By Edward Corey

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction ……………………………………………………. 4
Psychic Seduction ……………………………………………. 6
Psychological Seduction..……………………………………. 16
Remote Seduction..………………..…………………………… 28
Live Setting Seduction …………………..…………………… 35
Humor as a Seduction Tool………………...………………… 44
Romantic Hypnosis……………………………………….……. 50
Domination and Control……………….………………………. 63
Any Woman, Anywhere, Anytime…….…………..…………. 71
Top Seduction Myths …………………………………………. 79
Seduction and Relationship Maintenance……………........ 87
Dealing with Hurt Feelings …………………………………... 95
Becoming an Attract X Seduction Master ………………… 101

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INTRODUCTION

The desire to attract and

seduce beautiful, sexy
women is as natural for
men as eating, sleeping and
watching football. Still,
many men struggle to
capture the attention of the
women they encounter
because they are too shy or
lack the confidence to
effectively seduce attractive
girls. For many men, even the most basic tools they need to bring sexy
women to a sexual relationship are unavailable to them.

Until now, that is. Attract X takes a unique approach to seduction because
it focuses on secret psychological and mental manipulation techniques that
instantly give men the upper hand when approaching even the most
gorgeous women.

Like most guys, I let my insecurities and self-esteem issues limit my ability
to pick up girls. After years of frustration, I finally decided to do something
about it. I made it my personal crusade to research and develop a foolproof
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method for seducing any woman, anywhere at any time. What you hold in
your hands is the result of that project.

In the 21st Century, even the most doe-eyed, inexperienced girl is turned off
by the pickup artist. And any girl worth pursuing has already heard every
cheesy pickup line ever created. Every beautiful woman – no matter how
experienced, how guarded or how unavailable – is powerless to resist the
highly classified psychic and psychological techniques outlined in this top
secret guide.

This guide is based on research I found that was developed by experts with
experience in nearly every academic and scientific field, as well as ex-
military and intelligence officers. The techniques described here have been
proven to work both in the laboratory and in the field. And now they can
empower you to seduce any women, anywhere at any time.

Gentlemen, prepare yourselves for Attract X, the only seduction method

you will ever need to pick up any girl you desire at will.

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PSYCHIC SEDUCTION

When most people think of

psychic powers, they think
of the gypsy fortune teller,
the corny carnival
hypnotist, or some sort of
supernatural mumbo-
jumbo that belongs more
in a Hollywood horror
picture than the real world.
Yet the truth is that
psychic energy is an
actual, measurable
physical property that has
been written about and
studied in depth by both
private institutions and
government agencies -- including military intelligence -- for the past 150
years.

The field of parapsychology has made amazing advances in recent

decades, and has even begun to be merged with more mainstream
scientific fields such as physics, chemistry and medicine. For years,

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researchers have attempted to prove the existence of the nonphysical
subatomic particle called the “psitron” (also known as the “mindon” or the
“psychon”) that serves as the catalyst for extrasensory perception,
telepathy and psychokinesis. But it wasn’t until 1974 that Gerald Feinberg,
a physicist at New York’s Columbia University, developed the unifying
theory of the tachyon -- a theoretical particle that travels faster than the
speed of light – that real progress began to be made.

According to Feinberg, the behavior of tachyons, psychons and other as-

yet-unidentified elementary particles may contradict “known physical laws”
but eventually may be understood “within the existing body of physical
principle.” Much of Feinberg’s work was later classified by the US
Department of Defense. He died in 1992.

Feinberg and other groundbreaking researchers such as the psychologist

Cyril Burt and British mathematician Adrian Dobbs realized the behavior of
psychons could one day explain such paranormal activity as precognition
(the ability to accurately predict future events), ESP and even how most
normal people can “sense” when somebody is watching them, even when
they can’t see them.

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The Mind’s Hidden Secrets

While academics continue to attempt to prove the existence of the psychon

and understand its behavior, others have approached parapsychology for
other purposes. One of the most famous was the Stargate Project, a top-
secret US military project that was first launched in the 1970s and
continued until its “official” termination in 1995. The purpose of the Stargate
Project was to harness the military and domestic applications of psychic
phenomena, especially “remote viewing”, or the ability to psychically “see”
events, sites or information using only the mind’s innate power.

According to recently declassified documents, the Stargate Project

identified 22 active military and domestic “remote viewers” who were able
to provide accurate data to provide actionable information, including the
launch date for a newly constructed Soviet submarine, the release of the
American hostage Richard Queen in Iran in 1979, and the accurate
prediction of the attack on the USS Stark in May, 1987.

The Stargate Project’s remote viewers not only focused on military projects,
but on domestic investigations as well. In one, a “seer” accurately identified
a suspect in a serial crime. The suspect was captured and his later
confession verified almost exactly what was viewed by the domestic remote
viewer. The FBI subsequently put a hold on the case and changed its
status to “classified” for purposes of national security.

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Perhaps not surprisingly, after the military terminated the Stargate Project
in 1995, it was taken over by the Central Intelligence Agency and
information about its current status is not available.

The concepts of psychic energy, telekinesis and mind control are not
supernatural. They are as real as the laws of physics and the Periodic
Table of the Elements. As science continues to scramble to understand
how these properties work, we can use these concepts to make ourselves
more powerful and influential.

Mental Arousal

Another field of parapsychology that has been the target of both

government and private research is mental arousal, or the power to
sexually stimulate another person using only the mind.

While the human brain has been dissected, magnetically graphed,

electronically mapped, and otherwise exhaustively studied, there are still
many things about the way it works that science cannot answer. For
example, you may have experienced the phenomenon referred to as “déjà
vu”. This is when you have the certainty that you have lived through an
experience before, a form of precognition that currently has no scientific
explanation.

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Or perhaps you have experienced a “gut feeling” about something that later
turns out to be correct. By today’s scientific standards, this is patently
impossible, yet in practice it happens all the time.

When it comes to sexual arousal, the human body takes its cues from a
number of a variety sources, most notably the five senses: seeing, hearing,
tasting, feeling and smelling. But it also can be affected by extra-sensory
input, including one’s predisposition to a sexual encounter (how “horny” you
are), past sexual history, environment, mood, how hungry you are and a
myriad of other factors.

Another, less obvious factor is the mind’s ability to pick up on signals or

suggestions being transmitted by another person, either consciously or
subconsciously. For example, adolescents will frequently irrationally fixate
on another person, resulting in a “crush”. The object of the crush often
shows no signs of mutual attraction, may be completely unaware of the
subject’s existence, and may not even be sexually developed. Yet the
emotions felt by the subject have been triggered by some sort of mental
suggestion – a sexual radio signal of sorts -- that resulted in their being
“turned on” by that person.

Pheronomes and other sub-sensory stimuli also play an important role in

stimulating a person’s sexuality. When a person is in the mood for sex, he
or she will naturally emit hormones that send out an odorous signal that

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can’t be perceived by another person’s sense of smell. Yet the receiver of
these odors can immediately be picked up on this invisible signal and
identify the other person as being “in heat” or ready to copulate.

Harnessing the Energy around Us

Women have a natural erotic energy that they emit whenever they are
feeling sexually aroused or are predisposed to arousal due to where they
are in their menstrual cycle, how long it has been since they last had sex,
and sensory stimuli they may have recently encountered, such as music,
colors, images and other stimulation.

This energy field can be viewed using infra-red technology. It is sometimes

referred to as the woman’s aura. Men also project erotic energy, but
because men’s sexual desire is more sustained and has fewer peaks and
valleys, the fields they generate are typically less intense than a woman’s.

In order to see a woman’s erotic energy, it is necessary to train your mind

to be able to tell the difference between a woman who is emitting a lot of
erotic energy and one who is not. This is a skill that is developed by
practice.

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The best way to develop this skill is by observing women who are highly
erotically charged and those who are not side-by-side – such as at a party
or nightclub -- and then imprinting those differences on your mind. Find
women who are obviously interested in talking to men. Simultaneously, find
women who are keeping to themselves or chatting with friends, but are not
outwardly seeking men. Then try to focus on the different types of energy
each set of women is emitting.

If you concentrate hard enough, you can begin to physically see differences
in these energy fields. Practice this skill anywhere women are found and
eventually it can become second nature to you.

When a man is in the proximity of a woman, there are certain instinctual

responses he can pick up that subconsciously indicates the level of erotic
energy that she is transmitting. It is also possible to train the mind to be
consciously aware of these energy fields and quickly identify whether or not
a woman is open to a sexual encounter, whether she is “turned on”, or
whether she is indifferent, or whether she is closed to the idea of sex.
These are referred to as her “seduction gates”. When she is in a high state
of arousal, her seduction gates are said to be wide open. When she is
transmitting low erotic energy, her seductive gates are only partially open
or closed.

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This energy field is a combination of the woman’s emotions, lust, attraction
and passion. When it is very intense, it physically manifests itself in a
variety of physical ways, including the moistening of the vaginal walls, the
hardening of the nipples, and increased heart rate. It also causes her mind
to send of a signal that can be perceived by the man if he has been
properly trained on what to look out for.

By harnessing this erotic energy, you can easily identify those women who
are most open to being approached, seduced and sexually conquered.
Once you develop this skill, as you move through a place where there are a
lot of women – a shopping mall, a party, a public park, a grocery store –
you will be able to physically see which women are open to seduction just
as easily as you could see which are wearing a particular color dress.

When you focus your seductive energies on those women who are already
sexually stimulated and subconsciously or even consciously looking for a
sexual encounter, you can increase your seduction success rate to nearly
100 percent.

Hidden Frequencies

Because men instinctually want to disperse their seed as widely as

possible, they are always “on the prowl” for sexual activity, regardless of

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whether they are in a monogamous relationship or not or even if they are
unwilling to act on it. Men simply can’t help but to be sexually stimulated
when they see a woman’s breast cleavage or a pair of long, shapely legs,
for example.

Because women can usually only carry one child at a time during
pregnancy, they are naturally much more selective when it comes to
choosing a sexual partner. Consequently, their “window of opportunity” for
seduction is much narrower. Still, all women have sexual needs and when
they are in a state of sexual arousal, whether they try to suppress it or not
they will be open to seduction and intercourse.

Visualization and Its Benefits

While studying women’s erotic energy fields side-by-side can help train
your mind to see these fields, another way to train your mind to identify
which women are transmitting a high level of erotic energy is through
visualization exercises. This is when you imagine yourself moving through
a group of women and physically seeing each woman’s erotic “glow”. For
some, it will be a dull yellow while for others they will actually appear red
and throbbing. These are the women you want to target for seduction.

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This type of visualization exercise opens the man’s subconscious portals
that are always on the lookout for sex. Your mind naturally picks up on
erotic energy subconsciously. But by practicing the visual experience of
seeing the erotic energy glowing from women, you can unlock this
subconscious experience and make it a reality.

