Squad Manual-Vol.1 PDF

SQUADDING CONCEPT
MANUAL
Volume 1
A Comprehensive Guide
© 2019
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SQUADDING
CONCEPT
MANUAL
A Comprehensive Guide
© Dr. Grace Sumbillo
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I would like to thank the following people who have shared with wealth of wisdom and
experiences. I also would like to thank them for believing in this manual and their
encouragement to make this all a possibility. I am also grateful for the constructive criticisms
and taking time to edit and gave their valuable comments to this manual.

+ Police Director Cesar Hawthorne R. Binag
+ Police Regional Office 6 Command Group and Directorial Staff
+ Police Regional Office 6 Regional Strategic Management Unit
+ Police Senior Superintendent Manuel Abrugena
+ Cebu Police Provincial Office Command Group and Staff
+ Police Director Noli Galsim Talino
+ PNP-Special Action Force
+ PNP-SAF Strategic Management Office
+ Police Chief Inspector Ford Sudaypan
+ Police Chief Inspector MarJoe Bongngat
+ My Brother’s Keeper
+ The CORPS Foundation
+ Bless Our Cops Movement
+ Francis Glenn L. Yu
+ Victory Ortigas
+ Victory-iloilo

+ All police officers of Cebu Province, Police Regional Office 6 and PNP-SAF troopers who have
worked hard to make this a reality. My heartfelt thanks to all of you.
And most of all to the One who the Author of all wisdom, the One who is the Giver of all of life
and Who makes all things possible – our God Almighty.
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Squad Weekly Interactive Meeting Standard
Sequence of the Program

Part 1: Squad Leader Presiding (20-25 minutes)
• Attendance
• Opening Prayer
• Call to Order
• Recognition/acknowledgement of individual of the squad’s cooperation, support
maintaining discipline, good deeds, small acts of kindness to others.
• Constructive discussion on the reported noted or observed misdemeanor, misconduct
breach of internal discipline, administrative negligence or any violation of regulations
and laws during the week.
• Disposition of the reported noted or observed misdemeanor, misconduct, breach of
internal discipline, administrative negligence or any violation of regulations and laws
during the week.
• Check on morale, hear grievances or problems, family or work related. Family or work
related problems and concerns may be referred to the Life Coach’s guidance and prayer.
• Identification of actionable items if there is any.
• Final guidance from SL or ASL.
Part 2: Life Coach Presiding (20-25 minutes)
• Recognition of birthdays, anniversaries and other celebration.

• Introduction of lessons in the Squad Manual. It shall follow the standard sequence in the
manual. In succeeding meetings, the Life Coach may request volunteers to read or recite
passages from the bible or Koran or any reference.
• Lessons shall only be focused on the Squad Manual and doctrinal issues shall be
immediately stopped as it will lead to further arguments.
• Application of the lesson on Values in real life, service/work, family, faith, finances, fun,
fitness and fulfillment.
• The LC can entertain any special request for prayer from the squad;
• Closing prayer.
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Our Squad System Objectives
God-Centered PNP Personnel
“Unless the LORD the house, those who build it labor in vain.
Unless the LORD over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.”
—Psalm 127:1 ESV

PNP personnel guided by their strong faith in God can
effectively and efficiently discharge duties and responsibilities
as an individual or as an organization.
Service-Oriented PNP Personnel
Empowered PNP personnel who embody the ideal PNP can

serve and protect his community with the highest level of
discipline and a resilient sense of commitment to public
service.
Family-Based PNP Personnel

A PNP personnel with a strong and well-established bond
with his family is a PNP personnel who can be respected and
trusted by the community he or she serves.
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Squad System Overview

Introduction

The PNP committed to pursue a proactive strategy aimed at
preventing and preempting misbehavior and misconduct
within its ranks implements the “Squad System.”
Why Squad System?

PNP, in pursuing the transformation aspect of its strategic direction has been very aggressive in
implementing internal cleansing within its ranks. According to the Real Numbers from July,
2016 to July 2018 there were 6,401 police officers charged for administratively and/or
criminally in line with the PNP Internal Cleansing Efforts. With these numbers, the PNP is
resolute in its internal cleansing and disciplinary mechanisms which sends a very clear message
to all its personnel that every wrong doing has its corresponding consequences.

However, it appears that the current internal cleansing process is only responsive in addressing
the “after the fact” issues of police misconduct and misbehavior as it is designed to get rid or
penalize personnel who committed violations of laws or are involved in illegal activities. Hence,
the need for a complementary proactive strategy that can prevent the recurring problem of
misbehavior and misconduct which are rooted on weak values.
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Getting to know your Squad

Who are involved?

1. A squad is formally organized by _______ is composed of a minimum of ___ and a
maximum of 10 personnel.

2. Led by a Squad Leader (SL), the most senior among the members assisted by an Assistant
Squad Leader (ASL).

3. Each squad is ideally assigned to one (1) Life Coach (LC).

“Your Squad is a venue for mentoring and
discipline.”

Life Coaches’ Best Practice

It is in the squad level where highest level of discipline shall be expected. As the first line of
authority and accountability, the squad shall be a self-policing organization where members
practicing caution each other among them which can immediately address minor infractions
from developing into bad habits or grave behavior.
To ensure the achievement of specific objectives, LCs designated to each squad or a number
of squads (whichever is applicable) are encouraged to practice the following:
1. Mentoring style of leadership anchored on ethical, moral and spiritual values;
2. Provide assistance or a short orientation on how to use the workbooks provided for
each squad or scheduled topics to be discussed in the conduct of their Squad Weekly
Interactive Meeting (SWIM).
3. Practice active listening when guiding the squad in their SWIM. It is when you actively
listen that you can hear thoughts deeply rooted from the heart of every member.
4. Communicate directly to the squad or individually to a member to address issues and
concerns with the main goal of providing guidance to the individual or squad.
5. LCs are also expected to help the squad establish among themselves the highest level of
discipline while in the performance of PNP duties and responsibilities.
Be part of the Squad System Basic Monitoring and Evaluation

Email us: _________________________________

Your observations and suggestions are important and valuable to
the success of the system. LCs are encouraged to email their
weekly observations pertaining to their designated Squad’s
activities.

Please send your request through the Regional Oversight

Committee email (above) to receive the monitoring device.

For issues, concerns and inquiries, contact ______________.
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Table of Contents

Preface and Guidelines

Police Core Values

Police Creed

Police Ethical Standards

Excel@ Work

Timeless Wisdom For Life

God’s Answer to Life’s Questions
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THE FATHER HEART OF GOD
(MakaDios)
W
ARM UP
What is your fondest memory as a child?

W
ORD
So he got up and went to his father. “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was
filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. The son said
to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your
son. But the father said to his servants, “Quick! Bring the best robes and put it on him. Put a ring on his
fingers and sandals on his feet.
Luke 15:20-22 NIV

Jesus talked about the parable of the prodigal son. It’s about a rebellious son who squandered his
inheritance and a loving, gracious father who threw a party when his son came back home. This parable
shows the heart of God for the lost – His redemptive grace and mercy towards a sinner who repents and
turns to him. In this lesson, we will look at how the father in this parable responded, and how this is a
reflection of our heavenly Father that sets our values, purpose and identity.
1. VALUE.

“When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare,
and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I
have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me
like one of your hired servants.’ So he got up and went to his father.
Luke 15:17-20

The younger son became impatient towards his portion of his father’s inheritance. Instead of
waiting for his father’s death, he asked for his share of the property. The father responded to his
request and even divided it between the two sons. In Jewish culture, the younger son deserved only
half the older son’s inheritance. But because of his generosity, the father gave the younger son
more than what he deserved. The father was generous despite the son’s inappropriate request and
lack of thankfulness. This is a reflection of the generosity of our Heavenly Father. He blesses even
those who are ungrateful.
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ASK: Do you feel that you are valuable to God the Father? How has God been generous to you?

2. IDENTITY.

But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his
finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. For
this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.
Luke 15:22-24

The father was determined to see his lost son return. He saw his son while he was still a long way
off, which meant that the father had been watching and waiting for his son to return home all along.
When the father saw the son approaching, he ran to him and embraced him with open arms. God is
also like this with His children. He waits patiently, with loving compassion, to restore us when we
return to Him with humble hearts.

ASK: Where do you find your significance?

3. PURPOSE.

But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his
finger and sandals on his feet.
Luke 15:22

The extravagant response of the father when his son came back was something to behold. Not only
did the father accept him back, but he restored his son’s purpose in life. By placing the ring on his
finger, he gave back his authority over the affairs of the household. Our purpose is a gift from God. It
does not change when we disobey him. His son was ready to become a servant, however, his father
has another plan – to celebrate and to reinstitute him as his son.

ASK: What do you think is God’s purpose in your life?
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ERSONAL APPLICATION
• What was your most valuable possession or relationship growing up in your family?
• What is the promise of God when we draw near to him?
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THE LIFESTYLE OF INTEGRITY
(MakaDios)
W
ARM UP
Who is the most influential person in your life? What are the character traits they have that you admire?
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ORD
The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.
Proverbs 11:3

It is more and more difficult to live a life of integrity in the world that we live today. Integrity is doing the
right things at all times and in all situations. How we decide today will surely shape the future – not only
for ourselves but also for our nation. Integrity demands that we swim against the current, stand up for
what is right and raise a righteous standard. It all begins with how we conduct our business affairs. Let
us become people that God will bless and that our children can be proud of.

1. INTEGRITY BEGINS WITH THE RIGHT PRIORITIES.

But seek first the kingdom and His righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well.
Matthew 6:33

Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires
that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some
people, eager for money, have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many
griefs.
I Timothy 6:9-10 NIV

Integrity begins with the right priorities. Jesus told us that if we place God above everything in our
lives, then everything will be in order. As we follow and obey Him, He will take care of us and
provide for our every need. However, many place their careers, fame and wealth over everything
else. In their lust for more, they compromise their integrity and character and become part of the
problem.

ASK: Do you believe in your heart that God will take care of your needs and provide for you?

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2. THERE IS NO ESCAPING THE CONSEQUENCES OF OUR ACTIONS.

Do not be deceived; God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please
their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will
reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a
harvest if we do not give up.
Galatians 6:7-9 NIV

If you plant a mango seed, you will get a mango tree. If you plant an apple seed, you will get an
apple tree. That is the universal truth. It is the same with our lives. If we live in integrity, we will live
under the blessing of God. If we are dishonest and corrupt, we will incur his wrath. That is also the
universal truth.

ASK: What are the consequences in our organization if we violate the integrity expected of us?

3. WE MUST COMMIT EVERYTHING TO GOD.

And whatever you do, whether in word or in deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving
thanks to God the Father through Him.
Colossians 3:17 NIV

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Proverbs 1:7 NIV

In His faithfulness, God constantly watches over us. He knows everything we do and think of. That
encourages us to live godly and upright lives. Our Lord deserves nothing less than the best we can
offer in our daily lives and in our other affairs.

ASK: Do you believe in your heart that God sees everything you do?

4. WE NEED TO GUARD OUR REPUTATION.
A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.
Proverbs 22:1

Our reputation, the legacy we live is far more important than material things. You cannot put a price
on the respect and honor that is bestowed upon a man who lives a life of integrity. Money is
temporal, but a good name lasts beyond a lifetime.

ASK: What is the reputation that you want to leave behind your children?
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ERSONAL APPLICATION
• What did you learn from this lesson and how you will put it into practice in your life? What practical
steps can you do to maintain your integrity in your workplace? In your relationships?
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LEADING MY FAMILY
(MakaPamilya)
W
ARM UP
• Describe an ideal family atmosphere.

• If you can change something in your family what would it be?
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ORD
… But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.

Joshua 24:15 NIV

Because of the hectic pace of modern life, it is so easy to get caught up in the rat race. When our
priorities are out of order, if costs our family dearly. We unconsciously delegate our responsibility as a
spouse and as a parent to others. Some spouses’ natural instincts are to go to their friends when they
have need. Some children are practically raised by their television or video games. When we get home,
everyone’s asleep. When they leave for school, we are asleep. The home simply becomes a place to eat
and sleep. And we often wonder what has gone wrong with the world. We need to reclaim time for our
family. We need to be available to our spouses. We need to give direction to our children. We need to
be leaders at home, not just at work.

1. THE FAMILY IS GOD’S IDEA.

The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him’ … So
the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the
man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had
taken out of the man and brought her to the man … That is why man leaves his father and mother
and is united to his wife Eve and she became pregnant and gave birth to Cain. She said, “With the
help of the Lord I have brought forth a man.” Later she gave birth to his brother Abel …
Genesis 2:18, 21-22, 24; 4:1-2 NIV

The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you
received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit
himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.
Romans 8:15-16 NIV

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The family is not an incidental consequence of social evolution. God designed and willed the family.
In fact, one of the ways God has revealed Himself to us is as our Father. We become His children as
we surrender our lives to him. Even as we pray, Your Kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it
is in heaven, the answer to that prayer actually begins in our own families. As we honor God in our
household, His kingdom is established in our society and nation.

2. GOD HAS A SPECIFIC PLAN AND PURPOSE FOR EACH FAMILY.

Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labor in vain.
Psalm 127:1 NIV

God created the family because He has a special purpose and destiny for our families. God chooses
to fulfill His will on earth in and through our homes. Since He is a builder, we must build according to
His plan and His ways. Our blueprint is the Bible.

3. OUR HOME MUST BE ENVIRONMENT WHERE GOD IS HONORED.

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These
commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk
about them when sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you
get up.
Deuteronomy 6:5-7 NIV

Our family atmosphere will either encourage or discourage our children to follow God. We must
create an environment where God is honored, worshipped and glorified through our example,
words and deeds. That way, our children will grow up loving God.
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ERSONAL APPLICATION
• What did you learn from the lesson and how will you put this into practice?
• What kind of atmosphere does your family exhibit? What can you do to change or improve it?
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DISCOVERING THE PURPOSE OF FAMILY
(MakaPamilya)
W
ARM UP
• Tell us a few important principles you learned from your parents. Did you learn by example
or was it verbally stressed?
• Are you more like your father or mother? Why?
W
ORD
Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your
table. Yes, this will be the blessing for the man who fears the Lord.
Psalm 128:3-4 NIV

Broken homes and marriage have become a modern day social epidemic. In many nations, more than
half of the children grow up in single parent homes. This is not God’s design. A loving and harmonious
family is a blessing from God. God’s will is for all of us to enjoy the warmth of a good place to come
home to. Sadly, the reality is many would rather work overtime than go home to a house filled with
strife, anger and bitterness. If your family is broken and divided, there is a way to restart it. If you are
just starting out, there is a proper way to build it. God reveals to us, through His Word, a divine pattern
on how we can build a solid, loving family. Here is how …

1. NEXT TO GOD, OUR FAMILY IS TOP PRIORITY.

He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him and he must do so in a
manner worthy of respect. (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he
take care of God’s church?)
1 Timothy 3:4-5 NIV

It begins with right priorities. Next to God, our top priority must be our families – not our careers,
not our work but our spouses and children. In the end, all we have is our family. No one on his
deathbed ever said, “I wish I have spent more time in my work.” But how many look back at their
own life with deep regret after having been built careers at the expense of their families? We begin
building happy homes by making them our top priority. By letting them know how much more
important they are to us than anything in this world.

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2. GOD SET DIVINE ORDER IN THE HOME.

Wives, submit to you own husbands as you do to the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ
loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Ephesians 5:22, 25 NIV

Imagine working for two bosses. It would be a nightmare, wouldn’t it? The result is usually
miscommunication, misunderstanding and confusion. As such, the Bible defines for us the proper
role for each member of the family. The Bible often uses the family to illustrate the Church. Wives
are to submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ. Husbands are to love their wives
just as Christ loved the church and died for her. When we follow this, the result is a selfless and
loving marriage relationship.

3. OUR FAMILY MUST BE GOD-CENTERED.

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These
commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk
about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when
you get up.
Deuteronomy 6:5-7 NIV

God must be at the center of our family relationships. It is he who gives us the strength to love one
another unconditionally. On our own, we cannot do it. In Him, we find the grace and strength. When
you take God out of the home, you take away the one person that can save it. He alone is our hope.

4. WE NEED TO BE GRACIOUS WITH ONE ANOTHER.

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion,
kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any you
have grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on
love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
Colossians 3:12-14

Conflict is inevitable. But forgiveness always wins the day. Bitterness, hatred, envy and suppressed
anger destroy families. Love, patience and compassion build them. If we desire to build our families
according to God’s ways, we need to change our attitude towards them. We need to be the source
of strength and love that will bind our family together in perfect unity. Let us seek to meet our
family’s needs, instead of demanding they meet ours.

P
ERSONAL APPLICATION
• What did you learn from the lesson and how will you put it into practice in your life?
• What is your current set of priorities? Do you need to make any changes?
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COMPASSION
(MakaTao)
W
ARM UP
What image or picture best conveys the concept of love for you? Describe the picture and why you think
this image best the idea of love.
W
ORD
Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved
us and gave himself up for us as fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
Ephesians 5:1-2 NIV

Love: a word so often used but a concept so hard to explain. The greatest regrets most people have in
life have to do with their relationships. Living for what matters necessitates learning how to love in
every sense of the word. God, who is Himself the author and source of love demonstrated true love for
us through His Son, Jesus Christ. Following are three ways God demonstrated His love for us and
exemplified how we are to love others.

1. LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.
God loves us unconditionally even when we are at our worst. He pursued us, loving us back into a
right relationship with Him. It is only when we have experienced God’s love are we truly able to love
others. How does 1 Corinthians 13 describe love? Share how God’s love drew you into a relationship
with Him.

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8 NIV

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor
others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not
delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always
perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease where there are
prophecies, they will cease, where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge it
will pass away.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 NIV

ASK: Looking at your children, is your love for them based on whether they are good children or not?
Why or why not?

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2. SERVE SACRIFICIALLY.
God loves us first and exemplified the sacrificial love we are to have for one another. Serving at the
expense of self, considering the needs of others over our own – these actions reflect and loving and
selfless heart.

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our
lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother or sister in
need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not
love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.
1 John 3:16-18

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.

John 15:13 NIV

ASK: Share of a time when you laid down your own interest for the sake of others. How did that
incident enrich your relationship with the person?

3. FORGIVE COMPLETELY.
Forgiveness is a critical skill for us to develop if we are to love others. Jesus taught that our ability to
love is in direct proportion to how much we understand God’s love and forgiveness in our lives. We
exemplify God’s love when we choose to forgive.

Therefore I tell you, how many sins have you forgiven – as her great love has shown. But whoever
has been forgiven little loves little.
Luke 7:47 NIV

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who
sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven
times.”
Matthew 18:21,22

ASK: Share a time when you have forgiven someone who has hurt you. How did you feel? How did
that help you personally?
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ERSONAL APPLICATION
• Since love involves laying down our lives for others, how can we put this principle into practice this
week?
• Are there people you need to forgive or ask forgiveness from? Don’t let the day go by without
responding to God’s word.
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LEAVE A LEGACY
(MakaBayan)
W
ARM UP
• Name a historical figure whose life serves as an inspiration to you. What about that person that
inspires you?
• What do you want to be remembered for?
W
ORD
The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.
1 John 2:17

Whether we realize it or not, we will leave a legacy. The issue is what type of legacy we will leave
behind. Following are three scriptural exhortations on the kind of legacy we are to leave behind.

1. LIVE FOR A GOOD NAME.
Many times we think that the only kind of inheritance we can leave behind is financial in nature. The
Bible teaches us that a good name is of greater importance than wealth. Our character, how we live,
what we stand for – this will outlive us and will mark the lives of those around us.

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.
Proverbs 22:1 NIV
Let love and faithfulness never leave you;
Bind them around your neck,
Write them on the tablet of your heart.
Then you will win favor and a good name
In the sight of God and man.
Proverbs 3:3-4 NIV

ASK: What is a good name you want to leave behind?

2. LIVE FOR THE NEXT GENERATION.
The disciples of Jesus saw children as a disturbance. Jesus, however, corrected them, teaching them
to value and live for the next generation.

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Then the people brought little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for
them. But the disciples rebuked them. Jesus’ said, “Let the little children come to me and do not
hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belong to such as these.
Matthew 19:13-14 NIV
Blessed are those who fear the Lord,
Who find great delight in His commands.
Their children will be mighty in the land;
The generation of the upright will be blessed.
Psalm 112:1-2 NIV
A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up
for the righteous.
Proverbs 13:22 NIV

ASK: Your children and the men and women that you have worked with are the next generation,
what teachings or words of wisdom do you want to leave to them?

3. LIVE FOR ETERNITY.
Scripture again and again teaches us to invest not what is temporary, but on what is eternal. We
entered this earth empty-handed, so we shall leave it. Having a heavenward perspective help us be
more deliberate in how we live our lives in light of lasting and eternal rewards.

Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are bring
renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that
far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is
seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in
them. For everything in the world – the lust of the flesh, the lust of eyes and the pride of life – comes
not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desire pass away, but whoever does the
will of God lives forever.
1 John 2:15-17 NIV

Do not store for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy and where thieves
break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not
destroy and where thieves do not break in and steal.
Matthew 6:19-20 NIV

ASK: What are you doing for God? And for others?
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ERSONAL APPLICATION
• What kind of legacy would you like to leave the people in your life? How can you practically go
about this?
• What did you learn from this lesson and how will you put it into practice?
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SERVANT LEADERSHIP
(MakaBayan)
W ARM UP
• Who do you consider a great leader? Do you consider yourself a leader? Why?
• What are the three most important traits of a leader? Why?
W ORD
Let everyone be subject to governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has
established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, whoever rebels
against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring
judgment on themselves. For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong.
Do you want to be free from the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended. For
the one in authority is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear
the sword for no reason. They are God’s servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrong
doer. Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not because of possible punishment but also
as a matter of conscience. This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God’s servants, who give
their full-time to governing.
Romans 13:1-6 NIV

WHO IS THE SERVANT LEADER?

Servant Leadership is exercising real, godly leadership, as Christ did when He used a towel, and
influencing, equipping, and empowering people to accomplish God's purpose and plan. It is serving
others unselfishly while influencing and empowering them to grow in a Christ-directed, purposeful
direction. This was an uncommon trait in Jesus' time. , Being a leader in work, or in the home for a
husband, is never a force of personality; it is earning that respect because you love and care.

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1. A SERVANT LEADER SEEKS THE GLORY OF HIS MASTER.

who despises a vile person but honors those who fear the LORD; who keeps an oath even when it
hurts, and does not change their mind;
Psalm 15:4 NIV

Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will
of God from your heart.
Ephesians 6:6 NIV

2. A SERVANT LEADER JOYFULLY SERVES OTHERS.

Convinced of this, I know that I will remain, and I will continue with all of you for your progress and
joy in the faith,
Philippians 1:25 NIV

Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
and gave him the name that is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.
Philippians 2:9-11 NIV

3. A SERVANT LEADER IS WILLING TO FORGO HIS RIGHTS FOR THE SAKE OF
OTHERS.

Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as
possible.
1 Corinthians 9:19 NIV

To this very hour we go hungry and thirsty, we are in rags, we are brutally treated, we are
homeless. We work hard with our own hands. When we are cursed, we bless; when we are
persecuted, we endure it; when we are slandered, we answer kindly. We have become the scum of
the earth, the garbage of the world—right up to this moment.

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4. A SERVANT LEADER IS NOT PRE-OCCUPIED WITH PERSONAL RECOGNITION.

so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each
other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.

To this John replied, “A person can receive only what is given them from heaven.
John 3:27 NIV

5. A SERVANT LEADER IS HUMBLE.

The bride belongs to the bridegroom. The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for
him, and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom’s voice. That joy is mine, and it is now
complete. He must become greater; I must become less.”
John 3:29-30 NIV

6. A SERVANT LEADER IS COMPETENT.

And David shepherded them with integrity of heart; with skillful hands he led them.
Psalm 78:70-72 NIV
P ERSONAL APPLICATION
• What did you learn from this lesson and how will you put it into practice in your life?
• How can you become more of a servant at home or at work?

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CREATION CARE
(Maka-kalikasan)
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ARM UP
• When have you experienced the fearsome or destructive quality of nature and how did you feel?
• What was your experience of God during this situation?
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When we read the Bible with new eyes, we realize that care for creation is a religious issue. We discover
that care for creation is not one social issue among many for which we are seeking support. In fact, it is
not even a social issue at all. Rather, care for creation is foundational to what it means to be human.
Humans are but one part of creation, albeit a critical part. God has created all of life, calls it good, and
values it in its own right. This means that our love of creation and our care for it is a matter of faith.
Some may see it only as a social or political issue, which in some sense it surely is, but in our hearts and
in our motivations and in our relationship with God we see it as a profoundly spiritual issue. God has a
relationship with all of creation. We are called to care for creation. We cannot have a full and complete
relationship with God apart from our relationship with creation.

1. HUMANS BELONG TO THE EARTH.

but streams came up from the earth and watered the whole surface of the ground. Then the LORD
God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and
the man became a living being. Now the LORD God had planted a garden in the east, in Eden; and
there he put the man he had formed. The LORD God made all kinds of trees grow out of the ground—
trees that were pleasing to the eye and good for food. In the middle of the garden were the tree of
life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.
Genesis 2:69 NIV

2. CREATION WAS NOT FORMED FOR HUMAN BEING ALONE.

3. GOD WANTS ALL CREATION TO THRIVE.

Genesis 1:1-31 NIV – “…God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening,
and there was morning —the sixth day.” (v. 31)

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4. GOD LOVES CREATURES FOR OWN TIME.

He makes springs pour water into the ravines; it flows between the mountains.
They give water to all the beasts of the field; the wild donkeys quench their thirst.
The birds of the sky nest by the waters; they sing among the branches.
He waters the mountains from his upper chambers; the land is satisfied by the fruit of his work.
Psalm 104:10-30 NIV

5. HUMAN BEINGS WERE CREATED SO THAT THEY COULD TAKE CARE OF THE
EARTH, SERVE AND PRESERVE IT.

God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.
Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the
ground.”
Genesis 1:28 NIV

6. ALL LIFE IS SACRAMENTAL.

And they were calling to one another: “Holy, holy, holy is the LORD Almighty; the whole earth is full
of his glory.”
Isaiah 6:3 NIV

7. ALL CREATION IS CALLED TO PRAISE GOD.

Ascribe to the LORD the glory due his name; bring an offering and come before him. Worship the
LORD in the splendor of his holiness.
Tremble before him, all the earth! The world is firmly established; it cannot be moved.
Let the heavens rejoice, let the earth be glad; let them say among the nations, “The LORD reigns!”
Let the sea resound, and all that is in it; let the fields be jubilant, and everything in them!
Let the trees of the forest sing, let them sing for joy before the LORD, for he comes to judge the
earth.
Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever.
1 Chronicles 16:29-34 NIV

8. THE KINGDOM OF GOD RESTORES ALL CREATION.

…your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
Matthew 6:10 NIV
P ERSONAL APPLICATION
Please list ways of how we can take care of creation.
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THE POLICE CREED

I believe in God, The Supreme Being, The Great Provider, and The Creator of all
men and everything dear to me. In return, I can do no less than love Him above all
obeying His word, seek His guidance in the performance of my sworn duties and
honor Him at all times.

I believe that respect for authority is a duty. I respect and uphold the Constitution,
the laws of the land and the applicable rules and regulations. I recognize the
legitimacy and authority of the leadership, and obey legal orders of my superior
officers.

I believe in selfless love and service to people. Towards this end, I commit myself
to the service of my fellowmen over and above my personal interest.
I believe in the sanctity of marriage and family life. I shall set the example of
decency and morality, shall have high regard for family life and value of marital
fidelity.

I believe in the responsible dominion and stewardship over material things. I shall
inhibit myself from extravagance and ostentatious display of material things. I
shall help protect the environment and conserve nature to maintain ecological
balance.

I believe in the wisdom of truthfulness. I must be trustworthy and I shall uphold
the truth at all times.

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1. RESPECT FOR GOD
I believe in God, The Supreme Being, The Great Provider, and The Creator of all men and everything dear
to me. In return, I can do no less than love Him above all obeying His word, seek His guidance in the
performance of my sworn duties and honor Him at all times.
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Who is God in your life?
W ORD
1. GOD THE SUPREME BEING
“O Lord, God of our fathers, are you not God in heaven? You rule over all the kingdoms of the
nations. In your hand are power and might, so that none is able to withstand you.”
2 Chronicles 20:6

Sovereignty can be defined as having supreme authority, control, and power over all that has
happened, is happening, and will happen in the future in all times across all history. He is the ruler
of the universe, God, having the right, the authority, and the power to govern all that happens and
what has, is, or will happen being in accordance to His divine will.

ASK: How do you recognize the authority of God in your life?

2. GOD THE GREAT PROVIDER
"Do not worry then, saying, ‘What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What will we wear for
clothing?' For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you
need all these things. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be
added to you."
Matthew 6:33-34
We are all faced with a daunting task of searching for food, shelter, protection, clothes, jobs, money,
rest, enjoyment, relationships, peace, freedom, significance, identity, knowledge, and a whole list of
other things. And all this is to provide for ourselves and our families.

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But there is only one need. That need is God in our lives. When we have God in our lives, He will
take care of all our needs because He is our provider. He is the source of life and He sustains it.

ASK: How has God provided for you and your family?

3. GOD WHO IS ALL WISE

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it
will be given him.”
James 1:5

Wisdom might be defined today as “knowledge, the ability to discern inner qualities and
relationships, insight, and judgment.” How do you find wisdom today? Where do you go to have
your problems solved and questions answered? The answer is to go to the source of all wisdom, God
Himself. He is the one who created you—He has placed His gifts and callings within you and
understands their worth. Certainly, He is a good steward of His gifts and will develop them to their
maturity. The best place to find God’s wisdom is through His Word – the Bible.

ASK: Recall/relate a story in your life wherein God has helped you make a good decision. What was
the result?
P RACTICAL APPLICATION
Pray this prayer …

A Police Officer's Prayer

Lord, I ask for courage ~ Courage to face and conquer my own fears ... Courage to take me where others
will not go ... I ask strength ~ Strength of body to protect others, and strength of spirit to lead others ... I
ask for dedication ~ Dedication to my job, to do it well, Dedication to my community, to keep it safe ...
Give me, Lord, concern for those who trust me, and compassion for those who need me ... And please,
Lord, through it all, be at my side ... Amen

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2. RESPECT FOR AUTHORITY
I believe that respect for authority is a duty. I respect and uphold the Constitution, the laws of the land
and the applicable rules and regulations. I recognize the legitimacy and authority of the leadership, and
obey legal orders of my superior officers.
W ARM-UP
Was there a time when you were asked by an authority to do something that is against the law or
against your conscience? Without going into details, what did you do? What was the result?
W ORD

God authorizes civil authority because He knows it's absolutely essential for society's survival. A chaotic
world indeed would exist if everyone could do as he pleased in his own eyes.

1. RESPECT FOR THE CONSTITUTION
“
For the Lord’s sake, submit to all human authority—whether the king as head of state, or the
officials he has appointed. For the king has sent them to punish those who do wrong and to honor
those who do right. It is God’s will that your honorable lives should silence those ignorant people who
make foolish accusations against you. For you are free, yet you are God’s slaves, so don’t use your
freedom as an excuse to do evil. Respect everyone, and love the family of believers. Fear God, and
respect the king.”
2 Peter 2:13-17

Government is divinely ordained and exist only by the will of God. Its authority comes from God. It
achieves God’s purposes even when it fails to carry out its divinely given task. We are to respect
governing authorities because of the dignity of God has given them, whether or not they are
performing well. Ultimately, all of us will be accountable to God Himself.

ASK: Do you agree with this statement “Submit to authority; whether they are performing well or
not.”? Why or why not?

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2. AUTHORITY OF MY LEADERS

You servants must submit yourselves to your masters and show them complete respect, not only to
those who are kind and considerate, but also to those who are harsh. God will bless you for this, if
you endure the pain of undeserved suffering because you are conscious of his will.
2 Peter 2:18-19

We show respect to our leaders because God has commanded it and our role is to obey His
commands. We also show respect for authority because of out of our love for our fellow men. A
soldier’s success in times of war depends on each soldier’s cooperation with, obedience to and
respect for the chain of command. If a soldier will rebel against the instructions of his leaders, he
will put his fellow soldier’s lives in danger. Lastly, we respect our leaders for our own interest and
protection as well.

ASK: Who is the leader you admire? What are the qualities of this leader that you are willing to
follow?
What will you do to ensure that all that you do whether it is administrative tasks or police operations is
within the legal bounds of the law?
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3. RESPECT FOR OTHERS

I believe in selfless love and service to people. Towards this end, I commit myself to the service of my
fellowmen over and above my personal interest.
W ARM-UP
As a police officer, what do you think is the meaning of “To Serve and To Protect.”?
W ORD
Respect is an essential part of human life. ... It's an unspoken way of communication which builds
unshaken and strong relations between people respecting each other. When a person shows respect for
someone, then it means that the person has some value for him.

1. SELFLESS LOVE
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on
its own way; it is not irritable or resentful. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

What does selfless look like? When we love selfless we are …
• Generous – Love seeks for the well-being of others and this involves giving of the self for the
sake of others.
• Courteous – Love is manifested when we are polite and respectful of others. When we love
people we are not rude to them.
• Have Self-Control – Love is not irritable or resentful and is not easily provoked. To love
others means we work hard to avoid getting angry over petty things. We should not get
easily upset over situation we have not control over. And we do not need to take our
discouragement and frustration on other people.

ASK: What do you think are the virtues that our children lack today? And what virtues will you teach
your own children?

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2. SELFLESS SERVICE

Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s
grace in its various forms. 1 Peter 4:10

As a police officer, you have been called to service, both of God and of mankind. God is more
mindful and concerned about people than anything else. Thus, when you serve people by the things
you do daily, the Lord will be mindful of you and bless you as well. He’ll cause everything you do to
prosper. The Bible says there’s profit in all work. In other words, when you faithfully render service,
you’ll surely prosper not necessarily in material wealth but in other aspects of life as well.

Become motivated by the joy of service. Be inspired by the importance and relevance of what you
do towards the betterment of your society. It may seem as insignificant, but don’t stop; keep at
it! Keep yourself relevant and indispensable to your generation by choosing to serve. Be inspired to
serve selflessly!

ASK: Why do you want to serve as a police officer? What is the work of a police officer do you find
fulfilling?
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RACTICAL APPLICATION
As a squad and with your own meager resources, plan a service-oriented activity in the community. It
doesn’t have to be big but you can just plan for an activity that is within your means.

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4. RESPECT FOR MARRIAGE & FAMILY LIFE

I believe in the sanctity of marriage and family life. I shall set the example of decency and morality, shall

have high regard for family life and value of marital fidelity.
W ARM UP
How would you describe your family? Your spouse? Your children?
W ORD
Marriage, the union of one man and one woman, is a personal, but not private, relationship with great
public significance. Marriage is good for the couple; it provides the optimal conditions for bearing and
raising children. Marriage makes an essential contribution to the common good.

1. AS A SPOUSE

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as
you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his
body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to
their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave
himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and
to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy
and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who
loves his wife loves himself.
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her
husband.
Ephesians 5:21-28; 33

Keys to A Strong Marriage
a. Give it 100 Percent. True love is giving without expecting anything in return. When two people
both give 100 percent, you have a strong bond, a strong overlap that is going to guarantee
flexibility and the ability to cope with crises and problems.
b. Honor and Respect Each Other. You need to esteem—to value—your spouse better than
yourself. Treasure your mate as a child of God. Look for and appreciate the positive values you
find in each other!

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c. Be An Example. A husband's five areas of responsibility to his wife are: love and respect,
support and encouragement, leadership and guidance, help and protection, and inspiration to
grow. A wife’s five areas of responsibility to her husband are: responsiveness and service,
tenderness and beauty, intelligence and understanding, Christian virtue, and faith, hope and
courage.
d. Communicate in Love. How often do couples "tune one another out" in their conversations?
Effective communication means effective listening as well as speaking. We should listen for
understanding—try to understand the other person's point of view. Try to understand the other
person's feelings and needs! Demonstrate respect by giving your full attention.
e. Pray Together

2. AS A PARENT

Principles of Effective Parenting

a. Take care of yourself. Work hard in managing yourself and your children will have the emotional
support they will need and they will try to follow those attributes they see in you.
b. Nurture your children. Make your children feel loved and cherished. Children need to feel loved
and nurtured in ways they recognize as loving.
c. Guide your children. Children need values, guidelines and standards by which to govern their
lives.
d. Be your child’s advocate. Be your child’s cheerleader. Show them how special they are and that
they are different from other kids.
e. Motivate your child. Motivate your children to learn. Have books and other sourcebooks at
home. Encourage learning by reading yourself and continuing to learn.

ASK: What are you doing to give priority and quality time with your spouse and children?
Plan this week to spend quality time with your spouse and children. Do not go to the mall but go
somewhere quieter where you can talk and communicate with each other. Dream together about your
desired future of your family and what will you do to make into fulfillment.
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5. RESPECT FOR MY RESOURCES
I believe in the responsible dominion and stewardship over material things. I shall inhibit myself from
extravagance and ostentatious display of material things. I shall help protect the environment and
conserve nature to maintain ecological balance.

W ARM UP
What do you think should be the lifestyle of a public servant?
W ORD
Steward is a biblical term that refers to a manager who is responsible for the goods and property of
another. A steward is not therefore an owner, but one who has a responsibility to an owner to treat
property with care and respect. Stewardship is a term that refers to the responsibility of a steward to
manage wisely. The unjust steward was one who took advantage of his position to aggrandize himself.
Luke 16:1-13

1. STEWARDSHIP OF MY RESOURCES
a. Time
For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven … Ecclesiastes 3:1
Stewardship is also the wise and faithful use of our time. It is a gift from God. It is more valuable
than money. When it is lost it is unrecoverable. There are three ways we use our time:
• Essential Time – we use this time for eating, sleeping and working.
• Leisure Time – this is the time where we do things we enjoy.
• Quality Time – this is the time that we use to improve the quality of our lives such as
education, family time, church and community service.

b. Body
Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food”—and God will destroy both one and
the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the
body. And God raised the Lord and will also raise us up by his power. Do you not know that your
bodies are members of Christ? 1 Corinthians 6:13-15
Our bodies are not our own, it is our earthly tabernacle wherein which our soul and spirit dwell.
It is also the vessel where we carry out God’s purposes for us in this earth. What do we do to
honor the body God has given us.
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• Abstain from sexual immorality.
• Eat well balanced meals.
• Refrain from food or drinks or any habits that would harm our body.
• Exercise regularly.

c. Treasures
An important aspect of our Christian Stewardship is the wise and faithful use of the treasures
with which God has entrusted us.
• Making sure that we take care of our families. (1 Timothy 5: 8)
• Making sure that we give to charity and those in need. (Proverbs 19:17)
• Making sure that we save, invest wisely, and prepare for retirement. (Matthew 25:14-
30)
• Making sure that we do not waste God resources. (Proverbs 18:9; 21:20)
• Making sure that we are generous. [We can give our way to prosperity.]

ASK:
• Are you faithful at your work? How do you use the resources at work –time, office supplies, office
equipment – can you honestly say that you are good steward of it?
• What about your body? Can you say you are healthy? How are your eating habits? Do you exercise
often? Do you sleep well?

2. STEWARDSHIP OF GOD’S CREATION

Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over
the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the earth and
over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” So God created man in his own image, in the
image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them. And God
said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the
fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”
Genesis 1:26-28

The Bible contains a profound message about the stewardship of material creation: God created the
world, but entrusts it to human beings. Caring for and cultivating the world involves the following:
§ Joyful appreciation for the God-given beauty and wonder of nature;
§ Protection and preservation of the environment, which would be the stewardship of ecological
concern;
How would you assess your financial health today in a scale of 1-10 (10 being the most healthiest)? Do
you have debts? Do you buy things that you do not need? What will you do to make yourself financially
healthy and have enough savings to ensure your family’s future.
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6. RESPECT FOR THE TRUTH
I believe in the wisdom of truthfulness. I must be trustworthy and I shall uphold the truth at all times.
W ARM UP
What is the importance of being trustworthy in your work as a police officer?
W ORD
“Many people claim to be loyal, but it is hard to find a trustworthy person.”

Proverbs 20:6

Trust is the emotional glue that draws you closer to your friends, your family, and your co-workers.
Without trust, you’re never going to have the intimate relationship that God wants you to have.
Teamwork without trust is impossible.
Proverbs 20:6 says, “Many people claim to be loyal, but it is hard to find a trustworthy person”. That
was written thousands of years ago, and yet we have the same dilemma today: Who do you trust? How
do you find a trustworthy person? More importantly, how do you become a trustworthy person so that
people trust you?

1. YOU EARN PEOPLE’S TRUST BY BEING CONSISTENT.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much”
Luke 16:10

Today everybody wants to serve God in obvious and showy ways. But God says you build trust by
being faithful in little things. Even when no one is watching you, God is. He sees what you’re doing.
And he says that if you’re faithful in little things, he will give you greater and greater responsibility.

2. YOU EARN PEOPLE’S TRUST BY BEING CONFIDENTIAL.
People trust you when you can keep a secret. One of our rules for squads is that what is said in the
group stays in the group. Your group trusts you to keep private whatever they share.

“A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret.”
Proverbs 11:13

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3. YOU EARN PEOPLE’S TRUST BY BEING CLOSE.
You have to spend time with people in order to earn their trust.

