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overcome the mental and physical blocks of anxiety, how to perform your best in high-pressure
situations, and how to actually enjoy your performance.
Disclaimer: This document is not some top-5 psychological hack nonsense. No. This is about
developing into a performer who has rock star confidence, who has the power to communicate
to the audience on a powerful level, who wins auditions and competitions, and most importantly,
who has the courage to make a difference in this world with their artistry.
Instead of saying, “I want to perform without shaking, sweating, and an increased heart rate,”
say, “I want to perform physically in control.”Instead of saying, “I want to perform without
negative thoughts like ‘I’m not good enough,’ or ‘What will other people think of me?’“, say, “I
want to focus on powerfully communicating to the audience,” or choose a more specific focus,
like producing a great sound.Instead of saying, “I want to win auditions and play well in
concerts,” which leads you to be outcome-dependent, say “I want to play to my full potential and
offer as much value as possible,” without demanding any specific outcome.Instead of saying, ”I
want to avoid embarrassment,” say, ”I want to express myself to the highest degree and walk off
the stage knowing I unapologetically performed like myself.”
Now that we have reframed our short-term motivations, let’s discover the deeper motivations
and benefits that will power you past the tougher obstacles. These motivations include the
ability to actually enjoy your performance; to have a long-lasting, successful, and sustainable
career; and to increase self-esteem and confidence, not only for performing, but for your entire
life. These motivations might not be as powerful as the first list of motivations in terms of jump-
starting your journey, but over time, they become the most important. Imagine performing with
anxiety every time you walk on stage. Why would you practice thousands of hours for the
opportunity to go on stage and experience anxiety? It doesn’t make sense, yet for many, this is
a reality. Now imagine a more extreme version of this. Imagine performing your whole life with
anxiety. On average, that’s 2-3 anxiety-ridden performances a week for decades. This creates
unsatisfying experiences and a never-ending negative cycle. Unfortunately, this is reality for
some professionals.
For how to overcome stage fright, now that we have our short-term and long-term
motivations, let’s further emphasize the most important aspect, which is the development of
extremely high self-esteem and confidence. In order to understand why it’s crucial, first imagine
a life lived with zero confidence. You don’t take on any challenges, you never feel great about
yourself, and life is just kind of there. Secondly, imagine a life with an average amount of
confidence. You take on challenges, you feel decent about yourself, but you’re not fully
maximizing your potential in life. This is where most people live and become content. It’s totally
valid and even leads to a good life. However, for a performer, it is not enough because we place
ourselves in intense environments like auditions and concerts. Finally, imagine a life with
extremely high confidence. You believe you can accomplish anything, you feel amazing about
yourself, and you’ll be enjoying and maximizing your boss lifestyle. Let’s now make that
imagination a reality through action.
2. WHY YOU NEED MORE THAN JUST ADVICE TO CONQUER YOUR PERFORMANCE
ANXIETY.
Typically when you ask someone how to overcome stage fright, they will give you advice like
this:
We all know this doesn’t work well enough. But let’s give your peers and mentors more credit.
Perhaps they suggest learning how to:
Now that’s some good advice! However, it is all meaningless if no action is taken. It’s as if
your teacher explained technique to you, but you didn’t actually practice. It is great advice but
again, is meaningless. Advice is great for simple things in life like the rules for tic tac toe.
However, auditions, competitions, and performances are INTENSE environments. In order to
counteract an intense environment, you need to attack it with INTENSE strategies and ACTION.
So, no matter how much awesome knowledge you receive, if it is not implemented with
consistent and INTENSE ACTION, expect more anxiety.
