What Motivates Resilience After Trauma?
Fanita English
Abstract
The author presents her view that resili-
ence following trauma can only occur when
three unconscious internal motivators (Sur-
via, Passia, and Transcia) take turns or ro-
tate in affecting our attitudes, feelings,
thoughts, and behaviors through our ego
states. Survia is concerned with personal
survival, Passia with the survival of our spe-
cies by supporting creativity, and Transcia
with our need to sleep and to transcend
everyday reality. Typical attributes of each
motivator are listed, and a diagram depicts
the relationship of motivators to ego states.
Using examples drawn from her own and oth-
ers’ experience, the author discusses how,
for someone who has suffered trauma, Sur-
via may become overly dominant and the
smooth rotation of motivators is thus im-
peded. W hen attributes pertaining to Passia
are stimulated, rotation of motivators and
consequent emotional balance are resumed
and resilience becomes possible.
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The word “trauma” usually refers to one or
more shocks to a person’s system. It might be
a one-time event with pervasive aftereffects,
such as an accident or the beginning of a life-
threatening illness. Or it may represent repeat-
ed and anticipated shocks (as in chronic illness,
continuous child abuse, or wartime situations).
Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary (2003,
p. 1331) indicates that the word “trauma” comes
from the ancient Greek, meaning “wound” or
damage to the organism.
W hen I was a child, our housekeeper, who
spoke popular Greek, used the word “trauma”
to mean fear, for instance, in telling me not to
feel “trauma” when there was thunder during a
storm. The switch in the meaning of the word
“trauma” from “wound” to “fear” in popular par-
lance may reflect the human experience that the
emotion of fear, an attribute of the survival mo-
tivator (which I will describe later) generates
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fight/flight/freeze reactions to defend or protect
the self from being wounded. Thereby, the in-
dividual’s energy resources are mobilized if
there is impending danger.
Unfortunately, in many cases the imprint of
certain traumatic events is so powerful that
even after the original reasons for mobilizing
the organism to action no longer exist, the re-
sidual anxiety persists, and mortal danger con-
tinues to be anticipated. How fast and how well
a particular individual can overcome this resi-
due of anxiety, or posttraumatic syndrome, and
revert to his or her previous way of functioning
— assuming the person was emotionally bal-
anced in the first place— depends a great deal
on his or her capacity for resilience.
The term “resilience” is borrowed from in-
dustry. It suggests the ability to bounce back to
a previous condition. For instance, the term is
used to indicate how well a tufted carpet will
revert to its original condition after someone
steps on it. Of course, this varies among car-
pets, and it also depends on the previous condi-
tion of the carpet. This capacity varies even
more among people. A person’s resilience after
trauma depends not only on the kind of trauma
and how extensive it was, but also on his or her
genetic endowment, previous life experience,
and physical and emotional condition before
the trauma.
A terrible example of a young man who was
incapable of resilience after returning from fight-
ing in Iraq was recently reported in the New
York Times (Sontag & Alvarez, 2008):
In the summer of 2005, Mathew Sepi, a
lonely 20-year-old Iraq combat veteran,
plagued by nightmares about an Iraqi civil-
ian killed by his unit, desperately wanted
liquor to help him sleep. Even though it
was late at night and he lived in a seedy
neighborhood, he decided to go to a neigh-
borhood convenience store.
To feel safe, he took his AK-47 rifle
under his coat. Still legally under the age
(21) to purchase alcoholic beverages, he
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paid a stranger to buy him beer, and scur-
ried down an alley, ignoring shouts about
trespassing on gang turf. Two gang mem-
bers, both large and both armed, stepped
out of the darkness. . . . In the end, one
gang member lay dead, the other wounded.
Mathew crept home, loaded l80 rounds of
ammunition into his car and drove until
police lights flashed behind him. . . . The
diminutive young man said he had been
