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Reference • Bibliography—Thanatology
Traced to the 1700s, the term thanatology is defined as the study of the broad and
complex topic of death. Because of the breadth of the published material and the
challenges of discovery in large bibliographic databases and catalogs, finding and
DEATH AND DYING
identifying monographic material on death, dying, grief, and bereavement can be extremely
challenging. Although several bibliographical resources have been published on thanatology,
those titles were incomplete, limited in scope, or leaned heavily toward one area of the
JOHN F. SZABO is director of the Atlanta–Fulton Public Library System. He is the author
of Mortuary Science: A Sourcebook (Scarecrow Press, 1993).
John F. Szabo
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Introduction v
1 Adolescents 1
2 Aging and Death 6
3 Attitudes toward Death 11
4 Bibliographies 18
5 Childhood Bereavement 23
6 Communication about Death 41
7 Coping and Caregivers 46
8 Cross-Cultural Views on Death and Dying 57
9 Death Education 72
10 The Death of a Child 80
11 Dying 92
12 Eschatology 113
13 Ethical Issues 116
14 Fear of Death 125
15 General Works 128
16 Grief and Mourning 149
17 Historical Views of Death and Dying 193
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18 Hospice 200
19 Immortality 213
20 Legal and Financial Issues 216
21 Mental Health Issues 220
22 Miscellaneous 225
23 Near-Death Experiences 227
24 Nursing 231
25 Palliative Care 234
26 Parental Loss and Grief 242
27 Pastoral Care 249
28 Philosophical Studies 257
29 Practitioner Education 265
30 Rituals 276
31 Sibling Loss and Grief 282
32 Thanatology 285
33 Widowhood 289
Since Geoffrey Gorer’s essay “The Pornography of Death” in 1955, there has
been a clear and unarguable deluge of publishing in the subject areas of death,
dying, grief, and bereavement. Gorer asserts that while sex was the pornography
of Victorian society, death is today’s pornography. This provocative proposition
led to significant writing and research on death attitudes, the psychology of death,
viewing death and grief as a natural part of life, and a reevaluation of care for the
dying. All of this, of course, has diminished the taboo of death and dying, though
it has certainly not eliminated it.
While it can be traced to the 1700s, the term thanatology has gained traction
in recent decades to refer to the study of the broad and complex topic of death.
Thanatology is fundamentally the interdisciplinary study of death, dying, grief,
and bereavement; however, use of the term is seen more commonly in academic
works, specifically scientific, and those intended for practitioners in the helping
professions.
There have been several bibliographical resources published on thanatology in
an effort make discovery easier. Unfortunately, those titles are now limited due
to their age. Many of them were incomplete at the time, were limited in scope,
or leaned heavily toward one area of the field while ignoring others. From my
bibliographical work on mortuary science, funerals, and other death rituals, I
discovered that a bibliographical resource that encompassed all of thanatology
was seriously needed. Because of the breadth of the published material and the
challenges of discovery in large bibliographic databases and catalogs, finding and
identifying monographic material on death, dying, grief, and bereavement can be
extremely challenging without such a resource.
This book provides more than 2,200 citations, many annotated, on the sci-
ence and study of death and dying; psychological, philosophical, and attitudinal
aspects; coping and dealing with the burdens of caregiving and working in the
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1. Allen, Janet. Using Literature to Help Troubled Teenagers Cope with End-
of-Life Issues. Westport, CT: Greenwood Press, 2001.
2. Baxter, Grant, and Wendy Stuart. Death and the Adolescent: A Resource
Handbook for Bereavement Support Groups in Schools. Ontario: University of
Toronto Press, 1999.
3. Bode, Janet. Death Is Hard to Live With: Teenagers Talk about How They
Cope with Loss. New York: Bantam Doubleday Dell Books for Young Readers,
1993. Cartoon artwork by Stan Mack.
Bode uses personal stories, vignettes, graphics, and a direct discussion of death
to present the issue to young adults. She covers funerals, violent deaths, parental
and sibling death, and the myriad of feelings experienced by teenagers. Com-
ments or explanations by professionals on various subjects are offered throughout
the book. Bode also offers some treatment for issues of cultural and religious
variations in approaching death, dying, and bereavement. References for recom-
mended books and videos are presented in a narrative at the book’s conclusion.
4. Corr, Charles A., and David E. Balk. Handbook of Adolescent Death and
Bereavement. New York: Springer, 1996.
5. Corr, Charles A., and Joan N. McNeil, eds. Adolescence and Death. New
York: Springer, 1986.
6. Dower, Laura, and Elena Lister. I Will Remember You: What to Do When
Someone You Love Dies: A Guidebook through Grief for Teens. New York:
Scholastic, 2001.
In assisting teens in coping with death, Dower talks about being in a state of
denial, keeping a grief journal, different types of grief, the role of ritual in grief,
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7. Finch, Stuart M., and Elva O. Poznanski. Adolescent Suicide. Springfield, IL:
Charles C. Thomas, 1971.
8. Fitzgerald, Helen. The Grieving Teen: A Guide for Teenagers and Their
Friends. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2000.
A certified death educator, Fitzgerald offers an incredibly thorough guide for
teens dealing with death. She discusses reacting to the news of a death, support
groups, the hospice movement, feelings of fear and anger, visiting the hospital,
saying goodbye, funerals and related subjects, grief and bereavement, and recov-
ery. The book answers some very specific questions teens may have about death,
for example, what is death like for the dying person? What does a dead body look
or feel like? Fitzgerald includes extensive discussion on feelings, grief, and the
future following a death, and she offers stories from teens who have experienced
a death and advice on being a friend to someone grieving. Includes a resource
list, bibliography, and list of websites. Foreword by noted thanatologist Earl A.
Grollman.
9. Footman, Marilyn E., and Pamela Espeland. When a Friend Dies: A Book
for Teens about Grieving and Healing. Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing,
2005. Originally published in 1994.
Straightforward and direct, this book stresses to teens that feelings of grief are
normal and confirms that teens and adults grieve differently.
10. Giddens, Sandra, and Owen Giddens. Coping with Grieving and Loss. New
York: Rosen Publishing Group, 2003. Rev. ed. Originally published in 2000.
Intended for high school audiences, this text addresses issues of loss, grief,
mourning, and funerals. The authors discuss feelings of anger, guilt, depression,
and acceptance often experienced by those grieving. They offer coping tech-
niques and suggestions for recovery. Thoughtful chapters are included on vio-
lence in schools and the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks. A brief glossary,
organizations providing assistance to teens, and suggestions for further reading
are included.
11. Gravelle, Karen, and Charles Haskins. Teenagers Face-to-Face with Be-
reavement. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Julian Messner, a division of Silver Burdett
Press, Simon & Schuster, 1989.
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Gravelle and Haskins present seventeen adolescents and young adults who
describe their grief experienced as teens following the deaths of family members
and friends from causes ranging from cancer to automobile accidents to cystic
fibrosis. The authors discuss what is different about adolescent bereavement and
present a caring, sensitive treatment of the subject. The focus is on the feelings and
experiences of teenagers and their methods of coping with grief. Subjects include
personal relationships with the terminally ill, initial reactions to death, problems
facing classmates and friends, coping with depression, feelings of guilt and anger,
and renewing family life following the death of an immediate family member.
12. Grollman, Earl A., ed. Bereaved Children and Teens: A Support Guide for
Parents and Professionals. Boston: Beacon Press, 1995.
In a collection of articles by prominent thanatology and death education ex-
perts, Grollman presents a comprehensive guide to bereavement in youth for par-
ents, caregivers, teachers, clergy, and health care professionals. Topics covered
include explaining death to young children, adolescent understandings of death,
disenfranchised grief of children, talking to children about terminal illness, cul-
tural and religious perspectives on death and children, treatments and therapies to
help children cope with death, care of the dying child, special needs of bereaved
children, and using film and drama to help children cope with death. A section
on cultural and religious perspectives includes articles on issues among African
American, Jewish, Protestant, and Catholic children.
13. Hogan, N. S. An Investigation of the Adolescent Sibling Bereavement
Process and Adaptation. Chicago: Loyola University, 1987. Author’s doctoral
dissertation.
14. Hughes, Lynne B. You Are Not Alone: Teens Talk about Life after the Loss
of a Parent. New York: Scholastic, 2005.
Hughes, who lost both of her parents at a young age, is the founder and director
of the nonprofit Comfort Zone Camp, a place for grieving children. She, along
with her campers, offers suggestions for coping with grief and moving beyond it
through testimonials. Includes detailed information about the camp.
15. Irish, Jerry A. A Boy Thirteen: Reflections on Death. Philadelphia: West-
minster Press, 1975.
16. Kuehn, Eileen. Death: Coping with the Pain. Mankato, MN: LifeMatters,
2001.
Intended for an elementary and junior high school audience.
17. LaGrand, Louis E. Coping with Separation and Loss as a Young Adult:
Theoretical and Practical Realities. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1986.
18. McBride, Alfred. Death Shall Have No Dominion. Dubuque, IA: William
C. Brown, 1979.
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McBride, a Roman Catholic priest, offers death education for adolescents from
a Catholic perspective.
19. Meyers, Karen, Mark J. Kittleson, and William Kane. The Truth about
Death and Dying. New York: Facts on File, 2005.
The authors offer a guide to death and dying for teen audiences.
20. Millet, Edmund A. An Investigation among Junior Highs into the Under-
standing of Death and Dying and a Program Response. Boston: Boston Univer-
sity School of Theology, 1979.
This book was a project report associated with Millet’s pursuit of the doctor
of ministry degree.
21. Morgan, John D., ed. The Dying and the Bereaved Teenager. Philadelphia,
PA: Charles Press, 1990.
In addition to collections of essays on the dying and the bereaved teenager,
this book also offers four essays on the role of the school in dealing with the
bereaved teen, including suicide postvention. Morgan is coordinator of Death
Education Conferences and a professor of philosophy at King’s College in Lon-
don, Ontario. Most of the contributors are health and mental health professionals
from Canada.
22. Myers, Edward. Teens, Loss, and Grief: The Ultimate Teen Guide. Lanham,
MD: Scarecrow Press, 2006. Part of the It Happened to Me series, volume 8,
Arlene Hirschfelder, series editor. First paperback edition. Illustrations by Kelly
Adams. Previously published in 2004 as When Will I Stop Hurting?: Teens, Loss,
and Grief.
23. Pershy, Mary Kelly. Helping Teens Work through Grief. Washington, DC:
Accelerated Development, 1997.
24. Schoeneck, Therese. Griefjourney: Notes on Grief for Teens, Young Adults,
and Anyone Who Is Grieving. Syracuse, NY: Hope for the Bereaved, 2006.
A booklet printed by nonprofit group Hope for the Bereaved, an organization
offering one-on-one counseling, support groups, a helpline, the HOPELine news-
letter, and community education. Schoeneck is the founder.
25. Scrivani, Mark. When Death Walks In: For Teenagers Facing Grief.
Omaha, NE: Centering Corporation, 1991. Poetry and illustrations by Ben Sieff.
Intended for adolescents, this 32-page paperback serves as an easy-to-read
guide that discusses feelings, different styles of grief, suicidal thoughts, dreams,
remembrances, going back to school, seeking and finding support, and forgive-
ness.
26. Ward, Barbara. Good Grief: Exploring Feelings, Loss, and Death with over
Elevens and Adults: A Holistic Approach. Bristol, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publish-
ers, 1996. Originally published in 1993.
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27. Wilde, Gary. Dealing with Death: A Four-Week Course to Help Junior
Highers Explore Their Feelings about Death. Loveland, CO: Group Publishing,
1991.
28. Wolfelt, Alan D. Healing a Teen’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas for
Families, Friends, and Caregivers. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2001.
Companion Press is an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
Wolfelt, educator and grief counselor, discusses the special mourning needs of
teens and offers suggestions for family members, teachers, coaches, clergy, and
caregivers.
29. ———. Healing Your Grieving Heart for Teens: One Hundred Practical
Ideas. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2001. Companion Press is an imprint
for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
Wolfelt offers a book to help teens mourn. He presents 100 specific, practical
ideas for mourning well and ends with a touching final word. Each numbered idea
includes a suggestion to express yourself. Wolfelt is also director of the Center
for Loss and Life Transition.
30. Wolfelt, Alan D., and Megan E. Wolfelt. The Healing Your Grieving Heart
Journal for Teens. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2002. Companion Press
is an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
31. Zim, Herbert S., and Sonia Bleeker. Life and Death. New York: William
Morrow, 1970. Illustrated by Rene Martin.
In this 64-page hardback book for young adolescents, husband and wife au-
thors discuss physical facts of death, funeral and mourning customs, and attitudes
surrounding death and dying. Customs from around the world are presented, as
death is discussed as an important part of life. Illustrated with black-and-white
sketches. Includes an index.
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32. Angel, Marc D. Aging and Dying as Aspects of Living. New York: United
Jewish Appeal, 1984. Part of the United Jewish Appeal Young Leadership Cabi-
net Judaica Series.
33. Benoliel, Jeanne Quint. Dealing with Death: Discussions of Death Pre-
sented for Those Concerned with the Delivery of Care Service for the Elderly.
Los Angeles: University of Southern California, Ethel Percy Andrus Gerontology
Center, 1973.
34. Botsford, Anne L., and Force Lawrence T. Botsford. End of Life Care: A
Guide for Supporting Older People with Intellectual Disabilities and Their Fami-
lies. Albany, NY: New York State Association of Regional Councils, 2000.
35. Boyle, Joan M., and James E. Morriss. The Mirror of Time: Images of Ag-
ing and Dying. New York: Greenwood Press, 1987.
36. Cicirelli, Victor G. Older Adults’ Views on Death. New York: Springer,
2002.
Cicirelli, professor of developmental and aging psychology at Purdue Uni-
versity, presents a study of older adults ranging in age from 70 to 90 examining
influences of age-related health changes, religious beliefs, culture, and family
relations. He also discusses various meanings of death, fears about death, and
how people view the dying process. Topics include sociocultural and personal
meanings of death, death trajectories, views and expectations about the dying
process, and interrelationships between all of these themes. Includes extensive
references and an index.
37. DeRopp, Robert Sylvester. Man against Dying. New York: St. Martin’s
Press, 1960.
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38. Gaventa, William C., and David L. Coulter, eds. End-of-Life Care: Bridg-
ing Disability and Aging with Person-Centered Care. Binghamton, NY: Haworth
Pastoral Press, 2005. Copublished simultaneously as Journal of Religion, Dis-
ability, and Health, Volume 9, Number 2, 2005.
The editors present a series of articles about how to achieve a good death, tak-
ing into account the special considerations for those with a disability. The articles
are structured around two primary papers on end-of-life issues among disabled
and aging populations. With a particular focus on Alzheimer’s disease, this book
explores how society thinks about disability in general as well as within the con-
text of death and dying. Policies, ethics, quality of life, and consent are addressed
in detail. An extensive bibliography and list of websites are included.
39. Jury, Mark, and Dan Jury. Gramp: A Man Ages and Dies. New York:
Grossman Publishers (Viking Press), 1976. Photographs by Mark Jury and Dan
Jury. Narrative text by Mark Jury.
With powerfully emotional and raw photographs of their grandfather’s final
weeks and months, Mark Jury and Dan Jury open a door to death and dying in
this 152-page biographical piece. Accompanied by text that relays both Frank
Tugend’s dying and his caregivers’ struggle and perseverance, they reveal the
realities of all that the dying process can involve.
40. Kutscher, Austin H., and I. K. Goldberg, eds. Oral Care of the Aging and
Dying Patient. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1973. Part of the American
Lecture Series.
This book is a strange text on a rarely explored corner of thanatology. Includes
a chapter titled “Use of an Electrically Driven Toothbrush in the Management of
Oral Hygiene in the Dying Patient.”
41. Marshall, Victor W. Last Chapters: A Sociology of Aging and Dying. Mon-
terey, CA: Brooks/Cole, 1980. Part of the Brooks/Cole Series in Social Gerontol-
ogy, Vern Bengtson, editor.
Bengtson notes in his foreword that the proliferation of material published on
death and dying in the 1960s and 1970s was characterized by titles focusing on
awareness of death and dying rather than an understanding of the subject. This
book attempts to bring together research on the social organization of death, dy-
ing, and aging. The primary theme is that problems and issues associated with
dying and aging are based on society’s need to “construct meaning in a continu-
ally changing world.” Marshall points out that humans are constantly negotiating
with one another to resolve issues of who they are, who they were, and who they
will be. He discusses the character of death in society, societal problems associ-
ated with death and dying, fear of death, attitudes toward death, awareness of
finitude, the concept of terminal status passage, environmental and community
contexts, and making sense of death and dying. Appropriate for death education
and sociology classes, each section concludes with review questions. Includes a
lengthy list of references and name and subject indexes.
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42. McCall, Junietta Baker. Grief Education for Caregivers of the Elderly. New
York: Haworth Pastoral Press, 1999.
43. McGee, Ann Young. The Impact of an Educational Intervention Module
on Death and Dying on Death Anxiety among Middle-Aged and Older Adults in
North Carolina. Raleigh: North Carolina State University, 1980.
This title is McGee’s doctoral dissertation. In 2005, she served as executive
director of the White House Conference on Aging.
44. Meeks, Linda Brower, and Philip Heit. Aging, Dying, and Death. Colum-
bus, OH: Charles E. Merrill Co., 1984. Part of the Health: Focus on You series.
45. ———. Aging, Dying, and Death: A Teacher’s Guide. Columbus, OH:
Charles E. Merrill Co., 1984.
46. Minot, Charles. The Problem of Age, Growth, and Death. New York: Put-
nam, 1908.
47. Morgan, John D. Ethical Issues in the Care of the Dying and Bereaved
Aged. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1996.
48. Munnichs, Joep M. A. Old Age and Finitude: A Contribution to Psycho-
gerontology. New York: S. Karger, 1966.
49. Nearing, Helen. Light on Aging and Dying. Gardiner, ME: Tilbury House,
1995.
50. Overall, Christine. Aging, Death, and Human Longevity: A Philosophical
Inquiry. Berkeley: University of California Press, 2003.
51. Prichard, Elizabeth R., Margot Tallmer, Austin H. Kutscher, Robert DeBel-
lis, and Mahlon S. Hale, eds. Geriatrics and Thanatology. New York: Praeger,
1984. Part of the Foundation of Thanatology series, volume 1, Austin H. Kutscher
and Lillian H. Kutscher, general editors.
Prichard and her coeditors present a collection of articles on care for the dying
elderly. Topics include psychiatric considerations in aging and death, the be-
reaved elderly, effects of parental death on middle-aged adults, adaptive behavior
of the elderly in facing death, the relationship between death and the elderly’s
perception of self-worth, and reincarnation. Includes references, an index, and
brief professional information about each contributor. Preface written by Rose
Dobrof, director of the Brookdale Center on Aging at Hunter College of the City
University of New York.
52. Roslansky, John D., and George Wald, eds. The End of Life: A Discus-
sion at the Nobel Conference. London: North-Holland, 1973. This is the eighth
volume of the Nobel Conference Lectures at the Gustavus Adolphus College,
St. Peter, MN, 1972. It is dedicated to Arne Tiselius (1902–1971), winner of the
1948 Nobel Prize in Chemistry.
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The authors attempt to “fill a void created by the lack of ethnographic data on
the organization of behavior in old age.” Using field studies, they offer insight
into the dying and their caregivers with a distinct focus on Jewish and African
American elderly. The first part of the book examines aging as status passage
in comparative social and cross-cultural contexts, while the second part looks at
social organization within the families of various cultural groups. Includes refer-
ences and an index.
60. Zarit, Steven H., ed. Readings in Aging and Death: Contemporary Perspec-
tives. New York: Harper & Row, 1977. Part of the Contemporary Perspectives
Reader Series, Phillip Whitten, editor.
Zarit, of the University of Southern California’s Adrus Gerontology Center,
offers fifty-nine reprinted articles on aging and death from a sociological per-
spective. The paperback begins with a 75-item questionnaire written by Edwin
Shneidman.
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61. Adlerstein, Arthur M., and H. I. Gerard. The Relationship between Reli-
gious Belief and Death Affect. Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1958.
62. Anderson, Patricia, with an interview from Marilee Longacre. All of Us:
Americans Talk about the Meaning of Death. New York: Delacorte Press, 1996.
This is a book about how people feel about dying presented as a collection of
interviews. Anderson relays the stories and feelings of celebrities, professionals,
teens in gangs, and many others. Many insights concerning fear of death; atti-
tudes toward death; and lessons to be learned from dying, death, and grieving are
presented. An excellent final chapter titled “The Highest Common Denominator”
offers commentary on the commonalities of Americans’ views toward death and
the juxtaposition of these with general accepted thought on death. A short bio-
graphical narrative is included for each of the more than sixty people featured.
Also includes a bibliography.
63. Armstrong, Harry G. The Emerging Death Mystique: The Challenge and
the Promise. Hicksville, NY: Exposition Press, 1978.
64. Bradbury, Mary. Representations of Death: A Sociological Perspective.
New York: Routledge/Taylor & Francis, 1999.
Bradbury, with a background in both anthropology and social psychology,
presents a book for both the social scientist and the bereaved. It is a study of how
death is presented in images and how this affects the social psychology of death-
related institutions. The sometimes jarring photographs in the book, taken by
Peter Rauter, stress the observational nature of her study. They include a funeral
parlor interviewing room, coffin-making workshop, storage facilities in an em-
balming room, corpses, a horse-drawn hearse, funeral vehicles, funeral flowers,
a catafalque in a crematorium chapel, computer-operated cremators, a burning
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73. ———. The Sacred and the Secular: Attitudes of the American Public to-
ward Death. Milwaukee, WI: Bulfin, 1963.
A small, 23-page booklet on varying views toward death in the United States.
74. Goldsmith, Charles E. A Theoretical Analysis of Attitudes of Older People
toward Dying. Boston: Boston University Graduate School, 1967.
75. Goodman, Lisl Marburg. Death and the Creative Life: Conversations with
Prominent Artists and Scientists. New York: Springer, 1981. Volume 4 of the
Springer Series on Death and Suicide, Robert J. Kastenbaum, series editor.
76. Group for the Advancement of Psychiatry, Symposium No. 11. Death and
Dying: Attitudes of Patient and Doctor. New York: Group for the Advancement
of Psychiatry, 1966.
77. Gualtieri, Antonio R. The Vulture and the Bull: Religious Responses to
Death. Lanham, MD: University Press of America, 1984.
78. Hawkins, Anne Hunsaker. Reconstructing Illness: Studies in Pathography.
West Lafayette, IN: Purdue University Press, 1993.
Hawkins suggests that accounts of religious conversions are being replaced by
personal accounts of experience with disease. She divides these pathographies
into three categories: those where patients believe they can be responsible for
their own recovery, those searching for the good death, and those who view death
as a battle with disease or a personal journey. She discusses the myth of rebirth
and the promise of a cure, the myths of battle and journey, constructing death
through myths about dying, and myths about medicine and the healthy mind. The
appendix includes a bibliography of pathographies organized by disease as well
as an extensive list of references.
79. Kaplan, Pascal M. Understanding Death from a Spiritual Perspective. New
York: Sufism, 1977.
80. Kastenbaum, Robert J., and Ruth Aisenberg. Death in Our Lives and
Thoughts. New York: Springer, 1975. Condensed from The Psychology of
Death.
81. Kaufman, Barry Neil, and Suzi Lyte Kaufman. A Land beyond Tears: The
Liberating Approach to Death and Dying. Garden City, NY: Doubleday, 1982.
82. Klein, Allen. The Courage to Laugh: Humor, Hope, and Healing in the
Face of Death and Dying. New York: Jeremy P. Tarcher/Putnam, 1998.
Calling himself a “jollytologist,” Klein brings laughter to the subject of death
and dying. He discusses the lines between helpful humor and hurtful humor and
attempts to answer the question, “Tasteless or triumphant?” In this book, he
talks about the courage to laugh in the face of death; humor’s role with hope and
healing; when humor is and is not appropriate; humor in hospice; turning tears
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to laughter in children; humor with cancer and AIDS; humor in bereavement and
loss; and last laughs at funerals, at memorials, and in eulogies. Klein includes
numerous stories, anecdotes, and quotes. Includes a bibliography.
83. Knott, J. Eugene. Thanatopics: Activities and Exercises for Confronting
Death. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books, 1989.
84. Kramer, Herb, and Kay Kramer. Conversations at Midnight: Coming to
Terms with Dying and Death. New York: W. Morrow and Co., 1993.
85. Lehner, Ernst. Devils, Demons, Death, and Damnation. New York: Dover,
1972.
86. Lonetto, Richard, and Donald I. Templer. Death Anxiety. Washington, DC:
Hemisphere Publishing, 1986. Part of the Series in Health Psychology and Be-
havioral Medicine, Charles D. Spielberger, editor in chief.
The authors attempt to frame the study of death anxiety in such a way that it
will find a prominent place in the behavioral and social sciences. They present
both theoretical analyses and research on death anxiety that have been derived
from a variety of environments. The text explores the correlates of death anxi-
ety, its dimensions, death imagery, and coping with the anxiety. The appendix
deals with measurement and features Boyar’s Fear of Death Scale, other death
attitude scales, and the Death Anxiety Scale. Includes extensive references and
an index.
87. Lunceford, Ronald, and Judy Lunceford. Attitudes on Death and Dying: A
Cross-Cultural View. Los Alamitos, CA: Hwong Publishers, 1976.
88. Marks, Amy Seidel, and Bobby J. Calder. Attitudes toward Death and
Funerals. Evanston, IL: Center for Marketing Sciences, J. L. Kellogg Graduate
School of Management, Northwestern University, 1982.
89. McCoy, Marjorie Casebier. To Die with Style! Nashville, TN: Abingdon
Press, 1974.
Through numerous stories and literary references, McCoy comments on vary-
ing approaches to death. She refers to these “styles” in chapters on accepting,
defiant, sensual, humorous, tragic, and questing attitudes toward death. A final
chapter addresses “achieving” one’s own death. Includes a list of titles for further
reading arranged by subject.
90. Mitchell, Marjorie Edythe. The Child’s Attitude toward Death. New York:
Schocken, 1967.
91. Moore, Virginia. Ho for Heaven! Man’s Changing Attitude toward Dying.
New York: Dutton, 1956.
92. Murphy, Marie. New Images of the Last Things: Karl Rahner on Death and
Life after Death. New York: Paulist Press, 1988.
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93. Murphy, N. Michael. The Wisdom of Dying: Practices for Living. Boston:
Element Books, 1999.
Advocating for a celebration of job in death, Murphy, a physician who has
worked in hospice environments, presents a positive vision from a spiritual, soul-
ful perspective. He incorporates references to ancient myths and traditions from
Ireland and the United Kingdom. This book is marketed as “An inspirational
guide for dying consciously. A celebration of living consciously.” Includes emo-
tional stories of the dying and their caregivers.
94. National Cancer Foundation. A Constructive Approach to Terminal Illness.
New York: National Cancer Foundation, 1962.
95. Neimeyer, Robert A., ed. Death Anxiety Handbook: Research, Instrumen-
tation, and Application. Washington, DC: Taylor & Francis, 1994. Part of the
Series in Death Education, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
Offering the first comprehensive treatment of death anxiety, Neimeyer’s book
explores the causes, correlates, and consequences of the fear of death; implica-
tions for applied contexts; useful ideas for health care settings; applications for
psychotherapy; and instruction for death education. Such in-depth measurements
of death attitudes as copies of instruments with scoring keys, extensions and
refinements of widely used instruments, scales assessing death acceptances and
competencies, and reliability of available data are included. Philosophical and
psychological theories on death are covered as to how they affect the attitudes of
bereaved young adults, persons with AIDS, nursing home care workers, clients
in psychotherapy, and individuals who have had near-death experiences. This
title is intended for physicians, researchers, psychotherapists, hospice workers,
and others in the helping professions. Neimeyer is a professor of psychology at
University of Memphis and is widely published on thanatological topics.
96. Nouwen, Henri J. M. Our Greatest Gift: A Meditation on Dying and Car-
ing. San Francisco, CA: HarperSanFrancisco, 1994.
Nouwen explores attitudes toward death in the context of Catholic spirituality.
97. Sheikh, Anees A., and Katharina S. Sheikh. Death Imagery: Confronting
Death Brings Us to the Threshold of Life. Milwaukee, WI: American Imagery
Institute, 1991.
98. Singer, Peter. Rethinking Life and Death: The Collapse of Our Traditional
Ethics. New York: Oxford University Press, 1994. Published by St. Martin’s
Press in 1995.
99. Stannard, David E., ed. Death in America. Philadelphia: University of
Pennsylvania Press, 1975.
An important work in thanatology, Stannard’s book offers a collection of eight
essays by anthropologists, cultural historians, and literary scholars Phillippe
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Aries, Mary Ann Meyers, Patricia Fernandez Kelly, Stanley French, Ann Doug-
las, Lewis O. Saum, Jack Goody, and Stannard himself. In his introduction, Stan-
nard highlights what he sees as contradicting themes in Americans’ attitudes and
approaches toward death. He notes that one of those themes is “the popular social
criticism, exemplified by Jessica Mitford’s The American Way of Death, focusing
on the excesses of the funeral industry.” The other is the “more scholarly socio-
logical analysis of the common fate of most Americans, who now die in hospitals
and rest homes, deserted by their families and friends, and faced with doctors and
nurses so intent on maintaining their professional demeanor that they avoid per-
sonal contact with the dying at every turn.” He later argues, however, that these
two themes, “the extravagant masquerade of death and the determined avoidance
of the dying,” are actually reactions with a common source. Contributed articles
discuss bibliographic trends in death and the interpretation of culture, the cem-
etery as cultural institution, death in Mexican folk culture, death and the Puritan
child, death in Mormon thought and practice, changes in attitudes toward death
in Western societies, and death in the popular mind of pre–Civil War America.
Includes references, a small number of illustrations, and brief biographical in-
formation on the editor and contributors. Stannard is an American studies and
history professor at Yale University.
100. Stillion, Judith M. Death and the Sexes: An Examination of Differential
Longevity, Attitudes, Behaviors, and Coping Skills. Washington, DC: Hemi-
sphere Publishing, 1985. Part of the Series in Death Education, Aging, and Health
Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
A developmentally oriented psychologist, death education teacher, and coun-
selor, Stillion examines the psychology of sex roles in the context of death and
dying. She presents research on sex differences in longevity, looking at the
changing face of death as well as biogenetic, environmental, and psychosocial
perspectives on death. Other topics covered include sexism in death, sex roles
and death attitudes across the life span, implications of gender identity and role
for death attitudes, gender and suicide, speculations concerning sex differences
in murder and suicide, widowhood, adult grief reactions, women and grief, a
model of bereavement counseling, sex roles and death education, and counseling
the bereaved with observations on sex roles. Each chapter concludes with a list
of references.
101. Walker, Kenneth M. The Circle of Life: A Search for an Attitude to Pain,
Disease, Old Age, and Death. New York: Consortium Press, 1970.
102. Weiner, Bill. Quiet Desperation: Plain Talk on Life and Death. Secaucus,
NJ: Lyle Stuart, 1980.
Originally intended to be a book about the life experiences of older people,
it became a narrative about death as Weiner’s oral documentary brought to the
surface many comments on death and dying. For two years, the author spoke with
400 men and women in hospitals, nursing homes, and funeral parlors and taped
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them. He spoke with war veterans, the terminally ill, holocaust survivors, and
those grieving the death of a loved one. The words of those interviewed are sad,
humorous, and often inspiring.
103. Weiss, Jess E. The Vestibule. Port Washington, NY: Ashley Books,
1972.
In an effort to alleviate “the sting of death” and to “establish with more cer-
tainty that there is an afterlife,” Weiss offers a collection of varied essays on
death experiences. Includes Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’s essay “The Experience of
Death.”
104. Zinker, Joseph Chaim. Terminal Illness as a Source of Personality Change
in a Woman Suffering from Cancer. Cleveland: Western Reserve University,
1963.
This is Zinker’s doctoral dissertation. Founder of the Gestalt Institute in Well-
fleet, MA, he has been involved in the growth and development of Gestalt theory
and methodology for many years.
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ject indexes; and an extremely useful interest level index listing subject followed
by age group interest level.
108. Farberow, Norman L. Bibliography on Suicide and Suicide Prevention:
1897–1957; 1958–1967. Rockville, MD: National Institute of Mental Health,
1969. Also published and distributed by the U.S. Government Printing Office.
Farberow provides 2,202 references in this 203-page book.
109. Friedler, Anna B. Guide to the 400 Best Children’s and Adult’s Multicul-
tural Books about Disability, Illness, and Death. Newton Centre, MA: Lift Every
Voice Multicultural and Minority Source Materials Co., 1997.
110. Fulton, Robert. Death, Grief, and Bereavement: A Bibliography, 1845–
1975. New York: Arno Press, 1976. Part of the Literature of Death and Dying
series, Robert J. Kastenbaum, editor. The title page notes “with the assistance of
Jerry Carlson, Karl Krohn, Eric Markusen, and Greg Owen.” Fulton’s introduc-
tion attributes the publishing to the Center for Death Education and Research at
the University of Minnesota, of which he is affiliated.
Fulton offers more than 3,800 references that include both monographic and
serial publications. Entries are numbered consecutively and are arranged alpha-
betically by author. Citations do not include notes or annotations. Includes a
simple subject index.
111. ———. Death, Grief, and Bereavement: A Chronological Bibliography,
1843–1970. Minneapolis: Center for Thanatological Studies, University of Min-
nesota, 1970. Publisher also cited as the Center for Death Education and Research
at the University of Minnesota.
112. Fulton, Robert, Margaret R. Reed, and Joyce H. Thielen. Death, Grief,
and Bereavement II: A Bibliography, 1975–1980. New York: Arno Press, 1981.
Also cited as A Bibliography on Death, Grief, and Bereavement II, 1975–1980.
This is a supplement to Fulton’s earlier work, Death, Grief, and Bereavement,
1845–1975.
Includes Joseph C. Santora’s 230-title Guide to Doctoral Dissertations on
Death and Dying, 1970–1978.
113. Guthman, Robert F. Jr., and Sharon Kay Womack. Death, Dying, and
Grief: A Bibliography. Lincoln, NE: Pied Publications, 1978. Also cited as pub-
lished by Word Services, Waco, TX.
The authors present an alphabetical list of more than 2,000 citations, most pub-
lished in the thirty years preceding publication of the bibliography. Works cover
all areas of death, dying, and grief. Citations are divided into sections based on
format: articles in periodicals and newspapers; books; miscellaneous; speeches
and reprinted, mimeographed, and unpublished papers; government documents;
theses and dissertations; pamphlets; and surveys and papers presented at meet-
ings. No annotations are included.
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114. Halporn, Roberta. The Thanatology Library. New York: Highly Special-
ized Promotions, 1976.
An annotated catalog of books and audiovisual materials available from Highly
Specialized Promotions.
115. Hayslip, Bert, and Robert J. Kastenbaum. Death and Dying: A Selective
Bibliography for Gerontology Instruction. Washington, DC: Association for Ger-
ontology in Higher Education, 1995.
116. Kutscher, Austin H. A Bibliography of Books on Death, Bereavement,
Loss, and Grief: 1935–1968. New York: Health Sciences Publishing Corp., 1969.
Also cited as A Bibliography of Books on Death, Loss, and Grief: 1935–1968.
Kutscher lists approximately 1,200 references in this 84-page book.
117. ———. A Bibliography of Books on Death, Bereavement, Loss, and Grief:
1968-1972. New York: Health Sciences Publishing Corp., 1974. Also cited as A
Bibliography of Books on Death, Loss, and Grief: 1968–1972.
118. Kutscher, Martin L., Daniel J. Cherico, Austin H. Kutscher, Robert DeBel-
lis, Raphael Lorenzo, and Roberta Halporn. A Cross-Index of Indices of Books
of Thanatology. New York: MSS Information Corp., 1978. Distributed by Arno
Press.
119. Kutscher, Martin L., Daniel J. Cherico, Austin H. Kutscher, Amy E. Han-
ninen, Steven Johnson, and David Peretz. A Comprehensive Bibliography of the
Thanatology Literature. New York: MSS Information Corp., 1975. Part of the
MSS Thanatology Series. This book’s title is also cited as Bibliography of the
Thanatology Literature.
Kutscher and others offers more than 4,800 citations of journal articles, mono-
graphs, and other publications. There are no notes or annotations. A short list of
bibliographical sources is included in the acknowledgments. Includes a simple
subject index.
120. Mace, Gillian S., Faren R. Akins, and Dianna L. Akins. The Bereaved
Child: Analysis, Education, and Treatment: An Abstracted Bibliography. New
York: IFI/Plenum Press, 1981.
121. Marks, Renee U. The Sociology of Death: A Selected Bibliography. Ann
Arbor: University of Michigan, School of Public Health, Department of Epide-
miology, 1965.
122. Meagher, David K., ed. As It Is Said: A Selected, Annotated Bibliography
in Death and Dying. 11th ed. Brooklyn, NY: Center for Thanatology Research
and Education, 2003.
123. Miller, Michael James, and Albert Jay Acri. Death: A Bibliographical
Guide. Metuchen, NJ: Scarecrow Press, 1977.
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124. Morgan, J. H., ed. Death and Dying: A Resource Bibliography for Clergy
and Chaplains (1960–1976). Wichita, KS: Institute on Ministry and the Elderly,
1977.
125. Poteet, G. Howard. Death and Dying: A Bibliography, 1950–1974. Troy,
NY: Whitston Publishing, 1976.
126. Poteet, G. Howard, and Joseph C. Santora. Death and Dying: A Bibliogra-
phy (1974–1978). Troy, NY: Whitston Publishing Co., 1989.
An unannotated bibliography of mostly periodical literature published from
1974 to 1978. Subject focus is death and dying, euthanasia, and suicide. Citations
are divided by subject. Includes an author index and a broad list of journals.
127. Prince, Arlene. Death and Dying: A Mediagraphy: An Annotated Listing
of Audiovisual Materials. 1977. Project sponsored by the Health Sciences Learn-
ing Resources Center, the University of Washington, and the Allied Memorial
Council.
Prince has compiled a 266-page bibliography of audiovisual materials on ter-
minal care, thanatology, and related subjects. Includes indexes.
128. Sell, Irene L. Death and Dying: An Annotated Bibliography. New York:
Tiresias Press, 1977.
Sell, an associate professor of nursing at Long Island University, offers 506 an-
notations (382 articles, 71 books, and 53 audiovisual items) that are presented for
their relevance to nursing. Most of the works cited were published in the 1970s
with some in the 1960s. Includes author and extensive subject indexes.
129. Sell, Kenneth D. Hospice, an International English Language Bibliogra-
phy. Durham, NC: Hospice of North Carolina, 1981.
130. Simpson, Michael A. Dying, Death, and Grief: A Critically Annotated
Bibliography and Source Book of Thanatology and Terminal Care. New York:
Plenum Press, 1979.
Simpson plays the role of critic for the literature of death and dying. He uses
a one- to five-star rating system and writes candid and helpful commentary on
more than 700 titles on death and dying. Examples of comments include “catchy
title,” “well-meaning but not at all special,” “over-emotional,” and “wispy and
frail book.” Such formats as books, films, audiovisual materials, and journal ar-
ticles are included. There is no index. Simpson is on the faculty at the Academic
Department of Psychiatry, Royal Free Hospital, London.
131. Southard, Samuel. Death and Dying: A Bibliographical Survey. Bibliogra-
phies and Indexes in Religious Studies. New York: Greenwood Press, 1991.
Primarily focused on theological, pastoral, and counseling aspects of death
and dying, this annotated bibliography includes more than 2,200 books, articles,
chapters, and reports.
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135. Alderman, Linda. Why Did Daddy Die?: Helping Children Cope with the
Loss of a Parent. New York: Pocket Books/Simon & Schuster, 1989.
Alderman offers her own emotional journey following the death of her hus-
band and how she guided her children through their own bereavement. Helpful
for both those grieving and those helping children grieve, this book provides
tips for teachers as well as answers to commonly asked questions following
the loss of a parent. Alderman discusses how to tell children about death and
loss; funerals and issues surrounding them pertinent to children; understanding
a child’s concept of death; phases of grief (shock and denial, anger, bargaining,
depression, acceptance); and reaching out for help. Includes a brief annotated
bibliography.
136. Altschul, Sol, and G. H. Pollock. Childhood Bereavement and Its After-
math. Madison, CT: International Universities Press, 1988.
137. Anthony, Sylvia. The Discovery of Death in Childhood and After. New
York: Basic Books, 1972. First American edition. Originally published as The
Child’s Discovery of Death: A Study in Child Psychology by Kegan Paul, Lon-
don, in 1940, and by Harcourt, Brace, New York, in 1940. Also published by
Penguin, Baltimore, MD, in 1973.
In a revised edition of her earlier work, Anthony presents an exploration of
how children respond to death. She highlights similarities between the way
contemporary children react to death and the rituals of prehistoric peoples.
Anthony’s authoritative book is an often-cited classic. An appendix to chapter 1
is titled “Story-Completion Responses from Children Whose Mental Condition
Appears to Be Pathological.” Includes bibliography and name index.
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138. Barnard, Paul, Ian Morland, and Jan Nagy. Children, Bereavement, and
Trauma: Nurturing Resilience. Philadelphia: Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1999.
139. Bernstein, Joanne E. Helping Children Cope with Loss: A Bibliotherapy
Approach. New York: R. R. Bowker, 1978.
140. Bernstein, Joanne E., and Stephen V. Gullo. When People Die. New York:
Dutton, 1977.
Bernstein and Gullo provide frank information about what happens when
people die from both physical and spiritual perspectives. For ages five and up.
141. Berry, Joy Wilt. About Death. Chicago: Children’s Press, 1990.
142. ———. Good Answers to Tough Questions about Death. Chicago: Chil-
dren’s Press, 1990.
143. Boritzer, Etan. What Is Death? Santa Monica, CA: Veronica Lane Books,
2000. Part of the Love and Feelings for Kids series. Illustrated by Nancy For-
rest.
This book is a gentle and thoughtful presentation of death for young children.
With understandable but specific narrative, Boritzer explores death traditions
from various cultures and religions.
144. Christ, Grace Hyslop. Healing Children’s Grief: Surviving a Parent’s
Death from Cancer. New York: Oxford University Press, 2000.
Christ, an associate professor of social work at Columbia University, stud-
ied 88 families in which 157 children lost one of their parents when they were
three to seventeen years old. Fifty-one fathers and thirty-seven mothers were
treated for advance stages of cancer at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center.
The families, except for one, participated in a psychoeducational intervention
program designed to help families cope with the death of one parent. The inter-
ventions provided information that allowed Christ to conduct quantitative and
qualitative analyses. This book summarizes the latter. The analysis examines how
the children coped from six months preceding to fourteen months following the
parent’s death. The data yielded five developmentally separate age groups. Most
of the children in the study adapted well to the loss. Includes a bibliography and
name and subject indexes.
145. Coloroso, Barbara. Parenting through Crisis: Helping Kids in Times of
Loss, Grief, and Change. New York: HarperCollins, 2000. Also published by
Quill, New York, in 2001.
146. Corr, Charles A., and Donna M. Corr. Handbook of Childhood Death and
Bereavement. New York: Springer, 1996.
147. Dennison, Amy, Allie Dennison, and David Dennison. After You Lose
Someone You Love: Advice and Insight from the Diaries of Three Kids Who’ve
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Been There. Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing, 2005. Published in 2003
as Our Dad Died: The True Story of Three Kids Whose Lives Changed.
Written from a child’s point of view, this book relays the experiences of young
children dealing with the sudden loss of a parent. The authors write about the
death, the funeral, the cemetery, the first week, the first year, thoughts and feel-
ings, and their sadness and grief. Includes practical suggestions for coping and a
brief list of recommended titles. Foreword by Harold S. Kushner.
148. Dickerson, Julie G., and Patricia Brant. Grandpa’s Berries: A Story to
Help Children Understand Grief and Loss. Johnstown, PA: Cherubic Press,
1995.
149. Doka, Kenneth J., ed. Children Mourning, Mourning Children. Washing-
ton, DC: Hospice Foundation of America, 1995.
Doka and several fellow scholars on death and dying offer twelve articles
on various topics related to childhood bereavement and death. They address
children’s understandings of death, answering the questions of grieving children.
They talk to children about illness, life-threatening illnesses in children, HIV in
the context of orphans and victims, parental and childhood grief, children and
traumatic loss, the role of the school, the worlds of dying children and their well
siblings, a child’s reconstruction of a deceased parent, and family bereavement.
Contributors include J. William Worden, Charles A. Corr, Catherine M. Sand-
ers, and Earl A. Grollman. Includes references, a sampler of literature for young
readers arranged by age group, and selected and annotated bibliographies by
Corr. The back of the book provides information about the Hospice Foundation
of America and its educational and publishing activities.
150. ———, ed. Living with Grief: Children, Adolescents, and Loss. Washing-
ton, DC: Hospice Foundation of America, 2000. Distributed by Brunner/Mazel,
Philadelphia.
Produced in conjunction with the Hospice Foundation of America’s National
Bereavement Teleconference, this text is a compendium of articles by noted
experts on childhood grief. Divided into sections titled “Theoretical Overview,”
“Clinical Approaches with Children and Adolescents,” and “Special Losses,”
Doka’s book offers chapters on adolescent grief, the relationship of culture and
class to grief, the role of the school, empowering families and other natural sup-
port systems, counseling approaches, play therapy, benefits of ritual, the role of
groups with grieving children and teens, death education, parental and sibling
bereavement, and traumatic loss. Most chapters are followed by stories, vignettes,
dialogues, or other narratives that illustrate the chapter’s theme. Charles A. Corr
offers a special chapter on using books to help children cope. In it he presents an
annotated bibliography of recommended titles. Also included is a list of resource
organizations with detailed descriptions and a list of references. Foreword by
Jack D. Gordon, president of the Hospice Foundation of America.
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151. Dougy Center for Grieving Children and Families. Helping the Grieving
Student: A Guide for Teachers: A Practical Guide for Dealing with Death in Your
Classroom. Portland, OR: Dougy Center for Grieving Children and Families,
1998.
152. ———. Thirty-Five Ways to Help a Grieving Child. Portland, OR: Dougy
Center for Grieving Children and Families, 1999. Part of the Dougy Center for
Grieving Children and Families Guidebook Series.
153. ———. When Death Impacts Your School: A Guide for School Administra-
tors. Portland, OR: Dougy Center for Grieving Children and Families, 2000.
154. Dyregov, Atle. Grief in Children: A Handbook for Adults. London: Jessica
Kingsley Publishers, 1991.
155. Emswiler, Mary Ann, and James P. Emswiler. Guiding Your Child through
Grief. New York: Bantam Books, 2000.
The Emswilers are founders of the New England Center for Loss and Transi-
tion and The Cove, a program for grieving children and their families. This com-
passionate guide provides professional advice for parents and caregivers who are
helping a child through a period of bereavement. It discusses the variety of ways
in which children grieve, changes in family dynamics, effective ways to ease the
transition to these changes, communicating with children about death and dying,
coping with the overwhelming sorrow experienced during holidays, depression
emanating from grief and how to identify it, and other suggestions for helping
children heal. Other chapters address stepparenting a grieving child, issues with
grieving teens, and long-term effects of childhood grief. Includes a suggested
reading list and ideas for school personnel and health care professionals for deal-
ing with grieving children. Also includes information about the organizations
founded by the authors.
156. Fassler, Joan. Helping Children Cope: Mastering Stress through Books
and Stories. New York: Free Press, 1978.
157. Fiorini, Jody J., and Jodi Ann Mullen. Counseling Children and Adoles-
cents through Grief and Loss. Champaign, IL: Research Press, 2006.
158. Fitzgerald, Helen. The Grieving Child: A Parent’s Guide. New York:
Simon & Schuster, 1992.
Fitzgerald, director of the first grief program in the nation established in a com-
munity health center, presents a guide for parents to help make a child’s world
whole again following a death. Acknowledging that explaining death to a child is
an incredibly difficult task for parents, the author offers advice for telling a child
about death and coping with loss. She discusses introducing children to the real-
ity of death through books, language, and other methods; children’s reactions to
death; coping with the reality of death; dealing with the emotional responses of a
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child—anger, fear, guilt, depression, and so on; and moving beyond grief and re-
turning to school. Fitzgerald also includes a section on resolving childhood grief
as an adult and several activities for children and adults—drawing, writing, ac-
tivities with clay, funeral home and cemetery visits, and so forth. Includes a short
bibliography sectioned by age group. Introduction by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross.
159. Fogarty, James A. The Magical Thoughts of Grieving Children: Treating
Children with Complicated Mourning and Advice for Parents. Amityville, NY:
Baywood Publishing, 2000. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John
D. Morgan, editor.
160. Fox, Sandra Sutherland. Good Grief: Helping Groups of Children When
a Friend Dies. Boston: New England Association for Education of Young Chil-
dren, 1985.
161. Fry, Virginia Lynn. Part of Me Died, Too: Stories of Creative Survival
among Bereaved Children and Teenagers. New York: Dutton/Penguin, 1995.
Fry attempts to help children and teens to express their grief in a manner that
brings healing rather than angst by presenting stories about young people. Each
chapter offers a different story and focuses on a different type of grief, includ-
ing that experienced following an accidental death; the death of a grandparent,
mother, father, sibling, friend; a death from AIDS; a suicide; and a murder. The
book concludes with an epilogue bringing the reader up-to-date with how the
young people in the stories are doing now. Fry is the director of the Hospice
Council of Vermont and teaches at the University of Vermont.
162. Furman, Edna. A Child’s Parent Dies: Studies in Childhood Bereavement.
New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, 1974.
163. Gaffney, Donna A. The Seasons of Grief: Helping Your Children Grow
through Loss. New York: New American Library, 1988.
164. Goldman, Linda. Breaking the Silence: A Guide to Help Children with
Complicated Grief—Suicide, Homicide, AIDS, Violence, and Abuse. Washington,
DC: Accelerated Development, 1996.
165. ———. Helping the Grieving Child in School. Bloomington, IN: Phi Delta
Kappa Education Foundation, 2000.
166. ———. Life and Loss: A Guide to Help Grieving Children. Muncie, IN:
Accelerated Development, 1994.
167. Greenlee, Sharon, and Bill Drath. When Someone Dies. Atlanta, GA:
Peachtree Publishers, 1992. Illustrated by Bill Drath.
A simple book for children on loss and grief featuring soft, gentle nature
scenes. Greenlee is also a counselor.
168. Grollman, Earl A. The Child and Death. Boston: Beacon Press, 1967.
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169. Hartnett, Johnette. Children and Grief: Big Issues for Little Hearts. South
Burlington, VT: Good Mourning, 1993.
170. Heegaard, Marge Eaton. Coping with Death and Grief. Minneapolis, MN:
Lerner Publications, 1990.
Emphasizing that death is a natural part of life, Heegaard presents a helpful
book for older children on how to say goodbye, dealing with the feelings that fol-
low the death of a loved one, and helping others who are grieving. Heegaard, a
grief and loss counselor who works with children, provides practical information
on death and funerals in a gentle, thoughtful way. Includes a glossary and titles
for further reading.
171. Hickman, Martha Whitmore. Last Week My Brother Anthony Died. Nash-
ville, TN: Abingdon Press, 1984. Illustrated by Randie Julian.
172. Holford, Karen, and Kevin McCain. I Miss Grandpa: A Story to Help Your
Child Understand Death—and Eternal Life. Nampa, ID: Pacific Press Publishing
Association, 2004.
173. Huntley, Theresa. Helping Children Grieve When Someone They Love
Dies. Minneapolis, MN: Augsburg Fortress, 1991. Revised paperback edition
published in 2002.
174. Jackson, Aariane R., and Leigh Lawhon. Can You Hear Me Smiling?: A
Child Grieves a Sister. Washington, DC: Child & Family Press, 2004.
175. James, John W., Russell Friedman, and Leslie Landon Matthews. When
Children Grieve: For Adults to Help Children Deal with Death, Divorce, Pet
Loss, Moving, and Other Losses. New York: HarperCollins, 2001.
This book is designed to equip parents, teachers, and caregivers with the skills
to help grieving children. The authors present an easy-to-read guide with numer-
ous practical suggestions, personal stories, and real-life accounts. Includes the
questionnaire used by Matthews to assess how children process loss and the ef-
fect that parental skills in the area have on recovery from bereavement. Informa-
tion on the Grief Recovery Institute is included.
176. Jersild, Arthur T., and Frances B. Holmes. Children’s Fears. New York:
Teachers College, Columbia University, 1935.
177. Jewett, Claudia L. Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss.
Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1982. Also cited as being published
by Bergin & Garvey Publishers in 1982 with coauthor S. Hadley.
178. Job, Nina, and Gill Frances. Childhood Bereavement: Developing the Cur-
riculum and Pastoral Support. London: National Children’s Bureau, 2004.
Job and Frances provide a guide for teachers and school personnel to address
issues relating to dying, death, and grief. They utilize best practices, case studies,
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Kübler-Ross offers a touching story about loss for children facing life-
threatening illness or the loss of a loved one. A 32-page paperback, this book will
help young people understand the gift of life as well as the reality of death.
190. Kysar, Ardis, and Elizabeth Overstad. Helping Young Children Cope with
Crisis: A Guide for Training Child Care Workers. St. Paul, MN: Toys ’n Things
Press, 1979.
191. Lamers, William Jr. Death, Grief, Mourning, the Funeral, and the Child.
Chicago: National Association of Funeral Directors, 1965.
192. Landau, Elaine. Death: Everyone’s Heritage. New York: Julian Messner,
1976.
A sensitive explanation of death for youth, Landau provides an overview of
death and discusses euthanasia, the process of dying, caring for the terminally
ill, suicide, grief and bereavement, funerals, and recovery from grief. Includes
a comforting epilogue and brief bibliography. Landau worked as a newspaper
reporter, children’s book editor, and children’s librarian.
193. Lehmann, Linda, Shane R. Jimerson, and Ann Gaasch. Mourning Child
Grief Support Curriculum: Early Childhood Edition: Kindergarten–Grade 2.
Philadelphia: Brunner-Routledge, 2000.
194. ———. Mourning Child Grief Support Curriculum: Middle Childhood
Edition: Grades 3–6. Philadelphia: Brunner-Routledge, 2000.
195. ———. Mourning Child Grief Support Curriculum: Preschool Edition:
Denny the Duck Stories. Philadelphia: Brunner-Routledge, 2000.
196. LeShan, Eda. Learning to Say Goodbye: When a Parent Dies. New York:
Macmillan, 1976.
A guide for middle school–aged children dealing with the death of a parent.
197. ———. When a Parent Is Very Sick. Boston: Joy Street Books, a Division
of Little, Brown and Company, 1986.
198. Levete, Sarah, Christopher O’Neill, and Roger Vlitos. When People Die.
Brookfield, CT: Copper Beach Books, 1998.
Intended for elementary school audiences.
199. Levy, E. L. Children Are Not Paper Dolls: A Visit with Bereaved Siblings.
Greely, CO: Counseling Consultants, 1982.
200. Lewis, Paddy Greenwall, and Jessica G. Lippman. Helping Children Cope
with the Death of a Parent: A Guide for the First Year. Westport, CT: Praeger,
2004.
201. Lindsay, Bruce, and John Elsegood. Working with Children in Grief and
Loss. London: Bailliere Tindall, 1996.
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202. Mallonie, Bryan, and Robert Ingpen. Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Ex-
plain Death to Children. New York: Bantam Books, 1983.
Intended for audiences ages eight to ten.
203. McCarthy, Jane Ribbens, and Julie Jessop. Young People, Bereavement,
and Loss: Disruptive Transitions? London: National Children’s Bureau for the
Joseph Rowntree Foundation, 2005.
In this 86-page paperback, the authors examine the implications of bereave-
ment on the lives of children and teens through a thorough review of scholarly
literature on the topic. They suggest that bereavement is a general part of grow-
ing up. The book explores case studies on how young people discuss experiences
with loss; the theoretical history of research on bereavement and young people;
empirical evidence of bereavement as a risk factor in the lives of young people;
social and cultural contexts of bereavement; approaches to education and inter-
vention; and implications for policy makers and practitioners in forming guide-
lines, procedures, and practices for working with young people who are bereaved.
An appendix provides statistical data on numbers of young people experiencing
bereavement. Also includes an extensive list of references.
204. McGuire, Leslie. Death and Illness. Vero Beach, FL: Rourke Corporation,
1990.
Intended for juvenile audiences, this book uses the experiences of several
young people to explain losing a loved one because of a terminal illness.
205. Miller, Sally Downham. Mourning and Dancing for Schools: A Grief and
Recovery Sourcebook for Students, Teachers, and Parents. Deerfield Beach, FL:
Health Communications, 2000.
Miller’s book is about recognizing the losses experienced by members of a
school community and understanding the effects of bereavement over time. She
includes many stories about her work with schools and those mourning. She also
discusses team training, print and audiovisual resources, organizations and sup-
port groups, and “writing through the storm.”
206. Monroe, Barbara, and Frances Kraus, eds. Brief Interventions with Be-
reaved Children. New York: Oxford University Press, 2005.
Monroe and Kraus, both on staff at the St. Christopher’s Hospice in London,
present theoretical concepts on and practical implications of brief work with be-
reaved youth and their families. The authors’ unique focus is on “flexible and ac-
cessible short-term services delivered at the right time” and how they “underpin
the strengths of bereaved children.” Their premise is that such brief interventions
support the youths’ recovery rather than pathologizing the grief process. This no-
tion appears in other works but is not examined in-depth as it is here. Appropriate
for practitioners and educators, this book includes chapters from seventeen con-
tributors. Topics include family assessment, therapeutic interventions, shrinking
the space between people, brief interventions before bereavement, the role of
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218. Papenbrock, Patricia L., and Robert F. Voss. Loss: How Children and
Teenagers Can Cope with Death and Other Kinds of Loss. Raymond, WA: Medic
Publishing Co., 1990.
219. Pennells, Margaret, and Susan C. Smith. The Forgotten Mourners: Guide-
lines for Working with Bereaved Children. London: Jessica Kingsley Publishers,
1995.
220. Pringle, Laurence. Death Is Natural. New York: Four Winds Press,
1977.
A simple 54-page book for children that explains death in the most general
sense.
221. Rathke, Julia Wilcox. What Children Need When They Grieve: The Four
Essentials: Routine, Love, Honesty, and Security. New York: Three Rivers Press,
2004.
222. Reed, Elizabeth L. Helping Children with the Mystery of Death. Nashville,
TN: Abingdon Press, 1970.
223. Richmond, Judy. Just You and Me: Making Memories with Your Children.
St. Joseph, MO: Hands of Hope Hospice, 1995.
224. Romain, Trevor. What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies? Min-
neapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing, 1999. Edited by Elizabeth Verdick.
Romain, an author and illustrator of several children’s books, offers this 72-
page small paperback written for younger children. It is divided into eighteen
chapters, each a question about death, mourning, or funerals. Examples include
Who can I talk to? Is it ok to cry? Will I ever feel better? Where has the person
gone? Where else can I go for help? Includes four titles for suggested reading.
Romain encourages children to visit libraries and bookstores for additional infor-
mation. Includes simple illustrations.
225. Romond, Janice Loomis. Children Facing Grief. St. Meinrad, IN: Abbey
Press, 1989.
226. Rowling, Louise. Grief in School Communities: Effective Support Strate-
gies. Philadelphia: Open University Press, 2003.
Departing from the traditional approach of addressing grief in young people
from an individual, supportive perspective, Rowling uses the “school commu-
nity” as the organizing supportive framework, recognizing that losses are “em-
bedded in a young person’s social environment as well as the family.” She also
focuses more on the effects of bereavement on the child in their present environ-
ment rather than the adult the child will become. A member of the International
Work Group on Death, Dying, and Bereavement and associate professor at the
University of Sydney, Rowling’s topics include critical incident management,
creating a supportive school environment, partnerships with outside agencies,
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disenfranchised grief in school settings, and the impact of loss on children and
adolescents. Includes an excellent glossary, a bibliography, and an index.
227. Rudman, Masha Kabakow. Children’s Literature: An Issues Approach.
2nd ed. New York: Longman, 1984.
228. Rudman, Masha Kabakow, Kathleen Dunne Gagne, and Joanne E. Bern-
stein. Books to Help Children Cope with Separation and Loss: An Annotated
Bibliography. 4th ed. New York: R. R. Bowker, 1993. Part of the Serving Special
Needs Series.
Containing more than an annotated bibliography, Rudman’s book is a source-
book on the issue of loss and children. In the bibliography, she includes 746
titles and provides thorough critical annotations. More than half of the titles were
published between 1989 and 1993. Rudman also includes some lengthy narrative
in the front of the book on separation, loss, and bibliotherapy for young people.
Here she discusses a child’s concepts of separation, a child’s reaction to separa-
tion, helping children cope, history of bibliotherapy, research in bibliotherapy,
and tips for successful bibliotherapy. She also provides lists of books and chap-
ters within books about separation and loss for adults. Another list contains titles
on bibliotherapy, including periodical articles. An appendix offers a list, arranged
by subject, of organizations and contact information with brief descriptions of
each. The book concludes with author, title, and subject indexes along with a
helpful interest level index listing bibliographic entries according to subject and
age level.
229. Rugg, Sharon. Memories Live Forever: A Memory Book for Grieving
Children. Marietta, GA: Rising Sun Center for Loss and Renewal, 1995.
Rugg, a licensed social worker, presents a collection of children’s writings
about death and loss along with exercises to help with sharing feelings.
230. Rugg, Sharon, and Rebecca Randall. Puppet Plays for Grieving Children.
Marietta, GA: Rising Sun Center for Loss and Renewal, 2000.
Rugg and Randall present a collection of sixteen puppets dealing with various
themes of death and dying. Themes include fatal accidents, terminal illnesses,
parental losses, life changes, the loss of a pet, natural disasters, suicides, divorces,
homesickness, HIV and AIDS, among others. The authors also offer ideas about
creating puppets and puppet theaters.
231. Schaefer, Dan, and Christine Lyons. How Do We Tell the Children? New
York: Newmarket Press, 1986. Published in 1993 with the subtitle A Step-by-Step
Guide for Helping Children Two to Teen Cope When Someone Dies. Third edi-
tion published in 2001.
Told in direct and simple language, this book explains the facts of death to
children and teens and offers guidance on coping with loss. It explores how their
emotions affect their reactions to death. Schaefer and Lyons begin with a review
of what children think about death, noting differences by age group. They exam-
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ine how to explain death to children in various situations, including the death of
a grandparent, infant death, the death of friend or classmate, an accidental death,
a murder, a suicide, and AIDS. They offer compassionate advice on talking to
children about someone who is dying. A touching chapter is offered on speaking
about death with a mentally challenged child. Grief and recovery from bereave-
ment are thoroughly treated with chapters on special grief needs of children;
the grieving process; dealing with anger, guilt, and responsibility; and helping
children heal. A brief chapter on funerals is included. The authors also offer an
extensive crisis checklist as well as an annotated bibliography divided by subject
and a list of support groups. Foreword by David Peretz, professor of psychiatry
at the College of Physicians and Surgeons at Columbia University.
232. Schuurman, Donna L. Helping Children Cope with Death. Portland, OR:
Dougy Center for Grieving Children and Families, 1998.
233. ———. Never the Same: Coming to Terms with the Death of a Parent. New
York: St. Martin’s Press, 2003.
Schuurman presents a thoughtful and sensitive guide for parents, teachers, and
other caregivers for grieving children. She discusses feelings without emphasiz-
ing stages of grief. An appendix includes an article titled “Limitations of Studies:
How to Know What to Believe When You Read a Study’s Findings.” Includes a
bibliography. Schuurman is executive director of The Dougy Center for Grieving
Children and Families and past president of the Association for Death Education
and Counseling.
234. Seibert, Dinah, Judy Catherine Drolet, and Joyce V. Fetro. Are You Sad
Too?: Helping Children Deal with Loss and Death. Santa Cruz, CA: ETR As-
sociates, 1993.
This 154-page paperback offers “suggestions for teachers, parents, and other
care providers of children to age 10.” Chapters address educating children about
loss and death; sharing death experiences to include cultural traditions and reli-
gious beliefs; how children learn about death; what children need to know about
death; responding to children’s questions, including examples; responding to a
loss or a death; and using children’s literature to teach about death. Also includes
suggested readings, references, and a short glossary.
235. Siekmann, Theodore C. Come the End: Instructions for Young People on
the Last Things. New York: J. F. Wagner, 1951.
236. Silverman, Janis. Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities for Helping Kids Cope
When a Special Person Dies. Minneapolis, MN: Fairview Press, 1999.
Silverman presents an art therapy and activity book for young children coping
with death.
237. Silverman, Phyllis Rolfe. Never Too Young to Know: Death in Children’s
Lives. New York: Oxford University Press, 2000.
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titles for further exploration, and information about the author. The Understand-
ing Issues series explores “uncomfortable topics” that impact children.
247. Swetland, Sandra, and Nancy Calhoun. Helping Children Cope with
Death: A Guide for School Personnel. Pittsburgh, PA: Allegheny Intermediate
Unit, Nonpublic Schools Program, 1984.
248. Terhune, James A. Coping with Personal Losses. Eugene, OR: J. Terhune,
1987.
A self-published text for juvenile audiences.
249. Trozzi, Maria, and Kathy Massimini. Talking with Children about Loss.
New York: Berkley, 1999.
250. Vandeman, George E. Papa, Are You Going to Die? Mountain View, CA:
Pacific Press, 1970.
251. Vogel, Linda Jane. Helping a Child Understand Death. Philadelphia:
Fortress Press, 1975.
252. Ward, Barbara. Good Grief: Exploring Feelings, Loss, and Death with
under Elevens: A Holistic Approach. Bristol, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers,
1996. Originally published in 1993.
253. Wass, Hannelore, and Charles A. Corr, eds. Childhood and Death. Wash-
ington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing, 1984.
254. ———, eds. Helping Children Cope with Death: Guidelines and Re-
sources. Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing, 1982. Revised second edition
published in 1984 as part of the Series in Death Education, Aging, and Health
Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
255. Webb, Nancy Boyd, ed. Helping Bereaved Children: A Handbook for
Practitioners. New York: Guilford Press, 2002. Originally published in 1993.
