How to be a good tarot reader?

- How to Give a rich nourishing experience?

-Believe in the right to choose - remind yourself that you can love the person without loving the
choice/situation, listening endlessly to people putting themselves back into the same situation,
this is what its like being a tarot reader, but a querent's story and situation you will have made
up your mind... difficult to let go of. It's not your job to make up your mind for the querent not
your place,
For ex. - They divulge their unhappy relation being emotio manipul, partner is feeding cycle, you
as reader opens their options and pathways on horizon, but it is not your life... utilize tarot such
that the querent who feels trapped be given a sense of liberation...remind of choice.

when they feel no choice or way out, pushing to make a choice for them, feeds them into their
own helplessness, this is an ethical and practical issue that psychotherapists have to contend
with as well... they're job is to be a mirror that helps bring the querent or client to come to a
realization on their own. So tell quer, their choices, what they can do with them, open
possibilities,

The cards are a tool for self-development, even when reading for others. A single pathway
answer, or an answer where there is only one right way might push someone back into a corner
where their agency fills stripped away... as if there is no choice.

Another thing, believe you can make a difference, you can make a person feel empowered and
capable through self-deliberation... and beware of masking conciseness with details and through
insecurity trying to prove your knowledge of a card... reading will fall short of objective.

People wont be coming to judge you on your ability, unless you stop and start and show your
lack of confidence... if you're arrogant, or trying to prove your proficiency...

If someone were trying to ask about another person, you'd be careful about your own code of
ethics and meddling and inquiring into someone who had not consented. If someone asked
about why their SO broke up and cheated on them, and if they're with that person now... you
could respond with that's not my place, nor do I think it would emotionally helpful to you... i
could instead provide a reading for how you can heal and get past this relationship into a better
place.

Explain the kind of reader you are... what you can and cannot do, what you will and will not do...
Sometimes negative feedback occurs when a querent wants a particular answer and only say
they want self-knowledge, but really only want to hear what they want to hear, and won't take
kindly to challenges the Tarot demands of us. Take it on the chin though.. and learn from it.
Don't be patronizing.

Being imperfect is useful, you dotn have to be a perfect example of a peaceful guru, dismantle
the hierarchy, empathize resonate, relate... personal example every now and then.

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Open up a dialogue, open a line of communication for a little brain dump from them about their
life, to help provide the most relevant information in their reading. A dialogue between good
friends, cordial, informal, friendly.