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RELATIONSHIP
ROYANULLOH, S.PSI, M.PSI.T
CIRI-CIRI INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP (BREHM & KASSIN, 1996)
EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT
Rekreasional
Fisik Intelektual
Sosial
Emosional
BAGAIMANA DIMULAI?
Proses Memilih
• Friendship
• Love / Romance
Proses Terberi
• Family
• Co-workers
RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS
PARENTS
OTHERS
FAMILY SIBLINGS
MEMBER
FRIENDSHIPS
• Close friendship : dapat dimulai sejak • Women report having more close friends
kecil, berlangsung hingga beberapa than men do (Fredrickson, 1995).
dekade
• Women also place more importance on
• Close friendship : Terjadi mutual emotional intimacy (e.g., self-disclosure and emotional
support, memiliki waktu bersama, support) than is true for men (Fehr, 2004).
berinteraksi dalam beragam situasi
• There are many benefits to having close
(Laurenceau, Barrett, & Pietromonaco, 1998;
friends, but there can also be pain when you
Matsushima & Shiomi, 2002)
lose a friend or have to separate
• Close friendship : someone with whom you
can relax & be yourself (Urbanski, 1992)
ROMANTIC
RELATIONSHIP
JEALOUSY : AN INTERNAL THREAT TO
RELATIONSHIP
MATE SELECTION (BUSS, 1989, 1994)
LAKI-LAKI PEREMPUAN
• Usia lebih muda • Usia lebih tua
• Penampilan • Prospek finansial
• Virginity • Ketersediaan sumber daya (ex:
penghasilan)
• Kapasitas reproduktif
• Ambisi atau keuletan
MATE SELECTION (GOODWIN, 1990)
• men were more likely to have attempted mate poaching and to be the victims of mate-
poaching attempts by others (Schmitt, 2004)
• mate poachers tended to be more extroverted, disagreeable, unconscientious,
unfaithful, and erotophilic—being comfortable in talking about sex
• Cultures with more economic resources had higher rates of mate-poaching attempts
• in countries with more women than men, women were more likely to engage in mate
poaching
• And the sex differences in mate poaching tended to be smaller in cultures that were more
gender egalitarian