A member of the faculty of Fordham University’s Graduate School of Social
Service, Webb has assembled articles from ten diverse contributors along with
several of her own pieces to assist social workers, psychologists, and others who
may fill the role of helping a child through loss. Topics include children’s emo-
tional responses to death, differences between childhood and adult grief, religious
and cultural influences on a child’s understanding of death, disabling grief, sev-
eral variations on professional intervention, therapy options, vicarious traumati-
zation of counselors, sibling death, grandparent death, parental death, suicide and
grieving children, violent deaths, play therapy groups, the death of a teacher, and
school-based intervention. Case studies are almost always referenced. Appen-
dixes include training programs and certifications in play therapy, grief counsel-
ing, and trauma/crisis counseling; a brief list of bereavement resources; resources
for play materials; and a limited bibliography focused on religious, cultural, and
ethnic practices related to death. Foreword by Earl A. Grollman.
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256. Weitzman, Elizabeth. Let’s Talk about When a Parent Dies. New York:
PowerKids Press/Rosen Publishing Group, 1996. Part of the Let’s Talk Library.
Intended for young children, this is a simple book on grief. The author empha-
sizes how death is not the child’s fault, how one can never love too much, sharing
feelings, fear, accepting the loss, and holding on to memories. Includes a brief
glossary and color photographs to illustrate the concepts.
257. Wolfelt, Alan D. A Child’s View of Grief: A Guide for Parents, Teachers,
and Counselors. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2004. Companion Press is
an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
Wolfelt, director of the Center for Loss and Life Transition, presents a 45-page
booklet on how children and adolescents grieve after a loved one dies. Includes
guidance for parents and caregivers.
258. ———. Healing the Bereaved Child: Grief Gardening, Growth through
Grief, and Other Touchstones for Caregivers. Fort Collins, CO: Companion
Press, 1996. Companion Press is an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life
Transition.
Wolfelt offers guidance for helping a child through bereavement. He discusses
the unique qualities of a child’s grief, the six needs of mourning, foundations
for counseling bereaved children, counseling techniques, support groups for
bereaved children, helping grieving children at school, and helping the grieving
adolescent. Wolfelt advocates a more holistic approach to the grief process.
259. ———. Healing a Child’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas for Fami-
lies, Friends, and Caregivers. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2001. Com-
panion Press is an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
Wolfelt presents an idea book for adults who are helping a child grieve.
260. ———. Healing Your Grieving Heart for Kids: 100 Practical Ideas:
Simple Advice and Activities for Children after a Death. Fort Collins, CO: Com-
panion Press, 2001. Companion Press is an imprint for the Center for Loss and
Life Transition.
For six- to twelve-year-olds, this book offers simple advice and suggested ac-
tivities for children following the death of a loved one. Wolfelt affirms feelings
and emphasizes that they are normal and necessary.
261. ———. Helping Children Cope with Grief. Muncie, IN: Accelerated De-
velopment, Inc., 1983.
Prolific author Wolfelt offers a guide for parents, educators, and caregivers
working with grieving children. He offers suggestions for creating a caring re-
lationship and an open atmosphere for children to discuss feelings and attitudes
toward death and dying. Topics covered include factors influencing a child’s
response to death, emotional responses, dimensions of childhood grief, physi-
ological changes, regression, explosive emotions, acting out, fears, guilt and self-
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blame, reconciliation, skills needed by the caregiver, and helping others to help
children. Discussion questions are also provided to help in facilitating group
conversations about grief and death. Wolfelt also includes an important chapter
on the “Big Man” or “Big Woman” syndrome among bereaved children. Includes
a list of twelve activities for children and their caregivers, selected periodicals,
organizations and support groups, several tables of data, and an extensive list of
contemporary resources that deal with children and grief. Wolfelt wrote the book
while he was a doctoral fellow in the Department of Psychiatry and Psychology
at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota.
262. Wolfenstein, Martha, and Gilbert Kliman, eds. Children and the Death of
a President: Multidisciplinary Studies. New York: Doubleday, 1965.
Developed from a conference at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine on
“Children’s Reactions to the Death of the President” in April of 1964, this volume
is a collection of studies by thirteen researchers. Most of the material relates to
the death of President John F. Kennedy. The studies explore reactions to the as-
sassination, Oedipal themes in the reactions, differences between the death of the
president and the death of a parent, and others. Includes titles and institutional
affiliation of the contributors, a questionnaire for school children used in one
study, several essays by junior high school students about the assassination, a
transcript of tape recorded interviews between a researcher and children about
the assassination, and an index.
263. Wolff, S. Bereavement in Children under Stress. New York: Penguin,
1969.
264. Worden, J. William. Children and Grief: When a Parent Dies. New York:
Guilford Press, 1996.
Worden, codirector of the Harvard Child Bereavement Study based at Mas-
sachusetts General Hospital, presents major findings of the study in this book,
which combines theory, research, and practical advice for those helping children
grieve the loss of a parent. Offering a detailed examination of bereavement in
children, the book is based on extensive interviews and assessments of school-
aged children who have a lost a parent. Worden explores the mourning process
for children, the role of mediators in a child’s bereavement experience, loss
through death compared to other types of loss, counseling and intervention, and
intervention models and activities. The text is appropriate for advanced courses
in bereavement, child therapy, and developmental psychopathology. A touching
epilogue includes several quotes from children who have lost a parent because of
death, offering advice to other children who have experienced the same loss. Ap-
pendixes include project assessment instruments and a screening instrument with
scoring instructions. Includes a list of suggested readings by subject area.
265. Zeligs, Rose. Children’s Experience with Death. Springfield, IL: Charles
C. Thomas, 1974.
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266. Arnstein, Helene S. What to Tell Your Child about Birth, Illness, Death,
Divorce, and Other Family Crises. Indianapolis, IN: Bobbs-Merrill, 1962. Pub-
lished in cooperation with the Child Study Association of America. Originally
published in 1960 as What to Tell Your Children about Birth and Death.
In addition to the other topics, Arnstein discusses how best to communicate
about serious health issues, death, and dangers. A brief section on where to go for
help is included along with a list of print and organizational resources.
267. Berrigan, Daniel. We Die before We Live: Talking with the Very Ill. New
York: Seabury Press, 1980.
268. Better Business Bureau. Alerting Bereaved Families: A Special Bulletin.
New York: Better Business Bureau, 1961.
269. Bryant-Mole, Karen. Talking about Death. Austin, TX: Raintree Steck-
Vaughn, 1999. Part of the Talking About series.
This book is a heavily illustrated 32-page book for young children on death,
dying, funerals, feelings, and remembering loved ones. Includes a glossary and
list of three titles for suggested readings.
270. Buckman, Robert, Ruth Gallop, and John Martin. I Don’t Know What to
Say: How to Help and Support Someone Who Is Dying. Boston: Little, Brown,
1989. Also published by Key Porter Books, Toronto, in 1988, and by Vintage
Books, New York, in 1992.
271. Callanan, Maggie, and Patricia Kelly. Final Gifts: Understanding the Spe-
cial Awareness Needs and Communications of the Dying. New York: Bantam,
1997. Originally published in 1992.
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272. Carmody, John. Conversations with a Dying Friend. New York: Paulist
Press, 1992.
273. Cobb, Nancy. In Lieu of Flowers: A Conversation for the Living. New
York: Pantheon Books, 2000.
Cobb’s book is an effort to bring laughter and enlightenment to the subject
of death and loss. She refers to the instances when the living meet the dying as
“divine intersections.” Told in a direct and frank style, unlike many books of
consolation, Cobb relays the stories of others who have experienced loss.
274. Coute, Lucille. Conversations with a Dying Friend. Pacific Percep.,
1977.
275. Dempsey, David. Death, the Press, and the Public. New York: Arno
Press, 1982.
276. DiGiulio, Robert C., and Rachel Kranz. Straight Talk about Death and
Dying. New York: Facts on File, 1995.
Written for adolescents, this book provides concise information about a variety
of death-related topics. DiGiulio covers American attitudes toward death, teens’
individual experiences with death, coming to terms with death, and Kübler-
Ross’s five stages of dying. He includes a valuable “Where to Find Help” section
that includes suicide and homicide resources, alcohol and drug counseling and
help, sexually transmitted diseases, as well as gay and lesbian support groups. A
brief but appropriate list of books on death and dying is also provided.
277. Golubow, Mark. For the Living: Coping, Caring, and Communicating
with the Terminally Ill. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2001. Part of the
Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
278. Grollman, Earl A., ed. Explaining Death to Children. Boston: Beacon
Press, 1967.
279. Guilmartin, Nance. Healing Conversations: What to Say When You Don’t
Know What to Say. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, 2002.
280. Hartnett, Johnette. Death Etiquette for the 90s: What to Do, What to Say.
South Burlington, VT: Good Mourning, 1993.
281. Hedtke, Lorraine, and John Winslade. Remembering Lives: Conversations
with the Dying and the Bereaved. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2004.
Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
282. Iserson, Kenneth V. Grave Words: Notifying Survivors about Sudden,
Unexpected Deaths. Tucson, AZ: Galen Press, 1999.
This book is a 342-page manual covering all imaginable aspects of adult and
pediatric death notification, along with relevant aspects of grief, bereavement,
and communication skills.
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294. Moffatt, Bettyclare. Gifts for the Living: Conversations with Caregivers
on Death and Dying. Santa Monica, CA: IBS Press, 1988.
295. Morris, Virginia. Talking about Death Won’t Kill You. New York: Work-
man Publishing, 2001.
Morris attempts to demystify death and dying by offering straight talk on feel-
ings about death. She notes that this means talking about loss, pain, and deep
fears as well as love and intimacy. The book is filled with personal stories that
illustrate the art of dying well or what Morris calls the “good death.”
296. Resnick, Sheila Handler. Coping with Dying: A Study of Patient and
Family Interaction in Terminal Illness. Washington, DC: Catholic University of
America, 1976.
297. Rudolph, Marguerita. Should the Children Know?: Encounters with Death
in the Lives of Children. New York: Schocken Books, 1978.
This guidebook is designed to equip adults with the skills necessary to help
young children deal with death. Rudolph offers suggestions to help children rec-
ognize their fears, deal with feelings of loss upon the death of a loved one, and
help familiarize children with the concept of death using literature and through
the care of plants and animals. She uses individual stories to convey the concepts.
Includes a brief annotated bibliography.
298. Shepard, Martin. Someone You Love Is Dying: A Guide for Helping and
Coping. New York: Harmony Books, 1975.
Shepard, a psychiatrist, presents a practical guide to dealing with the complex
emotions of anxiety, guilt, resentment, despondency, aversion, and helplessness.
He notes that all are natural reactions to death. He discusses preparing for death,
minimizing fear and grief, and the benefits of talking about experiences with
death. Shepard stresses the importance of open and honest communication. He
also suggests realistic alternatives to the traditional ways in which society treats
the dying. Includes a list of organizations with narrative and contact information
about each and suggested book and film titles.
299. Standard, S., and Nathan H. Standard, eds. Should the Patient Know the
Truth? New York: Springer, 1955.
300. Thomas, V. R. Saying Goodbye to Grandma. New York: Clarion Books,
1988.
301. Verwoerdt, Adriaan. Communication with the Fatally Ill. Springfield, IL:
Charles C. Thomas, 1966.
302. Watts, Richard G. Straight Talk about Death with Young People. Philadel-
phia: Westminster Press, 1975.
303. Wogrin, Carol. Matters of Life and Death: Finding the Words to Say
Goodbye. New York: Broadway Books, 2001.
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306. Ainsworth-Smith, Ian, and Peter W. Speck. Letting Go: Caring for the
Dying and the Bereaved. London: SPCK Publishing, 1982.
307. Anderson, Jon. Death and Friends. Pittsburgh, PA: University of Pitts-
burgh Press, 1970. Published by Carnegie Mellon University Press, Pittsburgh, in
2003 as part of the Carnegie Mellon Classic Contemporary Series.
308. Baird, Robert M., and Stuart E. Rosenbaum. Caring for the Dying: Criti-
cal Issues at the Edge of Life. Amherst, NY: Prometheus Books, 2003.
309. Barnard, Christiaan. Good Life/Good Death: A Doctor’s Case for Eutha-
nasia and Suicide. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1980.
310. Bartlow, Bruce G. Medical Care of the Soul: A Practical and Healing
Guide to End-of-Life Issues for Families, Patients, and Health Care Providers.
Boulder, CO: Johnson Books, 2000.
311. Barton, David, ed. Dying and Death: A Clinical Guide for Caregivers.
Baltimore, MD: Williams & Wilkins, 1977.
Barton argues that for practitioners to be successful in collectively caring for
dying persons, they must be able to “discern and respond appropriately to the
myriad of needs of the person and the members of his or her family.” He also be-
lieves they must have a working knowledge of basic theoretical concepts and the
ability to “appreciate the perspectives and abilities of a wide variety of health care
and health care–related personnel.” This multidimensional approach, he asserts,
will lead to optimal assistance and the greatest benefit for dying patients. He
notes in his preface that the book is intended for physicians, clergy, social work-
ers, psychologists, mental health counselors, nurses, and others working with the
dying and their families. The text features articles by contributors Jan van Eys;
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318. Carroll, David. Living with Dying: A Loving Guide for Family and Close
Friends. New York: Paragon House, 1991. Originally published by McGraw-
Hill, New York, in 1985.
Carroll offers an excellent practical guide for loved ones of the dying. He
presents a significant amount of authoritative information and advice from phy-
sicians, psychiatric nurses, gerontologists, and thanatologists. Several personal
stories and anecdotes from the dying are also incorporated. Topics include caring
for the dying at home, talking to a dying person about dying, sources for help
and support, funeral arrangements, hospice care, how to grieve, helping someone
handle pain, talking with young people about death, and providing emotional first
aid. Includes an annotated list of references and an index. Foreword by Austin
H. Kutscher.
319. Carter, Nick. Death Strain. Lincoln, NE: University Publishing Co., 1970.
Published by Award Books in 1976.
320. Carter, Steven. The Nothing That Is and the Nothing That Is Not: On
Death, Dying, and Suffering. Lanham, MD: University Press of America, 2004.
321. Cutter, Fred. Coming to Terms with Death: How to Face the Inevitable
with Wisdom and Dignity. Chicago: Nelson-Hall, 1974.
322. Davies, Betty. Fading Away: The Experience of Transition in Families
with Terminal Illness. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1995. Part of the
Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
323. Davis, Richard H., ed. Dealing with Death. Los Angeles: University of
Southern California Press, 1973.
324. De Bary, Richard. My Experiments with Death: A Study of the World Soul
in Its Relations with the Private Self. London: Longmans, Green & Co., 1936.
325. Destouches, L. F. Death on the Installment Plan. New York: New Direc-
tions, 1966.
326. Dicks, Russell, and Thomas Kepler. And Peace at Last. Philadelphia:
Westminster Press, 1953.
327. Doka, Kenneth J. Living with Life-Threatening Illness: A Guide for Pa-
tients, Their Families, and Caregivers. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, 1998.
Originally published by Lexington Books, New York, in 1993.
328. Doyle, Nancy. The Dying Person and the Family. New York: Public Af-
fairs Commission, 1972.
329. Farberow, Norman L., and Edwin S. Shneidman, eds. The Cry for Help.
New York: McGraw-Hill, 1972.
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330. Furman, Joan, and David McNabb. The Dying Time: Practical Wisdom for
the Dying and Their Caregivers. New York: Belltower Publishing, 1997.
Furman and McNabb present a comprehensive guide for both the dying and
their caregivers. It focuses on creating environments conducive to peace and
tranquility. The book covers guided imagery for coping with pain, specifics about
the moment of death, memorial services, health concerns for caregivers, physical
care, and spiritual matters. Furman is a holistic nurse practitioner, and McNabb
is an AIDS educator and caregiver. They deliver a very sensitive and thoughtful
book with several personal and emotional stories from the authors’ own experi-
ences.
331. Griffith, William H. Confronting Death. Valley Forge, PA: Judson Press,
1977.
332. Grof, Stanislav, and Joan Halifax. The Human Encounter with Death. New
York: E. P. Dutton, 1977.
333. Grollman, Earl A., ed. When Your Loved One Is Dying. Boston: Beacon
Press, 1980.
Grollman, a rabbi and widely respected authority on thanatology, presents a
simple collection of thoughts and words of advice on critical matters during the
final weeks of life. This book is intended for use as emotional support and guid-
ance. Includes numerous quotes and a list of organizations.
334. Gruber, Otto. When I Die. New York: Vantage Press, 1965.
335. Gubrium, Jaber F. Living and Dying at Murray Manor. New York: St.
Martin’s Press, 1975.
Stressing that the book is not a survey of statistics about nursing homes, Gu-
brium examines the social organization of care in a single nursing home, which
he calls Murray Manor. The question he poses that frames the book is “How is
care in a nursing home accomplished by those people who participate in its ev-
eryday life?” The care he refers to is whatever the participants consider to be part
of life in the nursing home in contrast with life in other places, and the people
he refers to are the staff, residents, relatives, visiting physicians, morticians, and
others who have cause to be there. Includes an index.
336. Hansen, Adolf. Responding to Loss: A Resource for Caregivers. Ami-
tyville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2004. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning
Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
337. Henderson, Randi, and Richard Marek. Here Is My Hope: Inspirational
Stories from the Johns Hopkins Hospital. New York: Doubleday, 2001. The
cover title is Here Is My Hope: A Book of Healing and Prayer: Inspirational
Stories from the Johns Hopkins Hospital. The alternate title is Here Is My hope:
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Inspirational Stories from the Johns Hopkins Hospital: A Book of Healing and
Prayer.
One of the most highly regarded hospitals in the United States, Johns Hop-
kins Hospital is also known for its spiritual component, which is highlighted by
the large marble statue of Christ in its rotunda. Patients, family members, and
others leave prayers at the statue called Divine Healer by Bertel Thorvaldsen
(1770–1844). An appendix in Henderson and Marek’s book includes many of
the prayers. The book provides a link between faith and medicine through the
telling of true stories. It stands as an inspirational guide for the terminally ill,
caregivers, and the bereaved. It was inspired by an article in the Baltimore Sun
by Diana Sugg.
338. Jackson, Edgar N. When Someone Dies. Philadelphia: Fortress Press,
1971.
339. Johnson, L. D. The Morning after Death. Nashville, TN: Broadman Pub-
lishing, 1978.
Johnson writes about the death of his daughter, Carole Johnson, in 1962. In-
cludes a bibliography.
340. Kastenbaum, Robert J. On Our Way: The Final Passage through Life and
Death. Berkeley: University of California Press, 2004.
341. Kavanaugh, R. E. Facing Death. Baltimore, MD: Penguin Group, 1974.
Published by Nash Publishing, Los Angeles, in 1972.
342. Kelly, Evelyn B. Dealing with Death: A Strategy for Tragedy. Blooming-
ton, IN: Phi Delta Kappa Educational Foundation, 1990.
343. Kramer, Scott, and Kuang-ming Wu. Thinking through Death. Malabar,
FL: R. E. Krieger Publishing Co., 1988.
344. Kreeft, Peter J. Love Is Stronger Than Death. San Francisco, CA: Harper
& Row, 1979.
345. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. Working It Through. New York: Collier Books,
1987. Originally published by Macmillan, New York, in 1982.
346. Lattanzi-Licht, Marcia, and Kenneth J. Doka, eds. Coping with Public
Tragedy. New York: Brunner-Routledge, 2003. Part of the Hospice Foundation
of America’s Living with Grief Series, supported by the Foundation for End of
Life Care.
The book’s subject, the annual theme for the Hospice Foundation of America,
is designed to “give local hospices an opportunity to make known their capabili-
ties in helping their communities when terrible events occur.” Using examples
of various national tragedies throughout the text, the contributing writers discuss
dimensions of public tragedy, responses, loss and grief, public grief, different
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perceptions of public tragedy in the context of different faiths, the role of funeral
directors, critical incident stress management, crisis counseling approaches, talk-
ing to children about terrorism, implications for school environments, finding
meaning in the wake of a public tragedy, memorialization and ritual, victim advo-
cacy, and lessons from combat veterans. Two articles touch on the role of hospice
in such instances, specifically collaboration with relief agencies. Includes a list
of organizations with descriptions and contact information. Foreword by Jack D.
Gordon, president of the Hospice Foundation of America.
347. Leahey, Maureen, and Lorraine M. Wright, eds. Families and Life-
Threatening Illness. Springhouse, PA: Springhouse Corp., 1987.
348. Lee, Elizabeth. A Good Death: A Guide for Patients and Carers Facing
Terminal Illness at Home. London: Rosendale Press, 1995.
349. Lembke, Janet. The Quality of Life: Living Well, Dying Well. Guilford,
CT: Lyons Press, 2003.
Born from her experiences with her own dying mother, Lembke writes about
the challenging decisions and issues that must be dealt with by those who care for
the dying “old, frail people whose minds are lost forever in the shadows.” Using
her own research and the stories of a diverse group of caregivers, she examines
hospice, dementia, and coping with dementia as a caregiver; the bioethics of
withdrawal of life support; other methods of death by choice; and maintaining
quality of life. The book concludes with a list of helpful organizations, notes, and
a bibliography that includes both print and online resources.
350. Lerner, Gerda. A Death of One’s Own. New York: Harrow, 1980. Also
published by the University of Wisconsin Press, 1985.
351. Little, Deborah Whiting. Home Care for the Dying: A Reassuring, Com-
prehensive Guide to Physical and Emotional Care. Garden City, NY: Dial Press,
1985.
352. Lugt, Herbert Vander. Light in the Valley. Wheaton, IL: Victor Books,
1977.
353. McGeachy, D. P. A Matter of Life and Death. Richmond, VA: John Knox,
1966.
354. McKerrow, Margaret M. A Time to Care: A Study in Terminal Illness.
England: Self-published, 1980.
355. McMullen, Ernan. Death and Decision. Boulder, CO: Westview Press,
1978.
Includes T. C. Schelling’s “Strategic Relationships in Dying.”
356. McNamara, Beverley. Fragile Lives: Death, Dying, and Care. Philadel-
phia: Open University Press, 2001.
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362. Newell, Martha M. The Role of the Volunteer in the Care of the Terminal
Patient and the Family. New York: Arno Press, 1981. Also cited as published by
MSS Information Corp., New York, in 1978, as The Role of the Volunteer and
Volunteer Director in Caring for the Dying Patient and the Bereaved.
363. Oaks, J., and G. Ezell. Dying and Death: Coping, Caring, and Under-
standing. 2nd ed. Scottsdale, AZ: Gorsuch Scarisbrick, 1993.
364. Oliver, Marjorie. Through the Valley: A Caregiver’s Account of Terminal
Illness. Shippensburg, PA: Treasure House, 1995.
365. Osborne, Ernest. When You Lose a Loved One. New York: Public Affairs
Committee, 1965. Pamphlet 269.
This book is a discussion of the emotional, social, and financial problems relat-
ing to death in the family.
366. Parry, Joan K. Social Work Theory and Practice with the Terminally Ill.
New York: Haworth Press, 1989.
367. Pearson, Cynthia, and Margaret L. Stubbs. Parting Company: Under-
standing the Loss of a Loved One: The Caregiver’s Journey. Seattle, WA: Seal
Press, 1999.
This compassionate guide is a collection of case studies—fourteen narratives
from caregivers who are dealing with end-of-life issues. With these stories, the
authors address psychological aspects of caring for the terminally ill, aspects of
home care, and the stresses and emotional strain of caregiving.
368. Pelgrin, Mark. And a Time to Die. Wheaton, IL: Theosophical Publishing
House, 1976. Pelgrin’s account was edited by Elizabeth B. Howes and Sheila
Moon.
This book chronicles the personal experiences of a cancer patient, giving in-
sights into his faith, thoughts on the meaning of life, and dealing with a terminal
illness.
369. Perry, J. K., ed. Social Work Practices with the Terminally Ill: A Transcul-
tural Perspective. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1990.
370. Quill, Timothy E. Death and Dignity. New York: W. W. Norton, 1993.
371. Reoch, Richard. To Die Well: A Holistic Guide for the Dying and Their
Caregivers. New York: Harper Perennial, 1996. Also published as Dying Well:
A Holistic Guide for the Dying and Their Carers by Gaia Books, London, in
1997.
372. Roth, Deborah, and Emily LeVier. Being Human in the Face of Death.
Santa Monica, CA: IBS Press, 1990.
Roth and LeVier offer a guidebook for caregivers with advice for coping and
dealing with the emotional challenges surrounding death rather than tips for
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specific tasks, which many other titles contain. Roth is director of publications
for the Center for Help in Time of Loss, and LeVier leads training programs for
hospice volunteers. Mary Ball, founder of the Center for Help in Time of Loss in
Hillsdale, NJ, wrote the introduction and notes that the purpose of the book is to
help caregivers “unlock one of the best resources they have—their humanness.”
Though not noted elsewhere, chapters are written by professionals in the field.
Includes a fill-in-the-blank Caregiver’s Workbook and bibliography arranged by
subject.
373. Rothman, J. C. Saying Goodbye to Daniel: When Death Is the Best Choice.
New York: Continuum, 1995.
374. Sankar, Andrea. Dying at Home: A Family Guide for Caregiving. New
York: Bantam Books, 1995. This revised edition includes a special preface. Orig-
inally published by Johns Hopkins University Press, Baltimore, MD, in 1991.
In this comprehensive guide to caring for the terminally ill at home, Sankar
presents numerous first-person accounts by people who have been part of a home
death experience. These accounts illustrate both the emotional and practical is-
sues associated with caring for the dying at home. She examines the reasons so
many people choose to spend their final time at home and offers practical sugges-
tions for making this decision and assuming some measure of control of the dying
process and environments. Sankar also examines the tradition of home death;
transitioning from hospital to home care; the use of professional assistance in
the home; caregiving; social support for both the dying person and the caregiver,
including children involved in the process; the physical drain and emotional
strain for the caregiver; support groups and therapy; demystifying death; signs of
approaching death; legal and financial matters; and funerals. Appendixes provide
specific guidance on the tasks and problems of caregiving; pain medications; and
additional resources featuring living wills, nursing home resources, and organi-
zations that support caregivers. Specific guidance includes general appearance,
hygiene, skin care, sexuality, nutrition, bowel issues, mobility, transfers, eye
care, sleep, cognitive impairment, agitation, administering medications, breath-
ing problems, oxygen, seizures, pain control, and assessment. A final appendix
offers two sample letters, one to send to a physician notifying them of the deci-
sion to provide home care for the dying, and the other a letter from the physician
indicating agreement with the decision to allow death at home and willingness to
sign the death certificate. Includes a helpful glossary, a short bibliography, and
an index. Also includes nine illustrations, most showing how to complete a task,
and two tables.
375. Sharoff, Kenneth. Coping Skills Therapy for Managing Chronic and
Terminal Illness. New York: Springer, 2004. Title also cited as A Coping Skills
Manual for Chronic and Terminal Illness.
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376. Sharp, Joseph. Living Our Dying: A Way to the Sacred in Everyday Life.
New York: Hyperion Books, 1996.
377. Shield, Renee Rose. Uneasy Endings: Daily Life in an American Nursing
Home. Ithaca, NY: Cornell University Press, 1988. Part of the Anthropology of
Contemporary Issues series, Roger Sanjek, editor.
Shield, having participated in life at a nursing home for fourteen months,
offers clearly defined suggestions for improving care. Interestingly, she points
out the limitations on reciprocity within this environment, noting that the “old
people are always recipients whose need and obligation to repay are seen as un-
necessary and difficult to satisfy. The system encourages their passivity, which
deepens their dependency and helps to explain why they are often perceived as
children.” Many individual stories are shared. The author is a clinical instructor in
community health at Brown University. Includes three tables, notes, references,
and an index.
378. Smith, Bradford. Dear Gift of Life: A Man’s Encounter with Death. Wall-
ingford, PA: Pendle Hill Publishing, 1965.
379. Smith, Carole R. Social Work with the Dying and Bereaved. London:
Macmillan, 1982.
380. Snow, Lois W. A Death with Dignity. New York: Random House, 1975.
381. Spiegel, Maura, and Richard Tristman, eds. The Grim Reader: Writings on
Death, Dying, and Living On. New York: Anchor Books/Doubleday, 1997.
Spiegel and Tristman pull together an impressive array of writings on death
and dying that capture the evolution of societal thinking on the subject.
382. Storley, C. J. Beginning at the End: A Study in Death and Life. Minneapo-
lis, MN: Augsburg Publishing House, 1975.
383. Sudnow, David. Passing On: The Social Organization of Dying. Engle-
wood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1967. Originally titled Passing On: The Social
Organization of Dying in the County Hospital. Author’s 1966 doctoral disserta-
tion from the University of California, Berkeley.
384. Turnbull, Richard. Terminal Care. Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publish-
ing, 1986. Part of the Series in Death Education, Aging, and Health Care, Han-
nelore Wass, editor.
385. Van Bommel, Harry. Choices: For People Who Have a Terminal Illness,
Their Families, and Their Caregivers. Toronto: NC Press, 1986. Distributed in
the United States by Independent Publishers Group, Port Washington, NY.
386. Vernon, Glenn M. The Sociology of Death: An Analysis of Death-Related
Behavior. New York: Ronald Press, 1970.
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387. Wagner, Heather Lehr, and Marvin Rosen. Dealing with Terminal Illness
in the Family. Philadelphia: Chelsea House Publishers, 2002.
388. Webb, Marilyn. The Good Death: The New American Search to Reshape
the End of Life. New York: Bantam Books, 1997.
389. Wolfelt, Alan D. How to Care for Yourself While You Care for the Dying
and the Bereaved. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 1996. Companion Press
is an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
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395. Bregman, Lucy. Death and Dying, Spirituality, and Religions: A Study of
the Death Awareness Movement. New York: Peter Lang, 2003.
396. Brener, Anne. Mourning and Mitzvah: A Guided Journal for Walking the
Mourner’s Path through Grief to Healing. Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights, 1993.
In this easy-to-navigate book, Brener offers more than sixty guided exercises
to help loved ones during the period of bereavement. The text is divided into
three parts: Tzimzum (Contraction), Shevirat Kelim (The Breaking of Vessels),
and Tikkun (Healing). The contents page offers excellent descriptions of each
concept. Includes art by Laurie Gross and Hebrew text by Joel Hoffman. Also
includes source acknowledgments, a glossary, and a list of recommended titles.
397. Brice, Carleen. Lead Me Home: An African American’s Guide through the
Grief Journey. New York: Avon, 1999.
Sharing her personal story of loss, Brice gives practical tips for navigating the
journey through bereavement and how to see that one becomes wiser and stronger
as a result. The publisher notes the special aspect of grief among African Ameri-
cans: “the grief journeys often include more complicated and painful emotions:
frustration with the knowledge that black men and women have a greater chance
of dying from major common diseases than their white counterparts, anger at the
frequency of drug- and violence-related deaths, and the collective grief of a com-
munity that has buried too many of its young people.”
398. Carter, James. Death and Dying among African Americans: Cultural
Characteristics and Coping Tidbits. New York: Vantage Press, 2001.
399. Charmaz, Kathy, Glennys Howarth, and Allan Kellehear. The Unknown
Country: Death in Australia, Britain, and the USA. New York: St. Martin’s Press,
1997.
This book looks at death from an extremely broad perspective, including ar-
ticles on death themes in Australian painting and nineteenth-century fiction, but
also notable pieces on death attitudes in Britain and death-related bioethics in the
United States. Included are articles by noted writers on thanatological subjects
Donald P. Irish, Michael R. Leming, Peter C. Jupp, and Beverley Raphael. Top-
ics run the gamut from American death practices, emotional reserve and grieving
among the English, cryonics, the birth of cremation in Britain, and loss of self
associated with grief. Irish’s article, “Diversity in Universality: Dying, Death,
and Grief,” includes interesting commentary and insights on African American
funeral customs, Mexican American perspectives regarding death, Lakota culture
and death, and Hmong death customs. Professional background on each contribu-
tor is also included.
400. Chen, Clarence Lee. Chinese Americans in Loss and Separation: Social,
Medical, and Psychiatric Perspectives. New York: Foundation of Thanatology,
1992.
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401. Chung, Sue Fawn, and Priscilla Wegars. Chinese American Death Rituals:
Respecting the Ancestors. Lanham, MD: AltaMira Press, 2005.
402. Church of England, Board for Social Responsibility. On Dying Well: An
Anglican Contribution to the Debate on Euthanasia. London: Church Informa-
tion Office, 1975.
This book presents the Anglican Church’s perspective and theology on eutha-
nasia, exploring issues of legality, medicine, and morality. Also cited with Lord
Amulree as author.
403. Churn, Arlene H. The End Is Just the Beginning: Lessons in Grieving for
African Americans. New York: Harlem Moon/Broadway Books, 2003.
Churn, an ordained Baptist minister and grief counselor, discusses the often
misunderstood traditions within the African American perspective on death. She
offers insights into the concept of communal loss and group mourning brought
to North America by African slaves. Churn explores African traditions of lavish
burial, the adoption of biblical guidelines for mourning, and the funeral celebra-
tions of the home-going and victory celebration. Includes numerous biblical
references.
404. Cooper-Lewter, Nicholas C. Black Grief and Soul Therapy. Richmond,
VA: Harriet Tubman Press, 1999.
405. Counts, David R., and Dorothy Ayers Counts, eds. Coping with the Final
Tragedy: Cultural Variation in Dying and Grieving. Amityville, NY: Baywood
Publishing, 1991.
406. Crissman, James K. Death and Dying in Central Appalachia: Changing
Attitudes and Practices. Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 1994.
Much of this book is focused on various death rituals employed by people of
the Appalachian region of the United States and the meanings behind them. Top-
ics include neighborliness and the death watch, burial receptacles and grave dig-
ging, wakes, funeral services and burial customs, grave markers and other forms
of memorialization, music, and mining disasters. Includes several images from
the early twentieth century, notes, a bibliography, and an index.
407. Day, Stacey B., and Thomas Dillon Redshaw. Tuluak and Amaulik: Dia-
logues on Death and Mourning with the Inuit Eskimo. Minneapolis: University
of Minnesota, Bell Museum of Pathobiology, 1973.
408. Dyer, Barry Albin. Final Departures: Weird and Wonderful Tales of
Death, Funerals, and Bereavement from around the World. London: Hodder &
Stoughton, 2005. First published in 2003.
A London funeral director, Dyer offers a humorous look at undertaking around
the world and how humans view death across cultures. With such chapter titles
as “Amazing Embalmings,” Dyer explores cryonics, mummification, funeral
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ceremonies and death rites, and the newer idea of projecting the dead into space.
A small section of photos includes images of, among other things, a cryostat,
Elvis Presley’s funeral cortege, a Japanese hearse, and a woman entombed in her
husband’s glass coffee table (with beer cans resting on top). Weird indeed. An
appendix offers a list of possible methods of final departure by both burial and
cremation.
409. Field, David, Jenny Hockey, and Neil Small, eds. Death, Gender, and
Ethnicity. New York: Routledge, 1997. Jenny Hockey is also cited as Jennifer
Lorna Hockey.
The editors present a series of articles that explore cross-cultural attitudes and
views toward death, many in a British context. The editors’ own article analyzes
differences in how the British view death according to gender and ethnicity.
Others topics in the book include childhood death, masculinity and loss, cultural
representation and social practice in grieving women, sex and death in the tabloid
press, ethnicity and the use of palliative care services, multiculturalism in pallia-
tive care, and thoughts on loss and burial from a migrant’s perspective. Tables
and information on research tools are also included.
410. Freemantle, Francesca. The Tibetan Book of the Dead: The Great Libera-
tion through Hearing in the Bardo. Berkeley, CA: Shambhala, 1975. Translated
by Chogyam Trungpa.
411. Gorer, Geoffrey. Death, Grief, and Mourning in Contemporary Britain.
London: Cresset Press, 1965.
412. Goss, Robert, and Dennis Klass. Dead but Not Lost: Grief Narratives in
Religious Traditions. Walnut Creek, CA: AltaMira Press, 2005.
413. Grollman, Earl A. Living with Loss, Healing with Hope: A Jewish Per-
spective. Boston: Beacon Press, 2000.
414. Hayslip, Bert, and Cynthia A. Peveto. Cultural Changes in Attitudes to-
ward Death, Dying, and Bereavement. New York: Springer, 2005. Part of the
Springer Series on Death and Suicide, Robert J. Kastenbaum, series editor.
Comparing their own study to Richard A. Kalish and David K. Reynolds’s
Death and Ethnicity study first published in 1976, Hayslip and Peveto look
at the impact of cultural changes and attitudes toward death, dying, grief,
and mourning. The latter study, highlighted in this book, focuses on Hispanic
Americans, African Americans, and Asian Americans and uses Caucasians
as a comparison group. The text reexamines the Kalish and Reynolds study,
explores the impact of cultural change on death attitudes, presents the current
study and its findings, and offers various hypotheses. Appendixes provide de-
tails of the study data. Includes references and an index. Foreword by Robert
J. Kastenbaum.
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421. Isaacs, Ronald H. Every Person’s Guide to Death and Dying in the Jewish
Tradition. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, 1999.
422. Jalland, Pat. Changing Ways of Death in Twentieth-Century Australia:
War, Medicine, and the Funeral Business. Sydney, Australia: University of New
South Wales Press, 2006.
Addressing such topics as palliative care, cancer, cemeteries, cremation, and
the funeral business, Jalland offers a thorough examination of Australian attitudes
and approaches to death, dying, grief, and bereavement from 1918 onward. She
looks at the transformed culture of death and grief, the denial of grief, and par-
ticularly the effects of World War I and World War II and medical advances on
how Australians view death. Jalland also discusses a second cultural shift that
began in the 1980s. She notes the influence of Kübler-Ross. The book gives an
excellent in-depth look at Australian funerals, disposal, and memorialization
practices. Includes a small number of black-and-white photographs and an index.
The bibliography lists both primary and secondary sources. Primary sources in-
clude family papers, oral histories, manuscripts, and unpublished memoirs.
423. Jarow, Rick. Tales for the Dying: The Death Narratives of the Bhagavita-
Purana. Albany: State University of New York Press, 2003.
424. Jewish Theological Seminary of America. From This World to the Next:
Jewish Approaches to Illness, Death, and the Afterlife. New York: Jewish Theo-
logical Seminary of America Library, 1999.
425. Johnson, Christopher Jay, and Marsha G. McGee, eds. How Different Re-
ligions View Death and Afterlife. Philadelphia: Charles Press, 1991.
The authors present a collection of articles written mostly by clergy from ap-
proximately twenty faith traditions. They explore how each faith views matters
of death and dying.
426. Kalish, Richard A., ed. Death and Dying: Views from Many Cultures.
Farmingdale, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1979. Part of the Perspectives on Death
and Dying series, volume 1. Series also cited as Perspectives on Death in Human
Experience.
Examining death across time and cultures, Kalish presents fourteen articles
that explore attitudes toward death, rituals surrounding death and dying, and
approaches to grief and bereavement. Articles are divided into three sections:
“Death in Other Cultures,” “Death in Mexico and the United States,” and “War
and Disaster.” Topics covered include death and ancient Finnish culture, prepara-
tion for death in western New Britain, the death culture of Mexico and Mexican
Americans, the black experience with death analyzed through writings, death rit-
uals and bereavement practices in Appalachian and non-Appalachian Kentucky,
grief work in the aftermath of an airplane crash, justifying death, and handling
the dead in a disaster. Includes references.
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427. Kalish, Richard A., and David K. Reynolds. Death and Ethnicity: A Psy-
chocultural Study. Farmingdale, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1981. Second print-
ing. Originally published by the Ethel Percy Andrus Gerontology Center at the
University of Southern California, Los Angeles, in 1976.
Noting that significant research has been conducted in the death, dying, and
bereavement field and that most of the studies were conducted with such highly
specialized populations as the elderly or mental patients, Kalish and Reynolds
make comparisons between groups of varying ethnocultural backgrounds. Their
study focuses on the ways people verbalize their thinking about death, dying,
and grieving and the ways they actually behave. Participants in the study were
from four major ethnic groups in the Los Angeles area: black Americans, Japa-
nese Americans, Mexican Americans, and Anglo Americans. Influences of age,
sex, education, and religiousness are also explored. An appendix summarizes
interview results by ethnicity, age, and sex. The interviewed was made up of 178
questions. Includes a bibliography and an index.
428. Kamerman, Jack B. Death in the Midst of Life: Social and Cultural In-
fluences on Death, Grief, and Mourning. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall,
1988.
429. Kay, Alan A. A Jewish Book of Comfort. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson,
1993.
Kay delivers a comforting and compassionate collection of readings reflecting
Jewish approaches to dying, death, and mourning. Includes references and an
index.
430. Klein, Stanley. The Final Mystery. New York: Doubleday, 1974.
Klein explores the varied interpretations of death in different cultures and
religions.
432. Kramer, Kenneth. The Sacred Art of Dying: How the World Religions
Understand Death. New York: Paulist Press, 1988.
433. Lamm, Maurice. The Jewish Way in Death and Mourning. Middle Village,
NY: Jonathan David Publishers, 2000. Originally published in 1969.
434. Leary, Timothy Francis, Ralph Metzner, and Richard Alpert. The Psyche-
delic Experience: A Manual on the Tibetan Book of the Dead. New Hyde Park,
NY: University Books, 1964. Published by the Citadel Press, New York, in 1992,
as the First Citadel Underground Edition.
435. Lee, J. Y. Death and Beyond in the Eastern Perspective: A Study Based on
the Bardo Thodol and the I Ching. New York: Gordon and Breach, 1974.
436. Lifton, Robert Jay, Shuichi Kato, and Michael Reich. Six Lives, Six Deaths:
Portraits from Modern Japan. New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, 1979.
The authors take psychohistorical and sociohistorical approaches to investigat-
ing and discussing six Japanese men and how they experience dying. Lifton’s
“paradigm of death and the continuity of life, particularly in the context of
Japanese culture and history” is presented, along with Kato’s examination and
exploration of the “differences and similarities in elite and mass world views in
Japan and how they have influenced attitudes toward death.” Most of these men
died in the first half of the twentieth century. Includes a bibliography arranged
by chapter and an index.
437. Liss-Levinson, Nechama, and Karen Savary. When a Grandparent Dies: A
Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond.
Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights, 1995.
Liss-Levinson provides a guide and workbook for Jewish children who have
recently lost a grandparent. Includes places to draw and doodle, fill-in-the-blank
exercises for remembering the grandparent’s life, ideas and addresses of orga-
nizations for giving tzedakah, and places for photos and writing down feelings.
The book also encourages children to correspond with the author about the book.
Concludes with an excellent glossary.
438. Long, Susan Orpett. Final Days: Japanese Culture and Choice at the End
of Life. Honolulu: University of Hawaii Press, 2005.
Long reports on a decade-long study of end-of-life decisions in Japan. While
she points out differences, the book is as much about the commonality of ap-
proach toward such decisions. Long notes in the first chapter: “Real-life decisions
are not limited to the application of explicit cultural rules or moral principles but
rather are tied up with a cacophony of multiple, sometimes conflicting values
and interpersonal relationships.” Coverage includes the structuring of options for
dying, metaphors and scripts for the good death, social roles and relationships,
deciding whether to treat terminal illnesses, cultural stereotypes in the context
of life-and-death decisions, and choice and the creation of a meaningful death.
Includes extensive notes, a lengthy bibliography, and an index.
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439. McIlwain, Charlton. Death in Black and White: Death, Ritual, and Family
Ecology. Cresskill, NJ: Hampton Press, 2003. Part of the Hampton Press Com-
munication Series: Critical Bodies.
440. Millen, Rochelle L. Women, Birth, and Death in Jewish Law and Practice.
Hanover, NH: University Press of New England for Brandeis University Press,
2004.
441. Moller, David Wendell. Dancing with Broken Bones: Portraits of Death
and Dying among Inner-City Poor. New York: Oxford University Press, 2004.
442. Morgan, John D. Death and Bereavement around the World: Death and
Bereavement in the Emerging World. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing,
2007. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
443. Morgan, John D., and Pittu Laungani, eds. Death and Bereavement around
the World: Asia, Australia, and New Zealand (Volume 4). Amityville, NY: Bay-
wood Publishing, 2005. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D.
Morgan, editor.
444. ———. Death and Bereavement around the World: Death and Bereavement
in Europe (Volume 3). Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2004. Part of the
Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
445. ———. Death and Bereavement around the World: Death and Bereave-
ment in the Americas (Volume 2). Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2003.
Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
446. ———. Death and Bereavement around the World: Major Religious Tradi-
tions. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2002. Part of the Death, Value, and
Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
447. Mullin, Glenn H. Death and Dying: The Tibetan Tradition. Boston: Ar-
kana, 1986.
448. ———. Living in the Face of Death: The Tibetan Tradition. Ithaca, NY:
Snow Lion Publications, 1998.
449. Nader, Kathleen, Nancy Dubrow, and B. H. Stamm, eds. Honoring Dif-
ferences: Cultural Issues in the Treatment of Trauma and Loss. Philadelphia:
Brunner/Mazel, 1999.
450. Neuberger, Julia. Caring for Dying People of Different Faiths. Abingdon,
U.K.: Radcliffe Medical Press, 2004. Also cited as published by the Austen Cor-
nish and Lisa Sainsbury Foundations in 1987.
451. Northcott, Herbert C., and Donna M. Wilson. Dying and Death in Canada.
Aurora, Ontario: Garamond Press, 2001.
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453. Palmer, Greg. Death: The Trip of a Lifetime. San Francisco, CA: Harper-
SanFrancisco, 1993. Based on the PBS series by the same title (a KCTS-Palmer/
Fenster, Inc. coproduction).
Sometimes bizarre and creepy, this around-the-world narrative explores an
expansive variety of death-related subject matter to include cryogenic resurrec-
tion, Australian funeral practices, a Taiwanese “death theme park,” positive death
images in film, and mortality as seen through different world cultures.
454. Parkes, Colin Murray, and Pittu Laungani. Death and Bereavement across
Cultures. New York: Routledge, 1997.
455. Parry, Joan K., and Angela Shen Ryan. A Cross-Cultural Look at Death,
Dying, and Religion. Chicago: Nelson-Hall, 1995.
457. Platt, Larry A., and V. Richard Persico, eds. Grief in Cross-Cultural Per-
spective: A Casebook. New York: Garland, 1992.
Noting the growth in anthropological research on the social meaning of death,
grief, and mourning, the editors stress the need to make cross-cultural compari-
sons of this data and attempt to do so in this book. They present twelve articles
divided into sections titled “The Social Meaning of Death,” “The Relationship
between the Deceased and the Survivor,” “Mode of Death,” and “Social Support
Network.” Topics include materialism and the ritual economy of death; symbol-
ism and social change in Whalsay, Shetland; Gusli funerals; Sebei mortuary
rituals; Bara funeral customs in Madagascar; death in Islam; mortuary rituals in
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Highland Peru; traumatic loss among Crow Indian children; dying processes in a
Hutterian colony; aging and death in Kaliai; patterns and processes of mourning
among the Yolngu of Australia; and dying, death, and bereavement among the
Maya Indians of Mesoamerica. Includes notes, references, and an index.
458. Price, Julius J. Rabbinic Conceptions about Death. Chicago: Open Court
Press, 1920.
459. Rabinowicz, Rabbi Tzvi. A Guide to Life: Jewish Laws and Customs of
Mourning. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, 1989.
Rabbi Rabinowicz presents a thorough practical guide to the death rites and
mourning customs within the Jewish faith. Includes memorial prayers, a family
record form for yahrzeit dates, an extensive glossary, a lengthy bibliography, and
a detailed index.
460. Rahner, Karl. On the Theology of Death. New York: Seabury Press, 1961.
Also cited as being published by Herder and Herder, New York, in 1961. Trans-
lated by Charles H. Henkey.
This book includes an in-depth explanation and overview of Catholic beliefs
about death.
461. Riemer, Jack. Jewish Insights on Death and Mourning. New York:
Schocken Books, 1996. Published with coauthor Sherwin B. Nuland by Syracuse
University Press, Syracuse, NY, in 2002.
462. ———. Jewish Reflections on Death. New York: Schocken Books and
Jewish Publication Society of America, 1974.
463. ———. Wrestling with the Angel: Jewish Insights on Death and Mourning.
New York: Schocken Books, 1995.
464. Robben, Antonius C. Death, Mourning, and Burial: A Cross-Cultural
Reader. Malden, MA: Blackwell Publishers, 2004.
465. Ronan, Margaret. Death around the World. New York: Scholastic Book
Services, 1978.
466. Rosenblatt, Paul C., and Beverly R. Wallace. African American Grief.
New York: Routledge, 2005. Part of the Series in Death, Dying, and Bereave-
ment, Robert A. Neimeyer, consulting editor.
Rosenblatt presents a thorough examination of African American grief and
bereavement, noting cultural elements and other unique aspects. He discusses
visitations, wakes, and funerals; African American institutions dealing with
death; discussing grief; family involvement in the grieving process; religion; con-
tinuing contact with the deceased; and talking and crying with others. He offers
such insightful chapters as “Our Grief and Theirs: African Americans Compare
Their Grief with Euro-American Grief” and “Understanding African American
Grief.” Rosenblatt notes that “in order to understand African American grief it is
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important to understand how an African American death may have been caused
in whole or in part by racism.” Premature death occurs with greater frequency
among African Americans that with the population as a whole. He elaborates on
connections between African American premature death and racism. Appendixes
include a list of those interviewed with a brief description and the interview
guide with questions. Includes extensive references as well as author and subject
indexes.
467. Rosenblatt, Paul C., R. P. Walsh, and D. A. Jackson. Grief and Mourning
in Cross-Cultural Perspectives. New Haven, CT: Human Relations Area Files,
1976. Also cited as being published in Washington, DC, in 1977.
468. Saunders, Cicely M., and Robert J. Kastenbaum, eds. Hospice Care on the
International Scene. New York: Springer, 1997. Part of the Springer Series on
Death and Suicide, Robert J. Kastenbaum, series editor.
Saunders, founder of the hospice movement, offers an introduction to the hos-
pice mission and philosophy. Several articles follow detailing how the hospice
approach manifests itself in various countries around the world. Jan Stjernsward
presents the perspective of the World Health Organization on the international
hospice movement. In addition to cultural differences, notable treatment is given
to palliative care and attitudes toward death. An appendix features regional data
presented in graphs. Includes references and an index.
469. Shiloh, Ailon, and Ida Cohen Selavan, eds. Ethnic Groups of America:
Their Morbidity, Mortality, and Behavior Disorders, Volume I: The Jews.
Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1974.
Shiloh, a professor of anthropology in public health at the University of Pitts-
burgh, assembles a group of sixty-four contributors to write this extensive survey
of death and dying among Jews. The writers explore demography, blood groups
among Sephardic and Ashkenazi Jews, genetic disorders, carcinoma, morbidity
patterns, and behavior disorders. Includes author and subject indexes.
470. Smith, Sharon Hines. African American Daughters and Elderly Mothers:
Examining Experiences of Grief, Loss, and Bereavement. New York: Garland,
1998. Part of Garland Studies on the Elderly in America series and a revision of
the author’s doctoral thesis at the University of Pennsylvania in 1996.
Smith presents her study of thirty African American women who share experi-
ences of grief and loss upon the death of their elderly mothers. Tables document-
ing her research include “Themes Describing the Personal Meaning of Elderly
Mother’s Death for Daughter’s Interview,” “Characterizations of Elderly African
American Mothers by Daughters Interviewed,” “Years of Schooling” (of daugh-
ters interviewed), and “Marital Status of Daughters and Frequency” (number
of marriages). Appendixes include Smith’s research tools. Includes extensive
references.
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471. Solomon, Lewis D. The Jewish Tradition and Choices at the End of Life:
A New Judaic Approach to Illness and Dying. Lanham, MD: University Press of
America, 2001.
472. Spiro, Howard M., Mary G. McCrea Curnen, and Lee Palmer Wandel,
eds. Facing Death: Where Culture, Religion, and Medicine Meet. New Haven,
CT: Yale University Press, 1996. Prepared under the auspices of the Program for
Humanities in Medicine, Yale University School of Medicine, and The Goethe-
Institut, Boston.
This book was derived from a colloquium on ars moriendi, typically referenc-
ing the art of dying but here really referring to the way of dying. The colloquium
was at the Yale University School of Medicine in New Haven, Connecticut, and
it was jointly sponsored by the Program for Humanities in Medicine at Yale and
the Goethe-Insitut in Boston. At this gathering, medical professionals spoke of
their reactions to death, followed by philosophers, historians, and clergy relaying
how cultural differences and religious experiences have affected how people deal
with and are affected by death. There was also a focus on AIDS. Spiro notes in
his preface that those in the caring professions need to focus less on reacquaint-
ing themselves with death and instead stop ignoring it. He writes: “We doctors
and nurses have simply to open our eyes to what we do—and our hearts and
minds to what we fear. We need to contemplate, and talk about, death. We need
once again to express our grief when our patients die and our anger that defeat
sometimes brings. We need to feel.” There are twenty-two articles divided into
two sections titled “Witnessing Death: The Medical Battle” and “Framing Death:
Cultural and Religious Responses.” Articles focus on limitations of medical tech-
nology, reflections on death and AIDS, the doctor’s role in death, euthanasia and
physician-assisted suicide, caring for the dying, death in children, childhood be-
reavement, emergence of hospice care in the United States, aging and dying, the
peaceful death, the art of dying in Hindu India, mortality from a Jewish perspec-
tive, Catholic theology’s views on death, Chinese popular beliefs on death, the
meaning of death in Islam, death and dying in early America, and the NAMES
Project AIDS Quilt. Includes references, brief biographies of the contributors,
and an index. Foreword by Daniel Callahan.
473. Spiro, Jack D. Time to Mourn: Judaism and the Psychology of Bereave-
ment. New York: Bloch Publishing, 1968.
Spiro presents a study and analysis of Jewish mourning and bereavement from
a psychological perspective.
474. Sulzberger, Cyrus. My Brother Death. New York: Harper & Brothers,
1961. Reprinted edition published by Arno Press, New York, in 1977, as part of
the Literature of Death and Dying series.
Sulzberger, former lead foreign correspondent with the New York Times, of-
fers a narrative that is part travelogue and part anthropological study into death
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attitudes and cultural differences surrounding death issues. Told from the view-
point of a newspaper man who lives abroad, Sulzberger brings concepts to life
through journalistic prose. Ideas from this book were incorporated into the 1965
film The Playground. Includes a bibliography.
475. Taylor, Richard P. Death and the Afterlife: A Cultural Encyclopedia.
Santa Barbara, CA: ABC-CLIO, 2000.
476. Van Der Zee, James, Owen Dodson, and Camille Billops. The Harlem
Book of the Dead. Dobbs Ferry, NY: Morgan & Morgan, 1978.
In this book, Van Der Zee has compiled a collection of funeral photography.
The work documents African American funeral traditions and offers poems with
each photograph. Includes a conversation with the photographer when he was
ninety-one years old. Foreword by Toni Morrison.
477. Wardi, Anissa Janine. Death and the Arc of Meaning in African American
Literature. Gainesville: University of Florida Press, 2003.
Originally Wardi’s dissertation at the University of Florida, this book explores
African American death themes in literature. Wardi presents five essays with
the themes “Graveyard Dirt: The Embodied South in A Gathering of Old Men
and Beloved,” “Cotton Fields and Cane Stalks: Labor and Death in Of Love and
Dust and Song of Solomon,” “‘His House Is a Dead Thing’: Home and Exile in
Linden Hills,” “‘A Crooked Kind of Mourning’: Migration and Loss in Jazz, The
Men of Brewster Place, and In My Father’s House,” and “Conversations with the
Dead: Echoes of ‘Kabnis’ in Mama Day.” Wardi offers a conclusion titled “Our
People’s Graves.” Includes notes, a bibliography, and an index.
478. Watt, Jill. Canadian Guide to Death and Dying. Toronto: International
Self-Counsel Press, 1974.
479. Weiss, Abner. Death and Bereavement: A Halakhic Guide. Brooklyn,
NY: Union of Orthodox Jewish Congregations of America, 2000. Distributed by
Mesorah Publications. Originally published in 1991.
480. White Deer of Autumn. The Great Change: A Native American Perspec-
tive on Dying. Hillsboro, OR: Beyond Words Publishing, 1992.
481. Wilson, Liz. The Living and the Dead: Social Dimensions of Death in
South Asian Religions. Albany: State University of New York Press, 2003.
482. Wolfson, Ron. A Time to Mourn, a Time to Comfort. Woodstock, VT:
Jewish Lights, 1993. A project of the Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs and
the University of Judaism. Part of the Art of Jewish Living series. Also cited
as A Time to Mourn, a Time to Comfort: A Guide to Jewish Bereavement and
Comfort.
Intended to reach two audiences simultaneously, mourners and comforters,
Wolfson’s book explores all aspects of Jewish approaches to death, dying,
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mourning, and comforting. Through many anecdotes and personal stories pre-
sented as a guidebook, he covers many pertinent topics. Among them are talk-
ing with the dying, the process of dying, advance directives, issues surrounding
disposition of the body, childhood death, the phases of Jewish bereavement, grief
work and Jewish mourning, funeral arrangements, Kaddish, Sephardic burial
customs, observance of Shiva, condolence letters, visiting the grave, memorials,
ethical wills, living wills, excessive grief, exhumation, remembering the de-
ceased, widowhood, estate issues, and afterlife concerns. Includes an appendix
that addresses estate instructions, an estate planning checklist, a selected bibliog-
raphy with special section on books for children, and a glossary. Also includes
information on the Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs. Wolfson is vice president
of the University of Judaism in Los Angeles.
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489. Brinkman, June M., and Tresa F. Quarles. Death Education Resource
Book. Portland, ME: J. Weston Walch, 1988.
This spiral-bound paperback provides basic information on death-related sub-
jects to instructors teaching a death education unit as part of a life skills, health, or
sociology class. It offers guidelines and suggestions for presentation of the sub-
ject to students. Appropriate for both teen and adult audiences, this book may also
be appropriate for seminars or workshops. Each section contains special activities
and projects as well as questions for review and discussion. A short bibliography
and an extensive glossary of death-related terminology are included. The authors
are teachers in Virginia.
490. Cable, Dana G., and Ellen Zinner. Death in the Public Scene, Facing
the 1990s: Papers and Addresses of ADEC’s 1989 Conference, Association for
Death Education and Counseling Conference in Baltimore, MD. New York:
Hemisphere Publishing, 1990.
491. Carse, James P., and Arlene B. Dallery, eds. Death and Society: A Book of
Readings and Sources. New York: Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, 1977.
The authors note in their introduction that the book is “offered as a provocation
for further reflection on the problem of death.” It is a collection of essays appro-
priate for death education courses, divided into sections on abortion, euthanasia,
suicide, death and the law, death and aging, and death and the caring institutions.
The appendix offers an essay by Monroe Lerner titled “When, Why, and Where
People Die,” with excellent statistical tables. Includes a selected bibliography of
books on death and dying published in the early 1970s.
492. Cline, Sally. Lifting the Taboo: Women, Death, and Dying. New York:
New York University Press, 1997. This edition was published in Great Britain by
Abacus in 1996. Also published by Little, Brown in 1995.
Cline gives three reasons for her examination of issues relating to death now.
The first is to take death “out of the closet” and look at the special relationship
women have to the dying process. The second is to investigate society’s current
uninformed attitude toward death. The third is the advent of AIDS and its effects
on increasing awareness of death and mortality. She also notes that in addition to
numerous women being HIV-positive, many are also filling the role of caregiver
during this crisis. Cline examines earlier cultural and religious views toward
death, female funeral directors, widowhood, notions of image, sex and language
with cancer, suicide, and unacknowledged losses. Includes extensive notes, a
bibliography with suggestions for further reading, and an index.
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493. Corr, Charles A., ed. Creativity in Death Education and Counseling. Lake-
wood, OH: Forum for Death Education and Counseling, 1983.
494. Croskery, Beverly F. Death Education: Attitudes of Teachers, School
Board Members, and Clergy. Palo Alto, CA: R & E Research Associates, 1979.
Originally presented as the author’s thesis at the University of Toledo.
495. Davis, Thomas Martin. The Effect of the Death Education Film “In My
Memory” on Elementary School Students in the La Crosse Wisconsin Public
Schools. Bloomington: Indiana University, 1975.
This is Davis’s doctoral dissertation. He now serves as a professor and chair
of the Division of Health Promotion and Education at the University of Northern
Iowa.
496. Eddy, James M. The Development and Validation of a Knowledge Test
of Death and Dying for College Students. University Park: Pennsylvania State
University, 1979.
497. Eddy, James M., and Wesley Alles. Death Education. St. Louis: Mosby,
1982.
498. Fredrick, David L., and Donna M. Fredrick, eds. Death Education and
Counseling: A Training Manual. Berkeley, CA: Pilgrimage, 1978.
499. Gatliffe, Eleanor D. Death in the Classroom: A Resource Book for Teach-
ers and Others. London: Epworth Press, 1988.
500. Gibson, A. Barbara, Polly C. Roberts, and Thomas J. Buttery. Death Edu-
cation: A Concern for the Living. Bloomington, IN: Phi Delta Kappa Educational
Foundation, 1982.
501. Gordon, Audrey K., and Dennis Klass. They Need to Know: How to Teach
Children about Death. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1979.
502. Green, Betty R., and Donald P. Irish, eds. Death Education: Preparation
for Living. Cambridge, MA: Schenkman Publishing Co., 1971.
503. Gullo, Stephen V., Paul R. Patterson, and John E. Schowalter, eds. Death
and Children: A Guide for Educators, Parents, and Caregivers. Dobbs Ferry,
NY: Tappan Press, 1985.
504. Halporn, Roberta. Lessons from the Dead: The Graveyard as a Classroom for
the Study of the Life Cycle. Brooklyn, NY: Highly Specialized Promotions, 1979.
505. Holbrook, Frank B. Frank Answers on Death. London: Southern Press,
1975.
506. Horton, Keith V. Elders: The Need for Death Education. Orangeburg:
South Carolina State University, 1996.
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507. Jackson, Maggie, and Jim Colwell. A Teacher’s Handbook of Death. Lon-
don: Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2002.
508. Kienow, Nancy Louise. Death Education and Death Anxiety in Student
Nurse Aides. 1992. Author’s doctoral dissertation.
509. Knott, J. Eugene. Thanatopics: A Manual of Structured Learning Experi-
ences for Death Education. Kingston, RI: SLE Publications, 1982.
510. Krohe, Dale C. A Survey to Determine the Status of Death Education in
the Wisconsin Secondary Health Education Curriculum. La Crosse: University
of Wisconsin, La Crosse, 1975.
A 63-page seminar paper.
511. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. Questions and Answers on Death and Dying. New
York: Simon & Schuster/Touchstone, 1997. Originally published by Macmillan,
New York, in 1974.
This 177-page companion volume to On Death and Dying answers the most
frequently asked questions about death and dying. Questions are divided into
several categories, including telling the patient, suicide and terminal illness, sud-
den death, prolongation of life, euthanasia, where to best care for dying patients,
family problems after death, funerals, old age, and personal questions for the
author herself.
512. Lansing, Patricia. A Comparison of Attitudes of Associate Degree Student
Nurses Caring for the Dying Patient before and after Death Education. Laramie:
University of Wyoming School of Nursing, 1992.
This was Lansing’s master’s thesis.
513. Leaman, Oliver. Death and Loss: Compassionate Approaches in the
Classroom. New York: Cassell Publishing Co., 1995.
514. Lunney, June Rigby. Describing Death in America: What We Need to
Know. Washington, DC: National Academies Press, 2003.
515. Macpherson, Colin R. Must I Think about Death? Now?: Student Essays
from “Death, Dying, and Grieving,” a First-Year Course, University of Cincin-
nati College of Medicine, Cincinnati, Ohio. Cincinnati, OH: University of Cin-
cinnati, 1996.
516. Meagher, David K., and Robert G. Stevenson. Dying, Death, and Be-
reavement: Continuities, Changes, and Challenges: Papers from ADEC’s 1990
Conference. London: Taylor & Francis, 1991.
517. Memorial Society of Edmonton and District. A Teaching Unit on Death
and Dying. Edmonton, Alberta: The Society, 1975.
Intended for senior high school and junior college students.
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518. Mills, Gretchen C., Ray Reisler, Alice E. Robinson, and Gretchen Ver-
milye. Discussing Death: A Guide to Death Education. Homewood, IL: ETC
Publications, 1976.
The authors offer a straightforward resource for educators presenting death
topics or teaching a death education course. Concepts to cover, lesson ideas,
activities, and selected resources are offered for various age groups. Includes a
list of questions to be explored through fiction and a questionnaire about death
experiences and attitudes. Also includes special notes for teachers.
519. Morgan, John D. Death Education in Canada: Survey, Curricula, Proto-
cols, Bibliography. London, Ontario: King’s College, 1990.
520. Nessit, Marion. Death: A Teacher’s Guide. Toronto, Ontario: Holt, Rine-
hart & Winston, 1972. Part of the Infinity Series.
521. Otero, George G. Death, a Part of Life: An Experimental Unit. Denver,
CO: Center for Teaching International Relations, Graduate School of Interna-
tional Studies, University of Denver (Colorado Seminary), 1976. Also cited as
being published by the Office of Education, Washington, DC, in 1975.
522. Pacholski, Richard A. Long-Term Effects of Death Education and Coun-
seling: Papers from the 1987 Annual Meeting of ADEC, Ontario Association for
Death Education and Counseling Meeting in London. New York: Hemisphere
Publishing, 1989.
523. ———. Re-Searching Death: Selected Essays in Death Education and
Counseling. Lakewood, OH: Forum for Death Education and Counseling, 1986.
524. Pyles, Marian S. Death and Dying in Children’s and Young People’s Lit-
erature: A Survey and Bibliography. Jefferson, NC: McFarland, 1988.
Pyles offers a study of death and dying themes in literature for youth. General
topics covered include folklore; the death of pets, friends, and relatives; and one’s
own death. Includes numerous passages from the literature and bibliographies for
adults and children. The index is very helpful.
525. Reynolds, Paul Davidson, and Robert Fulton. Decision for Death: Simu-
lation of a Societal Consensus Group. Minneapolis: University of Minnesota,
Center for Death Education and Research, 1973.
526. Reynolds, Rita M. Blessing the Bridge: What Animals Teach Us about
Death, Dying, and Beyond. Troutdale, OR: NewSage Press, 2001.
