-they waste money without earning it themselves -criticize their parents or argue with them -are rebels and it is sad -smoke,drink,use dugs and awear -hate school -lack of self control But the truth is all that these are not defining all the teenagers. Some parents actually are proud of their children and it is unfair to make generalization about the teenage population. There is close relationship between teens and parents in many families although they da not talk to each other about all the problems.Sometimes parents are those who hesitate the voice their feelings being afraid their message won't be understood properly. Only overcoming inhibition and the fear of ridicule and finding the courage to express their feelings directly it is the way of voicing their true feelings before it is too late. Parents around the world seem to agree that good manners, a sens of responsability and respect for others are important qualities to teack us.Others sustain the quality of flexible or the virtue of cultivating the teenager's imagination or politeness or the ability of communication with others or esteem personal independence or strong religions beliefs. We become ill-mannered because of changes is society,not because deliberate rudness. Life has become much faster and people don't have time for the more formal manners become embarrasing for people around. Nevertheless,as teenagers we must obey the rules,laws and norms. I respect laws being against those teenagers who disobey them-these leading to specific penalties,including fines or imprisonment for those who are found guilty.I value very much the norms,the code of behaviour shared by friends in a social group and by the whole community of elders. They are part of the culture,of a society and are transmited from one generation to another. Our deeds must the right not to put in danger other persons life or prosperity. There are some values which are eternall when we are brought up with a sense of duty-with sens of an increasing prosperity and an immense national pride.So, I was taught to work hard to improve myself .I was taught self-reliance. I was taught to live within my income not to steal or to cheat. I was taught that cleanliness is important. I was taught self-respect and always to give a hand to those in need and I was taught the pride of being a good member of my community and all these are values inherited by elders. To my mind everybody must rely on parent's help.As we move tawords independence it is important for parents to make sure that we understand what decent values are-to prevent us to be spoilt and greedy. As a teenager I tried to have experience so not only privilege but also responsibility,the longing for love,the search for knowledge and an unbearable pity for the suffering of mankind. That's why I appreciate love which brings joy and relieves loneliness and knowledge to be possible to know only the stars shine and wisdom to be possible to think positive,to improve our performances,to give a sense of achievement. I appreciate the wisdom from our elders and this means relationship,otherway things go wrong because people sometimes build walls instead of bridges. It is important to have qualities as experience,tolerance,understanding,sense of belonging,responsability and knowladge. Wisdom means showing we care getting involved,supporting the others,showing confidence,telling the truth,avoiding exaggeration-so that this means societies-with the community. Culture to me is very important.In fact, If I have no past I have no future so that cultural identity gives us wisdom. We also need dreams to give us a purpose and responsibility.Wisdom means to obey the rules of behaviour-against loss of confidence against lack of communication. Experience gives me the possibility to draw conclusions and apply them. Wisdom means to understand not to be unfair,unfriendly,selfish,superficial,indifferent in our relationships.