Let me first start by saying practicing is crucial. Practicing deliberately and correctly is even
more important. However, with that said, many performers rely on general practice to defeat
their anxiety. General practice is defined as going to the practice room and doing your normal
routine. This does not work. It may help a little, but you are not preparing yourself to perform to
the best of your ability. During my undergraduate auditions, I practiced 5-7 hours a day, yet
when I entered auditions, I shook uncontrollably, sweated, and focused on other things besides
the music. During my time at Juilliard, I again practiced 5 hours a day, yet I still got nervous for
studio class, competitions, and concerts. I was improving in the practice room, which is great,
but I did not prepare myself for the stage. If you continue your same routine, same mindsets,
and same behaviors, you’ll produce the same results. Its time to act how to overcome stage
fright.
a) Many performers walk on stage seeking the approval of the audience and judges. This
makes sense because the audience controls the applause and the judges control the results of
your performance. However, when we seek validation, it detracts from our performance and
causes anxiety, as we switch our focus away from the music and onto the opinions of others.
Once we start thinking about how people will judge us, our anxiety can be triggered. We need to
be able to perform free of others’ validation and opinions in order to play to our full potential and
express ourselves. So how do we do this? We validate ourselves before we walk on stage. We
do not wait until the audience applauds or the judges give us good feedback, because it’s too
late by then. The goal is not just to feel good about ourselves after the performance, but to feel
good during the performance as well, since it produces a more spontaneous and positive
performance experience. Successfully validating yourself requires self-generated confidence, a
strong identity, and the bravery to be vulnerable. I was recently chatting with the winner of a top
international competition who asked to remain anonymous, and I asked him what his mindset
was before he walked out for the final round. He had this to say. “I’m just excited to go out there
and perform. I spent years on this repertoire discovering how I want to interpret my program,
and I absolutely love the way I play this program.”
b) Many performers lack a significant purpose on stage. With an insignificant purpose on stage
— like performing because it’s required, or because you want to prove yourself — anxiety will
overwhelm you, because you will have nothing strong enough to bring you back to focus in
times of pressure. We need to walk on stage with an unstoppable force of purpose. In order to
achieve this, you must take the time to ask yourself the questions of the cosmos in regards to
your identity and programming. What is the meaning of your performance? What are your goals
on stage? Is your performance valuable? How can you powerfully communicate to the
audience? The last detail of this mindset is that you have to be 100% committed to your
intention and purpose. There must be no doubt about your purpose when you walk on stage.
c) Many performers let stress get the best of them. Stress overwhelms us, makes us think
differently, and changes our physiology as our adrenaline increases. Over time, stress creates a
long-term negative impact on our health. We need to develop stress management skills so we
feel in control when it occurs and can actually enjoy our careers. One of these management
skills is the development of emotional intelligence, also known as EQ. This is the idea that you
feel what you feel, but then rise above your emotions and execute the right action. We
performers can use EQ at all stages of the preparation processes. During the preparation
process, we may encounter days when we feel unmotivated and procrastinate. However, the
right thing to do on these days is to overcome our lazy feelings and go practice anyway. Another
common situation for using EQ is right before the performance, because we often feel nervous.
When we feel nervous, we naturally start triggering our stress response behaviors such as over-
practicing, overeating, shutting down, or freezing. However, it is crucial to rise above our
stressful emotions and execute our pre-performance routine to get ourselves in the most optimal
performing mindset. EQ will help you, not only with anxiety and performing, but with life. It is one
of the most common skills among all successful professionals.
d) Many performers walk into auditions and concerts with false perceptions of the audience and
judges. Typically, these perceptions are on the negative side, which creates anxiety. But what
are the judges and audience actually thinking? We will never truly know, but we can at least
reverse our negative perceptions into positive perceptions in order to help us feel better on
stage.
I have asked more than 100 professional performers about their experiences judging
auditions and competitions. Some of these performers are faculty from Juilliard and Yale, such
as Ani Kavafian and Naoko Tanaka. While each person says different things, all of them agreed
on certain ideas on "how to overcome stage fright". The first one is that judging is not the most
fun part about living a performance career. They would much rather be performing or teaching.
Therefore, many have said they really wish the performer would play their best so it’s more
enjoyable for everyone. Along those lines, they specifically mentioned it’s quite uncomfortable,
but normal, to see a performer be affected by anxiety. Therefore, everyone, including the
judges, wants you to play and feel great.