“Friends love through all kinds of weather, and families stick together in all kinds of trouble”
Proverbs 17:17

That implies proximity. Distance creates distrust. You don’t trust people you don’t know! So if you
want people to trust you, you’ve got to spend time with them. Time creates trust.
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Can you be trusted? Will you do your work right even if no one is looking?
• What will you do this week to show God that you can be faithful in the small things?
• Why is it so hard to keep a secret? What is the motivation behind gossip?
• What sacrifices will you have to make so that you can spend time with people and earn their trust?
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1. MORALITY
(Definition: PNP members shall adhere to high standards of morality and decency and shall set good
examples for others to follow. In no instance during their terms of office, among other things, shall they
be involved as owners, operators, managers or investors in any house of ill-repute or illegal gambling den
or other places devoted to vices, nor they shall patronize such places unless on official duty, and tolerate
operations of such establishments in their respective areas of responsibilities. They shall be faithful to
their lawfully wedded spouses.)

W

ARM UP

What do you think are the qualities of an ideal policeman?

W
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“The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore
an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled,
respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a
lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children
submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's
church?”
1 Timothy 3:1-12

ASK:
• If you were to place an advertisement for a Police Supervisor, what are the qualifications that you
will put? Who are the people fit to lead the PNP? What are the qualifications of these great leaders?
• What are the basis of proven moral character and maturity of leaders?

1. ABOVE REPROACH
What does it mean to be above reproach? What the Bible translates as “above reproach” is first a
legal word that indicates a kind of innocence in the eyes of the law. It means that no one can
legitimately rebuke you or make any charges against you that will stick. They may accuse, but your
conduct will eventually acquit you by proving you blameless (“blameless” being a far more common
translation than “above reproach”). Your life is so consistent that your reputation is credible, you
are an example worth following,
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2. MANAGES ONESELF

To be able to manage oneself one must be: sober-minded, practices self-control, hospitality, has the
ability to teach, generous, gentle and kind.

3. MANAGES HOUSEHOLD WELL

Being above-reproach means that you are a husband of one wife (wife of one husband) and that
your children respect you.

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• Looking at your list during the Warm-Up time, which of those qualifications do you possess?
• Which of those qualifications do you wish to improve on yourself?
• What will you do this week to make those necessary changes?

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2. JUDICIOUS USE OF AUTHORITY
(Definition: PNP members shall exercise proper and legitimate use of authority in the performance of
duty.)

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In the conduct of legitimate police operation, can you cite an example wherein carefully used your
legitimate authority?

W
ORD

“Care for the flock that God has entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not grudgingly—not for what
you will get out of it, but because you are eager to serve God. Don’t lord it over the people assigned to
your care, but lead them by your own good example.” 1 Peter 5:2-3

The word “care” is translated as shepherd in other versions of the Bible. A shepherd is one who takes
care of his flock. He looks out for the best for his sheep – provides for them food and water and protects
them from those who are preying on them. In the Bible, the shepherd is the symbol of a leader. A leader
is one bestowed upon with certain authority and his role is not to just to exercise this authority but to
guide, direct, protect, teach and develop the people entrusted to him to lead. As policemen, we were
given the authority to act against criminality and lawlessness in accordance to the law. But how do we
use this authority:

1. LEAD WILLINGLY
Our use of authority is not by compulsion or in accordance to impulse. We lead not because it is
convenient for us but we lead our community because we love people and those that we work with.
We work with diligence True leaders judiciously dispose of their duties even in the midst of danger.
We perform with good judgment and sense with much care.

2. LEAD UNSELFISHLY
The only motive that we have is the love of the work itself. We love to serve the community and the
people that was entrusted to us. One who leads unselfishly is one who leads with his whole heart
and have the willingness to sacrifice one’s own desire in the performance of duty. We lead others
with “professional will” to do what needs to be done. And with “personal humility” to lead with
kindness and gentleness.

3. LEAD BY EXAMPLE
John Maxwell said, “People do what people see.” People don’t follow what we say but they follow
how we lead out lives. We must practice what we teach in the community.
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1. Why did you enter the police force? What motivated you to be part of this organization?
2. How do you think you can balance “professional will” and “personal humility?”

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3. INTEGRITY

(Definition: PNP members shall not allow themselves to be victims of corruption and dishonest practices
in accordance with the provisions of RA 6713 and other applicable laws.)

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Is there a person you admire known as a person of integrity? Why do you say so?

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Whoever walks in integrity walks securely,
but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out. Proverbs 10:9

The integrity of the upright guides them,
but the crookedness of the treacherous destroys them. Proverbs 11:3

Webster describes integrity as “soundness of moral character.” Integrity from a biblical viewpoint has to
do with being morally sound. What does it mean to be morally sound? A person with integrity knows
what is important to God and consistently lives in light of what is important to Him. It involves more
than living our values; it involves subscribing to God’s values and with His help learning to conform our
conduct to those values. Integrity is like the foundation of a house, if it is unstable, the entire house may
come apart when it comes under pressure.

A PERSON OF INTEGRITY...
1. DOES NOT MAKE EXCUSES OR BLAME OTHERS FOR HIS SHORT-COMINGS.

We owe up to our own mistakes and failures and we don’t blame others.

2. HAVE A PROPER MORAL STAND.
Since God is the source of morality, the proper moral standards are based on His character as
revealed in His Word. And God’s standard becomes our standard. In order to do this we must learn
“the fear of the Lord” – we must develop a healthy respect for God. God’s Word must be
effectively assimilated in our heart, mind and conscience so that it will influence our thoughts,
words, actions and attitudes.

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3. DEVELOPS GENUINE HUMILITY.
What you see is what you get. We are not pretending to be someone we are not. A humble person
is a realistic, teachable person.

4. LEARNS THE WISDOM OF BEING PERSONALLY ACCOUNTABLE TO OTHERS.
It takes others to bring out the best in us and we all need accountability partners that serve as an
encouragement and a reality check.

Do you have accountability partners who encourage you and give you a reality check? If not,
who will you approach this week who will act as your accountability partner?

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4. JUSTICE

(Definition: PNP members shall strive constantly to respect the rights of others so that they can fulfill
their duties and exercise their rights as human beings, parents, children, citizens, workers, leaders, or in
other capacities and to see to it that others do likewise.)

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What do you think are your rights as a human being?

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He has told you, O man, what is good;
and what does the Lord require of you
but to do justice, and to love kindness,
and to walk humbly with your God?
Micah 6:8

"Human rights" are those things that people naturally deserve by nature of their identity as human
beings. Human rights are what we should have by nature of being created in the image of God.

1. HUMAN RIGHTS AS OUR GOD-GIVEN LIFESTYLE.
What are our rights as human beings. We have the right to choose to marry. It is our basic human
rights to belong to a family. The opportunity to work is a right and to be part of a group that can
provide us safety and identity.

2. HUMAN RIGHTS ARE GOD-DEFINED JUSTICE.
This category is stronger. Instead of trying to interpret the message of nature, we can see God's
justice in His word. Rights as defined by justice, for the most part, are comprised of ways in which
people should not be victimized.
These rights of justice can be threatened by specific sins. It is sin to murder, steal, insult
someone, kidnap, commit adultery, lie, disrespect one's parents, cheat, ignore the needy, rape, use
worship space for business, attack someone, hold a grudge, and mistreat foreigners. Justice is an
absolute, and God intends that everyone receives it.

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3. HUMAN RIGHTS ARE GOD-DEFINED MERCY.
When speaking of rights in the Bible, God rarely mentions what rights we should demand. Instead,
He tells us what we are responsible for. This is seen in most of the laws on justice, but He also tells
us to go beyond justice and into mercy. In response to Jesus' sacrifice, we are to emulate Him and
extend mercy.

In the Bible, there are very few rights we are given by nature of our status as humans, and any of these
can be taken away by impersonal circumstances. Instead, God focuses on human responsibilities. We
are responsible to enforce justice and extend mercy. If everyone concentrated on what they are
supposed to do, rights wouldn't be an issue. We would receive what we need.

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What acts of kindness can you do this week to show your respect for others?

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5. HUMILITY

(Definition: PNP members shall recognize the fact that they are public servants and not the masters of
the people and towards this end, they should perform their duties without attracting attention or
expecting the applause of others.)

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How would you describe a humble person?

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“And he said to them, “The kings of the Gentiles exercise lordship over them, and those in authority over
them are called benefactors. But not so with you. Rather, let the greatest among you become as the
youngest, and the leader as one who serves. For who is the greater, one who reclines at table or one who
serves? Is it not the one who reclines at table? But I am among you as the one who serves. “
Luke 22:25-26

A public servant with a servant’s heart is a truly invaluable asset, and everyone should seek to adopt this
type of mentality. Often times, we confuse our position with dictatorship. A dictator barks out orders
and does not take into account the wants and needs of others. A public servant is the complete
opposite. A public servant works tirelessly to focused on what they can do for others.

1. DOES NOT SEEK HIS OWN GLORY.
He does not need public approval, position or financial security. He finds joy in being able to serve
others.

2. SEEKS THE HIGHEST JOY OF THOSE HE SERVES.
He makes necessary sacrifices in order to pursue people’s joy and progress. He makes sure that
people knows that he cares genuinely.

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3. CAN FORGO HIS RIGHTS FOR THE SAKE OF THOSE HE SERVES.
A public servant is sometimes willing to make the sacrifice of giving up his own rights in order to
serve others.

4. NOT PREOCCUPIED WITH PERSONAL VISIBILITY AND RECOGNITION.
His motive is not public accolades or visible recognition. He graciously accepts that there are times
when he needs to decrease in order for others to increase.

As public servants, we just need to keep in mind that we are servants first and foremost.


Why do you think it is called “public service”? What does being a “public servant” mean in
practical terms?

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6. ORDERLINESS

(Definition: PNP members shall follow original procedures in accomplishing tasks assigned to them to
minimize waste in the use of time, money and effort.)

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Are you busy? What do you mean that you are busy? How would you describe your day?

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“Let a man so consider us, as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God. Moreover it is
required in stewards that one be found faithful.”
1 Corinthians 4:1-2

"Stewards," or "managers," are responsible over something entrusted to them by someone else. Each
of us are managers of the resources with which God has entrusted us. And what is the principle of
stewardship?

1. THE PRINCIPLE OF OWNERSHIP
“The earth is the LORD'S and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein…” (Psalm
24:1) God owns everything and we are simply managers or administrators acting on his behalf.
Stewardship expresses our obedience regarding the administration of everything God has placed
under our control, which is all encompassing.

2. THE PRINCIPLE OF RESPONSIBILITY
We are called as God’s stewards to manage that which belongs to God. While God has graciously
entrusted us to care, develop and enjoy everything he owns as his stewards, we are responsible to
manage his creation and according to his desires and purposes.

3. THE PRINCIPLE OF ACCOUNTABILITY
A steward is one who manages the possessions of another. Just as we are entrusted by the people
and by those in authority over us, we are all stewards of the resources that God has entrusted to
care. One day, we will be called to give an account for how we managed and administered what was
given to us including our time, money, abilities, information, wisdom, relationships and authority.

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4. THE PRINCIPLE OF REWARD
Faithful stewards who do the Lord’s will with His resources, can expect to be rewarded in this life
and the next.


Knowing that everything that we have is owned by God, what changes will you do to make sure that you
are a good steward of the resources God has entrusted to you?

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7. PERSEVERANCE

(Definition: Once a decision is made, PNP members shall take legitimate means to achieve the goal even
in the face of internal or external difficulties, and despite anything which might weaken their resolve in
the course of time.)

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Can you share your own story of persevering in the midst of difficult circumstances?

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“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of
your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and
complete, lacking in nothing.”
James 1:2

“Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the
crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.”
James 1:12

The definition of perseverance means that a person have a determined continuation in something with
a steady and continued action of being that occurs over a long period of time among people and despite
difficult circumstances. So how do we persevere:

1. BE DETERMINED.
The word determination means “to decide, resolve, be firm and resolute and steadfast in one’s
heart”. We need to focus on the achievement of the goal or mission that have been entrusted to us.

2. BE DETERMINED TO DO THE RIGHT THING.
Our determination is to do the right thing every time in the fulfillment of our mission. We do not
need to make shortcuts or hasten the process but adhere to “due process.” There is a saying that
the end will justify the means but it is not applicable in many situations. If we do the process right
then the process will determine the outcome.

3. BE DETERMINED TO DO YOUR BEST FOR GOD.
Our goal is to please God as He is the rewarder of all good things. If we adhere to His word and His
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teachings then He will ensure that we will be able to accomplish our mission and that we will be
rewarded for doing the right thing. How can we make sure that we are doing our best for God?
• Know more of God.
• Grow in God.
• Serve God and others faithfully.


What is your dream for your life? How determined are you to pursue this dream? What are you doing in
order to fulfill this dream?
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Introduction
Spirituality is not just personal or private. Spirituality, to be genuine, is not to be confined to
private beliefs, private prayers, and private devotions. There is a distinction between mere
piousness and a contemplative spirituality. Spirituality in the workplace is not just a thirty-
second opening prayer to begin a day with no consideration as to the ethics of conducting
business or a moral implication of one’s conduct on others—superiors, peers and subordinates.
One cannot help but shine. A treasure is stored, yes, but a treasure has also to be displayed.
The Gospel exhorts: “You are the light of the world; you are the salt of the earth.” The Lord
Jesus commands his followers to be leaven, to be catalysts and change agents.” Faith is not
meant to be just private but for the public. Spirituality is not merely private but for general
audiences.
Therefore, in terms of work, there is the challenge of generosity. A workplace spirituality is
not just pleased with attaining the minimal output. The worker is aware that he is a humble
servant of the Lord and King. Having this image in mind, one imitates the generosity of God.
The Lord gives abundantly in excess, in overflowing measure His graces and choicest blessings.
Why would he, the grateful servant, economize his service, giving back cheap work? No, the
Christian laborer excels, doing his best, goes beyond what is simply required. God cannot be
outdone in generosity.
Who is the person that can be considered spiritual in the marketplace?
First, the Christian in the marketplace is called by God in the work or business that he or she
is involved in. He or she is called to be a servant leader. He or she is anointed by God to the
marketplace and knows that ultimately, the head of the organization is God. They are most
valuable to the marketplace – in functional terms – by their willingness to follow their call.
Second, a Christian in the marketplace is a person of godly character. Because the central
function of a Christian in the marketplace is to enable people to know, love and serve God with
their entire hearts, minds, souls and strength, the Christian in the marketplace must possess
the personal attributes – the characteristics of the heart and mind through speech and behavior
– that reflect the nature of God.
Third, a Christian in the marketplace must possess functional competencies that allow him
to perform tasks and guide people toward accomplishing the ends of God’s servants. Many
leadership and management literatures focus exclusively on functional competencies. Those
abilities are important, to be sure, but a marketplace Christian who has great technical abilities
and skills, but without God’s call is merely following his personal inclinations. One who lacks
personal attributes that model godly principles will be an ineffective marketplace leader. Of
course, one who does not have the competencies to get the job done will never build the track
record necessary to attract excel and shine in the marketplace.
“Slaves [employees], obey your earthly masters [employers] in everything; and do it, not only
when their eye is on you and to win their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the
Lord. Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since
you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you
are serving.” —Colossians 3:22-25
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1. A SERVANT HEART
Mark 10:35-45
And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came up to him and said to him, “Teacher, we want you to do
for us whatever we ask of you.” And he said to them, “What do you want me to do for you?” And they
said to him, “Grant us to sit, one at your right hand and one at your left, in your glory.” Jesus said to
them, “You do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I drink, or to be baptized
with the baptism with which I am baptized?” And they said to him, “We are able.” And Jesus said to
them, “The cup that I drink you will drink, and with the baptism with which I am baptized, you will be
baptized, but to sit at my right hand or at my left is not mine to grant, but it is for those for whom it has
been prepared.” And when the ten heard it, they began to be indignant at James and John. And Jesus
called them to him and said to them, “You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord
it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you. But
whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must
be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a
ransom for many.”
INTRODUCTION
The society we live in thrives in position-grabbing and thinks that humility is the thing of the past. But
for us, who are serious to grow in our relationship with God, we want to best understand how to follow
Him as we lead others. He is so clear about how he wants us to lead others. He wants us to lead by
serving them.
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Write down the name of the person you greatly admire. Then write down what it is that
causes you to admire that person. Consider the qualities you wrote. Do they have to do with attitude,
aptitude or appearance?

ATTTITUDE APTITUDE APPEARANCE

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Read Mark 10:35-45 and discuss.

1. What was James and John asking Jesus to do for them (Mark 10:35-37; cf. Matthew 20:20-21)?
Have you ever ask anyone or any of your relatives the same favor?
James and John came to Jesus with more of a presumptuous claim rather than a request! When Jesus asked
what that might be, their answer was that they wanted to have the positions of highest honor.

2. What was in their mind why they thought of asking for promotion? Do you sometimes feel that you
deserve to be promoted in your position of work? Why or why not?
The request reveals clearly that before the Crucifixion the disciples believed Jesus to be the Savior; and since it
was now clear that he was going up to Jerusalem, they expected his glory to be revealed there. James and John
wanted to be sure of a prominent place in this about-to-be-realized kingdom.

3. How did Jesus respond to this outlandish request (Mark 10:38)? How would you respond if one of
your staff made a request for promotion?
Jesus told them they did not realize what was involved in their ambitious request. To ask for a place of honor in
His glory was also a request to share His suffering since the one is a requisite to the other.

4. How did the other disciples react when they heard of the brother’s request (Mark 10:41)? Why? If
you were in the position of the disciples and you heard one of your colleagues made such a request,
how would you react? What would you do?
When the ten other disciples discovered what James and John had asked, they were offended and angry. Their
anger and resentment were coming not from a humble motive but from hearts who were also aspiring to grab
top positions. None of the disciples had yet in the least comprehended what Jesus had meant when he spoke
of his passion.

5. What was Jesus’ exhortation towards his disciples who have a premium on position of high honor
rather than humble service (Mark 10:42-44)?
Greatness among Jesus' disciples is based on genuine service. Anyone who wants to be great must become the
"servant." In their times, humility was regarded as a vice. Imagine a slave being given leadership! Jesus' ethics
of the leadership and power in his community of disciples is revolutionary.

6. What was Jesus’ greatest example of having a servant’s heart (Mark 10:45)?
Even Jesus, the Son of Man, is not exempt from the rule of humble service in the kingdom. He is in fact the
epitome of it, especially in his mission. He did not come as a ruler whose every personal whim was to be
catered to by groveling servants, but he came as a servant, giving "his life as a ransom for many."
• In what areas of your life can you relate to the ambition of James and John?
• How do you react to people who are hungry with position of high honor?
• In light of our selecting officials of the country or organization, what kind of leaders should we elect
or select? How can you show servant leadership to the people that you serve?
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2. A SELF-DISCIPLINED LIFE
1 Corinthians 9:24-27
Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may
obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but
we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body
and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.

INTRODUCTION

Christianity involves freedom and self-discipline. Paul’s goal in life was to honor God and bring people
to the lordship of Jesus Christ. But despite his freedom, he strictly disciplined himself in order to fulfill
his cause and not be enticed or sidetracked by the world’s temptations.
God’s grace is sufficient to bless us with salvation. But unknown to many, His grace also teaches
self-discipline in order for us to pursue godly ambitions and dreams.

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Exercise
Choose a partner. Tell your partner a story that happened in the last few days and only use positive
words. Avoid using negative words such as “no”, “never”, “don’t” or other negative words we can use
about people or situations.

Discuss:
• How do you feel about this exercise? Was it difficult for you to avoid using such words?

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Read 1 Corinthians 9:24-27 and discuss.

1. Paul was a free man but what was his preferred position before men to be a better example of his
cause (1 Corinthians 9:19)? Are you a self-disciplined person?
Though free, Paul preferred a life of strict discipline. He chose to be a servant to all in order to reach
his cause...a true witness for Christ.

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2. Because he was focused on his mission, how flexible was his method? How flexible are you in
dealing with individuals from diverse cultures, situations, personalities and attitudes?

When Paul was with the Jews, he became one of them. When he was with the Gentiles who do not
have the Jewish law, he tries to fit in with them as much as he can. In this way, he can gain their
confidence. He did all this to find common ground with everyone so that he might bring them to
Christ.

3. In pursuing his cause, Paul likened it to “running a race.” What was his advice to those who “run in a
race”?
Paul’s advice is that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize and so we also must
run in such a way that you will win.

4. For Paul, what kind of training is involved in winning a race? What kind of sacrifice is necessary?
What are the self-disciplines you need to personally develop in order for you to achieve your life
goals?
Athletes exercise self-control in all things; they do it to receive a perishable wreath, but our prize is
an imperishable one. Paul believes that one must sacrifice as he trains in order to fulfill his cause.
Without a cause, discipline is nothing but punishing oneself. But if one has a cause [like Paul], self-
discipline and sacrifice seems nothing compared to reaching one’s goal.