Horoscope and Seduction

Astrology is based on the concept that gravitational forces that existed at

the moment of your birth influence your personality. While this concept has
been the basis for an endless supply of newspaper columns, the reality is
that on an atomic level, our bodies are profoundly affected by gravitational
and magnetic attraction in our daily lives. And by directing these forces
strategically, it is possible to use them to increase the level of erotic energy
a woman is releasing at any given moment.

While it has not yet been proven scientifically, this type of gravitation
attraction may be related to the way psychons move on the atomic level. It
is a field that merits continued study and perhaps someday will allow us to
more easily identify erotic energy fields.

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PSYCHOLOGICAL SEDUCTION

When you practice visually “seeing”

the amount of erotic energy a
woman is releasing, you can easily
identify those women who are most
open to your seduction and
eventual sexual conquest. After
only a few hours of practice, you
can begin to see a noticeable glow
coming from certain women,
indicating that they are open to
being approached. This skill
improves the more you practice it
because you can actually train your
mind to migrate this response from
the subconscious part of your brain to the areas that control conscious
thought.

On a psychological level, both men and women respond positively to

somebody who gives a clear signal of interest to them. If someone looks at
you and smiles, your brain’s first natural reaction is to be momentarily
pleased, regardless of the circumstances. Then, your mind begins to
process this signal and reach a conclusion. For example, if you are married

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and a pretty girl smiles at you or you are straight and another man gives
you a clear signal of interest, after this initial glow of pleasure, your brain
quickly reaches a conclusion, such as “I’m married and can’t be fooling
around with this girl” or “Why is this dude giving me the big eye? Can’t he
see I’m into chicks?”

Yet in that moment of pleasure lies your opportunity for successful

seduction because when a woman is emitting strong erotic energy, these
energy fields can interfere with and delay her rational processing your
signal of interest long enough to confuse her response. In other words,
when you can visually “see” that a woman is in the throbbing red state of
erotic energy and you show an interest in her, the moment of pleasure that
occurs before she begins to think rationally again is prolonged, allowing
you to take the next step toward successful seduction.

Reverse Seduction

Once you show an interest in a woman emitting a high level of erotic

energy and she experiences that natural moment of pleasure, there are a
number of ways to open her seduction gates. The first is reverse seduction.
This is when you turn the tables on her by forcing her to pursue you, rather
than the other way around.

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Here’s how it works: When you make eye contact and smile at a woman, if
she is emitting a lot of sexual energy, her mind will naturally blush with
pleasure. It’s a natural human response to want to feel important and at the
center of attention and by giving her an interest signal, you have caused
this response to activate within her. And because of her erotic energy level,
the rational process of interpreting your signal is delayed. For a few brief
moments, she wants you to approach her and initiate seduction. This will
be true regardless of whether she is in a relationship or single or even her
sexual orientation. For a few moments, because of her psychological state,
she will be powerless to resist your will.

But instead of acting in the expected manner by approaching her, you turn
your attention to another woman, preferably one of her friends or
somebody she is chatting with. By doing this, you challenge her ego, and
she will naturally respond by trying to retain her hierarchy of superiority
among her inner circle of friends. To do so, she will focus her erotic energy
on you, paying you more attention and becoming flirty and playful.

At this point, you should attempt to aggravate this response even further so
that it becomes stronger. Laugh more and show more interest in what the
other girls are saying than you do your target. Make casual contact with
them, such as touching their arm, while avoiding contact with her. When
sitting or standing in a group of women, face the others more and align
your body and torso so that you clearly appear to be focusing more on
them than your target.
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By using these deflection techniques, you can build a powerful
psychological response in her mind that challenges her ego and forces her
to want to make a stronger impression on you, throwing her seduction
gates wide open.

Similarity

The second technique involves exploiting similarities between you and your
intended target by creating subconscious points of connection. This is
when you find areas of commonality and emphasize them in order to create
feelings of trust and comfort.

When you initiate contact with a woman by showing interest, after the initial
flush of pleasurable confusion, her mind will begin to rationalize a
response. It may call upon previous experiences. For example, if you are
smoking, she may recall that her previous boyfriend was a smoker and she
will instantly associate you with him. Or she may judge you against a
mental checklist of what she is looking for in a man: Are you tall enough?
Are you overweight? Are you wearing nice clothes? How do you smell?
And so on.

Your target will be more open to seduction if she feels at ease with you and
is comfortable being with you. If she begins to feel anxious or unsure, her

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seduction gates will slam closed. Your goal is to make her feel that she can
trust you and have confidence being with you. To accomplish this, you want
to look for and emphasize similarities between you and her.

In conversation, this means trying to identify mutual friends, places and

experiences. Once you find something you have in common, steer the
conversation to that similarity so that she begins to feel as if she knows you
and can trust you.

You also can create these similarities by subtly mimicking her gestures and
language. If she uses a lot of hand gestures, for example, gradually begin
to work more hand gestures of your own into your conversation. If she uses
particular slang words or has an accent, reflect these back to her, being
careful not to seem as if you are mocking her. This will add to her feelings
of comfort and trust.

Physical Proximity

Where you are in proximity to your intended seduction target plays an

important role in whether or not you will be successful. Both men and
women have subconscious guidelines that regulate the amount of
“personal space” they require. Generally, 4 to 6 feet away is considered
“social” space, 1-1/2 to 4 feet is considered “personal” space, and 0 to 18

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inches away is considered “intimate” space. If you violate any of these
spaces prematurely, you will sabotage your seduction.

Knowing when to move from one space to the next requires reading the
woman’s body language. She will offer perceptible “tells” that will give you
the green light or red light to move from the “social” to the “personal”, and
the “personal” to the “intimate” spaces.

The first step is to penetrate her social proximity zone without making eye
contact with her or otherwise showing interest. Distract yourself with an
unrelated task, such as studying a menu or sign if you are in a bar or
looking at book titles if you are in a library or bookstore. Don’t hover in her
social zone longer than 15 or 20 seconds, however.

In most cases, women will not initiate conversation, so you will need to
open things up by casually moving into her personal zone, acting as if
you’re trying to get closer to the bar or are going toward a particular book.
Don’t linger in this zone longer than 3 to 5 seconds or you may cause her
to back away into her social zone.

Once you penetrate her personal space, open the conversation with an
innocuous observation or casual comment. Don’t turn your body to face
hers, just your face, and don’t alter the way you’re standing or your body

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language. The purpose is to give her an opportunity to respond without
feeling as if you are coming on to her.

When she responds, observe her body language closely for changes and
alterations. If her body language moves from closed to open, you should do
the same. Turn your body to face hers and use your body language to
show an interest in her. If she continues to maintain her open body
language during your conversation, you can manipulate your body
language to encourage her to continue to open up.

How close you stand and the body language you use gives her the
subliminal and psychological impression that she has earned you attention,
instead of your having given it away for free. It is a trap that you lay to see if
she will walk into it. When she does, her seduction gates will open up. But if
you rush too quickly through her proximity zones, you will make her feel
anxious, non-confident and her gates will quickly shut, perhaps
permanently.

Reciprocity

The rule of reciprocity in sales states that if you give away something for
free, the recipient feels a subconscious debt to you and will be more open
to your offer. Think of the car dealer who offers free hot dogs to showroom

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visitors, or who gives away sports tickets with every test drive. More often
than not, these tactics result in increased auto sales.

The same principle can be used in seduction, except instead of giving away
hot dogs or tickets, what you are offering for free is affection. Both men and
women have a natural desire to be liked by other people. If we feel
somebody doesn’t like us, it can bother us and distract us
disproportionately to how much we actually like that person ourselves. But
if we feel somebody likes us, a subconscious attachment is made with that
person because there is an unspoken emotional debt that we feel needs to
be repaid.

Offering affection to the object of your seduction can take the form of a
smile, a kind word, a compliment, a touch on the arm or any other action
that wordlessly tells her “I like you”. Once you have expressed this
message, it lays a trap for her to reciprocate, either in words or deeds. If
you have read her erotic signals correctly and her seductive gates are
open, you will have increased your chances of a successful seduction.

Practice using reciprocity to get women to be more interested in you.

Become comfortable passing out compliments to women you don’t know,
such as at the grocery store, at church or around the office. Once it
becomes second nature to you to notice special qualities about women and

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commenting on them, you can get more women to see you as a potential
sex partner.

Personality Types

In the laws governing electricity and magnetism, opposite charges attract

and similar charges repel. But in seduction, the opposite is true. People
who are similar to each other are more likely to be attracted to one another
than two people with completely different personality types. For example, if
you are introverted, you are more likely to be attracted to quiet, mousy
women than with loud and brassy women. If you have a “Type A”
personality and are always looking to be the dominant Alpha Male, you
typically won’t be attracted to quiet introverted women and instead will
gravitate towards flashy bombshells.

In seduction, this law is useful because it can help you adjust your
personality to fit the personality of your seduction target. When you observe
a woman you want to seduce, take note of her personality type, then mimic
this personality even if it is not your own natural one. This will make her
more likely to be attracted to you and will increase your chances of a
successful seduction.

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Another skill to practice is to repeat back what women say to you, without
sounding like you are parroting them or making fun of them. If a woman
you meet at the store, for example, tells you that she has just stopped by to
pick up a few things for dinner, reply, “You’re here to get something for
dinner?” This will both keep her talking to you and set her more at ease so
that she feels more comfortable around you. Try to practice this skill with
every woman you encounter, and you will notice how it can open their
seduction gates to you.

Biggest Psychological Pitfalls to Avoid

When it comes to gaining the psychological advantage over your seduction

target, there are certain pitfalls that are guaranteed to derail your plans.
Walk into any of these traps and you almost audibly hear her seduction
gates crashing closed:

 Mistaking courtesy for interest – Women will often respond to your

comment or return a smile out of politeness, but will not actually be
open to seduction. To reduce your chances of misreading her
courtesy for interest, pay less attention to what she does and more
attention to how she does it. Observe her body language after she
reacts to your show of interest and you usually can tell if she is
sincerely responding in kind or simply being polite.

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 Ignoring proximity borders – Most girls, especially those who are
sexy, are hit on by guys all the time. They naturally create barriers to
keep most men at arm’s length. If you ignore these barriers, she will
always think of you as a creep or a threat, virtually eliminating any
chance of seduction. Always respect the social, personal and intimate
proximity distances and you can build her trust and confidence.

 Acting too fast – For women, seduction is a slow dance that

cautiously moves toward its foregone conclusion. If you try to
accelerate the process too quickly, she will recognize that the natural
rhythms of the seductive process are out of sync and it will take her
out of the moment, effectively ending the seduction. For every move
you make, she will make a counter-move. Take the time to wait for it
and you can keep the progression of the seduction moving forward.

 Taking it too slow – Conversely, women are passionate beings with

real sexual needs. If you have successfully made contact with a
woman who is sending off strong erotic energy and who has
enthusiastically responded to your interest, don’t be afraid to ramp
things up faster than you normally would. The whole key is to study
her responses and observe the way she reacts to what you say and
do, as well as your body language and proximity.

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REMOTE SEDUCTION

The principles of remote

seduction are based on
the concepts of telepathy,
will and the Laws of
Attraction to get any
woman you desire – even
if she is on the other side
of the country or is
someone with whom you
have lost contact.