527. Rofes, Eric E., and “The Unit” at Fayerweather Street School, ed. The
Kids’ Book about Death and Dying, by and for Kids. Boston: Little, Brown,
1985.
Rofes presents a book for children that answers the most common questions
about death and dying. The questions originated from a group of students ages
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Narratives.” Appendixes include material for children and young adults, a list
of organizations and associations with descriptions, and a questionnaire entitled
“You and Death,” designed by Edwin S. Shneidman of the Center for Advanced
Study in the Behavioral Sciences. The 75-question instrument is intended to mo-
tivate discussion among students about attitudes, experiences, and thoughts about
death. Includes a brief annotated bibliography, an index, and a list of contributors
with brief biographical information.
536. Thomas, Pat. I Miss You: A First Look at Death. Hauppauge, NY: Bar-
ron’s Educational Series, 2001.
537. Ulin, Richard Otis, and Robert Kelly. Death and Dying Education. Wash-
ington, DC: National Education Association, 1977.
538. Wass, Hannelore. Death Education II: An Annotated Resource Guide.
Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing, 1985. Part of the Series in Death Edu-
cation, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
Wass delivers an updated version of her earlier resource guide.
539. Wass, Hannelore, Charles A. Corr, Richard A. Pacholski, and Catherine
M. Sanders. Death Education: An Annotated Resource Guide. Washington, DC:
Hemisphere Publishing, 1980.
The authors, all educators on death and dying, offer this critically annotated
list of resources on death education. Titles are divided by subject area, typically
according to the intended audience. Other categories covered are reference books,
bibliographies, periodical articles, audiovisual resources, conference listings, or-
ganizational resources, and community resources. Includes more than 500 entries
and topical indexes and a general index.
540. Wolf, Anna M. Helping Your Children to Understand Death. Rev. ed.
New York: Child Study Press, 1973. Originally published by Child Study As-
sociation of America, New York, in 1955, as Helping Your Child Understand
Death. Also cited as Helping Your Child to Understand Death.
541. Zalaznik, Patricia Weller. Dimensions of Loss and Death Education: A
Resource and Curriculum Guide. Minneapolis, MN: EDU-PAC Publishing Co.,
1987. Earlier edition published in 1980.
542. Zinner, Ellen S. Coping with Death on Campus. San Francisco, CA:
Jossey-Bass, 1985. Part of the New Directions for Student Services series, Ur-
sula Delworth and Gary R. Hanson, editors. Also part of the Jossey-Bass Higher
Education Series.
Through a collection of articles, the author covers several topics relating to
death in a campus environment. Among them are effects of loss experiences
on academic performance and student behavior, student services’ responses to
death, the role of the counseling center in responding to student death, group
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544. Anthony, E. James, and Cyrille Koupernik, eds. The Child in His Family:
The Impact of Disease and Death. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 1973. Part
of the Yearbook of the International Association for Child Psychiatry and Allied
Professions and also The Child in His Family series, volume 2.
While describing many cultural variations in the reaction to death by children,
the contributors also draw on common elements in these responses to death,
dying, and disease. Intended for clinicians, topics covered include meaningful
communication with the fatally ill child; fear of death in fatally ill children and
their parents; dying children in a hospital environment; effects of death on an
adolescent pediatric ward; the capacity for mourning in children; pathological
mourning; psychic loss; and issues surrounding suicide, homicide, and parricide.
Includes bibliographic references and an index. Foreword by John Bowlby.
545. Arnold, Joan Hagan, and Penelope Buschman Gemma. A Child Dies: A
Portrait of Family Grief. 2nd ed. Philadelphia: Charles Press, 1994.
Winner of the 1994 American Journal of Nursing Book of the Year Award, this
short paperback features chapters on the meaning of loss, the process of grieving,
differences in dealing with the death of an older and a younger child, and guid-
ance for caregivers dealing with grieving families. Includes a foreword by Earl A.
Grollman. Grollman notes in his foreword: “If I were to recommend one book to
grieving families and health professionals concerning the catastrophic experience
of a child’s death, it would be this one. The deep truths and exquisite beauty will
bring solace to many grieving hearts.”
546. Ashton, Joyce, and Dennis Ashton. Loss and Grief Recovery: Help Car-
ing for Children with Disabilities, Chronic or Terminal Illness. Amityville, NY:
Baywood Publishing, 1996.
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566. Dick, Harold M. Dying and Disabled Children: Dealing with Loss and
Grief. New York: Haworth Press, 1988.
567. Doerr, Maribeth Wilder. For Better or Worse: For Couples Whose Child
Has Died. Omaha, NE: Centering Corporation, 1992.
568. Donnelly, Katherine Fair. Recovering from the Loss of a Child. New York:
Macmillan, 1982.
569. Easson, William M. The Dying Child: The Management of the Child or
Adolescent Who Is Dying. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1970. Second
edition published in 1981.
570. Edelstein, Linda. Maternal Bereavement: Coping with the Unexpected
Death of a Child. New York: Praeger, 1984.
Developed from the author’s doctoral dissertation, this book addresses the
issues of the mourning–liberation process, bereavement, and the adaptations
of mothers to the deaths of their children. She also includes the social contexts
of bereavement in her study. Edelstein covers the stages of bereavement; out-
comes and atypical reactions; psychological defenses; the special relationship
between mother and child; the nature of the loss; the impact of the death and
the early days following death; memorials; death wishes; faith; connections
in heaven; superstition; guilt; anger and depression; new directions emerging
from bereavement; and emotional and social supports through family, self-
help groups, and professionals. The appendix includes the questionnaire used
in the author’s research and sixteen tables that reflect the research. Includes a
bibliography.
571. Fargues, Marie. The Child and the Mystery of Death. Glen Rock, NJ: Pau-
list Press, 1966. Translated by Sister Gertrude.
572. Field, Marilyn J., and Richard E. Behrman, eds. When Children Die: Im-
proving Palliative and End-of-Life Care for Children and Their Families. Wash-
ington, DC: National Academies Press, 2003. A publication of the Committee on
Palliative and End-of-Life Care for Children and Their Families, Board on Health
Sciences Policy, National Institute of Medicine.
573. Fischoff, Joseph, and Noreen O’Brien Brohl. Before and After My Child
Died: A Collection of Parents’ Experiences. Detroit: Emmons-Fairfield Publish-
ing Co., 1981.
574. Floyd, Gregory. A Grief Unveiled: One Father’s Journey through the
Death of a Child. Brewster, MA: Paraclete Press, 1999.
575. Frantz, Thomas T. When Your Child Has a Life-Threatening Illness. Rev.
ed. Washington, DC: Association for the Care of Children’s Health and the
Candlelighters Childhood Cancer Foundation, 1988.
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576. Goldman, Ann. Care of the Dying Child. New York: Oxford University
Press, 1994.
577. Gyulay, Jo-Eileen. The Dying Child. New York: McGraw-Hill, 1978.
578. Hamovitch, Maurice B. The Parent and the Fatally Ill Child. Los Angeles:
Delmar, 1964. Reprinted in 1968. Also cited as being published by the City of
Hope Medical Center in Duarte, CA.
579. ———. Parental Reactions to the Death of a Child. 1962.
A mimeograph.
580. Hill, Lenore, ed. Caring for Dying Children and Their Families. New
York: Chapman & Hall, 1994. Distributed by Singular Publishing Group.
Hill, head nurse at Martin House Hospice for Children in Wetherby, United
Kingdom, provides practical advice to all those involved in the care of a dying
child. She explores physical and educational care, symptom control, special is-
sues with AIDS diagnoses, the role of hospice, sibling issues, spiritual care, and
home health care. Communication about death is covered thoroughly. Includes
references, suggestions for further reading, a resource guide for organizations in
the United Kingdom, and an index.
581. Huber, Terri. No Time Out from Grief: Surviving the Death of My Son. San
Jose, CA: Writer’s Club Press/iUniverse.com, 2000.
582. Johnson, Joy, and Marv Johnson. Children Die, Too. Omaha, NE: Center-
ing Corporation, 1978.
Johnson and Johnson present a small booklet that compassionately discusses
death and children for parents and caregivers immediately following the news
that a child may die.
583. Johnson, Sherry E. After a Child Dies: Counseling Bereaved Families.
New York: Springer, 1987.
584. Judd, Dorothy. Give Sorrow Words: Working with a Dying Child. Lon-
don: Free Association Books, 1989. Published by Haworth Press, New York, in
1995.
585. Kagan, Henya. Gili’s Book: A Journey into Bereavement for Parents and
Families. New York: Teachers College Press, 1998. Author also cited as Henya
Kagan (Klein), Henya Klein Kagan, and Henya Kagan Klein.
In his foreword, Allen E. Ivey of the University of Massachusetts at Amherst
notes that Kagan presents a holistic meaning of the experience of loss in this
book, a memorial to her daughter. Gili was fatally injured by a reckless driver
and died five days after the accident in 1989. Kagan offers an alternative to the
theories that identify stages and suggest that there are rigid commonalities in
how people react to death and dying. She suggests that for many the stages and
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theories are irrelevant. The book is divided into three parts, the first focusing on
the life and death of Gili with photos and drawings. An interlude follows where
the author talks about her initial reactions to Gili’s death. The third part is a more
academic, in-depth discussion of bereavement. Includes a bibliography, list of
organizations and other resources, and an index.
586. Klass, Dennis. The Spiritual Lives of Bereaved Parents. Philadelphia:
Brunner/Mazel, 1999. Part of the Series in Death, Dying, and Bereavement, Rob-
ert A. Neimeyer, consulting editor.
587. Klopfenstein, Pamela. My Heart Will Forever Go On: Coping with the
Daily Challenges of Raising a Child with Special Needs and How to Survive the
Loss When They Are Called Away. Bloomington, IN: AuthorHouse, 2005.
In this 125-page book, Klopfenstein describes her efforts to get the best medi-
cal care for her son, Jonathan Michael Klopfenstein, and other challenges of care
for terminally ill children.
588. Kluger-Bell, K. Unspeakable Loss: Understanding the Experience of
Pregnancy Loss, Miscarriage, and Abortion. New York: W. W. Norton & Co.,
1998.
589. Knapp, Ronald J. Beyond Endurance: When a Child Dies. New York:
Schocken Books, 1986.
Knapp’s text emerges from 155 interviews with families who experienced
the tragic loss of a child. He explores three types of death and the problems as-
sociated with mourning in each: death occurring after a long illness, sudden or
unexpected death, and death by murder. This book is intended for both families
and professionals working with the bereaved. Subjects covered include maturity
of dying children; the helpfulness of anticipating death; the effects on the rela-
tionship between parents; devastation of the diagnosis; final moments with dying
children; grief following sudden death and the “why” question; information and
assistance-seeking following a child’s murder, including information on Parents
of Murdered Children, Inc.; the family as a unit during crisis; postdeath issues,
including autopsies and funerals; coping and survival; and depression. Includes
a thorough discussion of the Kinder-Mourn Experiment by Lucy D. Christopher.
Kinder-Mourn was established and organized in Charlotte, North Carolina, in
1978, to serve as a safe harbor for parents who have suffered the death of a child.
A short bibliography is also included.
590. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. The Dougy Letter: A Letter to a Dying Child.
Berkeley, CA: Ten Speed Press, 1979.
In 1981, a young boy with an inoperable brain tumor named Dougy Turno
wrote a letter to Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, asking her why no one would talk to
him about death and dying. She corresponded with him and encouraged him to
meet Beverly Chappell, a registered nurse who worked in the area of death and
dying. Eventually, Chappell founded The Dougy Center in Portland, Oregon, in
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1982. The center provides a safe place for young people and their families who
are grieving a death to share their experiences.
591. Limbo, Rana K., and Sara Rich Wheeler. When a Baby Dies: A Handbook
for Healing and Helping. La Crosse, WI: Resolve through Sharing, La Crosse
Lutheran Hospital/Gundersen Clinic, Ltd., 1986.
592. Lister, Marcie, and Sandra Lovell. Healing Together: For Couples Griev-
ing the Death of Their Baby. Omaha, NE: Centering Corp., 1991.
593. Livingston, Gordon. Only Spring: On Mourning the Death of My Son.
San Francisco, CA: HarperSanFrancisco, 1995. Published by Marlowe and Co.,
New York, in 1999. Cover provides the additional subtitle A Father’s Story of a
Child’s Gift of Love.
Livingston’s book documents the illness and death of his son, Lucas Scott
Livingston, who died in 1992. He describes this difficult journey and how his
family dealt with the trajectory of Lucas’s illness, his death, and their bereave-
ment. Foreword by Mark Helprin.
594. Martinson, Ida Marie. The Dying Child, the Family, and the Health Pro-
fessionals. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1976.
595. ———, ed. Home Care for the Dying Child: Professional and Family Per-
spectives. New York: Appleton-Century-Crofts, 1976.
Martinson, associate professor of nursing and lecturer in physiology at the
University of Minnesota, discusses the home as an alternative location for care
of the dying child and presents a collection of articles from a pediatric nursing
perspective. The book fully describes the Home Care Project and explores clini-
cal details of leukemia. Article topics include the role of advocacy in the rite of
passage, effects of pain on the child, parent and health care professionals, support
systems for professional caregivers, the remaining child, reintegration of the fam-
ily following death, support groups, clinical diagnoses, health care approaches to
hair loss in children with cancer, appropriate hospital settings, a model of care for
dying in the home, children’s conceptions of death, and child–adult interactions
in health care environments. Personal recollections from parents and health care
professionals are also included. Includes a listing of contributors with related
educational backgrounds.
596. Marx, Robert J., and Susan Wengerhoff Davidson. Facing the Ultimate
Loss: Coping with the Death of a Child. Belgium, WI: Champion Press, 2003.
597. McCracken, Anne, and Mary Semel. A Broken Heart Still Beats: After Your
Child Dies. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1998. New edition published in 2000.
598. Mehren, Elizabeth. After the Darkest Hour the Sun Will Shine Again: A
Parent’s Guide to Coping with the Loss of a Child. New York: Simon & Schus-
ter, 1997. A Fireside edition.
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599. Miller, Sukie, and Doris Ober. Finding Hope When a Child Dies: What
Other Cultures Can Teach Us. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1999. Reprint
Fireside edition published in 2002.
Miller, along with cocontributer Doris Ober, provides meaningful answers to
painful questions following the death of a child, including Why did my child die?
Where is my child now? Can my child hear me? Can I help my child where she’s
gone? Includes appendixes on self-help resources as well as on the Institute for
the Study of Afterdeath and its senior researchers. Miller is the institute’s founder
and director.
600. Mitchell, Ellen, Carol Barkin, Audrey Cohen, Lorenza Colletti, Barbara
Eisenberg, Barbara J. Goldstein, Madelaine Perri Kasden, Phyllis Levine, Ariella
Long, and Rita Volpe. Beyond Tears: Living after Losing a Child. New York: St.
Martin’s Griffin, 2005.
The authors are bereaved mothers who lost their children as young adults and who
have told their stories to frequent Newsday contributor Ellen Mitchell. Relaying their
experiences with the unimaginable loss of a child, they share what parents should
expect in the first year following the death of a child and beyond, including how a
once harmonious relationship can become strained, the development of a new defi-
nition of “normal,” differences in grief between mothers and fathers, and accepting
that there is no answer to the question Why? The book includes the important reas-
surance that the clouds do lift over time, that parents can find a way to survive, and
that it is possible to learn to live and even laugh again. A touching book.
601. Murray, Donald Morison. The Lively Shadow: Living with the Death of a
Child. New York: Ballantine Books, 2003.
Murray, a Pulitzer Prize–winning journalist for the Boston Globe, writes about
the long road to healing following the loss of a child. This book is also his own
story of the loss of his daughter, Lee Murray.
602. Osgood, Judy. Meditations for Bereaved Parents. Sunriver, OR: Gilgal
Publications, 1983.
Osgood offers a collection of fifty meditations written by parents who have lost
a child. Bible verses precede most of the meditations, and reliance on faith and
religion is emphasized.
603. Pearson, Judy C. Marriage after Mourning: The Secrets of Surviving
Couples. Dubuque, IA: Kendall/Hunt Publishing Co., 1995.
604. Pedersen, Debbie Wiley. An Exploration of Issues and Challenges Sur-
rounding the Marital Relationships of Parents after the Death of a Child. Denver,
CO: Regis University, 1997.
Spine title: Marriage after the Death of a Child.
605. Peppers, Larry G. How to Go on Living after the Death of a Baby. Atlanta,
GA: Peachtree Publishers Ltd., 1985.
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606. Peppers, Larry G., and Ronald J. Knapp. Motherhood and Mourning:
Perinatal Death. New York: Praeger, 1980.
The authors thoroughly examine issues surrounding perinatal death. Sections
focus on the problem of perinatal death and common characteristics of grieving
mothers; material grief; problems in relationships, including communication and
sexual matters; and such practical issues as funerals, support groups, and commu-
nity responses. Includes four charts, a short bibliography, and brief information
about the authors.
607. Pregent, Carol. When a Child Dies. Notre Dame, IN: Ave Maria Press,
1992.
608. Rando, Therese A., ed. Parental Loss of a Child. Champaign, IL: Research
Press, 1986.
609. Reed, Mary Lou. Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for Bereaved Grandpar-
ents. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2000. Part of the Death, Value, and
Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
610. Rheingold, Joseph C. The Mother, Anxiety, and Death: The Catastrophic
Death Complex. Boston: Little, Brown, 1967. This first edition was also pub-
lished by J. & A. Churchill, London.
Rheingold offers a review and an analysis of the catastrophic death complex
in the context of the mother–child relationship, the meaning of anxiety, and
the psychology of death. He discusses meanings of death, attitudes toward
death, origins of the fear of death, maternal destructiveness, basic anxiety,
psychopathology, and psychotherapy. Includes a bibliography and author and
subject indexes.
611. Riches, Gordon, and Pam Dawson. An Intimate Loneliness: Supporting
Bereaved Parents and Siblings. Philadelphia: Open University Press, 2000. Part
of the Facing Death series, David Clark, editor.
Riches and Dawson explore the effects of a child’s death on family relation-
ships, how differences between the grief of mothers and fathers contribute to
marital tension, and the significant effect of parental grief on bereaved siblings.
They also explore the impact of grief on self and family identity, particularly
the role of shared remembrances in “transforming survivors’ relationships with
the deceased.” Special topics covered include isolation in bereavement, sudden
death, the “invisibility” of fathers’ and siblings’ grief, cultural and gender expec-
tations, and the failure of intimate relationships. Appropriate for death education
and counseling classes, this book includes case studies and discussion questions
on some topics. Also includes extensive references.
612. Rosenblatt, Paul C. Help Your Marriage Survive the Death of a Child.
Philadelphia: Temple University Press, 2000.
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The author notes that, “This book is not designed to tug at your heartstrings. It
is meant to pull at your bootstraps, to draw you from the quagmire of grief into
the land of the living.” Schiff lost her own son at age ten from complications of
congenital heart disease.
618. Schowalter, John E., Penelope Buschman, Paul R. Patterson, Austin H.
Kutscher, Margot Tallmer, and Robert G. Stevenson, eds. Children and Death:
Perspectives from Birth through Adolescence. New York: Praeger, 1987. Part
of the Foundation of Thanatology series, volume 9. Cover page and title page
acknowledge the editorial assistance of Jeanne D. Cole.
This book is an interdisciplinary work that notes, “Since the Kennedy assas-
sination, there has been a societal imprimatur for children to participate in funeral
services and mourning rituals.” This book discusses children’s interest in and
exposure to death-related issues, children’s conceptions of death, and the death of
a child and its implications. Margot Tallmer presents the preface with separate com-
mentary on each of the four sections: “Children’s Concepts of Death,” “Emotional
Impact of Disease,” “Perspectives on Childhood Death and Dying,” and “Coping
with Childhood Death.” Articles address adolescents’ concepts of death and their
deadly ramifications, children’s understanding of irreversibility, nonfunctionality
and universality, death education, posttraumatic stress disorder in children with
cancer, newborn death, communicating about death, teaching medical students the
psychological aspects of chronic illness in children, definitions of dying, childhood
fear of death, preoccupations with death in normal children, reactions to childhood
death, paranormal experiences associated with the death of a child, Candlelighters
parents groups, and early stage parental grief. Joanne E. Bernstein presents a short
but heavily annotated list of outstanding children’s books about death. Includes an
index and brief information about each of the contributors.
619. Schowalter, John E., Paul R. Patterson, and Margot Tallmer, eds. The
Child and Death. New York: Columbia University Press, 1983.
620. Schulman, J. L. Coping with Tragedy: Successfully Facing the Problem of
a Seriously Ill Child. Chicago: Follett Publications, 1976.
621. Stetson, Brad. Living Victims, Stolen Lives: Parents of Murdered Children
Speak to America. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2002. Part of the Death,
Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
622. Tengbom, Mildred. Help for Bereaved Parents. St. Louis: Concordia,
1981. Part of the Coping with Trauma Series.
623. Tittensor, John. Year One: A Record. Fitzroy, Victoria, Australia: McPhee
Gribble/Penguin, 1984.
Tittensor, an Australian writer, tells about his unimaginable grief following
the death of his seven- and nine-year-old children in a house fire. Much of this
105-page book is written in a diary format.
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624. Toder, Francine. When Your Child Is Gone: Learning to Live Again. Sac-
ramento, CA: Capital Publishing, 1986.
Although this book covers loss of children to causes other than death (cus-
tody decisions, kidnapping, disappearances), it is perhaps most useful for those
who have experienced the death of a child. Toder, a psychologist, discusses the
uniqueness of the pain associated with child loss, feelings of guilt, coping more
effectively, the effects of personality type on recovery, and selecting a psycho-
therapist. Includes a helpful chapter on identifying community resources.
625. Wilkenfeld, Loren. When Children Die. Dubuque, IA: Kendall/Hunt Pub-
lishing Co., 1977. Part of the Topics in Human Behavior Series.
Wilkenfeld presents a collection of reprinted articles on childhood death.
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626. Aldiss, Brian Wilson, and Margaret Aldiss. When the Feast Is Finished:
Reflections on Terminal Illness. London: Little, Brown, 1999.
627. Armstrong, H. G. The American Way of Dying. Hicksville, NY: Exposi-
tion Press, 1978.
628. Arvio, Raymond Paavo. The Cost of Dying and What You Can Do about
It. New York: Harper & Row, 1974.
Beginning his introduction by noting that, “the specter of enlightened consum-
erism . . . haunts the American funeral today,” Arvio offers a book extremely
critical of the funeral industry and its focus on consumerism. He goes on to
suggest that, “A gentle flow of public and private criticism over the years has
been tolerated by the powerful funeral Establishment [capitalization intended],
while Jessica Mitford, Ruth Mulvey Harmer, and Leroy Bowman are dismissed
as hopeless radicals.” Intending the book to be an advocacy tool for the develop-
ment of memorial societies, Arvio focuses his text on their creation, benefits, and
business model. An appendix offers a sample form from the Queens Memorial
Society to express a person’s wishes for procedures and steps to be taken at the
time of their death.
629. Austin, Mary. Experiences Facing Death. New York: Arno Press, 1977.
Part of the Literature of Death and Dying series. Originally published by Bombs-
Merrill, Indianapolis, IN, in 1931.
630. Backer, Barbara A., Natalie Hannon, and Joan Young Gregg. To Listen,
to Comfort, to Care: Reflections on Death and Dying. Albany, NY: Delmar Pub-
lishers, 1994.
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631. Backer, Barbara A., Natalie Hannon, and Noreen A. Russell. Death and
Dying: Understanding and Care. Albany, NY: Delmar Publishers, 1994.
632. Basta, Lofty L., and Carole Post. A Graceful Exit: Life and Death on Your
Own Terms. New York: Plenum Press, 1996.
633. Bergersen, Betty S., ed. Distance and the Dying Patient. St. Louis: C. V.
Mosby, 1967.
634. Boerstler, Richard W. Letting Go: A Holistic and Meditative Approach to
Living and Dying. Watertown, MA: Associates in Thanatology, 1982.
A psychotherapist and self-described “practitioner in thanatology,” Boerstler
presents a 48-page paperback discussing a holistic view of the universe, medita-
tion and death, and comeditation and its use in modern thanatology. Illustrations
include a diagram of transpersonal (comeditation) practice in thanatology, the
Cosmic Web, Kuan Yin, Yin-Yang, and the Dancing Shiva. The appendix is an
abstract of a presentation made by Boerstler at the annual conference of the Fo-
rum for Death Education and Counseling in Boston, November 6–8, 1981, titled
“Meditation and the Dying Process.”
635. Brauer, Paul H. A Constructive Approach to Terminal Illness. New York:
National Cancer Foundation, 1958.
636. Bregman, Lucy. Beyond Silence and Denial: Death and Dying Reconsid-
ered. Louisville, KY: Westminster John Knox Press, 1999.
637. Bruce, Hank. The Family Caregiver’s Journal: A Guide to Facing the
Terminal Illness of a Loved One. Sorrento, FL: Petals & Pages Press, 1998.
638. Burnell, George M. Final Choices: To Live or to Die in an Age of Medical
Technology. New York: Insight Books/Plenum Press, 1993.
Emphasizing the need to think of death in terms of choices rather than the
abstract, Burnell writes about discontinuing life-sustaining machines, extraor-
dinary means to continue life, pain in dying, patient and family disagreements,
American Medical Association positions on these issues, bioethics commit-
tees, dying as a matter of individual freedom, definitions of death, quantity
versus quality of life, organ donation, and hospice. Numerous other matters
are explored in sections and chapters titled with questions. Eight appendixes
feature a map of state laws governing durable power of attorney, health care
agents, and proxy appointments; an example of a living will declaration; infor-
mation about and an example of a health care proxy; the Hippocratic Oath; the
Death with Dignity Act; a directory of organizations; an organ donor criteria
chart; and a map of state laws governing surrogate or family decision making
for patients without advance directives. Includes a list of titles for suggested
reading divided by subject and an index.
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639. Byock, Ira. Dying Well: The Prospect for Growth at the End of Life. New
York: Putnam/Riverhead, 1997. Also cited as Dying Well: Peace and Possibili-
ties at the End of Life.
Through the stories of family members and others, Byock presents this book
about “realizing the human potential to grow as individuals and as members of
families through the human process of dying.” He discusses how the telling and
receiving of stories about a loved one’s dying can be healing acts. He asserts that
society’s aversion to discussing death until it is required robs people of incred-
ible opportunities. Byock notes that, “socially we have paid dearly, and culturally
we are poorer for failing to explore the inherently human experience of dying.”
Includes an index and an appendix on how to write family stories.
640. Campbell, Karen. Death Descending. London: Collins, 1976.
641. Carlozzi, Carl G. Death and Contemporary Man: The Crisis of Terminal
Illness. Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 1968.
642. Carmody, John Tully. Meditations on the End of Life. Harrisburg, PA:
Trinity Press International, 1997.
643. Cartwright, Ann, Lisbeth Hockey, and John L. Anderson. Life before
Death. London: Routledge and Kegan Paul, 1973. Part of the Reports of the
Institute for Social Studies in Medical Care series. Cartwright is director of the
Institute.
While the book offers excellent insights and data on death and dying, it is pri-
marily focused on nursing care of the dying. Tables included in the appendixes
document symptoms of the dying, the cause of death relative to the institution,
and data on deaths at home and deaths alone versus with family and friends.
Chapters touch on a broad array of topics from elderly people living alone to
laundry needs of the incontinent. Other topics covered are providing relief of
common symptoms to the dying, the role of the nurse in varying institutional con-
texts, family members as caregivers, social class and area variations, coordination
of services for the dying, and chiropody. Includes references and an index.
644. Castles, Mary Reardon. Dying in an Institution: Nurse/Patient Perspec-
tives. New York: Appleton-Century-Crofts, 1979.
645. Caughill, Rita E., ed. The Dying Patient: A Supportive Approach. Boston:
Little, Brown, 1976.
This book contains seven originally published articles and one reprint on death,
dying, and grieving. It addresses dying with dignity, coping with death in acute
care units, supportive care with consideration of the age of the dying patient, the
dying child, and grieving as a response to loss.
646. Chambers, Ross. Facing It: AIDS Diaries and the Death of the Author.
Ann Arbor, MI: University of Michigan Press, 1998.
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663. Droege, Thomas A. With Open Arms: Receiving Care with Grace and
Gratitude. Bloomington, IN: Youth & Family Institute, 2005.
664. Duda, Deborah. Coming Home: A Guide to Dying at Home with Dignity.
New York: Aurora Press, 1987. First edition published in March 1982, as A
Guide to Dying at Home, by John Muir Publications, Santa Fe, NM.
Following Mother Teresa, Duda began studying alternative healing and work-
ing with the dying. Her book provides practical advice on facilitating a com-
fortable death at home. She begins with the stories of three people who died at
home. She discusses making the decision to die at home, financial considerations,
sources of assistance in the process, transitioning from the hospital, medical
considerations, how to be with someone who is dying, children involved in the
process, practical home care, emotional issues, legal considerations, preparing for
death, funerals, and bereavement. Duda also touches on Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’s
stages of dying and the Dying Person’s Bill of Rights. Her comments on medical
considerations and practical home care are particularly extensive. Fourteen ap-
pendixes contain useful addresses, the hospice physicians’ standing order form,
the American Medical Association Statement on Life-Prolonging Medical Treat-
ment, the Guidelines for Home Care of Persons Infected by the Virus That Causes
AIDS, a sample state living will, a patient’s bill of rights, information on taking
a dying person home from the hospital when the staff objects, the Bach Flower
Remedies, games to play, reflexology foot and hand charts, holistic healing tech-
niques and terms, the Consumer Guide to the Federal Trade Commission Funeral
Rule, and references. There is also biographical information about the author.
665. Edwards, Dan, and M. J. Graves, eds. Death: The Doorway to the Future.
LeVale, MD: Excelsior Books, 1977.
666. Elias, Norbert. The Loneliness of Dying. New York: Basil Blackwell,
1985. Translated by Edmond Jephcott.
667. Ellis, Albert, and Michael Abrams. How to Cope with a Fatal Illness: The
Rational Management of Death and Dying. New York: Barricade Books, 1994.
668. Evans, Jocelyn. Living with a Man Who Is Dying. New York: Taplinger
Publishing Co., 1971. Also published by Blond, London.
669. Feigenberg, Loma. Terminal Care: Friendship Contracts with Dying Can-
cer Patients. New York: Brunner/Mazel, 1980.
670. Fein, Leonard J. Against the Dying of the Light: A Father’s Journey
through Loss. Woodstock, VT: Jewish Lights Publishing, 2001.
671. Frick, Marlena. All the Days of His Dying. London: Allison & Busby,
1972.
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672. Gibbons, Joan Lyon, and Elizabeth Boyden Howes. Come Phoenix Word:
An Account of a Woman’s Journey and Struggle for Consciousness during a
Terminal Illness: Journal and Writings of Joan Lyon Gibbons, 1924–1987. San
Francisco, CA: Guild for Psychological Studies Publishing House, 1989.
673. Glaser, Barney G., and A. L. Strauss. Awareness of Dying. Chicago: Al-
dine Publishing Co., 1968. Originally published in 1965. Published by Weiden-
feld & Nicholson, London, in 1966.
674. Glaser, Barney G., and Anselm L. Strauss. Anguish: A Case History of a
Dying Patient. Mill Valley, CA: Sociology Press, 1971. Also cited as Anguish:
A Case History of a Dying Trajectory. Also cited as being published by Aldine
Publishing Co., Chicago.
675. ———. Anguish: A Case History of a Dying Trajectory. Mill Valley, CA:
Sociology Press, 1970. Also cited as Anguish: A Dying Trajectory, published by
Aldine Publishing Co., Chicago.
676. ———. Time for Dying. Chicago: Aldine Publishing Co., 1968.
677. Gleason, Edward S. Dying We Live. Cambridge, MA: Cowley Publica-
tions, 1990.
678. Gollwitzer, Helmut. Dying We Live: The Final Messages and Records of
the Resistance. New York: Pantheon Books, 1956.
679. Graham, Billy. Facing Death and the Life After. Waco, TX: Word Books,
1987.
680. Greinacher, Norbert, and Alois Muller, eds. The Experience of Dying.
New York: Herder and Herder, 1974.
681. Griffith, William H. More Than a Parting Prayer: Lessons in Caregiving
for the Dying. Valley Forge, PA: Judson Press, 2004.
Believing that dying patients are the best teachers, Griffith explores the issues
of death and dying in the context of faith. He uses personal experiences as well as
the stories of the dying and their families to put these issues in context. He served
as an on-call chaplain with the Hospice of the Valley in Phoenix, Arizona, and
is currently chaplain for the Hospice of South Central Indiana. Griffith discusses
denial of death, hope, emotional and spiritual pain, honoring the care receiver’s
faith, caring for the dying agnostic, fear of grieving alone, and child death. A
lengthy appendix includes thought-provoking questions from each chapter in the
book.
682. Grof, Stanislav. Dimensions of Dying and Rebirth. Virginia Beach, VA:
ARE Press, 1977.
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683. Grof, Stanislav, and Christina Grof. Beyond Death: The Gates of Con-
sciousness. New York: Thames & Hudson, 1980.
684. Grollman, Earl A. In Sickness and in Health: How to Cope When Your
Loved One Is Ill. Boston: Beacon Press, 1987.
Grollman, noted author and thanatologist, presents poetic meditations for
family members and loved ones of those who are terminally ill. Meditations are
divided by subject area.
685. Gruman, Gerald J. A History of Ideas about the Prolongation of Life. New
York: Arno Press, 1976. Part of the Literature of Death and Dying series. Origi-
nally published in 1966.
686. Guinness, Howard Wyndham. The Last Enemy: Living with Terminal Ill-
ness. London: Church Pastoral Aid Society, 1974.
687. Hablitzel, William E. Dying Was the Best Thing That Ever Happened to
Me: Stories of Healing and Wisdom along Life’s Journey. Austin, TX: Sunshine
Ridge Publishing/Greenleaf Book Group, 2006.
With moving stories from his professional life as a physician, Hablitzel offers
inspiring lessons on living and dying. The common theme in the stories is the
timelessness of the moment.
688. Hagglund, Tor-Bjorn. Dying: A Psychoanalytic Study with Special Refer-
ence to Individual Creativity and Defensive Organization. New York: Interna-
tional Universities Press, 1978.
Hagglund focuses on the overwhelming feeling of helplessness experienced by
the dying as well as two main problems faced by both the person dying and their
loved ones. He defines these problems as the preoccupation with the inconceiv-
able nature of dying and the defense against the anxiety of not understanding. His
chapters explore the psychodynamics of the dying patient, children’s reactions
to death, psychotherapy of dying adult patients, and a psychoanalytic study of
narcissism, phallic defense, and creativity in mourning. Includes references and
an index.
689. Hampe, Johann Christoph. To Die Is to Gain: The Experience of One’s
Own Death. Atlanta, GA: John Knox Press, 1979.
690. Hampton, C. Transition Called Death. Wheaton, IL: Theosophical Pub-
lishing House, 1979.
691. Hanlan, Archie J. Autobiography of Dying. Garden City, NY: Doubleday,
1979.
692. Hardy, Mark A., Lillian G. Kutscher, Gerald B. Appel, John M. Kiernan,
Austin H. Kutscher, Martha L. Orr, Carole Torres, and Lissa Parsonnet. Positive
Approaches to Living with End Stage Renal Disease: Psychosocial and Thanato-
logic Aspects. New York: Praeger, 1986.
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702. Hinton, John M. Dying. Baltimore, MD: Penguin Books, 1967. Second
edition published in 1972.
703. Horn, Robert C., and C. Everett Koop. How Will They Know If I’m Dead?:
Transcending Disability and Terminal Illness. Delray Beach, FL: GR Press/St.
Lucie Press, 1997.
704. Howells, W. D., Henry James, John Bigelow, Thomas Wentworth Higgin-
son, Henry M. Alden, William Hanna Thomson, Guglielmo Ferrero, Julia Ward
Howe, and Elizabeth Stuart Phelps. In after Days: Thoughts on the Future Life.
New York: Arno Press, 1976. Originally published in 1910.
705. Hubbard, David A. Why Do I Have to Die? Glendale, CA: Regal Books,
1978.
706. Hunt, Gladys M. The Christian Way of Death. Grand Rapids, MI: Zonder-
van Publishing House, 1971.
707. Hutschnecker, Arnold A. The Will to Live. Englewood Cliffs, NJ:
Prentice-Hall, 1951.
708. Hyde, Margaret O. Meeting Death. New York: Walker Publishing Co.,
1989.
709. Jacobsen, Fay W., Margaret Kindlen, and Allison Shoemark. Living
through Loss: A Manual for Those Working with Issues of Terminal Illness and
Bereavement. London: Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1997.
710. Johnson, Elizabeth A. As Someone Dies: A Handbook for the Living. Santa
Monica, CA: Hay House, 1987.
711. Johnson, Margaret Woods. We Lived with Dying. Waco, TX: Word Books,
1975.
712. Kalish, Richard A., ed. Caring Relationships: The Dying and the Be-
reaved. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1980. Part of the Perspectives on
Death and Dying series, volume 2. Series also cited as Perspectives on Death in
Human Experience.
In this book, Kalish points out the growth in literature on death and dying in re-
cent years and the challenges of “putting this new knowledge and awareness into
action in institutional settings.” Contributors’ articles focus on standards of care
for the terminally ill, dying versus well-being, the social theory of dying, family
communication during a child’s fatal illness, dying and dignity, psychosocial
aspects of terminal care, anticipatory grief, reactions of family systems to sudden
and unexpected death, SIDS, nursing care of the terminal patient, relationship to
death as a source of stress for nurses, medical staff coping mechanisms for death,
and attitudes of physicians on disclosing information to and maintaining life for
terminal patients. Includes references but no index.
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713. ———, ed. The Final Transition. Farmingdale, NY: Baywood Publishing,
1984.
714. Kaplan, Louise J. No Voice Is Ever Wholly Lost. New York: Simon &
Schuster, 1995.
715. Karnes, Barbara. Gone from My Sight: The Dying Experience. Depoe Bay,
OR: Barbara Karnes Publishing, 1986.
716. Kaufman, Sharon R. And a Time to Die: How American Hospitals Shape
the End of Life. New York: Scribner, 2005.
Kaufman, a medical anthropologist, explores the often unacknowledged ten-
sion between medical efforts to extend life and the desire to allow patients to “let
go.” Her book insightfully notes that, “In the past thirty years, the advent of medi-
cal technology capable of sustaining life without restoring health, the expectation
that a critically ill person need not die, and the conviction that medicine should
routinely thwart death have significantly changed where, when, and how Ameri-
cans die and has put us all in the position of doing something about death.” She
focuses her analysis on the hospital, where so many deaths occur and where these
tensions are always present. Her text discusses hospital culture, heroic interven-
tion, the paradox of resuscitation, financial considerations in medical treatment,
and thoughts on the terms suffering, dignity, and quality of life. Two appendixes
document the author’s research and provide comments on diversity’s effects on
these issues. Includes notes, an extensive bibliography, and an index.
717. Kearney, Michael. A Place of Healing: Working with Suffering in Living
and Dying. New York: Oxford University Press, 2000.
718. Keleman, Stanley. Living Your Dying. New York: Random House, 1975.
719. Kellehear, Allan. Dying of Cancer: The Final Year of Life. New York:
Harwood Academic Publishers, 1990.
This book examines the ways in which the dying organize and choose to live
their remaining time and social experiences. Kellehear, a sociology professor
at La Trobe University in Melbourne, Australia, discusses preparing for death;
physical and social adjustments; saying goodbye; alternative therapies; and com-
municating with physicians, clergy, and loved ones. He uses interviews with
100 terminally ill cancer patients who expect to live less than one year. The text
also explores death attitudes, consumerism, and changing patterns of morbidity
and mortality. Includes a bibliography, appendixes with research details, and an
index.
720. Kennedy, Patricia H. Dying at Home with Cancer. Springfield, IL: Charles
C. Thomas, 1982.
721. Kessler, David. The Needs of the Dying: A Guide for Bringing Hope, Com-
fort, and Love to Life’s Final Chapter. New York: Quill, 2000.
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722. ———. The Rights of the Dying: A Companion for Life’s Final Moments.
New York: HarperCollins, 1997.
723. Kolf, June Cerza. Comfort and Care in a Final Illness: Support for the
Patient and Caregiver. Tucson, AZ: Fisher Books, 1999.
Experienced in hospice care, Kolf provides guidance and support for both the
patient and caregiver with helpful commentary on medical care, hospital versus
homecare decisions, legal and financial issues, saying goodbye, and adjusting
emotionally. She also addresses the need for open and honest communication,
listening, physical support, alleviation from caregiver burnout, and making final
arrangements. The text is interspersed with effective graphics featuring helpful
tips, vignettes, statistics, and important highlights from the text. Includes sugges-
tions for further reading; a list of periodical, pamphlet, and online resources; a
section on helpful organizations arranged by subject, and an index.
724. Kopp, Ruth Lewshenia, and Stephen Sorenson. Encounter with Terminal
Illness. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1980. Also cited as
Terminal Illness.
725. Kothari, M. L., and L. A. Mehta. Death, a New Perspective on the Phe-
nomena of Disease and Dying. New York: M. Boyars, 1986. Distributed by
Scribner.
726. Kramp, Erin Tierney, Douglas H. Kramp, and Emily P. McKhann. Liv-
ing with the End in Mind: A Practical Checklist for Living Life to the Fullest by
Embracing Your Mortality. New York: Three Rivers Press, 1998.
727. Krant, Melvin J. Dying and Dignity: The Meaning and Control of a Per-
sonal Death. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1974.
A physician who has cared for cancer patients for many years, Krant attempts
to bring together thoughts, ideas, theories, and concepts that relate to “pertinent
psychological and sociologic information regarding the individual, his family,
and the medical care system as they interrelate around the process of fatal illness
and experience of dying.” His chapters focus on putting dying into context for the
present time, fears surrounding death, indignities of dying, fatal illness and the
physician, peaceful death through euthanasia, families of the dying, and his own
proposals for education about death for different audiences. Includes references
but no index.
728. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. AIDS: The Ultimate Challenge. New York: Mac-
millan, 1987.
729. ———. To Live Until We Say Goodbye. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-
Hall, 1978. Features photographs by Mal Warshaw. Published by Simon &
Schuster as a Touchstone edition in 1997.
A powerful, moving book, Kübler-Ross shares stories of the dying as she as-
sists them with acceptance of death. Warshaw’s photographs bring Kübler-Ross’s
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famous work with the dying to life, giving readers an intimate, touching view of
the terminally ill.
730. ———. The Wheel of Life: A Memoir of Living and Dying. New York:
Touchstone, 1998.
731. Kurtzman, J., and P. Gordon. No More Dying. Los Angeles: Jeremy P.
Tarcher, Inc., 1976.
732. Lamerton, Richard. Care of the Dying. Westport, CT: Technomic Publish-
ing, 1976. Published by Priory Press, London, in 1973.
733. Levine, Stephen. Healing into Life and Death. Garden City, NJ: Anchor
Press/Doubleday, 1987.
734. ———. Who Dies?: An Investigation of Conscious Living and Conscious
Dying. Garden City, NY: Anchor Press/Doubleday, 1982. Reprinted in 1989.
735. ———. A Year to Live: How to Live This Year as If It Were Your Last. New
York: Belltower Publishing, 1998.
736. Lifton, Robert J., and Eric Olson. Living and Dying. New York: Praeger,
1974. Published by Bantam, New York, in 1975.
737. Lofland, Lyn H. The Craft of Dying: The Modern Face of Death. Beverly
Hills, CA: Sage Publications, 1978.
In light of the new attitudes adopted toward death and dying during the 1970s,
Lofland, associate professor of sociology, explores “modern dying” with chapters
on the prolongation, bureaucratization, and secularization of dying; issues sur-
rounding beliefs about death and dying, social organization, and the culture of
medical practice; the “happy death movement,” emerging ideologies, and com-
munication about death. Includes a bibliography.
738. Longacre, Christine. Facing Death and Finding Hope: A Guide to the
Emotional and Spiritual Care of the Dying. New York: Doubleday, 1997.
739. Lynn, Joanne, and Joan Harrold. Handbook for Mortals: Guidance for
People Facing Serious Illness. New York: Oxford University Press, 1999. A
publication of the Center to Improve Care of the Dying at George Washington
University. Research for the book funded by the Alfred P. Sloan Foundation of
New York City.
Lynn and Harrold, both physicians, offer a guidebook with practical, comfort-
ing information for both the dying and those caring for them. Topics include
coping with uncertainty, orchestrating support from teams of caregivers, commu-
nicating about death, dying and terminal care with doctors, managing symptoms,
pain management, what to expect as various diseases progress, making deci-
sions about foregoing medical treatment, funeral planning, childhood death, and
grief and bereavement. Extremely well organized, this book contains numerous
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his battle with cancer. This 72-page book contains several photos of the author
before and during his illness.
759. Plouffe, Rhea Therese. Terminal Illness and the Experience of God: A
Qualitative Study of the Transitional Space. Ottawa: National Library of Canada/
Bibliotheque Nationale du Canada, 2001.
760. Poss, Sylvia. Toward Death with Dignity: Caring for Dying People. Bos-
ton: Allen & Unwin, 1981.
761. Preston, S. H., Nathan Keyfitz, and Robert Schoen. Causes of Death. New
York: Seminar Press, 1972.
762. Priest, Mary Woodward. Diary of Courage: Coping with Life-Threatening
Illness. San Francisco, CA: Strawberry Hill Press, 1990.
763. Prunkl, Peter R., and Rebecca L. Berry. Death Week: Exploring the Dying
Process. New York: Hemisphere Publishing, 1989. Part of the Series in Death
Education, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
764. Quicksall, Larry E. We Need to Talk: A Practical Guide for Those Facing
Terminal Illness. Effingham, IL: FamilyGrowth Publications, 2002.
This book is an 82-page handbook offering common sense guidance to those
facing death through terminal illness.
765. Quill, Timothy E. A Midwife through the Dying Process: Stories of Heal-
ing and Hard Choices at the End of Life. Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University
Press, 1997.
766. Rasberry, Salli. The Art of Dying: Honoring and Celebrating Life’s Pas-
sages. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts, 2001.
767. Reiffel, James, and Lillian G. Kutscher. Psychosocial Aspects of Cardio-
vascular Disease: The Life-Threatened Patient, the Family, and the Staff. New
York: Columbia University Press, 1980.
768. Rinpoche, Sogyal, Patrick Gaffney, and Andrew Harvey. The Tibetan
Book of Living and Dying. New York: HarperCollins, 1994.
769. Robbins, Joy, and Janet Moscrop. Caring for the Dying Patient and the
Family. New York: Chapman & Hall, 1995.
770. Rock, Lois, and Sheila Moxley. When Goodbye Is Forever. Intercourse,
PA: Good Books, 2004.
771. Rodman, F. Robert. Not Dying. New York: Random House, 1977. Subtitle
appears on the cover as A Psychoanalyst’s Memoir of His Wife’s Death.
Assistant clinical professor of psychology at the University of California, Los
Angeles, and a member of the faculty at the Los Angeles Psychoanalytic Institute,
Rodman emphasizes the importance of respecting each person’s unique approach
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to dying and death. This view comes from his own tragic experience with his
wife’s death and denial of her prognosis. He explores feelings of self-hatred, self-
reproach, self-pity, guilt, and anger.
772. Rollin, Betty. Last Wish. New York: Public Affairs Publishing, 1998.
773. Rosen, Elliott J. Families Facing Death: Family Dynamics of Terminal
Illness. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books, 1990.
A family therapist, Rosen is psychological consultant to the Jansen Memorial
Hospice in Tuckahoe, New York. He writes about the disruption of the family
system by terminal illness. His first chapters give definitions of the family and
discuss the family as a system. Discussing how families psychologically prepare
for death, Rosen offers tasks for the grieving family to perform to deal with antic-
ipatory grief and looks at socially unsanctioned grief, the emotional shock wave
of death, and anticipated death versus sudden death. His suggestions include the
use of literary and cinematic materials, healing through rituals, and coaching. A
final chapter examines ethnic perspectives on death and gender roles. Appendixes
include an annotated filmography and a suggested reading list.
774. Rosenfeld, Stephen S. The Time of Their Dying. New York: W. W. Nor-
ton, 1977.
Rosenfeld, an editorial writer and columnist for the Washington Post, writes
about the process of dying, dealing with the death of both parents within a short
time frame, and coming to terms with mortality and the meaning of death and life.
He draws on his own painful experience of losing both parents to cancer.
775. Rowland, M. How to Die. Hollywood, CA: N.p., 1942.
776. Ryerson, Marjorie. Companions for the Passage: Stories of the Intimate
Privilege of Accompanying the Dying. Ann Arbor, MI: University of Michigan
Press, 2005.
777. Ryndes, True, and Susan Bruno. A Pathway for Patients and Families
Facing Terminal Illness. Arlington, VA: The Organization, 1997.
778. Sauer, Herbert I. Geographic Patterns in the Risk of Dying and Associated
Factors, United States, 1968–1972. Hyattsville, MD: U.S. Department of Health
and Human Services, Public Health Service, Office of Health Research, Statis-
tics, and Technology, National Center for Health Statistics, 1980.
779. Saunders, Cicely M., and Mary Baines. Living with Dying: The Manage-
ment of Terminal Disease. New York: Oxford University Press, 1989. Originally
published in 1983.
Founder of St. Christopher’s Hospice in 1967, and the hospice movement it-
self, Saunders, along with coauthor Baines, presents a 74-page volume on clinical
treatments for the terminally ill. Chapters include information on terminal pain,
the use of analgesics for terminal pain, adjuvant therapy in pain control, the control
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of symptoms other than pain, and other components of “total pain.” Other topics
covered are severe pain, oral narcotics, opiates, nonsteroidal antiinflammatory
drugs, antibiotics, antispasmodic drugs, anorexia, dry or painful mouth, hic-
cough, incontinence, insomnia, anxiety, depression, confusion, terminal restless-
ness, convulsions, and mental pain. Includes charts, a patient’s drawing, refer-
ences, and an index.
780. Schweibert, Pat, and Paul Kirk. When Hello Means Goodbye. Portland,
OR: University of Oregon Health Sciences Center, 1981.
781. Scrimgeour, Elizabeth. Honouring Sacred Spaces: Voicing Stories of Ter-
minal Illness. Pretoria: University of South Africa, 2002.
782. Seeland, Irene B. The Final 48 Hours: Observations on the Last Days of
Life. Philadelphia: Charles Press, 1991.
783. Segerberg, Osborn. Living with Death. New York: Dutton, 1976.
784. Seligman, Martin. Helplessness: On Depression, Development, and
Death. San Francisco, CA: W. H. Freeman, 1975.
Seligman presents a thorough analysis of helplessness as a component of de-
pression, terminal illness, and coping with death.
785. Shane, Thomas W. When Life Meets Death: Stories of Death and Dying,
Truth and Courage. New York: Haworth Press, 1998.
786. Shepard, Martin. Dying: A Guide for Helping and Coping. Sag Harbor,
NY: Permanent Press, 2000.
Shepard presents an uplifting, gentle exploration of the process of dying and
a guidebook for helping the dying and grieving. The text includes meditations
for the dying and grieving, quotes on death and dying, and epitaphs. Also incor-
porated are poignant sketches by artist and illustrator Mac Shepard, who died in
1972. Shepard served as chief psychiatric resident at Mount Sinai Hospital in
New York.
787. Shuman, Ron. Day by Day. Oakland, CA: Scrimshaw Press, 1977.
788. Singh, Kathleen Dowling. The Grace in Dying: How We Are Transformed
Spiritually as We Die. San Francisco, CA: HarperSanFrancisco, 1998.
789. Smith, Rodney. Lessons from the Dying. Boston: Wisdom Publications,
1998.
790. Smith, Walter J. Dying in the Human Life Cycle: Psychological, Biomedi-
cal, and Social Perspectives. New York: Holt, Rinehart and Winston, 1985.
Smith discusses the extensive variety of reactions to death and dying through-
out the life cycle. He begins with stillbirth and perinatal death and continues on
to the elderly and death. Among the topics he explores are effective management
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796. Strauss, Anselm L. Chronic Illness and the Quality of Life. St. Louis:
C. V. Mosby, 1975. Revised second edition published in 1984.
797. Suszycki, Lee H. Social Work and Terminal Care. New York: Praeger,
1984. Part of the Foundation of Thanatology series.
798. Tallmer, Margot, ed. Sexuality and Life-Threatening Illness. Springfield,
IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1984. A Foundation of Thanatology text.
799. Thompson, Douglas K. A Refuge from the Storm: A Shelter from the Storm
of Caring for a Loved One with a Terminal Illness. Fairfax, VA: Xulon Press,
2003.
800. Tigges, Kent Nelson, and William Matthew Marcil. Terminal and Life-
Threatening Illness: An Occupational Behavior Perspective. Thorofare, NJ:
Slack, 1988.
801. Twycross, Robert G. The Dying Patient. London: Christian Medical Fel-
lowship, 1975. A Christian Medical Fellowship topic book.
802. United States Congress, Office of Technology Assessment. Institutional
Protocols for Decisions about Life-Sustaining Treatments: Special Report.
Washington, DC: U.S. Government Printing Office, 1988.
803. Vaux, Kenneth L., and Sara Anson Vaux. Dying Well. Nashville, TN:
Abingdon Press, 1996.
804. Vogt, Christopher P. Patience, Compassion, Hope, and the Christian Art
of Dying Well. Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield, 2004. A Sheed & Ward
book.
Vogt explores the concept of dying well in the Christian tradition, including
the ars moriendi tradition of the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries. Includes a
bibliography.
805. Wahl, Charles W., Robert C. Leslie, and Nathalie E. Kennedy. Helping
the Dying Patient and His Family. New York: National Association of Social
Workers, 1960.
806. Walker, Alice. To Hell with Dying. New York: Harcourt Brace Jovanov-
ich, 1988. Illustrated by Catherine Deeter.
807. Wanderer, Zev. Letting Go. New York: Warner Books, 1978.
808. Wass, Hannelore, Felix M. Berardo, and Robert A. Neimeyer. Dying: Fac-
ing the Facts. Washington, DC: Taylor & Francis, 1995. Originally published by
Hemisphere Publishing/Harper & Row, Washington, DC, in 1979, and also by
McGraw-Hill, New York, in 1979. Originally part of the Series in Death Educa-
tion, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
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827. Godin, Andre, ed. Death and Presence: Studies in the Psychology of
Religion. Brussels, Belgium: Lumen Vitae Press, 1972. Also cited as Death and
Presence: The Psychology of Death and the Afterlife.
828. Greely, Andrew M. Death and Beyond. Chicago: Thomas More Press,
1976.
829. Guardini, Romano. The Last Things Concerning Death, Purification after
Death, Resurrection. New York: Pantheon Books, 1954. Translated by Charlotte
E. Forsyth and Grace B. Branham.
830. Hanley, E. Life after Death. New York: Norton Publishers, Leisure Books,
1977.
831. Henderson, Joseph L., and Maud Oakes. Wisdom of the Serpent: The
Myths of Death, Rebirth, Resurrection. New York: Macmillan, 1971.
832. Hick, John H. Death and Eternal Life. New York: Harper & Row, 1976.
Providing a thorough survey and analysis of the afterlife, Hick’s work exam-
ines religious traditions and philosophical theories to firmly conclude that there
is the existence of life beyond death. Hick suggests that the best hypothesis is a
blending of Eastern and Western approaches to the subject. The text explores the
concepts of global theology, reincarnation, purgatory, humanism, parapsychol-
ogy, epiphenomenalism, universalism, karma and vedantic philosophies, rebirth
in the Buddhist tradition, pareschatology, nirvana, spiritualism, and Christian
mysticism. Includes a bibliography and an index.
833. Kantonen, T. A. Life after Death. Philadelphia: Fortress Press, 1962.
834. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. On Life after Death. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts,
1991.
In this 96-page paperback, the acclaimed thanatologist discusses her thoughts
and feelings on the afterlife. Includes four essays: “Living and Dying”; “There Is
No Death”; Life, Death, and Life after Death”; and “Death of a Parent.”
835. Mayer, Gladys. Behind the Veils of Death and Sleep. New York: Krishna
Press, 1973. Also published by New Knowledge Books, East Grinstead, Sussex,
England.
In this 44-page paperback booklet, Mayer focuses on death and resurrection.
She muses on existing knowledge about life beyond death, spiritual knowledge
versus knowledge one looks for, the loss of imagination in the development of
intellect, definitions of death, and the etheric body. Includes discussions of purga-
tory, kama loca, and the Sun Sphere.
836. Moltmann, Jurgen. Theology of Hope: On the Ground and the Implica-
tions of a Christian Eschatology. New York: Harper & Row, 1967. First English
edition translated by James W. Leitch and published by SCM Press, London, in
1967.
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837. Shatte, Howard Alexander. Time and Its End: A Comparative Existential
Interpretation of Time and Eschatology. New York: Vantage Press, 1962.
838. Simpson, Michael. Death and Eternal Life. Notre Dame, IN: Fides Pub-
lishers, 1971.
839. Strothmann, Maynard Herman. Eschatology and the Mission of Christian-
ity. Ann Arbor, MI: University Microfilms, 1956. Publication No. 16,825.
840. Tompkins, Susan E. Is Death the End? London: Christian Education
Movement, 1979.
841. Toynbee, Arnold et al. Life after Death. London: Weidenfeld & Nicolson,
1976.
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Ethical Issues
842. Alters, Sandra. Death and Dying: Who Decides? Detroit, MI: Thomson
Gale, 2005.
843. Baird, Robert M., and Stuart E. Rosenbaum. Euthanasia: The Moral Is-
sues. Buffalo, NY: Prometheus Books, 1989.
844. Battin, Margaret Pabst. Ending Life: Ethics and the Way We Die. New
York: Oxford University Press, 2005.
Intended as a sequel to Battin’s The Least Worst Death: Essays in Bioethics on
the End of Life, this work explores the rapidly changing landscape of bioethics
in the context of death and dying issues. This collection of essays examines such
expected end-of-life issues as suicide in old age, death with dignity, and hospice
but also topics that have received less treatment in the literature, for example
global justice as it relates to the supposed duty to die, genetic prognostication,
serpent-handling and other religious practices that pose a death risk, and suicide
bombings. She also explores the refusal of medical treatment, the ethical aspects
of increased life span, and terminal procedure. An interesting chapter is incorpo-
rated on the same-day deaths of John Adams and Thomas Jefferson (July 4, 1826)
and possible implications for bioethics. Includes a thorough index and numerous
references. Battin is a noted bioethicist and distinguished professor of philosophy
and adjunct professor of internal medicine in the Division of Medical Ethics at
the University of Utah.
845. ———. The Least Worst Death: Essays in Bioethics on the End of Life.
New York: Oxford University Press, 1994.
Battin’s text focuses on end-of-life issues, specifically withdrawing or with-
holding care. She explores the “duty to die” concept and how other countries and
cultures address these issues sociologically. This book is an excellent review of
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the politics of dying and the cultural issues surrounding death. Battin is profes-
sor of philosophy and adjunct professor of internal medicine at the University of
Utah’s Division of Medical Ethics.
846. Bayles, Michael D. Medical Treatment of the Dying: Moral Issues. Cam-
bridge, MA: Schenkman Publishing Co., 1978.
847. Beauchamp, Tom L., and Seymour Perlin, eds. Ethical Issues in Death and
Dying. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1978. Published by Prentice-Hall,
Saddle River, NJ, in 1996, with Robert M. Veach as coauthor.
Includes Peter M. Black’s “Definitions of Brain Death.”
848. Bender, David L., and Richard Hagen. Death and Dying: Opposing View-
points. St. Paul, MN: Greenhaven Press, 1985. Published in 1974 and 1981 as
Problems of Death: Opposing Viewpoints. William Dudley was the book editor
for the 1992 edition.
This book is a collection of articles on controversial issues surrounding death.
It is ideal for high school and college audiences. Major areas covered are eutha-
nasia, abortion, suicide, and the funeral industry. Articles presented are from both
individuals and organizations. Includes bibliographies of periodical articles for
each subject, an appendix of organizations, and discussion activities. Bender is the
editor of the Opposing Viewpoints series and has authored most of the titles.
849. Berger, Arthur S. Dying and Death in Law and Medicine: A Forensic
Primer for Health and Legal Professionals. Westport, CT: Praeger, 1993.
Berger reviews legal and medical issues as well as important decisions that
come before and after death. He examines right-to-die issues, advanced direc-
tives, defining and determining death, anatomical gifts, and sources of legal
information along with appropriate forms. Appendixes include death-related
statutes and common law doctrines and a guide to the law library, which also
serves as a helpful glossary. A bibliography and table of cases are incorporated.
Medical foreword by David V. Schapira and legal foreword by Judge Raphael
Steinhardt. Berger is director of the International Institute for the Study of Death
and vice president of cross-cultural affairs for the Foundation of Thanatology at
the Columbia-Presbyterian Medical Center in New York City.
850. Brodie, Howard. Ethical Decisions in Medicine. Boston: Little, Brown &
Co., 1976.
851. Brown, Judy. The Choice: Seasons of Loss and Renewal after a Father’s
Decision to Die. Berkeley, CA: Conari Press, 1995.
This book is an exploration of family relationships when someone is termi-
nally ill and focusing on decisions to continue treatment. The death of Brown’s
father, Stanley Ball, was a suicide assisted by Dr. Jack Kevorkian, the patholo-
gist in Michigan often associated with the subject of assisted suicide. Ball was
Kevorkian’s tenth assisted suicide. Includes an extensive bibliography.
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852. Cutler, Donald R. Updating Life and Death: Essays in Ethics and Medi-
cine. Boston: Beacon Press, 1969.
853. Dodder, Clyde, and Barbara Dodder, eds. Suicide. Boston: Beacon Press,
1970.
854. Doka, Kenneth J., and Bruce Jennings. Ethical Dilemmas at the End of
Life. Washington, DC: Hospice Foundation of America, 2005.
855. Dyck, Arthur J. Life’s Worth: The Case against Assisted Suicide. Grand
Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 2002.
856. Freeman, Eugene. Bioethical Problems: Death and Social Responsibility.
LaSalle, IL: Open Court Publishing, 1978.
857. Gervais, Karen Grandstrand. Redefining Death. New Haven, CT: Yale
University Press, 1986.
Gervais, associate professor of philosophy at Illinois Wesleyan University,
makes the point that the “morally relevant notion of human life necessarily in-
volves existence as a person and that such an existence is present only when the
brain allows for the possibility of consciousness.” She uses this theory to suggest
that people who are demonstrably in persistent vegetative states are clearly dead
in the same manner that brain-dead patients are. Gervais advocates for a public
policy that defines death as the “permanent cessation of consciousness,” still
allowing for patients and their families to choose something less for their own
treatment. In the book, she discusses the conceptual problems with death, defini-
tions of death, and an analysis of the Uniform Declaration of Death Act. Includes
extensive notes and references.
858. Group for the Advancement of Psychiatry, Symposium No. 12. The Right
to Die: Decision and Decision Makers. New York: Group for the Advancement
of Psychiatry, 1973.
This book is a collection of writings on the debate over the right to die and
euthanasia.
859. Guroian, Vigen. Life’s Living toward Dying: A Theological and Medical–
Ethical Study. Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 1996.
860. Hafen, Brent Q., and Kathryn J. Frandsen. Faces of Death: Grief, Dying,
Euthanasia, Suicide. Englewood, CO: Morton Publishing, 1983.
861. Hardwig, John, and Nat Hentoff. Is There a Duty to Die?: And Other Es-
says in Bio-Ethics. New York: Routledge, 2000.
862. Hillyard, Daniel, and John Dombrink. Dying Right: The Death with Dig-
nity Movement. New York: Routledge, 2001.
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863. Horan, Dennis J., and David Mall, eds. Death, Dying, and Euthanasia.
Washington, DC: University Publications of America, 1977. Also published by
Alethia Books, Frederick, MD, in 1980.
864. Humber, James M., and Robert F. Almeder. Is There a Duty to Die?
Totowa, NJ: Humana Press, 2000.
865. Humphry, Derek. Final Exit: The Practicalities of Self-Deliverance and
Assisted Suicide for the Dying. Eugene, OR: Hemlock Society, 1991.
Humphry, founder of the Hemlock Society in 1980, in California, offers a con-
troversial book on the practicalities of euthanasia. The book jacket notes that it
is “intended to be read by a mature adult who is suffering from a terminal illness
and is considering the option of rational suicide if and when suffering becomes
unbearable.” Topics covered include selecting a doctor, legal issues, hospice op-
tions, cyanide, self-starvation, storing drugs, insurance, autopsies, and physician-
assisted dying. Also includes the grizzly chapter “Bizarre Ways to Die,” which
includes sections on electrocution, drowning, shooting, ovens, car exhausts, and
poisonous plants, among others. Includes a list of recommended titles and infor-
mation about both the author and the society.
866. ———. Let Me Die before I Wake: Hemlock’s Book of Self-Deliverance for
the Dying. New York: Dell Publishing Co., 1992. Originally published in 1981
and sold only to members of the Hemlock Society.
Referred to as the “Bible of Euthanasia” on 60 Minutes, in this book Humphry
tells the true stories of those who have chosen to end their lives in the face of
terminal illness. Includes information about laws governing assisted suicide and
euthanasia in several states.
867. Jatz, Jay, and Alexander Morgan Capron. Catastrophic Diseases: Who
Decides What? New York: Russell Sage Foundation, 1975.
868. Kilner, John F., and Arlene B. Miller. The Center for Bioethics and Hu-
man Dignity Presents Dignity and Dying: A Christian Appraisal. Grand Rapids,
MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 1996.
869. Kleespies, Phillip M. Life and Death Decisions: Psychological and Ethi-
cal Considerations in End-of-Life Care. Washington, DC: American Psychologi-
cal Association, 2004.
870. Kung, Hans, and Walter Jens. Dying with Dignity: A Plea for Personal
Responsibility. New York: Continuum, 1995. Includes contributions by Dietrich
Niethammer and Albin Eser. Translated by John Bowden from the original Ger-
man edition published by R. Piper GmbH & Co., Munich, in 1995. First British
edition published by SCM Press, London, in 1995.