5. Paul suggests a few virtues to show self-discipline. What are these (1 Corinthians 9:26-27)?
Paul suggests:
a. Do not run like a man running aimlessly (1 Corinthians 9:26a);
b. Do not fight like a man beating the air (1 Corinthians 9:26b);
c. Beat your body and make it your slave (1 Corinthians 9:27a).

These suggestions are so that after he has done his part in fulfilling his cause, he will not be
disqualified.

• What are some important principles Paul taught about self-discipline that you can learn?
• Why do you think is it advantageous to assimilate one’s self with those he regularly relates to?
• What areas in your life that you have shown much self-discipline?
• What areas in your life that you need to improve on your self-discipline?
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3. TEACHABILITY

2 Timothy 1:3-14
As I urged you when I was going to Macedonia, remain at Ephesus so that you may charge certain
persons not to teach any different doctrine, nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies,
which promote speculations rather than the stewardship from God that is by faith. The aim of our charge
is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. Certain persons, by
swerving from these, have wandered away into vain discussion, desiring to be teachers of the law,
without understanding either what they are saying or the things about which they make confident
assertions.
Now we know that the law is good, if one uses it lawfully, understanding this, that the law is not laid
down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and
profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who
practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, in
accordance with the gospel of the glory of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted.

INTRODUCTION
So long as we are teachable, God has always been in the business of giving us what we need in order to
lead. God has equipped us not to be ashamed, but to share in the victories and sufferings. He has
empowered us before He expects from us. We receive His competence before He give us His
commands.
Paul reminded Timothy that God did not give him the timidity that he sometimes feels (maybe
coming from his personal background or Satan’s way to weaken his leadership). Instead, Paul reminded
Timothy of what God has given him (i.e., power, love and sound mind) and the message he is tasked to
proclaim. But Paul had to help Timothy develop a teachable heart.
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What have you recently learned from a person you look up to? From a book you have been reading?
From an experience you have gone through?
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READ 2 Timothy 1:2-14 and discuss.

1. What did Paul call Timothy (2 Timothy 1:2)? What was their relationship?
Paul shared the gospel to Timothy and even called him his beloved son. Timothy had been his
travelling companion. Their relationship has evolved from being a father-son to a mentor-mentee.

2. What was Paul committed to do for his student, Timothy (2 Timothy 1:3-5)?
Paul prayed for Timothy night and day, thanking God for Timothy’s genuine faith; he also wishes to
see him in order to intimately discuss how to grow as a follower of Christ and as a leader for Christ.

3. How did Paul encourage Timothy to become teachable? Where did Timothy first learned to have
genuine faith in God (2 Timothy 1:5)?
Paul encouraged Timothy to be teachable when he reminded him how teachable both his mother
Eunice and his grandmother Lois were in the faith.

4. What did Paul remind Timothy to further enhance his and service for God (2 Timothy 1:6-7)?
Paul reminded Timothy to fan into flames the spiritual gift God gave him when Paul gave him
blessings as he laid his hands on him. He emphasized that God did not give Timothy a spirit of fear
and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.

5. What did Paul ask Timothy to do and what should be his timeless message (2 Timothy 1:8-12)?
Paul advised Timothy never to be ashamed to tell others about his mission. And he also reminded
Timothy not to be ashamed of him, either.

6. What should Timothy do in order to recall what was taught to him by Paul and by whose power
should he depend on (2 Timothy 1:13-15)?
What Timothy has heard from Paul he is to keep as the "pattern of sound teaching." But this was to
be done "with faith and love in Christ Jesus." The only way to keep doctrine is to both live and
proclaim it with faith and love.
• What are the ways you are harnessing a teachable attitude?

• Identify areas in your life you would like to grow and mature in?
• Who is your “Paul?” Who is your mentor? If you don’t have one, are you looking for a mentor –
someone who is a teacher and confidant for you?
• Who is your “Timothy? Who is your mentee? If you don’t have one, are you looking for one? Is
there a young person that you are mentoring or teaching what you are doing?
• How are you engaging in an ongoing personal leadership development?

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4. HONESTY

A false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is his delight.
Proverbs 11:1
From the fruit of his mouth a man is satisfied with good,
and the work of a man's hand comes back to him.
Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence, but a false witness utters deceit.
Proverbs 12:14,17

INTRODUCTION
Solomon had much to say about speaking the truth. He also talks about the results of lies — its
abusive and abrasive power as well as its power to explain, exonerate and exalt. Special perils lie in wait
for those who speak dishonestly. Many sins are sins of speaking dishonestly. People in the workplace
are always put to the acid test of telling the truth or compromising it with the desire to make easy
money in business or simply to safe-guard them from the ugly truth.
Selecting from some verses of Proverbs, we can learn that honesty (i.e., speaking the truth) is a
reflection of what is godly and righteous while being dishonest (i.e., speaking lies and deceit) shows a
person who does not respect God and only pursues selfish gains.
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GAME TIME
Each person in the group introduces himself or herself. Tell three things to describe yourself. Two of
the description should be the truth and the one should be a lie. Then the rest of the group will guess
which one is the truth and which one is a lie.

DISCUSS
• What description was difficult for you to say – the truth about yourself or the lie? Why?
• What was difficult to guess about another person – the truth or the lie? Why?

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Read the various verses and discuss.

1. What were the “dishonest scales” and “honest weights” referred to during Solomon’s time
(Proverbs 11:1; 16:11; 20:10, 23)?
These references on scales and weights have to do with honesty in business. Honesty pleases the
Lord. Whatever the Lord "abhors" must be avoided. Thus to be accepted by God in one's
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transactions, one must deal honestly. (see: Proverbs 16:11; 20:10, 23).

2. What does a righteous person dwell upon compared to a wicked one (Proverbs 12:5)? What does
he feed his mind with?
The thoughts of the righteous are just. Righteous people feed their minds with what is moral,
honest, honorable and decent. On the other hand, the counsels of the wicked are deceitful. Their
intentions are dishonest, fraudulent, cheating and devious.

3. Looking at specific verses in chapter 12, what will a person gain as he speaks truthfully (Proverbs
12:14, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22)?
• He will be filled with many good things [just as the work of his/her hands also gives many
benefits] (Proverbs 12:14).
• He who does not water-down his words but tells it like it is will gain not just good health but a
healthy perspective in life (Proverbs 12:18).
• He who has truthful lips will always speak both timeless and timely words (Proverbs 12:19).
• He will fill his heart with joy even in the face of evil (Proverbs 12:20).
• He will also be protected in times of trouble (Proverbs 12:21).
• He will be a delight to God (Proverbs 12:22).

4. What does honesty say about giving sworn testimony (Proverbs 12:17)?
An honest person will testify of the truth he has witnessed. He will not be bribed by anyone. He will
not add or subtract anything from what he has seen and heard. He will not be influenced by
anything or anyone. He will call spade a spade. It’s as if he is sworn in the court of law, he swears
“…to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.”

5. What does it say about money coming from dishonesty (Proverbs 13:11)?
Wealth from get-rich-quick schemes quickly disappears; wealth from hard work grows. There is
prosperity through honest investment. Steady and wise investment produces prosperity. But if the
riches come quickly through some unfounded or dishonest means, one could lose them just as easily.

• When and where does your honesty get tried and tested?
• Why is it difficult to stand for the truth and be a “whistle-blower?”
• What has been your experience when you spoke the truth? How about when you have been
dishonest?
• Memorize the Rotary 4-Way Test and consciously apply it in your everyday decisions.
- Is it the TRUTH?
- Is it FAIR to all concerned?
- Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?
- Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?
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5. SPIRITUAL DEPTH
Proverbs 4:1-27

Hear, O sons, a father's instruction,
and be attentive, that you may gain insight,
for I give you good precepts;
do not forsake my teaching.
When I was a son with my father,
tender, the only one in the sight of my mother,
he taught me and said to me,
“Let your heart hold fast my words;
keep my commandments, and live.
Get wisdom; get insight;
do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth.
Do not forsake her, and she will keep you;
love her, and she will guard you.
The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom,
and whatever you get, get insight.
Proverbs 4:1-7
INTRODUCTION
People who make significant impact in their organization do not merely react to their culture; they base
their practice on timeless principles from God’s Word. They remain relevant because they are not just
aware of cultural context and current events, but they also fuse it [or even correct it when necessary]
with timeless truths. Proverbs 4 encourages workers to become spiritually-adept and acquire wisdom
from Scriptures.
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What is your favorite proverb, truism or axiom? What is one wisdom saying that you learned from your
parents or grandparents? How has this wisdom saying helped you in your life right now?
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Read Proverbs 4:1-27 and discuss.

1. Where does spiritual depth begin (Proverbs 4:1-3, 11)? Whose initial responsibility is it to provide?
Why is spiritual depth important in the type of work you are doing right now?
Though all spiritual depth ultimately comes from God, it is initiated by parents to their children as it is their
greatest responsibility. Solomon tells of how his father encouraged him to seek after wisdom (cf. 1 Chronicles
28). This may have prompted Solomon to ask for wisdom above all else (1 Kings 3:9).

2. What are the benefits of having spiritual depth, i.e., wisdom (Proverbs 4:4-9)?
• It brings long and happy life (Proverbs 4:4b, The Living Bible)
• It brings protection (Proverbs 4:5-6)
• It brings honor (Proverbs 4:7-9)

3. Can spiritual depth be acquired once? How can a person search and gain wisdom (Proverbs 4:5-7,
13)? What is the kind of wisdom needed by a worker in a MED project?
Acquiring spiritual depth is a decision that a leader has to make. It takes resolve, an everyday determination to
search and gain it, and fortitude not to abandon it when things become difficult or the temptation to go the
easy route is there. This is not a one-time act but a daily process of choosing from two paths—the wicked
(Proverbs 4:14-17) and the wise (Proverbs 4:18-19).

4. What is Solomon’s advice against worldliness (Proverbs 4:14-19)?
Those that lead ought not to do evil nor follow the way of evildoers. Avoid where they go. Turn away and go
somewhere else, for evil people cannot sleep until they have done their evil deed for the day. They cannot rest
unless they have caused someone to stumble. They delight in wickedness and violence! The way of the wise
(i.e., righteous) is so radiant, people around it either will be impressed or blinded. But the way of the wicked is
always about complete darkness. Those who follow it have no idea what they are stumbling over.

5. How can spiritual depth (i.e., wisdom) be a tool that can be used (Proverbs 4:21-23)? How can you
use it in your PNP work?
• They are a tremendous source of guidance. They help people stay on the right direction (Proverbs 4:21).
• They are a mighty guard. They keep the hearts and bodies protected (Proverbs 4:22).
They are a sensible gauge. They enable people to evaluate where their attitudes and dispositions are and
•
should be (Proverbs 4:23).

• What are the spiritual depth and wisdom you have acquired from your parents? If none, why do you
think so?
• What are you an expert of right now?
• How can you have the same passion on those expertise with knowing God and gaining His wisdom?
What do you have to do?
• What worldly attractions should you guard your heart from?
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6. HUMILITY

Deuteronomy 8:1-20

The whole commandment that I command you today you shall be careful to do, that you may live and
multiply, and go in and possess the land that the Lord swore to give to your fathers. And you shall
remember the whole way that the Lord your God has led you these forty years in the wilderness, that he
might humble you, testing you to know what was in your heart, whether you would keep his
commandments or not.
Deuteronomy 8:1-2

INTRODUCTION
C.H. Spurgeon once said, “Man has the choice to either humble himself or be humbled.” Humility has
always been the less-chosen alternative in society of olden times as well as at present. Man’s inclination
has been to demand his rights and privileges; promote himself without God’s or the people’s approval;
create a public perception that he is distinguished, influential, deserves to be honored and a person who
reached all his accomplishments all by himself. He can be guilty of not recognizing that all of who he is
and what he has and accomplished come from God.
“I did it my way and all by myself” are the most accepted and practiced norms of society. They
are modelled by the popular and influential people. But in God’s economy, they are mere deceptions
and deficiencies. In this day and age where self-promotion and seeking reciprocity are the paradigm for
worldly success, God calls us back to the benchmark of genuine faith and total dependence upon Him—
HUMILITY.
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1. What are the major milestones in your life? (Let each group member identify two to three
milestones in their life)
2. Who helped you reach those milestones? How did they help you?

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Read Deuteronomy 8:1-20 and discuss.

1. As Moses recalled the Israelites’ experience in the wilderness:
a. How long did it take the Israelites to reach the Promised Land (Deuteronomy 8:2a)? How
long could it have taken them?
What could have taken them one week took them forty years to reach.

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b. What were God’s purposes to let them go through that wilderness experience
(Deuteronomy 8:2b)? What is your own wilderness experience that you experience?
The LORD their God led them through the wilderness for forty years, humbling them and testing them
to prove their character, and to find out whether or not they would really obey His commands.

c. Why did God choose to humble them (Deuteronomy 8:3, 5)? How does God sometimes
humble you?
God humbled them by letting them go hungry and then feeding them with manna, a food previously
unknown to them and their ancestors. He did it to teach the Israelites that people need more than
bread for their life; real life comes by feeding on every word of the LORD…So they should realize that
just as a parent disciplines a child, the LORD their God disciplines them to help them.

d. How did God sustain them (Deuteronomy 8:4)? How does God sustain you and your needs?
For all those forty years in the wilderness their clothes didn’t wear out, and their feet didn’t blister or
swell. They were provided what they need.

2. As they humbly keep God’s commandments, to walk in His ways and to fear him, what was
promised to the Israelites (Deuteronomy 8:6-10)?
As they obey the commands of the LORD their God by walking in his ways and fearing Him, the LORD their God
will bring the Israelites into a good land of flowing streams and pools of water, with springs that gush forth in
the valleys and hills That is why when they have eaten their fill, they ought to praise the LORD their God for the
good land He has given them.

3. What should the Israelites beware of becoming and of doing (Deuteronomy 8:11-17)?
The Israelites ought to be aware that in their plenty they do not forget the LORD their God and disobey his
commands, regulations, and laws. For when they have become full and prosperous and have built fine homes
to live in, and when their flocks and herds have become very large and their silver and gold have multiplied
along with everything else, they might just forget God.

4. As far as where they got their provisions from and how they will be provided in the present and
future, what did the LORD tell them (Deuteronomy 8:18)? How can you convey to your clients that
God will always provide for their needs? What is the relation of this verse to your work in PNP?
They should always remember that it is the LORD their God who gave them the power to become rich, and He
did it to fulfill the covenant He made with Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

5. What will happen the moment they become proud and arrogant seeking self-promotion and seeking
reciprocity (Deuteronomy 8:19-20)? How can you convey this verse to your clients that when God
provides for their needs through MED?
If ever they forget the LORD their God and follow other gods, worshiping and bowing down to them, they will
certainly be destroyed. Just as the LORD has destroyed other nations in their path, they also will be destroyed
for not obeying the LORD their God. All of these prophecies actually took place and the moment they reached
the Promised Land.
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• Why is arrogance accepted in today’s society? Why do many people struggle to be humble?
• What areas in your life have you forgotten to recognize the providence and provision of God?
• What are some ways to balance confidence in the Lord and remaining modest? How do you prevent
yourself from thinking and feeling “I did it my way and all by myself?”
• Who do you struggle to show humility to? Why? How can you humble yourself before this person
as if you are doing for God?

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COMMITMENT
Genesis 6:1-22

INTRODUCTION
Noah is a popular character in the Bible. He is popular because he accomplished one of the most unique
and amazing tasks ever heard of in the Bible. His story might be well-known but what is mostly
overlooked is the realization that being able to do what God had commanded Noah required a “never
quit” attitude.

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Read the poem “Never Quit.”

When things go wrong Life is hard You never can tell
and sometimes they will during its twists and turns how close you are
when the road you are struggling as everyone of us it may be near
in Sometimes learns and still seem so far
Is a twisted hill
And many a failure Stick to the fight
When you need help will turn about when at your hardest hit
and the debts are high, when we might have won its when things seem worse
you want to smile Had we stuck it out That you must never quit
But you have to sigh
Never give up
When care is pressing though the pace seems slow
you down a bit you just may succeed
rest if you must With another blow
But never quit

Share in the group. Can you relate to the poem? Why or why not?
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Read Genesis 6:1-22 and discuss.

1. Who was Noah? How is he described (Genesis 6:8-10; 7:6)? Can the same be said of you – righteous,
blameless and walks before God? Why or Why not?
Noah is described as a “righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked with
God” (Genesis 6:9). He also had three sons: Shem, Ham and Japheth. He was 600 years old.
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2. Describe the times Noah lived in (Genesis 6:1-5, 11-12; cf. Matthew 24:38)? Are there similar
situations that you see now in our modern times? What are the evils that we see in our world
today?
The earth is described as “corrupt” and “full of violence” (Genesis 6:11). During this time the “sons of
God” intermarried with the “daughters of men” (Genesis 6:4) and their offspring, the Nephilims (a
word that connotes the meaning “giant”), were known as “heroes of old, men of renown” (Genesis
6:4).

3. How did God intend to resolve man’s wickedness (Genesis 6:13-17)?
God told Noah He would “put an end to all people” (Genesis 6:13) and the earth. He would
accomplish this by a flood that would “destroy all life under the heavens” or “every creature that has
the breath of life in it” (Genesis 6:17). The flood was massive that everything on earth would perish”
(Genesis 6:17). So He instructed Noah to build an ark—a gigantic boat

4. What was Noah’s special role in God’s plan in resolving man’s wickedness (Genesis 6:18-21)? What
do you think is your role in God’s plan in resolving evil in this world?
God established His covenant with Noah. Noah and his family—his wife, his three sons, Shem, Ham
and Japheth, and their wives—would enter the ark along with “two of all living creatures, male and
female” (Genesis 6:19) which they would keep alive. Also, Noah would bring “every kind of food”
(Genesis 6:21) for their needs as well as the animals.

5. How did Noah respond to God’s covenant with him (Genesis 6:22; 7:5)? What qualities enabled him
to do this?
Noah did “everything just as God commanded him. Since Noah “walked with God” (Genesis 6:9) he
knew the God behind the command. He personally and intimately knew a God who was Sovereign
and in control of every single detail of his life. He knew that God would not plan something without a
purpose that did not glorify Him in the end. He knew that God would command, equip, sustain and
complete.

6. What does Noah’s attitude and response to God, in light of the difficulty of the task assigned to him,
tell us? Are we like Noah who will be committed to our task even if it seems difficult? What is the
most difficult task for you in your area of work?
Placing all the facts we discussed into perspective, this is the most likely scenario then. God had
asked Noah to build an extremely large ship in the midst of perverse times. Since Noah and his family
were the only ones considered righteous in their generation, they would have been the only ones
working to build the ark. Given the size of the ark, this could not be kept secret from the community
who most likely mocked them as they worked on it. Yet Noah did everything just as God commanded
him. He was indeed a righteous man who walked with God since he did not waver in doing every
detail of what God wanted him to do.
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• In your opinion, how would people describe you? Would they describe you as committed or
persevering? Why or why not?
• In what situations do you feel like giving up? Work? Family? Friends? Personal struggles? What
enables you to hold on?
• What was the most difficult thing the Lord asked you to do? How did you respond? Would your
response reflect commitment to the Lord and His commands? Why or why not?
• What are some possible reasons that hinder people from being committed to God? How could we
deal with these causes?

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8. PATIENCE

Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly.
Proverbs 14:29

A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.
Proverbs 15:18

Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty,
and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.
Proverbs 16:32

INTRODUCTION
The word “patience” or “patient” appears forty-four times in the New International Version of the Bible.
It is a well-known virtue but is oftentimes viewed as elusive or impossible to achieve. The impatient
man’s prayer is said to sound like this, “Lord, grant me patience... NOW!” That may seem funny, but
most of us have said that prayer, if not with our mouths then most likely with our hearts, at least once.
Let us then learn short, pithy but impactful sayings from the book of Proverbs that will guide us in
developing this desirable quality.

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Ask each person in the group what he or she would feel in the following situations:
1. Waiting at the end of the line to buy your food when you are quite hungry.
2. Having been told for the fifth time that the plumber is on his way to your house to fix your
leaking pipe.
3. Re-reading an SMS text message that said “I’m almost there!” which was sent two hours ago.

Read the quotation below.

“Patience is not the ability to wait,
but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.”

Ask the participants, “What does the quotation say about your attitude of patience?” Allow the
participants to share their thoughts.
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Read Proverbs 19:11; 14:29; 15:18; 16:32; 25:15 and discuss.

