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CONTENTS
PREFACE ....................................................................................................................... 5
2.1.2. In order to purify and increase the energy one has .............................. 32
2.1.3. The future.................................................................................................. 33
2.1.4. In relation to others ................................................................................. 35
2.1.5. To realize that guilt does not exist......................................................... 36
2.2. For others ............................................................................................................. 36
2.3. For the collectivity ............................................................................................... 36
2.4. To have (and recognize) the effect on all aspects of life ................................. 37
3. How to use affirmations ......................................................................................... 38
3.1. Affirming in thoughts........................................................................................... 38
3.2. Saying the affirmation out aloud........................................................................ 38
3.3. Writing down the affirmation ............................................................................ 38
3.4. Visualizations........................................................................................................ 39
3.5. Index card ............................................................................................................. 40
3.6. Various affirmations at the same time?............................................................. 41
3.7. Concentration ...................................................................................................... 41
4. What may hamper the effect of an affirmation ? ................................................ 42
4.1. Abstract formulation : need of accuracy........................................................... 42
4.2. Contradictory phrases or contradictory thoughts ........................................... 42
4.3. Wondering how it works..................................................................................... 43
4.4. Resistance ............................................................................................................ 43
4.5. Doubts ................................................................................................................... 44
4.6. A negative mood, a lack of faith......................................................................... 45
4.7. Disability to forgive and resentment ................................................................. 45
4.8. A lack of gratitude for what you have ............................................................... 47
4.9. Letting go.............................................................................................................. 47
4.10. The will................................................................................................................ 48
EPILOGUE................................................................................................................... 76
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PREFACE
You will find in this book the practical point of view of the
law of “creating thoughts”, of how to handle the power of
thoughts, as I have experienced it during a quarter of a century
now. That approach has proven to yield awards, looking back,
amazing awards even. In view of efficiency I wish to share my
approach without much scientific basis, without having to refer
to the theories on which it is based. That is why I am confining
myself to what I consider essential. The key issue is that the
people applying this, will create a certainty for themselves, the
certainty that it works.
1.2. Phrasing
You can also determine what you want instead of what you
have and so define an unwanted situation, which you can then
change in its opposite, namely a wanted situation. It can be for
instance, that you feel you are being neglected in your
relationship because your partner does not take into account
what you want. You can then define precisely what it is and
write down the opposite concept, something you do want.
Refer also to the chapter on “underlying patterns”.
You can aim high, even very high, but your wish should
remain realistic, not something of which your are quite sure
that it is impossible to realize. In general you yourself can
establish whether it is a real wish for you. Still you have to try
to discover whether this wish is of any use for your personal
development. The wish can be situated in any area. You do not
have to be afraid to wish something situated in the material
area.
So, at the beginning you can, along with the new and chosen
affirmation, also write down the opposite of the convictions
hindering the accomplishment of your wish. Maybe you can put
right opposite each other. This may lead to another “cleaning
up process”. So leave enough place to write down new fears or
emotions. Then you have to make new affirmations expressing
the opposite of these fears, emotions, negative considerations.
Not seeing in your mind’s eye what your senses observe is one
of the hardest things to do. You have to deny, but without
resistance, whatever is contrary to your wish. When someone is
hostile to you, then in your mind you see a friendly person.
When your living conditions are poor, you see wealthier
conditions in your mind. As long as you allow yourself to be
stopped by clinging to the reality you see and which you deem
to be impossible to change, you take away your affirmation’s
force. Give it new power by deleting all negative thoughts ever
again, until they stop popping up and replace them with your
own wishes.
This point is where many people fail: they do not persist. The
affirmations have to be repeated, every day – at least during the
first period (3 weeks) – until they are materialized. This can
take three hours, three days or even three years. But they
always materialize, at least they always have some kind of
effect. Most people repeat the affirmations for a short period of
time and then they fail to do so, or they only do it once in a
while or they skip days. But the system does not work like that.
Only enthusiasm drives you. Do not consider affirmation to be
a tough job. Do not try to force things, this will slow you down.
Some of my most important affirmation have taken months or
even years. But they came true, every detail of it. Literally.
Totally, even when they covered a whole page. Or even those
sometimes linked to another affirmation.
your wish. You are the only thinker in your mind but the less
resistance, the better.
have common goals and make each other stronger. But as said
before sometimes their convictions about these goals may
differ. In the same way, they are a group of persons constituted
by country borders or by a common goal, urged by the same
convictions. They thus make each other many times stronger.
free will always exists and when the mental power of the
individual or of the parties involved focuses on another point
of interest, the materialization of the affirmation may take
longer.
But, as said before, nothing is static, unless one
intentionally chooses to continue making the choice he once
made.
Thoughts travel faster than light and nothing can stop them.
good will. If not, there will be chaos and all kinds of negative
circumstances, including disputes.
Can one argue that, when one is not familiar with the
power of thoughts, he is forced to go along or to peacefully
accept the realization of his own wishes or the negativity in the
world? And that he is not the cause of a life with our without
complete self-realization? We can only answer this by saying
that also ignorance has its effects. Also ignorance is a choice.
Although currently this is being addressed more and more.
You can also listen to the formulation on tape. When you let it
play at night, the affirmations go directly to the subconscious,
which increases their effectiveness.
3.4. Visualizations
- the fact that what you wish should not hurt anyone or thwart
someone else’s wish
- do not waste your time on the question how long it will take,
as this reduces the power of the wish
3.7. Concentration
4.4. Resistance
4.5. Doubts
Having doubts about whether your wish will come true is what
hampers the materialization of a wish or stops the creative
process, as we have mentioned before. This is an important
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people, which are stronger than steel. Hatred can hamper the
materialization of affirmations.