Controversial German theologian Kung argues that “there should be no com-
pulsion to die but there should be no compulsion to live either.” A Christian who
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901. Vaux, Kenneth L. Will to Live—Will to Die: Ethics and the Search for a
Good Death. Minneapolis, MN: Augsburg, 1978.
902. Veatch, Robert M. Death, Dying, and the Biological Revolution: Our Last
Quest for Responsibility. New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, 1976. Revised
edition published in 1989.
Veatch’s scholarly book explores issues of morality and ethics surround-
ing death and dying. He muses on whether death is moral in a technological
age, the ethics of choosing not to prolong dying, and the notion of a “good
death.” He suggests possible definitions of death and offers insights into the
matters of stopping versus not starting treatments, direct versus indirect kill-
ing, and allowing to live versus allowing to die. He also explores decisions to
refuse treatment, surrogates in decision making, public policy issues of dying
morally, and organ donation. Includes a bibliography and list of legal cases
pertinent to the book accompanied by a description of what issue each case
addresses.
904. Walton, Douglas N. Brain Death: Ethical Considerations. West Lafayette,
IN: Purdue University Press, 1980.
905. Weir, Robert F., ed. Ethical Issues in Death and Dying. New York: Co-
lumbia University Press, 1977. Second edition published in 1986.
Weir, a philosophy professor at Oklahoma State University, presents thirty-six
articles on various ethical issues surrounding death and dying. They are divided
into sections on truth telling with the terminally ill patient, problems of defining
death and determining when death has occurred, selective nontreatment of handi-
capped newborns, physicians’ responsibilities to critically ill and dying patients,
euthanasia, and suicide. Contributors include Robert M. Veatch, M. Pabst Battin,
and Edwin S. Shneidman.
906. ———, ed. Physician-Assisted Suicide. Bloomington: Indiana University
Press, 1997.
907. Williams, Mary E. Do the Terminally Ill Have a Right to Die? San Diego,
CA: Greenhaven Press, 2001.
908. ———. Should Physicians Be Permitted to Hasten the Deaths of Termi-
nally Ill Patients? San Diego, CA: Greenhaven Press, 2001.
909. Williams, Robert H., ed. To Live and to Die: When, Why, and How. New
York: Springer-Verlag, 1973.
Williams, a former faculty member at Harvard Medical School, and numerous
well-published contributors explore compelling questions surrounding death and
other topics. They discuss ethics of organ donation and transplantation and its
implications on identity, care of dying patients, major goals in promoting life or
death, and lessons from the dying.
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910. Yount, Lisa. Physician-Assisted Suicide and Euthanasia. New York: Facts
on File, 2000.
911. Zucker, Marjorie B. The Right to Die Debate: A Documentary History.
Westport, CT: Greenwood Press, 1999.
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912. Arnold, Johann Christoph. Be Not Afraid: Overcoming the Fear of Death.
Maryknoll, NY: Orbis Books, 2003.
Arnold, a pastoral counselor, tells the stories of people who have courageously
greeted death without fear. He uses several anecdotes from Tolstoy, Dickens,
and others to show how life can be lived without the anxieties and fears associ-
ated with death and dying. He suggests that death can be met with confidence.
The book is written from a Christian perspective and includes numerous biblical
references.
913. Becker, Ernest. The Denial of Death. New York: Free Press, 1973. Pub-
lished by Peter Smith in 1998.
With the premise that man’s innate fear of death is a principal source of his
activity throughout life, Becker presents a thorough and original examination of
the fear and frequent denial of death. He investigates and illustrates how humans
attempt to transcend death through religion, narcissism, heroism, charisma, and
neurosis. Becker won the Pulitzer Prize for this book in 1974 and died the same
year. Includes extensive references and an index.
914. Berger, Arthur S., and Joyce Berger. Fear of the Unknown: Enlightened
Aid-in-Dying. Westport, CT: Praeger, 1995.
915. Bermann, Eric. Scapegoat: The Impact of Death-Fear on an American
Family. Ann Arbor: University of Michigan Press, 1973. Also cited as being
published by Greenhaven Press in 1974.
In this scholarly analysis of death fear and its effects, Bermann explores
themes of death-terror, fear as an organizing theme, defenses against “know-
ing” and “feeling,” thanatophobic countermeasures, cognitive dysfunction as a
family style, and fate and dissipation of anger. A concluding chapter includes a
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924. McCarthy, J. Fearful Living: The Fear of Death. New York: Halsted
Press, 1979.
925. Noys, Benjamin. The Culture of Death. New York: Berg, 2005.
Pointing out Western culture’s obsession with death, Noys examines death in
the new millennium with fears of terrorism and other sudden threats. He notes
that societies today live in an “age of panic” and discusses the politicization of
death, bioethics, and the meaning of death. Includes a bibliography, filmography,
and list of Internet sites.
926. Williams, Tom A. Dreads and Besetting Fears. Boston: Little, Brown,
1923.
927. Worden, J. William, and W. Proctor. PDA (Personal Death Awareness):
Breaking Free of Fear to Live a Better Life Now. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-
Hall, 1976.
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928. Agee, James. A Death in the Family. New York: Bantam, 1985. Originally
published in 1957.
929. Aiken, Lewis R. Dying, Death, and Bereavement. 4th ed. Mahwah, NJ:
Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 2001. Published by Allyn & Bacon, Boston, in
1985 and 1991.
This textbook provides general information on mortality and thanatology and
explores causes and circumstances of death, cultural beliefs and customs, human
development and death, and dying and surviving. Some treatment of aging, ac-
cidental death, suicide and homicide, legal issues, fears of death, and hospice are
also included. Appendixes include a list of organizations concerned with death
and dying; a short bibliography of books for children and adolescents on death
and dying; and instruments for assessing fears, anxiety, and attitudes toward
death. The chapter on children and death contains a verbatim conversation be-
tween a father and his ten-year-old daughter from Robert Jay Lifton’s The Broken
Connection: On Death and the Continuity of Life and a brief section on children’s
games and sayings about death. An instructor’s manual for this text is available
from the publisher.
930. Alden, Henry M. A Study of Death. St. Clair Shores, MI: Scholarly Press,
1976.
931. Backer, Barbara A., Natalie Hannon, and Noreen A. Russell. Death and
Dying: Individuals and Institutions. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 1982.
Attempting to provide a framework for organizing disparate research on thana-
tology, the authors offer a proposed integration of the thanatological literature.
As noted in the preface, they “identify patterns and responses to death and dy-
ing in American society; discuss problems related to the termination of life; and
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examine the structure and processes of interaction among the terminally ill, their
families, and helping professionals.” Emphasizing the caring aspects of health
care for the dying rather than curing aspects, the authors offer their underlying
principle of insisting that caregivers be “exposed to a humanistic approach to
counterbalance the industrialization of health care in the United States.” Topics
covered include death attitudes, effects of forbidden death, perceptions of death,
dying as a process, fear of death and dying, stigma, the evolution of hospital
care, caregivers’ responses to dying patients, communication about death, pain
control, children’s concepts of death, parental loss, infant death, a definition of
death, redefining death, the right to refuse treatment, euthanasia, suicide, funeral
functions and history, pathological grief reactions, therapeutic intervention with
the bereaved, cross-cultural perspectives, grief reactions, the milieu of death, the
death movement, and society’s response to death and dying. Sections include
summaries, learning exercises, audiovisual material lists, and references. An ap-
pendix provides addresses of audiovisual distributors. Includes an index.
932. Bertman, Sandra L. Facing Death: Images, Insights, and Interventions: A
Handbook for Educators, Healthcare Professionals, and Counselors. New York:
Hemisphere Publishing, 1991. Part of the Series in Death Education, Aging, and
Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
Acknowledging the significant achievements of thanatological research during
the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s, Bertman points out that much of the contribution
to the knowledge base has been in the biological and behavioral sciences. She
attempts to remedy this with explorations into the arts and humanities. Herman
Feifel notes in his foreword that Bertman “underscores how the arts not only can
provide a vital adjunct in teaching and counseling for the thanatologist but also
how they can serve as an avenue for self-discovery.” According to Bertman, “The
arts cannot stay the flights of the birds of sorrow, but they can help us to better
appreciate and endure them.” Her text discusses the use of the arts to stimulate
dialogue, reveal concerns, enable grieving, and provide consolation. All in the
context of arts and humanities, she addresses views of mortality and immortality,
existential aloneness, the art of dying, tolerance for ambivalence, and responses
to death images among various audiences. A separate chapter focuses on guide-
lines for using the arts in this context and new approaches to counseling. Ap-
pendixes feature a nine-question, multiple-choice death attitudes questionnaire;
a presentation evaluation form for “Facing Death: A Most Memorable Image”;
and a first-year course syllabus for “Medical Humanities: On Dissection, Dying
and Death.” Includes numerous images and illustrations as well as a bibliography.
Bertman directs the program in medical humanities at the University of Massa-
chusetts Medical Center in Worcester.
933. Blackwell, Roger D. Living with Death. Old Tappan, NJ: Revell, 1978.
934. Bland, Olivia. The Royal Way of Death. London: Constable, 1986.
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935. Bleckman, Isaac A., and Kurt J. Guggenheimer. Death and Dying, A to Z:
A Loose-Leaf Encyclopedic Handbook on Death and Dying and Related Subjects.
Queens Village, NY: Croner Publications, 1980.
Bleckman and Guggenheimer offer an extensive directory on all things death-
related, including U.S. and foreign hospices, suicide prevention centers and
agencies, universities and national organizations offering gerontology studies,
and V.A. national cemeteries. The book also includes information on Medicare
reimbursement for hospice care, right-to-die issues and laws by state, narrative on
religion and death, taxes, the philosophy of death, body donation, and the funeral
industry. An extensive bibliography is also included.
936. Bloch, Maurice, and Jonathan Parry, eds. Death and the Regeneration of
Life. New York: Cambridge University Press, 1982.
937. Bloom, Shalom. Death, Dying, and Terminal Illness. Lexington, MA:
Xerox College Publishing, 1973.
938. Boros, Ladislaus. Mystery of Death. New York: Seabury Press, 1973.
939. Bradley, Buff. Endings: A Book about Death. Reading, MA: Addison-
Wesley, 1979.
940. Bregman, Lucy, and Sara Thiermann. First Person Mortal: Personal Nar-
ratives of Dying, Death, and Grief. New York: Paragon House, 1995.
941. Brouardel, Paul, and F. Lucas Benham. Death and Sudden Death. New
York: William Wood, 1902. A translation of Brouardel’s La mort et la mort
subite.
942. Bryant, Clifton D., ed. Handbook of Death and Dying. Thousand Oaks,
CA: Sage Publications, 2003.
943. Bugen, Larry A., ed. Death and Dying: Theory, Research, and Practice.
Dubuque, IA: William C. Brown Company, 1979.
944. Bultmann, Rudolph. Life and Death. New York: Fernhill, 1965.
945. Burland, C. A. Myths of Life and Death. New York: Crown Publishers,
1974.
946. Carey, Gabrielle, and Rosemary Lee Sorensen. The Penguin Book of
Death. New York: Penguin Books, 1996.
947. Carr, Thomas K. Introducing Death and Dying: Readings and Exercises.
Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 2005.
948. Cassell, Dana K., Robert C. Salinas, and Peter S. Winn. The Encyclopedia
of Death and Dying. New York: Facts on File, 2005.
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From abandonment of the dying to wrongful death, the authors present an ex-
tensive encyclopedic treatment of death and dying for all audiences. In addition
to a lengthy bibliography and an index, the volume contains thirteen appendixes.
They include an advance care plan document from Project GRACE (Guidelines
for Resuscitation and Care at End-of-Life); odds on death due to injury from the
National Safety Council (includes numbers of deaths, one-year odds, and lifetime
odds); death and mortality statistics from the Centers for Disease Control; infor-
mation on end-of-life care at home from the National Cancer Institute; text on
where to write for death certificates in the United States, including cost and other
pertinent information; U.S. war death statistics; a checklist for end-of-life plan-
ning; information on what to know for funeral preplanning; a list of organization
and help groups; a listing of death care industry and consumer organizations; a
compilation of websites offering resources and help; and a section of museums
of funeral customs and history. The introduction includes a brief cultural history
of death and dying and information about death and funeral practices in modern
times. A special section on Native American burial customs is also included.
949. Chaney, Patricia S., ed. Dealing with Death and Dying. Horsham, PA:
Intermed Communications, 1980. Chaney is also author of Dealing with Death
and Dying—Nursing Skillbook, published by Intermed in 1976.
950. Chidester, David. Patterns of Transcendence: Religion, Death, and Dying.
Belmont, CA: Wadsworth Publishing Group, 1990.
951. Choron, Jacques. Death and Modern Man. New York: Collier Books,
1971. Originally published as Modern Man and Mortality by Macmillan, New
York, in 1964.
952. ———. Suicide. New York: Scribner, 1972.
953. Clark, David. The Sociology of Death: Theory, Culture, Practice. Oxford,
UK; Cambridge, MA: Blackwell Publishers/Sociological Review, 1993.
954. Clemens, Christopher, and Mark Smith. Death: Grim Realities and Comic
Relief. New York: Delacorte Press, 1982.
955. Cope, Gilbert, ed. Dying, Death, and Disposal. London: Society for the
Promotion of Christian Knowledge, 1970.
956. Corless, Inge B., and Barbara B. Germino. A Challenge for Living: Dying,
Death, and Bereavement. Boston: Jones and Bartlett, 1995. Also published by
Springer as Dying, Death, and Bereavement: A Challenge for Living in 2003.
957. ———. Dying, Death, and Bereavement: A Challenge for Living. New
York: Springer, 2003. Published by Jones and Bartlett, Boston, in 1995, as A
Challenge for Living: Dying, Death, and Bereavement.
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covering the health professions, social sciences, and humanities. Each chapter
offers a reading list. Photographs, illustrations, graphs, quotes, and anecdotes
accompany the text.
967. ———. The Path Ahead: Readings in Death and Dying. Mountain View,
CA: Mayfield Publishing Co., 1995.
968. Dickenson, Donna L., Malcolm Lewis Johnson, and Jeanne Samson Katz.
Death, Dying, and Bereavement. 2nd ed. Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications,
in association with the Open University, 2000. Originally published in 1993.
In this revised and updated version of the popular first edition, the editors
present a collection of articles covering a broad spectrum of issues related to
death, dying, and bereavement. The articles are divided into the sections “Life
and Death,” “Caring for Dying People,” “Dilemmas and Decisions at the End
of Life,” and “Bereavement: Private Grief, Collective Responsibility.” A great
diversity of writings, the book includes research, valuable information, stories,
personal reflections, and poems. Topics covered include the concept of the good
death, approaches to death in Hindu and Sikh communities, palliative care, living
with muscular sclerosis, complementary medicine for the dying, communicating
with dying children, dying trajectories, Jewish perspectives on death, intimacy
and terminal care, do not resuscitate decisions, right-to-die issues, resource al-
location and palliative care, cross-cultural perspectives on bereavement, single
parents losing only children, gay and lesbian bereavement, and epitaphs. Refer-
ences are included for each article.
969. Doka, Kenneth J., and John D. Morgan. Death and Spirituality. Ami-
tyville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1993. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning
Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
970. Donne, John. Death and Dying. New York: Arno Press, 1977.
971. Donnelly, John. Language, Metaphysics, and Death. New York: Fordham
University Press, 1978. Reprinted in 1994.
972. Dublin, Louis I. Factbook on Man from Birth to Death. New York: Mac-
millan, 1965.
973. Ducasse, Curt John. Nature, Mind, and Death. La Salle, IL: Open Court
Publishing, 1951.
974. Durkheim, Emile. Suicide. New York: Free Press, 1966. Translated by
John A. Spaulding and George Simpson.
975. Eckert, William G., ed. Introduction to Forensic Sciences. 2nd ed. Boca
Raton, FL: CRC Press, 1997.
976. ———. On Death. Wichita, KS: International Reference Organization in
Forensic Medicine, 1967.
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In this book, Eckert assembles numerous articles on the forensic sciences. Top-
ics include forensic psychiatry, the role of the forensic laboratory, pathology and
toxicology, bloodstain pattern interpretation, legal issues, and scientific evidence
in court.
977. Elliot, Gil. Twentieth Century Book of the Dead. New York: Scribner,
1972.
978. Enright, D. J. The Oxford Book of Death. New York: Oxford University
Press, 2002.
Enright presents a compilation of quotes, writings, poems, and essays about
death divided by subject to include the hour of death, suicide, views and attitudes,
mourning, graveyards and funerals, resurrections and immortalities, hereafters,
revenants, war, plague, persecution, love and death, children and death, epitaphs,
requiems, and last words.
979. Evans, W. E. D. The Chemistry of Death. Springfield, IL: Charles C.
Thomas, 1963.
980. Evans-Wentz, W. E., ed. The Tibetan Book of the Dead. New York: Ox-
ford University Press, 1927.
981. Ezell, G., D. J. Anspaugh, and J. Oaks. Death and Dying: From a Health
and Sociological Perspective. Scottsdale, AZ: Gorsuch Scarisbrick, 1987.
982. Farrell, James J. Inventing the American Way of Death, 1830–1920. Phila-
delphia: Temple University Press, 1980. Part of the American Civilization series,
Allen F. Davis, editor.
Treating death as a cultural event, Farrell illustrates how societies and civili-
zations reveal themselves in their attitudes and approaches to death, dying, and
bereavement. Farrell looks at the cosmological contexts of death, scientific natu-
ralism, the development of the modern cemetery, modernization of the funeral
service, and the meaning and management of death in an Illinois county. Includes
notes and an index.
983. Flew, Anthony, ed. Body, Mind, and Death. New York: Macmillan,
1964.
984. Flumiani, Carlo M. Life and Death. Albuquerque, NM: American Classi-
cal College Press, 1972.
985. Forbes, John Douglas. Death Warmed Over. Elizabeth, NJ: Pageant Press
International/Poseidon Press, 1975.
986. Forrai, Maria S., and Rebecca Anders. A Look at Death. Minneapolis,
MN: Lerner Publications, 1977. Part of the Lerner Awareness Series.
Forrai’s black-and-white photographs help convey the concept of death, im-
portance of grief, and customs of mourning followed by young people. Includes
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This book is a collection of essays on death and dying in the context of a post–
9/11 society. Family grief, traumatic grief, terrorism, and collective reintegration
are major themes. A special essay is incorporated titled “The 9/11 Firehouse
Project.” Includes biographical information on the fourteen contributors.
1004. Hendin, David. Death as a Fact of Life. New York: W. W. Norton,
1973.
1005. Hickman, Tom. Death: A User’s Guide. New York: Delta/Bantam Dell,
2003. Ebury Press edition published in 2002.
Hickman puts forth a bizarre collection of stories, factoids, explanations, an-
ecdotes, and historical references about death. Amidst the humor and unusual
presentation, he offers some interesting facts and narratives on death attitudes,
cultural variations on death and dying, and views toward burial practices. In-
cludes a useful index.
1006. Hockey, Jennifer Lorna. Experiences of Death: An Anthropological Ac-
count. Edinburgh, Scotland: Edinburgh University Press, 1990. Distributed in
North America by Columbia University Press, New York.
1007. Houghton, Peter. On Death, Dying, and Not Dying. Philadelphia: Jessica
Kingsley Publishers, 2001.
1008. Howarth, Glennys, and Oliver Leaman. Encyclopedia of Death and Dy-
ing. London: Routledge, 2001.
1009. Hughes, Richard. The Radiant Shock of Death. New York: P. Lang,
1995.
1010. Jackson, Charles O. Passing: The Vision of Death in America. Westport,
CT: Greenwood Press, 1977.
1011. Jones, Constance. R.I.P.: The Complete Book of Death and Dying. New
York: HarperCollins Publishers, 1997.
1012. Jones, William Tudor. Metaphysics of Life and Death. New York:
George H. Doran, 1924.
1013. Kalish, Richard A., ed. Death, Dying, Transcending. Farmingdale, NY:
Baywood Publishing, 1979. Part of the Perspectives on Death and Dying series,
volume 3. Series also cited as Perspectives on Death in Human Experience.
Through fifteen articles from various contributors, Kalish gives a survey of
perspectives on dying and the transcendence of death. Articles examine meanings
of death, attitudes toward death, and bereavement. Topics include the onset of the
dying process, clinical research and the stages of dying, slow death, a psychoso-
cial analysis of cancer deaths, differences in bereavement due to type of death,
social organization and death, and attitudes toward the right to die among older
people. The final section features two odd essays. One discusses the experience
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of dying from falls using a study undertaken by Zurich geology professor Albert
Heim, who collected the subjective observations of survivors of falls in the Alps.
Another titled “The Coffin” muses on dying, being placed in a coffin after having
clothes removed, and then transcending back to a birth state.
1014. ———. Death, Grief, and Caring Relationships. Monterey, CA: Brooks/
Cole Publishing Co., 1981. Reprinted in 1985.
While this book is organized like a textbook, the author’s intent, as noted in
his preface, is to “write for people who want one book to give [them] the most
understanding of death, the process of dying, and grief.” Kalish discusses the
meaning of death, definitions of death, near-death experiences, attitudes toward
death, awareness of death, religion and immortality, death anxiety, childhood
death and bereavement, causes of death, the dying trajectory, what “dying”
means, the stages of dying, denial, grieving processes, normal responses to death,
the concept of a broken heart, bereavement roles and rituals, funerals, caring
relationships in health care settings, mental health issues, and caring organiza-
tions. Includes references and name and subject indexes.
1015. Karim, Abul Bashr Mohammed Fazlul. Death: Medical, Spiritual, and
Social Care of the Dying. Amsterdam, Netherlands: VU University Press, 1998.
1016. Kastenbaum, Robert J. Between Life and Death. New York: Springer.
Part of the Springer Series on Death and Suicide, volume 1, Robert J. Kasten-
baum, series editor.
1017. ———. The Care of the Aged, the Dying, and the Dead. New York: Arno
Press, 1977.
1018. ———, ed. Death and Dying. New York: Arno Press, 1977.
A total of 40 volumes.
1019. ———. Death and the Visual Arts: An Original Arno Press Anthology.
New York: Arno Press, 1977.
1020. ———. Death as a Speculative Theme in Religious, Scientific, and Social
Thought: An Original Anthology. New York: Arno Press, 1977.
1021. ———. Death, Society, and Human Experience. 4th ed. Columbus, OH:
Merrill, 1991. Second edition published by C. V. Mosby, St. Louis, in 1977.
Published by Allyn & Bacon, Boston, in 2000.
Kastenbaum, professor of psychology at the University of Massachusetts, Bos-
ton, provides an overview of issues surrounding death and dying and how society
deals with death. With a textbook approach, Kastenbaum discusses definitions of
death, the death system, death and disaster, issues in dying, care of the dying, and
bereavement. In his chapter on the positions between life and death, he presents
a thought-provoking list of images that illustrate the possibilities for the reader’s
own life-death trajectories. He also offers an overview of Kübler-Ross’s five
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stages as well as some of his criticisms of the stages approach. Includes a list of
suggested readings.
1022. ———. Macmillan Encyclopedia of Death and Dying. New York: Mac-
millan Reference USA, 2003.
1023. Kastenbaum, Robert J., and Ruth Aisenberg. The Psychology of Death.
New York: Springer, 1972. Also published by Duckworth, London, in 1974.
Concise edition by Springer, New York, in 1976. Second edition published by
Springer, New York, in 1992.
In this important classic of thanatological literature, Kastenbaum explores the
changing conceptions of death. He writes about death attitudes and perceptions,
constructing death, death anxiety, grief and mourning, and deathbed scenes. In-
cludes notes and an index. For the 1992 edition, Kastenbaum provides a preface
that provides a chronology of each edition with narrative about each one.
1024. Kastenbaum, Robert J., and Beatrice Kastenbaum, eds. Encyclopedia of
Death. Phoenix, AZ: Oryx Press, 1989. Published with the subtitle Myth, History,
Philosophy, Science, by Avon Books, New York, in 1993.
1025. Kauffman, Jeffrey. Awareness of Mortality. Amityville, NY: Baywood
Publishing, 1995. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan,
editor.
1026. Kearl, Michael C. Endings: A Sociology of Death and Dying. New York:
Oxford University Press, 1989.
An appropriate textbook for a college course on death, Kearl’s book explores
death’s revelations of life, meanings of death in cross-cultural and historical per-
spectives, cemeteries as cultural institutions, impacts of death on society, social
stratifications, death and religion, secular perspectives, death and work, politics
of death, death and the military, death as a theme in popular culture, the medical
system’s approach to death, and the social psychology of dying and surviving.
He also addresses AIDS and the effects of mass death on the social order, suicide
and homicide, funeral rituals and obituaries, death fears, desacralization of death,
abortion, genocide, capital punishment, war, terrorism, and death in cinema and
television. Includes quotes, photographs, charts, short news clips, extensive refer-
ences, and a thorough index.
1027. Keizer, Bert. Dancing with Mr. D: Notes on Life and Death. New York:
Nan A. Talese/Doubleday, 1997. Translated from Dutch by the author.
A bestseller in the Netherlands, Keizer’s book is an autobiographical journey
through his experiences with the terminally ill. A physician who has training in
philosophy, he offers insights into the placebo effect, physician attitudes toward
alternative medicine, the overestimated power of medicine, the strangeness of
the phrase “to die,” and euthanasia, a legal practice in the Netherlands. This is a
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notable work for medical students and others in the helping professions. Includes
several stories from Keizer’s experience in nursing homes.
1028. Kellehear, Allan. Eternity and Me: The Everlasting Things in Life and
Death. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2004. Part of the Death, Value, and
Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1029. Knox, Jean McBee. Death and Dying. New York: Chelsea House Pub-
lishers, 1989.
Intended for juvenile audiences, Knox gently discusses death from a historical
perspective, dying with dignity, and grief. Introduction by C. Everett Koop.
1030. Koop, C. Everett. The Right to Life, the Right to Die. Wheaton, IL: Tyn-
dale House Publishers, 1976.
1031. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. Death: The Final Stage of Growth. New York:
Simon & Schuster, 1986. Several reprints. Originally published by Prentice-Hall,
Englewood Cliffs, NJ, in 1975.
Perhaps the scholar and author most associated with death and dying in both
popular and scholarly communities, Kübler-Ross offers this important collec-
tion of essays that explore a death as a personal experience, a common theme
in Kübler-Ross’s writings. Articles discuss the organizational context of dying,
the notion of choice in dying among Alaskan Indians, Jewish views of death
and mourning, death in Hindu and Buddhist contexts, terminal illness, grief and
growth through funerals, and dying as the last stage of growth. Includes several
personal essays by Kübler-Ross and other contributors. Also includes references
and an appeal to contribute to the CARE World Hunger Fund.
1032. ———. The Tunnel and the Light: Essential Insights on Living and Dying.
New York: Marlowe & Co., 1999.
1033. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth, and David Kessler. Life Lessons: Two Experts
on Death and Dying Teach Us about the Mysteries of Life and Living. New York:
Scribner, 2000.
1034. Kushner, Harold S. When Bad Things Happen to Good People. New
York: Avon Books, 1981.
1035. Kutscher, Austin H., ed. Death and Bereavement. Springfield, IL:
Charles C. Thomas, 1969.
1036. Lack, Sylvia A., and Richard Lamerton, eds. The Hour of Death. Lon-
don: G. Chapman, 1974.
1037. Langue, John. Death Is a Noun: A View of the End of Life. Boston: Little,
Brown, 1972.
1038. ———. Vital Signs (The Way We Die in America). Boston: Little, Brown,
1974.
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1039. Lawton, M. Powell, ed. Focus on the End of Life: Scientific and Social
Issues. New York: Springer, 2001. Part of the Annual Review of Gerontology
and Geriatrics, volume 20.
Contributors offer articles on ethics and spirituality, medical decision making,
quality-of-life trajectories of elders in the end of life, measuring quality of medi-
cal care for dying persons, comfort in older adults at the end of life, friendship in
dying, healthy elders’ early decisions for end-of-life living and dying, hospice,
nursing homes, ethnography at the end of life, and clinical issues.
1040. Leming, Michael R., and George E. Dickinson. Understanding Death,
Dying, and Bereavement. New York: Holt, Rinehart and Winston, 1985. Cited
as Understanding Dying, Death, and Bereavement in 2nd edition in 1990. Sixth
edition published by Wadsworth in 2006.
1041. Lepp, Ignace. Death and Its Mysteries. New York: Macmillan, 1968.
Translated by Bernard Murchland.
1042. Leviton, Daniel, ed. Horrendous Death, Health, and Well-Being. New
York: Hemisphere Publishing, 1991. Part of the Series in Death Education, Ag-
ing, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
Leviton presents a collection of articles covering a broad scope of horren-
dous death issues. Death types included are those resulting from war, homicide,
genocide, terrorism, assassination, political torture, environmental destruction,
unemployment and poverty as correlates of morbidity/mortality, malnutrition and
starvation, accidents, nuclear winter, and general violence. The contributors also
explore young adults’ responses to types of horrendous death, horrendous death
as a community health problem, the economics of terrorism, fear of death, and
the root of violence. Articles include references, resources pertinent to the topic,
sources for further study, and exercises appropriate for the classroom. Includes
an index.
1043. Lewis, C. S. A Grief Observed. London: Faber & Faber, 1961. Also pub-
lished by Seabury Press, New York.
1044. Lindholm, Dorothy. Death Is a Miracle. Norris, TN: Exposition, 1977.
Also cited as being published in Hicksville, NY.
1045. Lofland, Lyn H. Toward a Sociology of Death and Dying. Beverly Hills,
CA: Sage Publications, 1976. Part of Sage Contemporary Social Science Issues,
volume XXVIII.
1046. Maeterlinck, Maurice. Before the Great Silence. New York: Arno Press,
1976. Part of The Literature of Death and Dying series. Translated by B. Miall.
First edition published in 1937.
1047. ———. Death. New York: Arno Press, 1977. Originally published in
1912.
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1048. Marrone, Robert L. Death, Mourning, and Caring. Pacific Grove, CA:
Brooks/Cole Publishing Co., 1997.
Marrone’s textbook, appropriate for college audiences, begins with an
introduction to thanatology and a review of changing U.S. attitudes toward
death and dying. Several cross-cultural vignettes, statistics, charts, pop culture
references, and photographs make the coverage extremely thorough for a lay
audience. Among the numerous facets of death and dying explored are dying
trajectories; death and the media; invisible death; death denial and avoidance;
disease; homicide and suicide; near-death experiences; Kübler-Ross’s stage
model; accidental death; coping models; visiting and communicating with the
dying; grief and mourning; children and death; parental and sibling bereave-
ment; psychological reintegration and coping strategies; adolescent issues; fear
of death; anticipatory grief; tragic death; disenfranchised grief; psychospiritual
transformation; caregiving; hospice; death anxiety; right-to-die issues; and fu-
nerals and rituals, including details on various religious rites (Muslim, Baha’I,
Judaic, Mormon, Unitarian Universalist, Catholic, Hindu, and Buddhist). Also
includes sections on attitudes toward death in African American, Hispanic
American, Asian American, and Native American communities. A lengthy
chapter focused on additional resources features websites, annotated reading
lists arranged by death-related topic, worksheets, and a 54-page list of refer-
ences. Includes subject and name indexes.
1049. Mehta, Rohit. The Journey with Death. Mystic, CT: Verry, 1977. Also
published by Motilal Banarsidass Indological Publishers & Booksellers, Delhi,
India.
Mehta’s book is an exploration of the mystery of death that addresses the com-
mon questions about death, including What is death? Why does it come? Can we
communicate with the dead? Is death the end of existence? Mehta discusses the
“interval between lives” and entertains reincarnation. Includes several literary
references. Introduction by Joy Mills.
1050. Mims, Cedric. When We Die: The Science, Culture, and Rituals of Death.
New York: St. Martin’s Press, 1999.
Mims presents a surprisingly successful attempt at providing a comprehensive
look at the facts of death. He covers the definition of death, biological perspec-
tives, causes of death, burial and cremation practices from around the world,
organ transplantation, embalming, funeral rites and ceremonies, emotional issues
that surround death and the corpse, mourning and grieving customs, care of the
dying, pathology and criminal investigations, attitudes toward death and immor-
tality, and mythology of death. Includes a section of rather macabre photographs,
references, and an index.
1051. Mitford, Jessica. The American Way of Death. New York: Simon &
Schuster, 1963.
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papers presented at the Death and Dying Conference of the Committee of the
Psychology and Psychotherapy Association in Liverpool, England, on November
5, 1990. They were subsequently published in a special issue of Changes, as
noted above. Other authors contributed articles afterward. Topics include help-
ing children whose parents die of AIDS, death awareness, youth suicide, Turkish
genocide of the Armenians, death and dying in AIDS psychology, euthanasia
trends in Britain and Europe, loss and societal perspectives, disaster issues using
the Lockerbie tragedy as context, living with AIDS, old age and death, child-
hood cancer, bereavement among those with learning difficulties, the impact
of HIV/AIDS on the African community, preparing toddlers for the death of a
parent, and organizational pressures and role stresses in the lives of social work
teams. Includes notes, references, and a poem titled “Someone All Alone,” by
Sarah Joseph.
1056. Ogg, Elizabeth. Facing Death and Loss. Lancaster, PA: Technomic
Books, 1985.
Ogg’s book is based on two previously published public affairs pamphlets and
includes some reprinted passages from them. It is a general discussion of death
as a taboo topic, the notion of choosing death, the good death, hospice, terminal
care, children and death, grief and bereavement, and moving on. She includes nu-
merous references to others’ experiences with death and bereavement and books
on these subjects. Chapters begin with quotes pertinent to the topics.
1057. Oliviere, David, and Barbara Monroe, eds. Death, Dying, and Social Dif-
ferences. New York: Oxford University Press, 2004.
1058. Pardi, Marco M. Death: An Anthropological Perspective. Washington,
DC: University Press of America, 1977.
1059. Parrish-Harra, Carol E. The New Age Handbook on Death and Dying.
Santa Monica, CA: IBS Press, 1989.
1060. Pattison, E. Mansell. The Experience of Dying. Englewood Cliffs, NJ:
Prentice-Hall, 1977.
Pattison is a professor of psychiatry and human behavior, social science, and
social ecology at the University of California, Irvine. Through his own articles
and those of twenty-three other contributors, he offers many perspectives on dy-
ing. Topics covered include death attitudes, the will to live and the expectation of
death, faith and healing, meningomyelocele infants, accidents and trauma, hemo-
philia, the burned child, childhood cancer, leukemia, euthanasia, partial grief, and
styles of dying. Includes an interview with a twenty-eight-year-old dying mother
and a bibliography arranged by subject.
1061. Pearson, Leonard S., ed. Death and Dying: Current Issues in the Treat-
ment of the Dying Person. Middletown, NY: UPBS, 1977. Originally published
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by the Press of Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, in 1969. Also cited
as being published by Aronson, New York, in 1969.
Respected clinical thanatologists contribute articles to this collection on the
treatment of the dying patient. Articles address psychological death, the effects
of death on the family, psychotherapy and the dying patient, clinical care, and
awareness of dying. The contributors include Richard A. Kalish, Robert J. Kas-
tenbaum, Lawrence LeShan, Cicely Saunders, and Anselm L. Strauss. The author
includes a lengthy selected bibliography.
1062. Peck, Rosalie, and Charlotte Stefanics. Learning to Say Goodbye: Deal-
ing wth Death and Dying. Muncie, IN: Accelerated Development, 1987.
The authors, with backgrounds in social work and mental health clinical nurs-
ing, present more of an academic treatment of death and dying than the self-help
guide suggested by the title. The book covers historical and cultural attitudes, the
care and treatment of terminal patients, patient advocacy, and death. Includes an
extensive section on developing thanatology programs and guidelines for health
professionals, clergy, and so forth. Offers a pre-test on myths surrounding death,
particularly cancer, as well as thoughts on changing attitudes toward death, dy-
ing, and bereavement.
1063. Pegg, Patricia F., and Erno Metze. Death and Dying: A Quality of Life.
London: Pitman Publishing, 1981.
1064. Raab, Robert A. Coping with Death. New York: Rosen Press, 1978. Re-
vised edition published in 1989.
1065. Rinpoche, Tulku Chagdud. Life in Relation to Death. 2nd ed. Cottage
Grove, OR: Padma Publishing, 2000.
1066. Sanders, Pete. Death and Dying. New York: Gloucester Press, 1991.
1067. Saunders, Cicely M. Care of the Dying. London: Macmillan, 1960.
1068. Schulz, Richard. The Psychology of Death and Dying. Reading, MA:
Addison-Wesley, 1978. Also cited as The Psychology of Death, Dying, and
Bereavement.
1069. Scott, Nathan A., ed. The Modern Vision of Death. Richmond, VA: John
Knox Press, 1967.
1070. Segraves, Kelly L. When You’re Dead, You’re Dead. San Diego, CA:
Beta, 1975.
1071. Selzer, Richard. Mortal Lessons: Notes on the Art of Surgery. New York:
Simon & Schuster, 1974. Reprinted in 1975 and 1976.
Often humorous and sarcastic, the author, on the faculty of the Yale School
of Medicine, describes death from a surgeon’s perspective. Edward Hoagland
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1082. Stephenson, John S. Death, Grief, and Mourning: Individual and Social
Realities. New York: Free Press, 1985.
From sociological, psychological, historical, and literary perspectives,
Stephenson provides this comprehensive, interdisciplinary approach to the
processes, practices, and experiences concerning death and dying in the United
States. He surveys and analyzes death attitudes, the hospice model, bereave-
ment as both a personal reaction and social convention, the denial of death,
ceremonies of death, suicide, and the implications of euthanasia. This book
is intended for sociologists, social workers, religious leaders, psychologists,
nurses, and caregivers.
1083. Ulanov, Barry. Death: A Book of Preparation and Consolation. New
York: Sheed & Ward, 1959.
Widely regarded as an expert on jazz, Ulanov presents a book of reflections
on death. He draws upon biblical scriptures and poets to “console loved ones and
help us prepare for our own [death].” Includes an index and notes on writers and
books referenced.
1084. Van Zeller, Hubert. Death in Other Words. Springfield, IL: Templegate
Publishing Co., 1975.
1085. Voysey, M. A Constant Burden. Boston: Routledge and Kegan Paul,
1975.
1086. Warner, W. Lloyd. The Living and the Dead. New Haven, CT: Yale
University Press, 1959.
1087. Wertenbaker, Lael T. Death of a Man. New York: Random House,
1957.
1088. When Death Comes. Corvallis, OR: Oregon State University, 1963. Ex-
tension Bulletin 809.
1089. Wilcox, Sandra Galdieri, and Marilyn Sutton, eds. Understanding Death
and Dying: An Interdisciplinary Approach. Port Washington, NY: Alfred Pub-
lishing Co., 1977. Published by Mayfield, Palo Alto, CA, in 1985. Also cited as
published in Sherman Oaks, CA.
1090. Williams, Mary E. Terminal Illness: Opposing Viewpoints. San Diego,
CA: Greenhaven Press, 2001. The author of the 2005 edition is Andrea C. Na-
kaya. Part of the Opposing Viewpoints series.
An excellent resource for high school and college students, this book explores
the many issues surrounding terminal illness. Topics include hospice care, dy-
ing at home, patients’ rights and having control over decisions regarding dying
and death, treatments for pain, euthanasia, marijuana use for the terminally ill,
physician-assisted suicide, living wills, and the “duty to die” argument. A bibliog-
raphy of periodical articles follows each section. Includes questions and issues for
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1095. Adams, Christine A., and John D. Morgan. The ABCs of Grief: A Hand-
book for Survivors. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2003. Part of the
Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1096. Adler, Charles S. We Are But a Moment’s Sunlight: Understanding
Death. New York: Washington Square Press, 1976.
1097. Aldrich, Sandra Picklesimer. Living through the Loss of Someone You
Love: One Woman’s Story of Loss, Grief, and New-Found Hope. Ventura, CA:
Regal Books, 1990.
A counselor and associate editor of Christian Herald magazine, Aldrich tells
the story of losing her husband and how she recovered from bereavement. The
text is based on the author’s seminars on grief recovery and addresses the shock
of death, anger at God, prayer, dealing with holidays, viewing grief as healthy,
financial issues for widows, how to help the bereaved, abnormal grief, talking to
children about death, depression, and survival. Includes several scriptural refer-
ences.
1098. Alexander, Helen Mae. Experiencing Bereavement. 3rd ed. Boston: Pau-
line Books & Media, 2002.
An effort to help those bereaved understand the grieving process, Alexander’s
book recounts numerous personal stories as she suggests that sharing common
feelings and reactions can lead to healing and recovery. Written from a Catholic
perspective, though not entirely religious in tone, chapters deal specifically with
facing terminal illness, acknowledging the reality of death, sudden death, hidden
bereavement, taboo deaths and the associated difficult circumstances, befriending
the bereaved, dealing with feelings of helplessness and hopelessness, and finding
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meaning in death. Includes a list of organizations that offer information and other
resources as well as a brief bibliography.
1099. Allen, Charles Livingstone. When You Lose a Loved One. Westwood,
NJ: F. H. Revell Co., 1959.
1100. Anderson, Colena M. Joy Beyond Grief. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan,
1974.
1101. Archer, John. The Nature of Grief: The Evolution and Psychology of
Reactions to Loss. New York: Routledge, 1999.
The author suggests that grief is a “common experience throughout all hu-
man cultures that has evolved from simpler versions in animals.” He argues
that grief is not, as many psychiatric and psychoanalytic perspectives would
indicate, an illness or disorder but rather a natural reaction to a variety of losses.
Archer references Darwinian and attachment theory in his analysis. He presents
a thorough historical background on grief research, offers definitions and varying
understandings of grief, and discusses the biological context of grief. Holistic and
analytical approaches are explored. The effects of specific relationships, gender,
and age on bereavement are also examined. Includes extensive references and
author and subject indexes. Several literary references and photographs are also
included.
1102. Aries, Philippe. The Hour of Our Death: The Classical History of West-
ern Attitudes toward Death over the Last One Thousand Years. New York: Ox-
ford University Press, 1991.
1103. ———. Western Attitudes toward Death: From the Middle Ages to the
Present. Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press, 1974. Reprinted in 1991.
1104. Armstrong, O. V. Comfort for Those Who Mourn. Nashville, TN: Abing-
don Press, 1978. Published by Cokesbury in 1930.
1105. Ascher, Barbara Lazear. Landscape without Gravity: A Memoir of Grief.
Harrison, NY: Delphinium Books, 1992.
A gay man’s heterosexual sister presents a memoir of grief following his death
at age thirty-one of AIDS. Ascher examines her own feelings of grief and the
alienation of her brother when he was alive and her coming to terms with it. Her
grief is described as overwhelming and unmanageable, yet she finds her way out
of the darkness. Commenting on the book, Richard Selzer notes that “grief ema-
nates like a vapor from the pages.” The book is a moving narrative with many
lessons about grief, bereavement, and acceptance.
1106. Attig, Thomas. The Heart of Grief: Death and the Search for Lasting
Love. New York: Oxford University Press, 2002.
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1107. ———. How We Grieve: Relearning the World. New York: Oxford Uni-
versity Press, 1996.
Though appropriate for professionals in the field, Attig intends this book for a
broad audience, including those who are grieving. According to Attig, the book
contains “one philosopher’s reflections on grieving as the centrally important hu-
man experience that it is.” As with other scholars, Attig stresses that his teaching,
writing, analysis, and theoretical discussions are rooted in listening to people’s
stories of grief and bereavement. Using these individual vignettes, he discusses
how grieving is active; respecting loss in others; and relearning the world, our-
selves, and relationships with the deceased. Notably, Attig offers contrasting
definitions of bereavement, mourning, grieving, and loss. In one chapter, he notes
with its title, “Bereavement is Choiceless, But Grieving Is Not.” Includes notes
and an index.
1108. Auz, Martin M., and Maureen Lyons Andrews. Handbook for Those Who
Grieve: What You Should Know and What You Can Do During Times of Loss: A
Resource for Family, Friends, Ministers, Caregivers, and Colleagues. Chicago:
Loyola Press, 2002.
Auz and Andrews present a resource guide that is intended to serve as the
“path to grief recovery.” Auz is a writer who has extensively studied organiza-
tional grief therapy, and Andrews has developed bereavement programs for many
organizations. The book includes tips for planning funerals and wakes; breaking
difficult news; supporting those who are grieving; understanding different kinds
of grief; helping children deal with death and grief; and addressing special issues
associated with death by suicide, murder, and accidents. Also includes sample
sympathy letters, lists of pertinent planning details, and a list of publications and
organizations providing grief support.
1109. Bauman, Harold. Grief’s Slow Work. Scottdale, PA: Herald Press, 1960.
Bauman’s work is a 15-page booklet for Christian clergy and mourners. Using
biblical references throughout the text, Bauman covers the process of grief and
factors affecting grief work.
1110. Bedard, Kathryn. Compassion and Courage in the Aftermath of Trau-
matic Loss: Stones in My Heart Forever. Binghamton, NY: Haworth Press,
2006.
This book is an emotional collection of September 11th stories of the author’s
work at the New Jersey Family Assistance Center.
1111. Berkus, Rusty. To Heal Again: Toward Serenity and the Resolution of
Grief. Los Angeles: Red Rose Press, 1984.
1112. Bernstein, Joanne E. Loss and How to Cope with It. New York: Seabury,
1977. Published by Houghton Mifflin, Boston, in 1976.
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1113. Bertman, Sandra L. Grief and the Healing Arts: Creativity as Therapy.
Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1999. Part of the Death, Value, and Mean-
ing Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1114. Blank, Jeanne Webster. The Death of an Adult Child: A Book for and
about Bereaved Parents. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1998. Part of the
Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1115. Boss, Pauline. Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief.
Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1999.
1116. Bouvard, Marguerite Guzman, and Evelyn Gladu. The Path through
Grief: A Compassionate Guide. Amherst, NY: Prometheus Books, 1998.
A thorough guide to grief recovery, this text examines the many varieties of
grief, phases of grief, and coping methods. The authors write about grief as a
personal crisis and how it differs depending on personality traits, the manner of
death, and the relationship of the deceased to the person grieving. They offer spe-
cial guidance for those who have lost a loved one to homicide, murder, or AIDS.
Specific suggestions are also included for friends and coworkers to help others
grieve. Includes an excellent list of organizations and information centers as well
as an annotated bibliography. Foreword by Sandra L. Bertman.
1117. Bowlby, John. Attachment and Loss: Loss, Sadness, and Depression
(Volume 3). New York: Basic Books, 1980. Originally published as Attachment
and Loss in 1969.
1118. Bozarth, Alla Renee. A Journey through Grief: Gentle Specific Help to
Get You through the Most Difficult Stages of Grieving. Minneapolis, MN: Comp-
Care Publications, 1990. Published by Hazelden in 1994.
1119. ———. Life Is Goodbye, Life Is Hello: Grieving Well through All Kinds
of Loss. Minneapolis, MN: CompCare Publications, 1982.
1120. Brabant, Sarah. Mending the Torn Fabric: For Those Who Grieve and
Those Who Want to Help Them. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1996. Part
of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1121. Bright, Ruth. Grieving: A Handbook for Those Who Care. St. Louis, MO:
MMB Music, 1986.
1122. Brokhoff, John R. If Your Dearest Should Die. Iowa Falls, IA: CSS Pub-
lishers, 1975. Also cited as being published by CSS Publishers, Lima, OH.
1123. Brooke, Jill. Don’t Let Death Ruin Your Life: A Practical Guide to Re-
claiming Happiness after the Death of a Loved One. New York: Plume, 2002.
A former television correspondent and print journalist, Brooke attempts to
provide “solutions that can transform grief into practical motivation.” Her fo-
cus is on the growth that can come from the loss of a loved one. She includes
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details of her personal experiences with loss, tips on how to preserve memo-
ries, information on compiling family histories, and ideas on how to reach out
to friends during the challenging time of bereavement. Includes a bibliography
and an odd but interesting appendix listing achievers who lost a parent early in
life. This list includes dozens of names with the person’s age at the time they
lost their parent.
1124. Brooks, Anne M. The Grieving Time: A Year’s Account of Recovery
from Loss. Garden City, NY: Dial Press, 1985. Published as The Grieving Time:
A Month by Month Account of Recovery from Loss by Delapeake, Wilmington,
DE, in 1982.
1125. Brown, Erica. Loss, Change, and Grief: An Educational Experience.
London: D. Fulton Publishers, 1999.
1126. Brown, Reg. Surviving the Loss of a Loved One: Living through Grief.
Grantham, MA: Autumn House Publications, 1999.
1127. Bruce, Elizabeth J., and Cynthia L. Schultz. Nonfinite Loss and Grief:
A Psychoeducational Approach. Baltimore, MD: Paul H. Brookes Publishing,
2001.
1128. Buckingham, Robert W., and Sandra K. Huggard. Coping with Grief.
New York: Rosen Publishing Group, 1991.
1129. Canfield, Jack, and Mark Victor Hansen. Chicken Soup for the Grieving
Soul: Stories about Life, Death, and Overcoming the Loss of a Loved One. Deer-
field Beach, FL: Health Communications, 2003.
Part of the popular Chicken Soup series, this book offers several stories to
help those grieving. Stories address matters of faith, final gifts, death and chil-
dren, memories, coping with grief, and healing and recovery from bereavement.
Includes a list of organizations that support those grieving, including Web ad-
dresses, as well as information about Compassionate Friends, an international
self-help bereavement organization. Also includes extensive information about
the authors and contributors.
1130. Caplan, Sandi, and Gordon Lang. Grief’s Courageous Journey. Oakland,
CA: New Harbinger Publications, 1995.
1131. Carr, Arthur C., Bernard Schoenberg, David Peretz, Austin H. Kutscher,
and Ivan K. Goldberg, eds. Grief: Selected Readings. New York: Health Sciences
Publishing, 1975. Part of the Journal Reprint Series.
This book is part of a series of article reprints from the Foundation of Thanatol-
ogy intended to bring together mandatory readings for scholars and students on
each death-related subject. This collection, focusing on grief and bereavement,
includes articles and essays on contemporary theoretical views on mourning;
descriptive and empirical studies on bereavement (including works by Colin
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1141. Cox, Gerry R., Robert A. Bendiksen, and Robert G. Stevenson. Com-
plicated Grieving and Bereavement: Understanding and Treating People Expe-
riencing Loss. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2001. Part of the Death,
Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1142. Crenshaw, David A. Bereavement: Counseling the Grieving throughout
the Life Cycle. New York: Continuum, 1990. Part of the Continuum Counseling
Series.
Crenshaw examines grief from the perspective of the life cycle. Chapters
offer guidance on helping children, adolescents, adults, and seniors with grief.
Crenshaw presents the seven tasks of mourning: acknowledging the reality
of the loss, identifying and exploring the emotions of grief, commemorat-
ing the loss, acknowledging ambivalence, resolving ambivalence, letting go,
and moving on. Consequences of unresolved grief, normal and pathological
bereavement, and giving permission to not grieve by loved ones are also dis-
cussed. Includes an appendix of associations and organizations that help the
bereaved. Foreword by William Van Ornum, editor of the Continuum Coun-
seling Series.
1143. Curley, Terence P. Six Steps for Managing Loss: A Catholic Guide
through Grief. New York: Alba House Publishers, 1997.
1144. Cutler, William, and Richard Peace. Dealing with Grief and Loss: Hope
in the Midst of Pain. Littleton, CO: Serendipity House, 1990.
1145. Dane, Barbara O., and Carol Levine. AIDS and the New Orphans: Cop-
ing with Death. Westport, CT: Auburn House, 1994.
1146. Dane, Barbara O., and Samuel O. Miller. AIDS: Intervening with Hidden
Grievers. New York: Auburn House, 1992.
1147. Danto, Bruce L., and Austin H. Kutscher. Suicide and Bereavement. New
York: MSS Information Corp., 1977. Distributed by Arno Press.
1148. Davidson, Glenn W. Understanding Mourning: A Guide for Those Who
Grieve. Minneapolis, MN: Augsburg Fortress, 1984.
1149. Davidson, Joyce, and Kenneth J. Doka. Living with Grief: At Work, at
School, at Worship. Washington, DC: Hospice Foundation of America, 1999.
Also published by Brunner/Mazel, Levittown, PA.
1150. Davies, Phyllis. Grief: Climb toward Understanding, Self-Help When
You Are Struggling. New York: Carol Communications, 1988. Also published by
Sunnybank Publishers, San Luis Obispo, CA, in 1987.
1151. Dawson, Ann. A Season of Grief: A Comforting Companion for Difficult
Days. Notre Dame, IN: Ave Maria Press, 2002.
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of the self.” In addition to stories, this 106-page paperback includes several inspi-
rational poems, a list of organizations, and a bibliography divided by subject.
1165. Engram, Sara. Mortal Matters: When a Loved One Dies. Kansas City,
MO: Andrews McMeel Publishing, 1990.
Engram’s book is one for comforting the soul but also dealing with the practi-
cal issues following the death of a loved one. Engram also writes a nationally
syndicated column called Mortal Matters about death topics. Among the topics
are helping children understand death, acknowledging grief, using stories to ex-
plain death, recalling memories, learning to survive, healthy mourning, guilt and
grieving, unexpected death, living wills, disposition issues, funerals, rites and
rituals, financial issues, and organ and tissue donation.
1166. Ericsson, Stephanie. Companion through the Darkness: Inner Dialogues
on Grief. New York: HarperCollins, 1993.
In a book for the grieving, Ericsson defines grief as the “constant reawaken-
ing that things are now different.” She includes excerpts from her journal, along
with short essays on loss. The journal began after the loss of her husband while
she was pregnant with their only child. An acclaimed excerpt from the book was
published in the Utne Reader.
1167. Figley, Charles R. Traumatology of Grieving: Conceptual, Theoretical,
and Treatment Foundations. Philadelphia: Brunner/Mazel, 1999.
1168. Figley, Charles R., and Brian E. Bride. Death and Trauma: The Trauma-
tology of Grieving. Washington, DC: Taylor & Francis, 1997.
1169. Fitzgerald, Helen. The Mourning Handbook: The Most Comprehensive
Resource Offering Practical and Compassionate Advice on Coping with All
Aspects of Death and Dying. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1995. First Fireside
edition.
1170. Freeman, Lucy. The Sorrow and the Fury: Overcoming Hurt and Loss
from Childhood to Old Age. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1978.
Appropriate for both professionals and those seeking guidance for coping with
loss, Freeman’s text features case studies that illuminate her gain-through-loss
theory. She discusses the sense of loss, the mourning process, first losses, the
rewards of loss, combating loss through creativity, using laughter to deal with
loss, loss during early years and later in life, and tools for facing losses. Includes
a bibliography arranged by chapter.
1171. Freeman, Stephen J. Grief and Loss: Understanding the Journey. Bel-
mont, CA: Thomson/Brooks/Cole, 2005.
With both practical and theoretical information, Freeman provides a general
exploration of grief and loss. He also writes about the many emotions around
grief and mourning experienced by those in the helping professions. The text is
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1190. ———, ed. What Helped Me When My Loved One Died. Boston: Beacon
Press, 1981.
1191. Guntzelman, Joan. Blessed Grieving: Reflections on Life’s Losses. Wi-
nona, MN: St. Mary’s Press, 1994.
1192. Hafer, W. Keith. Coping with Bereavement from Death or Divorce.
Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1981.
1193. Hansen, James C., and Thomas T. Frantz. Death and Grief and the
Family. Rockville, MD: Aspen Systems Corporation, 1984. Part of the Family
Therapy Collections, volume 8.
1194. Harris, Audrey Jane Axelrod. Why Did He Die? Minneapolis, MN: Ler-
ner Publications, 1965. Illustrated by Susan Sallade Dalke.
1195. Hartnett, Johnette. Different Losses, Different Issues: What to Expect and
How to Help. South Burlington, VT: Good Mourning, 1993.
1196. Harvey, John H. Embracing Their Memory: Loss and the Social Psychol-
ogy of Storytelling. Boston: Allyn & Bacon, 1996.
1197. ———. Give Sorrow Words: Perspectives on Loss and Trauma. Philadel-
phia: Brunner/Mazel, 2000.
1198. ———. Perspectives on Loss: A Sourcebook. Philadelphia: Brunner/Ma-
zel, 1998. Part of the Series in Death, Dying, and Bereavement, Robert A. Nei-
meyer, consulting editor.
1199. Harvey, John H., and Eric D. Miller. Loss and Trauma: General and
Close Relationship Perspectives. Philadelphia: Brunner-Routledge, 2000.
1200. Heegaard, Marge Eaton. Grief: A Natural Reaction to Loss. Minneapolis,
MN: Fairview Press, 2002.
1201. ———. When Someone Very Special Dies. Omaha, NE: Centering Cor-
poration, 1988.
1202. Henry, DeWitt. Sorrow’s Company: Writers on Loss and Grief. Boston:
Beacon Press, 2001.
1203. Hickey, Tom. Loss Reaction and Grief Management. University Park,
PA: Gerontology Center, Pennsylvania State University, 1976.
1204. Hickman, Martha Whitmore. Healing after Loss: Daily Meditations for
Working through Grief. New York: Avon Books, 1994.
1205. Howard, Deborah. Sunsets: Reflections for Life’s Final Journey. Whea-
ton, IL: Crossway Books, 2005.
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Howard, a certified hospice and palliative care nurse, offers words of encour-
agement from a Christian perspective for those who have lost a loved one. She
discusses the denial of death, the afterlife, and preparing for death. Includes an
appendix of frequently asked questions about hospice.
1206. Huber, Jim. A Thousand Goodbyes: A Son’s Reflection on Living, Dying,
and the Things That Matter Most. Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson, 2001.
An Emmy Award–winning CNN sports journalist, Huber tells the story of the
redeemed relationship between himself and his father that developed during his
father’s final days. This book is a poignant exploration of dying and the ensuing
grief of a son.
1207. Hughes, Marylou. Bereavement and Support: Healing in a Group Envi-
ronment. Washington, DC: Taylor & Francis, 1995. Part of the Series in Death
Education, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
1208. Hughs, Hugh Llewelyn. Peace at the Last. London: Calouste Gulbenkian
Foundation, 1960.
1209. Ironside, Virginia. You’ll Get over It: The Rage of Bereavement. London:
Hamish Hamilton/Penguin, 1996.
Ironside’s book moves through all the emotions and physical effects of be-
reavement from shock to the practical needs of grieving. She discusses fear,
powerlessness, guilt, rage, misery, wills and other legal matters, communicating
about death, spiritual matters, and potential benefits from a period of bereave-
ment. Includes a list of British organizations for support and suggestions for
further reading. A postscript describes the author’s own emotions following her
father’s death.
1210. Jackson, Edgar N. The Many Faces of Grief. Nashville, TN: Abingdon
Press, 1977.
1211. ———. Understanding Grief: Its Roots, Dynamics, and Treatment. Nash-
ville, TN: Abingdon Press, 1957.
In this major and early work on grief, Jackson provides both an introduction
to and a scholarly analysis of grief and bereavement. He discusses the definition
of grief, the dynamics of grief, the expression of grief feelings, dynamic compre-
hension of death’s significance, grief communication, building healthful attitudes
toward grief, how religious practices can sustain the grief-stricken, grief manifes-
tations, abnormal grief, death attitudes, grief precipitating a deep disturbance, and
funeral sermons. He also examines the roles of identification, substitution, and
guilt in relation to grief. Includes notes, a selected bibliography, and an index.
1212. ———. You and Your Grief. New York: Hawthorn Books, 1962. Origi-
nally published by Channel Press, New York, in 1961.
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Jozefowski refers to the bereaved individuals whose stories she shares in the
book as “Phoenix Grievers” for their courage and resiliency. She offers the griev-
ing assistance with understanding their familiarity with grief, adjusting to the
five developmental stages of grief, using resources and tools to survive and grow
through each phase of grieving, learning how the bereaved can grow and find
inspirational strength, indentifying the potential for personal growth, learning
metaphors for each stage, and understanding grief’s opportunities to create mean-
ing and honor a loved one’s life and death. In doing so, she discusses the anatomy
and physiology of grief, bereavement through both natural and catastrophic
causes, shock and denial, anxiety and fear, grief work, creative atonement, for-
giveness, self-actualization, and moving beyond mourning. Includes an appendix
offering two sources of additional material on the subject, a brief bibliography,
and a list of titles labeled “supportive literature.” Foreword by Therese A. Rando,
the Institute for the Study and Treatment of Loss in Warwick, Rhode Island.
1221. Kalish, Richard A. Midlife Loss: Coping Strategies. Newbury Park, CA:
Sage Publications, 1989.
1222. Kast, Verena. A Time to Mourn: Growing through the Grief Process.
Einsiedeln, Switzerland: Daimon Verlag, 1988. Translated from the 1982 Ger-
man edition Trauern: Phasen und Chancen des psychischen Prozesses, published
by Kreuz Verlag, Stuttgart.
A professor of psychology at the University of Zurich, Kast explains the
role of mourning in the therapeutic process in this text developed from her
doctoral dissertation. She emphasizes how mourning can empower individu-
als and foster personal growth. Referring to mourning as a time for renewal,
introspection, and incubation, Kast notes that without this important process
during bereavement, depressive illness and other issues can develop. Includes
notes and a bibliography.
1223. Katafiasz, Karen. Grief Therapy: Out of Pain Can Come Profound
Transforming Healing. St. Meinrad, IN: Abbey Press, 1993.
1224. Kennedy, Eugene C. Cardinal Bernardin’s Stations of the Cross: Trans-
forming Our Grief and Loss into New Life. New York: St. Martin’s Press, 2003.
1225. Keogh, Martin J. As Much Time as It Takes: A Guide for the Bereaved,
Their Family, and Friends. Charlottesville, VA: Hampton Roads Publishing Co.,
2005.
1226. Kissane, David, and Sidney Bloch. Family Grief Therapy. Philadelphia:
Open University Press. Part of the Facing Death series, David Clark, editor.
1227. Klass, Dennis. Parental Grief: Solace and Resolution. New York:
Springer, 1988. Volume 9 of the Springer Series on Death and Suicide, Robert J.
Kastenbaum, series editor.
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Klass, a professor at Webster University in St. Louis, discusses the process and
resolution of parental grief and also illustrates the progression in four contexts.
These include the anatomy of social support through a look at The Compassion-
ate Friends, a worldwide family of bereaved parents; rage experienced by parents
of murdered children; ways the bereaved help the dying; and the psychotherapeu-
tic process. Appendixes include a narrative explaining the author’s perspective on
parent grief and John Bowlby’s Model of Grief and the Problem of Identification.
Includes references and an index.
1228. Klass, Dennis, Phyllis R. Silverman, and Stephen L. Nickman, eds.
Continuing Bonds: New Understandings of Grief. Washington, DC: Taylor &
Francis, 1996. Part of the Series in Death Education, Aging, and Health Care,
Hannelore Wass, editor.
Noting in their preface that the continuing bond with the deceased in the reso-
lution of grief has been “overlooked or undervalued” in much of the scholarly and
clinical literature, the authors and contributors surface a new model of grief in
the analyses and critiques of the current model of grief. Topics discussed include
historical perspectives, grief recurrence, children’s construction of deceased
parents, husband sanctification in widowhood, the sometimes triadic relationship
of widowed persons’ new marriages, adolescent sibling bereavement, parental
bereavement, retroactive loss in adopted persons, grief and birth origin fantasies
of adopted women, ongoing attachment issues, adult child loss, and the deceased
child in the psychic and social worlds of bereaved parents during the resolution
of grief. The editors conclude with a definition of the continuing bond, the para-
dox of letting go and remaining involved, legitimization of old grief, problem
behaviors, and implications for therapeutic intervention. Contact information and
brief biographical narrative on each of the nineteen contributors is included. Also
contains a limited index, given the scope of material covered.
1229. Klein, Sandra Jacoby. Heavenly Hurts: Surviving AIDS-Related Deaths
and Losses. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1998. Part of the Death,
Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1230. Kolf, June Cerza. How Can I Help?: How to Support Someone Who Is
Grieving. Tucson, AZ: Fisher Books, 1999.
1231. ———. When Will I Stop Hurting?: Dealing with a Recent Death. Grand
Rapids, MI: Baker Books, 1987.
1232. Koolman, Gladys. After the Flowers Have Gone. Grand Rapids, MI:
Zondervan Publishing House, 1973.
1233. Kouri, Mary K. Keys to Dealing with the Loss of a Loved One.
Hauppauge, NY: Barron’s, 1991.
1234. Krauss, Pesach, and Morrie Goldfischer. Why Me?: Coping with Grief,
Loss, and Change. New York: Bantam Books, 1988.
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Noting in his introduction that “too many people make the mistake of judg-
ing life by its length rather than its depth,” Krauss emphasizes the need for the
grieving to use their emotional and spiritual resources to transform grief into
self-discovery. A rabbi and chaplain at the Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer
Center in New York, Krauss discusses achieving self-awareness, life as a series
of entrances and exits, thinking positively, growing during a time of trouble, and
the drive for meaning. Chapters begin with selected quotes.
1235. Kreis, Bernadine, and Alice Pattie. Up from Grief: Patterns of Recovery.
Minneapolis, MN: Winston Press, 1982. Published by Seabury Press, New York,
in 1969.
1236. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth, and David Kessler. On Grief and Grieving:
Finding the Meaning of Grief through the Five Stages of Loss. New York: Scrib-
ner, 2005.
Published after Kübler-Ross’s death in 2004, this book includes Kessler’s ac-
count of his own bereavement following her death. It reviews Kübler-Ross’s five
stages of grief; explores the “inner and outer worlds of grief”; and discusses grief
under such special circumstances as multiple losses through death, Alzheimer’s
disease, suicide, sudden death, and disasters. Comments on childhood death are
also included.
1237. Kuehn, Eileen. Loss: Understanding the Emptiness. Mankato, MN:
LifeMatters, 2001.
1238. Kuenning, Delores. Helping People through Grief. Minneapolis, MN:
Bethany House Publishers, 1987.
In his foreword, Granger Westberg, author of Good Grief, notes that this is a
textbook for “teaching caring people how to help helpfully.” Covering almost
every imaginable kind of grief, Kuenning presents a handbook for assisting the
bereaved. While focusing on various kinds of grief, she also suggests commonali-
ties among all who grieve. Other topics discussed include talking with children
about death, grief following a catastrophic death or suicide, dealing with life-
threatening or terminal illness, the death of a spouse, death as release, questions
about God’s will in matters of death and dying, and unique bereavement issues
associated with death following Alzheimer’s disease. All subjects are approached
from a Christian perspective. Includes several lists of tips in each chapter as well
as an extensive bibliography.