Remote seduction can be

used to gain the attraction of women you have never met, instilling in them
an irrational desire to seek you out and interact with you in a romantic
relationship. It also has been used to get former lovers to call out of the
blue, seeking to rekindle long-dormant relationships.

Seducing Any Woman from a Distance

Up until now we have discussed using psychological techniques to seduce

women within a physical proximity of you. These methods are based upon

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honing your powers of observation and correctly interpreting her words,
action and body language.

Now, our focus turns to an entirely new approach to seduction, one that is
based not on observation and rational thought, but on the power of the
spirit and exerting your strong personal will to force actions to happen.

The Laws of Attraction are commonly used by people seeking to gain

wealth, power, health or other valuable objectives. But they can also be
used to attract love and sexual interest. The Laws of Attraction require you
to focus on the object of your desire and visualize your obtaining it. It trains
your mind to anticipate achieving what you want. This in turn sets forces in
motion that cause the outcome to be realized in actuality.

For example, if you forcefully imagine yourself to have great wealth,

experiencing it in your mind and imposing your will upon the universal
powers that control destiny, eventually you will achieve your objective.
Wealth will come to you simply by your wanting it so badly. The decisions
you make, the actions you take and your unceasing desire for wealth
eventually brings you to completion.

Remote seduction works the same way. You use visualization and the
power of your imagination to create a ball of erotic energy that you focus at

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a remote object of your desire. It can be a former lover, a co-worker or
acquaintance, or even somebody you have never met.

By directing this positive energy at your target, you can instill your will on
them, wrapping their mind with your energy and permeating their thoughts
and feelings. Eventually, they will be drawn to your positive energy and will
actively seek out so that they can achieve completion of their emotional
desire.

Remote seduction works according to the same principles that cause one
twin to feel pain when the other is injured, or when a mother has a
premonition that their child is in danger right before the child is injured in an
accident that occurs hundreds of miles away. It’s these type of long-range
energy fields that are used to create these attraction bonds.

The forces of erotic energy work at both short and long distances. The
object of your desire can be on the other side of the room or the other side
of the country. It makes no difference. All you need to do is to create this
powerful ball of energy and direct it at the person you desire, all the while
visualizing she’s reciprocating your passion, and the universal forces will do
the rest.

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Identify a woman you want to seduce. Make sure it is actually a woman you
have a realistic chance of having sex with. Don’t bother focusing this
energy on a celebrity or another famous person because very often the
personality they project publicly is not their real personality, but instead just
a role they are playing in public. Focusing your attraction energy on this
person, consequently, is like trying to seduce a fictional character in a book
or a role on a television show. Neither are real.

Yet you can use the power of remote seduction to attract a real person.
Here’s how: After you identify an actual woman you want to seduce, picture
in your mind what it will be like to interact with that person in a positive
manner. See yourself talking to her, having her laugh and feel comfortable
with you, and smiling as she looks at you. The more realistic you can make
this visualization, the more effective it will be.

Now, walk yourself through your seduction of that person: What will you
say? What does she say in response? How do the two of you move? What
happens next? Walk yourself through the entire process up to the very
point where you engage in a physical sex act. Imagining this is not
necessary.

Repeat this process several times over the course of a week. In time, this
visualization will train your mind to make this remote seduction a reality. As
opportunities arise to make it happen, instead of letting them pass by, you

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will recognize them and act on them. Over time, you will move closer and
closer to the actual seduction.

Remote seduction typically takes longer to enact than interpersonal

seduction, so it could take weeks or even months before you achieve your
desired outcome. Still, if you are persistent and religiously devote yourself
to achieving the results you want, it will work in time.

Online Seduction Secrets

The Internet has made it easy to meet women online. There are hundreds
of dating websites, chat rooms, forums and social media sites you can use
to meet dozens of beautiful, engaging women without ever leaving the
comfort of your home office. But the convenience of online seduction
comes at a cost: You lose the ability to directly observe the way women
respond to your actions. Even with video chat, reading a woman’s body
language is limited, and sensing the amount of erotic energy she is emitting
is almost impossible.

Yet online seduction gives you the opportunity to combine the principles of
interpersonal seduction with those of remote seduction. The interpretations
that are lost due to the limitations of the Internet can be replaced with the

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power of will created through remote seduction techniques. The end result
is successful seduction over the wires of the worldwide web.

Practice focusing the techniques of remote seduction on the women you

meet online. Learn as much as you can about them in their profiles and
while interacting with them in order to make your visualization more
accurate. If they live someplace you have visited before, make sure to
include details about what the place looks like, smells like and any other
sensory details you can add.

Experience has shown that remote seduction only works based on positive
energy and if the seduction you desire is for the right reasons. If your
seduction effort is rooted in negative energy – such as revenge, retribution
or to cause the other person emotional pain – somehow the energy cannot
travel long distances.

Other negative influences on the remote seduction include skepticism, not

trying hard enough, and failure to stick with it.

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Benefits of Invisibility

If you are a fan of the Harry Potter books, you may be familiar with the
cloak of invisibility. Whoever put on this cloak instantly became transparent
and could travel around hearing and seeing what others were doing and
saying without anybody noticing them.

Remote seduction is like the cloak of invisibility because it allows you to

impose your will upon another person without them being aware of your
presence. That way when their minds react to the powerful ball of erotic
energy that you direct at them, it seems to them that the source of this
attraction lies within their own will.

In other words, because they believe that it’s their idea to be attracted to
you, they are going to be more open to your seduction efforts once you
eventually make actual contact.

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LIVE SETTING SEDUCTION

Remote seduction and

psychological seduction can get
the ball rolling, but eventually you
are going to have to actually
seduce your target in a live setting.
In other words, you are going to
have to talk them out of their
panties and into your bed.

Like other seduction techniques,

live setting seduction becomes
easier the more you do it. As you gain experience and learn what works
best for you, you can move toward those methods and avoid the ones that
don’t provide the results you want. Everybody’s situation is unique because
no two people are exactly alike. You may have strengths that the next guy
lacks and vice versa. The key is to maximize your personal strengths and
minimize your weaknesses so that you can move as quickly as possible
toward a successful seduction.

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Breaking through Barriers

Even when you identify a woman who is emitting strong erotic energy, have
captured her attention and talked your way into her personal proximity
zone, there are still numerous barriers that can prevent you from achieving
your desired outcome. But by keeping in mind your primary objective – the
sexualization of your relationship – you usually can overcome these
barriers with very little trouble.

The biggest barrier is often internalized: She has a concept of herself that
is inconsistent with her strong sexual desires. Her mind is telling herself
that she is a “good girl” who doesn’t do the things that her heart desires,
such as allowing you to have dirty, filthy sex with her. She’s concerned
about her reputation and the way you and other people think of her.

This typically pushes her towards thinking of you as friends rather than as
lovers. In this way, if she feels an attachment to you she is able to maintain
her emotional progression without advancing physical progression. In other
words, she can maintain her self-concept, even if she knows deep down it
is flawed.

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To counteract this, three effective responses have been developed. The
first is to bait her into sexualizing the way she feels about you by saying
something provocative and giving her the opportunity to respond.

For example, if she says something you could playfully react to, try saying,
“You really need to be put in your place.” Or if you are giving her a tour of
your home, when you get to the end, point to the basement door and say,
“And these are the stairs that lead to the dungeon.”

These types of provocative yet still ambiguous statements throw the ball
into her court. Maintain direct eye contact as if you were daring her to
respond and wait for her reaction. What you are really doing is opening a
door that allows her to jettison her self-image and respond in the way she
truly desires.

A second technique is to use role-play to offer her the freedom to enter into
territory that borders on the naughty. It should be something fun and playful
that allows her to escape the mundane and everyday interactions she
experiences with most men, such as telling her that you want to take her to
South Beach so she can show off her hot body in a skimpy bikini. Or you
could tell her that she is so sweet that you could just eat her up as if she
were made of candy.

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Unlike baiting her, role play should be unambiguously sexualized. It sets
the tone that your interaction is already sexualized and shuts off her ability
to stop the physical progression. It creates a crossroad where she will have
to choose to either pursue the sexualization of your interaction, or shut
things down entirely.

To be effective, role playing needs to be timed just right. Use it too early,
and it will be awkward and embarrassing and will usually cause her to
abandon the interaction. But if you use it after you already have established
a good rapport and your conversation could conceivably proceed to
something more serious, it can be an effective way to set the tone for the
rest of your seduction.

The third technique for breaking through her barriers is to create false
barriers and allowing her to break through them. For example, you can tell
her that it’s too bad she’s such a nice, straight-laced girl because you really
want to kiss her. Or you could tell her that the two of you could never be a
couple because it would just be a constant cycle of fights and makeup sex.

False barriers work because they flip the script. Girls are used to being on
the defense when it comes to guys hitting on them, but if you give her the
opportunity to go on the offense and knock down the false barriers you
have created, she will be so busy beating down your objections that she
won’t be able to focus on her own barriers.

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Creating Trust Bonds

Live interaction that leads to successful seduction takes time to develop.

No girl is going to let you into her pants unless you can instill in her a
feeling that she can trust you. This requires building trust bonds and this is
what typically takes the most amount of time.

Building trust bonds is very similar to the process used by therapeutic

hypnotists, clinical professionals who help people achieve some sort of
desired objective, such as to eat less or stop smoking.

You can create trust bonds by utilizing variations of the five elements used
in hypnosis. The first stage is gaining a rapport with the target. This can be
done by finding areas of commonality – mutual friends, places you lived,
experiences you both have had – and then directing the conversation to
those topics. Offer her the opportunity to open up and share personal
details. This will put her at ease and make her feel comfortable in your
presence, and her natural defenses to seduction will begin to erode.

The next step is induction. This is when the hypnotist induces the subject to
fall asleep usually by suggesting that they are feeling sleepy and that it’s
impossible for them to keep their eyes open. In seduction, instead of
suggesting that your target is sleepy, you want to suggest that they are

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feeling aroused. You can do this by slowly and carefully guiding the
conversation toward riskier and more inappropriate topics.

Make an offhand comment about your first sexual encounter or make a

joke about a sexual fantasy you’ve always had. Keep it clean and natural,
but definitely sexual in nature. For example, “That reminds me of the time
we all went skinny dipping at summer camp” or “My first girlfriend was a
wildcat in the sack”. While this type of conversational tactic can be risky, if
you do it gradually and if she is responsive to it, you can ramp it up so that
the conversation becomes more sexually charged.

The third stage of hypnosis is deepening. This is when the subject is put
into a trance through relaxation techniques such as deep breathing. With
seduction, this can be achieved by asking open ended questions and trying
to get your target to make an emotional investment into your interaction by
telling you a personal story, the longer and more drawn out the better.
Keep her talking by asking a lot of brief questions that are non-disruptive
but keep the story moving along, such as “And then what happened?” or
“She did?”

