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Emotional learning begins at a young age and the learning grows with their age. In infancy,
infants express their feelings through non-verbal communication and depend on caregivers to
recognize their cues. Their expressions are related to their ability to regulate their emotions.
Emotional expression is closely related to both social and cultural influences of family and the
surroundings. A child’s relationship with the caretaker gives it the ability to express both positive
and negative emotions in a socially and culturally acceptable manner.
It helps him behave in an appropriate way later, gives a good understanding about the
life he lives and helps him gain control during his transition stage to reach adulthood.
Social and emotional development helps a kid to shape his future. This allows him to
decide his ambitions while having proper control over his emotions.
Development of social skills allows a child to cooperate and play with peers, pay
attention to the instructions offered by parents or teachers and obtain good transition
while indulging in one activity or another.
Development of emotional skills allows your child to undergo a learning process which
would educate him about the ways he can understand and control the emotions.
The social and emotional development of a child is categorized into different phases
to help parents determine which stage your child is in now.
You must look out for the following milestones in your child to know how well he or she has
developed so far.
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Be aware about whether he is a boy or girl.
Try to put the dress on and remove it on his own.
Show his tastes while wearing dresses, eating food, choosing toys and while playing
games.
Learn to say no to your requests.
Enjoy the company of other kids and play with them.
Show a defensive attitude about the toys he owns.
Use various objects to play.
Have frequent mood swings.
5. Emotional Development From 3-4 Years:
Your 3 year old toddler would be able to perform various activities physically which would
improve his self confidence levels. It will also help him become very independent during this
stage. From 3 years of age, your kid would be able to:
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Learn to answer your questions in a satisfactory manner.
Begin to know more about him.
Face some role identity issues.
Rebellious nature surfaces when confronted with an issue.
Have many doubts about himself.
Become self-conscious about the appearance.
Seek true intimacy.
Prefer to be isolated.
Look out for a long lasting and genuine friendship.
As a parent, making a note of this social and emotional development among your kid in each
stage is important. It helps in the development and well-being of your child.
Factors That Influence Social And Emotional Development
In Children:
First, it is important for you to remember that the development of each child is unique and
complex. There might be slight or huge differences in the social and emotional development of
your child, as it is associated with a number of factors. Many factors affect the way children
express their social and emotional competencies. Some of them are:
Some similarities are found between the emotional development of parents and children. These
are the hereditary factors.
As your child develops mentally, she also becomes emotionally matured. Psychologists say that
the child’s emotions depend upon her maturity level.
John B. Watson, an American psychologist, has stated that children learn from conditioning. An
experiment was conducted on a nine-month-old baby, who was shown a rat to the child and a lot
of noise was made in the background. Later it was observed that baby started crying by merely
looking at the rat.
Likewise, if there is an expression of physical love in the family, the baby also expresses her love
by contact, kisses, or hugs.
Children who have sound health can control their emotions in a better way while those who
remain weak show irritability, excitement and unstable emotions.
Intelligent children are also emotionally stable. Those with low intelligence are low in stability as
well.
Relations in the family and the way they express their emotions affect the emotional development
of a child. If the parents have stability in their behavior and express their feelings in a balanced
manner, the children also follow in their footsteps.
If parents are violent, children also adopt the same. If you over pamper your children, there are
chances for them turning indisciplined and obstinate. On the contrary, if you do not show any
affection, they become introvert and submissive.
Just like family, the society, too, influences a child’s emotional development. If the environment is
emotionally charged, the child becomes emotionally unstable. If people are stable and have
control over their emotions, the child also remains so. They learn to control their emotions and try
to conform to socially acceptable behaviour.
Managing emotions for a sound physical and mental health is necessary. When your child is
emotionally charged, several changes, like a change in pulse rate, blood circulation, stretching of
eyes, an effect on the digestive system and more, occur in the body.
Nurture relationships
Master the qualities of initiating, discovering, learning and playing
Create attention and persistence
Control and regulate their behavior
Develop a control over their emotions
This feeling can be created only by you. Stay consistent and be responsive towards your kids.
Remember to place some rules to discipline your kids as they grow bigger.
When your child realizes what you expect from him or learns what would happen if the rules are
not followed or broken, they would learn that being orderly is the right thing to do.
This would also offer your kid a good sense of self control.
To help your kids develop social and emotional skills, you have to create the opportunity to let
your kids play with others. You can do this by taking them to a park, enroll them in a play school,
help them to learn about their abilities and help them in expressing their feelings well.
You can also try to offer limited options to help your child make their own decisions regarding
simple everyday things like what they need for dinner, which color dress they wish to wear, etc.
These choices would help your kids to form their own decisions and offer them greater levels of
confidence.
In a social environment, your kids must be able to express their feeling with the right kind of
emotions and through the right way.
If you feel that your kid is highly emotional or jealous, motivate your child to talk about what they
feel without throwing any temper tantrums.
This would help your kid to refrain from any emotional outbreak during such occasions as it would
prevent them from hurting others.
Sometimes, when kids don’t have control over their emotions, they tend to hit or yell at their
friends or younger siblings.
During such occasions, it is essential for you to tell them that it is not acceptable and suggest an
alternate response.
Another important thing you need to remember as a parent is to never shout or yell at your kids.
You also need to refrain from doing so at anyone in front of your kids, as they might tend to follow
your actions.
This can influence the social and emotional development in your kid and would spoil the character
of your kids while he grows.
The process of social and emotional development in children tends to continue until they reach
their last teenage years.
This is why you will notice a difference in your kids while they are sharing things, taking turns or
making friends as they grow.
The emotional view of development allows your kid to understand or control his or her internal
emotions. The social aspect of development helps balance the external elements like interacting
with family and friends.
As a responsible parent, it is important for you to know which social and emotional skills your kids
lack right from birth to help them accomplish it as they grow.
Understand that all children are special in their own ways, so your kid may or may not show the
above signs at the particular age. The one thing to remember always is to let your child know
that you love him, no matter what.
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