1. What is the relationship between wisdom and patience (Proverbs 19:11)? Why does wisdom bring
forth patience?
Wisdom grants the person insight and discernment to do what is right in the best manner. This wisdom was
best displayed by Solomon (1 Kings 4:29). Wisdom begets patience since the proper insight into a situation
allows that person the knowledge of the best option needed for the given situation. And since the person is
wise, he would choose to follow the best option even if this would entail sacrifice.

2. Does being patient always require overlooking an offense (Proverbs 19:11b; cf. Matthew 6:15;
18:21-35)? Is it possible to exercise patience and at the same time rebuke or correct the mistake of
others? Why or why not? What “glory” does a patient man receive?
Overlooking an offense requires forgiving the person for the offense—a command by God in Matthew 6:15.
Forgiveness is not an option but rather a direct order which we should obey. Forgiveness, however, does not
imply condoning sin (e.g., John 8:7) since repentance is required (cf. 2 Corinthians 7:10) for forgiveness to be
fulfilled.

3. A patient man likewise possesses what virtue (Proverbs 14:29; 15:18)? Who is his opposite? Why do
you think this is so?
A patient man enjoys “great understanding” (Proverbs 14:29) and “calms a quarrel” (Proverbs 15:18). On the
other hand, an impatient man is unwise or with “folly” (Proverbs 14:29) and is “quick” or “hot” tempered. His
inability to rationale (and understand the situation) probably before speaking or acting often “stirs up
dissension” (Proverbs 15:18).

4. How valuable is patience? With whom is a patient man compared to (Proverbs 16:32)? Are you one
person who is able to control your anger? What do you do whn you angry?
A patient man is “better” than a warrior. The ability to control one’s temper is considered a better feat than
the ability to conquer a city.

5. How can a person use patience to persuade someone (Proverbs 25:15)? Does a person always need
to be patient in persuading someone? Why or why not?
Patience allows a person willingness to wait and hope while waiting. Persuading someone to change his mind,
which will consequently lead to a change in heart and action, would definitely entail a process over a certain
period of time. Thus, willingness to wait for the completion of this process and hope that this process will
eventually be completed motivates the person who experiences life transformation. So it is affirmative that we
need to be patient if we want to persuade someone who would own that change in his or her life.

6. What does “a gentle tongue can break a bone” mean (Proverbs 25:15)? What are examples of a
person with a “gentle tongue”?
People with a gentle tongue are most often those who release words that build up rather than tear down. Even
if they criticize, they do so in a constructive (not destructive) manner that challenges and encourages the
person to seek ways to change. Thus the “gentle tongue” breaks even bone or the hardest of hearts.

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7. In summary, what virtues support the development of patience?
A person with wisdom, great understanding and a gentle tongue are qualities that likewise reveal patience.
Moreover, the ability to control one’s temper and forgive others aids in the development of patience.
• What or who do you believe is your greatest temptation to becoming impatient? How often are you
in these situations? How do you usually respond?
• On a scale of 1 to 5, with 5 being the highest, rate yourself on the following virtues or
characteristics:
- Wisdom
- Great understanding
- Gentle tongue
- Control over one’s temper
- Easily forgives others
• What would enable you to score a 5 for each rating?
• Memorize: Ecclesiastes 7:8 “The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better
than pride.” Every time your patience is tested, keep this verse in mind, reminding yourself that the
outcome of the situation will always determine if we have been faithful in following Christ’s example
of showing patience.

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9. VALUES DRIVEN

2 Timothy 2:14-26

Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed,
rightly handling the word of truth.
2 Timothy 2:15

INTRODUCTION
Everyone is motivated by something. Whether we are aware of it or not, we think, feel and act based on
a combination of factors. Case in point is how you work. If your work is excellent, most likely you believe
(thinking) your work should be executed in the best manner and you love your work! You are driven by
love for excellence! On the other hand, if your work is mediocre or distasteful, you most probably think
that any kind of work will do and, thus, you are indifferent with the outcome. In this case, you may be
driven by love for the easy life. You don’t want to exert more effort so you need not be inconvenienced.
So the question for everyone is what drives you? Does this honor the Lord? Does it bring out best in
you?

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Write the following values on small pieces of paper. There should be only one value on a piece of paper.

1. Kind 11. Disciplined
2. Generous 12. Loving
3. Patient 13. Wise
4. Optimistic 14. Faithful
5. Committed 15. Self-controlled
6. Reliable 16. Thoughtful
7. Trustworthy 17. Compassionate
8. Humble 18. Knowledgeable
9. Honest 19. Strong
10. God-fearing 20. Joyful

Attach masking or double-sided tape at the back of each piece of paper. Distribute the pieces of paper
with values to each of the participants. Ask them read the values assigned to them and to tape the value
on the back of the person they believe best possesses it. The goal is to post all values on someone in the
group. When all of the values have been posted on the participants, allow the participants to share. Ask:
How do you feel about the values posted on your back? Do you agree or disagree with them? Why or
why not? (If no value was posted on your back, ask: How do you feel that no one posted any of the
values on your back? Why do you think did the other participants feel this way towards you?)
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Read 2 Timothy 2:14-26 and discuss.

1. The passage describes a “workman” that honors the Lord. Let us set the context of who these
workers are (2 Timothy 2:1-6). What were they asked to do? With who were they compared to?
These people are the “reliable men” that Timothy would entrust to pass on Paul’s teachings to him. As teachers
who influenced others, they would be leaders in their community. Their diligence to do their task should be like
that of a “good soldier” whose primary desire is to please his commanding officer, an “athlete” who plays by
the rules or a “hardworking farmer” who is sure to receive a portion of what he exerted for.

2. What are specific items that a leader should NOT do (2 Timothy 2:14)? What do these things result
to? What motivates a person to do these “ungodly” things?
Paul cites specific items that leaders of the Lord should not do. In fact, before he mentions these guidelines, he
tells Timothy to “keep reminding them” which implies the importance of the matter and the tendency to forget
about them. Top on the list is the warning against “quarreling about words” which only “ruins those who
listen”. Related to the first guideline is to “avoid godless chatter” which only results to becoming “more and
more ungodly”. A person can be driven by many desires to become ungodly, but “the cravings of sinful man,
the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does” are desires of the world not God.

3. What are specific items that a leader SHOULD do? What do these things result to? What motivates a
person to do these “godly” things?
Conversely, leaders should “present [themselves] to God as one approved” who “does not need to be ashamed”
and who “correctly handles the word of truth”.

4. What articles are leaders compared to? What are the purposes of their articles? How does a leader
become fully useful for the Lord’s service?
Leaders are compared to articles of gold, silver, wood, clay with different purposes—some “noble” and some
“ignoble”. This indicates the diversity of backgrounds, personalities, talents and skills of people. However, if a
person cleanses himself/herself from dishonorable purposes “he will be an instrument for noble purposes,
made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work.”

5. What are ignoble or shameful purposes that a leader should flee from? Where do these
dishonorable purposes come from?
Dishonorable desires stem from an “evil” heart. People who are motivated or driven with these desires figure in
“foolish and stupid arguments” that only result in quarrels with others.

6. What are noble or godly purposes that a leader should embrace? Where do these honorable
purposes come from? How does embracing the values of a pure heart bring out the best in a person
as well as honor God?
In contrast to ignoble purposes, honorable desires stem from a “pure” heart. A leader with a pure heart
pursues “righteousness, faith, love and peace” with other leaders of the same motive and drive. They are “kind
to everyone, able to teach, not resentful”. If anyone opposes him, he must “gently instruct” with an optimistic
perspective that “God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth”. This means that
leaders who serve with a pure heart see the best in other people, even those who “oppose” them since they
have hope in God that these people “will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has
taken them captive to do his will”.
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• Divide a ½ bond paper into two. Draw a heart on each half of the paper. Shade the inside area of
one of the hearts. That will represent your evil heart and the other one will represent your pure
heart. Under the shaded heart, list personal characteristics, desires, longings that have caused your
heart to at times be evil. Example, you could list pride, greed.
• Under your pure heart, list five (5) values that would enable you to keep your heart close to God.
These are values you commit to adhere to in every situation and for the rest of your life. For each of
the value, complete this statement: “I treasure (value). I am showing (value) when…” Example: I
treasure love. I am showing love when I put others before myself.
• Keep your paper with two hearts inside your Bible or journal to remind you of your commitment to
the Lord to reveal a values-driven life.

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10. OPTIMISM

And the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered my servant Job, that there is none like him on the
earth, a blameless and upright man, who fears God and turns away from evil?” Job 1:8

INTRODUCTION
Optimism is defined as “a general disposition to expect the best in all things”. This is easily accomplished
if you are in the best of health, your family members are well and together, work is productive, friends
are extremely supportive and you can’t remember the last time you worried about anything. But
optimism blooms best in a field of loss, abandonment, sickness, ridicule and even death. It would then
be wise to learn this value from the life of Job who even in the most trying times of his life experienced
optimism or hope.
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Participants must come up with an optimistic remark for each of the situations below. For example:
• Situation: You failed a major subject in school.
• Optimistic remark: God wants me to exercise more discipline in studying and He wants me to fully
understand this specific topic.
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Read Job 1:2-10, 42:12-17 and discuss.
1. Who is Job (Job 1:1-3)? Describe his character, family and wealth.
Job lived in Uz, a part of Arabia. He is described as “blameless” (sincere in his intentions and diligent to perform
all his duties to God and men), “upright” (exact in all his dealings with men), “feared God” (devoted to the
Lord) and “shunned evil” (carefully avoided all sin against God or men). Given his character, he would most
likely be a well-respected man in the community. He was the father of seven sons and three daughters. He was
also a wealthy man with vast possessions which included 7,000 sheep, 3,000 camels, 500 yoke of oxen and 500
donkeys as well as a “large number of servants”. Given his character, reputation and wealth, Job was
considered the “greatest man among all the people of the East”.

2. What happened to Job (Job 1:6-19)? What was his first test? What happened to his family and
wealth? Why was this the focus of his testing?
Job went through two of the most excruciating tests any human being could possibly encounter. His trials were
a result of tests between the Lord and Satan. His first test came after the angels and Satan presented
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themselves to the Lord. The Lord then mentioned Job as having no equal (“there is no one on earth like him”)
because of his being “blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil”. Satan then challenged God
to “strike everything [Job] has and he will surely curse you to your face”. For Satan, Job’s character was hinged
on the blessings from the Lord. He believed that if God took away these blessings such as his wealth, servants
and family, Job would no longer be a man of integrity.
God then allowed Satan to do anything he wanted to do with Job, but to ensure his life was spared.

3. What was Job’s second test (Job 2:1-10)? Why was this the focus of his testing?
Job’s second test and in spite of Job’s loss of possessions and death of his children “he still maintains his
integrity”. Satan then challenged God to “strike his flesh and bones and he will surely curse you to his face”.
Satan assumed that “a man will give all he has for his own life”. Once again, the Lord allowed Satan to do
whatever he pleased as long as Job’s life would be spared. Thus with the Lord’s permission, Satan afflicted Job
with “painful sores from the soles of his feet to the top of his head”.

4. How did Job respond to these tests (Job 1:20-22, 2:10)? Given the loss of his family and wealth, did
his character remain the same?
Upon hearing about the death of his children, Job “got up and tore his robe and shaved his head”. What he did next speaks
of the character of this man. He then “fell to the ground in worship”. Worship? God is right. Truly one who is “blameless
and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil” can do what Job did. Job then exclaimed “The Lord gave and the Lord
has taken away, may the name of the Lord be praised”. How did Job’s story end (Job 42:10-17)? Are these results certain of
everyone who remains puts their hope in the Lord?
After Job passed his ordeal, “the Lord made him prosperous again and gave him twice as much as he had before”. The
community around him “comforted and consoled” him by dining with him and bringing “a piece of silver and a gold ring”.
At the latter part of Job’s life, God blessed him even more. He now had 14,000 sheep, 6,000 camels, 1,000 yoke of oxen and
1,000 donkeys. He was also blessed with another seven sons and three daughters, whose beauty was incomparable in “all
the land”. Job also granted his daughters inheritance just like their brothers, a practice that was unheard of in Jewish
traditions. Job then lived for 140 years and was able to see his children and grandchildren to the fourth generation. He died
at a ripe age and “full of years”.

5. What comforting truths can we derive from Job’s tests and suffering that would help us become
optimistic? These truths can be gleaned not by looking at the intensity in the midst of these tests
but by taking into consideration the “author,” reason and promise of these tests.
The tests Job experienced were unimaginable. The pain would have been unbearable. But God knew Job. He
knew his character. He would not have singled him out to present to Satan if He wasn’t certain of Job’s
character. In the same way, God knows us. He has plans that prosper and give us a future (cf. Jer. 29:11). He
prays for us that our faith may remain strong in Him (cf. Luke 22:31). And He has promised that He would not
allow us to go through anything that is beyond what we can bear.


• Have you ever felt like Job? Why?
• How did you respond to the situation? What, who or where did you anchor your hope on? What
helped in providing you a positive outlook on your situation? Conversely, what did not help? Why
did these ways help or not help you become optimistic?
• Commit to mind or write on a piece of paper this promise from the Lord that you can readily claim
to give you hope - “Those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings
like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Isaiah 40:31
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11. RELIABLE
The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it.

1 Thessalonians 5:24

INTRODUCTION
A reliable person shows consistency in character, quality and performance. Thus a doctor is reliable in
diagnosing and curing diseases. A farmer is reliable in causing plants to grow and bear fruit. A teacher is
reliable in molding minds and transforming lives. A businessman is reliable in creating profit. Everyone is
reliable for doing something. The question though is if we are reliable to create value and do good or
have we been consistent in destroying and tearing down? Let us learn valuable lessons on consistency
from two men—one who was rejected by God and the other who was approved by Him.
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Share this short story to the group.

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, “Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that
you don't fall into the river.”
The little girl said, “No, Dad. You hold my hand.”
“What's the difference?” Asked the puzzled father.
“There's a big difference,” replied the little girl. “If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what
happens, you will never let my hand go.”

Share in the group. Why did the little girl choose to rely on her father than on herself? What are
qualities that make people reliable?

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Read I Samuel 15:1-11 and 30:1-31 and discuss.

1. What was the situation in Israel at this time (I Samuel 15:1-3)? Who did the Lord want destroyed
and why?
Israel was now under the governance of their first king, Saul, the tall, impressive Benjamite. The Lord
commanded King Saul to “totally destroy everything that belongs to them”. No one and nothing should be
spared as he was commanded to “put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels
and donkeys”.

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2. How did King Saul carry out the commands of the Lord concerning the Amalekites (I Samuel 15:4-9)?
Would you describe King Saul as reliable (cf. 1 Samuel 13)? Why or why not?
God’s commands for King Saul were clear—“totally destroy everything that belongs to them. Do not spare
them” (1 Samuel 15:3). However, King Saul chose not to obey God. Thus he did not prove himself reliable to
execute what God wanted. This is not the first time Saul disobeyed God when he took upon himself the role of
the prophet Samuel, which led to the downfall of his kingdom. This shows the consistency of Saul’s
disobedience to God.

3. How did the Lord and Samuel feel towards King Saul’s disobedience (I Samuel 15:10-11)?
The Lord said to Samuel, “I am grieved that I have made Saul king, because he has turned away from me and
has not carried out my instructions" (I Samuel 15:11a). Upon hearing this, Samuel was “troubled, and he cried
out to the LORD all that night”.

4. How did King David respond to the situation (I Samuel 30:6b-20)? Would you describe King David as
reliable (cf. 1 Samuel 23)? Why or why not?
Given that King David was “distressed” (1 Samuel 30:6b) and his men were contemplating killing him, it is
inspiring to know that “David found strength in the LORD his God”. David then called Abiathar the priest, the
son of Ahimelech to bring the ephod, a sacred vestment originally designed for the high priest (cf. Exodus 28:4,
39:2) so he could inquire of the Lord if they should pursue the Amalekites or not. When God confirmed that
David and his men would succeed in their pursuit and attack of the Amalekites, David and 600 soldiers went in
pursuit.
God commanded King David to pursue the Amalekites. In spite of their grief and exhaustion, David and
400 men pushed through and indeed were successful. This is not the first time that David obeyed the Lord
when David attacked the Philistines and was commanded to save only the people of Keilah. This shows the
consistency of David’s obedience to God.

5. Aside from being consistent in obeying God’s commands, King David also consistently displayed
other honorable traits (I Samuel 30:21-31)? How are these traits evident in the way he dealt with his
success over the Amalekites?
When King David and the 400 men, along with all the plunder they recovered from the Amalekites, returned to
Besor Ravine where they left the 200 men who were too exhausted to continue, the “evil men and
troublemakers among David's followers” suggested that these 200 men only take home their wives and
children but not share in the plunder. However, David rebuked the troublemakers by reminding them that it
was the Lord who protected them and “handed over to us the forces that came against us”. Thus, the men who
fought at battle “all share alike” with the men who stayed with the supplies. In fact King David made this rule a
“statute and ordinance” for Israel. These character traits of generosity, compassion and selflessness reveal a
leader who relies and acknowledges the Lord for his success. He feels no need to hoard as he has experienced
the abundant blessings of the Lord in light of his obedience to His commands.
• Who are people in your life who you are 100% sure you can rely on them? What qualities make
them reliable?
• How can you become reliable to others as well? How can you become reliable to God?
• How can you avoid becoming like King Saul? How can you imitate the example of King David?

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12. TRUSTWORTHY
His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will
put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’
Matthew 25:21

INTRODUCTION
Can you name someone with whom you shared almost everything about you—even your deepest
darkest secrets? Have you ever been tasked to handle a major responsibility at work? Can you safe keep
a considerable amount of cash knowing that the owner will not ask you to account for it after? Saying
“yes” to any of the questions above requires trust. And giving trust to or gaining trust from someone is
one of the hardest—yet most rewarding—experiences any person could have. Take a journey with a rich
man and his manager and discover how you could develop the qualities of honesty and trust for your
master to likewise commend you at the end of your life.

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Ask each participant to share their birth month and date (e.g., January 15). The person with the closest
birthday will become IT. The rest of the group will be divided into two groups. One group will be IT’s
teammates. The other group will be IT’s distracters. IT will be blindfolded and led to one side of the
room. On the opposite side, place any object (e.g., book, coin, etc.) that will serve as IT’s goal.
Disarrange the chairs and tables to serve as a challenge course for IT. The objective is for IT to cross the
room to get the object. IT’s teammates will serve as voice guides providing directions for IT to enable
him/her to get the goal. On the other hand, IT’s distracters live up to their name by distracting IT from
the goal using only their voices. Both teams can not touch IT. They can only use their mouths.
After the object has been retrieved by IT, share in the group. Ask IT, “What enabled you to reach
the goal? How did you know whom to trust?” Ask IT’s teammates, “What did you need to do to ensure
IT trusted you and not the distractors?” Ask the distractors, “What was your strategy to persuade IT to
follow you? How does it feel to be not worthy of trust or to purposely mislead someone?”
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Read Luke 16:1-15 and discuss.

1. Describe the manager of the rich man (Luke 16:1). Why was the rich man upset with this manager
and what did he do with him (Luke 16:1-2)? Who are modern day managers? As God’s managers
over His possessions on earth, are we liable to the same charge? Why or why not?

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Wealthy people often employ a steward or officer to manage their estate and resources. This particular
manager in Luke 16, however, was accused of “wasting” (Luke 16:1) his master’s possessions. This could mean
that he embezzled or made unwise, careless or ignorant decisions that resulted in loss and/or damage of his
master’s possessions. The report of this manager’s unfaithfulness prompted the rich man to demand an
accounting of his resources. Since he now doubted the honesty of his manager, he removed him from his
position.
Modern day managers of wealthy people could be financial planners who oversee their resources for the
purpose of creating more wealth

2. How did the manager respond to his master’s charge (Luke 16:3-7)? Why was he later on considered
as “shrewd” or being cunning and having sharp powers of judgment (Luke 16:8a)?
The manager realized that he needed to come up with a survival plan since his master took away his job.
Considering his physical limitations to perform manual labor and his wounded pride if he begged for food, he
devised a plan that would make him favorable in the eyes of other people. He made friends with the people
who might “welcome me into their houses” or hire him in the future. He accomplished this by reducing the debt
of his master’s debtors gaining him the favor of these people.
He is described as shrewd since he was able to craft a plan to ensure future work and save face. Moreover,
he was even able to strengthen his relationship with his master’s debtors or would be future masters. What the
manager did was not the right thing to do. He was not commended for his act of reducing debt but for
planning ahead and using wealth to secure his future. This is a good lesson from a bad example.

3. How is trustworthiness related to the parable? What did the author mean by “Whoever can be
trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will
also be dishonest with much”?
The issue of the shrewd manager was his honesty with his master’s wealth. Christ made a second lesson from
the parable. He told His disciples that if they did not imitate the manager—if they would do the opposite and
be trustworthy with the use of their money—then they would be trusted with greater things or “true riches”
(Luke 16:11). These “true riches” are not explicitly described. They can refer to riches on earth and/or spiritual
riches that the followers of Christ will share in heaven.