ambushed and then he had, reflexively,
“engaged the targets.”
He shook. He also cried. Nonetheless, he
was booked. (p. 1)
By contrast, there is the example of amazing
resilience demonstrated by Viktor Frankl. An
Austrian psychiatrist who directed the “Suicide
Pavillion” of a Vienna hospital between 1935
and 1937, he lost his position because he was a
Jew after the Nazis took over Austria in 1938.
He was deported to a concentration camp in
1942, and the coat in which he hid the manuscript
he had worked on for years was taken away.
After he was released in 1945 at the end of the
war, Frankl found out that his wife and parents
had all died in other camps. Rather than sink
into depression, he busied himself with rewrit-
ing his monumental work on suicide prevention
and got it published. He also resumed his pro-
fessional activity, developed his theory of logo-
therapy, and published numerous additional
books until he died in 1997 at the age of 92.
Can we make any sense out of the contrast
between the way these two individuals functioned
after they were released from immediate danger
and the consequent fear and anxiety with which
they had been living? It is still not possible to
show exactly how our conscious and uncon-
scious processes actually operate to give us the
feeling of wanting to live and the ability to
function relatively well even after pain or suf-
fering. Nevertheless, there are some processes
we can identify that may be important in rela-
tion to our potential for resilience after trauma.
W ith the development of the frontal lobe in
our brain and our own particular consciousness,
we humans have evolved the capacity for com-
plex thinking and a related elaborate memory
system— the same system that can also contri-
bute to emotional distress after trauma, long
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after danger has abated and physical healing
has taken place. Do we, also, have compensa-
tory aptitudes for resilience so that we can re-
sume living with emotional balance even after
trauma?
To begin, we first need to see if it is possible
to define “living.” T he French philosopher
Henri Bergson (1907/1911) came up with the
term “élan vital” (“the vital impetus” or “life
drive”) for what he described as “the current of
consciousness that has penetrated matter, giv-
ing rise to living bodies and determining the
course of evolution” (Encyclopedia of Philoso-
phy, 1972, p. 295). I think this is as good a
name as any for the strange, mysterious “ener-
gy” that animates all creatures from birth to
death. This is not a passive system, but one that
operates actively in each individual to maintain
his or her survival and that of the species. It
animates all of our physical and mental func-
tions and “keeps us going.” However, the joy-
ful sense of “feeling alive,” so necessary for re-
silience, requires further consideration.
How does the “vital impetus” function for us
humans? M y own concepts of the three motiva-
tors, developed in the course of extensive clini-
cal and personal experience and grounded in
the theories of Freud, Berne, Frankl, and oth-
ers, have been previously presented over the
years (English, 1998, 2001, 2003, 2005, 2007,
2008; English & Pischetsrieder, 1996). W hat
follows here is a summary and an elaboration
of material presented on this topic in the July
2008 Transactional Analysis Journal (English,
2008).
Our own “vital impetus” operates for the same
unconscious purposes as those of other ani-
mals, namely (1) personal survival, (2) survival
of the species, and (3) escape from daily pres-
sures (e.g., by sleep). However, through the
vagaries of evolution, for us humans these pur-
poses are furthered in a more complex way by
means of three categories of unconscious cir-
cuits that I refer to as “unconscious motivators.”
Each motivator may bring on, within us, one or
more of its particular attributes (i.e., impulses,
attitudes, feelings, thoughts, and behaviors) that
correspond to its evolutionary function.
To represent these three motivators and to
show how each has different functions, we can
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imagine them as three dancing O lympic god-
desses that take turns in influencing us at vari-
ous times, the way the ancient Greeks gave
substance to the mysterious forces beyond their
conscious control that brought on, within them,
particular feelings, thoughts, and behaviors.