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Turning on the Romantic Feelings

The fourth stage of hypnosis is the therapy stage. Because the subject is in
a deeply relaxed state, the hypnotist is able to inject therapeutic
suggestions that are easily absorbed into the unconscious mind. These can
include addressing eating disorders, stopping smoking or drinking, and
other helpful reinforcements.

In seduction, this takes the form of planting romantic and sexualized

suggestions into your target’s mind by allowing her to imagine being in a
physical relationship with. This is achieved by suggesting images such as,
“I’m trying to imagine what it would be like for us to get together,” “I just
thought of what we would look like in bed together”, or “I’m thinking of what
it would feel like to kiss you.” If you have done an effective job of coaxing
her into a relaxed state where she feels very much at ease with you, these
somewhat startling statements will seem very natural to her. The important
thing is to frame it as an image that she can envision in her mind’s eye.

If you blatantly make a statement such as “I want to kiss you so badly”, it

can disrupt the flow of trust that you are trying to create. Instead, use the
power of her mind to create images of your intention so that she can
internalize them and process them as her own. That way, she takes
ownership of the idea and wills you to complete the seduction.

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The Power of Touch

The fifth and final stage of a hypnotic state is the wakening stage. The
hypnotist gently lifts the subject out of the trance and returns them to full
consciousness, often with the suggestion that they won’t remember
anything that happened when they were under hypnosis.

When building trust bonds, you want to close your interaction by physically
touching the other person. It’s vitally important that you don’t touch her until
the very end. This is what reinforces the idea that you and she have made
a strong personal connection.

Touching is a very powerful sense that is charged with erotic and emotional
energy. Your touch should be non-sexual in nature – don’t grab her breast
or her bottom, for example – but should communicate with her in a non-
verbal way that you have made an emotional suggestion. Put your hand on
her forearm or shoulder or reach around for a light hug. In most cases, she
will respond to your contact and return the touch.

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Introducing Intimacy

Once you have created strong trust bonds with your seduction target, her
seduction gates will open and you will be able to walk right through them.
This is when you want to close the deal by introducing intimacy into your
interaction.

The best way to introduce intimacy is to suggest that you go somewhere

where the two of you can be alone. This is a code that most women
understand that means it’s time to get physical. How far you are going to go
is yet to be determined: It could be just kissing or light petting, or it could
mean hot, passionate sex. That will be determined later. But by simply
asking if you can take her somewhere private, you are inviting her to take
your interaction to the next level which involves physicality.

If you are at a crowded bar or party, tell her you want to go outside where it
is quieter, or “get out of here and go somewhere we can be alone.” If you
are receiving very strong erotic energy from her, you can be more direct,
suggesting that you go back to your place or hers. Once she accepts this
offer, the seduction is nearly complete. She has granted your request for
intimacy and the only thing left to be determined is how far you will be able
to take her.

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HUMOR AS SEDUCTION TOOL

If the fastest way to a man’s

heart is through his stomach,
then the fastest way into a
girl’s pants is through her
funny bone. If you can get a
girl to laugh, you are already
halfway to a successful
seduction. That’s because
women won’t laugh at
something you say unless
they are already open to being in a physical encounter with you.

Laughter implies trust. When she laughs at something you have said, she
is telling you, “I feel at ease around you to such an extent that I can share
in your joke.” If a woman is not comfortable around you, no matter how
funny you are, she is not going to laugh.

To accelerate your seduction, therefore, you want to make her laugh. Once
you can do this, the rest of the seduction process is relatively easy.

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Laughter as an Aphrodisiac

A lot of guys think girls are all uptight princesses who are saving their
intimacy for that “special guy”, when in reality a woman’s sex drive is as
strong as a man’s, sometimes even stronger. But pretty girls are
accustomed to a constant barrage of men hitting on them, so they develop
defense mechanisms – such as being stand-offish or cold -- as a means of
protecting themselves.

Women also are generally smaller and weaker than men, so they also need
to protect themselves from physical attack, especially if they are around
men whose inhibitions have been lowered, such as the guys they meet in
bars or at parties. If they lower their defenses by showing the slightest
interest, most men are going to barge through that doorway and try to
become physical whether the girl is into it or not.

That’s why girls won’t laugh at your jokes – real laughter, not a smile or a
“courtesy laugh” -- unless they are actually into you. Her laughter is a signal
that it’s okay to move forward. She’s giving you the green light to continue
your seduction. She’s never going to say, “Hey, I really like you, so you can
keep trying to get me into bed”, but if she is laughing at what you say, that’s
essentially what she is telling you.

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Sources of Common Comedy

Some guys are naturally funny and making people laugh is simply second
nature to them. But for most guys, being funny is something they need to
work at. So how can you make a girl laugh? Should you memorize a bunch
of dumb jokes or one-liners? You can, but if you aren’t accustomed to
telling jokes or lack the timing of a stand-up comic, these will probably
sound flat and you won’t get the laughter you want.

An easier way to be funny is to find something that you have in common

and talk about it. For example, if you see a guy passed out on the porch as
you are walking into a frat party, if 99 people walk past him and don’t say
anything, it’s not funny. Say - “Hey, what’s the story with that guy? I
remember when I had my first beer!” You have found an area of
commonality and made it something humorous.

Meeting new people is a tense situation for both guys and girls, but
injecting levity relieves this tension and helps people feel more relaxed and
at ease. Humor helps break down the barriers between men and women
and speeds up the seduction process.

Humor is also a measure of your intelligence and confidence. Girls notice

guys who are funny because it means they are smart enough to find humor

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in a given situation and have enough confidence to say it out loud. If
everybody sees something but you are the only guy who points out how
funny it is, you are the one who will get the attention of the hottest girls.

Power of Creativity

Being funny is a powerful tool in the seduction process, but it’s also
something you can develop. Even if you aren’t funny naturally, start paying
attention to people who are funny and listen to what they say and how they
say it. You can learn a lot about what makes people laugh then try to
emulate these qualities on your own.

Watching funny movies and comedians on television or YouTube is another

way to develop your wit. What you will notice is that what they are saying
accounts for only about 25% of the humor. The remaining 75% is how they
say it in order to get a laugh.

Humor Mistakes to Avoid

When you can get a girl to laugh, you can reinforce the trust bonds you
have developed and keep your seduction moving forward. But you also

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have to use humor cautiously because it can easily derail your seduction
and disconnect the trust bonds you have worked so hard to create.

Avoid using humor that is mean-spirited or mocking because this will show
her that you are not a nice guy. While it’s appropriate to point out other
people’s foibles, do so in a manner that is kind-hearted and positive, rather
than cruel.

Also, be careful about using dirty jokes or rough language because it can
be off-putting. That kind of humor might be funny in the locker room or at
the poker table, but it could offend her sensibilities and turn her off. Even if
she’s not shocked by what you say, she may pretend that she is just to
save face so you don’t think she’s cheap or low-class.

Finally, teasing is a flirty way to get a girl to laugh, but use it sensibly and
don’t take it too far. Never, ever talk about a girl’s weight or body issues.
These are far too personal subjects for her to joke about, even after you
have known her a long time. Stay away from the way she dresses, her hair
or other subjects she might find offensive.

Better things to tease her about are her age, her accent, where she grew
up and went to school. For example, if you are at a party you can ask her if
she’s old enough to drink, especially if she’s clearly older. Or if you meet a

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girl who has a strong Southern accent, try betting her that you can tell
where she’s from then guess that she is from Brooklyn, New Jersey or
somewhere exactly the opposite of where you actually think she is from.

There is nothing more seductive and sexy to a woman than a man with a
sense of humor. Develop yours and you can increase the speed and
effectiveness of your seductions substantially.

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ROMANTIC HYPNOSIS

Is it any wonder that many songs’

titles about love and romance
involve images of hypnotism and
the supernatural? “I Put a Spell on
you”, “Love Potion No. 9” and “The
Power of Love” are just a few of
hundreds of examples.

That’s because there’s something

magical and even mystical about
the emotion of love. When you fall
in love with somebody, it’s almost
like going into a hypnotic trance. In
many cases, you are blind to the person’s faults and only see an idealized
version of them. A person in love sees the world through a different lens,
one that is influenced by the feelings and emotions they are feeling in their
heart and brain.

This is not an accident but a genuine – and even necessary – human

response that was developed over thousands of years of human
physiological evolution. The survival of our species is dependent upon
constant and wide-ranging procreation. This was especially true before the
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development of modern medicine and the industrialization of most cultures,
when the death rate was much higher and the average life span was less
than 40 years old in many cultures.

The emotion of love is what allows men and women to reproduce, live in
monogamous relationships, and continue to populate the earth with strong,
virile and regenerative versions of themselves.

An understanding of the concepts of hypnotism can help tap into these

types of emotions so that you can create feelings of attraction and even
love simply by talking to somebody. By using particular combinations of
word cues and body language developed and perfected by much research,
it is possible to direct the erotic energy that females are putting out all the
time toward you so that you can successfully seduce them and have sex
with any girl that you want.

Interpreting Body Language

Romantic body language can be as mesmerizing to a girl as a poem, love

song or romantic movie. Learning how to hold yourself and position your
body when talking to a girl is one of the most important steps towards
opening up her heart and mind to your seduction and ultimately convincing
her to give up her intimacy to you.

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The most important factor when it comes to body language is eye contact.
Looking directly into a woman’s eyes and holding that look as long as
possible both sends a direct message that you are interested in her and
gives you a signal as to whether or not she wants you to keep going with
your seduction. She can say as much with her eyes as she can with her
words, in some cases even more. If she avoids your eye contact or look at
you coldly or indifferently, you probably have misinterpreted the erotic
energy she is emitting and may need to move on to another girl.

If she returns your stare warmly, however, you will immediately know that
your radar was correct and that she is open to your seduction.

Posture is another use of body language that you can use to interpret what
she is feeling. If she is slouching or frequently looks down or away from
you, it usually means she is insecure. This is information that you can
exploit in your seduction. If she leans toward you or faces you full on so
that you have her undivided attention, it means that she is really into you
and you can speed up your seduction.

Glance at the parts of her body to which you are most attracted, without
leering or staring in any way. If she is wearing a low-cut blouse and is
showing a lot of cleavage, glance at it for a second or two and then return
your gaze to her eyes. If she is wearing a short skirt or shorts and has long,

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attractive legs, look at them for a few seconds. This will communicate your
sexual interest in her without seeming creepy or weird.

Remember: She wants you to be sexually attracted to her. If you pretend

like you are not noticing her sexuality, she may become confused and it
could disrupt your hypnotic seduction efforts.

While you are observing her body language, she is observing yours as well.
Women are more attracted to men who are confident and outgoing. Stand
up straight and tall and try to emote the feeling that you are the Alpha Male
in the room. This is a signal that she will pick up on and it will cause her to
want to attach herself to you both for protection and for sexual satisfaction.

You can wordlessly express your sexual interest in her by opening up the
way you present your body. Widen your stance and slightly point your toes
outward so that more of your body is presented to her full-on. This is a
subconscious technique known as “presenting” that is used by most
species, including humans, to communicate sexual interest and to
accelerate seduction.