4. Can a trustworthy person serve two masters (Luke 16:13-15 cf. 1 Timothy 6:10)? Why or why not?
Who or what should he/she serve?
The last application made from the parable was that His followers should choose to serve only one master:
God. Serving two masters divides the heart. A trustworthy follower of the Lord cannot serve “both God and
Money.” Love for money, not money by itself, will divert the person’s heart away from God and love for God
will cause one to make money his/her primary goal in life. That is why God responded that “God knows your
hearts” and is not impressed with outward appearance, possessions or wealth. What man values and holds
dearly in this world is “detestable in God’s sight.”
• Consider your various areas of influence such as your home, workplace, school, church or
community. What or who did God entrust you to manage in these areas?
• What do you believe is the main reason why God entrusted you with these assets? What purpose
should these gifts attain?
• How does your life—your thoughts, attitudes, actions and treasures—display that God, not money,
is your Master?
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1. THE PURPOSE OF PROVERBS

Proverbs 1:1-7
“To know wisdom and instruction,
to understand words of insight,
to receive instruction in wise dealing,
in righteousness, justice, and equity;
to give prudence to the simple,
knowledge and discretion to the youth—
Let the wise hear and increase in learning,
and the one who understands obtain guidance,
to understand a proverb and a saying,
the words of the wise and their riddles.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge;
fools despise wisdom and instruction.”
W ARM-UP
The word “proverb” in Filipino is “salawikain.” Are there some proverbs that you have learned from
your parents that you still believe in? (Example: “Pag may tiyaga, may nilaga.”)
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ASK: In reading, Proverbs 1:1-7, what do you think are the purposes of the book of Proverbs?

Every waking moment of our lives, we operate from one of two viewpoints: human or divine. Sometimes
we refer to these as the horizontal perspective and the vertical perspective. Humanity remains willfully
and stubbornly limited to the horizontal. We jealously guard our autonomy from God: we much prefer
to think, maintain our attitudes, and conduct our lives independent of our God. Consequently, human
opinions influence us more than God’s commands and principles.
The opening words of the first section establish the purpose for the entire book in very clear terms: “to
know wisdom and instruction” (Proverbs 1:2). In the author’s mind, to “know wisdom” is to put
instruction into actual practice. Failing to do what we know to do is the definition of foolishness.

1. TO INSPIRE REVERENCE AND OBEDIENCE IN THE READER’S HEART.
The chief aim of the book of Proverbs is to bring divine truth into proper focus, enabling us to look
at life through God’s eyes—from His eternal, all-knowing point of view—and then live accordingly.
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Proverbs teaches us how to gain wisdom from God’s reproofs so that we will obey.

2. TO TEACH DISCERNMENT.
“To discern the sayings of understanding” (1:2). Discern is a crucial term. The term means “to
separate; to make distinct.” Discernment is the ability to look at a situation and clearly see all its
moving parts. A discerning mind has the ability to think critically, to distinguish truth from error, and
to anticipate the likely consequences of any given choice.

3. TO DEVELOP AWARENESS IN ONE’S WALK.
“To receive instruction in wise behavior, righteousness, justice and equity” (1:3). The original term
translated receive carries with it the idea of mobility, taking something along with you, or hauling
something. In this case, the student of God’s sayings gains “instruction in wise behavior.” The
proverbs make us alert for the journey of life. Proverbs help us remain attentive to our surroundings
and aware of potential dangers.

4. TO ESTABLISH DISCRETION AND PURPOSE IN ONE’S LIFE.
“To give prudence to the naive, to the youth knowledge and discretion” (1:4). The Hebrew concept
of wisdom doesn’t put ignorance and foolishness in the same category. The term rendered naive
means, literally, “simple.” Those who have not experienced much of life or have not yet benefited
from education are like workers without tools or warriors without weapons. The sages offered this
intellectual and spiritual equipment to the simple, to those who are naive and young.

5. TO CULTIVATE KEENNESS IN MIND.
“To understand a proverb and a figure, the words of the wise and their riddles” (1:6). These sayings
will help us think keenly: divine wisdom will give our minds a razor-sharp edge. Keep in mind such
blades require the application of friction if they are to stay sharp. This process of honing causes
sparks and is rarely pleasant. Like that hard stone, the proverbs prepare our minds to slice through
layers of falsehood to the core of truth in any matter. Divine wisdom gives us the ability to
understand more of life’s riddles. Before long, the grind of a merely human viewpoint will slowly be
replaced by wisdom of God’s perspective.
In your job, how can a lack of wisdom impact your decisions? Where will you look in order to gain
wisdom?
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2. WHY WORRY?
Proverbs 3:1-6
“My son, do not forget my teaching,
but let your heart keep my commandments,
for length of days and years of life
and peace they will add to you.
Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you;
bind them around your neck;
write them on the tablet of your heart.
So you will find favor and good success
in the sight of God and man.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths.”
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John Maxwell said that “Trust is the foundation of relationships.” How important is trusting others in
your line of work? How important is trust in your team? How important that your spouse trust you in
your work as a police officer?

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Worry is one of our more acceptable character faults, right alongside gluttony and perfectionism. After
all, everybody worries, and no one quite knows how to stop. Furthermore, the primary victim of worry is
the worrier, so it seems harmless enough. But worry is serious business. It not only causes a number of
significant physical ailments, but worry can also trigger serious emotional problems, such as depression,
anxiety, and even compulsive disorders.
1. TRUST IN THE LORD

Trust is a dramatically descriptive term means, literally, “to throw oneself down upon his or her
face,” a posture that conveys complete dependence and submission. Trust refers to mentally and
emotionally throwing oneself face down on the ground—casting all hopes for the present and the
future upon another, finding provision and security there. We are commanded by our Lord to cast
ourselves completely, fully, absolutely on Him—and on Him alone!

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2. LEAN NOT ON YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING
To “not lean on your own understanding” means that you will not give first priority to your own
limited perspective. Lean is, of course, figuratively means “to depend upon something.” The
message is “Feel completely confident in God and do not depend upon your own intelligence,
insight, or skill to keep you from falling.”

3. ACKNOWLEDGE HIM IN ALL YOUR WAYS
Acknowledge means “to know.” This kind of knowledge is personal and experiential. God wants us
to know Him intimately. Rather than leaning on the human crutches of our own insights or skills, we
are exhorted to know God’s mind—His character, His values, His attributes, His plan. God
encourages us to know His mind in all those decisions and circumstances. Acknowledge Him always
in all the decisions that you need to make daily.

4. HE WILL MAKE YOUR PATH STRAIGHT
The fourth verb—make straight—is part of a simple declaration of God’s promise, His part of the
covenant. As we trust Him instead of our own perspectives and opinions, He promises to “make
[our] paths straight.” It is illustrated by building a highway. They cleared obstacles, filled in gaps,
leveled hills, and cut straight pathways into the sides of mountains. This means that we need to
learn about God’s character, discover His plans for you and the world, be amazed by His love and
concern for you in each one of your circumstances. Then He—having been granted full control of
your life—will smooth out and make straight your paths, removing obstacles along the way.
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Think of 3 problems or situations that you always face. How can a deeper understanding of God—His
character, values, and promises—help you feel confidently “unconcerned” about your problems?
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3. THE UNGUARDED HEART

Proverbs 4:20-27
“My son, be attentive to my words;
Incline your ear to my sayings.
Let them not escape from your sight;
Keep them within your heart.
For they are life to those who find them,
And healing to all their flesh.
Keep your heart with all vigilance,
For from it flow the springs of life.
Put away from you crooked speech,
And put devious talk far from you.
Let your eyes look directly forward,
And your gaze be straight before you.
Ponder the path of your feet;
Then all your ways will be sure.
Do not swerve to the right or to the left;
Turn your foot away from evil.”
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What are the advice given to you when you were still learning to drive?
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The heart of the matter is a matter of the heart. The Bible describes the heart not just a physical organ
but a seat of our consciousness, core of our decision making, center of our emotions, our mind and of
our will.
1. WHAT MUST WE DO.

Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life. (4:23) Closely watch and
protect (like a city or a bank vault) your inner self—your mind, your emotions, your character, your
discernment—like a sentry at the gate watches over a city from his watchtower.

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2. WHY MUST WE DO IT.
The inner self is the source of the life we construct as we respond to crises, make decisions, interact
with people, and—most importantly—behave wisely. We must keep out anything that would
endanger the stronghold of our heart and instead swing the gate wide open for knowledge of God—
knowledge of His character, His values, His attributes, and His will. According to Solomon, we have
no greater duty than to keep our heart in a perpetual state of readiness, receptivity, purity, and
sensitivity.

3. HOW CAN WE DO IT.
As we make God’s word as our guide, we will know the mind of God more deeply and consistently,
and our wisdom will reflect how close we are to God. Assuming we will possess reasonable wisdom,
Solomon told us how we can guard the fortress of our inner self. He offered three practical
instructions using the word picture of a traveler making his or her way through the world.
• Ignore false directions (v. 24).
• Focus on your destination (v. 25).
• Stay on the path (vv. 26–27).

We guard the fortress of our heart by knowing our destination and keeping our attention focus on
knowing and doing what God wants us to do. We have a destination and God has a purpose for our lives.

Therefore it is key to guard your heart by knowing God personally and experientially; by discerning His
revealed will; by shutting out all that distracts you from that calling; and by steadfastly walking the path
He has ordained. Protect your mind and don’t settle for anything less than God’s best.
We have heard the words - “Garbage in, garbage out.” What kind of input does your brain receive
throughout a typical week? What are the sources of these influences? Do those voices affirm or
undermine your godly convictions?
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4. OUR TROUBLED HEART

“Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, but counselors of peace have joy.
-Proverbs 12:20

Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down, But a good word makes it glad.
-Proverbs 12:25

Even in laughter the heart may be in pain, And the end of joy may be grief. The backslider in heart will
have his fill of his own ways, But a good man will be satisfied with his.”
-Proverbs14:13–14

“Everyone who is proud in heart is an abomination to the LORD; Assuredly, he will not be unpunished.”
-Proverbs16:5

“The heart of the wise instructs his mouth And adds persuasiveness to his lips. Pleasant words are a
honeycomb, Sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”
-Proverbs 16:23–24
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Who is the person you go to when you need advice or wisdom?
W ORD
A troubled heart lacks peace and struggles to find assurance. One remedy for a troubled heart is a friend who can
offer wise counsel. Solomon understood the value of community when the trials of life begin to take their
emotional toll. When we start feeling sorry for ourselves, ungodly solutions to our problems appear more
attractive. We must seek out advisers who think and speak in concert with the mind of God. These people of God
offer hope and encourage godly responses to life’s struggles. Eventually, if we heed their counsel, joy will displace
our anxiety and depression.
There are 6 kinds of hearts in trouble:

1. THE DECEITFUL HEART.
People pursue wrongdoing and cover their tracks by deceiving themselves and others.
2. THE HEAVY HEART.

Sometimes difficulties consume a person’s every thought and sap all his or her emotional strength.
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3. THE SORROWFUL HEART.
People in the grip of deep emotional pain, grieving a loss or enduring grim circumstances, need all their
strength just to get through the day.

4. THE BACKSLIDING HEART.
People can either turning towards God and submitting to His will or we turn away from God and seek our own
agenda but we in the end, we will reap the consequences of our actions.

5. THE PROUD HEART.
People who are proud are haughty, exalts oneself and becomes a moral failure.

6. THE ANGRY HEART.
Some people remain perpetually angry and depressed because their own foolishness keeps them in a storm of
perpetual trouble.

Just as important as coming along side others who are hurting is your seeking feedback from trusted advisers. Ask
them to watch and listen and then offer helpful feedback. Tell them you sincerely want help identifying your own
blind spots. God is pleased when we allow Him to control what we say and use our words to encourage and edify
the hurting people around us.

Look around. Become aware of the circle of friends and acquaintances that is larger than your own
personal world. Be sensitive. Discern turmoil in others . . . even in your friends. Who will be this friend?

Listen. Instead of launching a barrage of verbal missiles, ask questions, seek information, and listen.
Patiently and graciously hear others. When our words are few, they become more valuable. How can
you practice this in your community where you are assigned?
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5. THE UNCONTROLLED TONGUE
Proverbs 6:16-19
“There are six things which the LORD hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:
Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood,
A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,
A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.”
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Can you remember an encouraging word someone gave you? Can you describe the situation? And how
did it make you feel?
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The root problem is not the mouth, but the heart—the person deep within us. Jesus taught, “The good
man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth what is good; and the evil man out of the evil
treasure brings forth what is evil; for his mouth speaks from that which fills his heart” (Luke 6:45).

THERE ARE FIVE UNHEALTHY WAYS THAT WE USE OUR TONGUE:

1. FLATTERY.
Flattery is insincere compliment spoken with deceitful motives. It is excessive praise verbalized in
hopes of gaining favor in the eyes of another. The difference between affirmation and flattery is
motive. If we hope to say something to another that will ultimately benefit ourselves, it is flattery.
2. GOSSIP AND SLANDER.

Gossip is talking about people that divide them into camps. When you receive information that
could defame or harm another, consider these questions and responses: Does this information
involve you or affect you directly? If not, let the chain of gossip end with you. If so, discuss the
matter only with the people directly involved.

3. ARGUMENTS, ANGRY WORDS.
Intelligent thinking and unguarded, open conversation must leave room for everyone to express
themselves freely and without fear. Naturally, this will lead to the occasional difference of opinion.
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Arguments and striving, however, have to do with negative attitudes such as stubbornness and
rigidity.

4. BOASTING.
Boasting most often occurs when we speak too highly of ourselves or our own accomplishments, but
it’s actually possible to boast without speaking a single word. Boasting is really a symptom of a
deeper problem known as pride, a condition of the heart that craves attention and loves to take
center stage.

5. VERBOSITY (TALKING TOO MUCH).
Verbosity is the habit of talking too much while saying too little. People who are verbose usually feel
compelled to comment on anything and everything. They interrupt without hesitation. They speak
first and think later. And for all their talking, they remain hard of hearing.

HOW CAN OUR TONGUE BENEFIT OTHERS?

1. WISE COUNSEL AND SOUND ADVICE.
We must use our tongue to give wisdom and good advice to those that are hurting or discouraged.

2. REPROOF, REBUKE, SPIRITUAL EXHORTATION.
Reproof means when someone wisely yet firmly rebuked your behavior, your thinking, or your
attitude, and you became a better person as a result.
• The one who does the rebuking should be someone who loves the person he or she
rebukes.
• A bruise tends to linger long after the wounding; it is not soon forgotten. Friendship should
allow freedom to offer constructive criticism.
• Not all compliments are offered with the right motive.

3. WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT.
By “encouragement” I mean sincere expressions of affirmation and gratitude given honestly to
another individual—in public whenever appropriate, in private if that is wiser. We so seldom do this,
yet it is one of the signs of a mature, godly individual.

4. A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR.
A good sense of humor does not mean senseless, foolish or distasteful talk.
Can we say an encouraging word to members of your squad?
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6. DISCONTENT

Proverbs 15:17, 16:8, 17:1
“Better is a dish of vegetables where love is Than a fattened ox served with hatred.”
—Proverbs 15:17
“Better is a little with righteousness than great income with injustice.”
—Proverbs 16:8
“Better is a dry morsel and quietness with it Than a house full of feasting with strife.”
—Proverbs 17:1
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Finish the sentence.

If only…
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Discontentment is one of those daily grinds that forces others to listen to our woes. Discontented souls
soon become lonely, isolated souls. Discontentment results in self-pity, one of the most repulsive
attitudes.

ASK: If you are invited for a meal, are you distracted by the food or the surroundings rather than looking
at the effort given by the one who invited you?

1. LOVE AND HARMONY.
The proverb describes a peaceful, harmonious household where people are free to be themselves
without fear of criticism or rejection. There is a sense of ease among the people because strife—
disputes, quarrels, and hostility—is not to be found or felt. What is the use of having a grand meal
when there is no love and harmony among those who are eating together?

2. HONESTY.
What can we get from cheating? How can we enjoy what we have if we gained it through cheating?
The writer of proverbs declared that his honest gain, meager though it might be, gave him greater
satisfaction than ill-gotten riches ever could. Who cares if your bank account is big and your net
worth is the envy of everyone if you cheated to win? That will not make you more successful, more
intelligent, more diligent, or more anything worthy of respect. Moreover, you must then deal with
your conscience.

“But godliness with contentment is great gain, for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot
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take anything out of the world. But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content. But those
who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that
plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through
this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.” (1
Timothy 6:6-10)

As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the
uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy. They are to do good,
to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a
good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life. (1 Timothy 6:17-19)

Paul cultivated a contented spirit in three specific ways.
• First, he actively looked for God’s working in every circumstance (Philippians 1:12–14).
• Second, he thanked God for what he had rather than complaining about what he lacked
(1:3, 7; 4:11–12).
• Third, he treasured relationships above material provisions (4:17).
What are the 5 things that you need to be grateful for?
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7. WHAT ABOUT PROCRASTINATION?
Proverbs 6:6-11
“Go to the ant, O sluggard;
consider her ways, and be wise.
Without having any chief,
officer, or ruler,
she prepares her bread in summer
and gathers her food in harvest.
How long will you lie there, O sluggard?
When will you arise from your sleep?
A little sleep, a little slumber,
a little folding of the hands to rest,
and poverty will come upon you like a robber,
and want like an armed man.”
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Currently, what is the most difficult challenge you face or the most important responsibility you carry?

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The procrastinator usually has logical reasons, valid excuses, and plausible reason for inaction.
Webster’s straightforward definition, however, helps us push excuses aside and focuses us on the core
problem: The procrastinator does not do what should be done. A procrastinator says, “Later,” while
thinking, “Never.” Procrastination is self-delusional.
We need to confront our reasons for procrastinating. But as human beings we have the ability to
plan. Orderly thinking is an ability only given to humans. We have the ability to set priorities and make
plans in line with those, but we cannot make our actions match our words without God’s help. That’s
why Solomon acknowledged that our actions, words, and priorities might not align. We mollify our
agitated consciences with promises to do what we say is important, but God knows our heart motives.
In fact, He knows us far better than we know ourselves.

1. SLUGGARD.
Why do we procrastinate?
• We may have set goals that are unwise or unrealistic.
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• We may have tempted to do something that is not God’s will.
• We may not truly believe that our plans are not worth pursuing despite the advice of many.

2. DILIGENCE.
• Ants work for the survival of the colony, a compelling motivation.
• Ants know what to do; they don’t need a superintendent prodding them.
• Ants get the essentials done first so they can relax later.
• Ants work without fanfare or applause.

The reward for being diligent is Hope. When you hope, you bring a small piece of future enjoyment into
today. When you hope, you imagine the satisfaction you will feel when your diligence begins to pay off.
What long, difficult, unpleasant task must you complete? List the benefits of completing this assignment
on time and with excellence accompanied by a positive attitude.
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8. IS LAZINESS A SIN?

Proverbs 12:24, 27; 15:19; 19:15
“The hand of the diligent will rule, But the slack hand will be put to forced labor.”
—Proverbs 12:24
“A lazy man does not roast his prey, But the precious possession of a man is diligence.”
—Proverbs 12:27
“The way of the lazy is as a hedge of thorns, But the path of the upright is a highway.”
—Proverbs 15:19
“Laziness casts into a deep sleep, And an idle man will suffer hunger.”
—Proverbs 19:15
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What work do you find most fulfilling? How does God use your current occupation to develop
you as a person?
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Work is a gift from God. He gave humanity the honor of becoming His vice-regents over the earth. The
fall of humanity, however, transformed work into toil. Throughout the Bible we are encouraged to be
people of diligence, committed to the tasks in life that we need to accomplish. Some, however, do not
consider this a privilege, but a burden. For those folks the daily grind of laziness is an undeniable reality.
For this entire week, we’ll take a close-up look at this practical plague.
Among the terms he used for the lazy, sluggard appears to be his favorite. When I trace my way through
the Proverbs, I find six characteristics of the sluggard.
• The sluggard has trouble getting started. He is all talk but he never really start anything.
• The sluggard is restless; he may have desires but he has trouble implementing them.
• The sluggard takes a costly toll on others. If he doesn’t do his work well, all other workers are
affected.
• The sluggard is usually defensive. When confronted, he always defends himself and finds many
reasons.
• The sluggard is a quitter. His solution to the problem is to quit ore escape.
• The sluggard lives by excuses. He has all the excuses and blames other instead of taking
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responsibility over the problem.

What then should be our attitude towards work?
1. Show discipline and determination.
2. Demonstrate an alert awareness.
3. Create value to your organization.
4. Be a reservoir of plans and ideas.
5. Feast with satisfaction with your work.
Which of your responsibilities, when done well and on time, makes life better for the greatest number
of people?
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9. IS IT OK TO REVENGE?