But what do they look for? They look for different aspects in different situations. General
criteria almost always include the assessment of technique and artistic ideas in some form. For
more specific judging criteria, the audition or competition usually has guidelines or mission
statements. Besides the basic requirements, many judges are looking to see if you can be a
great colleague. They ask questions like “Can I perform with this person?”, “Does this artist
have the potential to have a successful career?”, and “Will this artist be the future leader of our
craft?” You must see the judges as potential colleagues as well. This is a crucial mind shift. You
must see them as equals. You must see them as humans who happen to be listening to you. Do
not build them up as these all-empowering authority figures. They are your future colleagues,
and they want you to play your best so they can see who you are.
e) Many performers never explore other performing arts cultures. On a day-to-day basis, a
performer’s career is filled with rehearsals, individual practice, and concerts. There’s something
beautiful about this as we accidentally shut ourselves off from the world to refine our craft.
However, there comes a point where isolation negatively affects our overall development. By
staying in isolation, we prevent ourselves from growing a stronger artistic identity. We avoid new
creative experiences. We fail to overcome obstacles created by our specific culture. Most
importantly, we lose the opportunity to implement the strengths of other fields. Check out my
ongoing series of blog posts about how to expand your artistic identity here. As a classical
musician, I embark into the jazz, EDM, baroque, multi-disciplinary, and Native American
cultures to expand and experience who I am as an artist today. I couldn’t imagine a life without
these experiences.
5. HOW SHOULD YOU PREPARE TO FEEL CONFIDENT?
"Practice makes perfect” only if the way you’re practicing is perfect, because practice
actually makes permanent and reveals how to overcome stage fright. But how do you tell if
you’re practicing perfectly? Well if you’re experiencing performance anxiety or not achieving a
certain goal, then something in your preparation process needs to adapt. Often, we maintain the
same practice routine for years, which produces the same results and prevents optimal growth.
For example, in the beginning of our careers, we are focused mainly on technique. As we grow,
we can now dedicate more time to the artistry, as technique is more automatic. But all
throughout your development, especially if you’re reading this, you may have fallen into the
common mistake of neglecting the development of the mental side of performing. This is a
crucial skill to develop and implement into your preparation, because no matter how much you
practice technique and artistry, anxiety is still detracting from your performance. Therefore, we
need a process that addresses the three main ingredients for success on stage. They are
technique, artistry, and the mental strength to thrive in high-pressure situations. How to
overcome stage fright requires discipline and regular practice.
The process I use works for me and everyone I have worked with so far. However, that
doesn’t guarantee it will work for you. Also, that statement is inflated, because I make sure I can
help a person before accepting them into the program, because performance anxiety is
extremely personal. Proceed with a mind ready for trial and error.
My 200-step process begins with a massive technical checklist. I went back and reviewed
every technical exercise I ever learned and put it on one document. While I used to spend
months on each exercise, I periodically review them as a professional, because the basics
should never be forgotten or taken for granted. I also researched and made sure I knew of every
technical feat possible for my violin. For example, I made a list of all possible articulations and
made sure I had an exercise for each in order to polish them. Successfully going through my
technical checklist allows me to walk on stage with the peace of mind that I can perform
anything.
The next checklist I have is for artistry. This might sound anti-artistry because art is not a
checklist. However, my checklist is formed around creative questions. For example, one
question is “how do I want to time this passage? What is the character I want to communicate?”
Again, in order to form this checklist, I went back and reviewed every aspect that creates artistry
and put it on one document. Successfully going through my artistic checklist allows me to walk
on stage with a clear intention for every second of the performance.
The last checklist I have is for the mental side of performing. To create this list, I have taken
the best ideas and strategies from the fields of neuroscience, psychology, psychoanalysis,
biology, professional performers, self-help, conservatory faculty, personal experience, and
spirituality. While the list is over 400 pages of dense research, it’s important to know I customize
this process for everyone I work with. Anxiety is different for everyone and cannot be solved
with one general solution. With that said, let’s begin with mentally preparing yourself for any
situation.
You’ll be most anxious when you’re at an audition, concert, or competition. The following
advice is all based around the question, “What is the most beneficial mindset to help me
perform to my full potential?” Let’s break it down into “before” and “after” mindsets.
