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I. James 3 gives us insight into the dangers of the tongue and it gives us some instruction.
II. James 3:1-18, “My brethren, be not many masters, knowing that we shall receive the greater
condemnation. For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a
perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body. Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths,
that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body. Behold also the ships, which though
they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small
helm, whithersoever the governor listeth. Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth
great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! And the tongue is a fire, a world
of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth
on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds,
and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: But the
tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. Therewith bless we God,
even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out
of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to
be. Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter? Can the fig tree, my
brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and
fresh. Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good
conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. But if ye have bitter envying and strife in
your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. This wisdom descendeth not from above,
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but is earthly, sensual, devilish. For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every
evil work. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to
be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. And the
B. If you can get your tongue under control, you can get everything else under control.
C. What you do with your mouth will determine the direction you go.
2.If their tongue is in conflict with their faith, they are deceiving themselves.
III. Charles Spurgeon, “If all of man’s sins were bound two bundles, one entire bundle would be
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A. God wants me to understand the meanest member in the body is the tongue.
V. When you tame an animal, you break his bad tendencies and you retrain him to have good
tendencies.
VI. Can you get bitter water and sweet water out of the same fountain?
A. It is absurd.
VII. If you go to the fig tree looking for olives, you are crazy.
B. It is unnatural.
X. Proverbs 8:12-13, “I wisdom dwell with prudence, and find out knowledge of witty inventions.
The fear of the LORD is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward
mouth, do I hate.”
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D. More damage is done with the tongue than any other part of the body.
F. Wisdom does not have any respect for the forward mouth that does damage to people.
C. That will cause you to exert your force because you can.
A. If you cannot tame it completely, it is better to restrain it and put reigns on it.
A. Something may be true, but will I help or damage people by saying it?
A. When my tongue is bent on sowing discord among the brethren, I am supposed to bridle
it.
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1.Proverbs 6:16-19, “These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an
abomination unto him: A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed
innocent blood, An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift
in running to mischief, A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth
2.Proverbs 15:18, “A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger
appeaseth strife.”
b. If keep myself under control and don’t say everything I want to say, I
g. A lot of things shouldn’t have been said to start with and certainly
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h. When you repeat something that should not have been said, you are
j. To use it to stir division among people that basically believe the same
thing.
could be a talebearer.
3.Proverbs 17:9, “He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that
b. Each time it is retold it has small variations until it is not the same story.
c. People say things when they are upset that shouldn’t be repeated.
d. They say things when they are upset that they would not say if they were
thinking clearly.
therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.”
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a. When you tell people things that you probably shouldn’t tell them, then
once you tell them, they will tell everyone they know.
c. Don’t cover wicked sins, but you don’t need to share things that don’t
need to be repeated.
e. Someone will grab it and run through the town publishing it.
5.Proverbs 12:17, “He that speaketh truth sheweth forth righteousness: but a
ii. Half-truth
iii. Exaggeration
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God’s blessings.
blessing of God.
1.Proverbs 15:1, “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up
anger.”
2.Proverbs 12:18, “There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the
them.
b. The Word of God is a two edged sword, it will cut both ways.
c. It is going to pierce.
iii. When God wounds you, He’ll sew you back up.
v. He cuts you to get the evil and sews you back up so you don’t
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iv. It is unethical for me to not speak the things that are helpful to
them.
3.Proverbs 21:23-24, “Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his
soul from troubles. Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who dealeth in
proud wrath.”
c. Wrath is punishment.
4.Proverbs 18:6, “A fool's lips enter into contention, and his mouth calleth for
strokes.”
5.Proverbs 18:7, “A fool's mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of
his soul.”
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6.Proverbs 13:10, “Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised
is wisdom.”
c. It is caused by pride.
d. When the Bible talks about contending for the faith, it is not talking
outcome of pride.
concept.
ii. We can contend and take a stand for righteousness, truth and the
7.Daniel 1:8, “But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself
with the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank:
therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile
himself.”
b. He requested that he give them pulse and water for a few days.
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f. I could show those I disagree some respect by what I say and how I say
it.
g. You don’t change anything with a contentious spirit, all you do is stir
up more strife.
a. Gospel is:
i. Wholesome.
ii. Nourishing.
iii. Life-changing
iv. Clean
v. Pure
vi. Undefiled
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b. Truth is good.
c. Righteousness is good.
organs.
iii. When the Bible talks about the heart it is talking about the spirit.
good shape.
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things.
my heart.
c) It shows up in my mouth.
my spirit.
there.
3.Proverbs 17:4, “A wicked doer giveth heed to false lips; and a liar giveth ear
to a naughty tongue.”
a. If I have a crooked heart, I will want to hear everything that I can hear
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to what is wholesome.
f. Foolish jesting, off-color remarks, don’t lend your ear to those things.
1.You can use your knowledge, education, and training to manipulate people
2.You can misuse knowledge and use it for your own benefit than to help the
hearer.
3.Use it to manipulate them into a situation that will give you what you want.
