NOR-HYNIE LAGLAG • According to Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary, Family is “a group of individuals living under one roof and usually under one head” Filipino sociologist Belen T. G. Medina, PhD defined family as “two or more persons who share resources, share responsibility for decisions, share values and goals, and have a commitment to each other over time” 1. THE NUCLEAR OR TRADITIONAL FAMILY ➢is comprised of a father, a mother, and their offspring/s. ➢The father in the traditional family plays the role of the breadwinner while the mother stays at home to manage the house and the children. ➢Contemporary lifestyle are changing this traditional set-up, with the reversal of roles between the mother and the father. ➢We now have families where the mother is the breadwinner, while the farther, also called as “househusband”, manages the home.
➢Another variation of the traditional family is where both
husband and wife are working and earning a living for the family while entrusting their growing child or children to hired caregivers or relatives.
➢Adopted children are also considered as part of the
nuclear or traditional family. ➢The single parent who rears the child or children while earning for the offspring/s. ➢This single parent may be supported by relatives or hired caregivers to take care of the growing children, which is now a common occurrence in many Asian countries such as Singapore and Hong Kong. ➢A Filipino single parent may be assisted financially by the parents or relatives. ➢Sometimes, the single parent will decide on cohabiting with a partner who is not the biological parent of the child. ➢The cohabiting partner may not necessarily reside with a single parent and the child. ➢Is a very common family arrangement found in many parts of the world and most particularly in Asia.
➢Is the nuclear family plus the parents of either the husband or the wife, or both their parents, depending on the arrangements they make.
➢Sometimes, a single brother or sister of
either one of the couple may also be part of the extended family. ➢If there is a need for household help, the first option is to seek out a poorer relative from the provinces to serve the family’s needs.
➢There could exist some friction when it comes to making decisions.
Traditionally, the man of the house is the breadwinner and often makes most of the decisions related to family affairs.
➢However, with the presence of the couple’s parents, the decision-
maker may vary at times. ➢Is just the couple without any child or children, and who may be living all by themselves. They may or may not have household help assisting around the house. New variations of the basic family structures: • Interracial marriages • Adoptive families • Same-sex marriages 1. NUCLEAR OR TRADITIONAL FAMILY —The values, social skills, and behavior are directly learned from the parents. These are expressed in their unique parenting styles, the nature of parental authority they practice, and the general atmosphere at home. 2. SINGLE PARENT FAMILY — The absence of one parent may create an impact on the growing child who would normally look up to authority as role models. 3. EXTENDED FAMILY — Have both positive and negative influences on the child. The presence of grandparents provides the child a sense of anchoring or rooting to the family’s history; thus, enabling the child to appreciate family heritage and traditions. On the other hand, the presence of grandparents may create some confusion to a child, particularly when the biological parents may adopt a parenting style that is opposite of the grandparents. AUTHORITATIVE PARENTING – is a key factor in the psychosocial development of an adolescent, and it is believed to foster a healthy and positive impact on the adolescent’s development. AUTHORITATIVE PARENTS – are those who insist on their child learning important values, norms, and rules, but are also willing to sit down to listen and negotiate with them should they resist. • Learning takes place through observation • Mental states are important to learning • Not all learning can lead to changes in behavior. Characteristics that are influence by heredity and by the environment: • Obesity/leanness • Intelligence Environmental factors that can affect intelligence: • Proper nutrition during pregnancy • childhood – is a graphical map of a family’s history that traces and illustrates patterns in its structure and characteristics using special symbols to describes relationships, major events, diseases, traditions, social and personal beliefs and rituals, cultural heritage, religious beliefs, value systems, philosophies about life, and the dynamics of a family over several generations. • Physical characteristics such as skin tone, shapes of eyes, nose, and ears, hair type, baldness, disease tendencies, etc. • Genetic or external factors such as artistic, musical, or literary abilities, sports abilities, and personality traits like being reserved and introverted, being friendly, being spendthrift, etc. • Social and economic backgrounds such as occupation or careers, educational level, club memberships, school affiliations, political affiliations, and others. • Religious values including religious affiliations, religious practices, and religious beliefs. • Family values like family cohesion, exclusivity, educational attainment, respect for elders, etc. • Cultural background such as provincial origins, languages or dialects spoken, social skills like table manners, family traditions, how family members got their names, favored cuisines and special food served, world views such as the practice of feng shui, karma, superstitions, etc.
(Tracing Family Traits Using a Genogram by
Cynthia Doxey Green, Ph.D.) STEPS IN CREATING YOUR FAMILY GENOGRAM:
STEP 1: Ask yourself this first question: What is my purpose of
creating a genogram? If this is clear with you, then you can start creating a list of persons in your family that will be part of the genogram. You may also start collecting relevant information that are easily accessible to you like your parents, siblings, close relatives, and friend. To serve as an example, let us trace the height characteristics of your family. Determine how to categorize heights, like 4.9 inches and below may be categorized as SHORT, 5.0 inches to 5.6 inches may be categorized as MEDIUM, and 5.7 inches and up as TALL. STEP 2: Next decision that you have to make is to determine the number of generations you would like to be represented in your genogram. In our example, let us trace up to your maternal and paternal grandparents generation. So now, list down all the persons who will form your genogram: 1. Grandparents on your mother’s side 2. Grandparents on your father’s side 3. Your parents 4. Your parent’s siblings 5. Your siblings 6. Your first cousins STEP 3: You may start your research by asking your parents and grandparents where they took after with their heights.
STEP 4: Now you can design your genogram. There are
plenty of genogram templates available online, or you may want to do the diagram free-hand. If you are using free-hand, there are diagrams you need to use that will represent different things. STEP 5: Connect the symbols with lines. Using the illustration given, you may now connect the different symbols you used. Single lines indicate unions or marriages. Double lines will indicate separation or divorce. STEP 6: Use representative symbols for the different height categories you made. Here is a simple representation of these height categories: a. S – for short b. M – for medium c. T – for tall You may place these letters inside the squares and boxes for easy visual identification. STEP 7: Look at your chart and identify if there are patterns. Find out if these are consistent. If not, you might have missed some information regarding a person or a family. Patterns are helpful in explaining the height differences in your family. • Remember that there are some people, even if they are your relatives, who may be sensitive about a certain physical trait, like height. Approach your research by asking questions with sensitivity. • Clarify with your family members that the genogram you are making is to help you understand certain family traits, characteristics, events, marital situations, diseases, other sensitive topics, and explain to hem that you are not judging them about the situations. • Consider talking to a professional when making a genogram on heredity problems, for example. • be careful with your conclusions after you have done your genogram. These might offend some relatives.