How to overcome stage fright? Before the actual audition or concert, your natural reaction in
regards to anxiety is based on past experiences. If you’re reading this, you probably have
negative attitudes and feelings about performing. You have to learn how to take on new
perspectives. You do this by understanding our natural way of processing things. To simplify the
process, it goes like this.
You hear or see something. → You make up a narrative. → The narrative creates feeling. →
You act on the feeling.
For example, you hear about a competition. You imagine a story, drawing on your past,
including how you will mess up again and get anxious. Then you feel anxious. Then you act on
your feelings by procrastinating or avoiding the competition.
So what kind of “before” mindsets do we need to adapt? Well, we can’t just tell ourselves that
we will be confident because that is based on limited experience, but we can at least assume
the learner’s mindset. In the learner’s mindset, you assume you will make mistakes and get
nervous. However, you focus on turning each event, negative or positive, into a learning
experience. This decreases the pressure of your expectations and keeps you in a more
productive state of mind.
Another important “before” mindset is to go in with the attitude of giving it your best shot. This
mindset offsets the typical mindset that we have to succeed EVERY SINGLE TIME WE STEP
ON STAGE. That is simply unrealistic and unnecessary pressure to put on yourself. We have to
understand the magnitude of what we are asking ourselves to do when we enter an audition or
competition. We are asking ourselves to go into an INTENSE environment and succeed.
Perfection is impossible even for the best of the best performers.
Instead of expecting perfection, just walk on, knowing you prepared all you could, and give it
your best shot, no matter how far in your career you are. You may argue that you need to
succeed in this one performance, or else you’ll never have the opportunity again, and it’s a valid
thought. However, adding that kind of pressure rarely works to produce the best result out of
you in that moment. Focus on what mindsets are actually helping you feel great about yourself
and empowering great technical and artistic execution.
Another shift is to start viewing competitions and auditions as an amazing opportunity to take
the next step in your career. Without auditions and competitions, you would not have the ability
to get a job or get into a school. They are simply necessary. Does that mean they are perfect?
Of course not. Can you get a job without auditions? It’s possible, but somewhere along the way
you’ll encounter one. Debating the pros and cons of their existence is meaningless. They are
here to stay, so we might as well reframe them to be an amazing opportunity, which they are!
The last mindset to adjust before a performance is to have other projects or goals outside of
the audition, concert, or competition. When we want to play well or win something, we place all
our value and focus onto it. This is good and bad. It’s good because we need to devote our
energy to what we want. However, having a small side project or a future competition to aim for
releases the pressure off of winning this particular audition. The last thing we want is to feel like
this is our only thing in our life and our only chance at success. Do not exaggerate the pressure
and do-or-die scenario of ONE audition. Your life is never over, no matter how poorly you
perform.
What about the “after audition or performance” mindset? In auditions and competitions, you
fundamentally either win or lose, although I always say it’s an eventual win because you can
and must learn from your successes and failures.
Let’s start with the most desired outcome. Let’s say you win. If you win, celebrate. I can’t
emphasize this enough. In a field as tough as the performing arts, a celebration is not going to
ruin your career even if you have deadlines approaching. Celebrations also allow you to clear
your mind and get ready for the next goal.
The second thing to do is share the good news! If you’re an introvert, share it anyway
because the people who support you will enjoy it as they have enjoyed helping you along the
journey. Along with celebrating and sharing the news, enjoy the moment. Be in the present
moment and enjoy the fact that your hard work paid off, you achieved your goals, and positive
feelings are flooding to your brain.
Lastly, leverage this win for the immediate future. At your next performance, bring back this
awesome feeling you have when times get tough. How do you build confidence? Experience.
Leverage this experience for the future, and incorporate these great memories into your day-to-
day work regimen. The high you feel after winning will only empower you and motivate you to
aim for the next level of development. Ride the wave!
Now let’s look at the other possible mindset to have after a performance. What if you lose?
The first thing to do is to realize you’ll need to process what just happened. Over the past
couple months, you have been preparing for this audition or competition. It’s never an amazing
feeling to “lose”. Therefore, prepare in advance to expect some sort of recovery period. Once
you process things, you can move on.