1. “Survia” cares for the survival of the indi-
vidual. She may help us feel satisfied, for in-
stance, when we enjoy a good meal, or she may
offer pressure or stress with fear and pain to
make sure we attend to our survival. She is also
active in getting us to work regularly, to trans-
act with others for literal or symbolic stroke ex-
changes, and to structure time.
2. “Passia” wants the survival of the species.
Passia supports sexual procreation and parental
tendencies to produce and care for children.
Even certain religions that look askance at sexu-
ality nevertheless emphasize consummating
marital sex in order to have as many progeny as
possible. However, over the millennia, sexual
procreation alone would not have sufficed to
maintain the human species. W e would have
become extinct, devoured by more powerful
animals, were it not for the fact that for us
humans, “pro-creativity” evolved to mean not
only generating children, but also generating all
the discoveries and inventions that have bene-
fited our species through the ages— from har-
nessing the power of fire, to exploring the
world, to creating the increasingly complex
tools we live with nowadays. Accordingly, Pas-
sia’s attributes and manifestations (behaviors),
such as curiosity and risk taking, which may
seem purposeless and simply related to fun, are
at the root of certain discoveries and inven-
tions, such as those generated by explorers and
inventors of the past, often at the risk of their
own health and personal survival. Thus, Passia
encourages us to disregard strokes and corres-
ponding time structure when we are involved in
exciting pursuits of whatever kind, even when
they are of no immediate personal value.
For example, Craig Ventner (2007), one of
the pioneers in plotting the human genome,
claims that his own risk-taking tendencies were
essential for his scientific success, although
they led him to much trouble and danger during
his youth. In a recent interview about his bio-
graphy and his discoveries, he stated that a
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risk-taking gene in humans may be a part of
significant mutations in our species that have
yet to be studied.
3. “Transcia” helps us to transcend, that is, to
move away from daily pressures. Like other
animals, we humans also need to restore our
energy through sleep and thereby to escape
temporarily from conventional time structure
and reality. However, we have also evolved ad-
ditional ways to transcend the grind of daily
cares through spirituality, meditation, art, mu-
sic, and other ways of detaching from concerns
and activities promoted by Survia and Passia.
As is obvious from these descriptions, our
three motivators (or imaginary goddesses) are
likely to influence us in very different ways, so
at times we may be pulled in opposite direc-
tions and experience inner conflict. For in-
stance, Survia, who seeks to ensure safety, may
bring on fear, sometimes stimulating fight/
flight responses to real or assumed danger. By
contrast, Passia is indifferent to danger and
may actually promote dangerous risk taking,
and Transcia may encourage obliviousness, for
better or worse. On the other hand, sometimes
the influence of two motivators may combine.
For instance, a bread-winning activity for Sur-
via may also offer excitement for Passia.
Essentially, although the differences among
the motivators and their functions may lead to
various inner conflicts or to social difficulties
or irrational behaviors, most of the time our
emotional balance is maintained by the fact that
our motivators rotate or take turns influencing
us at different times, just the way our blood cir-
culates in our body in order to serve different
organs.
Table 1 presents a list of some typical attri-
butes and manifestations pertinent to each moti-
vator. An attribute can be experienced or felt
somatically or unconsciously and may lead to
corresponding preconscious or conscious mani-
festations in any one of our ego states in the
form of wishes, impulses, inner calls to action,
or overt behaviors. There are many more attri-
butes and manifestations (i.e., feelings, thoughts,
and behaviors) than are shown in Table 1, but
it provides a general sense of the difference be-
tween how one motivator may affect us at a
given time in contrast to another.
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Table 1
Typical Attributes, Tendencies, and Manifestations for Each Motivator