1239. Kumar, Sameet M. Grieving Mindfully: A Compassionate and Spiritual
Guide to Coping with Loss. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2005.
Defining grief as a personal journey, Kumar, a psychologist, provides a guide
to loss from a Buddhist perspective. He discusses definitions of grief and mind-
fulness, the first year after a death, closure and transformation, the transformative
search for meaning in grief, depression, learning from grief, and channeling grief.
Includes a brief bibliography.
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1240. Kutscher, Austin H. But Not to Lose: A Book of Comfort for Those Be-
reaved. New York: Frederick Fell, 1969. Also published and distributed by MSS
Information Corp., New York.
1241. ———. For the Bereaved: The Road to Recovery. Philadelphia: Charles
Press, 1990.
1242. ———. For Those Bereaved: But Not to Lose: A Book of Comfort. New
York: Arno Press, 1980.
1243. Kutscher, Austin H., and Lillian G. Kutscher, eds. For the Bereaved.
New York: Frederick Fell, 1971.
1244. ———, eds. Religion and Bereavement. New York: Health Sciences Pub-
lishing Corp., 1972. Also cited with the subtitle Counsel for the Physician/Advice
for the Bereaved/Thoughts for the Clergyman.
This work is an anthology of essays and quotations by clergy from various
faith backgrounds, including Jewish, Catholic, Episcopal, Baptist, Lutheran,
Presbyterian, Disciples of Christ, and Unitarian.
1245. Lamm, Maurice. Consolation: The Spiritual Journey beyond Grief.
Philadelphia: Jewish Publication Society, 2004.
1246. Larson, Dale G. The Helper’s Journey: Working with People Facing
Grief, Loss, and Life-Threatening Illness. Champaign, IL: Research Press, 1993.
1247. Lawrenz, Mel, and Daniel Green. Life after Grief: How to Survive Loss
and Trauma. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Books, 1995.
1248. Lee, Carol. Good Grief: Experiencing Loss. London: Fourth Estate,
1994.
1249. Leech, Peter, and Zeva Singer. Acknowledgment: Opening to the Grief of
Unacceptable Loss. Laytonville, CA: Wintercreek Publications, 1988.
1250. Leick, Nini, and Marianne Davidsen-Nielsen. Healing Pain: Attachment,
Loss, and Grief Therapy. New York: Routledge, 1991.
1251. Lendrum, Susan, and Gabrielle Syme. Gift of Tears: A Practical Ap-
proach to Loss and Bereavement Counseling. New York: Tavistock/Routledge,
1992. Published by Brunner-Routledge, New York, in 2004.
1252. Levang, Elizabeth, and Sherokee Ilse. Remembering with Love: Mes-
sages of Hope for the First Year. Minneapolis, MN: Deaconess Press, 1993.
1253. Levine, Aaron. To Comfort the Bereaved. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson,
1994.
1254. Levine, Stephen. A Gradual Awakening. Garden City, NY: Anchor Press,
1989.
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1255. ———. Unattended Sorrow: Recovering from Loss and Reviving the
Heart. Emmaus, PA: Rodale Books, 2005.
1256. Leviton, Daniel, ed. Horrendous Death and Health: Toward Action. New
York: Hemisphere Publishing, 1991. Part of the Series in Death Education, Ag-
ing, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
While intended to address the various “types of people-caused, premature
deaths” that could terminate life “at any moment,” Leviton’s book essentially
deals with such horrendous death as nuclear war and nuclear annihilation. A
companion volume to Horrendous Death, Health, and Well-Being, this title
discusses the treatment of the survivors of horrendous death and “action ap-
proaches from the grass roots.” Twelve articles focus on survivor-victims of
homicide and nuclear war; survivor-victims of war and holocaust; the psy-
chology of survival-directed action; educational approaches for helping young
children cope with nuclear annihilation; the establishment of the Consortium
on Peace, Research, Education, and Development; peace education; preven-
tion of war; citizen diplomacy programs; and theories of children’s love and
peace behaviors.
1257. Liebman, Joshua Loth. Peace of Mind. New York: Simon & Schuster,
1946.
1258. Lightner, Candy, and Nancy Hathaway. Giving Sorrow Words: How to
Cope with Grief and Get on with Your Life. New York: Time Warner, 1990.
1259. Lintermans, Gloria, and Marilyn Stolzman. The Healing Power of Grief:
The Journey through Loss to Life and Laughter. Belgium, WI: Champion Press,
2006.
1260. Linzer, N., ed. Understanding Grief and Bereavement. New York: Ye-
shiva University Press and KTAV Publishing House, 1977.
1261. Littlewood, Jane. Aspects of Grief: Bereavement in Adult Life. New
York: Tavistock/Routledge, 1992.
Littlewood, a lecturer in social policy and administration at Loughborough
University of Technology, begins her comprehensive study of adult bereavement
and the process of grieving with a review of Western attitudes toward death and
dying. She illustrates how these attitudes form the foundation of the way in which
adults typically grieve today. She also focuses on death rituals and funeral rites
and their effects on grieving. Littlewood looks at adult relationships and their
connection with complicated and uncomplicated grief; special circumstances sur-
rounding individuals’ deaths, and differences in grieving based on the relation-
ship to the deceased. Includes a bibliography and name and subject indexes.
1262. Lord, Janice Harris. No Time for Goodbyes: Coping with Grief, Anger,
and Injustice after a Tragic Death. Ventura, CA: Pathfinder Publishing, 1987.
168 Chapter 16
1263. Lund, Dale A. Men Coping with Grief. Amityville, NY: Baywood Pub-
lishing, 2000. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan,
editor.
1264. Mack, Stanley. Janet and Me: An Illustrated Story of Love and Loss.
New York: Simon & Schuster, 2004.
1265. MacNab, Francis A. Life after Loss: Getting over Grief, Getting on with
Life. Philadelphia: Millenium, 1989. Also published in Newtown, Australia.
1266. Malkinson, Ruth, and Simon Rubin. Traumatic and Nontraumatic Loss
and Bereavement: Clinical Theory and Practice. Madison, CT: Psychosocial
Press, 2000.
1267. Manning, Doug. Comforting Those Who Grieve: A Guide for Helping
Others. San Francisco, CA: Harper & Row, 1985.
1268. ———. Don’t Take My Grief Away from Me. Hereford, TX: Insight
Books, 1979. Published by Harper & Row, San Francisco, CA, in 1984, as Don’t
Take My Grief Away.
1269. Margolis, Otto Schwarz, Austin H. Kutscher, Eric R. Marcus, Howard C.
Raether, Vanderlyn R. Pine, Irene B. Seeland, Daniel J. Cherico, and Lillian G.
Kutscher, eds. Grief and the Loss of an Adult Child. New York: Praeger, 1988.
Part of the Foundation of Thanatology series.
The editors provide a collection of articles on the grief that follows the loss of
an adult child as well as other relationships. Articles are grouped into sections
on the loss of an adult child; grief in selected loss relationships, for example,
in-laws, widowers, grandparents, and the elderly widowed; interdisciplinary ap-
proaches to bereavement; and funeral service concepts in dealing with loss and
grief. Subjects receiving some treatment include acute grief; children with can-
cer; grandparent grief for an adult child; and grief in nontraditional relationships,
including extramarital affairs, cohabitating couples, and homosexuals. Includes
an index and brief information on the contributors.
1270. Margolis, Otto Schwarz, and Lillian G. Kutscher. Loss, Grief, and Be-
reavement: A Guide for Counseling. New York: Praeger, 1985. Part of the Foun-
dation of Thanatology series.
1271. Margolis, Otto Schwarz, Howard C. Raether, Austin H. Kutscher, J.
Bruce Powers, Irene B. Seeland, Robert DeBellis, and Daniel J. Cherico, eds.
Acute Grief: Counseling the Bereaved. New York: Columbia University Press,
1981. Part of the Foundation of Thanatology series.
The editors present numerous articles that provide an overview of loss, grief,
and bereavement; review experiences of grief and bereavement; discuss counsel-
ing the bereaved; and explore survivor expectations associated with acute grief.
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Notable chapter topics include the type of death as a determinant in acute grief,
emotional involvement of the family immediately preceding death, facilitation of
mourning after a natural disaster, grief and bereavement in the military, SIDS,
murder in schools, rescaling therapy, the role of the funeral director as a coun-
selor of the bereaved, clergy and mourning, biochemistry of acute grief with
regard to neoplasia, and the psychosocial value of a home funeral. Oddly, most
of the articles on acute grief and survivor expectations are about the funeral ritual
and the role of the funeral director. On the acknowledgments page, the editors
offer a definition of thanatology as a “new subspecialty of medicine . . . involved
in scientific and humanistic inquiries and the application of the knowledge de-
rived there to the subjects of the psychological aspects of dying; reactions to
loss, death, and grief; and recovery from bereavement.” Includes an index and
information about each contributor.
1272. Markham, Ursula. Element Guide to Bereavement: Your Questions An-
swered. Boston: Element Books, 1996.
1273. Marris, Peter. Loss and Change. New York: Pantheon Books, 1974.
1274. Marshall, George N. Facing Death and Grief: A Sensible Perspective for
the Modern Person. Buffalo, NY: Prometheus Books, 1981.
1275. Martin, John D., and Frank D. Ferris. I Can’t Stop Crying: It’s So Hard
When Someone You Love Dies. Toronto, Ontario: Key Porter Books, 1992.
1276. Martin, Sheila. Saying Goodbye with Love: A Step-by-Step Guide through
the Details of Death. New York: Crossroad Publishing, 1999.
1277. Martin, Sherry Hendricks. Beginning Again: Tools for the Journey
through Grief. Edmond, OK: Greystone Press, 2006.
1278. Martin, Terry L., and Kenneth J. Doka. Men Don’t Cry . . . Women Do:
Transcending Gender Stereotypes of Grief. Philadelphia: Brunner/Mazel, 2000.
Part of the Series in Death, Dying, and Bereavement, Robert A. Neimeyer, con-
sulting editor.
Acknowledging that there is “substantial knowledge about the stimulus (i.e.,
loss, death), the generic response (i.e., grief, mourning), and many of the influ-
encing variables” in responding to the death of a loved one, the authors aim to
focus their research on the “major mediator between all these, that is, the mourner
himself or herself.” Their book examines gender differences during bereavement
with discussion on patterns of grief, dissonant responses, personality as a shaper
of patterns, culture as a shaping agent, the implications of adaptive strategies for
counselors, and strategies for self-help and intervention. The authors’ research
tools, including the grief pattern inventory; extensive references; a bibliography;
and an index are incorporated.
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1287. Miller, Jack Silvey. The Healing Power of Grief. New York: Seabury
Press, 1978. A Crossroad book.
1288. Miller, James E. A Pilgrimage through Grief: Healing the Soul’s Hurt
after Loss. St. Meinrad, IN: Abbey Press, 1995. Includes photographs by the
author.
1289. ———. Seasons of Grief and Healing: A Guide for Those Who Mourn.
Minneapolis, MN: Augsburg Fortress, 2000. Originally published as Winter
Grief, Summer Grace in 1995.
Focusing on how natural the grief process is, Miller validates the reader’s feel-
ings of loss. He uses numerous quotations, Bible verses, and passages from litera-
ture in this 63-page book. Miller is an Indiana grief counselor and clergyman.
1290. Miller, Jolanda. You Can Become Whole Again: A Guide to Christians in
Grieving. Atlanta, GA: John Knox Press, 1981.
1291. Miller, Robert J., and Stephen J. Hrycyniak. Grief Quest: Reflections for
Men Coping with Loss. St. Meinrad, IN: Abbey Press, 1996. Also cited as Grief
Quest: Men Coping with Loss.
Miller, a priest, offers ideas for men dealing with loss and grief.
1292. Miller, Sally Downham. Mourning and Dancing: A Memoir of Grief and
Recovery. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, 1999.
Miller’s memoir tells the story of her family’s bereavement and ultimate re-
covery following the death of her husband, Robert, from reticulum sarcoma. He
died nine days after his diagnosis. Through her personal experience and work
with grieving families, she has become a consultant, speaker, and writer on the
subjects of grief and loss.
1293. Minamide, Elaine. How Should One Cope with Death? Farmington Hills,
MI: Greenhaven Press, 2006.
1294. Minear, Paul Sevier. To Die and to Live: Christ’s Resurrection and
Christian Vocation. New York: Seabury Press, 1977.
Minear presents a book of comfort from a Christian perspective.
1295. Mitsch, Raymond R., and Lynn Brookside. Grieving the Loss of Someone
You Love: Daily Meditations to Help You through the Grieving Process. Ventura,
CA: Regal Books, 1993. Regal Books is a ministry of Gospel Light, a Christian
publisher. Originally published by Servant Publications in 1993.
A series of daily devotions, this book intends to help the reader work through
the emotions of anger, guilt, fear, and depression. It offers guidance for coming to
terms with loss from a Christian perspective. Includes quotes and Bible verses.
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1306. Moriarty, David M., ed. The Loss of Loved Ones: The Effects of a Death
in the Family on Personality Development. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas,
1967. Originally published by Dutton, New York, in 1946.
Foreword by Bardwell H. Flower. Contributions from Timothy Harrington.
1307. Morris, Sarah. Grief and How to Live with It. New York: Grosset &
Dunlap, 1972.
1308. Mundy, Linus. Grief Therapy for Men: How to Grieve Like a “Real”
Man. St. Meinrad, IN: Abbey Press, 1997.
1309. Neimeyer, Robert A. Lessons of Loss: A Guide to Coping. New York:
McGraw-Hill, 1998. Published by Brunner-Routledge, Philadelphia, in 2001.
1310. ———. Meaning Reconstruction and the Experience of Loss. Washing-
ton, DC: American Psychological Association, 2001.
1311. Noel, Brook. Grief Steps: Ten Steps to Regroup, Rebuild, and Renew
after Any Life Loss. Fredonia, WI: Champion Press, 2004.
1312. Noel, Brook, and Pamela D. Blair. I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye: Sur-
viving, Coping, and Healing after the Sudden Death of a Loved One. Belgium,
WI: Champion Press, 2000.
1313. Nolen-Hoeksema, Susan, and Judith Larson. Coping with Loss. Mahwah,
NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1999. Part of the LEA Series in Personality
and Clinical Psychology, Irving B. Weiner, editor.
Based on a long-term study of several hundred people who lost a loved one,
called the Bereavement Coping Project, this book offers a scholarly exploration
of the variety of ways in which people cope with the death of someone they love.
Utilizing more than 300 bereavement experiences, the authors discuss different
perspectives on loss, the special challenges of different types of losses, the effect
of personality on coping, children and grief, growth and resilience following loss,
and interventions. The book includes real-life stories, and it is highlighted by a
section at the end titled “Voices,” in which grieving people talk about coping
in their own words. Though important for researchers and scholars, the book is
especially appropriate for hospice workers, clergy, and other caregivers. Includes
extensive references and author and subject indexes. Nolen-Hoeksema is profes-
sor of psychology and director of the Gender and Mental Health Program at the
University of Michigan. Larson is a private practice therapist in California.
1314. Nouwen, Henri J. M. The Wounded Healer. Garden City, NJ: Image
Books, 1972.
1315. O’Connor, Nancy. Letting Go with Love: The Grieving Process. Tucson,
AZ: La Mariposa Press, 1985.
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1316. O’Toole, Donna R. Healing and Growing through Grief. Burnsville, NC:
Rainbow Connection, 1987.
1317. Oaks, Judy. Leaders Guide for Grief Recovery Support Groups. 2nd ed.
Berea, KY: Center for Personal Recovery, 1994.
1318. Oates, Wayne Edward. Your Particular Grief. Philadelphia: Westminster
Press, 1981.
1319. Osmont, Kelly. More Than Surviving: Caring for Yourself While You
Grieve. Portland, OR: Nobility Press, 1990.
1320. Osmont, Kelly, and Marilyn McFarlane. Parting Is Not Goodbye: Cop-
ing with Grief in Creative, Healthy Ways. Portland, OR: Nobility Press, 1986.
1321. Osterweis, Marian, Fredric Solomon, and Morris Green, eds. Bereave-
ment: Reactions, Consequences, and Care. Washington, DC: National Academy
Press, 1984.
1322. Parkes, Colin Murray. Bereavement: Studies of Grief in Adult Life. 2nd
American ed. Madison, CT: International Universities Press, 1987. Originally
published by the Tavistock Institute of Human Relations in 1972. Also published
by International Universities Press in 1973. Published by Penguin Books, Lon-
don, in 2004.
This book is a scholarly text widely used in the training of health professionals,
social workers, lawyers, clergy, and funeral directors. Parkes, senior lecturer in
psychiatry at the London Hospital, Whitechapel, discusses anger and guilt fol-
lowing a death, atypical grief, determinants of grief, mitigation, and the gaining
of a new identity. Foreword by John Bowlby.
1323. ———. Love and Loss: The Roots of Grief and Its Complications. New
York: Routledge/Taylor & Francis, 1996.
Dubbed a “doyen of bereavement research” by Margaret S. Stroebe, Parkes
offers another important text on grief and bereavement. He focuses on the links
between love and loss. He notes in his introduction that, “For most people love
is the most profound source of pleasure in our lives, while the loss of those who
we love is the most profound source of pain. Hence, love and loss are two sides
of the same coin.” He goes on to point out that, “It is the very intransience of life
that enhances love.” Based on a research project, Parkes explores these connec-
tions with discussion on attachment and love, patterns of attachment and patterns
of grief, other influences on attachment and loss, and disorders of attachment
and other psychiatric problems. Twenty-seven appendixes present and illustrate
Parkes’s research. Includes a brief list of organizations concerned with attach-
ment and loss, extensive references, and an index.
1324. Parkes, Colin Murray, and Robert S. Weiss. Recovery from Bereavement.
New York: Basic Books, 1983.
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As with The First Year of Bereavement (Glick, Weiss, and Parkes, 1974), this
book, considered a classic of thanatological literature, also is based on the Har-
vard Bereavement Study, which documented how widows and widowers under
forty-five years of age coped with bereavement. This work, unlike the first, ex-
amines why some in the study had significant challenges to recovery when they
suffered immediate, unexpected grief, the reasons for intense anger and guilt, and
why some had lasting difficulties in adjustment. Includes tables and an index.
1325. Payne, Sheila, Sandra Horn, and Marilyn Relf. Loss and Bereavement.
Philadelphia: Open University Press, 1999. Part of the Health Psychology series,
Sheilla Payne and Sandra Horn, editors.
In an effort to provide students with an understanding of specific models of
adaptation to loss and important theoretical perspectives, the authors discuss
how conceptual models have been used in clinical and community interventions
and critique them. This comprehensive text examines the many variations to ap-
proaching loss and bereavement. Special attention is given to loss and bereave-
ment in social and cultural contexts, emphasizing the significant diversity of
approaches. Includes extensive references.
1326. Peacock, Carol Antoinette. Death and Dying. Portland, OR: Green Earth
Books, 2005.
Peacock, a child psychologist, presents this text on grieving as a guidebook
with specific steps for dealing with the pain of loss.
1327. Pearson, Althea. Growing through Loss and Grief: Dealing with Life’s
Tough Times. London: Marshall Pickering, 1998.
1328. Pike, Diane Kennedy. Life Is Victorious!: How to Grow through Grief.
New York: Simon & Schuster, 1976. Also published by Pocket Books, New
York, in 1977.
This book is a positive, cheery approach to dealing with grief.
1329. Pincus, Lily. Death and the Family: The Importance of Mourning. New
York: Pantheon Books, 1974. Also published by Vintage Paperbacks in 1976,
and Random House, New York, in 1976.
A frequently cited classic of bereavement literature, Pincus’s book uses per-
sonal stories gleaned from her work as a psychotherapist and social worker to re-
lay the critical importance of the bereavement process. She examines the effects
of grief on marriages, widowhood, repressed mourning, and effective methods
and tools for helping the bereaved. Pincus founded the Institute for Marital Stud-
ies at the Tavistock Institute for Human Relations in London. She notes in her
preface that she was seventy-five years old when she began writing this book.
1330. Pollock, George H. The Mourning-Liberation Process. Madison, CT:
International Universities Press, 1989. Published in two volumes.
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accounts of loss and bereavement. In this book, Rosenblatt explores many facets
and nuances of the diarists and their grief. Topics covered include the truthful-
ness of diarists in communicating their grief, their understanding of when the loss
occurred, patterning of grief, theories of grief work and its stages, anticipation
of death and separations, infant and maternal deaths, terminal care, changes over
time in mentions of loss, sibling and spousal loss, controlling grief, grief and
family symptoms, spiritism, heavenly reunions, substitutions for the lost, child-
naming and the seeking of a substitute, symbolic interaction theory, and widow-
hood. Three appendixes discuss working with diaries, the diarists the author re-
searched, and statistics. Includes a bibliography and name and subject indexes.
1349. Ross, E. Betsy. Life after Suicide: A Ray of Hope for Those Left Behind.
New York: Insight Books, 1997.
1350. Roth, Deborah. Stepping Stones to Grief Recovery. New York: Borgo
Press, 1988. Published with the Center for Help in Times of Loss. Also cited as
being published by IBS Press, Santa Monica, CA, in 1988.
1351. Ruitenbeek, Hendrik Marinus. Death and Mourning. Northvale, NJ:
Jason Aronson, 1995.
1352. Russell, Robert A. Dry Those Tears. Santa Monica, CA: DeVorss & Co.,
1975.
1353. Rynearson, Edward K. Retelling Violent Death. Philadelphia: Brunner-
Routledge, 2001.
Emphasizing that a violent death is more than a death in that it is caused by
external action, Rynearson writes about how the drama of violent dying is most
commonly retold as a story, and the compulsive replaying of this story “often
eclipses the retelling of [the person’s] living—the way they died takes precedence
over the way they lived.” He notes that the continuous replaying of this story
becomes unbearable, as it can only end in terror. Through the book, appropriate
for both clinicians and family members, Rynearson endeavors to help the reader
achieve a retelling that is restorative. He defines this as the “narrative reframing
of a violent dying story to include the teller as participant, rather than a horrified
witness, and to reconnect the teller with the living memories of the deceased.”
Among the topics explored are reenactment stories, resilient retelling, moving
from incoherent to coherent retelling, the incoherence of intense distress, illus-
trations of restorative retelling, retelling for children and adolescents, a model of
restorative retelling, specialized interventions, retelling the literature of death and
dying, and foretelling clinical challenges. An appendix features screening and
interventions for violent dying support, including support group guidance and
structures. Includes references and an index. Rynearson is a clinical professor of
psychiatry at the University of Washington and medical director of the Homicide
Support Project at the Virginia Mason Medical Center in Seattle, Washington.
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1354. Salem, Harry, and Cheryl Salem. From Grief to Glory: Rediscovering
Life after Loss. New Kensington, PA: Whitaker House, 2003.
1355. ———. From Mourning to Morning: Discovering the Healing Power of
God’s Love to Take You from Grief to Glory. Tulsa, OK: Harrison House Pub-
lishers, 2001.
1356. Sanders, Catherine M. Grief: The Mourning After, Dealing with Adult
Bereavement. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 1989. Part of the Wiley Series on
Personality Processes, Irving B. Weiner, editor.
Intended for caregivers and health professionals, this book is a clinical ex-
amination of loss and grief. It offers practical suggestions for those who care for
the bereaved. Sanders presents her “Integrative Theory of Bereavement,” which
describes the phases of grief following the death of a loved one and provides
the basis for interventions during the grieving period. The phases include shock,
awareness of loss, conservation/withdrawal, healing, and renewal. She includes a
review of the evolution of bereavement theories and a discussion of complicated
grief, personality variables, social-situational variables, and death and the “family
constellation.” She also reviews the differences between the deaths of children,
spouses, and parents. A list of references as well as author and subject indexes
are included. A clinical practitioner in Charlotte, North Carolina, Sanders was
founder and coordinator of the Loss and Bereavement Resource Center at the
University of South Florida in Tampa.
1357. ———. Surviving Grief and Learning to Live Again. New York: Wiley,
1992.
1358. Sanders, Catherine M., P. A. Mauger, and P. N. Strong. A Manual for
the Grief Experience Inventory. Palo Alto, CA: Consulting Psychologist Press,
1977.
1359. Schatz, William H. Healing a Father’s Grief. Redmond, WA: Medic
Publishing Co., 1984.
1360. Schiff, Harriett Sarnoff. Living through Mourning: Finding Comfort and
Hope When a Loved One Has Died. New York: Viking Press, 1986.
1361. Schleifer, Jay. Everything You Need to Know When Someone You Know
Has Been Killed. New York: Rosen Publishing Group, 1998.
1362. Schmitt, Abraham. Turn Again to Life: Growing Old through Grief.
Scottdale, PA: Herald Press, 1987.
1363. Schneider, John. Stress, Loss, and Grief: Understanding Their Origins
and Growth Potential. Baltimore, MD: University Park Press, 1984. Also pub-
lished by Aspen Systems Corporation, Rockville, MD, in 1984.
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1372. Shaw, Eva. What to Do When a Loved One Dies: A Practical and Com-
passionate Guide to Dealing with Death on Life’s Terms. Irvine, CA: Dickens
Press, 1993. Published by Writeriffic Publishing Group, Carlsbad, CA, in 2005.
In this thorough guide and sourcebook for those dealing with the death of a
loved one, Shaw offers suggestions for dealing with news of a death in the hours
immediately following notification, with specifics depending on the location and
manner of death. She discusses hospice, death in a care facility/at home/at work,
death certificates, autopsies, religious views of varying treatments of the body
following death, contacting family members, disposition, embalming, rituals,
funerals, memorial and committal services, memorial societies, death announce-
ments, and death etiquette. Additional chapters focus on loss; stages of grief;
coping with traumatic death; homicide and suicide; euthanasia; differences in
bereavement between genders, sexes, and age groups; support groups; recovery
through twelve-step programs; wills; legal issues; and benefits. She continues
on to include suggestions for such special situations as the death of a travel
companion, talking with the press when a death becomes a media event, when
death occurs abroad, and the public ordeal of a violent crime. The text includes
numerous quotes in the margins. Includes hundreds of listings of resources, sup-
port groups, and other places to seek assistance. Also offers information about the
Dougy Center for Grieving Children in Portland, Oregon. Although there is no
bibliography, excellent references are scattered throughout the book.
1373. Sheepshanks, Mary. The Bird of My Loving: A Personal Response to
Loss and Grief. London: M. Joseph, 1997.
1374. Sherr, Lorraine. Grief and AIDS. New York: Wiley, 1995.
1375. Shoshanna, Brenda. Embarkations: A Guide to Dealing with Death and
Parting. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1982.
1376. Silverman, Phyllis Rolfe. Helping Women Cope with Grief. Beverly
Hills, CA: Sage Publications, 1981.
1377. Silverman, William B., and Kenneth M. Cinnamon. When Mourning
Comes: A Book of Comfort for the Grieving. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, 1982.
Also cited as being published by Nelson-Hall, Chicago.
A book of comfort for the grieving, this text includes several literary, historical,
and religious references. Each chapter concludes with a page entitled “One Step
at a Time!” and offers suggestions for coping with bereavement. Also includes
several inspirational quotes. A bit melodramatic at times, the book’s introduction
notes it is “written for you with a pen dipped in tears.”
1378. Singer, Lilly, Margaret Sirot, and Susan Rodd. Beyond Loss: A Practical
Guide through Grief to a Meaningful Life. New York: Dutton, 1988.
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1379. Smith, Harold Ivan. Death and Grief: Healing through Support. Min-
neapolis, MN: Augsburg Fortress, 1995.
1380. ———. A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss While Others Are Cel-
ebrating. Kansas City, MO: Beacon Hill Press, 1999.
1381. ———. Friendgrief: An Absence Called Presence. Amityville, NY: Bay-
wood Publishing, 2001. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D.
Morgan, editor.
1382. ———. The Grief Care Guide. Kansas City, MO: Beacon Hill Press,
2002.
1383. Smith, Kathleen. Help for the Bereaved. London: Duckworth, 1978.
1384. ———. The Stages of Sorrow. Totowa, NJ: Biblio Distribution Centre,
1978.
1385. Smolin, Ann, and John Guinan. Healing after the Suicide of a Loved One.
New York: Simon & Schuster, 1993.
1386. Soder-Alderfer, Kay. With Those Who Grieve: Twenty Grief Survivors
Share Their Stories of Loss, Pain, and Hope. Elgin, IL: Lion Publishing, 1994.
1387. Spall, Bob, and Stephen Callis. Loss, Bereavement, and Grief: A Guide
to Effective Caring. Cheltenham, England: Stanley Thorne, 1997.
1388. Spiegel, Yorick. The Grief Process. London: SCM Press, 1978.
1389. ———. The Grief Process: Analysis and Counseling. Nashville, TN:
Abingdon Press, 1977.
1390. Spies, Karen Bornemann. Everything You Need to Know about Grieving.
New York: Rosen Publishing Group, 1990.
1391. Sprang, Ginny, and John S. McNeil. The Many Faces of Bereavement:
The Nature and Treatment of Natural, Traumatic, and Stigmatized Grief. New
York: Brunner/Mazel, 1995.
Beginning with a theoretical overview of traditional models of grief, the
authors explore typical grief responses, parental and spousal grief, and death
among the elderly. They then move on to an in-depth analysis and discussion of
traumatic grief and stigmatized grief. The section on traumatic grief examines
bereavement following death by murder, drunk driving, community disaster,
and critical incident. The section on stigmatized grief offers the same treatment
for bereavement associated with suicide and an AIDS-related death. As with
many books on thanatological subjects, this one notes the significant research
on bereavement of recent decades, particularly in the more specialized areas of
traumatic and stigmatized grief. Includes an appendix with a list of organizations
for survivors and victims, a bibliography, and name and subject indexes.
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1392. Staudacher, Carol. Beyond Grief: A Guide for Recovering from the Death
of a Loved One. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 1987.
Staudacher offers an extremely detailed guide for the bereaved. The text is
full of specific suggestions for coping and dealing with a multitude of feelings
following the death of a loved one. She discusses the grief experience; disbe-
lief and numbness; the need for ritual; feelings of guilt, anger, fear, anxiety,
and despair; specific issues associated with the loss based on relationship to
the deceased; and issues related to the manner of death. These chapters address
accidental death, suicide, and murder. Staudacher offers guidelines for support
groups, ways to reach out for help, and suggestions for helping others grieve.
She also includes tips for assessing progress through bereavement. Her sug-
gestions are easily located in bulleted lists. A list of references is included.
1393. ———. Men and Grief: A Guide for Men Surviving the Death of a Loved
One: A Resource for Caregivers and Mental Health Professionals. Oakland, CA:
New Harbinger Publications, 1991.
1394. ———. A Time to Grieve: Meditations for Healing after the Death of a
Loved One. San Francisco, CA: HarperSanFrancisco, 1994.
This book is a collection of meditations for those who have lost a loved one.
1395. Stein, Diane. On Grief and Dying: Understanding the Soul’s Journey.
Freedom, CA: Crossing Press, 1996.
The author of several books on natural healing and spirituality, Stein presents
a guide to grieving and death from this perspective. She incorporates resources
from Greek mythology, psychic healing, and the contemporary Goddess move-
ment. She discusses death and rebirth; psychic contact with the dead; understand-
ing bereavement; acceptance of one’s own death; helping loved ones grieve;
reincarnation; and learning to accept, trust, and let go.
1396. Stroebe, Margaret S., Wolfgang Stroebe, and Robert O. Hansson, eds.
Handbook of Bereavement: Theory, Research, and Intervention. New York:
Cambridge University Press, 1993. Revised edition published in 1999. Pub-
lished in 2001 as Handbook of Bereavement Research: Theory, Research, and
Intervention.
Fifty-one contributors provide twenty-nine articles arranged into eight parts.
The articles focus on the phenomenology and measurement of grief; current
theories of grief, mourning, and bereavement; physiological changes following
bereavement; psychological, social, and health impacts of conjugal bereavement;
grief reactions to different types of loss; and coping, counseling, and therapy. The
editors also provide a framework for the book with an introductory article on be-
reavement research and theory and a conclusory article discussing contemporary
themes and controversies in bereavement research. Includes forty-six pages of
references as well as author and subject indexes.
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1397. Switzer, David K. The Dynamics of Grief: Its Sources, Pain, and Heal-
ing. Nashville, TN: Abingdon Press, 1970.
1398. Tagliaferre, Lewis, and Oary L. Harbaugh. Recovery from Loss: A
Personalized Guide to the Grieving Process. Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Com-
munications, 1990.
1399. Tallmer, Margot. Women Facing Loss: Disease, Bereavement, and Emo-
tional Response. New York: Foundation of Thanatology, 1996.
1400. Tanner, Dennis C. Aphasia: The Family’s Guide to the Psychology of
Loss, Grief, and Adjustment. Tulsa, OK: Modern Education Corp., 1984.
1401. Tanner, I. J. The Gift of Grief: Healing the Pain of Everyday Losses. New
York: Hawthorn Books, 1976.
Tanner addresses the stages of grief, morbid grief, substance abuse associated
with grief, and feelings of isolation in this overview of loss and bereavement.
1402. Tarlow, Sarah. Bereavement and Commemoration: An Archeology of
Mortality. Oxford, UK: Blackwell, 1999.
1403. Tatelbaum, Judy. The Courage to Grieve: Creative Living, Recovery, and
Growth. New York: Lippencott & Crowell, 1980. Published by Harper-Collins,
New York, in 1984. Also published by William Heinemann, London, in 1990, as
The Courage to Grieve: Creative Living, Recovery, and Growth through Grief.
Noting that grief is a natural, inevitable human experience, Tatelbaum pro-
vides a self-help book focused on grief following the death of a loved one. She
explores the many emotions that accompany this grief, including sorrow, guilt,
confusion, despair, resentment, and loneliness. She offers advice on coping
with the immediate experience of death as well as moving through the stages
of bereavement. Tatelbaum includes helpful information on understanding
the unique nature of grief among children. She counters the theory that grief
never ends and offers specific techniques for “finishing” or completing grief.
Appendixes include “The Dying Person’s Bill of Rights” and “Things to Be
Done after a Death Occurs,” a 19-item list of specific actions to take following
a death. Includes a brief bibliography. A psychiatric social worker at the Payne
Whitney Clinic of New York/Cornell Medical Center, she also worked at the
Massachusetts Mental Health Center and the Columbia University School of
Social Work.
1404. Temes, Roberta. Living with an Empty Chair: A Guide through Grief.
New York: Irvington Publishers, 1984. Also published by Mandala Press, Am-
herst, NY, in 1977.
1405. Tengbom, Mildred. Grief for a Season. Minneapolis, MN: Bethany
House Publishers, 1989.
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1406. Thompson, Neil. Loss and Grief: A Guide for Human Services Practitio-
ners. New York: Palgrave, 2002.
1407. Thornton, V. K. The Survivor’s Guide. Los Angeles: Silver Lake Pub-
lishing, 2004.
1408. Tis’Ney, Carol. Mourner, Come to My Bosom. Los Angeles: De Vorse,
1933.
1409. Treadway, David C. Dead Reckoning: A Therapist Confronts His Own
Grief. New York: Basic Books, 1996.
1410. Tuck, William P. Facing Grief and Death. Nashville, TN: Broadman,
1975.
1411. Vail, Elaine. A Personal Guide to Living with Loss. New York: Wiley,
1982.
Vail, a professor and radio host, uses her research and personal experiences to
provide a layperson’s guide to bereavement.
1412. Valentine, Bill. A Season of Grief. Binghamton, NY: Harrington Park
Press, 2006.
Through this memoir about the loss of his partner, Valentine offers guidance
on recovering from devastating grief. It is both a love story and a narrative about
a journey through grief.
1413. Van Praagh, James. Healing Grief: Reclaiming Life after Any Loss. New
York: Dutton, 2000.
Van Praagh, an internationally known medium who claims to communicate
with spiritual realms, offers this self-help book for the bereaved. He advocates
grieving in personal ways rather than conforming to societal norms. He includes
many stories from his work as a medium. The book is filled with specific sug-
gestions on dealing with grief. A list of groups and associations as well as a brief
bibliography are included.
1414. Volkan, Vamik D., and Elizabeth Zintl. Life after Loss: The Lessons of
Grief. New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1993.
Arranged in sections on complicated and uncomplicated mourning, this text
explores not only the process of grieving and its many forms but also the life-
changing effects of bereavement and the lessons it offers. Volkan, a psychiatrist
and psychoanalyst, discusses the work of mourning and letting go, using loss
as a vehicle for growth (a chapter he calls “Brutal Gifts”), circumstances that
complicate mourning, denial, when loss has no resolution, depression resulting
from grief, and differences between parents and children in bereavement. A final
section addresses possible resolutions, including therapy. Zintl is a journalist.
Includes a bibliography.
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1415. Vredevelt, Pam W. Empty Arms. Portland, OR: Multnomah Press, 1984.
1416. Walsh, Froma, and Monica McGoldrick, eds. Living beyond Loss: Death
in the Family. New York: W. W. Norton, 1995. Originally published in 1991.
Second edition paperback published by W. W. Norton, New York, in 2004.
1417. Walter, Carolyn Ambler. The Loss of a Life Partner: Narratives of the
Bereaved. New York: Columbia University Press, 2003.
Walter presents a broad review of various types of life partner loss, offers
suggestions for the helping professions, and describes possible clinical inter-
ventions. Chapters address losses related to spouses, opposite-sex partners, gay
partners, and lesbian partners. She provides discussion on similar and diverse
themes among bereaved partners, including ambivalence regarding existing ties
with bereaved partners, discrimination experienced by surviving partners, using
memories and continuing bonds in coping with grief, developing new relation-
ships, and making meaning from loss. Several intervention models are offered. A
brief discussion of clinical implications for response to the events of September
11, 2001 is included. Also includes references and an index.
1418. Walter, Tony. On Bereavement: The Culture of Grief. Philadelphia: Open
University Press, 1999. Part of the Facing Death series, David Clark, editor.
Colin Murray Parkes referred to this book as a “tour de force” on the social
position of the bereaved, a place between the living and the dead, with many
judgments from society on how to grieve. Walter discusses how the bereaved
have their grief inappropriately pathologized and policed. He covers historical
views on death and bereavement, current popular culture, politics of gender, and
an analysis of bereavement care. Includes an appendix detailing the author’s re-
search and an extensive list of references.
1419. Walton, Charlie. When There Are No Words: Finding Your Way to Cope
with Loss and Grief. Ventura, CA: Pathfinder Publishing, 1996.
1420. Weisman, Avery D. The Coping Capacity: On the Nature of Being Mor-
tal. New York: Human Sciences Press, 1984.
1421. Weizman, Savine Gross, and Phyllis Kamm. About Mourning: Support
and Guidance for the Bereaved. New York: Human Sciences Press, 1985.
Filled with personal stories and vignettes, this practical guide for the bereaved
discusses ritualized mourning through the funeral, the process of mourning,
dreams and expressions of grief, the return of grief during holidays and an-
niversaries, the death of a mate, the family as a support network, children and
grief, children and death, issues with adolescents, parental death, complicated
mourning, the importance of memories in mourning, and contemporary ethical
wills. The authors offer advice on how others can help those grieving. Includes
references and a brief index.
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1422. Welshons, John E. Awakening from Grief: Finding the Way Back to Joy.
Makawao, Maui, HI: Inner Ocean, 2003. Distributed by Publishers Group West.
Originally published by Open Heart Publications, Little Falls, NJ, in 2000.
In 1981, Welshons founded Open Heart Seminars, an organization “dedicated
to enhancing spiritual education and awareness in our society.” In this book, he
offers uplifting stories and vignettes to help people recover from grief. He also
gives suggestions for coping with anger, loving and living again after a death,
finding inner peace, healing relationships, rediscovering joy, learning to forgive,
and helping others to grieve. Includes a list of recommended reading. Foreword
by Wayne W. Dyer, author of Ten Secrets for Success and Inner Peace.
1423. Wengerd, Sara. A Healing Grief: Walking with Your Friend through
Loss. Scottdale, PA: Herald Press, 2002.
Foreword by Larry Kehler.
1424. Wertheimer, Alison. A Special Scar: The Experiences of People Be-
reaved by Suicide. New York: Tavistock/Routledge, 1991.
1425. Westberg, Granger E. Good Grief: A Constructive Approach to the Prob-
lem of Loss. Rock Island, IL: Augustana Press, 1962. Also published by Fortress
Press, Philadelphia.
1426. Whitaker, Agnes, ed. All in the End Is Harvest: An Anthology for Those
Who Grieve. London: Darton, Longman and Todd, 1984.
Introduction by Colin Murray Parkes.
1427. White, James R. Grieving: Our Path Back to Peace. Minneapolis, MN:
Bethany House Publishers, 1997.
White, a counselor and hospital chaplain, offers a Christian-based approach to
healing the hurt of grief in this 87-page paperback.
1428. Wilson, Antoine. You and a Death in Your Family. New York: Rosen
Central, 2001.
Wilson presents a general book about death and grief for young people. It con-
tains several photographs depicting children dealing with the emotions associated
with losing a loved one. Wilson deals frankly with the subject, explaining crema-
tion and donations of bodies to science. Topics covered include talking about
death, feelings about death, emotional stages of grieving, and funerals. Includes a
very limited glossary with poorly selected terms; names, websites, and addresses
of organizations to go to for help; and a list of six books for further reading.
1429. Wolfe, Thomas. From Death to Mourning. New York: Charles Scribner
& Sons, 1958.
1430. Wolfelt, Alan D. Healing a Friend’s Grieving Heart: One Hundred
Practical Ideas for Helping Someone You Love through Loss. Fort Collins, CO:
190 Chapter 16
Companion Press, 2001. Companion Press is an imprint for the Center for Loss
and Life Transition.
Wolfelt offers ideas for compassionately helping a friend through their be-
reavement. Through these numbered ideas, he teaches the fundamentals of grief
and mourning.
1431. ———. Healing Grief at Work: One Hundred Practical Ideas after Your
Workplace Is Touched by Loss. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2005. Com-
panion Press is an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
1432. ———. Healing the Grieving Heart: Practical Ideas for Families,
Friends, and Caregivers. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 1998. Companion
Press is an imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
1433. ———. Healing Your Grieving Heart: One Hundred Practical Ideas.
Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 1998. Companion Press is an imprint for the
Center for Loss and Life Transition.
Wolfelt offers 100 ideas on how to help yourself mourn, encouraging the
reader to take small steps toward recovering from grief.
1434. ———. The Journey through Grief: Reflections on Healing. 2nd ed. Fort
Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2003. Companion Press is an imprint for the
Center for Loss and Life Transition.
1435. ———. Understanding Grief: Helping Yourself Heal. Muncie, IN: Ac-
celerated Development, Inc., 1992.
1436. Wong, Mary M. Understanding Your Grieving Heart after a Loved
One’s Death. Longwood, FL: ADM Publishing, 2001.
Wong, editor of the National Directory of Bereavement Support Groups and
Services, provides a sourcebook for those grieving the death of a loved one. The
work contains helpful suggestions on dealing with anger, fear, stress, loneliness,
regrets, and depression. She writes about myths behind the grieving process; the
stages of grief; and such manifestations of grief as emotional, physical, intellec-
tual, spiritual, and financial challenges. Wong also covers the effects of grief on
marriage and children as well as relationships with family, friends, and cowork-
ers. She offers several suggestions on how to honor a loved one’s memory and
how to get through holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries. Much of the book is
devoted to helpful resources, including extensive information about hotlines and
support organizations. A selected bibliography divided by subject is also incor-
porated.
1437. Worden, J. William, ed. Dealing with Grief. New York: John Wiley &
Sons, 1996. Part of the IN SESSION: Psychotherapy in Practice series, Marvin
R. Goldfried, editor in chief.
In this serial for professionals, therapists address how grief is both similar
to and different from clinical depression, the characteristics of complicated
Grief and Mourning 191
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194 Chapter 17
Includes the foreword to the original edition, a select bibliography, and an exten-
sive list of illustrations.
1451. Bremer, J. M., Theo P. J. Van Den Hout, and Rudolph Peters. Hidden
Futures: Death and Immortality in Ancient Egypt, Anatolia, the Classical, Bibli-
cal, and Arabic-Islamic World. Amsterdam, Netherlands: Amsterdam University
Press, 1994.
1452. Colman, Penny. Corpses, Coffins, and Crypts: A History of Burial. New
York: Henry Holt and Company, 1997.
1453. Comper, Frances M. M., ed. Ars Morendi: The Book of the Craft of Dying
and Other Early English Tracts Concerning Death. New York: Arno Press, 1976.
The tracts are taken from manuscripts and printed books in the British Museum
and Bodleian Library. First edition published by Longmans, Green & Company,
London, in 1917.
1454. Curl, James Stevens. The Victorian Celebration of Death. New York:
Gale, 1972. Also published by David & Charles, London, and Partridge Press,
Detroit, in 1972.
With this survey of Victorian approaches and attitudes toward death, Curl
writes about funeral rites and ceremonies during this period as well as tombs,
mausoleums, cemeteries, and gravestones.
1455. Davey, Richard. A History of Mourning. London: Jay’s, 1890.
1456. Davies, Douglas James. A Brief History of Death. Malden, MA: Black-
well Publishing, 2005.
Davies notes that our interest in death is “infused with emotion, whether that of
the experience of bereavement or of its anticipation, or of the thought of our own
mortality” and that his book “seeks to capture some of these moods as reflected
within the kaleidoscope of the history, religion, and culture of many societies.”
Great emphasis is placed on how death in its many interpretations manifests it-
self in various societies. Death rituals are explored and several photographs are
included. These images include the interior and exterior of a Stockholm crema-
torium; an Auschwitz memorial; religious symbolism at a crematorium in Bor-
deaux; Memorial Day in rural Utah; a Hungarian gravestone; a communal memo-
rial in South Wales; and an exhibit in Amsterdam featuring eco-friendly funeral
products, including a backpack coffin. Includes a bibliography and an index.
1458. Duckett, Eleanor Shipley. Death and Life in the Tenth Century. Ann
Arbor: University of Michigan Press, 1967.
1459. Fedden, Henry Romilly. Suicide: A Social and Historical Study. London:
P. Davies, Ltd., 1938.
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1460. Filene, Peter G. In the Arms of Others: A Cultural History of the Right-
to-Die in America. Chicago: Ivan R. Dee, 1998.
1461. Frenay, Adolph Dominic. The Suicide Problem in the United States.
Boston: R. G. Badger, 1927.
1462. Gardiner, Alan H. The Attitude of Ancient Egyptians to Death and the
Dead. Cambridge, UK: Cambridge University Press, 1935.
1463. Gittings, C. Death, Burial, and the Individual in Early Modern England.
London: Routledge, 1988.
1464. Greene, Carlton. Death and Sleep: Their Analogy Illustrated by Ex-
amples. London: Elliot Stock, 1904.
1465. Holck, Frederick H., ed. Death and Eastern Thought: Understanding
Death in Eastern Religions and Philosophies. Nashville, TN: Abingdon Press,
1974.
Holck, professor of religious studies and coordinator of Asian studies at Cleve-
land State University, presents a comparative study of death traditions in various
Eastern cultures through eight articles, two of which he himself has authored.
He considers the subject with the assumption that Western approaches to death
and dying and the awakening to its complexity can be much informed by East-
ern thought. He addresses ideas on diet, caste systems, artifacts, reincarnation,
heaven and hell, and proper lifestyle. Includes notes.
1466. Homans, Peter, ed. Symbolic Loss: The Ambiguity of Mourning and
Memory at Century’s End. Charlottesville: University Press of Virginia, 2000.
Part of the Studies in Religion and Culture series, Frank Burch Brown, Gary L.
Ebersole, and Edith Wyschogrod, editors.
Homans, professor of psychology and religious studies at the University of
Chicago, and his fellow writers examine loss in the historical and anthropological
context of mourning, specifically the decline of mourning practices in the West.
Among the topics explored are inherited mourning, “sorrow songs” in Harlem
Renaissance thought, the ambiguity of remembrance, melancholia, and a theory
of symbolic loss. Articles include references and suggestions for further reading.
Includes an excellent, extensive index.
1467. Houlbrooke, Ralph A., ed. Death, Ritual, and Bereavement. New York:
Routledge, in association with the Social History Society of the United Kingdom,
1989.
Houlbrooke provides a social history of death in Britain through a series of
articles. Themes include the significance of death in Victorian Britain; individual
responses to death in seventeenth-century Britain; the concept of the good death
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1468. Isenberg, Nancy, and Andrew Burstein, eds. Mortal Remains: Death in
Early America. Philadelphia: University of Pennsylvania Press, 2003.
An assemblage of articles on various aspects of death and the death ritual in
early America, this book examines the death attitudes, concepts of mortality,
the politics of death, issues with physical remains, and thoughts on the afterlife.
Specific subjects include dismemberment, burial and rebelliousness in slave soci-
eties, death in the early American novel, excesses of public eulogy in immortaliz-
ing the founding fathers, death and satire, the roots of American crime literature,
and epidemics and rituals of death in Boston and Philadelphia in the eighteenth
century. Includes twenty-four illustrations, extensive notes, brief biographical
information on each contributor, and an index.
1469. Jupp, Peter C., and Glennys Howarth, eds. The Changing Face of Death:
Historical Accounts of Death and Disposal. New York: St. Martin’s Press,
1997.
1470. Kapleau, Philip. The Wheel of Death: A Collection of Writings from Zen
Buddhists and Other Sources on Dying, Death, Rebirth. New York: Harper &
Row, 1971. Author assisted by Paterson Simons.
In this 110-page hardback, Kapleau assembles writings by both ancient and
contemporary minds reflecting a Zen Buddhist perspective on death matters. The
work was developed from a series of articles that first appeared in Zen Bow, the
publication of the Zen Center of Rochester, New York. Includes a superb glos-
sary and an index.
1471. Laderman, Gary. Rest in Peace: A Cultural History of Death and the
Funeral Home in America. New York: Oxford University Press, 2003.
Through a history of funeral homes and mortuary practices, Laderman pro-
vides a unique perspective on death, death attitudes, and how Americans think
about and deal with the subject. He notably takes issue with many of Jessica
Mitford’s accusations about the funeral industry in The American Way of Death,
and his book is considered a long-awaited rebuttal of her book and a defense of
the industry.
1472. Lerner, E. and J. Devils, Demons, Death, and Damnation. New York:
Dover Publications, 1971.
This book is a collection of writings from the Medieval and Renaissance peri-
ods on death, demons, and the world beyond.
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1473. Llewellyn, Nigel. The Art of Death: Visual Culture in the English Death
Ritual, c. 1500–1800. London: Reaktion Books, 1991. Published in association
with the Victoria and Albert Museum in London.
Llewellyn presents a fascinating exploration of the meanings behind various
artifacts used in preindustrial English death rituals. Noting that people would
surround themselves with momento mori and that “this continual confrontation
with death was enhanced by a rich culture of visual artifacts,” he provides com-
mentary on and description of wax effigies; mourning rings and fans; death’s
head spoons; church monuments; Dance of Death prints; funeral invitations and
ephemera; jewels and swords; and the art of William Blake, Hans Holbein, and
William Hogarth, among others.
1474. Mack, Arien, ed. Death in American Experience. New York: Schocken
Books, 1973.
1475. Morley, John. Death, Heaven, and the Victorians. Pittsburgh, PA: Uni-
versity of Pittsburgh Press, 1971.
1476. O’Connor, Mary Catherine. The Art of Dying Well: The Development of
Ars Moriendi. New York: Columbia University Press, 1942.
1477. Pelikan, Jaroslav. The Shape of Death, Life, and Immortality in the Early
Fathers. Nashville, TN: Abingdon Press, 1961.
1478. Reynolds, Frank E., and Earle H. Waugh, eds. Religious Encounters with
Death: Insights from the History and Anthropology of Religions. University Park:
Pennsylvania State University Press, 1977.
1479. Shively, Charles. A History of the Conception of Death in America,
1650–1860. New York: Garland Publishing, 1988. Part of Harvard Disserta-
tions in American History and Political Science, Frank Freidel and Ernest
May, editors.
Shively devotes much of the preface to recommending other titles of interest
on his topic. This book began as his doctoral dissertation and explores the taboo
of death in early American life. He writes about Puritan ideas of death, early at-
titudes toward death and dying, enlightened ideas of death, Quakers and Shakers
and their views, death and the imagination, and rituals. Shively includes ten pho-
tographs, mostly images of paintings featuring death themes and photographs of
cemeteries and tombstones. He includes an interesting section on garden cemeter-
ies that features a list of cemeteries with their locations and year of commence-
ment. Includes notes and a list of primary and secondary sources.
1480. Stannard, David E. The Puritan Way of Death: A Study in Religion, Cul-
ture, and Social Change. New York: Oxford University Press, 1977.
198 Chapter 17
1481. Taylor, Timothy. The Buried Soul: How Humans Invented Death. Bos-
ton: Beacon Press, 2002.
Taylor explores how humans have viewed and related to death throughout his-
tory. He examines the mystery of death, how early humans amazingly divided the
physical body from the spirit that animated it, cannibalism, vampirism, modern
mummification, human sacrifice, near-death experiences, and the bewilderment
of death. Extensive notes and a lengthy bibliography are included. Taylor is a
member of the archeological faculty at the University of Bradford in the United
Kingdom.
1482. Toynbee, Jocelyn M. C. Death and Burial in the Roman World. Balti-
more, MD: Johns Hopkins University Press, 1996. Also cited as being authored
by Arnold Toynbee and published by Cornell University Press, Ithaca, NY, in
1970.
1483. Tromp, Nicholas J. Primitive Conceptions of Death and the Nether
World in the Old Testament. Rome: Pontifical Biblical Institute, 1969. The title
is also cited as Biblica et Orietalia (Sacra Scriptura Antiquitatibus Orientalibus
Illustrata) 21. Also published by Loyola Press, Chicago, in 1969.
This text is Tromp’s dissertation with additional bibliographical references. A
scholarly treatment of death themes and conceptions in the Old Testament, the
book is heavily cited with scripture and includes indexes to Ugaritic, Hebrew, and
Acadian references and words. Includes subject and author indexes.
1484. Wells, Robert V. Facing the “King of Terrors”: Death and Society in
an American Community, 1750–1990. New York: Cambridge University Press,
2000.
Wells explores American views toward death and their roles in communities.
He provides insights on how Americans’ communications about death have
changed over the past three centuries as well as causes of death and how this has
shaped death attitudes. Includes photographs of funeral embroidery, cemeteries,
tombstones, and other death artifacts.
1485. Whaley, Joachim, ed. Mirrors of Mortality: Studies in the Social History
of Death. New York: St. Martin’s Press, 1981.
Whaley has assembled a collection of essays that offer commentary on death
themes in history. Essays included are Christiane Sourvinou-Inwood’s “To Die
and Enter the House of Hades: Homer, Before and After”; R. C. Finucane’s
“Sacred Corpse, Profane Carrion: Social Ideals and Death Rituals in the Later
Middle Ages”; Paul S. Fritz’s “From Public to Private: The Royal Funerals in
England, 1500–1830”; J. Whaley’s “Symbolism for the Survivors: The Disposal
of the Dead in Hamburg in the Late Seventeenth and Eighteenth Centuries”; John
McManners’s “Death and the French Historians”; David Irwin’s “Sentiment and
Antiquity: European Tombs, 1750–1830”; C. A. Bayly’s “From Ritual to Cer-
emony: Death Ritual and Society in Hindu North India since 1600”; and David
Historical Views of Death and Dying 199
Cannadine’s “War and Death, Grief and Mourning in Modern Britain.” Includes
notes and an index.
1486. Zandee, Jan. Death as an Enemy According to Ancient Egyptian Concep-
tions. New York: Arno Press, 1977. Part of the Literature of Death and Dying
series. Originally published in 1960.
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Hospice
1487. Abbott, John W., ed. Hospice Resource Manual for Local Churches.
New York: Pilgrim Press, 1988.
This book is a 90-page guide for both pastors and lay ministers who find them-
selves in a hospice setting.
1488. Abel-Smith, Brian. The Hospice: 1800–1948. London: Heinemann,
1964.
1489. Amenta, Madalon O’Rawe, and Claire B. Tehan. AIDS and the Hospice
Community. New York: Haworth Press, 1991. Also cited as being published by
Harrington Park Press, New York, in 1991.
1490. Andreae, Christine. When Evening Comes: The Education of a Hospice
Volunteer. New York: St. Martin’s Press, 2000.
1491. Appleton, Michael. Good End: End-of-Life Concerns and Conversations
about Hospice and Palliative Care. Tucson, AZ: Hats Off Books, 2005.
1492. Appleton, Michael, and Todd Henschell. At Home with Terminal Illness:
A Family Guide to Hospice in the Home. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall
Career & Technology, 1995.
1493. Armstrong-Dailey, Ann, and Sarah F. Zarbock. Hospice Care for Chil-
dren. New York: Oxford University Press, 1993. Reprinted in 2001
1494. Bencala, Rose, Elaine McIntosh, and Cynthia Salzman. Hospice Care
Demonstration Project: A Study of Two Models of Hospice Home Care Delivery.
Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Office of Hu-
man Development Services, Administration on Aging, Model Projects in Aging
Program, 1982.
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1500. Care of the Terminally Ill: The Hospice Concept. Rockville, MD: Proj-
ectShare, 1980.
1501. Carey, Deborah Allen. Hospice Inpatient Environments: Compendium
and Guidelines. New York: Van Nostrand Reinhold Publishing, 1986.
1502. Chase, Deborah. Dying at Home with Hospice. St. Louis, MO: C. V.
Mosby Co., 1986.
Chase, editor of the University of California, Berkeley, Wellness Letter, com-
ments on American perceptions of and reactions to death and the dying process
and then provides practical guidance on dying at home with hospice care. She dis-
cusses the hospice movement, hospice in action, the dynamics of dying, families
and children in the hospice context, final hours, grieving with hospice, and legal
and financial considerations. She provides a helpful 47-page chapter featuring
hospice resources in the United States arranged by state. A short bibliography and
two-page glossary are also included. There is no index.
1503. Clark, David, Michael Wright, and Jacek Luczak. Transitions in End-of-
Life Care: Hospice and Related Developments in Eastern Europe and Central
Asia. Philadelphia: Open University Press, 2003.
1504. Cohen, Kenneth P. Hospice, Prescription for Terminal Care. German-
town, MD: Aspen Systems Corporation, 1979.
Cohen offers both an introduction to hospice care and a sourcebook for the
terminally ill and those who care for them. He begins with a discussion of hospice
versus hospital care and continues with a history of the hospice movement, not-
ing its origins in the Middle Ages. Other topics covered include dignity in death
and quality of life for terminally ill patients, attitudes toward death, death fear,
grief and bereavement, right-to-die issues, hospice models, elements of a success-
ful hospice program, cost considerations in care of the terminally ill, symptom
control, health insurance issues, legislation surrounding death issues, definitions
of death, and roadblocks to the hospice movement. Includes a description of
notable U.S. and Canadian hospices in chapter 11. Appendixes include a list of
hospices; a descriptive list of organizations dealing with death issues; guidelines
and directives for the California Natural Death Act; and various surveys for insur-
ance companies, hospitals, and hospices. Includes an index and a bibliography of
books and articles.
1505. Collett, Merrill. At Home with Dying: A Zen Hospice Approach. Boston:
Shambhala Publications, 1999.
1506. Connor, Stephen R. Hospice: Practice, Pitfalls, and Promise. Washing-
ton, DC: Taylor & Francis, 1998.
1507. Corless, Inge B., and Zelda Foster. The Hospice Heritage: Celebrating
Our Future. New York: Haworth Press, 1999.
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1508. Corr, Charles A., and Donna M. Corr, eds. Hospice Care: Principles
and Practice. New York: Springer, 1983. Volume 5 of the Springer Series on
Death and Suicide, Robert J. Kastenbaum, series editor. Also published by Faber,
London.
1509. Cundiff, David E. Euthanasia Is Not the Answer: A Hospice Physician’s
View. Totowa, NJ: Humana Press, 1992.
1510. Davidson, Glenn W. The Hospice: Development and Administration.
Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing, 1978. Part of the Series in Death Edu-
cation, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
1511. Delfosse, Renee. Hospice and Home Health Agency Characteristics:
United States, 1991. Hyattsville, MD: U.S. Department of Health and Human
Services, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Center for Health
Statistics, 1995.
1512. Doyle, Derek. Volunteers in Hospice and Palliative Care: A Handbook
for Volunteer Service Managers. New York: Oxford University Press, 2002.
1513. Du Boulay, Shirley. Cicely Saunders, Founder of the Modern Hospice
Movement. London: Hodder & Stoughton, 1984.
1514. DuBois, Paul M. The Hospice Way of Death. New York: Human Sci-
ences Press, 1980.
Appropriate for general audiences, DuBois presents an easy-to-read overview of
hospice and the hospice movement when it was still developing in the United States.
He offers a definition of hospice, commentary on the quality of dying in the United
States, information on the components of hospice care, text regarding the hospice
movement and the federal response, and case studies with St. Christopher’s Hospice,
Hospice, Inc., and Strong Memorial Hospital. The latter is an example of the failure
to start a hospice. Includes notes, a bibliography, and an index.
1515. ———. Hospices: A New Way to Die. New York: Human Services Press,
1979.
1516. ———. Hospital-Based Palliative Care Teams: The Hospital–Hospice
Interface. New York: Oxford University Press, 1998.
1517. ———. Terminal Care Support Teams: The Hospital–Hospice Interface.
New York: Oxford University Press, 1990.
1518. Ewens, James, and Patricia Herrington. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Jo-
sefina B. Magno Present Hospice: A Handbook for Families and Others Facing
Terminal Illness. Santa Fe, NM: Bear & Co., 1982.
1519. ———. Hospice: A Handbook for Families and Others Facing Terminal
Illness. Santa Fe, NM: Bear & Co., 1983.
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1520. The Family Book of Hospice Care. Minneapolis, MN: Fairview Press,
1999.
1521. Frozena, Cynthia L., and Maryann Hurtt. Hospice Care Planning: An
Interdisciplinary Guide. Gaithersburg, MD: Aspen Publishers, 1999.
1522. Gallagher-Allred, Charlette R., and Madalon O’Rawe Amenta. Nutrition
and Hydration in Hospice Care: Needs, Strategies, Ethics. New York: Haworth
Press, 1993.
1523. Glavan, Denise, Cindy Longanacre, and John Spivey. Hospice, a Labor
of Love. St. Louis, MO: Chalice Press, 1999.
1524. Goldberg, Jim, Dena Andre, Philip Brookman, Jane Livington, and Nan
Goldin, Sally Mann, Jack Radcliffe, and Kathy Vargas. Hospice: A Photographic
Inquiry. Boston: Little, Brown, in association with the Corcoran Gallery of Art
and the National Hospice Foundation, 1996.
1525. Halporn, Roberta, ed. The Hospice Concept. Brooklyn, NY: Highly Spe-
cialized Promotions, 1977. First publication in the Thanatology Service Series.
This work is a compilation of reprinted essays by Joan Kron, Robert Bucking-
ham III, Sylvia Lack, and Donna D. Bettes on hospice design, living with the dy-
ing, and applying the hospice concept. The book includes a selected bibliography
compiled by Halporn, which includes books and articles written by professionals
Robert Lamerton, Barbara McNulty, Colin Murray Parkes, and Robert G. Twycross
working at St. Christopher’s Hospice in England. Also includes titles under the
categories “Other Materials of Relevance,” “Tools for Working with Volunteers,”
“Self-Help Groups,” “Audiovisual Material,” and “Books in Preparation.” Kron’s
essay on hospice design, which was first published in New York Magazine in 1976,
includes interior renderings and floor plans for a proposed hospice facility in New
Haven, Connecticut. All this is contained in nineteen pages.
1526. Hamilton, Michael Pollock, and Helen F. Reid. A Hospice Handbook:
A New Way to Care for the Dying. Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans
Publishing, 1980.
1527. Harris, Marilyn D., Elissa Della Monica, and Pamela Boyd. Handbook of
Hospice Policies and Procedures. Gaithersburg, MD: Aspen Publishers, 1999.
1528. Hastings Center. Access to Hospice Care: Expanding Boundaries, Over-
coming Barriers: A Special Supplement to the Hastings Center Report. Garrison,
NY: Hastings Center, 2003.
1529. Haupt, Barbara J. Development of the National Home and Hospice Care
Survey. Hyattsville, MD: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Public
Health Service, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Center for
Health Statistics, 1994.
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1530. Hayslip, Bert, and Joel Leon. Hospice Care. Newbury Park, CA: Sage
Publications, 1992. Part of the Geriatric Case Practice Training Series, Joel Leon,
editor.
The authors offer an academic exploration of hospice care likely intended
for health care practitioners working with older adults. Chapters focus on
working with patients and families, special knowledge needed for the hospice
environment, the educational role of hospice, communication and assessment
skills in hospice, and the importance of the interdisciplinary team. An intro-
duction to hospice care is also provided and includes some historical back-
ground. Includes an appendix with model fieldwork assignments, references,
and an index.
1531. Health Care Financing Administration, United States Government. Medi-
care Hospice Benefits: A Special Way of Caring for People Who Have a Terminal
Illness. Baltimore, MD: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Health
Care Financing Administration, 1999.
1532. Hill, D., and D. Penso. Opening Doors: Improving Access to Hospice and
Specialist Care Services by Members of Black and Ethnic Minority Communities,
Occasional Paper 7. London: National Council for Hospice and Specialist Pal-
liative Care Services, 1995.
1533. Hilliard, Russell E. Hospice and Palliative Care Music Therapy: A Guide
to Program Development and Clinical Care. Cherry Hill, NJ: Jeffrey Books,
2005.
1534. Hospice as a Social Health Care Institution: Report of the Pre-Forum
Institute of the 105th Annual Forum of the National Conference on Social Wel-
fare. Tacoma, WA: Hillhaven Foundation, 1979. Also published by the National
Conference on Social Welfare, Columbus, OH.
1535. Huber, M. Clinical Protocols for Care of Hospice Patients: An Interdis-
ciplinary Approach. Detroit: Hospice of Michigan Programs, 1994.