During part of the recovery period, it’s important to remember to enjoy the fact that you had
this chance in the first place. This is not a made-up mindset. It’s actually the truth. If you ever
meet people outside of the performing arts world, it’s rare that they will have similar experiences
in high-pressure situations. It’s also rare to have a career in the arts, so enjoy it while it lasts.
People would die to have the life you have. Performing is a truly unique opportunity to be
cherished, no matter how it goes, because before you know it, the moment has passed.
Realize there are more losers than winners, so relax. In our self-obsessed world we are
constantly thinking about ourselves. Oh no, we lost an audition! Guess what, an overwhelming
majority lost with you. Welcome to the club! Before my successful Juilliard audition, I was 3 for
30. But who’s counting? All you need are a couple of wins. Eliminate this self-perception that
you are invincible or expect to win everything you enter. The more you embrace reality, the less
you’ll be negatively affected by it when it hits you.
After a loss, you must examine what went well and what you can improve on. If you lose and
do not do this, you are missing out on valuable lessons and are only left with a negative
experience of the whole process. Commit to learning from your mistakes and become open to
adapting new ideas. After a loss, you’ll be more receptive to trying new things and seeking
answers. Along with analyzing your preparation process and experience, also analyze what was
in and out of your control. Could you control how the judges perceived you? Could you control
your day of preparation? Could you control the other competitors? Avoid falling into the common
mistake of having the false perception of controlling the environment. The only thing you can
control is yourself.
Continuing on the same mindset from the “before” section, it’s now time to vigorously attack
your next project. When you work on the next project or goal, you will achieve small victories
and rebuild confidence that may have been lost. Working on this next project will also remind
you that life is not over after an audition loss or poor performance.
The last phase of the “after” mindset for a loss is to remind yourself that your purpose in the
performing arts is not to win auditions or competitions. They are important and part of your
career development, but never let it detract from your greater purpose. Your greater purpose is
your artistic identity, what you represent, and what you mean to the world. Avoid falling into the
trap of losing sight of your greater purpose.
a) One of the keys to success on stage is having a pre-performance routine. Without one, you’ll
be inconsistent. You won’t know why things work or don’t work, and you’ll be extremely
underprepared for whatever happens. Typical routines include eating a banana, breathing, and
practicing more. If solving anxiety was this simple, then no one would have a problem with
anxiety. Anxiety is complex, so our pre-performance routine must be complex. It begins with the
first steps of the 200-step preparation process, in order to make sure we have addressed the
technical, artistic, and mental sides of performing. So what about the last steps we need for the
couple of days before?
b) Before we dive in, let me say that creating a pre-performance routine requires customization.
Again, what works for others may have no effect on you. While there are many aspects that
should be personalized like what to focus on, I will give you a list that applies to everyone.
c) Get your logistics handled. The last thing you need is stress due to lack of planning. Do you
have everything you need for the audition or concert? Do you know how to get to the
performance space? Is your instrument ready to go?
d) Health is absolutely crucial for everything in life. Performing is part of life. Performing is life.
Therefore, health is absolutely crucial for performing. Take care of your body. Eat well. Sleep
well. Exercise. Consult a doctor, trainer, and dietician. You’ll feel amazing on stage.
e) Prepare for impossible performances. As a performer, you’ll inevitably at one point in time
have to audition or perform after a tragedy, relationship difficulty, or something else that
extremely distracts you and puts you in an unstable mindset. Do your best to focus hard on your
task and delay emotions until the end of the performance. The show must go on, and if you can
succeed in this moment, every other performance will seem easy. This is easier said than done,
but it must be done. I will never forget how hard it was to perform after powerful events shook
me. It’s a true test of mental strength and courage.
f) When you are backstage about to enter the audition room or concert stage, you will be on
your own. If you do not know how to handle yourself, such that you rely on your teacher or
performance anxiety coach, you’ll feel lost. While in the beginning, it’s important to get others’
help when learning how to cope with anxiety, there will come a time where you must be on your
own. Therefore, it is crucial to develop the skill to coach yourself past your performance anxiety
and that helps in how to overcome stage fright.
a) Visualization is a powerful external technique that you can use in the practice room and just
before you walk on stage. In the practice room, you can visualize physical movements, musical
ideas, or what’s known as mental practice. For performance anxiety, visualize both success and
failure in high detail.