“Survia”: All bodily feelings or physiological reactions that signal essential physical survival
for personal needs for nourishment or elimination of bodily waste, shelter, clothing, protection,
survival safety, and strokes. Thus: hunger, thirst, need to urinate or defecate, bodily
discomfort, pain, feeling cold, hot, sweaty, etc.

Also: fear, anxiety, shame, guilt, pride, sadness, disgust, longing, etc. as emotions
and/or manifestations such as trembling, blushing, crying, etc.

Also: fight/flight/freeze reactions to real or assumed danger

Also: stroke needs, requests, transactions, communications, wishes, and efforts for
affection, admiration, power, and control (of self or others)

Also: greed, competitiveness, gluttony, covetousness, envy, jealousy, defensiveness,

arrogance, etc.

“Passia”: Sexuality in many forms, as well as all tendencies that demand free expression,
for survival of self-determination, freedom, sense of “meaning,” challenge, “going outside the box,”
the species or hope
creative
passion Also: fun, laughter, humor, sarcasm, etc.

Also: whatever leads to discovery, invention, creativity, and procreation (physical or

symbolic), whether intentional or not, such as curiosity, interest in exploration,
playfulness, excitement, enthusiasm, optimism, courage, sexual arousal, idealism, risk
taking, stimulus hunger, interest in new paradigms in adventure, experimentation,
having children, concern for progeny, or about gifts to posterity, imagination, pleasure

Also: determined (even obsessive) involvement with projects or scientific or artistic

creation or research, concern about future generations, impracticality, disdain of
conventionality and of strokes

“Transcia”: All broad “other-worldly,” spiritual needs beyond concerns of the two other motivators
for escape or beyond reality, including meditation, contemplation, and relaxation Thus, placidity,
from daily calmness, peacefulness, restfulness, “oceanic” feelings, quietude, passivity, broad
pressure, for philosophical views, withdrawal, harmony with nature, interest in ecology, appreciation
transcendence of music and art, but also attraction to death (morbidity)

It is important to remember that since moti-
vators operate unconsciously as complex psy-
chosomatic networks, their attributes cannot be
evaluated as good or bad in themselves, especi-
ally because a useful attribute can become harm-
ful if exaggerated (e.g., hunger can become
greed). W e can only be aware of any attribute
or corresponding wish if it manifests and be-
comes conscious in one of our ego states or is
acted out as overt behavior. At that point, it
may be evaluated as positive (i.e., benefiting
the individual in a particular situation) or nega-
tive (i.e., harmful to the individual in a particu-
lar situation).
Figure 1shows the three motivators in our
unconscious. They overlap because all three
are aspects of the “vital impetus” and use its
emotional energy in turn. The lines shooting
upward toward preconscious and conscious ego
states are meant to show that the attributes of
our motivators can manifest preconsciously or
consciously in any one of our ego states.
Many of us have a preferred motivator that
comes on more frequently and is more active
than the other two. It accounts for some basic
personality differences among us. For example:
- A preference for Survia makes for a cau-
tious individual who cares about health