1536. Indiana Health Planning and Agency Support Bureau, Plan Development
Section. The Hospice: Care for People with Terminal Illness. Indianapolis: Indi-
ana State Board of Health, 1977.
1537. Infeld, Donna Lind, and Nadine Reimer Penner. Bereavement: Client
Adaptation and Hospice Services. New York: Haworth Press, 1996.
1538. Jaffe, Carolyn, and Carol H. Ehrlich. All Kinds of Love: Experiencing
Hospice. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 1997. Part of the Death, Value,
and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1539. Jennings, Bruce. Ethics in Hospice Care: Challenges to Hospice Values
in a Changing Health Care Environment. New York: Haworth Press, 1997.
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additional reading suggestions, and an index. Also includes a history of the Na-
tional Hospice Organization logo.
1550. Lerman, Dan, and Claire B. Tehan. Hospital–Hospice Management
Models: Integration and Collaboration. Chicago: American Hospital Publishing,
1995.
1551. Lewis, Martyn. Tears and Smiles: The Hospice Handbook. London:
O’Mara, 1989.
1552. Ley, D., and Harry Van Bommel. The Heart of Hospice. Toronto, On-
tario: NC Press Limited, 1994.
1553. Lutheran Welfare Service of Northeastern Pennsylvania, Hospice Saint
John, and Model Projects in Aging Programs (United States). Hospice Saint
John: A Three-Year Demonstration of Hospice Care. Kingston, PA: Hospice,
Inc., 1982. Supported, in part, by a grant, HHS #03AD201, from the Model Proj-
ects in Aging Program, Administration on Aging, Office of Human Development
Services; Department of Health and Human Services.
1554. Manning, Margaret. The Hospice Alternative: Living with Dying. Lon-
don: Souvenir Press, 1984.
1555. Marrelli, Tina M. Hospice and Palliative Care Handbook: Quality,
Compliance, and Reimbursement. St. Louis, MO: Mosby-Year Book, Inc., 1999.
Second edition published in 2004.
1556. ———. Mosby’s Home Care and Hospice Drug Handbook. St. Louis,
MO: Mosby, 1999.
1557. Martocchio, Benita C., and Karin Dufault. Symposia on Hospice, Com-
passionate Care, and the Dying Experience. Philadelphia: Saunders, 1985.
1558. Maryuma, Terence Chikako. Hospice Care and Culture: Comparison of
the Hospice Movement in the West and Japan. Brookfield, VT: Ashgate Publish-
ing, 1999.
1559. McCann, Barbara A., and Karen Liffring Hill. The Hospice Project Re-
port. Chicago: Joint Commission on Accreditation of Hospitals, 1985.
1560. McDonnell, Alice. Quality Hospice Care: Administration, Organization,
and Models. Owings Mills, MD: National Health Publishing, 1986.
1561. McNulty, Elizabeth G., and Robert A. Holderby. Hospice, a Caring
Challenge. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1983.
1562. Mojtabai, A. G. Soon: Tales from Hospice. Cambridge, MA: Zoland
Books, 1998.
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1563. Mor, Vincent, and David S. Greer. The Hospice Movement. Baltimore,
MD: Johns Hopkins University Press, 1988.
1564. Mor, Vincent, and Susan Masterson-Allen. Hospice Care Systems: Struc-
ture, Process, Costs, and Outcome. New York: Springer, 1987. Volume 8 of the
Springer Series on Death and Suicide, Robert J. Kastenbaum, series editor. On
the acknowledgments page, the author notes that “this document was prepared,
in part, in connection with contract #500-85-0024 from the Health Care Financ-
ing Administration of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services to Abt
Associates, Inc., with a subcontract to Brown University, Center for Health Care
Research.”
Mor, associate professor of community health at Brown University and proj-
ect director of the National Hospice Study, offers a thorough exploration of the
hospice organization and operational structure in the United States. He examines
the historical development of the hospice movement, noting its initiation in the
United States in 1974. Mor looks at social trends, legal and ethical issues, policy
matters, governmental roles in hospice settings, and the potential for organiza-
tional change. Other topics covered include the distribution and size of hospices;
hospice ownership and leadership structure; provision and range of services;
patient eligibility; demographics of hospice patients; a summary of case mix
studies; stress and burnout for caretakers of the terminally ill; attitudes toward
death; hospice roles; standards of care in the context of the hospice philosophy;
clinical control of care; pain and symptom management protocols; bereavement
counseling; nutritional support; alternative therapies; pediatric hospice programs;
quality of life outcomes; hospice cost issues, including overall health care cost
savings due to hospice; and hospice on the international scene. Includes lengthy
references and an index.
1565. Morrissey, Paul F. Let Someone Hold You: The Journey of a Hospice
Priest. New York: Crossroads Publishing Co., 1994.
1566. Munley, Anne. The Hospice Alternative: A New Context for Death and
Dying. New York: Basic Books, 1983.
Munley, director of apostolic planning for the congregation of the Immaculate
Heart of Mary in Scranton, Pennsylvania, offers a thorough overview of the hos-
pice model and the hospice movement. Unlike Kübler-Ross, who theorizes about
a series of stages leading to death, Munley believes dying is a “complex process
filled with contradictions and conflicting tensions.” She discusses how hospice
is about caring for the terminally ill, not curing them. In 349 pages, Munley ex-
plores the segregation of death; death as an age-old problem; dying as a social
problem; the history of hospices; inpatient hospice care and its components and
processes; the pains of the dying; interpretations of hospice; hospice principles;
patient’s dialectics; hospice staff issues; spiritual support in a hospice and
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caregiving context; the future of the hospice movement; and hospice in light of
such broad countercultural trends as the “back to nature” trend, self-help trend,
and quest for transcendence. Includes three appendixes featuring standards of a
hospice program, how to find hospice care, and a bibliography arranged by sub-
ject. Includes extensive notes and an index.
1567. Munro, Susan. Music Therapy in Palliative/Hospice Care. St. Louis:
Magnamusic-Baton, Inc., 1984.
1568. National Conference on Social Welfare. Hospice as a Social Health Care
Institution. Columbus, OH: National Conference on Social Welfare, 1978.
1569. Paradis, Lenora Finn. Hospice Handbook: A Guide for Managers and
Planners. Rockville, MD: Aspen Systems Corp., 1985.
1570. Petrosino, Barbara M. Nursing in Hospice and Terminal Care: Research
and Practice. New York: Haworth Press, 1986.
1571. Putnam, Constance E. Hospice or Hemlock?: Searching for Heroic Com-
passion. Westport, CT: Praeger, 2002.
Putnam contrasts right-to-die and physician-assisted suicide issues with the
hospice model. She uses profiles of Cicely M. Saunders, founder of the hospice
movement; Timothy Quill; Derek Humphry; Jack Kevorkian; Herbert Cohen;
and Joanne Lynn to illustrate her points. Putnam discusses pain and dignity-of-
life arguments, life trajectories, doctor–patient dialogue, and ideas for common
ground in the debate. Includes suggestions for further reading and an index.
1572. Ray, M. Catherine. I’m Here to Help: A Guide for Caregivers, Hospice
Workers, and Volunteers. New York: Bantam, 1997.
1573. Resnick, David B. Dying Declarations: Notes from a Hospice Volunteer.
New York: Haworth Pastoral Press, 2005.
1574. Rhinehart, Emily, and Mary M. Friedman. Infection Control in Home
Care and Hospice. Sudbury, MA: Jones & Bartlett Publishers, 2006.
1575. Rivera, Michelle A. Hospice Hounds: Animals and Healing at the Bor-
ders of Death. New York: Lantern Books, 2001.
1576. Rose, Charles Spencer. In the Midst of Life: A Hospice Volunteer’s Story.
Montgomery, AL: NewSouth Books, 2004.
1577. Rossman, Parker. Hospice: Creating New Models of Care for the Termi-
nally Ill. New York: Association Press, 1977. Published by Fawcett Columbine,
New York, in 1979 with the cover subtitle: A New Approach to Humane and
Dignified Care for the Dying. Foreword by Edmund D. Pellegrino, professor of
medicine at Yale University.
Rossman, associated with the New Haven Hospice, provides a general intro-
duction and overview of the hospice model in the United States. He reviews the
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hospice concept in England and how the New Haven Hospice is an American
adaptation. He discusses palliative care, facility design, roles of various members
of the hospice caregiving team, advice to communities starting a hospice, finan-
cial issues, hospice within hospital environments, and home care for the dying.
An appendix features materials used in volunteer orientation.
1578. Saunders, Cicely M., and David Clark. Cicely Saunders: Founder of
the Hospice Movement, Selected Letters, 1959–1999. Oxford, UK: Clarendon,
2002.
1579. Saunders, Cicely M., and Dorothy H. Summers. Hospice: The Living
Idea. Philadelphia: Saunders, 1981. Also published by Saunders, London, in
1981.
1580. Scott, Patricia Cumin. Some Information for Those Caring for Patients.
London: St. Christopher’s Hospice, 1974.
1581. Sendor, Virginia F., and Patrice M. O’Connor. Hospice and Palliative
Care: Questions and Answers. Lanham, MD: Scarecrow Press, 1997.
1582. Sharp, Anne Wallace, and Susan Handle Terbay. Gifts: Two Hospice
Professionals Reveal Messages from Those Passing On. Far Hills, NJ: New Ho-
rizon Press, 1997.
1583. Sheehan, Denice C., and Walter B. Forman. Hospice and Palliative
Care: Concepts and Practice. Sudbury, MA: Jones & Bartlett Publishers, 1996.
1584. Siebold, Cathy. The Hospice Movement: Easing Death’s Pains. New
York: Twayne, 1992.
1585. Smith, Doug. Caregiving: Hospice-Proven Techniques for Healing Body
and Soul. New York: Macmillan USA, 1997.
1586. Stoddard, Sandol. The Hospice Movement: A Better Way of Caring for
the Dying. New York: Stein & Day, 1978. The prepublication title is cited as
Hospice. Revised edition published by Random House, New York, in 1991.
Also published by Vintage Books, New York, in 1992. Later editions also cited
as The Hospice Movement: Updated and Expanded, A Better Way of Caring for
the Dying.
1587. Taylor, Joan Leslie. In the Light of Dying: The Journals of a Hospice
Volunteer. New York: Continuum, 1989.
1588. Torrens, Paul R. Hospice Programs and Public Policy. Chicago: Ameri-
can Hospital Publishing, 1985.
1589. United States General Accounting Office. Hospice Care, a Growing
Concept in the United States: Report to the Congress. Washington, DC: U.S.
General Accounting Office, 1979.
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1598. Adams, J. Robert. Prospects for Immortality: A Sensible Search for Life
after Death. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2003. Part of the Death,
Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
1599. Bauman, Zygmunt. Mortality, Immortality, and Other Life Strategies.
Stanford, CA: Stanford University Press, 1992. Also published by Polity Press,
Oxford, in 1993.
In the introduction, Bauman notes that this book is “not a study in the sociol-
ogy of death and dying,” as this has received significant treatment in a growing
body of literature. The purpose is to “unpack and to open up to investigation, the
presence of death (i.e., of the conscious or repressed knowledge of mortality)
in human institutions, rituals and beliefs which, on the face of it, explicitly and
self-consciously serve tasks and functions altogether different, unrelated to the
preoccupations normally scrutinized in studies dedicated to the ‘history of death
and dying.’” He writes about the existential ambivalence of being and coping
with it, the ambition of immortality, immortality as the “great de-equalizer,” and
how death really cannot be perceived. Includes references and an index.
1600. Carrington, Hereward, and John R. Meader. Death: Its Causes and Phe-
nomena with Special Reference to Immortality. New York: Arno Press, 1977.
Part of the Literature of Death and Dying series. Originally published as Death:
Its Causes and Phenomena, by Dodd, Mead and Co., New York, in 1921. Reprint
published by Ayer Co. Publishing, Salem, NH, in 1976.
1601. Duhring, Nathan. Immortality: Physically, Scientifically, Now: A Rea-
sonable Guarantee of Bodily Preservation, a General Discussion, and Research
Targets. Washington, DC: Twentieth-Century Books Foundation, 1962.
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1620. Aid Association for Lutherans. Step by Step: Your Guide to Making
Practical Decisions When a Loved One Dies. Appleton, WI: Aid Association for
Lutherans, 2000.
1621. Anderson, Patricia. Affairs in Order: A Complete Resource Guide to
Death and Dying. New York: Macmillan, 1991.
Divided into sections entitled “Planning Ahead,” “Death Care,” and “In the
Aftermath,” this thorough guide covers dozens of topics related to death, dy-
ing, and bereavement. Topics discussed include wills, probate, estate planning,
letters of instruction, funeral preplanning, cremation, embalming, the Federal
Trade Commission funeral rule, services and ceremonies, memorial societ-
ies, laws governing disposition, right-to-die issues, ethics surrounding death
and dying issues, determination of death, institutional dying, organ donation,
health care versus death care, hospice, death certificates, guardians for minor
children, and death in a foreign country. Only one chapter focuses on grief and
bereavement. Each chapter in the book ends with a list of resources and sup-
port. These include annotated reading lists, organizations with addresses, and
government agencies and their contact information. A lengthy bibliography is
included.
1622. Berger, Arthur S. When Life Ends: Legal Overviews, Medicolegal Forms,
and Hospital Policies. Westport, CT: Praeger, 1995.
1623. Bernard, Hugh Y. The Law of Death and Disposal of the Dead. New
York: Oceana Publications, 1966.
1624. Camp, Marcia, and Clarissa Willis. You Can’t Leave Till You Do the
Paperwork: Matters of Life and Death. Philadelphia: Xlibris Corp., 1999.
216
Legal and Financial Issues 217
1653. Akhtar, Salman, ed. Three Faces of Mourning: Melancholia, Manic De-
fense, and Moving On. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, 2001.
All but two of the chapters were originally presented as papers at the 32nd An-
nual Margaret S. Mahler Symposium on Child Development held April 28, 2001,
in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. The symposium was associated with the Margaret S.
Mahler Psychiatric Research Foundation. Topics include Oedipal and separation-
individuation issues in a woman’s loss of her mother, defenses evoked by early
childhood loss and their impact on life-span development, technical problems in
analyzing the mourning patient, child analysis, object loss in childhood, and inter-
rupted mourning. Includes bibliographical references, information on contributors,
and an index.
1654. Bloom-Feshbach, Jonathan, and Sally Bloom-Feshbach. The Psychol-
ogy of Separation and Loss: Perspectives on Development, Life Transitions, and
Clinical Practice. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, 1987. Part of the Jossey-Bass
Social and Behavioral Science Series.
Sixteen articles comprise this 587-page tome on separation and loss. The
articles are divided into three sections: “The Role of Separation in Develop-
ment,” “Separation and Loss in Major Life Transitions,” and “Separation, Loss,
and Psychopathology: Implications and Treatment.” An afterword comments
on converging themes in the psychology of separation and loss. Topics covered
include psychoanalytic views of separation in infancy and early childhood, the
attachment theory, cultural identity and mourning, and parental and sibling death.
Several chapters are devoted to topics not related to death and dying. Includes
name and subject indexes.
1655. Canine, John D. The Psychosocial Aspects of Death and Dying. Stam-
ford, CT: Appleton & Lange, 1996. First edition published by McGraw-Hill
Medical in 1996.
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1656. Cook, Alicia Skinner, and Daniel S. Dworkin. Helping the Bereaved:
Therapeutic Interventions for Children, Adolescents, and Adults. New York:
Basic Books, 1992.
Written for mental health professionals, Cook and Dworkin’s book intends to
provide knowledge and skills to help them work successfully with the bereaved.
Stressing that the “practice of grief therapy is based on an in-depth understanding
of grieving and its manifestations, and like other specialized areas of therapy, it
requires expertise in assessment, diagnosis, intervention,” the authors provide guid-
ance on the assessment process and criteria for differential diagnosis. They address
both group and individual therapeutic interventions and include examples. Topics
include models of grief resolution; theoretical explanations of the pain of loss;
counseling/support services versus grief therapy; complicated/pathological grieving;
therapeutic issues with specific types of loss; positive outcomes of bereavement;
clinical considerations; grief and clinical depression; bereavement scales and inven-
tories; special considerations for children and adolescents, including nonverbal com-
munication; therapeutic techniques; self-help and therapy groups; psychotherapy for
young people; cultural considerations in grief therapy; the resolution of grief and
termination of therapy; socioeconomic influences; and the effects of a therapist’s
cultural background. Includes references and an index.
1657. Dietrich, David R., and Peter C. Shabad, eds. The Problem of Loss and
Mourning: Psychoanalytic Perspectives. Madison, CT: International Universities
Press, 1989.
1658. Eissler, Kurt R. The Psychiatrist and the Dying Patient. New York: In-
ternational Universities Press, 1955. Reprinted in 1970.
A classic of thanatological literature, Eissler reviews the history of Sigmund
Freud’s thanatology, individualism, attitudes toward death, death and the plea-
sure principle, death and ego formation, self-preservation, death as a psychologi-
cally determined event, and euthanasia. Includes three case histories, concluding
remarks on the problems of countertransference, information about death and the
biological sciences, and text on death as a psychic event. Eissler also offers com-
mentary on orthothanasia, or passive death. Includes a bibliography.
1659. Finn, William F., and Lillian G. Kutscher, eds. Women and Loss: Psy-
chobiological Perspectives. New York: Praeger, 1985. Part of the Foundation of
Thanatology series.
1660. Garfield, Charles A., ed. Psychosocial Care of the Dying Patient. New
York: McGraw-Hill, 1978.
Includes E. W. Young’s “Reflections on Life and Death.”
1661. Kauffman, Jeffrey. Guidebook on Helping Persons with Mental Retar-
dation Mourn. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2005. Part of the Death,
Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
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denial and acceptance in myocardial infarction and cancer, and case material and
methods. Includes a bibliography and an index. Foreword by Herman Feifel.
1677. Weisman, Avery D., and Robert J. Kastenbaum. The Psychological Au-
topsy: A Study of the Terminal Phase of Life. New York: Behavioral Publications,
1968. Part of the Gerontology Series, Sheldon R. Roen, series editor. Community
Mental Health Journal Monograph number 4. Reprinted by Human Sciences
Press in 1972.
1678. Zisook, Sidney. Biopsychosocial Aspects of Bereavement. Washington,
DC: American Psychiatric Press, 1987. Part of the Progress in Psychiatry Series.
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1679. Aries, Philippe. Images of Man and Death. Cambridge, MA: Harvard
University Press, 1985. Translated by Janet Lloyd.
1680. Bataille, Georges. Death and Sensuality: A Study of Eroticism and the
Taboo. New York: Walker Publishing Co., 1962. Published by Arno Press, New
York, in 1976 as part of the Literature of Death and Dying series.
1681. Berridge, Kate. Vigor Mortis: The End of the Death Taboo. London:
Profile Books, 2002.
1682. Bryant, Clifton D., and D. J. Shoemaker. Death and the Dead for Fun
and Profit: Thanatological Entertainment as Popular Culture. Blacksburg, VA:
Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University, 1977.
1683. Ebon, Martin. The Evidence for Life after Death. New York: Signet-New
American Library, 1977.
This book is a simple examination of extrasensory perception (ESP), the ele-
ments of witchcraft, exorcism, and other phenomena.
1684. Fahy, Thomas Richard. Considering Alan Ball: Essays on Sexuality,
Death, and America in the Television and Film Writings. Jefferson, NC: McFar-
land & Co., 2006.
1685. Green, Mary Lou Johnson. The Image of Death as Portrayed in Fiction
for Children. Bethlehem, PA: Lehigh University. 1975. The author’s doctoral
dissertation.
1686. Harris, Raymond I. Outline of Death Investigation. Springfield, IL:
Charles C. Thomas, 1973.
1687. Jones, Barbara. Design for Death. New York: Bobbs-Merrill, 1967.
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1695. Anderson, J. Kerby. Life, Death, and Beyond. Grand Rapids, MI: Zonder-
van Publishing House, 1980.
Anderson presents a review of near-death phenomena, including out-of-body
experiences among terminally ill patients and after-life experiences of patients
who have experienced “clinical death.” Includes a bibliography.
1696. Atwater, P. M. H., and David H. Morgan. The Complete Idiot’s Guide to
Near-Death Experience. Indianapolis, IN: Alpha Books/Penguin, 2000.
Using the popular publishing format of “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to . . .,”
Atwater offers a lengthy overview of near-death topics, which include types of
experiences, historical references, empathic experiences, guided visualizations,
childhood experiences, suicide enigmas, spiritual and religious issues, psycho-
logical and physiological aftereffects, synesthesia and electrical sensitivity,
hallucinations, spontaneous recall, formal research into near-death experiences,
scientific naysayers, interpreting storylines, otherworldly journeys, alternate real-
ities, transformations of consciousness, and enlightenment. Includes an excellent
glossary, information on the International Association for Near-Death Studies,
a list of publications for further reading, websites, and contact and background
information on individuals and organizations mentioned in the text.
1697. Bayless, Raymond. The Other Side of Death. New Hyde Park, NY: Uni-
versity Books, 1971.
Using a “sternly critical scientific method,” Bayless offers an extensive ex-
amination of the after-death state. Through a review of mediumistic communi-
cations and out-of-body experiences, he openly and candidly discusses errors,
ridiculous elements, and false information contained in them. He also provides
a historical overview of theories of the after-death state. Other paranormal
topics referenced or explored include cross-correspondences, communications
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with and from the dead, deathbed observations, apparitions, astral projection,
telekinesis, and materialization.
1698. Bayly, Joseph. The View from a Hearse. Rev. ed. Elgin, IL: David Cook
Publishing Co., 1973.
Bayly offers short essays on near-death experiences.
1699. Bulkeley, Kelly, and Patricia Bulkley. Dreaming beyond Death: A Guide
to Predeath Dreams and Visions. Boston: Beacon Press, 2005.
The authors offer an extensive treatment of predeath dreams and believe they
are therapeutic for the dying in that they offer solace and peace. They suggest
that dreams experienced by those on the verge of death can be categorized un-
der three themes: dreams in which death is represented as a journey; dreams in
which a guide appears, and dreams involving obstacles that parallel concerns of
the dying in real life. They address visitations, near-death experiences, religion
and spirituality, metaphors and dreaming, the anticipatory function in dreaming,
life reviews, family and faith, visions and dementia, and reconciliation through
dreaming. An appendix offers general caregiving resources for the terminally ill.
Bulkeley is a visiting scholar at the Graduate Theological Union in Berkeley,
California. Bulkley is a Presbyterian minister who served as the spiritual services
provider at the Hospice of Marin in California.
1700. Foos-Graber, Anya. Deathing: An Intelligent Alternative for the Final
Moments of Life. Reading, MA: Addison-Wesley, 1984. Also published by
Nicolas-Hays, Inc., York Beach, ME, in 1989.
Foos-Graber, who herself has had a near-death experience, illustrates a “new
way of dying” with deathing or conscious and purposeful dying. Includes a
manual of deathing, experiences with this approach, an extensive section of addi-
tional resources with an annotated bibliography, some black-and-white drawings
illustrating various techniques, and an index.
1701. Green, H. Leon. If I Should Wake Before I Die: The Medical and Biblical
Truth about Near-Death Experiences. Wheaton, IL: Crossway, 1997.
1702. Greyson, Bruce, and Chuck Flynn, eds. The Near-Death Experience:
Problems, Prospects, Perspectives. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1984.
1703. Lundahl, Craig R., ed. A Collection of Near-Death Research Readings:
Scientific Inquiries into the Experiences of Persons Near Physical Death. Chi-
cago: Nelson-Hall Publishing, 1982.
Includes work by Karlis Osis, Erlendur Haraldsson, Kenneth Ring, Raymond
A. Moody Jr., Russell Noyes, and Michael Grosso.
1704. Matson, Archie. Afterlife: Reports from the Threshold of Death. New
York: Harper & Row, 1977. Originally published under the title The Waiting
World.
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Quint details the experiences of a student nurse working with terminally ill
patients and gives practical advice for coping and handling problems related to
death and dying.
1735. Schraff, Sylvia H., ed. Hospice: The Nursing Perspective. New York:
National League for Nursing, 1984. Publication no. 20-1967.
Schraff, executive director of a home nursing agency, presents chapters from
twelve fellow nurses on the role and function of nursing in the hospice move-
ment. Schraff emphasizes the distinction between hospice and traditional care
for the dying. Chapters cover the uniqueness of hospice, philosophies of the
hospice movement, hospice administration, reimbursement issues, the hospice
team of providers, stress management for staff members, the roles of nurses and
volunteers, bereavement programs, and future issues and directions. Several case
examples are included at the end of the book. Also includes notes, references, and
biographical information on each author. There is no index.
1736. Selder, Florence. Nursing Education in Thanatology: A Curriculum Con-
tinuum. New York: Haworth Press, 1990.
1737. Steele, Shirley, ed. Nursing Care of the Child with Long-Term Illness.
2nd ed. New York: Appleton-Century-Crofts, 1977.
This text is a classic of pediatric nursing and the care of terminally ill children.
1738. Ufema, Joy. Insights on Death and Dying. Philadelphia: Lippincott Wil-
liams & Wilkins, 2006.
This collection of articles was previously published in Nursing magazine.
Topics include deathbed experiences, surviving spouses, aggressive comfort
care, unique grieving needs, ancillary staff members as partners in care of the
terminally ill, and issues surrounding hospice care.
1739. Wald, Florence S., and Martha E. Russell. Hospice Education Program
for Nurses. Hyattsville, MD: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services,
Public Health Service, Health Resources Administration, Bureau of Health Pro-
fessions, Division of Nursing, 1981.
1740. Wiscniak, Debra. A Qualitative Study Exploring the Quality of Life of In-
formal Caregivers Caring for Someone with a Terminal Illness. Ottawa, Ontario:
National Library of Canada/Bibliotheque Nationale du Canada, 2004.
1741. Zerwekh, Joyce V. Nursing Care at the End of Life: Palliative Care for
Patients and Families. Philadelphia: F. A. Davis Co., 2006.
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1742. Ajemian, Ina, and Balfour M. Mount. The R.V.H. Manual on Pallia-
tive/Hospice Care: A Resource Book. New York: Arno Press, 1980. Part of the
Foundation of Thanatology/Arno Press Continuing Series on Thanatology.
1743. Aldridge, David, ed. Music Therapy in Palliative Care: New Voices.
Philadelphia: Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1999.
1744. Barnard, David, Anna M. Towers, Patricia Boston, and Yanna Lambrini-
dou. Crossing Over: Narratives of Palliative Care. New York: Oxford University
Press, 2000.
1745. Blues, Ann G., and Joyce V. Zerwekh. Hospice and Palliative Care
Nursing. New York: Grune & Stratton/Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, 1984.
In this nursing textbook, the authors explore patient care in hospice and pallia-
tive care settings. Topics covered include the hospice philosophy of appropriate
care, understanding the patient experience, assessment and goals of care, the
stucture and makeup of the hospice team, principles and standards of hospice
care, symptom control, control of pain, final days, grief and bereavement, social
decisions and social support, the family as a care unit, establishing a community
hospice, professional stress and distress, and the integration of hospice into the
acute care system. Blues also offers a chapter on understanding one’s own feel-
ings about death. Includes appendixes with a list of common nursing diagnoses
and the document “Standards and Principles of a Hospice Program of Care,”
adopted by the National Hospice Organization’s board of directors in February
1979. Includes an index.
1746. Bruera, Eduardo, and Robin L. Fainsinger. Palliative Care Medicine:
Patient-Based Learning. Edmonton: University of Alberta, 1995.
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1756. Dillard, James, and Leigh Ann Hirschman. The Chronic Pain Solution:
The Comprehensive, Step-by-Step Guide to Choosing the Best of Alternative and
Conventional Medicine. New York: Bantam Books, 2002.
1757. Doyle, Derek, ed. Palliative Care: The Management of Far-Advanced
Illness. Beckenham, UK: Croom Helm, 1983.
1758. Doyle, Derek, and Geoffrey W. C. Hanks. Oxford Textbook of Palliative
Medicine. New York: Oxford University Press, 1993.
1759. Doyle, Derek, David Jeffrey, and Kenneth Calhan. Palliative Care in the
Home. New York: Oxford University Press, 2000.
1760. Fallon, Marie, and Geoffrey W. C. Hanks, eds. ABC of Palliative Care.
2nd ed. Malden, MA: Blackwell Publishing, 2006.
The authors present a detailed overview and exploration of palliative care,
covering principles and clinical solutions. They examine respiratory issues, oral
health, communication issues, community palliative care, anorexia, constipation,
fatigue, emergencies, care for children, complementary therapies, the last forty-
eight hours, and bereavement. Social and psychological aspects of palliative care
are thoroughly examined.
1761. Faull, Christina, and Yvonne Carter. Handbook of Palliative Care. Mal-
den, MA: Blackwell Publishing, 2005.
1762. Field, David, David Clark, Jessica Corner, and Carol Davis, eds. Re-
searching Palliative Care. Philadelphia: Open University Press. Part of the Fac-
ing Death series, David Clark, editor.
1763. Field, Marilyn J., and Christine K. Cassel, eds. Approaching Death:
Improving Care at the End of Life. Washington, DC: National Academy Press,
1997. Published with the Division of Health Care Services, Institute of Medicine,
Committee on Care at the End of Life.
In broad overview, this title looks at current knowledge of end-of-life care,
what remains to be learned, and what is known but not adequately applied. With
guidance for policymakers and practitioners, the editors offer thoughts on qual-
ity measurement and improvement, cost concerns, legal and ethical issues, and
the role of practice guidelines. They seek to counter the notion that there are
patients for whom “nothing can be done.” Appendixes total more than 100 pages
and include agendas; participant lists and workshop titles from the Institute of
Medicine’s Feasibility Study on Care at the End of Life (August 1993–Febru-
ary 1994) and the institute’s public meetings; examples of initiatives to improve
care at the end of life; prognosis and clinical predictive models for critically ill
patients; information on cultural diversity in decision making about care at the
end of life; text discussing measuring care at the end of life; excerpts from the
Guidelines for Determining Prognosis in Selected Noncancer Diseases; informa-
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1772. Kaye, Peter. Notes on Symptom Control in Hospice and Palliative Care.
Essex, CT: Hospice Education Institute, 1990.
1773. Kinzbrunner, Barry M., Neil J. Weinreb, and Joel S. Policzer. Twenty
Common Problems: End-of-Life Care. New York: McGraw-Hill, 2001.
1774. Kuebler, Kim K., Mellar P. Davis, and Crystal Dea Moore. Palliative
Practices: An Interdisciplinary Approach. St. Louis, MO: Elsevier Mosby,
2005.
1775. Lantos, John D. The Lazarus Case: Life-and-Death Issues in Neonatal
Intensive Care. Baltimore, MD: Johns Hopkins University Press, 2001.
1776. Lawton, Julia. The Dying Process: Patients’ Experiences of Palliative
Care. New York: Routledge, 2000.
This book seems as much about Lawton’s own emotional journey of becoming
more and more familiar with the realities of death and dying as it is an examina-
tion of Western society’s notions of death; end-of-life care; and our romanticized
images of peaceful, good death. The shock of death’s reality affects Lawton’s un-
derstanding and perceptions of hospice care, which she becomes critical of in the
book. This comfort-focused end-of-life care is a mask for bodily deterioration,
she asserts in one chapter. Lawton looks at the transition from “body-subject”
to “body-object,” inpatient hospice care and the sequestration of the unbounded
body, “dirty dying,” and invisible suffering in the social death. Appendixes
include a hospice floor plan and a list of duties of in-house hospice volunteers.
Includes notes, a bibliography, and name and subject indexes.
1777. Lipman, Arthur G., Kenneth C. Jackson II, and Linda S. Tyler. Evidence-
Based Symptom Control in Palliative Care: Systemic Reviews and Validated
Clinical Practice Guidelines for Fifteen Common Problems in Patients with Life
Limiting Disease. New York: Haworth Press, 2000.
1778. MacDonald, Neil, Marcel Boisvert, and Deborah Dudgeon. Palliative
Medicine: A Case-Based Manual. New York: Oxford University Press, 1998.
1779. MacPherson, Myra. She Came to Live Out Loud: An Inspiring Family
Journey through Illness, Loss, and Grief. New York: Scribner, 1999.
This guide to dealing with illness, coping with loss, and recovering from grief
is the product of the author’s three years with the family of Anna, a young, wise,
and witty woman suffering from breast cancer. Through this story, MacPherson
offers insight on how families with children cope with terminally ill parents, how
friends and loved ones provide better support for the dying, the value of feelings
of all kinds, why doctors avoid the issue and subject of death, and differences in
grieving between men and women. It is a moving tribute.
1780. McDermott, R., and J. Russell. Palliative Care: A Shared Experience.
London: Accell Printers, 1994.
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1788. Saunders, Cicely M. Beyond All Pain: A Companion for the Suffering
and Bereaved. London: SPCK Publishing, 1983.
1789. ———. Hospice and Palliative Care: An Interdisciplinary Approach.
Sevenoaks, UK: Edward Arnold, 1990.
1790. Saunders, Cicely M., Mary Baines, and R. J. Dunlop. Living with Dying:
A Guide to Palliative Care. New York: Oxford University Press, 1995.
1791. Sheldon, Frances, and Jo Campling. Psychosocial Palliative Care: Good
Practice in the Care of the Dying and Bereaved. Cheltenham, UK: S. Thornes
Ltd., 1997.
1792. Smith, Doug. The Tao of Dying: A Guide to Caring. Rev. ed. Washing-
ton, DC: Caring Publishing, 1997. Photographs by Marilu Pittman.
Inspired by Lao Tzu’s Tao Te Ching, Smith presents a moving book of poems
and touching photographs with messages about dying. He offers a simple defi-
nition of palliative care as “caring for people without trying to change or cure
them.” Smith is executive director of Kanawha Hospice Care in Charleston, West
Virginia, and he presents workshops on patient care for hospices nationwide. Pro-
ceeds from the book’s sales go to the Caring Institute, a nonprofit organization
seeking to promote the social values reflected in community service.
1793. Smith, Shirley Ann. Hospice Concepts: A Guide to Palliative Care in
Terminal Illness. Champaign, IL: Research Press, 2000.
1794. Storey, Porter. Primer of Palliative Care. Glenview, IL: American Acad-
emy of Hospice and Palliative Medicine, 1994.
This book is a 57-page guide to assessment and treatment of common physical
and psychological symptoms in end-of-life care.
1795. Tobin, Daniel R., and Karen Lindsey. Peaceful Dying: The Step-by-Step
Guide to Preserving Your Dignity, Your Choice, and Your Inner Peace at the End
of Life. Reading, MA: Perseus Books, 1999.
Tobin, a palliative care physician and hospice consultant, created the FairCare
Health System and the FairCare program for peaceful dying, a 26-step approach
(A through Z) to making death a peace-centered process. The book discusses and
outlines these steps. Includes appendixes containing living wills, health proxy
forms, a summary of FairCare concepts, a list of hospice organizations, and ad-
ditional resources and reading. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross called the book a “major
contribution to the field.”
1796. Twycross, Robert G., and V. Ventifridda, eds. The Continuing Care of
Terminal Cancer Patients. Oxford: Pergamon Press, 1980.
1797. Walter, Tony. The Revival of Death. New York: Routledge, 1994.
Noting that traditional religion and modern medical procedures do little to
address the personal experience of the dying and bereaved, Walter proposes that
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society has turned to new ways of talking about death—a sort of revival of death.
He suggests that people are seeking ultimate authority on death in the individual
self. The new death, Walter says, is personal and facilitated by institutions and
such practices as hospice, palliative care, life-focused funerals, and bereave-
ment counseling. Includes an excellent glossary, an extensive bibliography, and
questions appropriate for students following each chapter. Walter is a lecturer in
sociology.
1798. Williams, Mary E. How Can Care of the Terminally Ill Be Improved?
San Diego, CA: Greenhaven Press, 2001.
1799. ———. How Should the Physical and Emotional Pain of Terminal Illness
Be Addressed? San Diego, CA: Greenhaven Press, 2001.
1800. Woodruff, R. Palliative Medicine. Melbourne, Australia: Asperula Pty
Ltd. Publishers, 1993.
Woodruff’s book is a 421-page manual covering all aspects of end-of-life care.
The book is divided into seven sections: “Introduction to Palliative Care,” “Pain,”
“Other Physical Symptoms and Clinical Problems,” “Psychological Aspects of
Care,” “Alternative and Complementary Medicine,” “AIDS,” and “The Practice
of Palliative Care.”
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Parental Loss and Grief
1801. Abrams, Rebecca. When Parents Die: Learning to Live with the Loss of a
Parent. 2nd ed. London: Routledge, 1999. Originally published by Charles Letts
& Co., London, in 1992. Second impression published by HarperCollins, New
York, in 1995. Reprinted in 2000 and 2001.
1802. Ainley, Rosa, ed. Death of a Mother: Daughters’ Stories. San Francisco,
CA: Pandora/HarperCollins, 1994.
Ainley presents a collection of thirty-two nonfiction essays written by fe-
male writers, including May Sarton, Marilyn Hacker, and Barbara James. Each
piece is different in its emotions, use of humor, and experience. Includes brief
biographical information on each writer as well as a list of books and helpful
organizations.
1803. Ajjan, Diana, ed. The Day My Father Died: Women Share Their Stories
of Love, Loss, and Life. Philadelphia: Running Press, 1994.
This book brings together a group of twenty-five women who share stories of
their fathers and how they coped and continue to cope with their loss. Ajjan’s
book is about the special bond between fathers and daughters and how these
women exhibited strength and courage in overcoming their grief. Among the
contributors are Bebe Moore Campbell and Sophia Loren. The contributors come
from a variety of professional backgrounds, many of them writers. Biographical
information on each of them is included.
1804. Akner, Lois F. How to Survive the Loss of a Parent: A Guide for Adults.
New York: William Morris and Co., 1993.
Akner, a psychotherapist, has turned her popular workshops that help adults
cope with the death of a parent into a book. She guides the reader through group
sessions with twelve participants who discuss issues and feelings experienced
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as adult orphans. She discusses the mysteries of grief, family secrets, how being
sad requires a large amount of energy, saying goodbye, and opening up a family
dialogue. The book concludes with a wonderful epilogue entitled “A Year Later.”
Sample coping exercises are incorporated as well as extensive narrative and dis-
cussion between workshop participants. A brief reading list is also included.
1805. Angel, Marc D. The Orphaned Adult: Confronting the Death of a Parent.
New York: Insight Books/Human Sciences Press, 1987.
Angel, a rabbi and scholar of Jewish history and culture, offers an in-depth
look at how adults deal with the death of their parents. He highlights issues often
avoided or denied in Western cultures and discusses processes of adult orphan-
hood, including anticipating the death of a parent, mourning the parent, and
internalizing the reality of the parent’s death. Angel offers personal stories from
his own life and work, incorporating Jewish, Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, and
Freudian philosophies. Includes a bibliography.
1806. Bartocci, Barbara. Nobody’s Child Anymore: Grieving, Caring, and
Comforting When Parents Die. Notre Dame, IN: Sorin Books, 2000. Also cited
as Nobody’s Child Anymore: Reclaiming Purpose and Passion.
1807. Becker, Marilyn R. Last Touch: Preparing for a Parent’s Death. Oak-
land, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 1992.
1808. Berlinsky, Ellen B., and Henry B. Biller. Parental Death and Psychologi-
cal Development. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books/D. C. Heath, 1982.
Berlinsky, a practicing psychologist, and Biller, professor of psychology at the
University of Rhode Island, offer a scholarly analysis of the effects of parental
death on children and their psychological development. The authors provide a
review of existing literature, family and situational variables related to parental
death, and characteristics of the child related to behavior subsequent to parental
bereavement. Biographical information on the authors is provided. Extensive
tables and illustrations of the authors’ research and methodology are also incor-
porated. Includes a list of references as well as subject and name indexes.
1809. Birtchnell, John, and Ian C. Wilson. The Effects of Early Parent Death.
New York: MSS Information Corp., 1973.
1810. Blauner, Bob, ed. Our Mothers’ Spirits: On the Death of Mothers and the
Grief of Men. New York: Regan Books/HarperCollins, 1997.
Blauner provides a collection of narratives and poems on the momentous event
of a mother’s death from the perspective of sons. He notes in the introduction
how much of the literature on death and loss focuses on childhood death or the
death of a spouse, but little is written about the effects of and reactions to the
loss of a elderly parent. The contributors, however, focus on the loss of a mother
at any age. The collection is divided into parts on the aged mother, the young
mother, good deaths and bad deaths, suicide and euthanasia, regret, alienation,
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reconceiving the mother, and sustaining the mother’s spirit. A section of photos of
the contributors’ mothers is incorporated. Also includes biographical information
on each contributor. Contributors include John Updike, Kirk Douglas, Wallace
Stegner, Henry Louis Gates Jr., John Cheever, Henry Miller, and Art Buchwald.
1811. Bratman, Fred. Everything You Need to Know When a Parent Dies. New
York: Rosen Publishing Group, 1995. Originally published in 1992.
1812. Brooks, Jane. Midlife Orphan: Facing Life’s Changes Now That Your
Parents Are Gone. New York: Berkeley Books, 1999.
Noting that the word orphan often suggests a child, Brooks writes about the
pain of orphanhood that adults experience. She argues that adults who lose par-
ents in their thirties, forties, and fifties often underestimate the emotional impact
of the death. Brooks discusses changes in self-image, unresolved issues with de-
ceased parents, feelings of anger and guilt, loneliness and fear, the good and bad
aspects of a financial inheritance, grieving, and shifting roles within the family.
Includes a bibliography.
1813. Butler, Shari. Becoming Myself: Living Life to the Fullest after the Loss
of Your Parents. New York: McGraw-Hill, 2003.
Butler, a psychotherapist, provides a guide to coping with parental loss. She
presents the death of a parent as not only a “catalyst for feelings of mourning,
grief, and even helplessness” but an opportunity for “enormous positive change
and growth.” She discusses the nature of parental relationships, reclaiming the
self, rediscovering internal depths, where to turn for nurturing and other forms of
support, integrating traditions and personality characteristics of parents following
their deaths, and forming identity in the years following parental loss. Includes
a bibliography.
1814. Chatman, Delle. The Death of a Parent: Reflections for Adults Mourning
the Loss of a Father or Mother. Chicago: ACTA Publications, 2001.
1815. Curry, Cathleen L. When Your Parent Dies: A Concise and Practical
Source of Help and Advice for Adults Grieving the Death of a Parent. Notre
Dame, IN: Ave Maria Press, 1993.
1816. Davenport, Donna S. Singing Mother Home: A Psychologist’s Journey
through Anticipatory Grief. Denton: University of North Texas Press, 2003.
Davenport tells her story of dealing with anticipatory grief and parental loss.
1817. Davidman, Lynn. Motherloss. Berkeley: University of California Press,
2000.
Through personal narratives provided as part of her research, Davidman ex-
plores the condition and experience of motherloss as a biographical disruption.
She examines the psychological effects and ramifications of losing a mother to
death and offers possibilities for biographical repair and coming to terms with
this special loss. The book is appropriate for both professionals and those who
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gist and author Earl A. Grollman grandly comments on the book, “I have never
been more moved than by reading this extraordinary, personal, inspirational, and
helpful book.”
1830. Lieberman, Alicia F. Losing a Parent to Death in the Early Years:
Guidelines for the Treatment of Traumatic Bereavement in Infancy and Early
Childhood. Washington, DC: Zero To Three Press, 2003.
1831. Marshall, Fiona. Losing a Parent: Practical Help for You and Other
Family Members. Tucson, AZ: Fisher Books, 1993. Reprinted in 2000.
1832. Miller, Nancy K. Bequest and Betrayal: Memoirs of a Parent’s Death.
New York: Oxford University Press, 1996.
Although Miller puts forth a memoir about the death of both of her parents, she
also presents a book about parental death and autobiography as a tool for rethink-
ing lives. She notes in her prologue that, “Memoirs about the loss of parents show
how enmeshed in the family plot we have been and the price of our complicity
in its stories.” She goes on to point out that, “We read for what we need to find.
Sometimes, we also find what we didn’t know we needed.” Includes a list of
works cited.
1833. Moss, Miriam S., and Sidney Z. Moss. The Death of a Parent in Midlife:
Coping Strategies. Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications, 1977. Edited by Rich-
ard A. Kalish.
1834. Myers, Edward. When Parents Die: A Guide for Adults. Rev. ed. New
York: Penguin Books, 1997. Published by Viking/Penguin, New York, in 1986.
1835. Norlander, Linda, and Kerstin McSteen. Choices at the End of Life:
Finding Out What Your Parents Want before It’s Too Late. Minneapolis, MN:
Fairview Press, 2001.
1836. Schaper, Donna. Mature Grief: When a Parent Dies. Cambridge, MA:
Cowley Publications, 2003.
1837. Secunda, Victoria. Losing Your Parents, Finding Yourself: The Defining
Turning Point of Adult Life. New York: Hyperion Press, 2000.
1838. Simon, Clea. Fatherless Women: How We Change after We Lose Our
Dads. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 2001.
Simon begins the book with, “Writing about my father is about as easy as
wading through wet cement.” She warmly writes about the special bond between
a father and a daughter and how death profoundly affects that bond. Her writing
is about both the grief and growth associated with this type of parental death. In
addition to her own story, she shares the stories of several women who have lost
their fathers and have been forced to greet the question of what happens next.
Includes a bibliography and recommended reading list.
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1839. Simon, Leslie, and Jan Johnson. A Music I No Longer Heard: The Early
Death of a Parent. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1998.
1840. Smith, Harold Ivan. On Grieving the Death of a Father. Minneapolis,
MN: Augsburg Fortress, 1994.
1841. Umberson, Debra. Death of a Parent: Transition to a New Adult Identity.
New York: Cambridge University Press, 2003.
Umberson, professor and chair of sociology at the University of Texas, exam-
ines issues surrounding adult bereavement associated with the loss of a parent.
She discusses this loss as a turning point for adults and explores the psychological
and social factors that determine the effects of the loss. She reveals the unusual
juxtaposition between an expected loss and the extraordinary change it can bring.
Umberson also discusses unexpected crisis, symbolic loss, the turning point in
adulthood, the parent left behind, and sibling relationships. An appendix provides
details on the author’s research methods and data.
1842. Wakerman, Elyce. Father Loss: Daughters Discuss the Man Who Got
Away. New York: Henry Holt and Company, 1987.
1843. Ware, Shirley Gerald. The Final Goodbye: The Struggle to Self-
Awareness. Santa Barbara, CA: Fithian Press, 1996.
This book is a narrative of an African American woman’s path to self-
awareness through the grief that followed her father’s death.
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1850. Bailey, Robert W. The Minister and Grief. New York: Hawthorn Books,
1976.
From a pastoral perspective, Bailey shares his experiences with death, dying,
and bereavement as a Baptist minister in North Carolina. He includes suggestions
and resources for making funeral arrangements and focuses on the important re-
lationship between the pastor and families dealing with death.
1851. Bane, J. Donald. Death and Ministry: Pastoral Care of the Dying and the
Bereaved. New York: Seabury Press, 1975.
1852. Blackwood, Andrew W. The Funeral: Sourcebook for Ministers. Grand
Rapids, MI: Baker Book House, 1972. Originally published by Westminster
Press, Philadelphia, in 1942.
1853. Bowman, George W. Dying, Grieving, Faith, and Family: A Pastoral
Care Approach. New York: Haworth Pastoral Press, 1998.
1854. Brandon, S. G. F. The Judgment of the Dead. New York: Charles Scrib-
ner’s Sons, 1967.
1855. Cobb, Mark. The Dying Soul: Spiritual Care at the End of Life. Philadel-
phia: Open University Press, 2001.
1856. Congdon, Howard. The Pursuit of Death. Nashville, TN: Abingdon
Press, 1977.
1857. Cox, Gerry R., and Ronald J. Fundis, eds. Spiritual, Ethical, and Pasto-
ral Aspects of Death and Bereavement. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing,
1992. Revised edition published as Making Sense of Death: Spiritual, Ethical,
and Pastoral Aspects of Death, Dying, and Bereavement, with Gerry R. Cox and
Robert Bendikson in 2003. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John
D. Morgan, editor.
1858. Droege, Thomas A. Guided Grief Imagery: A Resource for Grief Minis-
try and Death Education. New York: Paulist Press, 1987.
1859. Dulany, Joseph P. We Can Minister with Dying Persons. Nashville, TN:
Discipleship Resources, 1986.
Dulany describes meditation and relaxation techniques to be used by those who
care for the terminally ill. He approaches this from both spiritual and psychologi-
cal perspectives.
1860. Dunne, Tad. We Love You, Matty: Meeting Death with Faith. Amityville,
NY: Baywood Publishing, 2000. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series,
John D. Morgan, editor.
1861. Eshelman, Byron. Death Row Chaplain. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-
Hall, 1962.
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1862. Griffith, William H. Death and Dying from the Perspective of the Caring
Professions: A Curriculum Model for the Local Church. Philadelphia: Eastern
Baptist Theological Seminary, 1975.
1863. Groves, Richard F., and Henriette Anne Klauser. The American Book of
Dying: Lessons in Healing Spiritual Pain. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts, 2005.
The book is thoughtfully divided into three parts: the history, the stories, and
the tool chest. The first part focuses on hospice and the concept of dying well as
well as on ancient books of the dead and spiritual pain. The second part is a com-
pendium of personal stories from varying personality types—the perfectionist,
helper, achiever, dreamer, thinker, loyalist, adventurer, asserter, and peacemaker.
Groves concludes the section with a review of the story archetypes. The final part
focuses on tools than can be used for coping, including art therapy, breath work,
dream work, guided visualization, healing religious abuse, intercessory prayer,
journaling, music therapy, and several others. Includes a bibliography with print
and audiovisual resources divided by subject.
1864. Gusmer, Charles W. And You Visited Me: Sacramental Ministry to the
Sick and Dying. New York: Pueblo Publishing, 1984.
1865. Holden, Douglas T. Death Shall Have No Dominion. St. Louis, MO:
Bethany House Publishers, 1970.
1866. Irion, Paul E. The Funeral and the Mourners: Pastoral Care of the Be-
reaved. Nashville, TN: Abingdon Press, 1954.
1867. ———. Hospice and Ministry. Nashville, TN: Abingdon Press, 1988.
Irion, professor emeritus of pastoral theology at Lancaster Seminary in Lan-
caster, Pennsylvania, offers a guide for helping hospice and the church understand
how both can work together to serve the dying and their families. He discusses
how hospice has made a difference for pastors as well as patients and the role
of spiritual care in a hospice environment. Using the holistic context of hospice,
he notes the importance of the pastor as a member of the interdisciplinary team
in a hospice environment. Irion also emphasizes openness in dealing with death.
Other topics covered include biomedical ethics issues, home care, control issues
and self-determination in decision making, blending professional and lay caregiv-
ers, values and problems of shared pastoral caregiving in hospice, anticipatory
grief, funerals, and pastoral care of bereaved hospice families. Includes a brief
bibliography.
1868. Jupp, Peter C., and Tony Rogers, eds. Interpreting Death: Christian The-
ology and Pastoral Practice. Washington, DC: Cassell, 1997. Title page notes
that book was written “on behalf of The Churches’ Group on Funeral Services at
Cemeteries and Crematoria.”
A survey of contemporary Christian beliefs about death and eternal life, this
book examines the various roles of the church in addressing the needs of the
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dying, the dead, and those bereaved. Intended for those “professionally con-
cerned with Christian funerals” or those ministering to the dying or those be-
reaved, articles discuss the theology of the funeral, theologies of disposal, loss
and pain, faith and bereavement, nonstandard funerals, and liturgies. Significant
treatment is given to changes in funeral practices and views toward death and
disposal in Britain over the past fifty years. Includes biographical notes on each
contributor.
1869. Kopp, Ruth Lewshenia, and Stephen Sorenson. When Someone You Love
Is Dying: A Handbook for Counselors and Those Who Care. Grand Rapids, MI:
Zondervan Publishing House/Ministry Resources Library, 1980.
1870. Levering, Matthew Webb. On Christian Dying: Classic and Contempo-
rary Texts. Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield, 2004.
1871. McCall, Junietta Baker. Bereavement Counseling: Pastoral Care for
Complicated Grieving. New York: Haworth Pastoral Press, 2004.
An ordained minister of the United Church of Christ, McCall presents a
guide for the assessment and treatment of complicated grief responses. Issues
are approached from a pastoral counseling perspective. McCall makes a case
for incorporating a loss and grief assessment into any patient encounter. She
discusses universal grief processes and responses, management of the normal
grieving process, a loss and recovery model of grief, defining complicated grief
and what makes it more complex, dysfunctional grieving and those particularly at
risk for it, spiritual issues with grief and loss, subjectivity and professional bias,
grief therapies and treatment priorities, strategies for helping and interventions,
and reorganizing and reclaiming one’s life following loss. Appendixes include a
list of possible complications surrounding significant loss, information on risk
factors that may lead to complicated or dysfunctional grieving, a grief trajectory
worksheet, the grief response service wheel, and a compilation of symptoms and
behaviors that can suggest dysfunctional grieving. Includes a bibliography and
thorough index.
1872. Mitchell, Kenneth R., and Herbert Anderson. All Our Losses, All Our
Griefs: Resources for Pastoral Care. Philadelphia: Westminster Press, 1983.
1873. Nelson, Jan C., and David A. Aaker. The Bereavement Ministry Pro-
gram: A Comprehensive Guide for Churches. Notre Dame, IN: Ave Maria Press,
1998.
Designed for churches and their ministers, this title provides guidance for
dealing with various encounters with death, dying, grief, and bereavement that a
clergy person might experience.
1874. O’Connor, Brian, and Daniel J. Cherico. The Role of the Minister in Car-
ing for the Dying Patient and the Bereaved. New York: MSS Information Corp.,
1978. Distributed by Arno Press.
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1875. O’Connor, Brian, and Lillian G. Kutscher. The Pastoral Role in Caring
for the Dying and Bereaved: Pragmatic and Ecumenical. New York: Praeger,
1986. Part of the Foundation of Thanatology series.
1876. Oates, Wayne Edward. Grief, Transition, and Loss: A Pastor’s Practical
Guide. Minneapolis, MN: Fortress Press, 1997.
1877. ———. Pastoral Care and Counseling in Grief and Separation. Philadel-
phia: Fortress Press, 1976.
1878. Oliver, Samuel Lee. What the Dying Teach Us: Lessons on Living. New
York: Haworth Pastoral Press, 1998.
1879. Oraison, Mark. Death and Then What? Paramus, NJ: Paulist-Newman
Press, 1969.
1880. Phipps, William E. Death: Confronting the Reality. Atlanta, GA: John
Knox Press, 1987.
1881. Platt, Larry A., and Roger G. Branch, eds. Resources for the Ministry in
Death and Dying. Nashville, TN: Broadman Press, 1988.
1882. Reeves, Robert B., Robert E. Neale, and Austin H. Kutscher. Pastoral
Care of the Dying and the Bereaved: Selected Readings. New York: Health Sci-
ences Publishing Corp., 1973. Published for the Foundation of Thanatology.
1883. Richards, Larry O., and Paul Johnson. Death and the Caring Commu-
nity. Portland, OR: Multnomah Press, 1980. Author also cited as Lawrence O.
Richards.
Written from a Christian pastoral counseling perspective, this text provides
guidance for and insights to ministers and parishioners who visit terminal pa-
tients. The chapters are divided into sections on the needs of the terminally ill,
the response of the caring community, and training for caring. Topics covered
include the needs of the family, isolation of terminal patients, thoughts on death
and dying from a Christian perspective, death fear, reactions to dying, pressures
on medical personnel and the family, expectations of caregivers, hopelessness,
communicating with the dying and the bereaved, and models of care in a hospice
setting. This volume can be used as a textbook, as the information is presented
with discussion questions, assignments, and suggested exercises. Includes an
excellent resource review with general comments on the literature as well as
annotated listings of materials in all formats arranged by subject. Also includes
scripture and subject indexes.
1884. Rogers, William F. Ye Shall Be Comforted. Philadelphia: Westminster
Press, 1950.
This book is a consoling text for both the bereaved and those counseling and
supporting them. Divided into two sections, “When Grief Comes” and “Words of
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Comfort,” Rogers first puts death into context and then offers comforting Bible
verses, prayers, and inspirational thoughts for those mourning the loss of a loved
one. This work is more substantive than many books in the genre, with thought-
ful discussions of death, funerals, mourning, and recovery from bereavement.
Includes numerous literary references.
1885. Rogness, A. N. Appointment with Death. Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson
Publishers, 1972.
1886. Rogo, D. S. Man Does Survive Death. Secaucus, NJ: Citadel Press,
1977.
1887. Rumbold, Bruce D. Helplessness and Hope: Pastoral Care in Terminal
Illness. London: SCM Press, 1986.
1888. Rupp, Joyce. Praying Our Goodbyes. New York: Random House, 1992.
1889. Scherzer, Carl J. Ministering to the Dying. Englewood Cliffs, NJ:
Prentice-Hall, 1963.
1890. Smith, William A. Reflections on Death, Dying, and Bereavement: A
Manual for Clergy, Counselors, and Speakers. Amityville, NY: Baywood Pub-
lishing, 2003. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan,
editor.
1891. Soulen, Richard N., ed. Care for the Dying: Resources of Theology. At-
lanta, GA: John Knox Press, 1975.
Soulen offers a guide to pastoral counseling for the dying and bereaved. In-
cludes a bibliography.
1892. Spencer, Glenn M. Jr. Blessed Are Those Who Mourn: Comforting Cath-
olics in Their Time of Grief. Huntington, IN: Our Sunday Visitor, 1999.
1893. Stanworth, Rachel. Recognizing Spiritual Needs in People Who Are Dy-
ing. New York: Oxford University Press, 2004.
Stanworth listened to the stories of twenty-five patients of St. Christopher’s
Hospice in South London for the study presented in this book. She also conducted
a period of participant observation. Principally, Stanworth explores the question,
Beyond the limits broached by medicine, psychology, or the humanities, is there
a further and all-encompassing horizon that gives meaning to human life and its
finitude? She presents the patients’ stories while exploring metaphors in the sto-
rytelling, how spirituality is mediated in the here and now, regrets and mistakes
from the past, the archetypal hero, the mother and stranger, and the implications
for spiritual care. She also points out how patients often use a nonreligious “lan-
guage of spirit” to express spiritual concerns. This is an important text in pallia-
tive care. Includes a very helpful and necessary glossary at the beginning of the
book, color charts and images, extensive references, and an index. Foreword by
Cicely M. Saunders, founder and president of St. Christopher’s Hospice.
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1894. Starenko, R. C. God, Grass, and Grace: A Theology of Death. St. Louis,
MO: Concordia Publishing House, 1975.
1895. Stuart, Friend. How to Conquer Physical Death. San Marcos, CA: Do-
minion Press, 1968.
1896. Sullender, R. S. Grief and Growth: Pastoral Resources for Emotional
and Spiritual Growth. New York: Paulist Press, 1985.
1897. Switzer, David K. The Minister as Crisis Counselor. Nashville, TN:
Abingdon Press, 1974.
Switzer discusses unresolved grief, the various stages of grief, and how prob-
lems in dealing with grief can lead to emotional disorders.
1898. Taylor, Jeremy. The Rules and Exercises of Holy Dying. London: Bell
& Daldy, 1857. Later published by Arno Press as part of the Literature of Death
and Dying series.
1899. Taylor, Jeremy, and P. G. Stanwood. Holy Living and Holy Dying. New
York: Oxford University Press, 1989.
1900. Tengbom, Mildred. Help for the Terminally Ill. St. Louis, MO: Concor-
dia Publishing House, 1983.
1901. Thielicke, Helmut. Death and Life. Philadelphia: Fortress Press, 1970.
1902. Turnage, Anne Shaw, and Mac N. Turnage. More Than You Dare Ask:
The First Year of Living with Cancer. Atlanta, GA: John Knox Press, 1976.
1903. VanDuivendyk, Tim P. The Unwanted Gift of Grief: A Ministry Ap-
proach. Binghamton, NY: Haworth Pastoral Press, 2006.
Offering methods of embracing grief, this book aims to talk people “through
their pain to make them heal better using ministry and counseling conversations
with real people to identify what really happens in loss and grief.” Several theo-
logical references are used to help the bereaved transcend grief.
1904. Wagner, J., ed. Reforming the Rights of Death. New York: Paulist Press,
1968.
1905. Waters, Brent. Dying and Death: A Resource for Christian Reflection.
Cleveland, OH: United Church Press, 1996.
1906. Weatherhead, Leslie. Life Begins at Death. Nashville, TN: Abingdon
Press, 1970.
1907. Weidner, Halbert. Grief, Loss, and Death: The Shadow Side of Ministry.
New York: Haworth Press, 2006.
1908. Wiersbe, Warren W., and David Wiersbe. Ministering to the Mourning:
A Practical Guide for Pastors, Church Leaders, and Other Caregivers. Chicago:
Moody Publishers, 2006.
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1909. Williams, Donna Reilly, and JoAnn Sturzl. Grief Ministry: Helping Oth-
ers Mourn. San Jose, CA: Resource Publications, 1990.
Williams, a hospice grief counselor and teacher at the Center for Pastoral
Studies of Loyola Marymount University, and Sturzl, a licensed personality and
human relations educator, present a guide for those ministering to the bereaved
and those grieving the death of a loved one. They discuss the denial of death, the
dynamics and phases of grief, person-to-person skills in making pastoral visits
expressing empathy and sympathy, religious rituals, spiritual journeys, prayer,
issues surrounding children and death, suicide, ministry discernment, gifts of
ministry, and funeral planning. Includes a short bibliography.
1910. Williams, P. W. When a Loved One Dies. Minneapolis, MN: Augsburg
Publishing House, 1976.
1911. Wolfelt, Alan D. Death and Grief: A Guide for Clergy. Milwaukee, WI:
National Funeral Directors Association, 1990. Published by Accelerated Devel-
opment, Levittown, PA, in 1988, and by Taylor & Francis, London, in 1998.
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1912. Barry, Vincent E. Philosophical Thinking about Death and Dying. Bel-
mont, CA: Wadsworth Publishing Co., 2006.
1913. Berg, David W., and George G. Daugherty. The Individual, Society, and
Death. DeKalb, IL: Educational Perspectives Associates, 1972.
1914. Bolen, Jean Shinoda. Close to the Bone: Life-Threatening Illness and the
Search for Meaning. New York: Touchstone Publishing, 1996.
Bolen, a Jungian analyst and clinical professor of psychiatry at the University
of California, San Francisco, examines how serious illness can bring one closer
to the soul’s needs or “close to the bone.” She talks about how facing one’s own
mortality can be a life-transforming process. The narrative is about patients and
their loved ones on a journey of discovery, from the trauma of diagnosis and the
challenges of illness and treatment to making meaning out of the process through
prayer, meditation, rituals, sharing stories, and more intense and honest commu-
nication with others. Includes a brief bibliography and an index.
1915. Brock, Dan W. Life and Death: Philosophical Essays in Biomedical Eth-
ics. New York: Cambridge University Press, 1993.
1916. Brooke, Tal. The Other Side of Death: Does Death Seal Your Destiny?
Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 1979.
Written following his conversion to Christianity, this book is Brooke’s effort
to call into question the typical near-death story. A former follower of Hinduism
and a former disciple of Sai Baba, he notes the similarities of many near-death
stories to Eastern mysticism, Indian philosophy, astral projection, and spiritism.
He also questions the work of Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Raymond Moody,
noting their experiences with psychics. Includes numerous biblical references
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and Christian perspectives on death and dying as well as a brief list of titles for
further reading.
1917. Choron, Jacques. Death and Western Thought. New York: Collier, 1963.
Published by Macmillan, New York, in 1973.
1918. Derrida, Jacques. The Gift of Death. Chicago: University of Chicago
Press, 1995.
1919. Dietrich, Bernard C. Death, Fate, and the Gods: The Development of a
Religious Idea in Greek Popular Belief and in Homer. London: Athlone Press,
1967. Part of the University of London Classical Studies series, volume 3.
1920. Farber, Maurice L. Theory of Suicide. New York: Funk & Wagnalls,
1968.
1921. Feifel, Herman, ed. The Meaning of Death. New York: McGraw-Hill,
1959.
1922. ———, ed. New Meanings of Death. New York: McGraw-Hill, 1977.
1923. Ferrater, Mora Jose. Being and Death. Berkeley: University of California
Press, 1965.
1924. Fingerarette, Herbert. Death: Philosophical Soundings. Chicago: Open
Court Press, 1996.
Fingerarette presents a narrative on the meaning of death using metaphors and
literary and religious references. He references Sigmund Freud, Marcus Aurelius,
Albert Camus, Chuang Tzu, Bertrand Russell, Leo Tolstoy, Blaise Pascal, Miguel
de Unamuno, David Human, and others. Includes an index.
1925. Fischer, John Martin, ed. The Metaphysics of Death. Stanford, CA: Stan-
ford University Press, 1993. Part of the Stanford Series in Philosophy.
Fischer brings together a collection of papers, metaphysical and perhaps some-
times normative, discussing issues associated with death and dying. Contributors
explore answers to the questions Can death be a bad thing for the individual who
dies? What is the nature of the evil of death, if it is an evil? If death can harm a
person, who is the subject of the harm, and when does the harm occur? And, if
death can be a bad thing for a person, would immortality be good? While most of
the contributors are professors of philosophy, the first chapter is an excerpt from a
play by Woody Allen. Includes a bibliography, an index, and a list of contributors
with title and institutional affiliations.
1926. Flammarion, Camille. Death and Its Mystery before Death. New York:
The Century Co., 1922.
1927. Flumiani, Carlo M. The Philosophy of Life and the Philosophy of Death.
Albuquerque, NM: American Classical College Press, 1974.
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1928. Foss, Martin. Death, Sacrifice, and Tragedy. Lincoln: University of Ne-
braska Press, 1966.
Foss explores philosophical issues of death in this 125-page hardback. He
discusses the process of life and its immediacy, the mythological implications
of death, the evasive experience of death, sacrifice and death, mortality, inspira-
tion and value, intercession and the tragic element, and what he terms the Great
Tragic Drama. Includes a bibliography with nine citations, all cited within the
work.
1929. Freud, Sigmund. Mourning and Melancholia. Standard ed. London:
Hogarth Press, 1957.
1930. ———. Reflections on War and Death. New York: Moffat, Yard and Co.,
1918.