Visualize success because while it’s only mental, it’s still better than having no experience
succeeding in a high-pressure situation. Visualization also helps you organize your thoughts
and go through possible scenarios to be mentally prepared for them.
You can also visualize failure in the sense that you conclude that even if you mess up BIG
TIME, you’ll still be alive. Often, we mentally increase the power of failure when we become
anxious. However, this is the performing arts. You’re probably not going to die on stage, and
you’re also not the first one to mess up. Failure is really OK. Confront it with visualization and be
at peace with it. As you accept it as reality, you’re now free from its pain if it happens. You’ll also
want to actually visualize the place you’re going to be auditioning or performing if possible. Get
acquainted with the unknown, so when you get there in real life, you’ll have a higher sense of
comfort. Google search the venue and possible judges, and introduce yourself! For further
visualization guidelines, there are plenty of books in sports and performing arts out there.
b) Power poses are something I learned from both Amy Cuddy and Dr. Michael Luan. Amy
Cuddy has a wonderful TED talk on power poses, and Michael Luan is a fitness coach and
physical therapist at Music Academy of the West who helped me through anxiety. You should
check out Amy Cuddy’s presentation here. She essentially studied people before they went into
high-pressure situations, and she discovered that certain dominant body positions actually
increased their confidence. The people who used power poses released more testosterone and
lowered their cortisol, essentially reducing stress.
c) Breathing is similar to visualization in that it is a vital skill to develop and has been proven to
help all fields of expertise. When we get stressed out, we tend to hold our breath. However,
learning to breathe from your stomach as opposed to shallow breaths in the chest can help
relieve stress. Breathing patterns can help, as well as conscious breathing and bringing
awareness to the body. For further breathing guidelines, there are plenty of books in sports,
meditation, yoga, and performing arts out there. The only thing I haven’t read about that I have
found important is incorporating conscious artistic breathing into your practice. This way, when
you get nervous, you’ll automatically breathe at certain places and it actually makes sense
artistically too.
d) Alexander Technique is taught in the majority of conservatories and for good reason.
Alexander Technique makes you aware of your alignment, helps you move in a more
comfortable way, creates awareness of bad habits, and improves health. Take advantage of
this. It reduces anxiety and improves your technical execution and helps in how to overcome
stage fright
c) Beta blockers are a prescription drug that reduces the physical manifestations of anxiety like
shakiness, sweating, and increased heart rate. If your friend offers you some, make sure to go
to a doctor to know how much you should be taking. Don’t just randomly take them, like I did
back in the day. The downside of taking beta blockers is the fact that the mental manifestations
of anxiety — like lack of confidence, self-doubt, and lack of focus — still exist. The more you
use beta blockers, the more dependent you become on them in order to perform. Also, the
longer you use them, the more you have to take to get the same effect. In addition to blocking
the physical manifestations of anxiety, beta blockers block you from developing into the best
performer you can be and block you from experiencing liberated performances. Instead of
taking a pill to survive a performance or audition, develop the skill and self-esteem to walk into
any environment and play your best. Your confidence will increase to extreme levels. Life is
insanely awesome knowing you can thrive in high-pressure situations all because of your self-
esteem, not because of a pill.
d) All these strategies will save you at some point in your career, and possibly for your entire
career. These are the building blocks to achieving the mid-tier performance level of managing a
performance. They are also the extra boost needed to achieve top-level performances. But how
do I get to a top-level performance, doing more than managing my anxiety through techniques
and strategies? And how to overcome stage fright?