Proverbs 24:17-20
“Do not rejoice when your enemy falls, and do not let your heart be glad when he stumbles; or the LORD
will see it and be displeased, and turn His anger away from him. Do not fret because of evildoers or be
envious of the wicked; for there will be no future for the evil man; the lamp of the wicked will be put
out.”
—Proverbs 24:17–20
“If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink; For you will
heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.”

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Make a list of some people who have harmed you in some way and whom, in the quietness of your
heart, you wish would suffer misfortune as payment for their sins against you. Keep this list private.
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Sir Francis Bacon had the right idea when he wrote, “Revenge is a kind of wild justice; which the more
man’s nature runs to, the more ought to law to weed it out. . . . Certainly, in taking revenge a man is but
even with his enemy; but in passing over it, he is superior, for it is a prince’s part to pardon.” If you have
spent much time around someone who is eaten up with the desire for revenge, someone nursing an
attitude of resentment, you know how tragic a thing it is. These people are walking containers of poison.
That’s because resentment never resolves itself; resentment corrodes anything it touches, breaks
containment, and eventually kills its host. And to make things worse, innocent bystanders become
victims of collateral damage when the pressure builds beyond control and suddenly explodes.

1. LEAVE JUSTICE TO GOD.
God calls us to entrust Him with all matters requiring justice and to surrender our right to obtain it
ourselves. God gives us His solemn assurance that He will handle justice on our behalf and fulfill His
role as Judge with absolute integrity. This promise frees us to leave past hurts in the past and to
focus on making good decisions for the sake of creating a good future.
2. LEAVE MERCY TO GOD.

Just like justice, we just leave giving mercy to God. Forgiveness is not forgetting. People who try to
forget find that they cannot. God says He will “remember no more” our sins (Hebrews 10:17), but
God, being omniscient, cannot forget. “Remember no more” means that God will never use the past
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against us (Psalm 103:12). Forgetting may be a result of forgiveness, but it is never the means of
forgiveness. When we bring up the past against others, we haven’t forgiven them. Forgiveness is a
choice, a crisis of the will. Since God requires us to forgive, it is something we can do. (He would
never require us to do something we cannot do.) Forgiveness is agreeing to live with the
consequences of another person’s sin. Forgiveness is costly; we pay the price of the evil we forgive.
Yet you’re going to live with those consequences whether you want to or not; your only choice is
whether you will do so in the bitterness of unforgiveness or the freedom of forgiveness.
(Forgiveness Is A Condition For Our Own Freedom, Neil Anderson)

3. SHOW KINDNESS TO YOUR ENEMY.
Grace is simply kindness extended to another person regardless of merit—or the lack of it. Grace is
showing kindness without first considering whether that person deserves it.

4. EMBRACE GRACE.
The apostle Paul’s statement—“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans
12:21). God will overcome the world’s evil with His good. In following the command of Christ to
“bless and do not curse” (Romans 12:14; Matthew 5:44) and by returning good for evil, we become
like God, as we become active participants in His work. And if, however, we refuse to join God in His
work, if we reject His call to extend grace to our enemies as He does, the daily grind of revenge will
continue to siphon our peace, drain our joy, and undermine our love until we do.
Write a letter to a person that you need to forgive. If the person is still alive, you can send the letter to
the person. If the person is no longer in this earth, then bring the letter to the graveyard. (Anything you
can do as a gesture of forgiveness.

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10. ARE YOU ENVIOUS?

Proverbs 3:31-32; 6:34-35
“Do not envy a man of violence And do not choose any of his ways. For the devious are an abomination
to the LORD; But He is intimate with the upright.”
“For jealousy enrages a man, And he will not spare in the day of vengeance. He will not accept any
ransom, Nor will he be satisfied though you give many gifts.”

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What causes you to envy or to be jealous?
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Envy is definitely one of the great enemies of inner peace. Envy is the desire to become better or at least
equal to one’s peers in achievement, excellence, or possessions. Jealousy and envy are often used
interchangeably, but there is a small, yet profound difference between the two. Jealousy begins with full
hands and then moves through life in the terror of losing something. It is fueled by the fear of loss, and it
fuels an all-out, life-or-death struggle to maintain those possessions. Envy, however, begins with empty
hands, lamenting what it does not have.
“It was troublesome in my sight until I came into the sanctuary of God; then I perceived their end.”
(Psalm 73:16–17) Refocusing his attention on God rather than his circumstances, Asaph overcame his
envy. Worshiping the Lord reoriented his perspective in three specific ways:
• First, Asaph rearranged his priorities: wisdom is more important than wealth.
• Second, he regained an eternal perspective: the true rewards of faithfulness come later.
• Third, he reassessed his values: intimacy with God is the greatest treasure of all.
The cure to envy is to worship God and be contented with God gives us. A mark of maturity is the ability
to appreciate another more gifted than we . . . to applaud another more honored than we . . . to enjoy
another more blessed than we.

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In what ways can other people help you overcome envy/ jealousy in your life?
• Think of 10 things/ people that you want to be thankful to God for and share it with the
group. Share why you are thankful for them.
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11. EXCUSES … EXCUSES … EXCUSES

Proverbs 30:24-28
“Four things are small on the earth, but they are exceedingly wise: The ants are not a strong people, but
they prepare their food in the summer;
The shephanim are not mighty people, yet they make their houses in the rocks;
The locusts have no king, yet all of them go out in ranks;
The lizard you may grasp with the hands, Yet it is in kings’ palaces.”

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When you are faced with a problem, what is your reaction? Do you tend to make excuses? What is your
best excuse?
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Ants, badgers, locusts, lizards are animals mentioned in our verses and each illustrating a quality wise
people should possess. The opening statement declares, each of these four creatures is “small on the
earth, but they are exceedingly wise” (v. 24).

1. DILIGENCE.
Proverbs 30:25 states that the ants are not “strong.” Unlike people, they are vulnerable to attack
and easily destroyed. They thrive despite their lack of might because they don’t quit. They serve
their community without even leaders watching them. They work each day to maintain a secure
place to live. They dutifully gather food during times of plenty in order to survive inevitable
difficulties. The ant provides a worthy example of how diligence, dedication, foresight, and
industriousness—little by little, day by day—keep their colony fed, warmed, and protected.
2. PRUDENCE.
The badger has no natural defenses against animals that would prey on them, animals like leopards,
snakes, wolves, and eagles. Despite the fact that everything wants to eat them and they are hunted
on the ground and from the sky, very few badgers actually fall victim to their predators. That’s
because they live in very secure places, remain close to home, and have a complex sentry system.
The older adults usually take positions on prominent lookout spots and sound the alarm at the first
sign of danger. They have limitations and make the most of their circumstances. Moreover, they use
their greatest asset, their community, to the greatest advantage. All of us have limitations, but at
least one key to success in life is refusing to allow limitations to become excuses and finding a way
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to accomplish your goals regardless.

3. COOPERATION.
According to the wise man, the locusts have no leader, no one to plan, organize, coordinate, and
execute. Nevertheless, locusts become a strategically aligned team that “[goes] out in ranks” to
wreak havoc on crops, which they devour with terrifying efficiency. The word translated “ranks”
usually refers to archers, who maintained a prescribed space between each man. The writer used
this image to emphasize the presence of cooperation within the swarm. The secret to the success of
a locust swarm is cooperation. They move together from place to place, flying in formation, as it
were, feeding and breeding until they become an unstoppable force. They illustrate a principle that
wise people do not neglect: what we cannot accomplish on our own, we can achieve together as a
team.

4. HELPFULNESS.
Being small and vulnerable, house lizards are welcome in every home, including the palaces of kings,
because they cause no harm and, in fact, improve their environment. The same can be said of wise
people. Despite any weaknesses, disabilities, or disadvantages, everyone can find a way to be
helpful. Even cruel, selfish people will show favor to someone who causes them no harm and finds
ways to be beneficial.

Let these interesting animals prompt you to take an unflinching look at challenges you face and perhaps
at your tendency to avoid the hard questions, ignore the warnings of a friend, and deny criticism that
could prove extremely beneficial. When you embrace your weaknesses or challenges rather than deny,
ignore, or make excuses, you become wise.

When you accept difficult truths, you have an opportunity to consider alternatives, to apply one of the
four virtues that we examined this week—diligence, prudence, cooperation, and helpfulness—and to
find a way to overcome your difficulties. Using what you have learned this week, work hard at coming to
terms with your disabilities—we all have them in some form or another—and avoid making excuses.
Embrace the truth then you have the opportunity to become wise.

Take a few moments to again examine your weaknesses or the challenges you face. When in the past
have you denied them, ignored them, or made excuses for them? If you embrace your shortcomings
without shame or self-condemnation, how will that change your perspective on life for the better?
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12. FINANCIAL IRRESPONSIBILITY

Proverbs 3:9-10; 23:4-5
“Honor the LORD from your wealth and from the first of all your produce; so your barns will be filled with
plenty And your vats will overflow with new wine.”
“Do not weary yourself to gain wealth, cease from your consideration of it. When you set your eyes on it,
it is gone. For wealth certainly makes itself wings like an eagle that flies toward the heavens.”
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What are your money problems? Do you financial fears?
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“Money makes the world go round.” Do you believe in this statement? We all need money to exist in
this world because money is not evil in itself. But it’s the “love of money” that brings us to trouble.
Five Principles on Money Management

1. THOSE WHO HONOR GOD WITH THEIR MONEY ARE BLESSED IN RETURN.
We read of the blessings God grants (not all of them tangible, by the way) to those who “honor the
Lord” with their finances.

2. THOSE WHO MAKE RICHES THEIR PASSION LOSE MUCH MORE THAN THEY GAIN.
Have you ever been tempted by some get-rich-quick scheme? And think of the thousands of people
who are drawn into scams because of their juicy appeal and out of this world promises. Beware of
statements like “It’s a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity!”

3. WISDOM GIVES WEALTH GUIDANCE.
If you have a choice between wisdom and wealth: wisdom is much to be preferred! With wisdom,
you stand a better chance of gaining more wealth, but wealth cannot buy wisdom. And should you
be fortunate enough to gain wealth, wisdom will keep you out of trouble. Wisdom provides the
recipient of increased finances with the restraint needed to avoid economic disaster.

4. INCREASED RICHES BRING INCREASED COMPLICATIONS.
• A false sense of security.
• Suddenly you have many friends.
• Arrogance and pride.
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• Increased moral temptations.

5. MONEY CANNOT BUY LIFE’S MOST VALUABLE POSSESSIONS.
Money will only buy things that are for sale but not happiness, a clear conscience, and freedom from
worry. Money can be used to purchase a lovely and comfortable home, car and other things. But
the most valuable things in life are not for sale. What are some of those priceless possessions?
• Love
• Peace
• Integrity

If handled wisely, money can be the means of great encouragement, but if mishandled, great stress.
Many lotto winners discover they were not prepared to handle the demands of great wealth. They
typically splurged it all away, fell prey to the unwise investment schemes of family and friends, and
succumb to appeals for giving. A few even committed suicide. If we rear our children correctly, they can
benefit from, and know the joy of, receiving an inheritance from their parents. God’s Word admonishes
parents to provide for their families.
Money and possessions aside, what are you truly thankful for? What can you do to increase your
intangible assets, such as health, relationships, reputation, contentment, wisdom, etc.?

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1. GOD’S ANSWER TO COMPROMISE
Oh, the joys of those who do not

Follow the advice of the wicket,
Or stand around with sinners,
Or join in with mockers.
But they delight in the law of the Lord,
Meditating on it day and night.
They are like the trees planted along the riverbank,
Bearing fruit each season.
Their leaves never wither,
They are like worthless chaff, scattered by the wind.
They will be condemned at the time of judgment
Sinners will have no place among the gladly,
For the LORD watches over the path of the godly,
But the path of the wicked leads to destruction.
—Psalm 1
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Make a list of all your priorities (family, job, health, possessions, friends, God, etc.). Have you ever made
a compromise in any of these? Compromise occurs when behavior fails to reflect our priorities. (For
example, we said that our priority is our health but then when we look at the kind of food we eat – they
compromise our health.) In a police operating, we experience compromising situations. In what ways
have you compromised and how did you get back on track?
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Psalm 1 describes the life of one who chooses to live a righteous life, the one who resists compromise.
He describes a person who remains wary of anything that will negatively affect his commitment to a
godly life.
The word “joy” also means blessed and the original word means “happiness many times over.”

What is the cause of abundant happiness?

1. WALK
David, the writer of Psalms tells us that we will be abundantly happier if we stay clear or get away
from anything that will lead us to compromise our convictions.
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2. STAND
We need to take a firm stand for what is right and we “will be like a tree planted on streams of
water.”

3. SIT
The term here means “a permanent settling down, an abiding and a permanent dwelling”. We need
to clear of anything that will compromise what we know is right and true.
A person who takes God and His Word is:
• Planted – fortified, stable, rooted solid and strong
• Fruitful – production naturally follows being planted and growing
• Unwithered – even during days of difficulty, the treelike soul is undaunted
• Prosperous – fulfill the goals God has designed for his life
• Mentally, review the past months, how has your manner of life changed over the past months?
• What are those values in life that you are willing to stand on?
• Will you be able to say that you are leading a prosperous life because you did not compromise? Why
do you say yes or why do you say no?
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2. GOD’S ANSWER TO WEAKENED INTEGRITY

Who may worship in your sanctuary, Lord?
Who may enter your presence on your holy hill?
Those who lead blameless lives and do what is right,
speaking the truth from sincere hearts.
Those who refuse to gossip
or harm their neighbors
or speak evil of their friends.
Those who despise flagrant sinners,
and honor the faithful followers of the Lord,
and keep their promises even when it hurts.
Those who lend money without charging interest,
and who cannot be bribed to lie about the innocent.
Such people will stand firm forever.
—Psalm 15
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If we have a personal relationship with the God then our eternal destiny is secure despite our personal
failures. The psalm mentions some of the things we are doing as we walk in the Lord and walk in
dependence in God. But when our relationship with God fades away, our integrity is inevitably
weakened and ultimately, our testimony is hurt. Weakened integrity is a process of erosion, and it is so
gradual that we cannot detect it until it causes catastrophic damage. No one is immune so everyone
must be on guard.
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What are the various facets of integrity? Read Psalm 15:2-5

1. THOSE WHO LEAD BLAMELESS LIVES AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT.
• Dealings must be honest.
• Our conscience is clear of compromise
• Obeys the laws of the land and the laws of God
• Allows the law of God to guide every decision

2. SPEAKING THE TRUTH IN ONE’S HEART.
• This has to do with how we think.
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• Has to do with our attitudes, reactions, plans, motives
• Truth is in our hearts

3. REFUSE TO GOSSIP.
• Does not spread malicious rumors
• Does not poison other’s reputation

ASK: Why is gossip so attractive to do?

4. DOES NOT DO HARM TO HIS NEIGHBORS
He does not consciously bring difficulty upon others.

5. DOES NOT SPEAK EVIL OF THEIR FRIENDS
He does not backbite or speak behind the back of others.

6. DESPISES SINNERS
He does not go with bad company and chooses his friends well.

7. HONORS FAITHFUL FOLLOWERS OF THE LORD
Someone who walks with the Lord has a scale of values that is determined by God’s word.

8. KEEP THEIR PROMISES
He keeps his word even if it is difficult for him to do.

9. DOES NOT LEND MONEY WITH INTEREST (USURY)
He assists others generously and unselfishly especially those who are genuinely in financial need.

10. DOES NOT TAKE BRIBES
He does not take bribes or offers bribe to anyone.
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• How does living a life of integrity affect your relationship with God and with others?
• Does your relationship with God affect your moral decisions?

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3. GOD’S ANSWER TO FEAR

The Lord is my light and my salvation –
Why should I be afraid?
The Lord is my fortress, protecting my from danger,
So why should I tremble?
When evil people come to devour me,
When my enemies and foes attack me,
They will stumble and fall.
Though a mighty army surrounds me,
My heart will not be afraid.
Even if I am attacked,
I will remain confident.
The one thing I ask of the Lord –
The thing I seek most –
Is to live in the house of the Lord all the days of my life,
Delighting in the Lord’s perfections
And meditating in his Temple.
For he will conceal me there when troubles come;
He will hide me in his sanctuary.
He will place me out of reach on a high rock.
Then I will hold my head up high
Above my enemies who surround me.
At his sanctuary I will offer sacrifices with shouts of joy,
Singing and praising the Lord with music.
Wait patiently for the Lord.
Be brave and courageous.
Yes, wait patiently for the Lord.
—Psalm 27
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Have you ever been afraid? What are your fears? What is your usual response to fear?
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Have you ever been in a dangerous situation and wondered if you would ever get out of it alive? God
often uses danger and adversity in our lives to remind us of what is important and this gives us an
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opportunity to contemplate the shortness of life and focus our minds on what really matters: our
desires and goals for this life in light of eternity.
King Saul (David’s enemy) hunted him and tracked him as if he was a common criminal; and made
war on him as he considers him a threat to his being a king. David fled from Saul, not knowing his future
fate, nor if his next step would be his last. There was always the possibility that in his haste to flee from
Saul, he would slip on a rock and fall in the treacherous terrain of the Judean Desert, or that Saul would
have an ambush prepared for him.
What kept David going in this dangerous and difficult time? What was his focus, and priorities in
this life? Psalm 27 recounts David’s supreme and sole heartfelt desire to worship the Lord even in the
midst of warfare.
As David faced his fear and expressed them to God, he began with worship and celebrating the
power and faithfulness of his God.

1. DECLARATION OF PRAISE
“The Lord is my light … my salvation … the defense of my life.” David knew God personally and laid
claim upon God Himself rather than his works. For the writer, David, God is a faithful companion.
Dangers come and it is imminent. Pressure comes but we can have confidence and have stability
because God is our foundation.

2. FACE FEAR WITH A SONG OF FAITH
When fear grips us we turn to self-preservation. Whatever our faith is, we need to sing out our faith
in the midst of fear.

3. SEEK GOD’S HELP
While David’s first response to fear wasn’t a panicked plea for help, he did not live in denial. When
in fear we need not panic, we need to express our desire with intense emotion. We need to claim
the security God has promised. There is nothing to fear because we have God who cares for us.

Waiting on God is a cultivated spiritual discipline. It requires patience and practice. This time let
us focus on something the cause anxiety or fear which is beyond our control. Each time the
matter comes to mind, recall God’s abilities and faithfulness, surrender the matter to God and
choose to wait on Him.
Do you have any worry right now or fear that you want to but under God’s hand?

Pray this prayer:
God you have not given me a spirit of fear. Come and replace my fear with your power and your
love so that I may have a sound mind to live each day worshipping you. Amen.

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4. GOD’S ANSWER TO UNFORGIVEN CONSCIENCE

Oh, what joy for those
Whose disobedience is forgiven,
Whose sin is put out of sight!
Yes, what joy for those
Whose record the Lord has cleared of guilt,
Whose lives are lived in complete honesty!
When I refused to confess my sin,
My body wasted away,
And I groaned all day long.
Day and night your hand of discipline was heavy on me.
My strength evaporated like water in the summer heat.
Finally, I confessed all my sins to you
And stopped trying to hide my guilt.
I said to myself, “I will confess my rebellion to the Lord.”
And you forgive me! All my guilt is gone.
Therefore, let all the godly pray to you while there is still time,
That they may not drown in the floodwaters of judgment.
For you are my hiding place;
You protect me from trouble.
You surround me with songs of victory.
The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life.
I will advise you and watch over you.
Do not be like a senseless horse or mule
That needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control.”
Many sorrows come to the wicked,
But unfailing love surrounds those who trust the Lord.
So rejoice in the Lord and be glad, all you who obey him!
Shout for joy, all you whose hearts are pure!
—Psalm 32
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Think of a time when your conscience has bothered you because of a wrong thing you did. How did it
affect your ability to eat, sleep, work and concentrate? How did it affect your interaction with others?
What did you do to find relief?
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In this particular psalm, the writer allows us to enter his feelings. It is obvious that he is joyful at the
outset, rejoicing in his present state of forgiveness. He then falls into a reflective state of forgiveness. He
then falls into a reflective mood as he thinks of the past.

1. SELF-DECEPTION
ASK: What do you feel when you have done something wrong or have committed sin?
If we don’t find relief in the forgiveness of our sins, the other alternative is self-delusion through
denial, blame shifting, making excuses and redefining sin to make it appear good.

2. THE BITTER PRICE OF SECRET SINS
ASK: If you have secret sins, what you do you feel?
The inner conflict can cause psychosomatic illness. Sin can cause physical illness: body wasted away,
fear, vitality is drained away. But when we confess our sins to God, he brings peace.

3. SIN DISTORTS THE TRUTH
As David’s celebrate God’s forgiveness, he recognizes that his forgiveness, he recognizes that his
confession is costly. When all seems hopeless, God will provide deliverance. He is the one who
protects us, surrounds us and gives us a song.