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Figure 1
The Motivating of Ego States (from English, 2003, p. 67)
and life, who is more open to stroke ex-
changes than others, but who sometimes is
more vulnerable or aggressive if he or she
fears danger.
- A preference for Passia makes for a more
adventurous person or one who will be-
come committed to projects for the future,
regardless of effort, cost, or danger.
- A preference for Transcia will make for a
more spiritual person or someone who is
more peace loving (or passive) than most
but also more likely to be attracted to death.
Smooth movement or rotation among the
influence of our motivators must occur much of
the time, even if we prefer one or another moti-
vator, because that is the only way that emo-
tional balance is maintained with a sense of
feeling OK and the consequent ability to make
rational decisions from the Adult ego state.
This means that while we might operate under
the influence of one motivator at one moment
in time— perhaps in combination with another
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while the third is dormant— a transition is
necessary whereby one or both recede to the
background as the third comes to the fore. This
is the only way that there can be some resili-
ence, even after a traumatic experience.
If one motivator becomes so dominant that
the flow of rotation is stopped, even if that mo-
tivator combines with another but they force-
fully exclude the third, then it is as though the
gears maintaining emotional balance grind to a
halt, and the entire energy system goes awry.
Unfortunately, trauma, ensuing stress, and an
insecure environment will result in the over-
arching dominance of Survia, with her attri-
butes of fear, anxiety, horror, pain, and defen-
siveness. In such circumstances, it is likely that
uncontrolled fight/flight/freeze reactions may
occur unless they are forestalled or offset by
massive protection and strokes to satiate Sur-
via. Only then will her anxious grip on the per-
son’s psyche be reduced sufficiently to allow
for renewal of relatively normal rotation among
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the three motivators. If this does not happen,
the person’s organism ends up out of balance.
After that, resilience is impossible, even if mas-
sive strokes are offered later.
For example, returning to Mathew, because
he was considered qualified for military service
before he went to Iraq, we can assume that he
would not have become a murderer had his war
experience not caused Survia to become his
dominant motivator. On returning to the United
States, when he was alone in an unfamiliar neigh-
borhood and thus deprived of strokes from
others to gratify Survia, her attributes of fear
and anxiety were exacerbated. Even when Trans-
cia came on, instead of calming him with sleep
and bringing on Passia to produce pleasant
dreams, apparently Mathew kept having night-
mares about the dead Iraqi civilian. Survia thus
maintained dominance. Mathew sensed that he
needed a change of perspective, and some liq-
uor. Indeed, this may have dulled the pressure
from Survia and brought on Transcia for rela-
tively peaceful sleep. (This is why traumatized
individuals often seek relief with liquor or
drugs, which, sadly, when relied on, may even-
tually bring on another form of imbalance.) So
Mathew went out to obtain the liquor, but he
was so much in the grip of anxiety that he need-
ed to take his gun along for reassurance. This
might have helped him temporarily had he not
heard the shouts, which almost automatically
brought on a defensive fight/flight reaction to
shoot and flee, with the terrible consequences
mentioned earlier.
Perhaps had sufficient compensatory protec-
tion and strokes been available to him on dis-
charge, Mathew might not have needed his gun
for support after his traumatic experiences at
war. Still, in view of his nightmares, we cannot
know whether actual resilience to the inno-
cence of the 20-year-old he had been before he
deployed to Iraq would have been possible.
This is where the human ability for memory
sometimes serves an individual badly, for
Mathew’s terrifying memories may have pre-
vented his motivators from rotating harmoni-
ously, and resilience is impossible when such
rotation has not resumed.
How was Viktor Frankl able to manage during
and after 3 horrible years in three successive
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concentration camps? His autobiographical
book Man’s Search for Meaning (Frankl, 1946/
1997) offers some answers. For one thing, Frankl
was determined to survive in order to rewrite
his first book and to publish observations he
made about himself and his fellow inmates.
Thus, for him, Survia frequently connected to
Passia, with her attribute of hope for the future.
W henever he could, Frankl obtained scraps of
paper on which he wrote. Clearly, he could draw
on Passia at those moments rather than remain
stuck only with Survia, as would have been
likely in the concentration camp environment.
Also, Transcia could come on thanks to his
belief that a transcendent God in each of us
offers spiritual freedom, so he actively tried to
dissuade some fellow concentration camp vic-
tims from suicide. In this way, all three of his
motivators took turns in influencing him rather
than Survia alone, and he maintained his emo-
tional balance in spite of terrible deprivation.
Probably even before he was deported, Pas-
sia was Frankl’s preferred motivator, so it was
all the more possible for her to be active for
him in the camps. Her attributes typically offer
hope and enthusiasm with disregard of Survia’s
fears, however bleak the circumstances. For in-
stance, when prisoners had to stand outside in
the courtyard for hours on end, Frankl pre-
tended he was there to give a lecture to a large
imaginary audience, and he concentrated on
improving and editing the text in his mind rath-
er than on how cold it was.
Presumably, Frankl also hoped that his fami-
ly would survive, just as he had. After he was
