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Her name is Gabriela Tunde. She came to Sobarilor Center on the Like in a movie, there’s only dark-
17th of August, 2010 and she immediately caught our attention with ness, 6-week coma in a hospital and
her slow walking and her bent body. blind pain, a lot of pain....
She’s only 40 years old and had an oscillating life with glimpses of Two weeks after being discharged
unknown pains and tears that make you wonder: how was she able to from the hospital she is arrested for
go through all that? murder.
Immediately after her birth, her parents divorced, and she was raised The only proof: fingerprints on
by her grandparents until she was 7 years old... the knife…
"You're my girl, come to mama ..."," You're the only grandchild we The lack of witnesses and proofs could have helped her if she had
have got, come to your grandparents! We want to adopt you ... " a lawyer. There was a process that she did not understand. What she
Her mother remarried and Gabriela (as I like to call her) started ele- understood was only a number: 18 year sentence, years of harsh and
mentary school and then economic high school. undeserved life.
After only two years she leaves school in order to take care of her She was then moved from prison to prison: four years here, eight
bedridden grandfather. years there, two years somewhere else …
At just 18, Prince Charming comes with the promise: “until death do The ruthless disease struck a devastated human being, and this
us part!" was the reason why Gabriela was released from prison and brought
Her husband was not what she expected. Well, yes, love lasted four to us by Lydia Dan…
years... after that: fights, violence, physical and mental abuse... The most painful thing is that her life is still a struggle: ambulance
Gabriela goes through another divorce… twice a day, Oncology examinations, perfusions, morphine and pain,
Just two years passed, and another Prince Charming comes into her a lot of pain!
life and gives her "a nightmare marriage" … "Now nothing makes sense anymore. I WAS NOT GUILTY! Even
Spring 1997: In a flat, a drunken stepfather hits his 8 years old daugh- if it could be proven I was not guilty, what's the point? Like the swan
ter directly into the heart. that sings before her death I have one last dream: to be with my
Hearing the cry of her daughter, Gabriela comes from the kitchen, daughter on the shore of a lake, to be touched by the willows and the
sees the nightmare scene and instantly gets stabbed in the stomach. Lord Jesus to be with us. I believe this with all my heart! We do not
With a last effort she pulls off the knife with both hands and looses need good references, higher education, or a lot of money. We only
consciousness. need His mercy and His grace, His grace alone ... "
When we visited Mrs. Mary and her family the second such people and children.
time in September this year, we realized we had seen a saint. Prison Fellowship Romania through Angels Tree project
We met her last year at the very beginning of the Angel Tree tries to visit a few times a year families of convicts from pris-
project. Mrs. Mary is the ex-wife of a murder convicted, and ons in Transylvania. Every year before Christmas, PFR rep-
also mother of three children: two boys (of five respectively resentatives and volunteers go to prisons and give convicts
nine years old) and a twenty years old girl with epilepsy and the opportunity to be part of this project. Their children re-
severe mental disorder. The only income of the family is rep- ceive Christmas presents and then volunteers are telling
resented by children’s allowances and the girl’s disability pen- them they are from their parents who are in prison. In addi-
sion, but Mrs. Mary’s trust and hope, as she confesses, come tion, during the year we are trying to visit these families sev-
from a sincere and strong belief in God as her Father and eral times bringing them food and clothes or covering other
protector. needs knowing that we bring God to them and in the same
Although very difficult, this family’s life is no different time we fulfill his commandment.
from the life of other families with one parent in prison; or at Christmas is coming again, time to visit other prisoners
least, this is what we thought until few days ago. Instead of with the intention to renew and extend the Angels Tree pro-
three children, Mrs. Mary has now six children to feed and ject. We invite everyone who read these words to thing about
take care of, six children to send to kindergarten or school. the families of those who are behind bars and say a prayer
The explanation is as simple as it is stunning. After the di- especially for their children. You can do more for these peo-
vorce, her ex-husband lived with a woman who already had a ple who are our brothers, sisters, our children, and our family
child and who gave birth to two more children. When the man here on earth:
was arrested, his concubine took care of the children for a 1.Come with us to the families of the project (with your
while, but due to the difficult situation she decided that it own car and covering fuel costs)
would be easier without them. Without saying the new situa- 2. Give financial support to volunteers who do not have
tion is unjust or too difficult, Mrs. Maria offered to take them cars or cannot support fuel costs
home and take care of the three children abandoned by her 3. Financially contribute in order to purchase food,
ex- husband's concubine. school supplies, shoes and clothing for these families
I cannot express in words what an encouragement and 4. Spread the word about our project and motivate your
example Mrs. Mary was for us. Through her sacrifice she friends or acquaintances who are concerned about charitable
reminded us of Hosea. Indeed, she and her children are the activities to get involved.