1931. Fry, Christopher. Death Is a Kind of Love. Cranberry Isles, ME: Tidal
Press, 1979. Drawings by Charles E. Wadsworth. Calligraphy by Lance Hidy.
Fry offers his thoughts and philosophies on death as a “part of our landscape”
in this small hardcover. The words are from a talk that was one of three lectures
given under the title “Our Basic Concerns” in November 1977, in Chichester
Cathedral.
1932. Gatch, Milton M. Death: Meaning and Mortality in Christian Thought
and Contemporary Culture. New York: Seabury Press, 1969.
1933. Gavin, William Joseph. Cuttin’ the Body Loose: Historical, Biological,
and Personal Approaches to Death and Dying. Philadelphia: Temple University
Press, 1995.
At the core of Gavin’s book is the definition of death. He explores historical
contexts from both the East and West, biological context, and personal contexts
entertaining the notion of death versus dying and overall implications of accep-
tance versus denial. In the preface, he notes that the book stems from comments
by Paul Ramsey who “noted that the more the uniquely individual and the bodily
are emphasized, the more a ‘denial’ or ‘rebellious’ attitude toward death is culti-
vated; and conversely, the more they are deemphasized, the more an ‘acceptance’
model is put forth as normal or desirable.” Gavin also tells us that the title Cuttin’
the Body Loose comes from Kalamu ya Salaam, Banana Republic: Black Street
Life and Culture in New Orleans, quoted in “Rituals: Six Ways Americans Deal
with Death,” Utne Reader 47, (September–October 1991), p. 78. Includes notes
and an index.
1934. Hallam, Elizabeth, Jennifer Lorna Hockey, and Glennys Howarth. Be-
yond the Body: Death and Social Identity. New York: Routledge, 1999.
1935. Hertz, Robert. Death and the Right Hand. Glencoe, IL: Free Press, 1960.
Translated by Rodney and Claudia Needham.
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Miller, professor of Christian Nurture, discusses the psychological and social im-
plications of dying and grief as well as preparing for death morally and spiritually.
1953. Montgomery, Mary. Death: End of the Beginning? Toronto, Ontario:
Holt, Rinehart & Winston, 1972.
1954. Nagy, Marie H. The Meaning of Death. New York: McGraw-Hill,
1965.
1955. Nugent, Christopher. Mysticism, Death, and Dying. Albany: State Uni-
versity of New York Press, 1994.
1956. Ochs, Robert J. The Death in Every Now. New York: Sheed & Ward,
1969.
Ochs, a Catholic priest and professor of fundamental and systematic theology
at Bellarmine School of Theology in North Aurora, Illinois, notes in this personal
essay that Christian theology has focused too much on biological death and has
failed to recognize that death can be “absurd” and “impersonal.” Based on Karl
Rahner’s theology, Ochs discusses the freedom of death, death as act, trustful
dying, overcoming death, and Christian hope. Includes a bibliography limited to
Rahner’s works.
1957. Orbach, Ann. Life, Psychotherapy, and Death: The End of Our Explor-
ing. Philadelphia: Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1999.
Orbach explores various philosophical approaches to death, noting its two in-
escapable truths: certainty and unknowing. From AIDS to sudden death to slow
death, she analyzes death themes in modern culture, seeking roots in tradition,
literature, and even mythology. An appendix discusses the Guild of Psycho-
therapists’ Summer Conference in July 1998, with the theme Love and Death in
Psychoanalysis. Includes references and name and subject indexes.
1958. Ostheimer, N. C., and J. M. Ostheimer. Life or Death—Who Controls?
New York: Springer, 1976.
1959. Park, James. An Existential Understanding of Death: A Phenomenology
of Ontological Anxiety. Minneapolis, MN: Existential Press, 1975.
1960. Piven, Jerry S., ed. The Psychology of Death in Fantasy and History.
Westport, CT: Praeger, 2004.
With the fourteen articles in this book, Piven seeks to achieve a psychological
understanding of death in fantasy and history. He notes in the introduction that
he wants readers to “ponder these ideas, as it seems essential to the history of
the psyche that death has always lingered as an immanent source of terror and
despair.” Includes information about the editor and contributors, references, and
an index.
1961. Ruitenbeek, Hendrik Marinus, ed. The Interpretation of Death. New
York: Jason Aronson, 1969. Title also cited as Death: Interpretations by Dell.
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1962. Schur, Max. Freud: Living and Dying. New York: International Univer-
sities Press, 1972.
In this work, Freud’s personal doctor compares Freud’s philosophies about
death with his life and final years.
1963. Shibles, Warren. Death: An Interdisciplinary Analysis. Whitewater, WI:
Language Press, 1974.
The approach, method, and sources used in this book were developed from a
class Shibles taught at the University of Wisconsin, Whitewater. Shibles provides
bits and pieces from various disciplines, but the primary focus of the work is
on death themes in literature and philosophical perspectives on death. He does,
however, offer an analysis of Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’s Death and Dying and com-
ments on Jessica Mitford and other authors. Incorporates a student questionnaire
with results and quotations regarding the instrument. Also includes an excellent
glossary entitled “Definitions and Etymologies” and an extensive bibliography.
Illustrated with historical death-themed images.
1964. Shneidman, Edwin S. The Deaths of Man. Baltimore, MD: Penguin
Books, 1974. First published by Quadrangle/New York Times Book Co., New
York, in 1973.
Nominated for a National Book Award, this text by renowned thanatologist
Edwin S. Shneidman is a philosophical exploration of death. Seeing the dying
process as a “complicated clustering of intellectual and affective states,” Shneid-
man does not see the stages of dying that Elisabeth Kübler-Ross puts forth in her
books. In this text, he explores death work, postvention and the survivor-victim,
the deromanticization of death, somatic and temporal aspects, equivocal death,
medico-legal aspects, death certificates, psychological autopsy, and dimensions
of death. Includes an afterword on initial reactions to the book’s topics, an ap-
pendix featuring a national survey of attitudes toward death, a bibliography, and
name and subject indexes. Foreword by Arnold Toynbee of the Royal Institute
of International Affairs.
1965. Strack, Stephen, ed. Death and the Quest for Meaning: Essays in Honor
of Herman Feifel. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, 1997.
Strack has assembled seventeen articles on various aspects of death and dy-
ing in honor of noted thanatologist and father of the modern death movement,
Herman Feifel. Contributors include Robert A Neimeyer, Barry Fortner, Jeanne
Quint Benoliel, Florence S. Wald, Elliot N. Dorff, Alan W. Friedman, Balfour M.
Mount, S. Robin Cohen, Laurens P. White, Sandra L. Bertman, Hannelore Wass,
Charles A. Corr, Kenneth J. Doka, Therese A. Rando, Avery D. Weisman, Dan-
iel Leviton, Robert Fulton, John D. Morgan, and Robert J. Kastenbaum. Topics
covered are death attitudes, death and gender, hospice, Judaism and end-of-life
issues, quality of life of the terminally ill, physician-assisted death, childhood
death and bereavement, vicarious bereavement, horrendous death, the quest for
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1972. Arnold, Ken. Doctor Death: Medicine at the End of Life, an Exhibition
at the Wellcome Institute for the History of Medicine. London: Wellcome Trust,
1997.
1973. Barbera, Thomas, Richard J. Pitch, and Mary C. Howell. Death and Dy-
ing: A Guide for Serving Adults with Mental Retardation. Boston: Exceptional
Parent Press, 1989.
1974. Bascue, Loy O. Counselor Responses to Death and Dying: Guidelines for
Training. New Orleans: American Personnel and Guidance Association, 1974.
1975. Becvar, Dorothy Stroh. In the Presence of Grief: Helping Family Mem-
bers Resolve Death, Dying, and Bereavement Issues. New York: Guilford Press,
2001.
1976. Beder, Joan. Voices of Bereavement: A Casebook for Grief Counselors.
New York: Brunner-Routledge, 2004. Part of the Series in Death, Dying, and
Bereavement, Robert A. Neimeyer, consulting editor.
1977. Benoliel, Jeanne Quint. Death Education for the Health Professional.
Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing, 1982. Part of the Series in Death Edu-
cation, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass, editor.
1978. Berdes, Celia M. Social Services for the Aged, Dying, and Bereaved in
International Perspective. Washington, DC: International Federation on Aging,
1978.
1979. Berzoff, Joan, and Phyllis R. Silverman. Living with Dying: A Handbook
for End-of-Life Health Care Practitioners. New York: Columbia University
Press, 2004.
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1980. Boba, Antonio. Death in the Operating Room. Springfield, IL: Charles C.
Thomas, 1965. Part of the American Lecture Series, number 628. A monograph
in The Bannerstone Division of American Lectures in Anesthesiology series.
Edited by John Andriani, director of the Department of Anesthesia at Charity
Hospital of Louisiana, New Orleans.
Boba, professor of anesthesiology at Albany Medical College at Union Uni-
versity in Jackson, Tennessee, and a practicing anethesiologist, offers both a
layman’s discussion of death issues in the operating room and a clinical analysis
of death from the anesthesiologist’s perspective. He discusses accidents caused
by anesthetic overdose and airway difficulties, muscle relaxants, and errors in
preoperative evaluations. Includes an index and appendix featuring what appears
to be a list of brief narratives assessing actual deaths in the operating room.
1981. Bowers, Margaretta K., Edgar N. Jackson, James A. Knight, and Law-
rence LeShan. Counseling the Dying. New York: Jason Aronson, 1964. Also
cited as being published by Thomas Nelson and Sons, New York, in 1964. Re-
printed in 1975. Also published by Harper & Row, San Francisco, CA, in 1981.
1982. Brim, Orville G. Jr., ed. Death and Medical Conduct. New York: Russell
Sage Foundation, 1969.
1983. Brim, Orville G. Jr., Howard E. Freeman, Sol Levine, and Norman A.
Scotch, eds. The Dying Patient. New York: Russell Sage Foundation, 1970.
Contains fourteen articles on issues relevant to death and dying, many by
noted thanatologists. This book is divided into sections on the social context of
dying; how medical professionals and institutions cope with death; and the social,
ethical, legal, and economic questions surrounding the termination of life. Con-
tributors include Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, Anselm L. Strauss, Barney G. Glaser,
and David Sudnow, among others. Subjects covered include dying in a public
hospital, patterns of dying, physicians’ behavior toward dying patients, the dy-
ing patient’s point of view, cultural beliefs on life and death, and innovations for
prolonging life. A final chapter discusses death and dying as a field of research.
An extensive bibliography compiled by Richard A. Kalish concludes the book.
1984. Bulkin, Wilma. Medical Student Education: Meeting the Challenges
of Life-Threatening Illness, Death, and Bereavement. New York: American
Institute of Life-Threatening Illness and Loss, a Division of the Foundation of
Thanatology, 1992. Presented at a conference at Columbia-Presbyterian Medical
Center in New York City, on December 13, 1991.
1985. Burnell, George M., and Adrienne L. Burnell. Clinical Management of
Bereavement: A Handbook for Healthcare Professionals. New York: Human
Sciences Press, 1989.
The authors present a thorough clinical review of bereavement and its treat-
ment. Beginning with an analysis of the stress caused by bereavement, they ex-
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that there is a great need for a better understanding of a coping mechanism for
health professionals. Relaying experiences from the City of Hope Medical Center
in California, she discusses professional anxieties, intellectualization, emotional
survival during traumatic experiences, depression, deep compassion, grief, and
bereavement. She includes a glossary with definitions of terms arranged accord-
ing to Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’s five stages of grief. Includes a bibliography and a
biographical sketch of the author, along with a list of her publications.
2006. Hastings Center. Guidelines on the Termination of Life-Sustaining Treat-
ment and the Care of the Dying. Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1987.
2007. Hollingsworth, Charles E., and Robert O. Pasnau, eds. The Family in
Mourning: A Guide for Health Professionals. New York: Grune & Stratton,
1977. Part of the Seminars in Psychiatry series, Milton Greenblatt, editor.
This title contains twenty-seven articles discussing bereavement from the
perspectives of various health professions. While social workers, nurses, and
cardiologists are included among the article authors, Hollingsworth and Pasnau
have authored the majority of the pieces. Issues explored include psychological
assessment, informing families about death, mourning following the birth of a
handicapped child, psychotherapy, liaison psychiatry, and widowhood. Includes
references and an extensive index.
2008. Hooyman, Nancy R., and Betty J. Kramer. Living through Loss: Interven-
tions across the Life Span. New York: Columbia University Press, 2006. Part of
the Foundations of Social Work Knowledge series, Frederic G. Reamer, editor.
Intended primarily for professionals working in grief therapy settings, Hooy-
man and Kramer’s exceptional text examines the grief process, looks at theoreti-
cal perspectives on grief, and offers comments on grief at various life stages as
well as intervention strategies for each stage. Notable cited research includes the
use of paradox with Native American adolescents bereaved by suicide, school
responses to the trauma of violent death, and suggestions for preparing for cross-
cultural assessment and communication. Includes an extensive list of references
and a detailed index.
2009. Humphrey, Geraldine M., and David G. Zimpfer. Counseling for Grief
and Bereavement. Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications, 1996.
2010. Jones, Mary. Love after Death: Counseling in Bereavement. London:
Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1995.
In this 67-page paperback, Jones uses case histories from her experience as a
counselor to examine the issues surrounding bereavement and the feelings that
stem from it. Intended as a guide for counselors and those who provide support
to the grieving, the book explains the processes behind bereavement and offers
suggestions for communicating with and providing care to the bereaved. Jones
strongly emphasizes the importance of counseling. She also wrote Secret Flowers
(1987), an autobiographical account of her husband’s death.
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2021. McGrory, Arlene. A Well Model Approach to Care of the Dying Client.
New York: McGraw-Hill, 1978.
2022. Naylor, Harriet H., and Lillian G. Kutscher. The Role of the Volunteer
Director in the Care of the Terminal Patient and the Family. New York: Arno
Press, 1980.
2023. Norlander, Linda. To Comfort Always: A Nurse’s Guide to End-of-Life
Care. Washington, DC: American Nurses Association, 2001.
2024. Osis, Karlis. Deathbed Observations by Physicians and Nurses. New
York: Parapsychology Foundation, 1961.
Noting how the study of death has evolved from a field within religion and
philosophy to one of scientific study, Osis suggests that death can now be defined
as the ultimate destruction and end of a human personality. He discusses how
researchers in parapsychology have “unearthed information rather difficult to
explain without assuming some modus of survival after death.” Topics covered
include mediumistic messages, deathbed hallucinations, “Peak in Darrien” cases,
out-of-body experiences, pharmacological explanations for unusual deathbed
experiences, elated mood phenomena, visions and apparitions, and effects of an-
esthesia. Incorporates several odd yet interesting tables and charts, for example,
“Biological Variables in Terminal and Nonterminal Patients Who Hallucinated
Persons or Religious Figures.” Appendixes include a questionnaire; case descrip-
tion forms; and a summary in English, French, German, Italian, and Spanish.
2025. Parkes, Colin Murray, Marilyn Relf, and Ann Couldrick. Counseling in
Terminal Care and Bereavement. Baltimore, MD: P. H. Brookes Publishing Co.,
1996. Also published by B.P.S. Books in Leicester, UK.
2026. Pearl, Raymond. The Biology of Death: A Series of Lectures Delivered at
the Lowell Institute in Boston in December 1920. New York: Arno Press, 1976.
2027. Pearson, Althea. Growing through Loss and Grief: A Counselor’s Guide.
London: HarperCollins, 1994.
2028. Playing God: The Dilemma of the Dying Patient. Reston, VA: American
Medical Student Association, 1995.
2029. Post, Kalmon D. Acute, Chronic, and Terminal Care in Neurosurgery.
Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1987.
2030. Prichard, Elizabeth R., Jean Goliard, Ben A. Orcutt, Austin H. Kutscher,
and Irene Seelan, eds. Social Work with the Dying Patient and the Family. New
York: Columbia University Press, 1977.
2031. Quill, Timothy E. Caring for Patients at the End of Life: Facing an Un-
certain Future Together. New York: Oxford University Press, 2001.
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2032. Raether, Howard C. The Funeral Director and His Role as Counselor.
Milwaukee, WI: National Funeral Directors Association, 1975. Also published
by Bulfin Press.
2033. Rando, Therese A. Grief, Dying, and Death: Clinical Interventions
for Caregivers. Champaign, IL: Research Press, 1984. Originally published in
1981.
2034. ———. Treatment of Complicated Mourning. Champaign, IL: Research
Press, 1993.
2035. Raven, Ronald W. The Dying Patient: The Role of the Family Doctor,
Nurse, and Medical Social Worker. New York: State Mutual, 1975. Also cited as
being published by Beekman in 1975 and Pitman Medical in the United Kingdom
in the same year.
2036. Saunders, Cicely M. The Management of Terminal Disease. Chicago:
Yearbook Medical Publishers, 1978.
2037. ———. The Management of Terminal Illness. London: Hospital Medicine
Publications, 1967.
2038. ———, ed. The Management of Terminal Malignant Disease. London:
Edward Arnold, 1984. Part of the Management of Malignant Disease Series.
2039. Schnaper, Nathan, J. W. Annis, and Lawrence J. Roose. Management of
the Dying Patient and His Family. New York: MSS Information Corp., 1974.
2040. Schoenberg, B. Mark, ed. Bereavement Counseling: A Multidisciplinary
Handbook. Westport, CT: Greenwood Press, 1980.
Includes “A Psychiatric Model of Bereavement Counseling,” by Beverly
Raphael.
2041. Schoenberg, Bernard, Arthur C. Carr, David Peretz, and Austin H.
Kutscher, eds. Loss and Grief: Psychological Management in Medical Practice.
New York: Columbia University Press, 1970. Reprinted in 1973.
Includes the article “The Child’s Reaction to Death in the Family,” by Robert
A. Furman.
2042. Smith, Helen C. Care of the Dying Patient: A Comparison of Instruc-
tional Plans. Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1965.
2043. Society for the Right to Die. The Physician and the Hopelessly Ill Pa-
tient: Legal, Medical, and Ethical Guidelines. New York: Society for the Right
to Die, 1985.
2044. Speck, Peter. Loss and Grief in Medicine. London: Bailliere Tyndall,
1978.
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2050. Vachon, Mary L. S. Occupational Stress in the Care of the Critically Ill,
the Dying, and the Bereaved. Washington, DC: Hemisphere Publishing, 1987.
Part of the Series in Death Education, Aging, and Health Care, Hannelore Wass,
editor.
2051. Walker, Earl A. Cerebral Death. Albuquerque: University of New
Mexico, School of Medicine, 1981.
2052. Walsh-Burke, Katherine. Grief and Loss: Theories and Skills for Helping
Professionals. Boston: Pearson Allyn & Bacon, 2006.
2053. Warthin, Alfred. The Physician of the Dance of Death. New York: Arno
Press, 1977. Part of the Literature of Death and Dying series. Originally pub-
lished in 1931.
2054. Weisman, Avery D. The Realization of Death: A Guide for the Psycho-
logical Autopsy. New York: Jason Aronson, 1974.
A physician, psychiatrist, and psychoanalyst, Weisman gives an academic
examination of the multidisciplinary arena of the psychological autopsy. In his
foreword, noted thanatologist Edwin S. Shneidman describes the effort of the
psychological autopsy as trying to “bring him to ‘life’ as it were—and then try-
ing to divine his motivations, intentions, attitudes, and ambivalences in relation
to one specific temporal span of behavior which in itself had extreme conse-
quences—his dying.” Weisman discusses the Los Angeles Suicide Prevention
Center, geriatric, and Omega versions of the psychological autopsy as well as its
comparison with the regular autopsy. He includes eight case illustrations, most
of them suicides. Another section explores the common denominators of death.
Includes extensive references and a brief index.
2055. Wilkes, Eric. The Dying Patient: The Medical Management of Incurable
and Terminal Illness. Ridgewood, NJ: G. A. Bogden, 1982. Also published by
MTP Press, London.
2056. Wolf, Stewart G., ed. The Responsible Physician: Standards of Excel-
lence and the Critically Ill Patient. New York: Foundation of Thanatology,
1988.
2057. Wolf, Stewart G., and Lillian G. Kutscher. Caregiving in the Community
Hospital for the Terminally Ill and Bereaved. New York: Arno Press, 1982.
2058. Worden, J. William. Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy: A Handbook
for the Mental Health Practitioner. 3rd ed. New York: Springer, 2002. Originally
published in 1982. Second edition published in 1991.
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2059. Albery, Nicholas, Stephanie Wienrich, Gil Elliot, and Joseph Elliot. The
New Natural Death Handbook. 3rd ed. London: Rider, 2000. Previous edition
published in 1997.
The authors describe British options for nontraditional funerals and interments.
Examples include burial grounds in forests and cardboard coffins.
2060. Anderson, Megory. Sacred Dying: Creating Rituals for Embracing the
End of Life. Roseville, CA: Prima Publishing, 2001. Also cited as being published
by Marlowe & Company, New York.
2061. Ball, Mog. Death. New York: Oxford University Press, in association
with Chameleon/Ikon, 1976. Part of the Standpoints series.
In this 64-page paperback, Ball purports to provide information “usually re-
stricted to professionals such as doctors and undertakers.” She attempts to do this
through numerous black-and-white photographs, cartoons, reproduced articles,
and quotes, all arranged as collages. The photographs depict mummies, contem-
porary dead bodies, cemeteries, a murdered corpse, crematoria, funeral scenes,
caskets, and mourners. This book is a graphic discussion of death and the rituals
surrounding it.
2062. Budge, E. A. Wallis. The Book of the Dead: An English Translation of
the Chapters, Hymns, Etc., of the Theban Recension, with Introduction, Notes,
Etc. London: Routledge and Kegan Paul, 1960. Second edition revised and en-
larged (eighth impression) with 20 plates and 400 vignettes. Also published by
University Books, New Hyde Park, NY, in 1960.
E. A. Wallis Budge was keeper of the Egyptian and Assyrian antiquities in the
British Museum. In this book, he offers a translation of the Book of the Dead as
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2079. Margolis, Otto Schwarz. Grief and the Meaning of the Funeral. Edison,
NJ: MSS Information Corp., 1975. Also cited as being published in New York.
2080. Martin, Edward. Psychology of Funeral Service. Grand Junction, CO:
Sentinel Printers, 1950.
2081. Mayo, Peg Elliott. The Healing Sorrow Workbook: Rituals for Trans-
forming Grief and Loss. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2001.
2082. Metrick, Sydney Barbara. Crossing the Bridge: Creating Ceremonies for
Grieving and Healing from Life’s Losses. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts, 1994.
Examining a variety of responses to loss, Metrick offers the five stages of a
healing ceremony: intention, planning, preparation, manifestation, and incorpora-
tion. As assistant professor of psychology, certified expressive therapist, ordained
minister, and clinical hypnotherapist, Metrick assists individuals, couples, and
groups experiencing loss and grief by creating special ceremonies and therapeutic
techniques. Her title page includes a quote from Stephen Levine’s Healing into
Life and Death: “The toll for crossing to the other shore of wholeness is the re-
linquishment of suffering. This crossing over is what is called healing.” Includes
a list of support groups divided by subject and suggestions for further reading.
2083. Morgan, Ernest A. A Manual of Death Education and Simple Burial. 10th
ed. Burnsville, NC: Celo Press, 1984. Published in 1964 as A Manual for Simple
Burial. Published as Dealing Creatively with Death: A Manual of Death Educa-
tion and Simple Burial, by Zinn Communications, Bayside, NY, in 1994.
This booklet discusses efforts at funeral reform during the 1950s and 1960s,
suggesting patterns by which, through group interaction, funerals may be made
simpler and less costly. Morgan advocates cremation as a means of disposing of
the dead, though not exclusively.
2084. Pine, Vanderlyn R., Austin H. Kutscher, David Peretz, Robert C. Slater,
Robert DeBellis, Robert J. Volk, Daniel J. Cherico, and Lillian G. Kutscher, eds.
Acute Grief and the Funeral. Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas, 1976.
The editors have assembled an extensive collection of articles and essays on the
relationship between the funeral and grief. Contributors include child develop-
ment researchers, mortuary science educators, funeral service providers, clergy,
physicians, sociologists, and psychiatrists. Many of the contributors are cited
elsewhere in the book. Among the many topics covered are a physician’s per-
spective on acute grief, the use of psychopharmacologic agents for the bereaved,
postbereavement family support services, traditional funerals in contemporary
society, the sociology of the mortuary, expressing grief, social meanings of the
funeral, humanist services, funerary social behavior, roles for the funeral profes-
sional, death anxiety for funeral home workers, pastoral care of the bereaved,
loss and grief among the elderly, helping children mourn, funeral behavior and
unresolved grief, the school and the funeral, and bibliotherapy as a tool to help
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children cope with acute grief. Includes an extensive index and professional in-
formation for each contributor.
2085. Prioreschi, Plinio. A History of Human Responses to Death: Mythologies,
Rituals, and Ethics. Lewiston, Australia: Eden Mellen Press, 1990.
2086. Raether, Howard C., and Robert C. Slater. The Funeral: Facing Death
as an Experience of Life. Milwaukee, WI: National Funeral Directors Associa-
tion, 1974.
2087. Roach, Mary. Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers. New York:
W. W. Norton & Company, 2003.
2088. Rushton, L. Death Customs. Boston: Thomson Learning, 1993.
Intended for ages seven to ten.
2089. Santino, Jack. Spontaneous Shrines and the Public Memorialization of
Death. New York: Palgrave Macmillan, 2006.
2090. Soper, Susan. ObitKit: A Guide to Celebrating Your Life: How to Per-
sonalize the Obituary Process and Create Your Written Legacy. Atlanta, GA:
ObitKit.com, 2008.
In this 72-page spiral-bound guide to writing obituaries, Soper offers com-
forting and insightful guidance for those charged with handling a person’s final
wishes or for those thinking ahead and preparing for their own death. She in-
cludes a brief history of the obituary and offers numerous tips for preparing an
abbreviated life story. The guide can be used as a workbook with several fill-in-
the-blank forms for compiling your personal information. Helpful advice is also
provided on funeral services. Soper includes numerous quotes, homilies, and
Bible verses as well as a list of eight online resources. Soper worked as a reporter
in New York writing obituaries, news, and feature stories before writing for CNN
and serving as features editor at the Atlanta Journal-Constitution.
2091. Starhawk, and M. Macha NightMare. The Pagan Book of Living and
Dying: Practical Rituals, Prayers, Blessings, and Meditations on Crossing Over.
San Francisco, CA: HarperSanFrancisco, 1997.
2092. Theroux, Phyllis, ed. The Book of Eulogies: A Collection of Memorial
Tributes, Poetry, Essays, and Letters of Condolence. New York: Scribner, 1997.
2093. Wallis, C. J. The Funeral Encyclopedia: A Source Book. Grand Rapids,
MI: Baker Books, 1953.
2094. Wolfelt, Alan D. Creating Meaningful Funeral Ceremonies: A Guide for
Caregivers. Fort Collins, CO: Companion Press, 2000. Companion Press is an
imprint for the Center for Loss and Life Transition.
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2099. Barber, Erika R. Letters from a Friend: A Sibling’s Guide for Coping and
Grief. Amityville, NY: Baywood Publishing, 2003. Part of the Death, Value, and
Meaning Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
Presented as a workbook, Barber’s text offers an interactive and creative way
to learn about and deal with childhood death. She provides places in the book to
include photos, information about the sibling and their death, and drawings. In
the chapter concerning the body, she includes space for a gravestone rubbing.
The text also includes numerous gentle suggestions for coping. This book is an
unusual but excellent therapeutic learning tool that is comprehensive in its treat-
ment of childhood grief. Tips for utilizing the book are included for parents and
caregivers. Includes an index.
2100. Bluebond-Langner, Myra. In the Shadow of Loss: Parents and Siblings of
the Chronically Ill Child. Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1996.
Bluebond-Langner focuses on well siblings of children with chronic, life-
threatening illness. Most of her research is with children suffering from cystic
fibrosis. She divides her text into three parts: the introduction and impact of cystic
fibrosis, portraits of nine families, and containing the intrusion of the illness and
all that it brings. An afterword provides general guidelines for clinical interven-
tion and suggestions for communication within the family. Includes three tables,
a helpful glossary, a lengthy list of works cited, and an index.
2101. Brandt, Raymond William. Twin Loss: A Book Where the Twinless and
Others Can Seek Answers to the Many Questions Which Rise During Terminal
Illness and after the Death of Their Beloved Twin. Leo, IN: Twinsworld Publish-
ing Co., 2001.
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2102. Davies, Betty. Shadows in the Sun: The Experiences of Sibling Bereave-
ment in Childhood. Philadelphia: Brunner/Mazel, 1999. Part of the Series in
Death, Dying, and Bereavement, Robert A. Neimeyer, consulting editor.
Davies provides a scholarly, research-based examination of childhood grief
following the death of a sibling. She explores the bond between siblings and ex-
amines the many dimensions of sibling relationships. She then writes about the
impact of sibling bereavement. Other topics covered include the child’s under-
standing of death; sibling responses to a child’s death; individual, situational, and
environmental variables affecting sibling bereavement responses; the family’s
role in sibling bereavement; and long-term effects. Davies concludes her text
with a paradigm model of sibling bereavement and implications for caregiving
adults. Appendixes include summaries of anecdotal and scholarly articles in the
literature as well as summaries of research reports. A lengthy list of references
is also included.
2103. DeVita-Raeburn, Elizabeth. The Empty Room: Surviving the Loss of a
Brother or Sister at Any Age. New York: Scribner, 2004.
Focusing on the psychological aspects of losing a sibling, DeVita-Raeburn
offers a compassionate and poignant examination of the unique nature of grief
and bereavement associated with a sibling. Rooted in the author’s own grief for
her oldest brother and best friend, Ted, she discusses ambiguous loss, disenfran-
chised grief, reforming an identity, the loss of a twin, and recovery from grief.
Includes an annotated list of books, an extensive bibliography, and a list of orga-
nizations and websites.
2104. Donnelly, Katherine Fair. Recovering from the Loss of a Sibling. New
York: Dodd, Mead & Company, 1988.
A columnist for Thanatos, Donnelly offers a guide for children and adults who
have suffered the loss of a brother or sister. She calls them “forgotten grievers”
and “lonely mourners.” She addresses the unique issues surrounding the grief
that follows the loss of a sibling. Donnelly touches on the sometimes love–hate
relationship between siblings and discusses feelings of anger and guilt, denial,
and symptoms of sibling grief. Several case studies and stories are presented.
Includes a directory of organizations and support groups in the United States and
Canada as well as a brief list of suggested readings prepared by Froma Lippmann,
a parent education/resource consultant in Arlington, Virginia.
2105. Fanos, Joanna H. Sibling Loss. Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associ-
ates, 1996.
Based on extensive interviews and a review of existing literature on sibling
loss, Fanos offers a thorough examination of clinical and therapeutic issues for
mental health researchers and clinicians. She discusses fundamental problems
with sibling loss, the family setting, sibling relationships, how siblings view ill-
ness, ensuing grief and bereavement stages, the fear of death, guilt, resolution,
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2113. Borchelt, Peter L. Animal Behavior and Thanatology. New York: Foun-
dation of Thanatology, 1988.
2114. Cherico, Daniel J., and Otto Schwarz Margolis. Thanatology Course
Outlines. New York: MSS Information Corp., 1978. Distributed by Arno Press.
This book is divided into “General,” “Religion,” and “Philosophy” sections.
2115. Clark, Elizabeth J., and Austin H. Kutscher. The Thanatology Commu-
nity and the Needs of the Movement. New York: Haworth Press, 1992.
2116. Cohen, Marion Deutsch. Epsilon Country. New York: Center for Thana-
tology Research and Education, 1995.
2117. Coly, Lisette, and Joanne D. S. McMahon. Parapsychology and Thana-
tology: Proceedings of an International Conference Held in Boston, Massachu-
setts, November 6–7, 1993. New York: Parapsychology Foundation, 1995.
2118. DeBellis, Robert. The House Staff and Thanatology. New York: Arno
Press, 1982.
2119. DeBellis, Robert, and Jeanne D. Cole. Thanatology Curriculum-
Medicine. New York: Haworth Press, 1988.
2120. Donne, John. Biathanatos. New York: Arno Press, 1976. Part of the Lit-
erature of Death and Dying series. Originally published in 1930.
2121. Eckert, William G., and Thomas T. Noguchi, eds. Thanatology. Wichita,
KS: International Reference Organization in Forensic Medicine, 1968.
2122. Fleming, Thomas P., ed. Communications and Thanatology. New York:
Health Sciences Publishing Corp., 1974.
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2123. Fleming, Thomas P., and Austin H. Kutscher, eds. Communicating Issues
in Thanatology. New York: MSS Information Corp., 1976.
2124. Gelfand, Donald E., Richard Raspa, Sherylyn H. Briller, and Stephanie
Myers Schim. End-of-Life Stories: Crossing Disciplinary Boundaries. New
York: Springer, 2005. Part of the Springer Series on Death and Suicide, Robert
J. Kastenbaum, series editor.
The authors present a variety of end-of-life experiences with interdisciplin-
ary analyses. From the social sciences to the helping professions to the law,
each case is examined from three to four different perspectives, for example,
a cultural response, a provider response, a family response, and an economic
response. The contributions of “responses” come from members of the Wayne
State University End-of-Life Interdisciplinary Project. The responses analyze the
end-of-life narrative. Includes biographical information on each of the contribu-
tors and editors.
2125. Halporn, Roberta. The Thanatology Librarian. New York: Highly Spe-
cialized Promotions, n.d.
2126. Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth. Death Is of Vital Importance: On Life, Death,
and Life after Death. Barrytown, NY: Station Hill Press, 1995. Compiled and
edited by Goran Grip, with photographs by Ken Ross.
This book is a compilation of transcripted tape recordings of lectures given by
acclaimed psychiatrist and thanatologist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross from 1976 to 1989.
The title of the book is taken from her first Stockholm lecture in 1980. Other lectures
include “The Cocoon and the Butterfly”; “Life, Death, and Life after Death”; “Heal-
ing in Our Time, to Say Yes to It at the Edgar Cayce Foundation”; and “Making the
Most of the Inbetween.” Grip is a translator of Kübler-Ross’s books as well as an
attending physician at University Hospital in Uppsala, Sweden.
2127. Kutscher, Austin H., Arthur C. Carr, and Lillian G. Kutscher, eds. Prin-
ciples of Thanatology. New York: Columbia University Press, 1987. Part of the
Foundation of Thanatology series.
The editors present a collection of articles by noted thanatologists, including
Therese A. Rando, Stephen V. Gullo, Vanderlyn Pine, Robert G. Stevenson, and
Margot Tallmer. Subjects addressed include thanatology education, multidisci-
plinary approaches in the care of terminally ill patients, death and dying as taboo
topics, open communication about death, death without indignity, how healthy
life outlooks necessitate comprehending death, grief as a normal response, rights
of the bereaved, somatic symptoms of grief, severe reactions to grief and special
care, clinical care of dying patients, and the art and science of thanatology. In-
cludes an index and brief information on the contributors.
2128. Lampke, Robert S. Perspectives on the AIDS Crisis: Thanatologic As-
pects. New York: Foundation of Thanatology, 1989.
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2129. Leenaars, Antoon A. Lives and Deaths: Selections from the Works of
Edwin S. Shneidman. Philadelphia: Brunner/Mazel, 1999. Part of the Series in
Death, Dying, and Bereavement, Robert A. Neimeyer, consulting editor.
Leenaars presents a collection of thirty-seven writings by the noted thanatolo-
gist and authority on suicide.
2130. Lynn, Margaret Mount, and Lillian G. Kutscher. The Lillian G. Kutscher
Thanatology Collection in the Gill Library of the College of New Rochelle. New
Rochelle, NY: College of New Rochelle, 1996.
2131. Mercer, John Edward. Why Do We Die?: An Essay in Thanatology. New
York: E. P. Dutton, 1919. Originally published by Keegan Paul, London.
2132. Morgan, John D. Readings in Thanatology. Amityville, NY: Baywood
Publishing, 1997. Part of the Death, Value, and Meaning Series, John D. Morgan,
editor.
Beginning with a chapter on death education in the context of general educa-
tion, Morgan presents a collection of thirty-five articles on various topics within
the interdisciplinary field of thanatology. This book is divided into the sections
“North American Death Attitudes,” “The Care of the Terminally Ill,” “Bereave-
ment,” “Children and Death,” “Questions of Values,” and “Suicide.” Subjects
treated in the articles include historical and cultural attitudes toward death, dy-
ing, and grieving; death in film; death in adult and children’s literature; music
and death; patterns of bereavement in Indian and English society; the economics
of death; dying in the hospital; AIDS, death, and censorship; family stress dur-
ing the terminal illness of a loved one; general care of the dying; nursing care
of dying patients; social work in palliative care; home care of the dying; rituals
and resources for grief management through funerals and funeral directors; dis-
enfranchised grief; counseling techniques for both the dying and the bereaved;
complicated bereavement; working with widows in groups; men and grief; adult
bereavement following parental death; grief patterns in youth; bereavement
among African American children; issues of autonomy among dying patients;
assisted suicide; immortality and resurrection; death and dying in major Eastern
traditions; suicide in youth and the elderly; and suicide theories. Each article is
fully referenced, and Morgan includes professional background information for
each contributor following each article. An extensive index is also included.
2133. Morgan, Mary Ann, and John D. Morgan. Thanatology: A Liberal Arts
Approach. London, Ontario: King’s College, 1988.
2134. Orcutt, Ben Avis. Social Work and Thanatology. New York: Arno Press,
1980. Published by MSS Information Corp., New York, in 1978.
2135. Park, Roswell. The Evil Eye, Thanatology, and Other Essays. Boston: R.
G. Badger, 1912.
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2141. Ames, Edward M., and Diane Robertson. A Handbook for Widowers.
Omaha, NE: Centering Corporation, 2004. Photographs by Diane Robertson.
In this 48-page paperback filled with practical advice, Ames relays many of the
common experiences widowers face. He covers loneliness, depression, isolation,
guilt, taking care of oneself, employment and financial matters, living alone, par-
enthood as a widower, rediscovering purpose in life, and moving beyond grief.
Includes a brief list of supportive resources.
2142. Anthony, Nancy. Mourning Thoughts: Facing a New Day after the Death
of a Spouse. Mystic, CT: Twenty-Third Publications, 1991.
2143. Armstrong, Alexandra, and Mary R. Donahue. On Your Own: A Widow’s
Passage to Emotional and Financial Well-Being. 3rd ed. Chicago: Dearborn,
2000.
2144. Auchard, Betty. Dancing in My Nightgown: The Rhythms of Widowhood.
Las Vegas, NV: Stephens Press, 2005.
This book is a touching and bittersweet collection of stories documenting
Auchard’s path through bereavement. Through her wonderful storytelling skills,
she relays her experiences following the death of her husband of forty-nine
years.
2145. Bowling, Ann, and Ann Cartwright. Life after Death: A Study of the El-
derly Widowed. New York: Tavistock, 1982.
2146. Brothers, Joyce. Widowed. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1990.
Having provided advice on innumerable topics for many years, here Brothers
relays her feelings of deep loss and even suicidal thoughts following the death
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of her husband to cancer after thirty-nine years of marriage. The book is both a
self-help guide and memoir.
2147. Caine, Lynn. Being a Widow. New York: Arbor House/William Morrow,
1988. An Eleanor Friede book.
Having learned the lesson that she should have been more realistic and less
heroic during her husband’s fourteen-month terminal illness, Caine writes about
her experiences both before and after his death. She writes that she and her hus-
band “playacted, assuming roles we considered admirable and playing to the hilt
the gallant young couple facing death with courage, honesty, and grace under
pressure.” She discusses such practical issues as insurance and finances. Chapters
also explore disorientation and denial, the need to express emotion, help from
dreams, sleeping and eating disorders, rebuilding self-confidence, being asser-
tive, creating a new social life, dating and sexuality, and the impact of death. She
includes several resources that offer help as well as narrative about each relating
personal experiences to the various situations. A section for those in the helping
professions is also included. An epilogue written by Caine notes that she was
diagnosed with breast cancer in 1983, and a note follows informing that she died
of cancer in 1987. Includes a list of organizations, a short list of titles for recom-
mended reading, and an index.
2148. ———. Lifelines. New York: Doubleday, 1977.
Author of the bestselling book Widow, Caine addresses the lonely and isolated
woman. While there is much in this book unrelated to death and dying, she does
offer valuable and insightful commentary on loss that may be pertinent to recov-
ery from bereavement in widowhood.
2149. ———. Widow. New York: Bantam Books, 1975. Published by William
Morrow, New York, in 1974.
2150. Campbell, Scott, and Phyllis Rolfe Silverman. Widower. New York:
Prentice-Hall, 1987. Published by Baywood Publishing, Amityville, NY, in 1996,
as Widower: When Men Are Left Alone, as part of the Death, Value, and Meaning
Series, John D. Morgan, editor.
Through sixteen touching, emotional, and sometimes shocking stories of wid-
owers in their own voice, Campbell and Silverman illustrate the many ways in
which widowers grieve. They also provide a brief list of self-help organizations
and suggested reading.
2151. Carr, Deborah, Randolph M. Nesse, and Camille B. Wortman, eds. Spou-
sal Bereavement in Late Life. New York: Springer, 2006.
Based on a conference held in June 2002, at the University of Michigan, this
book also highlights the findings of the Changing Lives of Older Couples (CLOC)
study funded by the National Institute on Aging. Articles explore methodologi-
cal issues in studying late life widowhood, the “black box” of widowhood, how
older Americans die today in comparison with those living in previous decades,
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2159. Feinberg, Linda Sones. I’m Grieving as Fast as I Can: How Young
Widows and Widowers Can Cope and Heal. Far Hills, NJ: New Horizon Press,
1994.
Founder of the first nonprofit organization for young widowed people, Fein-
berg offers twenty-seven chapters that explore the many feelings encountered
following the death of a spouse, including guilt and anger. Chapters also explore
the issues of visits to the cemetery; difficult times and holidays; wearing rings;
dealing with possessions; returning to work; matters of how the person died; sup-
port groups; and socializing, dating, and sex.
2160. Felber, Marta. Finding Your Way after Your Spouse Dies. Notre Dame,
IN: Ave Maria Press, 2000.
Felber presents a step-by-step (sixty-four total steps) guide to recovery for
widows and widowers written from a Christian perspective. She includes prayers
and scripture suggestions for each step. Page 136 offers a handwritten note from
Felber to the grieving reader. The book concludes with an annotated bibliography
of books and periodicals, a list of mail-order sources for books and other grief
materials, and a list of organizations with a paragraph about each and how they
might help widows.
2161. Garrison, Gene K. Widowhood Happens. Philadelphia: Xlibris, 2002.
2162. Ginsburg, Genevieve Davis. Widow: Rebuilding Your Life. Tucson, AZ:
Fisher Books, 1995. Originally published in 1987. Revised edition published as
Widow To Widow: Thoughtful, Practical Ideas for Rebuilding Your Life, by De
Capo Press, in 2004.
2163. Gordon, Beverly S. The First Year Alone. Dublin, NH: William L. Bau-
han, 1986.
In her foreword, Elizabeth Yates notes that when the author’s husband, Tom
Gordon, died suddenly of a heart attack, all who knew them asked, “What will
Beverly do?” Yates says, “This is her answer.” Gordon writes that this book is
“not only for women who have lost their husbands, but for families and friends
who are seeking a better understanding of the grieving process that is unique to
widowhood.”
2164. Greene, Phyllis. It Must Have Been Moonglow: Reflections on the First
Years of Widowhood. New York: Villard, 2001. Reprinted in 2003.
2165. Harvey, Carol D. H., and Howard M. Bahr. The Sunshine Widows:
Adapting to Sudden Bereavement. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books, 1980.
Both professors of sociology, the authors explore a multitude of emotions, ex-
periences, personal stories, and social tensions in this academic study of sudden
widowhood. This book features thirty-six charts and tables representing surveys
and research on various aspects of widowhood. Among them are family income,
phone calls and personal visits, volunteering, church activity and salience of
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2184. Marris, P. Widows and Their Families. London: Routledge and Kegan
Paul, 1968. Originally published in 1958.
2185. Matthews, Anne Martin. Widowhood in Later Life. Toronto, Ontario:
Butterworths, 1991. Part of the Perspectives on Individual and Population Aging
series, Barry McPherson, editor.
Matthews is director of the Gerontology Research Centre and a professor in
the Department of Family Studies at the University of Guelph in Ontario. An in-
depth exploration of the literature on widowhood in Canada, the text discusses
the topic amidst frequent comparisons with United States and international ap-
proaches to death and widowhood. She highlights distinctions between widowed
people with and without children and those who live in rural and urban areas.
Includes an index and a lengthy bibliography.
2186. McNally, Shirley Reeser, Barbara Harrison Mulhern, and Mary Witt
Wydman. When Husbands Die: Women Share Their Stories. Santa Fe, NM:
Sunstone Press, 2005.
2187. Moore, Alinde J., and Dorothy C. Stratton. Resilient Widowers: Older
Men Speak for Themselves. New York: Springer, 2002. Part of the Springer Se-
ries: Focus on Men. Published by Prometheus Books, Amherst, NY, in 2003.
Noting that most widowhood studies focus on older women, the authors em-
phasize the importance of research on widowers. This text brings forth the stories
and experiences of fifty-one widowers, each with a unique message. Moore and
Stratton do not attempt to create statistics from the stories or categories of widow-
ers because of this uniqueness. They indicate in their preface that their purpose
is to set the widowhood experience within the context of the life experience for
the purpose of contributing to the knowledge base about widowhood and older
men, informing professionals who work with older men to improve services
and encourage researchers to explore the lives of older widowed men. Topics
explored include resilience in widowers, models of resilience, caregiving and
communication, saying goodbye, grief and adjustment, living alone, remarriage,
adult children and social support, and cohorts and the future. Appendixes include
the methodology and interview topics of the research as well as characteristics of
the respondents. Characteristics include year born, religious affiliation, highest
educational achievement, occupation, marital status at interview or follow-up,
and number of children reared. Includes a subject index and an index of authors
referenced in the text.
2188. Murphy, Sylvia. Surviving Your Partner: How to Live with the Death of
the Person Closest to You. Oxford, England: How To Books, 1998.
2189. Nowak, Pat. The ABCs of Widowhood. Bloomington, IN: 1stBooks,
2003.
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also discusses the different ways of grieving using real life stories from fifty-five
widows and twenty-five widowers. Shuchter also examines the effectiveness of
support groups, medical treatment, and family therapy in assisting the bereave-
ment process. Other topics include understanding the experience of bereavement,
emotional and mental responses to the death of a spouse, how bereaved people
cope with emotional pain, continuing ties to the deceased, relationship changes
with friends and family, and the effects of bereavement on health and work life.
The author is also associated with the San Diego Widowhood Project. An appen-
dix describes the bereavement study. Also includes a brief bibliography divided
by subject.
2199. Silverman, Phyllis Rolfe. Widow-to-Widow: How the Bereaved Help
One Another. New York: Springer, 1986. Second edition published by Brunner-
Routledge, New York, in 2004. Part of the Series in Death, Dying, and Bereave-
ment, Robert A. Neimeyer, consulting editor.
The first edition of this book was a report on the Widow-to-Widow Program,
which demonstrated how someone who had been widowed for some time could
be helpful to the newly widowed. Silverman, an internationally recognized au-
thority on widowhood and grieving children, notes in the preface to her second
edition that by 2004, widows seeking other widows out for support had become
commonplace. The text explores these relationships and their value. Topics cov-
ered include gender differences, grief as both a normal life event and an illness,
detachment, building a new life, uncertainty, differences between expected and
unanticipated deaths, when the silence of the grave becomes real, confronting
family issues, widowhood as a new status, continuing bonds with the deceased,
widowhood with dependent children, childhood bereavement in this context,
reality versus disbelief, theoretical perspectives on grief and mourning, and the
role of adult children with the older widowed. Appendixes include a summary
of the research findings and resources with descriptions for the widowed (mostly
organizations). Includes references and an index.
2200. Silverman, Phyllis Rolfe, Dorothy Mackenzie, Mary Pettipas, and Eliza-
beth Wilson, eds. Helping Each Other in Widowhood. New York: Health Sci-
ences Publishing Corp, 1974.
2201. Start, Clarissa. On Becoming a Widow. New York: Family Library, 1968.
Also published by Pyramid Publications for Concordia Publishing, St. Louis, in
1973.
Start, a veteran journalist, describes her experiences of widowhood from a
Christian perspective. She writes about her husband’s sudden death, how she
reacted to it in the days and months thereafter, and how she began to reshape her
life. She notes that, “You can surmount your grief. . . . You will eventually even
sense a certain pity for those whose lives have not been touched by grief, for they
have not lived life to the fullest.”
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biographical information on the widows and their life partners. Also includes a
brief bibliography.
2206. Williams, Marna B. Living through the Death of a Spouse: Leader’s
Guide. Nashville, TN: Graded Press, 1987.
2207. Wylie, Betty Jane. Beginnings: A Book for Widows. Toronto, Ontario:
McClelland & Stewart, 1977.
2208. Yates, Martha. Coping: A Survival Manual for Women Alone. New York:
Spectrum/Prentice-Hall, 1976.
2209. Zonnebelt-Smeenge, Susan J., and Robert C. DeVries. Getting to the
Other Side of Grief: Overcoming the Loss of a Spouse. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker
Book House, 1998.
Name Index
301
302 Name Index
Brim, Orville G., Jr., 1982, 1983 Cable, Dana G., 490
Brinkman, June M., 489 Caine, Lynn, 2147, 2148, 2149
Brock, Dan W., 1915 Cairnes, Moira, 1747
Brodie, Howard, 850 Calder, Bobby J., 88
Brody, Claire M., 2048 Calhan, Kenneth, 1759
Brohl, Noreen O’Brien, 573 Calhoun, Lawrence G., 2047
Brokhoff, John R., 1122 Calhoun, Nancy, 247
Brooke, Jill, 1123 Callahan, Daniel, 65
Brooke, Tal, 1916 Callanan, Maggie, 27
Brookman, Philip, 1524 Callari, Elizabeth S., 314
Brooks, Anne M., 1124 Callis, Stephen, 1387
Brooks, Jane, 1812 Camp, Marcia, 1624
Brookside, Lynn, 1295 Campbell, Karen, 640
Brothers, Joyce, 2146 Campbell, Scott, 2150
Brouardel, Paul, 941 Campling, Jo, 1791
Brown, Erica, 1125 Canfield, Jack, 1129
Brown, Judy, 851 Canine, John D., 1655
Brown, Norman O., 313 Cantor, Norman L., 1625
Brown, Reg, 1126 Caplan, Sandi, 1130
Browning, Mary H., 1720 Capron, Alexander Morgan, 867, 1633
Bruce, Elizabeth J., 1127 Carey, Deborah Allen, 1501
Bruce, Hank, 637 Carey, Gabrielle, 946
Bruce, James W., 554 Cargas, Harry J., 315
Bruera, Eduardo, 1746 Carlozzi, Carl G., 641
Brumett, Grace, 2166 Carlson, Lisa, 316
Bruno, Susan, 777 Carmody, John, 272
Bryant, Clifton D., 942, 1682 Carmody, John Tully, 642
Bryant-Mole, Karen, 269 Carpenter, Edward, 317
Buckingham, Robert W., 555, 1128, 1497, Carr, Arthur C., 1131, 1366, 1671, 1672,
1498, 1499, 1547 1673, 1674, 2016, 2017, 2041, 2127,
Buckman, Robert, 270 2137
Budge, E. A. Wallis, 2062 Carr, Deborah, 2151
Bugen, Larry A., 943 Carr, Thomas K., 947
Bulkeley, Kelly, 1699 Carrington, Hereward, 917, 1600
Bulkeley, Patricia, 1699 Carroll, David, 318
Bulkin, Wilma, 1984 Carroll, James D., 2045
Bultmann, Rudolph, 944 Carse, J. P., 1937
Burke, Dianne O’Quinn, 216 Carse, James P., 491
Burland, C. A., 945 Carter, James, 398
Burnell, Adrienne L., 1985 Carter, Nick, 319
Burnell, George M., 638, 1985 Carter, Steven, 320
Burstein, Andrew, 1468 Carter, Yvonne, 1761
Burton, Lindy, 556 Cartwright, Ann, 643, 2145
Buschman, Penelope, 619 Cassel, Christine K., 1763
Butler, Shari, 1813 Cassell, Dana K., 948
Buttery, Thomas J., 500 Castles, Mary Reardon, 644
Byock, Ira, 639, 794 Caughill, Rita E., 645
Name Index 305
Kellehear, Allan, 399, 719, 1028, 2011 Koff, Theodore H., 1544
Kelly, Evelyn B., 342 Kohn, Jane Burgess, 2172
Kelly, Patricia, 271 Kohn, Willard K., 2172
Kelly, Robert, 537 Kohut, Jeraldine Marasco, 1545
Kemp, Charles, 2012 Kohut, Sylvester, 1545
Kennedy, Alexandra, 1825 Kolatch, Alfred J., 2077
Kennedy, E. A., 56 Kolf, June Cerza, 723, 1230, 1231
Kennedy, Elizabeth A., 1662 Koocher, Gerald P., 185
Kennedy, Eugene C., 1224 Koolman, Gladys, 1232, 1827
Kennedy, Nathalie E., 805 Koop, C. Everett, 703, 1030
Kennedy, Patricia H., 720 Kopp, Ruth Lewshenia, 186, 724, 1869
Keogh, Martin J., 1225 Kothari, M. L., 725
Kepler, Thomas, 326 Koupernik, Cyrille, 544
Kessler, David, 721, 722, 1033, 1236 Kouri, Mary K., 1233
Keyfitz, Nathan, 761 Kraemer, David Charles, 431
Kienow, Nancy Louise, 508 Kramer, Betty J., 2008
Kiernan, John M., 692 Kramer, Herb, 84
Killilea, Alfred G., 1944 Kramer, Kenneth, 432
Kilner, John F., 868 Kramer, Ray, 84
Kindlen, Margaret, 709 Kramer, Rita Wendy, 2173
Kinzbrunner, Barry M., 1773 Kramer, Scott, 343
Kircher, Pamela M., 1543 Kramp, Douglas H., 726
Kirk, Paul, 780 Kramp, Erin Tierney, 726
Kirschling, Jane Marie, 1548 Krant, Melvin J., 661
Kissane, David, 1226 Kranz, Rachel, 276
Kittleson, Mark J., 19 Kraus, Frances, 206
Klagsbrun, Samuel C., 1546, 1663 Krauss, Pesach, 1234
Klass, Dennis, 412, 501, 586, 1227, 1228 Kreeft, Peter J., 344
Klauser, Henriette Anne, 1863 Kreis, Bernadine, 1235
Kleespies, Phillip M., 869 Krementz, Jill, 1828
Klein, Allen, 82 Kroen, William C., 187
Klein, Sandra Jacoby, 1229 Krohe, Dale C., 510
Klein, Stanley, 430 Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth, 188, 189, 287,
Klicker, Ralph L., 182 345, 511, 590, 728, 729, 730, 834,
Kliman, Gilbert, 183, 244, 262 1031, 1032, 1033, 1236, 1688, 2013,
Klopfenstein, Janette, 286 2126
Klopfenstein, Pamela, 587 Kuebler, Kim K., 1774, 2014
Klug, Ron, 1826 Kuehn, Eileen, 16, 1237
Kluge, Eike-Henner W., 1945 Kuenning, Delores, 1238
Kluger-Bell, K., 588 Kumar, Sameet M., 1239
Knapp, Ronald J., 589, 606 Kung, Hans, 870
Knight, James A., 1981 Kurtzman, J., 731
Knott, J. Eugene, 83, 509 Kushner, Harold S., 1034
Knowles, Don, 184 Kushner, Thomasine Kimbrough, 897
Knox, Jean McBee, 1029 Kutscher, Austin H., 40, 51, 116, 117,
Koestenbaum, Peter, 1946, 1947 118, 119, 288, 289, 456, 619, 692,
314 Name Index
Vaux, Kenneth L., 803, 901 Wass, Hannelore, 253, 254, 538, 539, 808
Vaux, Sara Anson, 803 Waterhouse, Michael, 809
Veatch, Robert M., 847, 902, 1081 Waters, Brent, 1905
Vedder, Clyde B., 2136 Watson, David, 810
Ventifridda, V., 1796 Watson, Max S., 1783
Vermilye, Gretchen, 518 Watson, Wilbur H., 59
Vernick, Joel J., 133 Watt, Jill, 478
Vernon, Glenn M., 386, 1968 Watts, Alan W., 811
Verwoerdt, Adriaan, 301 Watts, Richard G., 302
Vince, Ken R., 1717 Waugh, Earle H., 1478
Vlitos, Roger, 198 Weatherhead, Leslie, 1906
Vogel, Linda Jane, 251 Webb, Marilyn, 388
Vogt, Christopher P., 804 Webb, Nancy Boyd, 255
Volicer, Ladislav, 1592 Weeks, O. Duane, 812
Volk, Robert J., 2084 Weenolsen, Patricia, 813, 1971
Volkan, Vamik D., 1163, 1414 Wegars, Priscilla, 401
Volpe, Rita, 600 Weidner, Halbert, 1907
Voss, Robert F., 218 Weiner, Bill, 102
Voysey, M., 1085 Weingarten, Violet, 814
Vredevelt, Pam W., 1415 Weinreb, Neil J., 1773
Weir, Robert F., 905, 906
Wagner, August H., 1969 Weisman, Avery D., 1420, 1676, 1677,
Wagner, Heather Lehr, 387 2054
Wagner, J., 1904 Weiss, Abner, 479
Wahl, Charles W., 805 Weiss, Jess E., 103
Wainwright, Wendy, 1747 Weiss, Robert S., 1181, 1324
Wald, Florence S., 1739 Weitzman, Elizabeth, 256
Wald, George, 52 Weizman, Savine Gross, 1421
Walker, Alice, 806 Wells, Robert V., 1484
Walker, Earl A., 2051 Welshons, John E., 1422
Walker, Kenneth M., 101 Wengerd, Sara, 1423
Wallace, Beverly R., 466 Wentzel, Kenneth B., 1593
Wallis, C. J., 2093 Wertenbaker, Lael T., 1087
Walsh, Froma, 1416 Wertheimer, Alison, 1424
Walsh, R. P., 467 Westberg, Granger E., 1425
Walsh-Burke, Katherine, 2052 Whaley, Joachim, 1485
Walter, Carolyn Ambler, 1417 Wharton, John, 2096
Walter, Tony, 1418, 1797 Wheeler, David R., 815
Walton, Charlie, 1419 Wheeler, Sara Rich, 591
Walton, Douglas N., 904, 1970 Whipple, Vicky, 2205
Wandel, Lee Palmer, 472 Whitaker, Agnes, 1426
Wanderer, Zev, 807 White, Ann, 315
Ward, Barbara, 26, 252 White, James R., 1427
Wardi, Anissa Janine, 477 White Deer of Autumn, 480
Ware, Shirley Gerald, 1843 Whiter, Walter, 1693
Warner, W. Lloyd, 1086 Whitfield, Sarah, 1724
Warthin, Alfred, 2053 Wiener, Alfred, 1179, 1674
326 Name Index
327
328 Title Index
After You Say Goodbye: When Someone And the Passenger Was Death: The
You Love Dies of AIDS, 1174 Drama and Trauma of Losing a Child,
Against the Dying of the Light: A Father’s 562
Journey through Loss, 670 And You Visited Me: Sacramental
Aging and Dying as Aspects of Living, Ministry to the Sick and Dying, 1864
32 Anguish: A Case History of a Dying
Aging, Death, and Human Longevity: A Patient, 674
Philosophical Inquiry, 50 Anguish: A Case History of a Dying
Aging, Dying, and Death, 44 Trajectory, 675
Aging, Dying, and Death: A Teacher’s Animal Behavior and Thanatology,
Guide, 45 2113
AIDS and the Hospice Community, Annotated Catalog of Books and
1489 Audiovisual Materials on Thanatology:
AIDS and the New Orphans: Coping with Death, Bereavement, Loss, Grief, and
Death, 1145 Recovery from Bereavement, 105
AIDS: Intervening with Hidden Grievers, Anticipatory Grief, 1366
1146 Aphasia: The Family’s Guide to the
AIDS: The Ultimate Challenge, 728 Psychology of Loss, Grief, and
Alerting Bereaved Families: A Special Adjustment, 1400
Bulletin, 268 Appointment with Death, 1885
All in the End Is Harvest: An Anthology Approaching Death: Improving Care at
for Those Who Grieve, 1426 the End of Life, 1763
All Kinds of Love: Experiencing Hospice, Are You Sad Too?: Helping Children Deal
1538 with Loss and Death, 234
All of Us: Americans Talk about the Ars Morendi: The Book of the Craft of
Meaning of Death, 62 Dying and Other Early English Tracts
All Our Losses, All Our Griefs: Resources Concerning Death, 1453
for Pastoral Care, 1872 The Art of Death: Visual Culture in the
All the Days of His Dying, 671 English Death Ritual, c. 1500-1800,
Alone and Surviving: A Guide for Today’s 1473
Widow, 2178 The Art of Dying (Crichton), 652
Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with The Art of Dying (Neale), 754
Unresolved Grief, 1115 The Art of Dying: Honoring and
The American Book of Dying: Lessons in Celebrating Life’s Passages, 766
Healing Spiritual Pain, 1863 The Art of Dying: How to Leave This
The American View of Death: Acceptance World with Dignity and Grace, at
or Denial?, 70 Peace with Yourself and Your Loved
The American Way of Death, 1051 Ones, 813
The American Way of Dying, 627 The Art of Dying Well: The Development
Among Friends: Hospice Care for the of Ars Moriendi, 1476
Person with AIDS, 1497 As I Lay Dying: Meditations upon
The Anatomy of Bereavement, 1337 Returning, 755
And a Time to Die (Howes), 1939 As It Is Said: A Selected, Annotated
And a Time to Die (Pelgrin), 368 Bibliography in Death and Dying, 122
And a Time to Die: How American As Much Time as It Takes: A Guide for
Hospitals Shape the End of Life, 716 the Bereaved, Their Family, and
And Peace at Last, 326 Friends, 1225
Title Index 329
Brain Death: Ethical Considerations, 904 Care of the Dying Child: A Practical
Breaking the Silence: A Guide to Help Guide for Those Who Help Others, 555
Children with Complicated Grief– Care of the Dying Patient: A Comparison
Suicide, Homicide, AIDS, Violence, of Instructional Plans, 2042
and Abuse, 164 Care of the Terminally Ill: The Hospice
A Brief History of Death, 1456 Concept, 1500
Brief Interventions with Bereaved Caring for a Dying Relative: A Guide for
Children, 206 Families, 660
The Broken Connection: On Death and Caring for Dying Children and Their
the Continuity of Life, 1950 Families, 580
A Broken Heart Still Beats: After Your Caring for Dying People of Different
Child Dies, 597 Faiths, 450
Buried Alive: The Terrifying History of Caring for Life and Death, 53
Our Most Primal Fear, 916 Caring for Patients at the End of Life:
The Buried Soul: How Humans Invented Facing an Uncertain Future Together,
Death, 1481 2031
But Not to Lose: A Book of Comfort for Caring for the Dead: Your Final Act of
Those Bereaved, 1240 Love, 316
But Won’t Granny Need Her Socks?: Caring for the Dying: Critical Issues at
Dealing Effectively with Children’s the Edge of Life, 308
Concerns about Death and Dying, Caring for the Dying Patient and
184 His Family: A Model for Medical
Education-Medical Center
Canadian Guide to Death and Dying, 478 Conferences, 2015
Can You Hear Me Smiling?: A Child Caring for the Dying Patient and the
Grieves a Sister, 174 Family, 769
Cardinal Bernardin’s Stations of the Caring Relationships: The Dying and the
Cross: Transforming Our Grief and Bereaved, 712
Loss into New Life, 1224 Carpe Diem: Enjoying Every Day with a
Care for the Dying and the Bereaved, Terminal Illness, 740
1178 Casebook on the Termination of Life-
Care for the Dying: Resources of Sustaining Treatment and the Care of
Theology, 1891 the Dying, 1754
Caregiving and Loss: Family Needs, Ca$h for the Final Days: A Financial
Professional Responses, 1158 Guide for the Terminally Ill and Their
Caregiving: Hospice-Proven Techniques Advisors, 1652
for Healing Body and Soul, 1585 Catastrophic Diseases: Who Decides
Caregiving in the Community Hospital for What?, 867
the Terminally Ill and Bereaved, 2057 Catastrophic Diseases: Who Decides
The Care of the Aged, Dying, and Dead, What? A Psychosocial and Legal
1092 Analysis of the Problems Posed
The Care of the Aged, the Dying, and the by Hemodialysis and Organ
Dead, 1017 Transplantation, 1633
Care of the Child Facing Death, 556 Causes of Death, 761
Care of the Dying (Lamerton), 732 A Celebration of Death, 66
Care of the Dying (Saunders), 1067 Celebrations of Death: The Anthropology
Care of the Dying Child, 576 of the Mortuary Ritual, 2070
332 Title Index
The Center for Bioethics and Human Children Are Not Paper Dolls: A Visit
Dignity Presents Dignity and Dying: A with Bereaved Siblings (Linn), 2108
Christian Appraisal, 868 Children, Bereavement, and Trauma:
Cerebral Death, 2051 Nurturing Resilience, 138
A Challenge for Living: Dying, Death, and Children Die, Too, 582
Bereavement, 956 Children Facing Grief, 225
The Chances of Surviving Death (Ingersall Children Mourning, Mourning Children,
Lecture, 1932), 1706 149
The Changing Face of Death: Historical Children’s Conceptions of Aging and
Accounts of Death and Disposal, 1469 Death, 71
Changing Ways of Death in Twentieth- Children’s Experience with Death, 265
Century Australia: War, Medicine, and Children’s Fears, 176
the Funeral Business, 422 Children’s Literature: An Issues
The Chemistry of Death, 979 Approach, 227
Chicken Soup for the Grieving Soul: The Child’s Attitude toward Death, 90
Stories about Life, Death, and The Child’s Conception of Physical
Overcoming the Loss of a Loved One, Casualty, 1692
1129 The Child’s Discovery of Death: A Study
The Child and Death (Grollman), 168 in Child Psychology, 137
The Child and Death (Sahler), 615 A Child’s Parent Dies: Studies in
The Child and Death (Schowalter et al.), Childhood Bereavement, 162
619 A Child’s View of Grief: A Guide for
The Child and the Mystery of Death, Parents, Teachers, and Counselors,
571 257
A Child Dies: A Portrait of Family Grief, Chinese American Death Rituals:
545 Respecting the Ancestors, 401
Childhood and Death, 253 Chinese Americans in Loss and
Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath, Separation: Social, Medical, and
136 Psychiatric Perspectives, 400
Childhood Bereavement: Developing the Choices at the End of Life: Finding Out
Curriculum and Pastoral Support, 178 What Your Parents Want before It’s
The Child in His Family: The Impact of Too Late, 1835
Disease and Death, 544 The Choice: Seasons of Loss and Renewal
Children and Death, 217 after a Father’s Decision to Die, 851
Children and Death: Perspectives from Choices for Living: Coping with Fear of
Birth through Adolescence, 618 Dying, 922
Children and Dying: An Exploration and Choices: For People Who Have a
a Selective Professional Bibliography, Terminal Illness, Their Families, and
559 Their Caregivers, 385
Children and Grief: Big Issues for Little A Chosen Death: The Dying Confront
Hearts, 169 Assisted Suicide, 891
Children and Grief: When a Parent Dies, The Christian Way of Death, 706
264 Chronic and Terminal Illness: New
Children and the Death of a President: Perspectives on Caring and Carers,
Multidisciplinary Studies, 262 757
Children Are Not Paper Dolls: A Visit Chronic Illness and the Quality of Life,
with Bereaved Siblings (Levy), 199 796
Title Index 333
The Chronic Pain Solution: The Comforting Those Who Grieve: A Guide
Comprehensive, Step-by-Step Guide to for Helping Others, 1267
Choosing the Best of Alternative and The Comfort of Home: An Illustrated Step-
Conventional Medicine, 1756 by-Step Guide for Caregivers, 359
Chronic Sorrow: A Living Loss, 1346 Coming Home: A Guide to Dying at Home
Cicely Saunders: Founder of the Hospice with Dignity, 664
Movement, Selected Letters, 1959- Coming to Terms with Death: How to
1999, 1578 Face the Inevitable with Wisdom and
Cicely Saunders, Founder of the Modern Dignity, 321
Hospice Movement, 1513 Communicating Issues in Thanatology,
The Circle of Life: A Search for an 2123
Attitude to Pain, Disease, Old Age, and Communications and Thanatology,
Death, 101 2122
A Clinical Decision Guide to Symptom Communication with the Fatally Ill, 301
Relief in Palliative Care, 1787 The Community Hospital and Its
Clinical Dimensions of Anticipatory Expanding Role in Thanatology,
Mourning: Theory and Practice in 2140
Working with the Dying, Their Loved Companions for the Passage: Stories of
Ones, and Their Caregivers, 1334 the Intimate Privilege of Accompanying
Clinical Management of Bereavement: the Dying, 776
A Handbook for Healthcare Companion through the Darkness: Inner
Professionals, 1985 Dialogues on Grief, 1166
Clinical Protocols for Care of Hospice A Comparison of Attitudes of Associate
Patients: An Interdisciplinary Degree Student Nurses Caring for the
Approach, 1535 Dying Patient before and after Death
Closer to the Light: Learning from the Education, 512
Near-Death Experiences of Children, Compassion and Courage in the Aftermath
1708 of Traumatic Loss: Stones in My Heart
Close to the Bone: Life-Threatening Forever, 1110
Illness and the Search for Meaning, Compassionate Cities: Public Health and
1914 End-of-Life Care, 2011
A Collection of Near-Death Research A Compilation of Studies of Attitudes
Readings: Scientific Inquiries into the toward Death, Funerals, and Funeral
Experiences of Persons Near-Physical Directors: Participated in by the
Death, 1703 Clergy, the Public, Including Critical
Come Phoenix Word: An Account of a Segments Thereof, Funeral Directors,
Woman’s Journey and Struggle for 72
Consciousness during a Terminal The Complete Hospice Guide, 1498
Illness: Journal and Writings of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Near-Death
Joan Lyon Gibbon, 1924-1987, Experience, 1696
672 Complicated Grieving and Bereavement:
Come the End: Instructions for Young Understanding and Treating People
People on the Last Things, 235 Experiencing Loss, 1141
Comfort and Care in a Final Illness: A Comprehensive Bibliography of the
Support for the Patient and Caregiver, Thanatology Literature, 119
723 Concerning Death: A Practical Guide for
Comfort for Those Who Mourn, 1104 the Living, 996
334 Title Index
Counselor Responses to Death and Dying: Dancing with Broken Bones: Portraits of
Guidelines for Training, 1974 Death and Dying among Inner-City
The Courage to Grieve: Creative Living, Poor, 441
Recovery, and Growth, 1403 Dancing with Mr. D: Notes on Life and
The Courage to Laugh: Humor, Hope, Death, 1027
and Healing in the Face of Death and Day by Day, 787
Dying, 82 The Day My Father Died: Women Share
Crafting a Crazy Quilt: Four Teachers Their Stories of Love, Loss, and Life,
Piece Together Death in a School 1803
Context, 208 Dead but Not Lost: Grief Narratives in
The Craft of Dying: The Modern Face of Religious Traditions, 412
Death, 737 Dead Reckoning: A Therapist Confronts
Creating Meaningful Funeral Ceremonies: His Own Grief, 1409
A Guide for Caregivers, 2094 Dealing Creatively with Death: A Manual
Creating Meaningful Funeral Services: A of Death Education and Simple Burial,
Guide for Families, 2095 2083
Creativity in Death Education and Dealing with Death, 323
Counseling, 493 Dealing with Death: A Four-Week Course
Cremation, 2071 to Help Junior Highers Explore Their
A Critical Examination of the Belief in a Feelings about Death, 27
Life after Death, 824 Dealing with Death and Dying, 949
A Cross-Cultural Look at Death, Dying, Dealing with Death and Dying: A Nursing
and Religion, 455 Skillbook, 1726
A Cross-Index of Indices of Books of Dealing with Death: A Strategy for
Thanatology, 118 Tragedy, 342
Crossing Over: Narratives of Palliative Dealing with Death: Discussions of Death
Care, 1744 Presented for Those Concerned with
Crossing the Bridge: Creating Ceremonies the Delivery of Care Service for the
for Grieving and Healing from Life’s Elderly, 33
Losses, 2082 Dealing with Grief, 1437
Cry for Help, 1188 Dealing with Grief and Loss: Hope in the
The Cry for Help, 329 Midst of Pain, 1144
Cultural Changes in Attitudes toward Dealing with Terminal Illness in the
Death, Dying, and Bereavement, 414 Family, 387
Cultural Issues in End-of-Life Decision Dear Gift of Life: A Man’s Encounter with
Making, 394 Death, 378
The Culture of Death, 925 Death (Ball), 2061
Current Widowhood: Myths and Realities, Death (Maeterlinck), 1047
2180 Death (Sprung), 243
Cuttin’ the Body Loose: Historical, Death (Spurgeon), 1080
Biological, and Personal Approaches Death (Stewart), 246
to Death and Dying, 1933 Death (Watts), 811
Death: A Bibliographical Guide, 123
Dancing in My Nightgown: The Rhythms Death: A Book of Preparation and
of Widowhood, 2144 Consolation, 1083
Dancing on the Grave, 1449 Death, Afterlife, and Eschatology, 825
336 Title Index
Death and the Quest for Meaning: Essays Death: Current Perspectives, 1075
in Honor of Herman Feifel, 1965 Death Customs, 2088
Death and the Regeneration of Life, 936 The Death Decision, 1054
Death and the Right Hand, 1935 Death Deferred: How to Live Long and
Death and the Sexes: An Examination Happily, Defer Death, and Lose All
of Differential Longevity, Attitudes, Fear of It, 917
Behaviors, and Coping Skills, 100 Death Descending, 640
Death and the Supreme Court, 1643 Death, Dying, and Bereavement, 968
Death and the Visual Arts: An Original Death, Dying, and Bereavement: An
Arno Press Anthology, 1019 Insight for Carers, 1074
Death and Trauma: The Traumatology of Death, Dying, and Euthanasia, 863
Grieving, 1168 Death, Dying, and Grief: A Bibliography,
Death and Western Thought, 1917 113
Death, a New Perspective on the Death, Dying, and Social Differences,
Phenomena of Disease and Dying, 725 1057
Death: An Interdisciplinary Analysis, 1963 Death, Dying, and Society, 1055
Death Anxiety, 86 Death, Dying, and Terminal Illness, 937
Death Anxiety Handbook: Research, Death, Dying, and the Biological
Instrumentation, and Application, 95 Revolution: Our Last Quest for
Death Anxiety of Perinatal Nurses: The Responsibility, 902
Relationship to Death Education and Death, Dying, and the Law (McHugh),
Death Exposure, 483 1636
Death, a Part of Life: An Experimental Death, Dying, and the Law (McLean),
Unit, 521 1637
Death around the World, 465 Death, Dying, Transcending, 1013
Death as a Fact of Life, 1004 Death Education, 497
Death as an Enemy According to Ancient Death Education: A Concern for the
Egyptian Conceptions, 1486 Living, 500
Death as a Speculative Theme in Death Education: An Annotated Resource
Religious, Scientific, and Social Guide, 539
Thought: An Original Anthology, 1020 Death Education and Counseling: A
Death: A Teacher’s Guide, 520 Training Manual, 498
Death Attitudes and the Older Adult: Death Education and Death Anxiety in
Theories, Concepts, and Applications, Student Nurse Aides, 508
58 Death Education as Part of Family
Death: A User’s Guide, 1005 Life Education: Using Imaginative
Death 101: A Workbook for Educating Literature for Insights into Family
and Healing, 1304 Crises, 532
Deathbed Observations by Physicians and Death Education: A Survey and Study of
Nurses, 2024 Colleges and Universities, 485
Death-Bed Scenes, 2096 Death Education: Attitudes of Teachers,
Death, Bereavement, and Mourning, 1003 School Board Members, and Clergy,
Death, Brain Death, and Ethics, 871 494
Death, Burial, and the Individual in Early Death Education for the Health
Modern England, 1463 Professional, 1977
Death: Confronting the Reality, 1880 Death Education II: An Annotated
Death: Coping with the Pain, 16 Resource Guide, 538
Title Index 339
The Death of a Parent: Reflections for Death with Dignity: A New Law
Adults Mourning the Loss of a Father Permitting Physician Aid-in-Dying,
or Mother, 1814 885
Death of a Parent: Transition to a New Death with Dignity: An Inquiry into
Adult Identity, 1841 Related Public Issues, 900
A Death of One’s Own, 350 Death with Dignity: A Reply to “On Dying
Death on the Installment Plan, 325 Well,” 893
Death out of the Closet: A Curriculum Death without Denial, Grief without
Guide to Living with Dying, 792 Apology: A Guide for Facing Death
Death: Philosophical Soundings, 1924 and Loss, 2195
Death, Property, and Lawyers: A Death without End, 994
Behavioral Approach, 1647 Death without Notice, 795
Death Rites: Law and Ethics at the End of A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss
Life, 1634 While Others Are Celebrating, 1380
Death, Ritual, and Bereavement, 1467 Deciding to Forego Life-Sustaining
Death Row Chaplain, 1861 Treatment: A Report on the Ethical,
Death, Sacrifice, and Tragedy, 1928 Medical, and Legal Issues in Treatment
Death’s Door: Modern Dying and the Decisions, 1641
Ways We Grieve, 993 Decision for Death: Simulation of a
Death Shall Have No Dominion (Holden), Societal Consensus Group, 525
1865 Defining Death: Medical, Legal, and
Death Shall Have No Dominion Ethical Issues in the Determination of
(McBride), 18 Death, 1642
Death, Society, and Human Experience, The Denial of Death, 913
1021 Describing Death in America: What We
The Deaths of Man, 1964 Need to Know, 514
Death’s Single Privacy: Grieving and Design for Death, 1687
Personal Growth, 2192 Despair and the Return of Hope: Echoes
Death Strain, 319 of Mourning in Psychotherapy, 1675
Death: The Coping Mechanism of the Determination of Death: Theological,
Health Professional, 2005 Medical, Ethical, and Legal Issues,
Death: The Doorway to the Future, 665 1639
Death, the Experience, 745 The Development and Validation of a
Death: The Final Frontier, 1000 Knowledge Test of Death and Dying
Death: The Final Stage of Growth, for College Students, 496
1031 Development of the National Home and
Death: The Glorious Adventure, 995 Hospice Care Survey, 1529
Death, the Press, and the Public, 275, Devils, Demons, Death, and Damnation,
288 85, 1472
Death: The Riddle and the Mystery, 1940 Dialogues: The Dying and the Living, 289
Death: The Trip of a Lifetime, 453 Diary of Courage: Coping with Life-
Death to Dust: What Happens to Dead Threatening Illness, 762
Bodies?, 2074 Different Losses, Different Issues: What to
Death Warmed Over, 985 Expect and How to Help, 1195
Death Week: Exploring the Dying Dilemmas of Dying: A Study in the Ethics
Process, 763 of Terminal Care, 898
A Death with Dignity, 380 Dimensions of Dying and Rebirth, 682
Title Index 341
Dying, Death, and Bereavement: A Dying Right: The Death with Dignity
Challenge for Living, 957 Movement, 862
Dying, Death, and Bereavement: The Dying Soul: Spiritual Care at the End
Continuities, Changes, and of Life, 1855
Challenges: Papers from ADEC’s 1990 The Dying Time: Practical Wisdom for the
Conference, 516 Dying and Their Caregivers, 330
Dying, Death, and Bereavement: Dying Unafraid, 921
Theoretical Perspectives and Other Dying Was the Best Thing That Ever
Ways of Knowing, 958 Happened to Me: Stories of Healing
Dying, Death, and Disposal, 955 and Wisdom along Life’s Journey, 687
Dying, Death, and Grief: A Critically Dying We Live, 677
Annotated Bibliography and Source Dying We Live: The Final Messages and
Book of Thanatology and Terminal Records of the Resistance, 678
Care, 130 Dying Well, 803
Dying Declarations: Notes from a Hospice Dying Well: A Holistic Guide for the
Volunteer, 1573 Dying and Their Carers, 371
Dying Dignified: The Health Dying Well: The Prospect for Growth at
Professional’s Guide to Care, 2002 the End-of-Life, 639
Dying: Facing the Facts, 808 Dying with Dignity: A Plea for Personal
Dying, Grieving, Faith, and Family: A Responsibility, 870
Pastoral Care Approach, 1853 The Dynamics of Grief: Its Sources, Pain,
Dying in an Institution: Nurse/Patient and Healing, 1397
Perspectives, 644
Dying in the Human Life Cycle: An Easeful Death?: Perspectives on
Psychological, Biomedical, and Social Death, Dying, and Euthanasia, 878
Perspectives, 790 Education of the Medical Student in
Dying of Cancer: The Final Year of Life, Thanatology, 2137
719 The Effectiveness of a Death Education
The Dying Patient (Brim et al.), 1983 Program on Children’s Knowledge and
The Dying Patient (Twycross), 801 Attitudes toward Death, 488
The Dying Patient: A Nursing Perspective, The Effect of the Death Education Film
1720 “In My Memory” on Elementary
The Dying Patient: A Supportive School Students in the La Crosse
Approach, 645 Wisconsin Public Schools, 495
The Dying Patient in Psychotherapy: The Effects of Chronic and Terminal
Desire, Dreams, and Individuation, Illness on the Family, 357
1670 The Effects of Early Parent Death, 1809
The Dying Patient: The Medical Elders: The Need for Death Education,
Management of Incurable and 506
Terminal Illness, 2055 Element Guide to Bereavement: Your
The Dying Patient: The Role of the Family Questions Answered, 1272
Doctor, Nurse, and Medical Social Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Josefina B.