4. CONFESS AND BE CLEANSED
• How do we do this?
• Confess our sins before the Lord.
• Make a choice between a path of sorrow and a path of trust which brings loving kindness.
• Remain upright. Have an honest dealing with God and before others. Have nothing to hide.

Silently, confess your sins to God. Then think of a future you would like to have now that you are free
from a guilt ridden conscience.

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5. GOD’S ANSWER TO CONFIDENCE IN GOD
God is our refuge and strength,

Always ready to help in times of trouble.
So we will not fear when earthquakes come
And the mountains crumble into the sea.
Let the oceans roar and foam.
Let the mountains tremble as the waters surge!
A river brings joy to the city of our God,
The sacred home of the Most High.
God dwells in that city; it cannot be destroyed.
From the very break of day, God will protect it.
The nations are in chaos,
And their kingdoms crumble!
God’s voice thunders,
And the earth melts!
The Lord of Heaven’s Armies is here among us;
The God of Israel is our fortress.
Come, see the glorious works of the Lord;
See how he brings destruction upon the world.
He causes wards to end throughout the earth.
He breaks the bow and snaps the spear;
He burns the shields with fire.
Be still and know that I am God!
I will be honored in every nation,
I will be honored throughout the world.
The Lord of Heaven’s Armies is here among us;
The God is Israel is our fortress.
—Psalm 46
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How would you describe God to a 6-year old child? Who is God to you?
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ASK: In your experience, what is for you the most frightening natural phenomenon?

1. GOD IS PRESENT
• The Help of God In the Midst of Crisis
The psalm starts with who God is – his help and his refuge in difficult times. God is his
place of refuge, strength and help. God is our refuge, strength and help then we need
not fear even in the midst of crisis.
• God’s Provision
The picture here is the abundant, constant provision of God. The city of God is glad
because of the living water present in a dry land. With God there is peace and security.
All provision and blessings comes because of God’s presence and we should not be
moved.

2. THE LORD IS ABOVE ALL THE NATIONS
This part of the psalm speaks of God’s glory. God is almighty to enforce peace, able to make
wars cease. The idea is that God’s people are invited to look over the field of battle after
God has completely routed his enemies and their instruments of war are scattered, broken
and burning.

ASK: There are wars we are fighting – criminality, the War on Drugs – every time you go out
for police operations, how do you know that God is with you?

“Be still and know that I am God.” In recognition of God’s greatness, our response to God
should be complete trust and surrender. It means that we need to acknowledge God as the
only victorious God.

ASK: Has there been a time when you are “fighting a war” where you can proclaim that it
was God who gave you the victory and not your own strength and wisdom?
God is your sufficient God, what are the victories in life that you are thankful to God for?
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6. GOD’S ANSWER TO DEALING WITH DIFFICULT
PEOPLE

Come with great power, O God, and rescue me!
Defend me with your mind.
Listen to my prayer, O God.
Pay attention to my plea.
For strangers are attacking me;
Violent people are trying me.
The care nothing for God.
But God is my helper,
The Lord keeps me alive!
May the evil plans of my enemies be turned against them,
Do as you promised and put an end to them.
I will sacrifice a voluntary offering to you;
I will praise your name, O Lord, for it is good.
For you have rescued me from my troubles
And helped me to triumph over my enemies.
—Psalm 54
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Which individual causes you the most difficulty? Make a list of names and what challenges do you have
with each person.

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Psalm 54 is a lament over the constant grind of people problems. The writer of the poem shared about
how people have attacked and betrayed him.

1. THE ENEMY
ASK: Have you ever been betrayed by someone? Or have been falsely accused by either a stranger or
a trusted friend? How did it feel?
For the writer of this psalm, David, when he was falsely accused instead of retaliating, what he did
was to pray for deliverance and vindication.

2. THE DEFENDER
ASK: What did you do when you were falsely accused? Who did you turn to?
In this psalm, David calls on God to be his helper. He knows that God is his sustainer. And he knows
that the evil plot against him will be returned to those who plan it. Because God has promised to
carry out justice on David’s behalf. Because of his reaction, David can concentrate more on doing
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what is right instead on focusing on seeking revenge.

3. SURRENDER
ASK: When you say “God is good all the time.”, what do you exactly mean by that?

Instead of retaliating, why don’t we choose to focus on God’s faithfulness? Rather than allowing our
mind to be consumed by the wrongdoing of others and their terrible injustice, why not devote ourselves
to worship. Declare the name and the work of God as “good.”
Let us get rid of those habits we cultivate against others – negative feelings, unforgiveness, resentment,
competitiveness, grudges, jealousy, revenge, hatred, retaliation, gossip, criticism and suspicion. And
take the alternative route – LOVE ONE ANOTHER.
Go back to the list of persons you have, how do you think might God use each person to transform
your character or make your life better? It is not to excuse their behavior but it is merely to
acknowledge the faithfulness of God in every circumstance.

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7. GOD’S ANSWER TO INGRATITUDE

Shout with joy to the Lord, all the earth!
Worship the Lord with gladness
Shout with joy to the Lord, all the earth!
Worship the Lord with gladness.
Come before Him, singing with joy
Acknowledge that the Lord is God!
He made us and we are His.
We are His people, the sheep of His pasture.
Enter His gates with thanksgiving;
Go into His courts with praise.
Give thanks to Him and praise His name.
For the Lord is good.
His unfailing love continues forever,
And his faithfulness continues to each generation.
—Psalm 100

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When things are not doing well with us, sometimes we forget about thankfulness. Look into your life,
what are the things that you are thankful for? What is your greatest obstacle in thanking God?
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Psalm 100 wastes no time in preliminaries. Rather than trying to convince the reader to praise the Lord
for His goodness and His many blessings, the writer issues several commands.

1. SHOUT JOYFULLY TO THE LORD
He is only saying that we need to lift our voice in praise.

2. SERVE THE LORD WITH GLADNESS
A healthy sign of a grateful life is serving.

3. COME BEFORE HIM WITH JOYFUL SINGING
We need to lighten up in life and choose joy. It does the heart good and is truly contagious.

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4. KNOW THAT THE LORD IS GOD
Knowing God denotes a personal, experiential knowledge not mere recognition. This implies a
personal relationship with God. The decision to trust him becomes an unshakable confidence.
Confident people are joyful people.

5. ENTER HIS GATES WITH THANKSGIVING
We always access to the presence of God through prayer.

6. GIVE THANKS TO HIM
This describes someone naming specific reasons for gratitude. This means sharing stories of
gratefulness.

7. BLESS HIS NAME
Blessing God means kneeling, praying to him and saluting him as a sign of honoring God.

One is able to cultivate a personal relationship with God like we would another person by: listening to
Him, spending time with Him and by doing the things that He considers important. How much quality
time do you spend with God? This is not just going to mass or to a worship service but spending time
talking with him and listening to Him by reading about Him? Do you also spend time joining Him in
serving others?
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7. GOD’S ANSWER TO LIFE’S PURPOSE

I will sing of your love and justice, Lord.
I will praise you with songs.
I will be careful to live a blameless life –
When will you come to help me?
I will live a life of integrity
In my own home.
I will refuse to look at
Anything vile or vulgar.
I hate all who deal crookedly;
I will have nothing to do with them.
I will refuse to look at
Anything vile and vulgar.
I hate all who deal crookedly;
I will have nothing to do with them.
I will reject perverse ideas
And stay away from every evil.
I will not tolerate people who slander their neighbors
I will not endure conceit and pride.
I will search for faithful people
To be my companions.
Only those who are above reproach
Will be allowed to serve me.
I will not allow deceivers to serve in my house,
And liars will not stay in my presence.
My daily task will be to ferret out the wicked
And free the city of the Lord from their grip.
—Psalm 101
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Do you know what your specific purpose in life is? Why do you think God created you? For what
purpose?

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Some people seem to drift aimlessly through life, headed in no specific direction. Without a clearly
defined objective, it is not surprising that many adopt a lifestyle that lacks definition and purpose. The
life of David, the writer of this psalm was guided by a specific purpose. He understood God’s plan for
him and David pursued the course laid out for him. He made decisions in accordance with his purpose
and served God faithfully for many years. He was indeed “a man after God’s own heart.” What do we
need to have in order to discover clear direction?

1. HONOR
ASK: How do you define honor?
We need to operate with unselfish mercy, love, friendship, kindness and loyalty. Then operate also
with justice which denotes an orderly, equitable administration of government. It describes a quality
of rule that allows everyone to live peacefully and productively.

2. INTEGRITY
Integrity is the idea of being totally honest, thoroughly sound. It means being authentic, no matter
who is looking.

3. HONESTY
ASK: We teach our children the word “honesty”, what are the deeds of honesty that you practice
everyday?
David resolved to avoid every unworthy aim and ambition. David was determined to choose the
Lord’s way and reject all evil deeds.

4. PURITY
A pure life is a spiritual investment, enjoyed by our children. Purity means “knowing no evil.”

David chose to define himself by 4 primary values: honor, integrity, honesty and purity.

• If investigators were to do a thorough audit of your life, what will they see?
• What are the values that you will cultivate in your life?

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9. GOD’S ANSWER TO ENTHUSIAM

Blessed are those whose way is blameless.
Who walk in the law of the Lord!
Blessed are those who keep his testimonies,
Who seek him with their whole heart,
Who also do no wrong,
But walk in his ways!
You have commanded your precepts
To be kept diligently.
Oh that my ways may be steadfast
In keeping your statutes!
Then I shall not be put to shame
Having my eyes fixed on all your commandments.
I will praise you with upright heart,
When I learn of your righteous rules.
I will keep your statues;
Do not utterly forsake me.

Oh how I love your law!
It is my meditation all the day.
Your commandments make me wiser than my enemies
For it is ever with me.
I have more understanding than all my teachers,
For your testimonies are my meditation.
I understand more than the aged,
For I keep your precepts.
—Psalm 119:1-8; 97-100
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What excites you? On the other hand, what bores you? What disappoints you? Why?

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The word “enthusiasm” carries the idea of being inspired. It means literally “in God.” The original word
means that the person is so overtaken by the presence of God, that he could barely contain the
excitement. Psalm 119 over all is a long psalm about the benefits of the Word of God and how it holds
our enthusiasm. Lack of enthusiasm isn’t an emotional problem but a spiritual one. Sometimes, lack of
enthusiasm results from not having sufficient knowledge to address life’s difficulties. While we can get
all the education and trainings we can get, many of life’s issues can be built upon spiritual wisdom. That
is the reason why we need to know what God’s word says about some of our life issues.

1. THE WORD MAKES US WISER.
We can gain wisdom from experience. But the author here speaks of experience in dealing with his
enemies. Sometimes difficult people can drag our enthusiasm down. But wisdom from God’s word
helps us rise above the negative effects of people who drag us down.

2. THE WORD GIVES US MORE INSIGHT THAN ALL OUR TEACHERS.
We get knowledge from education and trainings and these are all important. But God says that he
who knows Him gains more insight.

3. THE WORD CAUSES US TO HAVE MORE UNDERSTANDING.
A knowledge and understanding of God’s word can better equip us for life. From God’s word, we
receive insight. Insight translates to effectiveness. Effectiveness leads to success. Success builds
confidence. And confidence inspires wisdom.

There are 3 benefits from God’s Word:
• Wisdom – the ability to look at life and its difficulties from God’s point of view.
• Insight – the ability to see through life and its difficulties from God’s point of view
• Understanding – the ability to respond to life and its difficulties from God’s point of view.

If you have read God’s word, can you share what you have learned and how it helped in some decisions
you have to make.

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10. GOD’S ANSWER TO FAMILY LIFE
Unless the Lord builds a house,

The work of the Lord is wasted.
Unless the Lord protects a city,
Guarding it with sentries will do no good.
It is useless for you to work so hard
From early morning till late at night,
Anxiously working for food to eat;
For God gives rest to his love ones.
Children are a gift from the Lord;
They are a reward from him.
Children born to a young man
Are like arrows in a warrior’s hands.
How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them!
He will not be put to shame when he confronts his accusers at the city gates.
—Psalm 127

How joyful are those who fear the Lord –
All who follow his ways!
You will enjoy the fruit of your labor.
How joyful and prosperous you will be!
You wife will be like a fruitful grapevine,
Flourishing within your home.
Your children will be like vigorous young olives
As they sit around your table.
That is the Lord’s blessing
For those who fear Him.
May the Lord continually bless you from Zion.
May you see Jerusalem prosper as long as you live.
May you live to enjoy your grandchildren,
May Israel have peace!
—Psalm 128
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Think about your childhood. Think of a time when you felt secure as a child; a time when you
feel affirmed; a lesson you have learned as a child and how as a family you were able to pull
together in a crisis. How can you recreate those experiences to your own family today?
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1. THE LORD HIMSELF IS TO BE THE CENTER OF OUR HOME.

First, we must have a relationship with him, based on our obedience to His word. If God is
not the center of our home, no amount of our effort can help it from falling apart. The
closer we come to God the closer we become to our family.

2. THE LORD HIMSELF MUST BE THE CENTER OF OUR LIFE AND WORK.
If the Lord is first in our lives, He will reward us even in our sleep. A godly life does not only
mean a productive work day but also includes times of rest and relaxation. If the Lord is the
not the center of our lives, all our labor in this lifetime cannot serve as a substitute for Him.

3. THE LORD GAVE US CHILDREN AS A GIFT FROM HIM.
God gives us children with a responsibility to care for them. Each child, therefore, is to be
cherished as a gift, prized as a reward and we direct their lives in order to follow their own
dreams.

Everyone who fears the Lord is blessed and joyful. It is a joyfulness not in terms of material
things but a “shalom” – a word that means wholeness – material abundance, good health,
peace of mind, tranquil home, a good job, a healthy mind set about life – things that no
money can buy.

Our responsibility towards our children:
• Children must be trained according to godly principles.
• Children become our hope of happiness.
• Each child is unique, an individual and we need to raise them in respect to their
individual dreams and desires.

What are you doing to provide spiritual training and guidance for your children?

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11. GOD’S ANSWER TO IMPATIENT ARROGANCE

Lord, my heart is not proud;
My eyes are not haughty.
I don’t concern myself with matters too great
Or too awesome for me to grasp.
Instead, I have calmed and quieted myself,
Like a weaned children who no longer cries for its mother’s milk.
Yes, like a weaned child is my soul within me.
O Israel, put your hope in the Lord –
Now and always.
—Psalm 131

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Can you think of someone you admire with genuine humility? Describe the person.

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Psalm 131 is a short chapter. David composed this psalm that addresses a dangerous habit: impatient
arrogance. He is saying that he is not proud or haughty or interested in being heard, seen or noticed. In
fact, here as a king he is announcing his plan to move from the limelight and away from public attention.
Genuine humility is not something we announce and once you announce it you forfeit it.

1. A PROUD OR HUMBLE HEART
Proud means to be high and exalted. The root source of pride is the heart. The word haughty means
to be lifted up. The idea is that the person who is proud within shows it in his eyes. The proud look
has to do with eyes lifted up. There are two ways to know the true condition of the heart: the eyes
and through our words.

2. TEACHABILITY
The idea here is that he doesn’t pursue places of prominence or greatness. He recognizes his own
limitations based on his honest assessment of his knowledge and skills and he feels no need to play
the hero. He simply doesn’t have anything to prove. He is not only willing, but in fact, pleased to be
removed from the public platform.

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We are never more teachable when we are humble. In fact, teachability is the defining quality of a
humble person.

2. COMPOSED AND QUIET
The term composed means to be smooth, even, level. David is saying that his inner soul is not
churning but it is calm and smooth. He has tranquility and patience. The result is that he is quieted
within and inwardly silent and still.

What must develop within a person in order to make him or her mature, no longer in need of public
attention or adoration? Have you matured in this regard? What can you do to develop in areas where
you need maturity?

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12. GOD’S ANSWER TO INSECURITY

You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
And knit me together in my mother’s womb.
Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!
Your workmanship is marvelous – how well I know it.
You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion,
As I was woven together in the dark of the womb.
You saw me before I was born.
Everyday of my life was recorded in your book.
Every moment was laid out
Before a single day had passed
How precious are your thoughts about me, O God.
They cannot be numbered.
I can’t even count them;
They outnumber the grains of sand.
And when I wake up
You are still with me!
O God, if only would destroy the wicked!
Get out of your life, you murderers!
They blaspheme you;
Your enemies misuse your name.
O Lord, shouldn’t I hate those who hate you?
Shouldn’t I despise those who oppose you?
Yes, I hate them with total hatred,
For your enemies are my enemies.
Search me, O God, and know my heart;
Test me and know my anxious thoughts.
Point out anything in me that offends you,
And lead me along the path of everlasting life.
—Psalm 119:13-24
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What kind of persons intimidate you and make you feel insecure?
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Many of us struggle with feelings of insecurity. When we look at famous and rich people we feel
intimidated, overlooked and under qualified. We know that deep within we are valuable but when we
compare ourselves with others, we often come on the short end. But the well-kept secret of many
confident persons is that they also struggle with the same insecure feelings we have.

1. HOW CAREFULLY HAS GOD MADE ME?
God explores, digs into and examines us through and through. Our most common and casual
moments are completely familiar to the Lord. God knows us. He monitors our entire process. God
remains in complete control of the smallest details of all His creation.

2. HOW CLOSE IS GOD TO ME?
Our God is not a distant God – He is everywhere. Our verse says – “If I go to the heavens, you are
there. If I go down the grave, you are there.” God is never absent. Sometimes He is silent but he is
always present. We need not feel lonely. God knows it all. He understands our uniqueness fully.

3. HOW CAREFULLY DOES GOD KNOW ME?
One of the proofs that God exists is His creation. He has intricately designed the human body and he
has designed it carefully well. The human body is a phenomenal combination of strength, beauty,
coordination, grace and balance. If God gave such forethought to our birth then God also cares for
our future. He values each one of us.

4. HOW MUCH WILL GOD PROTECT AND HELP ME?
We need not be insecure because God designed us perfectly. He helps us. The God of heaven is
marvelous, pure, holy, just and good and he desires that we be like him.

God knows you, understand you, and cares about you. It might be surprising to know people in your life
want the same from you. What should you do to get to know the people around you more personally
and meaningfully?

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Sequence of the Program

Part 2: Life Coach Presiding (20-25 minutes)

• Recognition of birthdays, anniversaries and other celebration.

God-Centered PNP Personnel

Service-Oriented PNP Personnel

Empowered PNP personnel who embody the ideal PNP can

Family-Based PNP Personnel

Why Squad System?

Be part of the Squad System Basic Monitoring and Evaluation

Please send your request through the Regional Oversight

What is your fondest memory as a child?

• Describe an ideal family atmosphere.

… But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.

WHO IS THE SERVANT LEADER?

Please list ways of how we can take care of creation.

Who is God in your life?

1. GOD THE SUPREME BEING

Pray this prayer …

What do you think should be the lifestyle of a public servant?

What is the importance of being trustworthy in your work as a police officer?

“Many people claim to be loyal, but it is hard to find a trustworthy person.”

What do you think are the qualities of an ideal policeman?

1. DOES NOT MAKE EXCUSES OR BLAME OTHERS FOR HIS SHORT-COMINGS.

Read Mark 10:35-45 and discuss.

Read 1 Corinthians 9:24-27 and discuss.

READ 2 Timothy 1:2-14 and discuss.

• What are the ways you are harnessing a teachable attitude?

Read the various verses and discuss.

Read Proverbs 4:1-27 and discuss.

Read Deuteronomy 8:1-20 and discuss.

Read Genesis 6:1-22 and discuss.

Read Proverbs 19:11; 14:29; 15:18; 16:32; 25:15 and discuss.

Read 2 Timothy 2:14-26 and discuss.

Read Job 1:2-10, 42:12-17 and discuss.

The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it.

Share this short story to the group.

Read I Samuel 15:1-11 and 30:1-31 and discuss.

Read Luke 16:1-15 and discuss.

1. TRUST IN THE LORD

1. WHAT MUST WE DO.

Who is the person you go to when you need advice or wisdom?

2. THE HEAVY HEART.

2. GOSSIP AND SLANDER.

Can we say an encouraging word to members of your squad?

Finish the sentence.

What are the 5 things that you need to be grateful for?

2. LEAVE MERCY TO GOD.

What causes you to envy or to be jealous?

What are your money problems? Do you financial fears?

Five Principles on Money Management

Oh, the joys of those who do not

What are the various facets of integrity? Read Psalm 15:2-5

3. GOD’S ANSWER TO FEAR

5. GOD’S ANSWER TO CONFIDENCE IN GOD

God is our refuge and strength,

9. GOD’S ANSWER TO ENTHUSIAM

Unless the Lord builds a house,

1. THE LORD HIMSELF IS TO BE THE CENTER OF OUR HOME.

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