"angels" that the name of this project is referring to. We Thank you all! God bless you and reward your efforts!
wanted to help them, but we ended up realizing that we were
the ones who were helped. All I can do is pray God to take
care of this woman, and prevent us from being indifferent to
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‘Royal rangers” means surviving in tough conditions on worked as a team. I think I understood what it means to cook
your own and with the materials you find in nature but also for more people and administer your money for longer peri-
not to interfere with the nature God created. ods of time and for a large group of people… we have built
Discipline is the key word and if you’re not disciplined, twig fences to surround our tents with. Oh yes! We also made
trough RR you will become a disciplined person. a table and a clay oven where we made fire with no matches,
The camp was intended for our beneficiaries but also but using ancient methods. We had a terrific time!!! (LIA)
for the members of the community who were able to socialize At the end of the camp everyone was impressed by the
and learn new things about the team, nature and God. atmosphere created and we lived wonderful experiences. We
"Some of us were group leaders in this camp so we had got scared at some point when, like in the Philistines times, a
to take care of our team, to observe the camp rules and to cop came and told us we should immediately leave the area
make sure that we are the best. We had contests, trips on the and we did not know where to go! OH! How much work we
mountain; we visited a cave and learned together how to live had to do with our tents with the place we were, because we
in nature". We attended games that had biblical themes, for had to leave it as we found it, cover the ditches and leave
example the struggle between David and Goliath was actually everything clean.
a rugby match, and David obviously won. And many other But eventually, it was a great lesson to learn. "(EMILIA)
interesting games. (RAZVY)
I liked the idea of preparing our own food and we
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An unforgettable day...
An unforgettable day... The Road to Cluj
The 12th of June, 2010 - BCR Cluj (Romanian Commer- was full of stories
cial Bank) offered to the children of Prison Fellowship Roma- about the most beauti-
nia a gift that will hardly be ignored: "An unforgettable day!" ful animals seen and
A total of 45 children from two centers of the Founda- the jokes made on
tion benefited from a trip to the zoo in Targu Mures. Alexandra, whose
For children the Feast was celebrated with great joy: hands were
• Transportation was arranged with a four stars bus "kissed" (bitten) by a pony.
• Road stops where children were given snacks and We thank BCR Cluj from the bottom of our hearts.
juices were also arranged These exceptional people have a special place in the hearts
• Zoo visit lasted over two hours, and children were of our children. BCR Cluj is "guilty" of the joy and love of the
greatly amused children who know that this the third time they were invited at
The children received gifts from BCR Cluj employees. this event. As a symbol of respect, appreciation and grati-
They had lunch at Charis restaurant in the center of tude, BCR can be accessed on Prison Fellowship Romania
Targu Mures. website.
Earlier this summer, PFR has started a new project. In from the frustration
July we started a literacy program with the convicts in Targu and inability to express
Mures prison. The main reason we chose to initiate this pro- themselves and regain
ject is related to the needs observed and reported by the their dignity. We invite
prison management, at our very first meeting. Writing and you to first ask God to
reading are prerequisites needed for the development in al- save what is lost in
most every field nowadays, being indispensable social tools them and for them:
in the rehabilitation and inner transformation of those impris- childhood years where
oned, and their reentry into society. responsible parents
We selected 42 people out of the 101 convicts enrolled should have taken
in the literacy program, the ones who we considered really care of them and teach
needed literacy. We separated them into three classes and them to swot, years of
we met twice a week. After the first month some of them gave adulthood when they did not progress enough and intellectu-
up and we also realized that the "students” had very different ally stagnated at the level of children in elementary school,
literacy levels so we re-divided them into two classes: begin- years of inappropriate entourages and prison, when they
ners and advanced. The students’ average age is 20. We came to believe that the strength of fist and not wisdom
meet twice a week and we spend one hour each time. Be- makes them men. Then, if you consider it useful, please sup-
sides the actual lessons we find time to listen to short stories port this project financially (the highest costs involve transpor-
about their lives, their families and even their children. Last tation from Targu Mures to Cluj, then special costs for various
week we celebrated the birthday of one of them and it seems school supplies needed, and special costs for birthdays or
prison is the place where many celebrated their birthday for rewards) or even join our volunteers. You can always contact:
the first time. Rares rarebed@yahoo.com (0730078555) and David
Many of the convicts we work with are illiterate, and we david.capris@pfr.ro (0744329672).
realized that it entails deep feelings of inadequacy and inferi-
ority. With God's help we hope to make them free themselves May God bless you!