Worker, 2035 Magno Present Hospice: A Handbook
The Dying Person and the Family, for Families and Others Facing
328 Terminal Illness, 1518
The Dying Process: Patients’ Experiences Elisabeth Kübler-Ross: Encountering
of Palliative Care, 1776 Death and Dying, 817
Title Index 343
Embarkations: A Guide to Dealing with Eternity and Me: The Everlasting Things
Death and Parting, 1375 in Life and Death, 1028
Embracing Their Memory: Loss and the Ethical Decisions in Medicine, 850
Social Psychology of Storytelling, 1196 Ethical Dilemmas at the End of Life,
The Emerging Death Mystique: The 854
Challenge and the Promise, 63 Ethical Issues in Death and Dying
Empowering the Laity in a Local Church (Beauchamp and Perlin), 847
to Minister to the Dying, 1849 Ethical Issues in Death and Dying (Weir),
Empty Arms, 1415 905
The Empty Room: Surviving the Loss of a Ethical Issues in the Care of the Dying
Brother or Sister at Any Age, 2103 and Bereaved Aged, 47
Encounter with Terminal Illness, 724 Ethics at the Edges of Life: Medical and
Encyclopedia of Death, 1024 Legal Intersections, 884
Encyclopedia of Death and Dying, 1008 Ethics in Hospice Care: Challenges to
The Encyclopedia of Death and Dying, Hospice Values in a Changing Health
948 Care Environment, 1539
Ending Life: Ethics and the Way We Die, The Ethics of Terminal Care:
844 Orchestrating the End of Life, 874
Endings: A Book about Death, 939 Ethnic Groups of America: Their
Endings: A Sociology of Death and Dying, Morbidity, Mortality, and Behavior
1026 Disorders, Volume I: The Jews,
The End Is Just the Beginning: Lessons in 469
Grieving for African Americans, 403 Ethnic Variations in Dying, Death, and
The End of Life: A Discussion at the Grief: Diversity in Universality,
Nobel Conference, 52 420
End of Life Care: A Guide for Supporting Euthanasia and Other Aspects of Life and
Older People with Intellectual Death, 886
Disabilities and Their Families, 34 Euthanasia and the Right to Die: A
End-of-Life Care: Bridging Disability and Comparative View, 887
Aging with Person-Centered Care, 38 Euthanasia Is Not the Answer: A Hospice
End-of-Life Care: Clinical Practice Physician’s View, 1509
Guidelines, 2014 Euthanasia: The Good of the Patient, the
End-of-Life Decisions: A Psychosocial Good of Society, 877
Perspective, 895 Euthanasia: The Moral Issues, 843
End of Life in Care Homes: A Palliative Every Person’s Guide to Death and Dying
Approach, 1771 in the Jewish Tradition, 421
End of Life Issues, 883 Everything You Need to Know about
End of Life Issues: Interdisciplinary and Grieving, 1390
Multidimensional Perspectives, 965 Everything You Need to Know When a
End of Life Nursing Care, 1733 Parent Dies, 1811
End-of-Life Stories: Crossing Disciplinary Everything You Need to Know When
Boundaries, 2124 Someone You Know Has Been Killed,
Enduring Grief: True Stories of Personal 1361
Loss, 1370 Evidence-Based Symptom Control in
Epsilon Country, 2116 Palliative Care: Systemic Reviews and
Eschatology and the Mission of Validated Clinical Practice Guidelines
Christianity, 839 for Fifteen Common Problems in
344 Title Index
Patients with Life Limiting Disease, Facing It: AIDS Diaries and the Death of
1777 the Author, 646
The Evidence for Life after Death, 1683 Facing Life Alone, 1132
The Evil Eye, Thanatology, and Other Facing Terminal Illness, 758
Essays, 2135 Facing the “King of Terrors”: Death and
An Existential Understanding of Death: Society in an American Community,
A Phenomenology of Ontological 1750-1990, 1484
Anxiety, 1959 Facing the Ultimate Loss: Coping with the
The Experience of Death: The Moral Death of a Child, 596
Problem of Suicide, 1949 Factbook on Man from Birth to Death,
The Experience of Dying (Greinacher and 972
Muller), 680 The Facts of Death, 1079
The Experience of Dying (Pattison), 1060 Fading Away: The Experience of
Experiences Facing Death, 629 Transition in Families with Terminal
Experiences of Death: An Anthropological Illness, 322
Account, 1006 Families and Life-Threatening Illness,
Experiencing Bereavement, 1098 347
Explaining Death to Children (Grollman), Families and the Gravely Ill: Roles, Rules,
278 and Rights, 892
Explaining Death to Children (Jackson), Families Facing Death: Family Dynamics
283 of Terminal Illness, 773
An Exploration of Issues and Challenges Families Making Sense of Death, 361
Surrounding the Marital Relationships The Family Book of Hospice Care, 1520
of Parents after the Death of a Child, The Family Caregiver’s Journal: A Guide
604 to Facing the Terminal Illness of a
Expressions of Healing: Embracing the Loved One, 637
Process of Grief, 1187 Family Grief Therapy, 1226
The Family in Mourning: A Guide for
Faces of Death: Grief, Dying, Euthanasia, Health Professionals, 2007
Suicide, 860 Fatherless Sons: Healing the Legacy of
Facing Death (Kavanaugh), 341 Loss, 1818
Facing Death (Magee), 741 Fatherless Women: How We Change after
Facing Death and Finding Hope: A Guide We Lose Our Dads, 1838
to the Emotional and Spiritual Care of Father Loss: Daughters Discuss the Man
the Dying, 738 Who Got Away, 1842
Facing Death and Grief: A Sensible Fearful Living: The Fear of Death, 924
Perspective for the Modern Person, Fear No Evil: One Man Deals with
1274 Terminal Illness, 810
Facing Death and Loss, 1056 The Fear of the Dead in Primitive
Facing Death and the Life After, 679 Religion, 919
Facing Death: Images, Insights, and Fear of the Unknown: Enlightened Aid-in-
Interventions: A Handbook for Dying, 914
Educators, Healthcare Professionals, Fears Related to Death and Suicide, 918
and Counselors, 932 A Few Months to Live: Different Paths to
Facing Death: Where Culture, Religion, Life’s End, 794
and Medicine Meet, 472 Films on Death and Dying, 1690
Facing Grief and Death, 1410 The Final Act of Living, 1632
Title Index 345
Final Choices: To Live or to Die in an For the Living: Coping, Caring, and
Age of Medical Technology, 638 Communicating with the Terminally
Final Days: Japanese Culture and Choice Ill, 277
at the End of Life, 438 For Those Bereaved: But Not to Lose: A
Final Departures: Weird and Wonderful Book of Comfort, 1242
Tales of Death, Funerals, and For Those Who Live: Helping Children
Bereavement from around the World, Cope with the Death of a Brother or
408 Sister, 2107
Final Exam, 1749 Fragile Lives: Death, Dying, and Care,
Final Exit: The Practicalities of Self- 356
Deliverance and Assisted Suicide for Fragments on the Deathwatch, 693
the Dying, 865 Frank Answers on Death, 505
Final Gifts: Understanding the Special Freedom and Death, 358
Awareness Needs and Communications Freud: Living and Dying, 1962
of the Dying, 271 Friendgrief: An Absence Called Presence,
The Final Goodbye: The Struggle to Self- 1381
Awareness, 1843 From Death to Mourning, 1429
The Final 48 Hours: Observations on the From Grief to Gladness: Coming Back
Last Days of Life, 782 from Widowhood, 2170
The Final Mystery, 430 From Grief to Glory: Rediscovering Life
The Final Transition, 713 after Loss, 1354
Final Victory: Taking Charge of the Last From Grief to Glory: Spiritual Journeys of
Stages of Life, Facing Death on Your Mourning Parents, 554
Own Terms, 1785 From Mourning to Morning: Discovering
Finding Hope When a Child Dies: What the Healing Power of God’s Love to
Other Cultures Can Teach Us, 599 Take You from Grief to Glory, 1355
Finding My Way: Healing and From Mourning to Morning: Six Years
Transforming through Loss and Grief, Later, 1133
1364 From This World to the Next: Jewish
Finding Your Way after Your Spouse Dies, Approaches to Illness, Death, and the
2160 Afterlife, 424
First American Hospice: Three Years of The Funeral and the Mourners: Pastoral
Home Care, 1547 Care of the Bereaved, 1866
First Person Mortal: Personal Narratives The Funeral: An Experience of Value,
of Dying, Death, and Grief, 940 2072
The First Year Alone, 2163 The Funeral Director and His Role as
The First Year of Bereavement, 1181 Counselor, 2032
Focus on the End of Life: Scientific and The Funeral Encyclopedia: A Source
Social Issues, 1039 Book, 2093
For Better or Worse: For Couples Whose The Funeral: Facing Death as an
Child Has Died, 567 Experience of Life, 2086
The Forgotten Mourners: Guidelines for The Funeral: Sourcebook for Ministers,
Working with Bereaved Children, 219 1852
For the Bereaved, 1243 The Funeral: Vestige or Value?, 2073
For the Bereaved: The Road to Recovery,
1241 Gentle Closings: How to Say Goodbye to
For the Living, 2075 Someone You Love, 293
346 Title Index
A Gentle Death: Personal Caregiving to The Good Death: The New American
the Terminally Ill, 314 Search to Reshape the End of Life, 388
Geographic Patterns in the Risk of Dying A Good Dying: Shaping Health Care for
and Associated Factors, United States, the Last Months of Life, 695
1968-1972, 778 Good End: End-of-Life Concerns and
Geriatrics and Thanatology, 51 Conversations about Hospice and
Getting through the Night: Finding Your Palliative Care, 1491
Way after the Loss of a Loved One, Good Grief: A Constructive Approach to
1332 the Problem of Loss, 1425
Getting to the Other Side of Grief: Good Grief: Experiencing Loss, 1248
Overcoming the Loss of a Spouse, Good Grief: Exploring Feelings, Loss, and
2209 Death with over Elevens and Adults: A
The Gift of Death, 1918 Holistic Approach, 26
The Gift of Grief: Healing the Pain of Good Grief: Exploring Feelings, Loss, and
Everyday Losses, 1401 Death with under Elevens: A Holistic
Gift of Tears: A Practical Approach to Approach, 252
Loss and Bereavement Counseling, Good Grief: Helping Groups of Children
1251 When a Friend Dies, 160
Gifts for the Living: Conversations with Good Grief Rituals: Tools for Healing,
Caregivers on Death and Dying, 294 2063
Gifts: Two Hospice Professionals Reveal Good Life/Good Death: A Doctor’s Case
Messages from Those Passing On, for Euthanasia and Suicide, 309
1582 A Graceful Exit: Life and Death on Your
Gili’s Book: A Journey into Bereavement Own Terms, 632
for Parents and Families, 585 The Grace in Dying: How We Are
Give Sorrow Words: A Father’s Passage Transformed Spiritually as We Die,
through Grief, 561 788
Give Sorrow Words: Perspectives on Loss A Gradual Awakening, 1254
and Trauma, 1197 Gramp: A Man Ages and Dies, 39
Give Sorrow Words: Working with a Grandparents Cry Twice: Help for
Dying Child, 584 Bereaved Grandparents, 609
Giving a Voice to Sorrow: Personal Grandpa’s Berries: A Story to Help
Responses to Death and Mourning, Children Understand Grief and Loss,
1443 148
Giving Sorrow Words: How to Cope with Grave Matters: A Lively History of Death
Grief and Get on with Your Life, 1258 around the World, 1449
God, Grass, and Grace: A Theology of Grave Words: Notifying Survivors about
Death, 1894 Sudden, Unexpected Deaths, 282
Gone from My Sight: The Dying The Great Change: A Native American
Experience, 715 Perspective on Dying, 480
Good Answers to Tough Questions about Greeting the Angels: An Imaginal View of
Death, 142 the Mourning Process, 1298
A Good Death: A Guide for Patients and Grief: A Natural Reaction to Loss, 1200
Carers Facing Terminal Illness at Grief and AIDS, 1374
Home, 348 Grief and Bereavement, 1447
A Good Death: Taking More Control at Grief and Growth: Pastoral Resources for
the End of Your Life, 701 Emotional and Spiritual Growth, 1896
Title Index 347
Grief and How to Live with It, 1307 A Grief Observed, 1043
Grief and Loss: Theories and Skills for The Grief Process, 1388
Helping Professionals, 2052 The Grief Process: Analysis and
Grief and Loss: Understanding the Counseling, 1389
Journey, 1171 Grief Quest: Reflections for Men Coping
Grief and Mourning in Cross-Cultural with Loss, 1291
Perspectives, 467 The Grief Recovery Handbook: A Step-
Grief and the Healing Arts: Creativity as by-Step Program for Moving beyond
Therapy, 1113 Loss, 1215
Grief and the Loss of an Adult Child, 1269 Griefs and Discontents: The Focus of
Grief and the Meaning of the Funeral, Change, 1344
2079 Grief’s Courageous Journey, 1130
Grief as a Family Process: A Grief: Selected Readings, 1131
Developmental Approach to Clinical Grief’s Journey . . . When a Child Dies,
Practice, 1371 563
The Grief Care Guide, 1382 Grief’s Slow Work, 1109
Grief: Climb toward Understanding, Self- Grief Steps: Ten Steps to Regroup,
Help When You Are Struggling, 1150 Rebuild, and Renew after Any Life
Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy: Loss, 1311
A Handbook for the Mental Health Grief Support Training for Clergy and
Practitioner, 2058 Congregations: Training Manual, 1844
Grief Counseling and Sudden Death: A Grief: The Mourning After, Dealing with
Manual and Guide, 1161 Adult Bereavement, 1356
Grief Counseling Homework Planner, Grief Therapy for Men: How to Grieve
1341 Like a “Real” Man, 1308
Grief Dreams: How They Help Heal Us Grief Therapy: Out of Pain Can Come
after the Death of a Loved One, 1438 Profound Transforming Healing,
Grief, Dying, and Death: Clinical 1223
Interventions for Caregivers, 2033 Grief, Transition, and Loss: A Pastor’s
Grief Education for Caregivers of the Practical Guide, 1876
Elderly, 42 A Grief Unveiled: One Father’s Journey
Grief for a Season, 1405 through the Death of a Child, 574
Grief: How to Live with Sorrow, 1137 Grieving, 1335
Grief in Children: A Handbook for Adults, Grieving: A Beginner’s Guide, 1283
154 Grieving: A Handbook for Those Who
Grief in Cross-Cultural Perspective: A Care, 1121
Casebook, 457 The Grieving Child: A Parent’s Guide,
Grief in School Communities: Effective 158
Support Strategies, 226 Grieving Mindfully: A Compassionate and
Griefjourney: Notes on Grief for Teens, Spiritual Guide to Coping with Loss,
Young Adults, and Anyone Who Is 1239
Grieving, 24 Grieving: Our Path Back to Peace, 1427
Grief, Loss, and Death: The Shadow Side The Grieving Teen: A Guide for Teenagers
of Ministry, 1907 and Their Friends, 8
Grief Ministry: Helping Others Mourn, Grieving the Loss of Someone You Love:
1909 Daily Meditations to Help You through
Grief, Mourning, and Death Ritual, 2069 the Grieving Process, 1295
348 Title Index
The Healing Sorrow Workbook: Rituals Helping Children Cope with Death: A
for Transforming Grief and Loss, 2081 Guide for School Personnel, 247
Healing the Bereaved Child: Grief Helping Children Cope with Death:
Gardening, Growth through Grief, and Guidelines and Resources, 254
Other Touchstones for Caregivers, 258 Helping Children Cope with Grief, 261
Healing the Dying, 1730 Helping Children Cope with Loss: A
Healing the Grieving Heart: Practical Bibliotherapy Approach, 139
Ideas for Families, Friends, and Helping Children Cope with Separation
Caregivers, 1432 and Loss, 177
Healing through the Shadow of Loss, 1140 Helping Children Cope with the Death of
Healing Together: For Couples Grieving a Parent: A Guide for the First Year,
the Death of Their Baby, 592 200
Healing Your Grieving Heart for Kids: Helping Children Cope with the Loss of
100 Practical Ideas: Simple Advice a Loved One: A Guide for Grownups,
and Activities for Children after a 187
Death, 260 Helping Children Grieve When Someone
Healing Your Grieving Heart for Teens: They Love Dies, 173
One Hundred Practical Ideas, 29 Helping Children with the Mystery of
The Healing Your Grieving Heart Journal Death, 222
for Teens, 30 Helping Each Other in Widowhood,
Healing Your Grieving Heart: One 2200
Hundred Practical Ideas, 1433 Helping Grieving People–When Tears Are
The Heart of Grief: Death and the Search Not Enough: A Handbook for Care
for Lasting Love, 1106 Providers, 1217
The Heart of Hospice, 1552 Helping People through Grief, 1238
Heavenly Hurts: Surviving AIDS-Related Helping Teens Work through Grief, 23
Deaths and Losses, 1229 Helping the Bereaved, 1162
The Helper’s Journey: Working with Helping the Bereaved: Therapeutic
People Facing Grief, Loss, and Life- Interventions for Children,
Threatening Illness, 1246 Adolescents, and Adults, 1656
Help for Bereaved Parents, 622 Helping the Dying Patient and His
Help for the Bereaved, 1383 Family, 805
Help for the Bereaved: What the Family of Helping the Grieving Child in School, 165
the Deceased Should Know, 1649 Helping the Grieving Student: A Guide
Help for the Terminally Ill, 1900 for Teachers: A Practical Guide
Help for Your Grief: Turning Emotional for Dealing with Death in Your
Loss into Growth, 1172 Classroom, 151
Helping a Child Understand Death, 251 Helping Women Cope with Grief, 1376
Helping Adults with Mental Retardation Helping Young Children Cope with Crisis:
Grieve a Death Loss, 1667 A Guide for Training Child Care
Helping Bereaved Children: A Handbook Workers, 190
for Practitioners, 255 Helping Your Children to Understand
Helping Bereaved Parents: A Clinician’s Death, 540
Guide, 2047 Helplessness and Hope: Pastoral Care in
Helping Children Cope: Mastering Stress Terminal Illness, 1887
through Books and Stories, 156 Helplessness: On Depression,
Helping Children Cope with Death, 232 Development, and Death, 784
350 Title Index
How Should the Physical and Emotional If Your Dearest Should Die, 1122
Pain of Terminal Illness Be I Know Just How You Feel: Avoiding the
Addressed?, 1799 Clichés of Grief, 291
How to Care for Yourself While You Care The Image of Death as Portrayed in
for the Dying and the Bereaved, 389 Fiction for Children, 1685
How to Conduct a One-Day Conference Images of Growth and Death, 1688
on Death Education: The Dos and Images of Man and Death, 1679
Don’ts, 543 I’m Grieving as Fast as I Can: How
How to Conquer Physical Death, 1895 Young Widows and Widowers Can
How to Cope with a Fatal Illness: The Cope and Heal, 2159
Rational Management of Death and I’m Here to Help: A Guide for Caregivers,
Dying, 667 Hospice Workers, and Volunteers,
How to Die, 775 1572
How to Face Death without Fear, 923 I Miss Grandpa: A Story to Help Your
How to Go on Living after the Death of a Child Understand Death–and Eternal
Baby, 605 Life, 172
How to Go on Living When Someone You I Miss You: A First Look at Death, 536
Love Dies, 1335 The Immoralist: An Approach to the
How to Prepare for Death: Your Own or Engineering of Man’s Divinity, 1604
Someone Else’s, 662 Immortality, 1612
How to Survive the Loss of a Child: The Immortality Factor, 1617
Filling the Emptiness and Rebuilding Immortality: Physically, Scientifically,
Your Life, 616 Now: A Reasonable Guarantee of
How to Survive the Loss of a Love: Fifty- Bodily Preservation, a General
Eight Things to Do When There Is Discussion, and Research Targets,
Nothing to Be Done, 2154 1601
How to Survive the Loss of a Parent: A The Impact of an Educational Intervention
Guide for Adults, 1804 Module on Death and Dying on Death
How We Die: Reflections on Life’s Final Anxiety among Middle-Aged and Older
Chapter, 756 Adults in North Carolina, 43
How We Grieve: Relearning the World, The Impact of Cognitive Development and
1107 Socialization Factors on the Concept
How Will They Know If I’m Dead?: of Death among Adults with Mental
Transcending Disability and Terminal Retardation, 1662
Illness, 703 Improving Care for the End of Life: A
Human Aging and Dying: A Study in Sourcebook for Health Care Managers
Sociocultural Gerontology, 59 and Clinicians, 2020
The Human Encounter with Death, 332 Improving End-of-Life Care: Why Has It
Been So Difficult?, 1770
I Can’t Stop Crying: It’s So Hard When The Inability to Mourn: Principles of
Someone You Love Dies, 1275 Collective Behavior, 1296
I Don’t Know What to Say: How to Help In after Days: Thoughts on the Future
and Support Someone Who Is Dying, Life, 704
270 Including the Children: A Resource Guide
If I Should Wake Before I Die: The for Adults to Help Children Deal with
Medical and Biblical Truth about the Terminal Illness and Death of a
Near-Death Experiences, 1701 Loved One, 213
Title Index 353
Income Level and Parental Attitudes Into the Valley: Death and the
toward Death Education for Preschool Socialization of Medical Students, 2004
Children, 528 Introducing Death and Dying: Readings
The Individual: A Study of Life and Death, and Exercises, 947
1072 Introduction to Forensic Sciences, 975
The Individual, Society, and Death, 1913 An Introduction to Thanatology: Death
Infection Control in Home Care and and Dying in American Society, 2136
Hospice, 1574 Inventing the American Way of Death,
In Lieu of Flowers: A Conversation for the 1830-1920, 982
Living, 273 An Investigation among Junior Highs into
In Sickness and in Health: How to Cope the Understanding of Death and Dying
When Your Loved One Is Ill, 684 and a Program Response, 20
Insights on Death and Dying, 1738 The Investigation of Death, 1691
Institutional Protocols for Decisions about An Investigation of the Adolescent Sibling
Life-Sustaining Treatments: Special Bereavement Process and Adaptation,
Report, 802 13
Interacting with Dying Patients: An Is Death the End?, 840
Interhospital Nursing Research and Is There a Duty to Die?, 864
Nursing Education Project, 1731 Is There a Duty to Die?: And Other
The Interpretation of Death, 1961 Essays in Bio-Ethics, 861
Interpreting Death: Christian Theology Is There an Answer to Death?, 1946
and Pastoral Practice, 1868 Is There Life after Death?, 1616
Interventions with Bereaved Children, 241 It Must Have Been Moonglow: Reflections
In the Arms of Others: A Cultural History on the First Years of Widowhood, 2164
of the Right-to-Die in America, 1460 I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye:
In the End, the Beginning: The Life of Surviving, Coping, and Healing after
Hope, 1299 the Sudden Death of a Loved One,
In the Light of Dying: The Journals of a 1312
Hospice Volunteer, 1587 I Will Remember You: What to Do When
In the Midst of Life: A Hospice Someone You Love Dies: A Guidebook
Volunteer’s Story, 1576 through Grief for Teens, 6
In the Midst of Winter: Selections from the I Will Tell Thee the Mystery, 819
Literature of Mourning, 1297 “I Wish I Could Hold Your Hand”: A
In the Potter’s Hands: Nine Wake Child’s Guide to Grief and Loss, 216
Services, 2066
In the Presence of Grief: Helping Family Janet and Me: An Illustrated Story of Love
Members Resolve Death, Dying, and and Loss, 1264
Bereavement Issues, 1975 A Jewish Book of Comfort, 429
In the Shadow of Loss: Parents and Jewish Insights on Death and Mourning,
Siblings of the Chronically Ill Child, 461
2100 The Jewish Mourner’s Book of Why, 2077
Intimate Death: How the Dying Teach Us Jewish Reflections on Death, 462
How to Live, 698 The Jewish Tradition and Choices at the
An Intimate Loneliness: Supporting End of Life: A New Judaic Approach to
Bereaved Parents and Siblings, 611 Illness and Dying, 471
Intimations of Mortality, 814 The Jewish Way in Death and Mourning,
In Times of Sorrow, 1183 433
354 Title Index
Journal of Religion, Disability, and Last Rights: Death and Dying in Texas
Health, 38 Law and Experience, 1626
Journey’s End: Death and Mourning, The Last Things Concerning Death,
1175 Purification after Death, Resurrection,
A Journey through Grief: Gentle Specific 829
Help to Get You through the Most Last Touch: Preparing for a Parent’s
Difficult Stages of Grieving, 1118 Death, 1807
The Journey through Grief: Reflections on Last Week My Brother Anthony Died, 171
Healing, 1434 Last Wish, 772
Journey to the Other Side, 815 Law at the End of Life: The Supreme
The Journey with Death, 1049 Court and Assisted Suicide, 888
Joy Beyond Grief, 1100 The Law of Death and Disposal of the
Joy in the Face of Death, 68 Dead, 1623
The Joy of Living and Dying in Peace, 653 The Lazarus Case: Life-and-Death Issues
The Judgment of the Dead, 1854 in Neonatal Intensive Care, 1775
Judgment of the Dead: Life after Death in Leaders Guide for Grief Recovery Support
Major Religions, 821 Groups, 1317
Just You and Me: Making Memories with Lead Me Home: An African American’s
Your Children, 223 Guide through the Grief Journey, 397
Learning to Die, 752
Keys to Dealing with the Loss of a Loved Learning to Die, Learning to Live, 699
One, 1233 Learning to Live as a Widow, 2174
Keys to Helping Children Deal with Death Learning to Say Goodbye: Dealing wth
and Grief, 179 Death and Dying, 1062
The Kids’ Book about Death and Dying, Learning to Say Goodbye: When a Parent
by and for Kids, 527 Dies, 196
The Least Worst Death: Essays in
A Land beyond Tears: The Liberating Bioethics on the End of Life, 845
Approach to Death and Dying, 81 Legal and Ethical Aspects of Treating
Landscape without Gravity: A Memoir of Critically and Terminally Ill Patients,
Grief, 1105 1628
Language, Metaphysics, and Death, Legal Frontiers of Death and Dying, 1625
971 Lesbian Widows: Invisible Grief, 2205
Last Breath: Cautionary Tales from the Lessons from the Dead: The Graveyard as
Limits of Human Endurance, 793 a Classroom for the Study of the Life
Last Chapters: A Sociology of Aging and Cycle, 504
Dying, 41 Lessons from the Dying, 789
The Last Dance: Encountering Death and Lessons from the Light: What We
Dying, 966 Can Learn from the Near-Death
The Last Enemy: A Christian Experience, 1715
Understanding of Death, 823 Lessons of Loss: A Guide to Coping, 1309
The Last Enemy: Living with Terminal Let Me Die before I Wake: Hemlock’s
Illness, 686 Book of Self-Deliverance for the Dying,
Last Rights: A Case for the Good Death, 866
746 Let Someone Hold You: The Journey of a
Last Rights?: Assisted Suicide and Hospice Priest, 1565
Euthanasia Debated, 899 Let’s Talk about When a Parent Dies, 256
Title Index 355
The Living and the Dead, 1086 Living with Dying: A Loving Guide for
The Living and the Dead: Social Family and Close Friends, 318
Dimensions of Death in South Asian Living with Dying: Finding Meaning in
Religions, 481 Chronic Illness, 694
Living beyond Loss: Death in the Family, Living with Dying: The Management of
1416 Terminal Disease, 779
Living, Dreaming, Dying: Practical Living with Grief after Sudden Loss:
Wisdom from the Tibetan Book of the Suicide, Homicide, Accident, Heart
Dead, 753 Attack, Stroke, 1156
Living in the Face of Death: The Tibetan Living with Grief and Mourning, 1303
Tradition, 448 Living with Grief: At Work, at School, at
Living Our Dying: A Way to the Sacred in Worship, 1149
Everyday Life, 376 Living with Grief: Children, Adolescents,
Living through Loss: A Manual for Those and Loss, 150
Working with Issues of Terminal Living with Grief: Loss in Later Life,
Illness and Bereavement, 709 1157
Living through Loss: Interventions across Living with Grief When Illness Is
the Life Span, 2008 Prolonged, 1160
Living through Mourning: Finding Living with Grief: Who We Are, How We
Comfort and Hope When a Loved One Grieve, 1159
Has Died, 1360 Living with Life-Threatening Illness: A
Living through the Death of a Spouse: Guide for Patients, Their Families, and
Leader’s Guide, 2206 Caregivers, 327
Living through the Loss of Someone You Living with Loss: A Dramatic New
Love: One Woman’s Story of Loss, Breakthrough in Grief Therapy, 1333
Grief, and New-Found Hope, 1097 Living with Loss, Healing with Hope: A
Living under the Sword: Psychosocial Jewish Perspective, 413
Aspects of Recurrent and Progressive Living with Terminal Illness, 700
Life-Threatening Illness, 1664 Living with the End in Mind: A Practical
Living Victims, Stolen Lives: Parents of Checklist for Living Live to the Fullest
Murdered Children Speak to America, by Embracing Your Mortality, 726
621 Living Your Dying, 718
Living When a Loved One Has Died, 1189 The Loneliness of Dying, 666
Living While Dying, 743 Longing for Dad: Father Loss and Its
Living with a Man Who Is Dying, 668 Impact, 1822
Living with an Empty Chair: A Guide Long-Term Effects of Death Education
through Grief, 1404 and Counseling: Papers from the 1987
Living with Death (Blackwell), 933 Annual Meeting of ADEC, 522
Living with Death (Segerberg), 783 A Look at Death, 986
Living with Death (Thielicke), 1967 Losing a Parent: Passage to a New Way
Living with Death and Dying, 287 of Living, 1825
Living with Dying: A Guide for Relatives Losing a Parent: Practical Help for You
and Friends, 654 and Other Family Members, 1831
Living with Dying: A Guide to Palliative Losing a Parent to Death in the Early
Care, 1790 Years: Guidelines for the Treatment of
Living with Dying: A Handbook for End- Traumatic Bereavement in Infancy and
of-Life Health Care Practitioners, 1979 Early Childhood, 1830
Title Index 357
Losing Your Parents, Finding Yourself: Love Is the Link: A Hospice Doctor
The Defining Turning Point of Adult Shares Her Experience of Near-Death
Life, 1837 and Dying, 1543
Loss and Anticipatory Grief, 1336 Love, Loss, and Healing: A Woman’s
Loss and Bereavement, 1325 Guide to Transforming Grief, 1153
Loss and Change, 1273
Loss and Grief, 1439 Macmillan Encyclopedia of Death and
Loss and Grief: A Guide for Human Dying, 1022
Services Practitioners, 1406 The Magical Thoughts of Grieving
Loss and Grief in Medicine, 2044 Children: Treating Children with
Loss and Grief: Psychological Complicated Mourning and Advice for
Management in Medical Practice, Parents, 159
2041 Making Sense of Death: Spiritual, Ethical,
Loss and Grief Recovery: Help Caring for and Pastoral Aspects of Death, Dying,
Children with Disabilities, Chronic or and Bereavement, 1857
Terminal Illness, 546 Man against Dying, 37
Loss and How to Cope with It, 1112 The Management of Terminal Disease,
Loss and Trauma: General and Close 2036
Relationship Perspectives, 1199 The Management of Terminal Illness,
Loss, Bereavement, and Grief: A Guide to 2037
Effective Caring, 1387 The Management of Terminal Malignant
Loss, Change, and Bereavement in Disease, 2038
Palliative Care, 1765 Management of the Dying Patient and His
Loss, Change, and Grief: An Educational Family, 2039
Experience, 1125 The Management of the “Hopeless” Case,
Loss, Grief, and Bereavement: A Guide 1998
for Counseling, 1270 Managing Death in the ICU: The
Loss: How Children and Teenagers Can Transition from Cure to Comfort, 1988
Cope with Death and Other Kinds of Managing Terminal Illness, 1766
Loss, 218 Man Answers Death, 1948
The Loss of a Life Partner: Narratives of Man Does Survive Death, 1886
the Bereaved, 1417 Man’s Concern with Death, 2139
The Loss of Loved Ones: The Effects of A Manual for the Grief Experience
a Death in the Family on Personality Inventory, 1358
Development, 1306 A Manual of Death Education and Simple
Loss Reaction and Grief Management, Burial, 2083
1203 The Many Faces of Bereavement: The
The Loss That Is Forever: The Lifelong Nature and Treatment of Natural,
Impact of the Early Death of a Mother Traumatic, and Stigmatized Grief,
or Father, 1823 1391
Loss: Understanding the Emptiness, The Many Faces of Grief, 1210
1237 Marriage after Mourning: The Secrets of
Love after Death: Counseling in Surviving Couples, 603
Bereavement, 2010 Marriage after the Death of a Child, 604
Love and Loss: The Roots of Grief and Its Maternal Bereavement: Coping with the
Complications, 1323 Unexpected Death of a Child, 570
Love Is Stronger Than Death, 344 A Matter of Life and Death, 353
358 Title Index
Matters of Life and Death: Finding the Meetings at the Edge: Dialogues with the
Words to Say Goodbye, 303 Grieving and the Dying, the Healing,
The Matthew Tree, 1093 and the Healed, 290
Mature Grief: When a Parent Dies, Meeting the Needs of Our Clients
1836 Creatively: The Impact of Art and
The Meaning of Death (Feifel), 1921 Culture on Caregiving, 360
The Meaning of Death (Nagy), 1954 Memories Live Forever: A Memory Book
The Meaning of Grief, 1135 for Grieving Children, 229
The Meaning of Immortality in Human Men and Grief: A Guide for Men
Experience, Including Thoughts on Life Surviving the Death of a Loved One:
and Death, 1605 A Resource for Caregivers and Mental
Meaning Reconstruction and the Health Professionals, 1393
Experience of Loss, 1310 Men Coping with Grief, 1263
The Meanings of Death in Rabbinic Mending the Torn Fabric: For Those Who
Judaism, 431 Grieve and Those Who Want to Help
The Measure of Our Days: New Them, 1120
Beginnings at Life’s End, 2003 Men Don’t Cry . . . Women Do:
The Medical Care of Terminally Ill Transcending Gender Stereotypes of
Patients, 1996 Grief, 1278
Medical Care of the Dying Patient, The Metaphysics of Death, 1925
1991 Metaphysics of Life and Death, 1012
Medical Care of the Soul: A Practical and Midlife Loss: Coping Strategies, 1221
Healing Guide to End-of-Life Issues Midlife Orphan: Facing Life’s Changes
for Families, Patients, and Health Now That Your Parents Are Gone,
Care Providers, 310 1812
Medical Student Education: Meeting the Midwife for Souls: Spiritual Care for
Challenges of Life-Threatening Illness, the Dying: A Guide for Hospice Care
Death, and Bereavement, 1984 Workers and All Who Live with the
Medical Treatment of the Dying: Moral Terminally Ill, 1542
Issues, 846 A Midwife through the Dying Process:
Medicare Hospice Benefits: A Special Stories of Healing and Hard Choices
Way of Caring for People Who Have a at the End of Life, 765
Terminal Illness, 1531 Mindsight: Near-Death and Out-of-Body
Medicare: Program Provisions and Experiences in the Blind, 1714
Payments Discourage Hospice The Minister and Grief, 1850
Participation: Report to the The Minister as Crisis Counselor, 1897
Subcommittee on Health, Committee Ministering to the Dying, 1889
on Way and Means, House of Ministering to the Grief-Sufferer, 1848
Representatives, 1590 Ministering to the Mourning: A Practical
Medicolegal Implications of Death and Guide for Pastors, Church Leaders,
Dying: A Detailed Discussion of and Other Caregivers, 1908
the Medical and Legal Implications The Mirror of Time: Images of Aging and
Involved in Death and/or Care of the Dying, 35
Dying and Terminal Patient, 1638 Mirrors of Mortality: Studies in the Social
Meditations for Bereaved Parents, 602 History of Death, 1485
Meditations on the End of Life, 642 Modern Man and Mortality, 951
Meeting Death, 708 The Modern Vision of Death, 1069
Title Index 359
Old Age and Death Attitudes: A Only Spring: On Mourning the Death of
Comparative Analysis and Evaluation My Son, 593
of Responses by a Group of On Our Way: The Final Passage through
Ambulatory White Female Persons Life and Death, 340
Sixty-Five Years and Older Living On the Theology of Death, 460
under Varying Conditions of On Your Own: A Widow’s Passage to
Institutional Supervision, 54 Emotional and Financial Well-Being,
Old Age and Finitude: A Contribution to 2143
Psychogerontology, 48 Opening Doors: Improving Access to
Older Adults’ Views on Death, 36 Hospice and Specialist Care Services
Older Bereaved Spouses: Research with by Members of Black and Ethnic
Practical Applications, 2183 Minority Communities, Occasional
Older Widows and the Lifecourse: Paper 7, 1532
Multiple Narratives of Hidden Lives, Oral Care of the Aging and Dying Patient,
2152 40
On Becoming a Widow, 2201 Oral Care: The Mouth in Critical and
On Bereavement: The Culture of Grief, Terminal Illness, 2016
1418 The Orphaned Adult: Confronting the
On Children and Death: How Children Death of a Parent, 1805
and Their Parents Can and Do Cope The Orphaned Adult: Understanding and
with Death, 188 Coping with Grief and Change after
On Christian Dying: Classic and the Death of Our Parents, 1829
Contemporary Texts, 1870 The Other Side of Death, 1697
On Death, 976 The Other Side of Death: Does Death Seal
On Death and Dying: What the Dying Your Destiny?, 1916
Have to Teach Doctors, Nurses, Our Dad Died: The True Story of Three
Clergy, and Their Families, 2013 Kids Whose Lives Changed, 147
On Death: An Essay, 992 Our Eternity (Extension of Essay on
On Death, Dying, and Not Dying, 1007 Death), 1608
On Death: Helping Children Understand Our Greatest Gift: A Meditation on Dying
and Cope, 239 and Caring, 96
On Death without Dignity: The Human Our Mothers’ Spirits: On the Death of
Impact of Technological Dying, 750 Mothers and the Grief of Men, 1810
On Defining Death: An Analytic Study of Outline of Death Investigation, 1686
the Concept of Death in Philosophy Overcoming the Fear of Death, 920
and Medical Ethics, 1970 The Oxford Book of Death, 978
On Dying and Denying: A Psychiatric Oxford Textbook of Palliative Medicine,
Study of Terminality, 1676 1758
On Dying Well: An Anglican Contribution
to the Debate on Euthanasia, 402 The Pagan Book of Living and Dying:
On Grief and Dying: Understanding the Practical Rituals, Prayers, Blessings,
Soul’s Journey, 1395 and Meditations on Crossing Over,
On Grief and Grieving: Finding the 2091
Meaning of Grief through the Five Pain and Palliation, 1783
Stages of Loss, 1236 Pain, Anxiety, and Grief:
On Grieving the Death of a Father, 1840 Pharmacotherapeutic Care of the
On Life after Death, 834 Dying Patient and the Bereaved, 2001
362 Title Index
The Psychiatrist and the Dying Patient, The Quality of Life: Living Well, Dying
1658 Well, 349
The Psychological Autopsy: A Study of the Questions and Answers on Death and
Terminal Phase of Life, 1677 Dying, 511
The Psychology of Death, 1023 Quiet Desperation: Plain Talk on Life and
The Psychology of Death and Dying, 1068 Death, 102
The Psychology of Death in Fantasy and
History, 1960 Rabbinic Conceptions about Death, 458
Psychology of Funeral Service, 2080 The Radiant Shock of Death, 1009
The Psychology of Separation and Loss: Radiation Therapy and Thanatology,
Perspectives on Development, Life 2138
Transitions, and Clinical Practice, Rationing of Medical Care for the
1654 Critically Ill: Report of a Conference
Psychopharmacological Agents for the Held in Washington, D.C., on May 27,
Terminally Ill and Bereaved, 1767 1986, 2045
Psychopharmacological Agents in the Readings in Aging and Death:
Care of the Terminally Ill and the Contemporary Perspectives, 60
Bereaved, 1665 Readings in Thanatology, 2132
Psychosocial Aspects of Cardiovascular Ready to Live, Prepared to Die: A
Disease: The Life-Threatened Patient, Provocative Guide to the Rest of Your
the Family, and the Staff, 767 Life, 696
The Psychosocial Aspects of Death and The Realization of Death: A Guide for the
Dying, 1655 Psychological Autopsy, 2054
Psychosocial Aspects of Terminal Care, Realized Millennialism: A Study in
1673 Biblical Eschatology, 819
Psychosocial Aspects of Terminal Care of Recognizing Spiritual Needs in People
Oral Cancer, 1671 Who Are Dying, 1893
Psychosocial Care of the Dying Patient, Reconstructing Illness: Studies in
1660 Pathography, 78
Psychosocial Palliative Care: Good Recovering from the Loss of a Child, 568
Practice in the Care of the Dying and Recovering from the Loss of a Parent,
Bereaved, 1791 1819
Psychotherapy and Counseling with Older Recovering from the Loss of a Sibling,
Women: Cross-Cultural, Family, and 2104
End-of-Life Issues, 2048 Recovery from Bereavement, 1324
Puppet Plays for Grieving Children, 230 Recovery from Loss: A Personalized
The Puritan Way of Death: A Study in Guide to the Grieving Process, 1398
Religion, Culture, and Social Change, Redefining Death, 857
1480 Reflections on Death, Dying, and
The Pursuit of Death, 1856 Bereavement: A Manual for Clergy,
Counselors, and Speakers, 1890
A Qualitative Study Exploring the Quality Reflections on Palliative Care, 1750
of Life of Informal Caregivers Caring Reflections on War and Death, 1930
for Someone with a Terminal Illness, Reforming the Rights of Death, 1904
1740 A Refuge from the Storm: A Shelter from
Quality Hospice Care: Administration, the Storm of Caring for a Loved One
Organization, and Models, 1560 with a Terminal Illness, 799
Title Index 365
The Sorrow and the Fury: Overcoming A Student Dies, a School Mourns: Dealing
Hurt and Loss from Childhood to Old with Death and Loss in the School
Age, 1170 Community, 182
Sorrow’s Company: Writers on Loss and A Study of Death, 930
Grief, 1202 Suffering: Psychological and Social
The Soul in Grief: Love, Death, and Aspects in Loss, Grief, and Care, 1152
Transformation, 1345 Suicide (Choron), 952
Sourcebook on Death and Dying, 987 Suicide (Dodder and Dodder), 853
Special Issues in Palliative Care, 1752 Suicide (Durkheim), 974
A Special Kind of Love: Care of the Dying Suicide and Bereavement, 1147
Child, 555 Suicide: A Social and Historical Study,
A Special Scar: The Experiences of People 1459
Bereaved by Suicide, 1424 Suicide: Prevention, Intervention,
Spiritual, Ethical, and Pastoral Aspects of Postvention, 997
Death and Bereavement, 1857 The Suicide Problem in the United States,
The Spiritual Lives of Bereaved Parents, 1461
586 Suicide Survivors: A Guide for Those Left
Spontaneous Shrines and the Public Behind, 1440
Memorialization of Death, 2089 Sunsets: Reflections for Life’s Final
Spousal Bereavement in Late Life, 2151 Journey, 1205
The Stages of Sorrow, 1384 The Sunshine Widows: Adapting to
Standards and Scope of Hospice Nursing Sudden Bereavement, 2165
Practice, 1719 A Survey to Determine the Status of Death
Statements on Death, Dying, and Education in the Wisconsin Secondary
Bereavement, 959 Health Education Curriculum, 510
Staying Close: A Positive Approach to Survival Handbook for Widows (and for
Dying and Bereavement, 809 Relatives and Friends Who Want to
Staying in Charge: Practical Plans for the Understand), 2179
End of Your Life, 1631 Surviving Death: A Practical Guide to
Step by Step: Your Guide to Making Caring for the Dying and Bereaved,
Practical Decisions When a Loved One 748
Dies, 1620 Surviving Grief and Learning to Live
Stepping Stones to Grief Recovery, Again, 1357
1350 Surviving Grief: Thirty Questions and
Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Answers for a Time of Loss, 1339
Cadavers, 2087 Surviving the Death of a Sibling: Living
The Story of My Death, 656 through Grief When an Adult Brother
Straight Talk about Death and Dying, or Sister Dies, 2112
276 Surviving the Death of Your Spouse: A
Straight Talk about Death with Young Step-by-Step Workbook, 2176
People, 302 Surviving the Loss of a Loved One: Living
Strange Facts about Death, 991 through Grief, 1126
Stress, Loss, and Grief: Understanding Surviving Your Partner: How to Live with
Their Origins and Growth Potential, the Death of the Person Closest to You,
1363 2188
Stuck for Words: What to Say When The Survivor’s Guide, 1407
Someone Is Grieving, 305 Symbolic Immortality, 1607
368 Title Index
The Troubled Dream of Life: Living with The Unknown Country: Death in
Mortality, 65 Australia, Britain, and the USA, 399
The True Work of Dying: A Practical and Unrecognized and Unsanctioned Grief:
Compassionate Guide to Easing the The Nature and Counseling of
Dying Process, 1496 Unacknowledged Loss, 456
The Truth about Death and Dying, 19 Unspeakable Loss: Understanding
Tuluak and Amaulik: Dialogues on Death the Experience of Pregnancy Loss,
and Mourning with the Inuit Eskimo, Miscarriage, and Abortion, 588
407 Unspoken Grief: Coping with Childhood
The Tunnel and the Light: Essential Sibling Loss, 2109
Insights on Living and Dying, 1032 An Untimely Loss: A Passage to the
Turn Again to Life: Growing Old through Gentle Side of Grief, 1444
Grief, 1362 The Unwanted Gift of Grief: A Ministry
Twentieth Century Book of the Dead, 977 Approach, 1903
Twenty Common Problems: End-of-Life Updating Life and Death: Essays in Ethics
Care, 1773 and Medicine, 852
Twin Loss: A Book Where the Twinless Up from Grief: Patterns of Recovery, 1235
and Others Can Seek Answers to the Using Literature to Help Troubled
Many Questions Which Rise During Teenagers Cope with End-of-Life
Terminal Illness and after the Death of Issues, 1
Their Beloved Twin, 2101
A Very Easy Death, 964
The Ultimate Loss: Coping with the Death The Vestibule, 103
of a Child, 552 The Victorian Celebration of Death, 1454
Unattended Sorrow: Recovering from Loss The View from a Hearse, 1698
and Reviving the Heart, 1255 Vigor Mortis: The End of the Death
Understanding Children’s Experiences of Taboo, 1681
Parental Bereavement, 1824 Visions of God: From the Near Death
Understanding Death, 392 Experience, 1717
Understanding Death and Dying: An Vitality of Death: Essays in Existential
Interdisciplinary Approach, 1089 Psychology and Philosophy, 1947
Understanding Death, Dying, and Vital Signs (The Way We Die in America),
Bereavement, 1040 1038
Understanding Death from a Spiritual A Voice for Those Bereaved by Suicide,
Perspective, 79 1282
Understanding Grief and Bereavement, Voices of Bereavement: A Casebook for
1260 Grief Counselors, 1976
Understanding Grief: Helping Yourself Voices of Death, 1077
Heal, 1435 Volunteers in Hospice and Palliative
Understanding Grief: Its Roots, Dynamics, Care: A Handbook for Volunteer
and Treatment, 1211 Service Managers, 1512
Understanding Mourning: A Guide for The Vulture and the Bull: Religious
Those Who Grieve, 1148 Responses to Death, 77
Understanding Your Grieving Heart after
a Loved One’s Death, 1436 The Waiting World: What Happens after
Uneasy Endings: Daily Life in an Death, 1705
American Nursing Home, 377 A Way to Die, 818
Title Index 371
When Death Walks In: For Teenagers When Will I Stop Hurting?: Dealing with
Facing Grief, 25 a Recent Death, 1231
When Evening Comes: The Education of a When You Lose a Loved One (Allen),
Hospice Volunteer, 1490 1099
When Goodbye Is Forever, 770 When You Lose a Loved One (Osborne),
When Grief Breaks Your Heart, 1302 365
When Grief Is Your Constant Companion: When Your Child Has a Life-Threatening
God’s Grace for a Woman’s Illness, 575
Heartache, 1340 When Your Child Is Gone: Learning to
When Hello Means Goodbye, 780 Live Again, 624
When Husbands Die: Women Share Their When You’re Dead, You’re Dead, 1070
Stories, 2186 When Your Loved One Is Dying, 333
When I Die, 334 When Your Parent Dies, 1826
When I Die, Will I Get Better?, 553 When Your Parent Dies: A Concise and
When Life Ends: Legal Overviews, Practical Source of Help and Advice
Medicolegal Forms, and Hospital for Adults Grieving the Death of a
Policies, 1622 Parent, 1815
When Life Meets Death: Stories of Death When Your Spouse Dies: A Concise and
and Dying, Truth and Courage, 785 Practical Source of Help and Advice,
When Mourning Comes: A Book of 2156
Comfort for the Grieving, 1377 Where Has Grandpa Gone?: Helping
When Parents Die: A Guide for Adults, Children Cope with Grief and Loss,
1834 186
When Parents Die: Learning to Live with Who Dies?: An Investigation of Conscious
the Loss of a Parent, 1801 Living and Conscious Dying, 734
When People Die (Bernstein and Gullo), Why Did Daddy Die?: Helping Children
140 Cope with the Loss of a Parent, 135
When People Die (Levete et al.), 198 Why Did He Die?, 1194
When Someone Dies (Greenlee and Drath), Why Do I Have to Die?, 705
167 Why Do People Die?: Helping Your
When Someone Dies (Jackson), 338 Child Understand–with Love and
When Someone Dies: A Practical Guide to Illustrations, 292
Holistic Care at the End of Life, 650 Why Do We Die?: An Essay in
When Someone Very Special Dies, 1201 Thanatology, 2131
When Someone You Love Is Dying: A Why Me?: Coping with Grief, Loss, and
Handbook for Counselors and Those Change, 1234
Who Care, 1869 Widow, 2149
When the Bough Breaks: Forever after the Widowed (Brothers), 2146
Death of a Son or Daughter, 549 Widowed (Jebb), 2169
When the Dying Speak: How to Listen and The Widowed Self: The Older Woman’s
Learn from Those Facing Death, 304 Journey through Widowhood, 2204
When the Feast Is Finished: Reflections Widower (Campbell and Silverman), 2150
on Terminal Illness, 626 Widower (Schoen), 2196
When There Are No Words: Finding Your The Widower, 2172
Way to Cope with Loss and Grief, 1419 Widowhood Happens, 2161
When We Die: The Science, Culture, and Widowhood in an American City, 2181
Rituals of Death, 1050 Widowhood in Later Life, 2185
Title Index 373
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