Empathetic gesturing – also known as “mirroring” – is another signal that

one person is into the other. If you notice her subtly imitating your gestures

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or mannerisms and appears to be doing it subconsciously, it usually means
that she values your attention and is seeking your approval.

Mystery Method of Seduction

Now we are going to explain some time-tested seduction techniques that

are proven to work. Once you master these simple steps, you will
substantially increase your ability to successfully break through a woman’s
natural defenses and allow her to open her heart – and bed – to you.

When you attract a woman’s attention by getting her to return your eye
contact, don’t delay in making your approach to her otherwise she will
subconsciously question your confidence level. Remember: Women are
attracted to men who are confident and virile. You have about 3 seconds to
make your approach before her opinion of you starts to decrease.

When you approach her, don’t come at her from straight on or from behind
her because these are subconsciously too threatening to her. Instead, walk
toward her from about a 45 degree angle. This will keep her natural
defenses from automatically putting a barrier between you.

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Don’t come across as too eager. You want to create a dynamic where you
are the one with the power, not her. If she interprets your body language
and mannerisms as telling her that you are overly attracted to her, it will
reduce the image of you that she is forming in her mind. Instead, it’s better
to be a little dismissive. You can emphasize this by looking at other girls as
you walk towards her. This tells her that she is only one of many, and if she
doesn’t respond to you then you can easily move on to the next girl.

When you break into her social space – about 4 to 6 feet from her – smile
and look directly at her so that you can begin to put her at ease. It’s a good
idea to have some stock opening lines ready that are short and accessible,
yet different from anything they’ve heard before. The object is to initiate
contact while differentiating yourself from other men. Don’t use tired pickup
lines.

Sexual Magnetism

Once you have successfully approached your target, the next step is to
create attraction. Although every situation is different and will depend on
the signals you are receiving from her, there are three standard
approaches to building her attraction to you.

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The first is using negs. If you get the impression that she is in any way
insecure – by the way she avoids eye contact, looks down, is slouching or
seems embarrassed -- say something slightly negative to her, but not
insulting. It can be something like, “Wow, you look like you spent a long
time getting ready to go out tonight” or “It looks like you wear more makeup
than most girls”.

The purpose of negs is to provoke a response from an insecure girl so that

they feel compelled to defend themselves. They then subconsciously feel
indebted to you because you have forced them to stand up for themselves.
It is a form of reverse reciprocity. They are subconsciously grateful to you
for giving them the opportunity to be more self-confident and to improve
their self-respect.

The second method is to convey Alpha Male characteristics. If your radar is

telling you that this is a confident girl who is on the prowl, you want to make
it known to her that you are the most important guy in the room and the one
she has been waiting for. This is achieved mostly by the way you carry
yourself and the confidence you project, but also by what you say to her.

As you have a conversation, ask a lot of questions about her but don’t
comment. Just absorb it as if you are judging what she is saying. Nod and
smile as if you understand exactly what she is saying, but avoid seeming

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smug. This reinforces the idea that she is the one who needs to impress
you, rather than the other way around.

The third general approach is called Demonstrating Higher Value, or DHV.

Women are more likely to be emotionally and erotically charged if they
sense that a man has higher value than the thousands of other men who
have tried to pick her up. This doesn’t mean that you should boast to her. In
fact, you should do exactly the opposite because guys that are actually
really successful don’t need to brag or boast. Only men who are insecure
or desperate will feel the need to impress a woman with his
accomplishments.

DHV is achieved by implying success rather than blatantly boasting about

yourself. Again, about 75% of DHV is expressed in your body language,
with only 25% or so in what you say. You can express DHV by the clothes
you wear, the way you look, the way you say things, and how you carry
yourself. Practice acting and speaking more confidently when you are with
people you know, such as family and friends. Be aware of how you sound.
If you sound like a jerk, for example, you will know you need to tone it
down. If you sound insecure, you can add more confident statements.

Once you become confident that you are expressing DHV, begin using it
with women you meet incidentally and notice their response. Try using
stronger and weaker DHV until you find the kind that works best for you.

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Deep Trance Method

You will know if you have successfully gained her attraction by the way she
responds to you after chatting for about 10 or 15 minutes. The next step is
to qualify her attraction. This means providing a legitimate reason why you
are interested in her beyond just her looks. You can do this by learning
about her accomplishments and the things that she is proud of, and then
complimenting her on them in a non-committal way.

When a guy tells a girl, “You have a great body” or “I love your smile”, it
diminishes her opinion of him because she suspects (correctly in most
cases) that he has only a physical interest in her. Women want to be
respected for who they are, not just how they look. That’s why you want to
qualify her attraction to you by showing her that unlike most guys, you are
into her as a person, not a sex object.

Asking about her career or education is a good place to start. People are
usually dying to talk about themselves and are grateful if you give them an
opportunity. If you are at a loss, simply ask her, “What sort of things do you
like to do?” This is usually enough to get her going. Once she starts talking
about herself, let her go on and on as long as possible. Don’t interrupt.
Instead, keep her talking by using short, non-disruptive statements such as
“You did?” “And then what happened” and “Really?”

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This has the dual benefit of making her feel as if she needs to justify herself
to you, rattling off her accomplishments and trying to impress you, and
simultaneously putting her into a mental state – almost a form of deep
trance -- where she subconsciously feels completely at ease with you. Ask
brief, non-intrusive questions that keep her talking. The more you listen, the
more familiar she is going to feel with you. This causes her barriers to
erode and allows you to start to create trust bonds with you.

Planting Suggestion

When you are qualifying her attraction by listening to her talk about herself,
it’s time to start planting subconscious suggestions that will increase her
openness to a physical encounter with you. Hold her stare for as long as
possible without blinking, making sure she is always the one who looks
away first. As she is speaking and looking at you, quickly glance at her
breasts or legs. Don’t fixate on them, just glance as if you can’t help
yourself. This will reinforce that you are sexually attracted to her. It also will
cause her to become sexually charged, releasing endorphins in her brain
that will stimulate her body and prepare it for sex, and opening her mind to
the possibility of sleeping with you.

Make sure you are giving her your full attention at this stage. Don’t be
looking around at other women. If somebody else approaches you, don’t
look at them until they speak to you, then get rid of them as quickly as

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possible. When you can get a girl talking about herself, it is a critical time in
your seduction. The more she talks, the stronger the positive feelings she
has for you and the easier it will be to move the encounter to a physical
level.

When she is running out of things to say, pitch statements to her that allow
her to create positive visual images of you being together with her. Right
after she has spent a long time talking to you about herself is the best time
to implant seductive suggestions. Her mind will be at its most open at that
point. For example, you could say, “I’ve always wondered what it would be
like to get to know somebody from (wherever she is from)” or “Imagine
what it would be like if you and I were to do (whatever she was talking
about) that together.”

Embedded Commands

The final step of the Mystery Method of Seduction is to embed commands

into her subconscious that will trigger an emotional and erotic response
from her. This is achieved through a Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
technique that plants a thought in the mind of the other person through
presuppositions, which are assumptions, implied within verbal structures.

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When English is spoken aloud, a command ends with a downturn in
tonality. Think about when a parent tells a child, “Go to bed!” or “Clean up
your room!” That tonal downturn at the end of the statement indicates to the
child that the statement is a command and is not open to discussion.

Using the same tonal downturn, you can implant a command in your
target’s mind without seeming to be intruding or ordering in any way.
Introduce your statements in a way that allow her to create an image in her
mind then use the downturn in tonality to imply that the statement cannot
be refuted.

Effective introductory clauses include “When you …”, “What would it be like
if …”, or “If you were to …”.Conclude the statement with the message you
want to embed, using the verbal structure of a question but the tonality of a
command:

“What would it be like if you were irresistibly attracted to me? How

surprised would you be to find out that you found me incredibly attractive?
Think about what it would be like if you wanted to tear my clothes off.”

By using the right tone and introducing these statements at exactly the right
moment, most of the time she will not even notice that you have said them.
Instead, they will be subconsciously engraved into her will and she will feel

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as if she developed them entirely on her own. These statements then
become embedded in her mind as irrefutable.

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DOMINATION AND CONTROL

When you have successfully

manipulated the target of your
seduction into qualifying her
attraction, planted suggestions
that imply intimacy and
embedded commands that
sexualize the way she thinks of
you, it enables you to more easily
control her thoughts and actions,
steering her toward your desired
outcome: sexual seduction.

People are naturally predisposed

to obey authority. This type of inherent obedience to authoritative command
is one of the oldest, strongest and deepest emotions and is buried deep
inside every human mind. It’s also the one most people are powerless to
overcome. It is used by policemen to keep maintain order, by tyrants to
control governments and by militaries to transform clean cut kids into
ruthless man-killers.

Now it can be used by you to successfully seduce any girl you want!

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Vulnerability

No matter how confident a person is, everybody has vulnerabilities. These

are the chinks in the armor that allow you to control anybody, not just in
romance but in business, academics, sports or whatever arena you want. If
you are willing to exploit the other person’s vulnerabilities, then you can use
these weaknesses to get what you want, whether it’s sex, money, power or
whatever.

The complication arises when people lack the ruthlessness required to take
advantage of these vulnerabilities. If a girl is sensitive about her looks, for
example, most people would seek to reassure her that she looks great,
rather than exploit that vulnerability to get her into bed. If she is
embarrassed about her back country upbringing or lack of education, the
polite thing to do would be to turn the conversation to other subjects.

Yet it is these very insecurities that hold the key to most successful
seduction. And your reliance on exploiting these vulnerabilities is in inverse
relationship to how confident a woman feels. In other words, if a girl is
naturally insecure, it doesn’t take much to take advantage of her
vulnerabilities. But when a woman is bold, confident and commanding,
directing your attention on the weaknesses in her defenses is your best
strategy.

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Now, the purpose of this guide is to show you how to successfully seduce
women, not win any “Mr. Nice Guy” awards. It’s natural to be squeamish
when it comes to exploiting a girl’s vulnerabilities and it’s not for the faint of
heart. But once you overcome this completely understandable natural
resistance, getting what you want out of an interaction becomes incredibly
simple.

Submission

In any dynamic, there are two opposing forces: The dominant force and the
submissive force. The dominant force is the one that determines the
outcome and the submissive force is the one that submits to the other’s
will. In seduction, the objective is to become the dominant force and to
make the target of your seduction – in this case the girl -- submit to your
will.

This dynamic is already being created when you put her in a position where
she needs to qualify her attraction. You reinforce it as you plant intimacy
suggestions and embed emotional commands into her subconscious. The
next step is to test how successful you’ve been by giving her a direct order.

Have her do something for you – hold your coat, give you a cigarette, buy
you a beer – but phrase it in a way that is a statement not a question. Don’t

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say, “Would you please hold onto this for a second while I find my keys?”
Instead, hand her your drink and say, “Hold this.” Don’t give her the option
to disobey. If you have been effective in your hypnotic seduction so far, she
will respond unblinkingly.