liberated, it must have been terrible to hear of
their deaths. This was an additional trauma.
Nevertheless Passia’s influence remained strong,
and Frankl did not lose sight of the goal that
had kept him going: to reconstruct his de-
stroyed manuscript and have it published. As
he became fully involved in that project, he
gained the resilience to return to his previous
professional life. Eventually, he even remar-
ried. This corresponds with my assumption that
Passia continued to be powerful for him through-
out his life.
Frankl’s own interpretation of what kept him
alive was that he felt there was “meaning” to
his life, even in difficult circumstances. In the
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years that followed his release, Frankl elabo-
rated on his concept that human existence is
always directed toward something or someone
other than the self. It is this that gives a sense
of meaning to offset the existential vacuum and
ensuing boredom or depression in which some
people find themselves (Frankl, 1995).
From my perspective, this translates into my
idea that for each of us, it is thanks to Passia—
the motivator that enables a person to have
hope and be involved with the future— that
resilience can be achieved when trauma brings
on Survia so forcefully that smooth rotation
among the motivators may be blocked. About
this I want to add a personal story of how resili-
ence came about for me unexpectedly at a time
when I was getting ready to die.
In October 1999, due to an accident, I suf-
fered third-degree near-fatal burns on a large
part of my body. This necessitated six skin
grafts and 2½ months in the burn unit of a hos-
pital. Obviously, it was quite a trauma, but I
was given much morphine, highly skilled treat-
ment, care, and enormous attention and strokes
from the hospital staff and relatives and friends.
So, in spite of the devastating physical injuries,
I did not suffer much.
W hen I was discharged around the end of
December, I was given a good supply of Oxy-
contin to alleviate the pain I still felt. Unfortu-
nately, the discharging doctor did not consider
that drug dependence can turn to addiction.
Rather than warn me early on about side ef-
fects, or supervise how I was doing with the
prescribed medication, he willingly kept renew-
ing the prescriptions to alleviate the headaches
and fatigue that kept increasing. So, even though
I was cured physically from the trauma of burns
and surgery, I kept taking ever more Oxycontin
and Vicodin. As happens with addictive drugs
that offer brief chemical “highs” followed by
lengthy “down” feelings (thereby excluding
Passia), it was only Survia and Transcia who
influenced me when I moved to a retirement
community where all my physical needs were
taken care of. Outwardly, I seemed well enough,
but actually I functioned like a zombie, dozing
on and off much of the time, ready to die
peacefully with the benevolent support of
Transcia.
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One day in March 2000 I was jarred awake
by a long-distance call from the director of an
institute in Germany where I regularly ran work-
shops in June. As soon as we were connected,
he launched into an angry diatribe about how I
was supposed to have sent him my workshop
descriptions in January. Not only had I failed to
do so, I had not even bothered to notify him of
my new address and telephone number. This
was unbelievably irresponsible of me, he com-
plained; he had had such a hard time locating
me, and on and on. W hen he finally stopped, I
told him about my accident in my weak, tired
voice. There was a long silence at the other end
of the telephone line. This man is usually proud
of being very proper and considerate. Now he
must have felt terrible about having scolded me
so vehemently. Then he said, abruptly, “W ell,
the program is already printed for you to come
in June. Maybe you can make it by then. I’ll
call you again in May. Good-bye.” And before
I could protest, he was off the line.
Suddenly, I was overcome with laughter, pic-
turing that normally courteous man, now red in
the face, totally embarrassed about how he had
“attacked” a pathetic, sick old lady! I laughed
and laughed as I had not laughed in months.
And then, unexpectedly, I realized that I did
not need the drugs to soothe my headaches.
Could I be OK by May? From that moment on,
I did not take another pill, even though for a
few weeks I had terrible withdrawal symptoms.
Yet sometimes I also had strange feelings of
elation, as a little story I used to read to my
children kept coming to my mind about The
Little Engine that Could (Piper, 1930/2002),
which was puffing away and repeating, “I think
I can . . . I think I can . . . Yes, I can!” (The
story is of a small train whose passionate belief
that she could do so enabled her to pull a train
load of toys up a mountain for delivery to chil-
dren who were anticipating them.)
Apparently, my spontaneous laughter brought
on Passia and dislodged Survia from domi-
nance. All of a sudden I felt elated by the chal-
lenge that I might hold on through the ordeal of
withdrawal and conduct my workshop in June.
Thus, with Passia having come on, rotation
among my motivators resumed, and, therefore,
resilience took hold. I was well enough to do
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the planned workshop in June, even though I
was fearful right up to the moment it started.
Afterward, I was able to continue living my life
as I had before the life-threatening burns and
addiction.
Sonia, a friend, told me about a similar coin-
cidence that saved her life after traumatic rape
she was subjected to many years before. W hen
she reported it to the police, she had a required
physical examination, during which she was ad-
ditionally mishandled. She was then forced to
meet with a mental health person. She was so
disgusted and horrified by all that had hap-
pened to her that she decided to kill herself as
soon as she got home.
According to Sonia, what saved her from her
intended suicide was, paradoxically, the incom-
