LARA CAMILLE MAPUE 11-STEM 4

``Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It isn’t something you get, it’s something you
do. It’s the way you love your partner everyday.``
Based on the dictionary, the meaning of marriage is the legally or formally
recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship
(historically and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man
and a woman). As seen to some life experiences, marriage can either be
successful or not. If it is a love match, feelings will last for a long time – the
duration is measured by the desire of two. If it is marriage of convenience,
the result will be visible pretty soon. And to think that it is one of the most
important act or decision in everybody`s life. ``Marriage is not a noun, it’s a
verb.`` It is not just a label of two person but it is a bond of their love to one
another. It is the act of commitment of two person to love, to cherish, to
harmonize and to support each another. `` It isn’t something you get, it’s
something you do.`` Marriage is not a come and go situation where there is
someone passed by you and said `I love you`, you will marry him and when
you don`t need each other anymore you will take divorce. It is not given to
you by your parents. It is a reward for the hardships of the couple they`ve
been through. It is a choice. It is a choice between two person to when
they will commit the a never ending relationship. `` It’s the way you love your
partner everyday.`` When people decide to get married, they actually dream
and think of the future on how they will raise their child, when will the house
be constructed and etc. They are ready to wake up on the bed and the
first thing they will see is each other. They are ready to face the challenges
and problems that they will encounter. They are ready to sacrifice for each
other if needed. They are ready to keep their love through the whole life.
That is the cycle of marriage but some people want to find a way to know
the secret of long and loving relationship in marriage. There is no secret. It
is just the couple falling in love many times with small or big gestures to each
other. There is no perfect marriage. It is all about finding the right person
and exploring each other impefections and differences, making you want
to fill one another.
`` A good marriage is something that should be created by two loving
people. It is not something that just happens from time to time.``