Becoming the Alpha Male

If your hypnotic seduction is on track, it’s time to reveal yourself as the

Alpha Male, the dominant force in your interaction. You do this by exploiting
her vulnerability.

As she was talking about herself, you probably noticed clues as to where
her insecurities lay. For many women, body issues are a primary
vulnerability. Concerns about intelligence, family life (daddy issues), prior
sexual experience, personal or professional reputation and popularity
among her peers are other common insecurities. Once you have figured
out which one is your target’s most vulnerable area, ask her a direct
question about that topic. Don’t frame it in a way that’s nice or kind. Be as
direct and dominant as possible. This will instantly cause her to fall into a
submissive mind frame and she will be willing to do anything you want.

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“You mentioned that you felt like you were overweight. Why do you think
that is?” “Why are you so afraid of your father?” “Other girls don’t like you.
Why?” “Do you ever feel like you are not as smart as other people?”

Although you might think that most girls would tell you to go take a hike, the
reality is that once you have manipulated your seduction target into this
submissive state, they are going to feel gratitude toward you for putting
them on the spot. It is this twisted gratitude that unlocks her intimacy.

In most cases, this is enough for them to subconsciously drop their natural
defenses towards seduction, awakens their inner attraction, and stimulates
the portions of the mind that control sexual pleasure.

Darkest Secrets of Persuasion

At this point, you can suggest anything you want and she will almost
certainly agree to it. That’s because she trusts you completely, is entirely
submissive to your will, and is open to any suggestion you might make, no
matter how dark. In fact, because she feels so safe with you, the darker
your suggestion, but more willing she will be to please you.

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Again, it is imperative that you want to frame your suggestion as a
statement, not a question. As the Alpha Male, you are no longer asking her
opinion or giving her a choice. You are telling her what you are going to do.

“Now we’re going to go back to my place and get naked.” “Get your coat.
We’re going back to your apartment to take a shower together.” “We’re
leaving now so that you can go down on me in my car.” “We’re going to a
motel now so I can do you until you are cross-eyed.”

Seductive Sado-Masochism

Even the nicest girls deep down in their minds have dirty thoughts. When
you have successfully taken a girl through a successful seduction to the
point where she is unquestioningly open to your will, she is also free to
explore her darkest and most tempting sexual fantasies. You have in effect
given her permission to be a dirty girl.

When you finally get her alone, keep the spell going by giving her
commands that are increasingly humiliating, preferably sexual in nature.
“Get down on your knees” is usually a great place to start. “Take off your
clothes.” “Show me what you look like naked.” “Crawl over here on your
hands and knees.”

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Again, as the dominant force, you are giving her commands, not asking her
to do something for you. Don’t be shy: Now that the dominant/submissive
relationship has been established and reinforced, this is actually what she
wants.

The one exception is to ask her what she wants you to do to her. When you
do this, wait until you are at an especially intimate moment and whisper it
directly into her ear. She will be feeling uninhibited and in touch with her
dirtiest thoughts, so what she requests may surprise you. Even she may be
surprised by how depraved her desires are.

When they are in this highly aroused, erotically uninhibited state, a lot of
girls will want to try something they’ve always fantasized about but were
too shy to ask for. Encourage her to explore her deepest, darkest desires.
She will be grateful for the opportunity.

Value of Role Play

Sometimes it’s easier for women to release their inhibitions if you allow
them to step outside of themselves and play the role of somebody else.
This type of role play provides them the opportunity to get what they truly
want sexually without confusing their self-image.
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If you think it will useful to her, use statements rather than questions to
introduce role play into the intimate encounter. “I’m the policeman and
you’re the criminal”, “You’re the dirty maid and I’m the landlord” or “You’re
the sexy hooker and I’m your customer” usually work well.

Encourage her to become as enveloped in the role she is playing as

possible. This allows her to satisfy her carnal desires without feeling guilty
about it: After all, it’s not her that is doing these dirty things, it’s just a role
she is playing. Women can often lose themselves for hours with this type of
sex play.

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ANY WOMAN, ANYWHERE, ANYTIME

Like anything worthwhile, learning

how to seduce any woman at will
is a skill that is developed over
time. It’s like building muscle or
learning the art of karate. It
requires both knowledge and
practice, and success is
impossible without failure.

Before you can learn to seduce

any woman, anywhere, anytime,
you have to train your mind to
think like a woman. This will help
you to understand their emotions in order to provide what they are truly
looking for.

This becomes more complicated because the way women think is

changing. When I was growing up, young men and women generally
studied hard in high school and throughout college because they wanted to
prepare for a successful career. In many cases, people knew early on what
type of career they wanted to pursue – a doctor, a lawyer, a policeman, etc.
-- and focused their efforts on attaining a specific goal.
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Somewhere around the late 1980s and into the 1990s, however, all that
changed. Whether it was the societal rise in the popularity of “political
correctness” that suppressed natural, uninhibited expression or because of
the permissive parenting styles of the era’s “helicopter parents”, which
supplied their children with whatever they wanted regardless of the
consequences, today’s younger generation lacks that singular direction and
clarity of purpose.

The young people in Generation Y are generally aimless and adrift. They
have no clear concept of what they want out of life. They can’t see or even
reject the value of a having a steady job, earning a decent living and
owning a nice home in exchange for moving from experience to experience
and short-term gratification. They are more apt to be more sexually
promiscuous, to use illegal drugs more frequently and to binge regularly on
alcohol than earlier generations.

Young, attractive women in particular are untethered and prone to move

from one experience to another with no long-range objective to guide their
course. As a result, they are subconsciously attracted to people and things
that offer a sense of security and trust, the feeling of anchoring, despite the
fractured nature of their personal, professional and emotional lives.

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Confidence as an Attraction Agent

Think back to when you were younger. Do you remember times when you
acted over-confident in order to hide deep-seated insecurity from other
people? That’s precisely how many hot women feel all the time today. As a
person who already has experienced many of life’s ups and downs, you
understand the difference between genuine confidence and trumped-up
self-assurance.

When you walk into a bar or nightclub, observe the way other men are
socializing there. Invariably, they will be overly loud and exhibit aggressive
behavior. They will be wearing outrageous “club” clothes, and will be
obvious in their efforts to impress the young women there. In short, they will
be working much too hard to do something that is actually quite easy:
Getting the attention of smoking hot girls.

That’s because you don’t attract a woman’s attention by making a

spectacle of yourself. You catch their notice by showing genuine
confidence. This is communicated in the way you move, the way you
speak, and the things you do. It’s not nearly as complicated as you might
think. In fact, you already possess all the tools you need to pull it off.

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What a Woman Really Wants

In seduction, when we talk about a woman’s “hot button”, we mean the

issue or issues that provoke the biggest response from the object of our
seduction. In the case of cute girls, this hot button usually is security,
particularly in terms of financial safety and social status.

What most women today want is to be safe from the potential danger and
insecurity of their everyday lives. But because of their natural state of being
adrift, this is something they typically are unable to provide for themselves,
at least not at the same level as earlier generations of women. And, with
few exceptions, most men also are unable to provide the short-term offer of
long-term financial security, social status and emotional stability.

Because they want to achieve the sense that they are safe, that their lives
are finally anchored, and that they will be taken care of in the long run, in
most cases beautiful women will gladly exchange anything they can to
reach this objective, including intimacy.

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Giving Women What They Want

Perhaps more than ever before, beautiful women today are accustomed to
getting the things that they want without having to wait for them or even
work for them. Permissive parenting attitudes, a liberal education system
that doled out positive reinforcement even in the absence of actual
accomplishment, and the de-valuing of societal competition has ingrained
attractive women with a sense of entitlement.

If today’s hot girls want something, they expect to get it immediately. But
once they leave the nurturing womb of the university system or move away
from the smothering care of their home lives, they are shocked to discover
that the world is indifferent to their desires. If they want something, they
have to work for it, just like everybody else. This type of psychological
trauma causes women to be predisposed to whatever outlet can accelerate
their return to the entitled state in which they felt most comfortable.

What this means for older men is that you don’t have to have the
glamorous good looks of Brad Pitt, the suave charm of George Clooney, or
the unbridled power of Barack Obama in order to be attractive to younger
women. You just need to show that you have the means to provide the
security and comfort that women are looking for. Once you can exhibit
these traits, attractive hotties will be scrambling over each other in order to
be with you.

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That doesn’t mean you have to drive a flashy, expensive car, wear $3,000
suits or be unduly extravagant with your money. In fact, all of those things
probably will hurt your chances of seducing a woman because they
communicate insecurity and desperation, traits which are counter-effective
to attracting women who already are insecure themselves.

What it does mean is that you need to project an image that tells the
younger woman you are a caring, nurturing person who has a lot to offer,
both in terms of financial security and social dependability. You have to
show her that you have the ability to provide the stability that is missing
from her life.

In other words, you have to be her father-figure.

Dressing and Looking the Part

If you want to attract the attention of beautiful women, you have to look the
part. The key is to try to continually improve the way you look without trying
to take shortcuts – such as hairpieces or inappropriate clothing -- that will
make you look desperate and turn women off.

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Instead, go to the gym regularly and/or begin a running program to become
more fit. Not only will it improve the way you look physically, but it will instill
confidence in yourself, which you can tap into during your seduction
sequence.

Select clothes that are classic and sophisticated. When you wear clothes
that are cheaply made, you look like a cheapskate. Instead, buy a few sets
of the most expensive clothes that you can afford and only wear them
during your nights out. Don’t shop for these clothes at department stores or
discount houses. Instead, visit high-quality clothing stores, such as
Barney’s, Brooks Brothers or Nordstrom.

Don’t invest money in nice clothes and ignore your shoes because your
shoes are one of the first thing women notice. If you are wearing an
expensive, tasteful outlet and a pair of scuffed up shoes you bought at Wal-
Mart, you will instantly be spotted as a fraud and your seduction sequence
is destined to fail.

Personal grooming is of critical importance. Styles change and while in the

past you may have been able to carry off the “Miami Vice” partially-shaven
look, today you look like a hobo unless you are clean shaven. To present
the best version of yourself, spend more time on your looks. Get your hair
cut more frequently. Pay closer attention to your eyebrows and hair that
grows out of your ears and nostrils. Shave or trim you pubic hair so that it

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doesn’t grow wild. Not only will this make you feel more empowered
sexually, but it will be a pleasant surprise for your sex partner when she
finally reaches your nether regions.

Cologne or body spray is okay in small amounts, but don’t overdo it. It
should subtly suggest class, not announce your arrival before you walk into
a room or leave a trail of fumes behind you.

Finally, and most importantly, make sure you have fresh breath at all times.
But don’t chew gum or pop breath mints in front of your seduction target.
The objective is to make her believe your breath is naturally fresh like that
all the time. The quickest way to subconsciously stimulate her desire to
become intimate with you is to make her want to kiss you.

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TOP SEDUCTION MYTHS

Seduction is a game and when you

are first learning to master these
seduction techniques, it’s one you
aren’t always going to win. There
cannot be success without failure,
and it is within the lessons we learn
when we have not succeeded that
we find the deepest truths.

