Chiron in Synastry ??

The most karmic or beneficial aspects to have in a synastry chart is something

that�s commonly debated in the astrology community. I�ve never seen anyone on here
mention Chiron aspects though, specifically Chiron aspecting Venus, yet it�s
actually argued to be one of the most common aspects found in married couples (not
including the square or opposition). Maybe the fact that I�ve experienced this
aspect first hand is why I recognize how significant of an impact it can have on a
relationship but it�s definitely not an aspect that should be overlooked if you see
it in you and your partner�s synastry chart.

Chiron is the wounded healer, it represents the pain unfairly inflicted by life.
The asteroid is Saturn�s neighbor after all so of course its theme deals with
healing and growth; Also neighboring Uranus, it has a theme of self sacrifice for
the greater good. Where the asteroid is placed in our chart shows where deep rooted
psychological pain stems from. In synastry Chiron aspecting Venus indicates that
there will be strong themes of healing in the relationship. This aspect can be
indicative of karmic ties, some say that it means you and your partner were in love
in a different life and you get to pick up where you left off in this life time.
It�s undeniable that the two people involved will feel very drawn towards each
other. There may even be a feeling in both people that the relationship was truly
destined to happen, like the universe is pulling you into each other�s lives. They
can help each other to heal pain left over from previous relationships or even
childhood traumas. The relationship will also teach both people a lot about love
itself and could lead us to change over time the quality of our love and how we
express it. The Chiron person will feel soothed and healed by the Venus person�s
love and the Venus person will learn about relationships and love and this will
lead them to grow through the Chiron person. Despite the pain this aspect initially
brings these two people may find it impossible to leave each other. It�s almost
like the universe is saying, �You need each other so I want you to embrace the
pain. Keep going.� If the aspect is dealt with correctly it can bring tremendous
growth as a couple and together you�ll help to ease one another�s deepest pains. If
both people are unwilling to learn from this aspect it can lead to a toxic merry-
go-round of unintentionally hurting one another, struggling for the upper hand in
the relationship, and running back to their own unhealthy habits as a way to avoid
the growth through pain this aspects brings.

~Nothing in astrology is set in stone but if you have Chiron conjunct, trine, or
sextile your partner�s Venus or vice versa there�s a very distinct chance that
you�ll marry your partner

~Hard aspects have the potential to overcome these challenges as well but the
negative qualities of the asteroid will show more so in the relationship than with
the harmonious aspects and the emotional pain will be much more difficult to grow
past