petence of the young, inexperienced would-be
helper assigned to her. She had been so flus-
tered by what had happened to Sonia and so
confused in trying to “help” her with stereo-
typed comments that Sonia burst out laughing
and continued to laugh even as she walked out
and even though she remained furious at the
police. She went to buy the liquor that she
planned to use with a large supply of pills she
had at home, but she was surprised to notice
that she kept remembering how totally incom-
petent and pathetic her assigned “helper” had
been, which caused her to again start laughing
uncontrollably. She thought perhaps now she
was hysterical, but even so, she herself would
certainly have known better how one should
help a rape victim! W ith that, she decided she
still wanted to “do something” before killing
herself.
Sonia told me that she felt a warm, suppor-
tive, competent person would not have stopped
her from her determination to kill herself be-
cause she felt so disgraced and guilty about the
rape. She was sure that her decisive switch
away from plans of suicide occurred because
the incompetent “helper” had triggered her
“funny bone” along with her anger, which some-
how mobilized her will to constructive action.
Indeed, she soon started an after-school pro-
gram for teenagers.
Fortunately, both Sonia and I had a particular
sense of humor that brought on Passia. We were
thus saved from probable death by chance, for
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it is not possible to “will” oneself to bring on
Passia when Survia is firmly entrenched and
overly dominant, even to the point of combin-
ing with Transcia to generate morbidity! Nor is
it easily possible for others to deliberately bring
on laughter in someone else. Yet as therapists
or counselors we are called on to have some
ideas about how to bring on emotional resili-
ence in someone after trauma.
Because emotional balance can only be
achieved if all three motivators rotate, and trau-
ma brings on the exclusive dominance of Sur-
via (sometimes with morbid aspects of Trans-
cia), the challenge for therapists and counselors
is to stimulate Passia in someone after trauma
in order to achieve some resilience. For Sonia
and me it was laughter, amusement, and chal-
lenge, as attributes of Passia, that brought her
to the fore and prompted the rotation of our
motivators again, but I doubt that someone else
could have purposefully made either one of us
to laugh this way.
In his book, Frankl (1946/1997) offered case
examples of how he was able to help many de-
pressed patients by teasing out what was mean-
ingful for them. Indeed, a sense of meaning is
an important attribute of Passia. Perhaps, in ad-
dition to offering strokes, a talented therapist
might similarly be able to remind a traumatized
client of what is meaningful for him or her as a
way to bring on resilience after trauma. This is
easier to do with those who tend to prefer Pas-
sia and/or Transcia in the normal course of
events, and harder—sometimes impossible—
with those who depended too much on Survia
even before the trauma. Such individuals will
stay in alarm mode and reinforce it by repeat-
edly bringing forth corresponding memories.
Still, it is worth trying. Of course, Passia has
many additional attributes besides laughter,
amusement, challenge, and a sense of meaning.
Perhaps it would be easier to stimulate another
of these (e.g., curiosity) in a given individual.
The same Greek housekeeper I referred to at
the beginning of this article, who taught me the
word “trauma” when I was 6 years old, intui-
tively used folk wisdom to elicit resilience in
me after I suffered from some trauma occa-
sioned by a heavy thunderstorm that shook the
house while my parents were away. First she
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gave Survia her due by hugging and soothing
me. But after a while she realized more was
needed. She pretended to wonder aloud, during
the storm, about the time difference between
lightening and the sound of thunder. Does one
always follow the other? In what order? Shall
we check the next time there is lightening? Soon
she had me fascinated, anticipating thunder
with the excitement of a scientific investigator.
To this day, any time I am awakened by a storm,
I find myself smiling with the pleasant memory
as well as shuddering slightly with anxiety.
Recently, on a commuter train, I had the
chance to test the question of whether you can
help awaken Passia after a mini-trauma by stimu-
lating curiosity and challenge. On the aisle near
me a toddler was bravely trying to walk for-
ward when the train suddenly jerked. Boom!
Surprise! Shock! The child landed on his be-
hind and this set off a howl. Mother came to
the rescue, picked him up, and took him in her
arms, where he snuggled and continued whim-
pering. He looked like he might stay there for
the rest of the ride. Mischievously, I dangled
my fancy key chain with many keys on it across
the aisle. He stretched out to reach it. I pulled
it away, still dangling it. Eventually, yes in-
deed! He got off the comfort of his mother’s
lap and took the risk of another accident by
toddling over to get the keys. Viva Passia!
W ithout her, life is no fun.
True, it may be easier to provoke a young
child to curiosity and to get him to mini-
resilience after mini-trauma than to deal with a
seriously traumatized adult, but at this point
this is all I can offer to substantiate experimen-
tally my conviction that it is Passia who some-
how oversees resilience after trauma, if only
she can be brought forth.
Fanita English, M.S.W., is a Teaching and
Supervising Transactional Analyst (psycho-
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therapy, education, organizations) and a two-
time winner of the Eric Berne Memorial Scien-
tific Award. She has been doing workshops in
Europe since 1981. She can be reached at 1,
Baldwin Ave., #516, San Mateo, California,
U.S.A.; e-mail: fanitae@aol.com .
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