way you would treat clothing you cared about? (Money is
like a person: if you judge, condemn or reject it, it won’t want to
stay with you – and will find the quickest path out of your life!
So treat it well.)
snap out of it
Well, hopefully this section has illuminated you about the error of
this kind of thinking. That alone can create mental and emotional
momentum, making you a candidate for new insights and inspira-
tion around this area. But this spell is pernicious and must be con-
sciously addressed on a regular basis.
Every time you have an opportunity to ask for what you real-
ly need, charge what you’re really worth, and go for what you really
want, you need to remember that having less doesn’t help anyone and
having more doesn’t hurt anyone. Everyone’s demonstration is his or
her own to make.
This can be controversial, but it’s principle: nobody is poor
because someone else made him or her that way. That’s not how
life works, not even in the poorest part of the world. I’m not say-
ing that we shouldn’t do everything we can to raise the world out of
poverty – that’s a big part of why I’m writing this! But that doesn’t
happen without a change in consciousness. As the lottery winners
have proven, you can give a poor person millions of dollars, and in
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a few years they will not only be broke again but often in worse
debt. Why? Because they haven’t had a shift in consciousness. This
has also been shown in the transfer of companies or other assets
to family members. If they don’t have the consciousness that built
that company or earned that asset – and they don’t develop it –
they can end up running the company into the ground and los-
ing much of what they’ve inherited. It’s all about consciousness.
If someone doesn’t have it in consciousness, no matter how much you
give them, they’ ll never truly have it. Conversely, if someone does
have it in consciousness, no matter what is taken from them, they’ ll
rebuild and replenish it.
I can hear some of you saying, ‘But what about children
born in poverty or people’s lives devastated by corrupt government,
disasters, or other major calamities beyond their control?’ As much
as it breaks my heart to see this, the principle is still the same:
Nothing can enter our experience unless it’s some part of our con-
sciousness. Also remember, a baby isn’t just starting their life. They
may be in a little body, but they are a big soul, with a history before
they got here. We don’t know what karmic propensities a person
arrives with. We don’t know what curriculum their soul has signed
up for, and how their challenges are serving their growth and evo-
lution. We really can’t judge by appearances. Maybe you don’t be-
lieve in all of that, maybe this feels like ‘ blame the victim.’ I can
assure you there is no blame or judgment here, just an understand-
ing of principle. And again, this doesn’t mean we don’t do every-
thing we can to help, heal, feed, house, and raise people to a higher
level, but we also have to address the root cause, consciousness.
So as you practice asking and receiving, continue to remind
yourself of this principle – that everything comes to you and ev-
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Staying Awake
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his is a process, a journey. It’s hard to stay awake when there
are so many hypnotic suggestions trying to put us asleep.
But if we remain alert, we can open our eyes, rub the sleep
from them, and make real progress. It rarely happens overnight, how-
ever you can experience some significant shifts rapidly if you are will-
ing to dive in and do the work. But it can’t just be an exercise here
and there. If you want lasting results, you must create new habits,
and redesign your life around these organizing principles of abun-
dance.
As Confucius said,
‘All people are alike, only their habits differ.’ So just as you
might commit to new healthy habits, also commit to new
wealthy habits.
And get help. You don’t have to do this alone. Doing this
work in groups, with conscious coaches or mentors who will hold
you accountable, and in structures that ensure you will actually
keep moving – all of this is essential when you’re developing this
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By Derek Rydall