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Are Dishonest
By Vintage Brazen • November 21, 2008
I feel that I am an honest person: I tell the truth, do not cheat and I try
to be the best person that I can be. When I read about what JP Hayes
did this week in the PGA Tour, I asked myself the question, “Would I
have done the same thing?” Hayes accidentally used an illegal ball
for only two shots of his qualifying round. He didn’t turn himself in at
the tournament; rather, he notified judges after he got back to his
hotel. No one would have found out, yet he disqualified himself. Why?
I thought about this for a while and found that people are dishonest
because of the following reasons or influences:
1. Laziness
Lazy people like to take the easy way out. Just think back to your high
school days and the amount of cheating that went on. You had
friends, girls (or guys), sports and TV to think about; who actually had
the time to study? People who are unmotivated and want things to
come easy will take the dishonesty route.
3. Peer pressure
My Dad once told me, “Tell me who you hang out with, and I’ll tell
you who you are.” These words have resonated with me throughout
my life, and I have surrounded myself with people who are honest,
motivated and intelligent. But what about people who grew up with
dishonest friends? Is it their fault that they’re dishonest as well? I am
one who promotes that an individual is ultimately responsible for his or
her own decisions, but I do feel that we are a product of our
surroundings. Peer pressure can make a weak individual do
dishonest things.
4. Greed
If JP Hayes had cheated, he would have been a victim of greed. He
has money, fame and is an accomplished golf professional. He
doesn’t need the money at all, and not making it into the tournament
would not have been the end of the world. However, some people are
greedy and want to make as much money as they can. They crave the
attention and want to be in the limelight.
5. Financial situation
When you’re broke, you think of any way to make money. If you have
to commit dishonest action to make money, then you do it because of
necessity. Well, I shouldn’t say “necessity,” because there are always
ways to survive financially in an honest way. These people just
choose dishonesty because they want the easy way out.
6. Confused morals
If you’re brought up by dishonest parents, then you have a high
chance of being dishonest as well. I had a friend from UCLA who
cheated his way through his entire life:
https://www.brazen.com/blog/archive/lifestyle-design/6-reasons-why-people-are-dishonest/May 26,
2015
http://www.spsp.org/news-center/blog/the-consequences-of-dishonesty