No matter how many managing techniques you develop in your skillset, you will still be
missing the fundamental key to overcoming your performance anxiety and truly experiencing
liberation on stage. Often, we learn how to breathe, visualize, and other tactics that give us
results. Over years of practice, we actually get quite good at it, and we can reduce the anxiety
more and more at a faster rate. However, the skills to breathe correctly and visualize do not
address the fundamental cause of your anxiety. They merely mask it temporarily. Shouldn’t we
just be able to walk out and perform? What’s holding us back? Lack of confidence? Fear of
judgement? Fear of failure? Lack of self-worth? Anxiety disorders like depression, social
anxiety, general anxiety, and obsessive-compulsive disorders? If we truly want to take our
performances to our full potential and create an enjoyable career, we need to address the
fundamental causes of anxiety. Do not let anxiety hold you back from becoming your best self,
especially because we are artists. Part of the artist’s role is to be above fear, or at least
consistently embracing it.
Learning about and addressing your anxiety can be scary and can even destroy your current
realities. However, after building yourself back up by restructuring perspectives; gaining new
performance experiences; and becoming aware of your behaviors, thoughts, and personal
history; you can now walk on stage with a completely different experience. Imagine walking on
with an insane amount of confidence, and then using the external techniques — like breathing,
visualization, and power poses — to help you focus and give you even more of a boost to
performing your best. Performing like this is the goal. The goal is not to survive, but to thrive in
performances. You can only do that by overcoming your fundamental causes of anxiety.
The performing arts world is full of challenges. There will be ups and downs to your career.
You need to keep in shape by practicing consistently. You need to improve your craft
constantly. The high-pressure situations will never end. You will gain more responsibility as you
progress in your career. There is constant competition for your job. There are years spent in
solitude practicing. You will constantly be tested on stage. Your art will be rejected.
This sounds like a daunting list, and it can discourage many from continuing or choosing a
career in the arts. However, if you can overcome all those and be at peace with the obstacles,
the payoff is the best thing in the world. There is nothing like the stage and its power to
communicate to people.
But how do we improve our chances, facilitate progress, and gain a better mindset to cope
with all these obstacles?
Fully commit to the professional lifestyle. As a performer and as a person, commit to refining
technique, expanding artistry, facing fears, and expressing yourself. Pursue self-improvement,
self-confidence, work ethic, focus, and the intense love of your art. By committing to the lifestyle,
you’ll gain massive experiences, stay on course during hardships, and power past rejection.
Don’t just pretend to be a top performer, but actually live the life of a top performer.
Our initial goal when seeking to overcome performance anxiety is to reduce anxiety which
helps in how to overcome stage fright. We do this by learning to manage a performance through
techniques. When we want to take our performance to the next level — where we thrive in
performances and walk on like a complete boss— we address our fundamental causes of
anxiety in addition to increasing our performance skills and routines. This leads to amazing
results that will improve your career and life exponentially. You gain confidence, overcome
fears, develop high self-esteem, validate yourself, develop intense preparation processes, gain
career opportunities, open yourself up, and powerfully communicate to the audience. You’ll
learn to love performing and your art form on a deep level, enjoy adrenaline, have a purpose,
and increase self-awareness. You’ll overcome rejection, gain artistic freedom, and have an
amazing presence when on stage.
Overcoming performance anxiety creates larger benefits than just performing your best. This
journey not only allows you to become a better artist, but it also forces you to develop
confidence for everything in life. You become your better self. This is a Liberated Performer.
13. SOME EPIC INSPIRATIONAL STORIES FROM MY YEARS OF COACHING.
Over time, he got to a point where he could comfortably walk on stage and play much closer
to his full potential. Could he perform like a rock star? Not yet, but he was closer. With the
combination of a good teacher, consistent practice, and the confidence to succeed, he
performed great in his auditions. He wasn’t the most talented musician at that stage in his
career, but by merely investing in the mental skill of performing, he could play closer to his full
potential during auditions. Meanwhile, the majority of performers who neglect the mental side,
especially in high school, most likely auditioned at a lower quality because of pressure and
anxiety.
b) I was contacted by a woman at Juilliard who began her email with “I am on the verge of
quitting because of anxiety.” This is a real aspect of the performing arts and forces many people
to take their talents elsewhere. This can stem from medical conditions, past experiences,
personality, and many other variables. Whatever each person’s unique causes are, performers
are moving away from the performing arts, and anxiety is a common reason. It makes sense
too, because if you repeatedly can’t perform your best in high-pressure situations, how on earth
are you going to win anything? Also, do you really want a career filled with anxiety experiences,
one after another? Any sane person would choose a different lifestyle, including myself. I can’t
imagine years of performing with anxiety! I’ve already experienced it and it sucks! Anyway, if I
were to help her, she would need to help herself as well.