4.9. Letting go
This arises from the preceding paragraph, it also means that
one commits his wish to the power of materialization without
trying to control it, without trying to force it in any way; when
thanking for the ongoing materialization, you do not have to be
concerned about it and you can leave it to the Universe, which
has its own laws of manifestation. Exactly according to the
instructions of your mind. Until you make other affirmations.
Everything requires time. All negative feelings you may have
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VALUABLE TIME
This is very important. When you are sad, you can think
about something else right away and make your sadness
disappear. It is impossible to about a nice experience and be sad
at the same time. The power to control this, gives you the key
to cope with depressive feelings. To avoid that you drown in
grief. To stop being afraid of melancholy. With a lot of practice
you will soon be able to replace sad thoughts by joy. Do not give
up when you have a setback, when it does not work right away.
Each skill requires exercising. Ever again. No one can do this
right away. We must not judge ourselves, we just have to
observe how we are doing and be conscious.
CONSCIOUSNESS
Find out what it is you give your attention to. Do you want
that? If yes, keep focussing on it. If no, make it disappear from
your area of attention. How? By changing your thoughts. By
thinking about what you wish, in combination with joy.
NOW
EXECUTION
BE GRATEFUL
- If yes :
will capture that doubt. He will have to face that doubt and he
himself can also have a vague feeling of doubt about whether
his/her partner still loves him/her. This creates a vicious circle,
which cannot be broken by them as long as they are not familiar
with the laws of the mind.
X and I have found our balance, we feed each other and we give
each other energy. If it is not like that, I am grateful that he/she
will disappear from my life in full harmony.
The first years of a child’s life are very important for its
mental development. The suggestions it receives in that period
determine its behaviour in life until the moment the child
manages to control the laws of the mind and is able to choose
which suggestion it wants to keep or not.
The negative or positive ideas of the parents will be adopted by
the child. When you see in your child a negative attitude that
you recognize in yourself or in your partner or in other persons,
you have to make efforts to erase it from the subconscious of
your child.
1.2.4. Coué
2. About oneself
2.1. In general
Only good things manifest themselves at any moment in my
life.
All the wishes that are right for me, are revealed to me in a
precise and clear way.
All my wishes are accomplished at the right moment.
I only think about my wishes with the deep-rooted conviction
that they will come true at the right moment.
I have every reason to get more and more joy and peace,
because I have many successes.
him/her, in us and I have inner peace and rest. Love is all about
faith and not about pain. It leaves the flow between lovers
totally open, without obstacles.
My body, which perfectly knows what is right for me, will guide
me to the food that is best for me.
My energy stays the same the whole day long and no one
can take it from me.
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I do not want to say that getting medical help is not necessary, but affirmations
can help a lot, due to the extremely large influence of the min don the body.
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2.7. Appearance
I am grateful that the cells of my body reproduce in the best
way possible
2.8. Success
Each opportunity brings success in one way or another.
What I do has more and more success, just like the success I
want to have. I am confident about my future and about the
opportunities life will bring me, also today, so that all my wishes
will come true. I have more and more success in everything I
undertake. I can now work, speak, read, write, in short live
exactly as I want and I am very grateful for this and very happy.
I also ask to be part of the pure Universal and to be this for me
and for others here and now.
2.9. Exam
2.10 Wealth
I am very happy now to acquire (a large amount of money) in a
harmonious way.
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2.11. Faith
The faith the others have in us, is the reflection of the faith we
have in ourselves.
This experience will produce nothing but positive things.
I have faith in the fact that I am using a law working unerringly.
I have faith in the fact that the law of mental power will
materialize my wish.
I leave it to the Universe in full confidence.
I know that everything I need to realize my wish will be given to
me.
I am on my way to realize (this or that).
2.12. Peace
I have peace with myself.
I am cheerful, with the necessary vigour and confidence.
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2.13. Professionally
Visualize that you thank your boss for the pay increase.
2.14. Forgiveness
I leave him/her to universal justice and set him/her free.
I forgive X everything now and he/she will forgive me. All this
has lead and leads to much more happiness and I am grateful
for that.
I forgive myself that I pretended that I was right while I in fact
wanted love.
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X X x X
Shirly Mc Laine writes that she herself did not develop this
programme – which I have translated quite freely – but that she
has copied it form a diary, without mentioning the author. She
writes that she has used it for someone with whom she finds it
difficult to control her feelings and that she guarantees its
effectiveness.
2.17. Protection
I am also protected and I am not subject to the Law of Average.
I reject / I am not susceptible to the beliefs of the masses.
2.18. Gratitude
- Think about the qualities and talents of the other one and
imagine that he/she shows them to you. Be glad and thankful
for that.
- Imagine the joy and courtesy a loved one shows you
- Imagine that you are reading a letter of the other one, where
he writes what you would like to read
- Imagine the success of the other one
- Imagine an improved behaviour of the other one
- Imagine that your are invited by someone you would like to
get to know better
2. In relation to yourself
EPILOGUE
Writing this book did not take much time. Even if I only
helped one person with it, it would not have been written in
vain. As it is completely based on my own inspiration and
experience, it was quite pleasant to write it. From the point of
view of durability it is easier to write on paper what you want to
transmit and with my mother in mind, I most certainly want to
transmit this to my daughter. I would like to save her many
years of searching. Also she has freedom of choice. But I was
able to accomplish a part of a wish : to transmit this to her. And
I am grateful for that.
Aurelia.
August 2008.