This guide will help you reach your

goal of being able to seduce any
woman, anytime, anywhere more
quickly, but it’s not a magic wand that can instantly transform you into an
irresistible ladies’ man. That’s something you have to work on.

In the same way that getting in shape physically requires a personal

commitment to improving your diet and getting more physical exercise,
learning how to become a seduction master will take determination on your
part to achieve you objectives. It can’t happen overnight and along the road
there are going to be many bumps and bruises. That’s just a part of life.

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Yet, once you achieve the state where you can instantly charm and seduce
any woman you desire, it is a skill that can be applied to other aspects of
your life as well. Because it will instill within you a deep sense of self-
confidence, it can help you advance in your career, it can make dealing
with family and friends easier and more rewarding, and it can even help
you to appreciate the things in your life more. Seduction is not just about
sex. It’s also about developing your sense of self-worth and
accomplishment, and having the confidence to achieve whatever goal you
establish for yourself in your life.

Rejection

“I don’t want to talk to pretty girls because I’m afraid they will reject me.”

Most men fear rejection because it threatens their ego. When a woman lets
a man know that she is not interested in him sexually – either verbally or
through her body language – many men take that rejection personally.
That’s because they have an inflated sense of self-worth.

The key to developing true confidence is letting go of your ego. Everybody

carries within themselves an image that they want to both project and
protect. But in many cases this self-image is inaccurate. People who are
introverts often imagine themselves to be extroverts (The “Walter Mitty”

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complex). People who are terrible athletes can sometimes have an over-
exaggerated opinion of their physical skills. How many times have you
listened to someone sing at karaoke who sounded like a wounded cat? Yet
in their minds they sounded like Frank Sinatra.

This is all very common, and also very unnecessary. All you need to do to
prevent yourself from having your ego hurt by rejection is to let go of your
ego. You don’t need it. It’s not important. For most people, it’s only going to
cause them to be disappointed and frustrated.

What other people think of you doesn’t matter, especially what beautiful
women think of you. It’s not your role to please them. Your objective is to
seduce them. If and when you meet rejection, don’t take it to heart. Let it
roll off your back, use it as a learning experience and move on to the next
gorgeous girl. There’s always another and another. And another!

Lack of Self Confidence

“She probably wouldn’t be interested in a guy like me.”

Similarly, many men suffer from neurosis, a psychological condition in

which they struggle with feelings of inadequacy. This type of self-doubt can

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be crippling and often prevents men from competing for the attention of
beautiful women altogether.

Like the man whose ego is damaged by rejection, the man with low self-
esteem is unnecessarily putting himself at a disadvantage. Believing in
yourself is simply an act of will. You can choose to be self-confident instead
of being neurotic just as you can choose to wear a blue shirt instead of a
yellow one. It’s all a state of mind.

Train your mind to have high self-esteem and you will have high self-
esteem. Allow yourself to be wracked by self-doubt and it will happen. Like
any other muscle in your body, your mind benefits from being exercised.
Instilling a strong sense of self-confidence into your psyche is as simple as
willing it.

For some men, affirmations are a helpful way to get the ball rolling. Stand
in front of a mirror and say something positive about yourself, such as, “I
am an attractive, virile man that women find irresistible.” Repeat this
several times until you begin to feel the truth in your affirmation. This trains
the mind to have more self-confidence, removes neurosis from
consciousness and creates a feeling “in your bones” that what you are
saying is in fact the truth.

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“Women Think I’m a Jerk”

“Women always think I’m some kind of jerk.”

A lot of guys have trouble talking to the hottest women because they are
afraid they will come off as a jerk. This is caused by having too much self-
awareness. When you concern yourself with what you sound like or how
other people perceive you, it can prevent you from being genuine and
sincere.

It’s sort of like a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you think you are coming off as a
jerk, you will come off as one because you aren’t being genuine. But if you
can let go of your inner fears and simply speak and act naturally, from the
heart, and act like yourself rather than some sort of idealized version of
yourself, there’s no possible way you can be perceived as a jerk.

Unattainability

“There’s no way that woman would ever have sex with me.”

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Most men believe that some women are unattainable. They are either too
pretty, attached to someone else, a lesbian, or have some other reason
that makes seduction impossible.

Let me set you straight: Every woman can be seduced no matter how
beautiful she is whether she is married or engaged, regardless of her
sexual orientation or any other reason. That’s because every woman has a
sex drive and a mind. Those two things are all you need for a successful
seduction.

Men who categorize certain women as unattainable are only making

excuses for their own inadequacies. Given proper technique, training and
confidence, you can seduce any woman you want. Now, that’s not to say
that some seductions are going to be more difficult than others. For
example, if a woman is in a committed relationship, has children and loves
her family, getting her into your bed is certainly going to be more of a
challenge.

Yet there’s a difference between something being challenging and being

impossible. Everything is possible, given time and persistence. And if you
are up for a challenge, then focus your astonishing energies on your
objective, stick with it and eventually you may surprise even yourself.

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Does Flattery Really Work?

“Flattery will get you everywhere.”

This seduction myth is complicated because flattering a woman on her

looks, the way she dresses, her career or something else that she is
sensitive about does work in certain situations and will derail your
seduction in others. It all depends on the woman, the situation, and where
you are in your seduction sequence.

In general terms, flattery can sometimes be used to accelerate the

development of trust bonds with girls who appear to be insecure. If you
sense a girl is sensitive about her weight, the way she looks or dresses
(and after a while you can easily tell by looking at a girl if she has
insecurities), then flattering her on the object of her insecurity can cause an
emotional response in her that will cause her to have an erotic connection
with you.

Conversely, if a woman appears to have a lot of self-confidence and

doesn’t seem to care what other people think about her, flattery is the
wrong approach. In this type of woman, you want to undermine her self-
image by pointing out some fault with her. This will cause her to doubt her

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self-image, create an insecurity within her psyche, and connect with you
emotionally more quickly.

The Role of Money and Wealth

“You have to be a wealthy guy in order to sleep with the most attractive
women.”

Okay, women who sleep with guys because they have a lot of money are
whores. Women who sleep with guys because they have a lot of
confidence are normal.

You don’t need to have a lot of cash to have a lot of confidence. While it’s
true that most women will initially judge you by the way you look, act, smell,
sound and other sensory stimuli, what they are really assessing is not how
big your bank account is, but how confident you are and your ability to
provide her with stability and security, both socially and emotionally.

So if you haven’t yet made your first million, don’t give up hope. Even the
most gorgeous women are still available to you.

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SEDUCTION AND RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE

Seduction and relationship would

appear to be two terms that were
mutually exclusive because when
you are a skilled seducer of
beautiful women, you are probably
not looking for a serious
relationship. There are just too
many hot girls out there to seduce.

Yet eventually most men find

themselves wanting to settle down
with one person. The reality is that
while seducing gorgeous girls is
rewarding, it can also be physically and mentally exhausting. It also
requires you to disconnect your feelings and become intellectually attuned
but emotionally distant. When you are in it exclusively for the sex, there is
very little room for emotional attachment.

As we have seen, the hypnotic skills you develop as a successful seducer

of women are transferable to other areas of your life, including your career,
your interaction with friends and family, and even the people you encounter
as you move throughout your daily routine.
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While sex may be the primary objective of hypnotic seduction, it doesn’t
have to be the only one. You can use many of the same skills – the ability
to read people quickly, the power of suggestion, implanting your will in
other people’s minds – to get things such as money, influence, power,
privilege and anything else you desire.

So when you finally reach the point where you want to become part of a
long-term, loving relationship, there is no need to abandon these skill sets.
You will simply be applying them in a different manner.

Establishing Your Terms

Perhaps the biggest advantage of having developed hypnotic seduction

skills is that you can use them to build your relationship on your terms.
Most relationships are a compromise, with both partners submitting part of
their will to the other for the benefit of getting along. But when you have the
ability to control the way other people think about you, that’s not the case.

For example, you may desire to have an open relationship in which it is

acceptable for both partners to see and be with other people. Or perhaps
you would prefer a one-sided open relationship, in which it is okay for you
to have sex with other women, but your girlfriend remains committed to
you. Because you can essentially use your skills to influence the way she

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thinks about you, it is possible to have whatever terms in the relationship
that you want.

Families

One of the most difficult things about any relationship is dealing with the
other person’s family.

You will always be at the disadvantage when it comes to her family

because they have known her all her life, so they feel they understand her
more intimately than you ever could. They are also going to be protective of
her and suspicious of any outsider. This frequently manifests itself as
feelings that are never going to be good enough for her.

These issues can be overcome with a little political correctness and tact.
First of all, no matter how crazy her family is, never fall into the trap of
feeling comfortable enough with her to criticize them or make fun of them.
That is never going to work out well. Even if she initiates the criticism, you
should always act as if her family is the most normal, respectable family
you have ever encountered. Take my word for it. This is always the best
option.

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Second, target the mother. If you can get her mother to like you, there is a
much better chance at having a deeper and longer lasting relationship with
the daughter. Use the hypnotic seduction skills you have learned to cause
her mother to think you are the nicest guy in the world. Compliment the
mom, laugh at her jokes, be interested in what she has to say, and show
her that you admire her.

You can even try to build a relationship with the mother that goes beyond
your relationship with the daughter by suggesting that you do things
together. Offer to drive her where she needs to go. Provide advice when
appropriate. The road to your girlfriend’s heart is through her mother. In
most households, she’s usually the one who influences everybody else’s
opinion, so if you can win her over, you’re in with the whole family.

Avoid the brothers, sisters and cousins whenever possible because you are
always going to be at a disadvantage. You can never truly be the Alpha
Male when they are around, so you will have to settle for being the Beta.
Not good enough. A better plan is to remove yourself from the situation
whenever you can.

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Dealing with Past Lovers

One of the biggest complications of being able to seduce any woman you
want is that you are going to have a lot of former lovers. Unless you move
to a new city, these women -- who you have slept with and moved on -- are
going to be encountered wherever you go for many years to come. You are
going to see them at the grocery store, at the movies, in the park, at the
gym, and so on.

While ordinarily this might seem embarrassing and difficult to explain to

your new girlfriend, you can turn it into a positive thing by suggesting to her
that her special status as your long-term girlfriend makes her superior to
these other women. After all, you have chosen her among all the other
women in the world to be with, so there is something magical about your
relationship that caused you to walk away from the lifestyle you enjoyed
when you were single.

If you find yourself attracted to these former lovers, you may be tempted to
rekindle the relationship. If you have an open relationship or a one-sided
open relationship with your girlfriend, go for it. But if you are in a committed
relationship, you either need to resist this temptation or break up with your
girlfriend. Sneaking around behind her back isn’t going to be a positive
thing for either of you, so if you are truly unable to resist sleeping with other
women, it probably means you aren’t ready to be with just one.