In order to make sure the program would be a success for her, we met up and chatted for a
bit. During our chat, she told me about her past, but more importantly, I noticed her inner
motivation and emotion when talking about anxiety. This was going to be the key to her
success. She was tired of being held back by anxiety. She wanted to get her career handled
and do everything to achieve her dreams. She wanted to take control of her life. So we began
the program, and her emotional leverage powered her past the tough obstacles and motivated
her to focus and perfect her performance skills. She successfully took auditions with a newly
developed confidence and love for music and life. She could now perform to her full potential in
public, which led her to performing with one of the top 5 orchestras in America. Dream
accomplished and still going.
c) Two years into my career as a performance anxiety coach, I received an email from a
professional who wanted to overcome performance anxiety. A bit surprised, I asked myself, why
would an already established performer (top 5 orchestra) contact me for help? I was less than
half his age, not as musically experienced, and knew less about the field. So I met him to see if
we could succeed together and discover his motivations. It turned out that he had been taking
beta blockers since his conservatory days and wanted to perform without them. After years of
taking them, he was a bit nervous about quitting them, especially because he was in such an
important seat in the orchestra. What if he played poorly without them? Would he get fired?
Even though there was a real risk of lowering his playing quality, he still wanted to do whatever
it takes to perform naturally. So we began the program with a couple of goals. The first goal was
to stop taking beta blockers and offset the potential decrease of performance quality with even
better preparation and more practice. To no surprise, he was quite nervous the first couple of
performances without beta blockers. However, with the extra preparation and practice, he kept
his job and played better than he expected. As he gained new experiences, threw out old
mindsets, and adjusted his preparation process, he grew more confident in his performances.
After his hard work and willingness to improve with an open mind, he now officially performs
without beta blockers and feels completely liberated. Performing without beta blockers has done
wonders to his confidence and he has developed a new appreciation for performing. Working
with seasoned professionals is definitely a different dynamic than working with high school
performers. There’s a certain understanding and emphasis on the subtle details that translate
their years of professional life experience into more success. After I work with them, they always
tell me that they wish they’d known about the mental side of performing earlier in their career.
The last story is my own personal journey. Let me start by saying I was not a natural-born
performer by any means. In fact, I was probably one of the worst. I began experiencing
performance anxiety in my early teenage years where I would shake uncontrollably and perform
to half of my potential. Negative thoughts ran through my head, like “What are people thinking of
me?” and I would sweat profusely onto my violin. This continued for years during concerts,
auditions, lessons, and even rehearsals. However, after completely embarrassing myself at a
small regional competition in the middle of nowhere, I decided to do something about it. No
more failure. No more fear. No more feelings of helplessness.
With this motivation, I embarked on the journey to learning everything about performance
anxiety. I gained massive positive performance experiences, faced my fears of judgement, and
created a 200-step preparation process that keeps growing. Most importantly, I built my self-
esteem. After years of self-development, I can now say I can perform confidently in any situation
and enjoy my time on stage.
From fearing the stage and literally shaking in my shoes, I now love performing and can’t
imagine my life without it. I love the feeling of walking onto the stage at an audition or concert
and performing totally absorbed in the music, present in the music, playing to my full potential,
nailing the technical passages, and carving out the musical phrases like I know I can. I am fully
expressing myself and powerfully communicating to the audience. All my hard work is being
realized, whether I’m winning an audition itself, or walking off stage after a concert knowing I did
my best. I have all of this because I overcame anxiety, one of the hardest things to do in life. But
the benefits didn’t stop at performing. Everything in life, with the true development of self-
esteem, improved drastically. We can overcome any fear we have and can genuinely conquer
the world.