4.Proverbs 15:2, “The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth
b. They know things, but don’t use it for its intended purpose.
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i. If you are wrangling the scriptures, you are acting like the devil.
2.There is times when you want to hurt someone and say something that will
sting.
3.If it is not the conviction of the Holy Spirit, and if it is not the Bible that is
bringing conviction to get them right, the words you choose will be harsh and
4.Proverbs 15:28, “The heart of the righteous studieth to answer: but the mouth
b. If you have a Bible answer, you don’t have to answer with harsh words.
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f. Give them a solid answer based on the Word of God, instead of just
5.Proverbs 16:27, “An ungodly man diggeth up evil: and in his lips there is as
a burning fire.”
6.Proverbs 11:9, “An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but
neighbor.
destruction.
f. Use it to instruct someone into perfectness, rather than chastise them for
asking a question.
g. One of the reasons that people chastise people with their response is
i. May be true.
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h. You may get out of line because your heart is out of line and you think
H. When your tongue wants to engage in backbiting, you need to bridle it.
1.Proverbs 25:23, “The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry
a. God does not want me to engage, nor does he want me to listen to it.
b. When someone tries to divide me and someone else, they need to get an
angry countenance.
response.
e. Backbiting means:
behind you.
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B. Will be covering all kinds of things throughout the course and you can pick up on some
a. Also 1 Corinthians
C. Most people who can talk and express themselves can’t write and express themselves.
1.They can’t make the same sense in print as they can verbal.
D. Two things that people can’t do in this age, largely based on television.
b. A person who meditates on the word of God can picture the events
c. Help someone else to think from your viewpoint in what you write.
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d. It will help others see things that they wouldn’t see thinking from their
thinking point.
f. People who are a thinker and express themselves well expand my ability
to think.
in print.
else.
ii. Some people don’t know how to think right, but they don’t know
3.If everybody operates at your limit and does everything they are supposed to
5.You will thank God for the class 20 years from now.
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8.It would be a shame if you got a diploma and didn’t get a education.
9.If you are smart, you will never slack up because there is always something
A. Backbiting
b. If you backbite, when I look you in the eye and ask you about it, don’t
be a coward.
c. He can put up with someone chewing on him a little bit if they are
3.A person who is willing to look you in the eye and disagree with you is a lot
something.
admit it.
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b. Don’t say something behind someone’s back you wouldn’t say to them
in their face.
a. They will want to discuss their problem with someone else other than
b. Everybody likes to criticize someone they are at odds with rather than
c. We would like to put someone else against them so that we have the
advantage.
1.Proverbs 18:13, “He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly
a. Because of our bias and prejudice, we want to answer before we hear all
the facts.
c. Some people will be our friends and some people will be my enemies.
e. I will not examine the rest of it and I will just take their side of it.
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g. Many times because someone has been guilty of something in the past,
j. Have prejudice on people by what you have seen them do in the past.
iii. Don’t presuppose all people are like the experience that you had
1. Advice is seldom taken when it is asked for and never when it is volunteered.
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2.If someone wants your opinion, they will probably ask for it.
1.Proverbs 20:6, “Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a
d. Don’t just tell people about your virtues, tell them about some of your
flaws.
i. Show them your humanity so that they know you are human.
ii. We try to have people believe that we are what we aren’t, then
e. Don’t just use illustrations of your own victories, include stories of your
a. Let them not only hear the good things about when God is working in
your life, let them hear about some of the times when you messed up.
b. When you did something you know you shouldn’t have done and you
confessed it.
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c. Tell the stories about people you witnessed to who got saved, and also
B. To do what is right.
C. To do what builds.
XVIII. My problem is what I was thinking and what I said have too much in common.
A. Often what we say and what we think has too much in common.
B. If I am thinking what I shouldn’t think, I’d better go ahead and bridle my tongue.
C. When I know I am thinking the wrong thing, the wise thing is to bridle my tongue.
2.Reasons:
outcome.
3.Pilate marveled.
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4.People are shocked when you don’t speak a word in your own defense and
c. It is very uncommon for someone to have that kind of control with their
tongue.
F. Proverbs 13:3, “He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide
2.Abundant life in the Bible is not indicating how long that life would last.
4.Lost people still exist, but they do not have the quality of life.
5.If you have an eternal existence, you also have a quality of existence here.
6.If I keep my tongue under control, I preserve the quality of their existence.
G. Proverbs 17:28, “Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that
2.It is better to be quiet and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and
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A. Sometimes I must say hard things to help people, but I don’t need to say them hard.
B. Colossians 4:6, “Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may
2.When you are right and they are wrong, your speech is still supposed to be
with grace.
i. Preserver
iii. Flavor
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ii. If you are not going to have your speech seasoned with salt, it
B. We do a lot more damage with our tongue than we do with knives or guns.
E. If you cannot make it inherently good where you no longer have the desire to do wrong.
G. If you are thinking or feeling wrong, you don’t double your sin by saying something
wrong.
XXI. Instead of saying everything about those who fall, realize you can do the same thing yourself.
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