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Keeping Her Engaged

When you are in a relationship with somebody, you need to reattach the
emotional component to your intimacy. The emotional element of the
relationship is as important as the physical part. Even if you are sexually
skilled and can provide her with all the financial security she requires, if you
aren’t tending to her emotional needs you will eventually lose her.

Whenever you interact with your girlfriend, always be tuned into what she is
emoting. Many times women will say one thing and mean another. You are
going to have to learn a new language that your partner speaks with her
words, thoughts and actions.

Whenever you speak to her, use the smooth and genuine tone you
developed for your hypnotic seduction. Listen to her, whatever she is
saying. This can be difficult at times because women tend to say inane
things all the time. At the very least, you will need to master the technique
of appearing that you are listening to her. Really try to help her with
whatever she needs. She will appreciate it. In most cases, this will be
enough to sustain your relationship indefinitely.

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Biggest Relationship Mistakes to Avoid

As somebody who has a highly developed set of hypnotic seduction skills,

you are going to be used to having a lot of sex. So in your committed
relationship, you probably will want to have more sex than she is
accustomed to having. This is something she will simply have to adjust to if
she wants to keep you happy.

Another common problem is moving the relationship along too quickly. The
skills you have taken time to develop, you are going to want to enjoy them
for as long as possible before settling down. When you do finally decide to
enter into a committed relationship, there will be a longer than normal
period of adjustment for you. She may not understand why this is the case,
but if you ease into the relationship slowly, her expectations won’t be as
high and she will be less likely to pressure you into making the quick step
to the altar.

For a master of seduction, the words “I love you” carry a lot of power. They
are sort of like a loaded gun. If you point them at somebody, you better be
prepared to pull the trigger. If you aren’t ready, don’t say them. She may be
the one to say these words first. If so, you will simply have to deal with that
as best you can.

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Finally, avoid the temptation to get lazy. Once you have entered into a
relationship with somebody, it’s easy to get fat, take the other person for
granted, and stop trying so hard. This is a common mistake. In the same
way that learning how to be a master of seduction was hard work, learning
how to maintain a relationship is equally difficult, if not more so.

Mistakes will be made, lessons will be learned and occasionally feelings

will be hurt. But if you are committed to making your relationship
successful, you can call upon your skills as someone who is able to take on
big challenges and make it work.

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DEALING WITH HURT FEELINGS

Break ups are a fact of

life. More than half of all
marriages end in divorce,
and that figure is even
higher for couples who are
not married. When you are
using hypnotic seduction
to get women into bed, it’s
necessary to detach your
emotions and enjoy the sensuality for what it is. But getting into a
relationship requires you to reattach your emotional response to the
opposite sex, which means risking being hurt.

A lot of times, men get into seduction in the first place because they are
emotionally fragile and are afraid of having their feelings hurt. By seducing
as many women as possible and disconnecting emotion from the intimate
act of sex, they can protect themselves from the emotional pain that comes
with opening their heart to another person. So when they finally do allow
themselves to become emotionally attached to one person, when things go
wrong it can be doubly devastating.

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Fools Rush In

The biggest mistake guys make after a breakup is to chase after the other
person. Not only is this demeaning, but it hands over all the power to the
woman. You didn’t work that hard to build a relationship on your terms only
to give away everything you created. That’s just your broken heart making
an irrational decision.

Instead, after a breakup give yourself adequate time to see things more
clearly. If you’ve had your emotions hurt, you are not in a position to make
clear-headed decisions. Don’t call, text, email or meet with her face to face
under any circumstances for at least one or two weeks. This will have the
dual benefit of giving you time to feel more emotionally stable and send her
the clear message that you are still the one who is in control of the situation
and the relationship, should you ever reconnect with her.

Identifying the Cause of the Breakup

Relationships end for all kinds of reasons: Cheating, boredom, something

better comes along. In most cases, both parties are to blame, at least
partially. But as the Alpha Male with hypnotic seduction skills at your
disposal, you don’t need to shoulder all, or even any, of the responsibility
even if the breakup was your fault.

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The power dynamic that you have created requires that you continue to be
in charge of her emotional state. If you suddenly cave in and take full
responsibility for your breakup in order to get her back, that dynamic will
take a 180 degree turn and you will be the submissive and she will be the
dominant, which is unacceptable.

Take the time after your breakup to figure out what really went wrong and
learn from it so that you can avoid making the same mistakes again with
her or other women. But never allow yourself to be the submissive no
matter what the situation.

Do You Really Want Her Back?

A lot of times a guy will get back with a girl after a breakup because he
enjoyed the emotional security of being with another person: Not
necessarily that person, just another person. How many times have you
seen somebody you know reconnect with his girlfriend and thought, “What
a mistake”, yet it happens all the time.

What those men fail to realize is that the powerful emotions that allowed
them to get into and maintain the relationship in the first place are 100%
transferable. That means that they can easily be directed at another

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woman, one who is more deserving of their attention and who will be more
respectful of their feelings.

Love is a huge risk. But it is not an “all-in” bet. You don’t have to invest
yourself completely in an emotional relationship. As a person with hypnotic
seduction skills, you have the ability to hold back some of your feelings
while still allowing the other person to believe that you are completely
committed to the relationship. These are helpful skills to have so that you
can protect your emotional core.

Taking It Slow

If in your heart you truly want to patch things up with the other person after
a breakup, do yourself a huge favor and take it slow. You can’t walk back
into the relationship and pick things up where you left off. Feelings have
been hurt. Damage has been done. Trust bonds have been splintered.

Even if you believe you love her, keep some of your emotions in reserve.
This will allow you to keep control of the power dynamic of your
relationship. If you are always willing to walk away from the connection,
your options are better. But if you throw yourself into an already damaged
relationship whole-heartedly and expect it to work out, you are a bigger fool
than you imagined.

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Creating the Perfect Date

Getting back together after a breakup is never easy, but you can improve
your chances of reestablishing your relationship by giving her the most
romantic, perfect date that you can. Pick a place or an activity that you
have never done before. Don’t go back to your favorite restaurant or relive
a previous romantic date and expect to get the same emotional results.

Starting-over means beginning from a fresh perspective. Start your

relationship from Day One. Let everything that has happened in the past –
the good as well as the bad – stay in the background. By beginning your
relationship with a fresh perspective, you will be able to avoid falling back
into negative patterns, keep her engaged in the emotional give and take,
and truly understand whether she is the person for you.

Success

How do you know if you have succeeded in winning her back on your
terms? Because she will be the one who tries to please you. In order for
you to maintain the upper hand in your renewed relationship, you cannot be
chasing after her, trying to make her happy, or carry all the weight in
sustaining your relationship.

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At some point after your romantic date, tell her that you need to have a
serious discussion about what happened just prior to the breakup. Tell her
in no uncertain terms that if you are going to continue to be a couple, she
has to take responsibility for what went wrong and apologize to you. Do this
even if the breakup was your fault. This will create the power dynamic that
will allow you to control her will for as long as your relationship continues. If
she refuses, be willing to walk away.

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BECOMING AN ATTRACT X SEDUCTION MASTER

As you may have guessed by

now, when it comes to hypnotic
seduction, the ultimate objective is
not sex. That’s just a very nice
side benefit. The actual goal of
becoming an Attract X seduction
master is being able to impose
your will upon other people. This
gives you a power that you can
use far beyond picking up yet
another beautiful chick.

When you master this ability, you

can use it to be the dominant power in any situation or relationship,
including your career, your marriage, your home life, and your friends, in
athletics or anywhere you choose. Nobody will ever be able to push you
around or take advantage of you. For the rest of your life, you will have
control and influence, and use these skills to obtain fortune, power and,
yes, sex.

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You’re the Boss

When you have the ability to disconnect your emotions, nobody can ever
hurt you. As a hypnotic seduction expert, you learn to train when and where
you invest yourself emotionally so that you can give and withhold genuine
affection and love at will.

If you are simply looking to sleep with as many beautiful women as you
want, you can do that. Or when you find somebody you really want to
become involved with, you can do that, too.

The point is the skill sets you have developed make you the boss in any
situation. You hold the power, you are the dominant, and you don’t ever
have to allow somebody to make you to submit to their will ever again.

Finding Miss Right

If you want to walk into any club, bar, party or any other place, identify the
hottest looking woman and seduce her into your bed every night for the rest
of your life, you now have the ability to do so. For most guys, however, the
novelty of this skill eventually wears off and the pressure of suppressing

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your emotions indefinitely proves to be too much. Eventually, they want to
make a love connection.

When that happens to you, it’s time to say goodbye to Miss Right Now and
try to find Miss Right. Fortunately, by the time you come to the realization
that you want something more than just a series of physical sexual
encounters you probably will already have known a lot of different women.
Perhaps with some of them you were attracted to more than just their
bodies. You may have had a harder time suppressing your feelings with
some more than others. These women may be a good place to start.

Or you may want to try a different tactic altogether, abandoning for a

moment your ability to pick up any girl at will and returning momentarily to
the old-fashioned way of meeting new girls: By talking to them genuinely
and from the heart, with no other motivation or guile. If you have been
using your seduction skills for a while, this approach may have a certain
nostalgia and novelty for you.

Types of Women to Avoid

Ironically, the biggest type of woman to avoid is the one who is only
interested in you for your body. While physicality is great and sex for the

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sake of pleasure can be wonderful, it isn’t enough to build a relationship
upon.

You also want to stay away from women who want to change you. There is
no way to change people. Our personalities are formed before we are even
born and we carry them with us until the day we die. If a woman sees
something in you that she wants to change, it’s a good indication that she’s
not the right one for you.

Similarly, you can’t change other people. If you find a “But …” woman – as
in “I really think she’s great, but …” – you probably need to keep looking.
There are so many women out there that the one you are truly meant to be
with could be right around the next corner. But you will never know if you
waste your time trying to force somebody to be something she is not and
can never be.

Creating the Long-Term Relationship You Desire

To be a man worthy of respect, you can never allow anyone to put you into
a position of submission. So in some ways, finding the perfect relationship
for you is going to be more difficult than for other men because you won’t
compromise.

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Yet when you finally do find the woman you were meant to be with, your
relationship will be much stronger and more satisfying for you because it
will be based on your terms. Because you haven’t had to give away the
power dynamic to the other person, you will remain in control for the
duration of the relationship. This will not only make you happier, but
actually will make you more complete because you can be more confident
that your emotional investment will be secure.

Conclusions

Most men can only fantasize about having the ability to attract and seduce
beautiful, sexy women at will, but you are not like most men. While the
average guy struggles with shyness or confidence issues, you are the
exceptional guy who can talk to any girl you want whenever you feel like it.
And while the typical man is willing to hand over his pride and submit to the
woman’s will in exchange for the occasional opportunity for sex, you use
your mental skills to impose your will upon women to get all the sex you
want whenever you want it.

As an Attract X master of seduction, the skills you now hold give you the
advantage over all other people, not simply women you want to seduce.
You can influence others to do your will without compromise. You can
control the terms of any relationship you enter into without having to submit
to anybody else. And you can live your life on your terms now and forever.

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Congratulations! You are an extraordinary man!

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