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l i n ifficult" is a label that people often apply to those with whom they have a
U conflict or those who may display resistance to an idea. It is based on per-
ception, not reality. Part of a healthcare executive's job is to persuade and inform
highly intelligent and highly trained men and women who are engaged in some
of the most complex and important tasks in the world. Because of their profession
(whether they are in clinical or nonclinical roles), most healthcare professionals
are driven to succeed, are single minded about their goals, ask a lot of questions,
are dedicated to their practices, and have a strong work ethic. Cetting their at-
tention is often a challenge because of their busy schedules. Persuading them is
even harder, as they tend to be unwilling to compromise or be flexible. These are
characteristics that cause executives to label these professionals "difficult."
The first step in handling these types of people is to drop the view and the
label that they are "difficult." Change brings out difficult behavior. Otherwise per-
sonable people can become causes of confiict and can attack if they do not agree
with or feel threatened by the change. Thus, you must temper your use of the word
so as not to cloud your judgment about others.
The term is used here merely for convenience, but it should never be used
when making a direct reference to another person. The following tactics will guide
executives in interacting or communicating with people who may be considered
difficult.
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collaborative. Their reason is that the difficult boss will show and give respect
when challenged.
BE A W A R E O F E M O T I O N A L RESPONSES
At one time or another, everyone has succumbed to an emotional appeal. Diffi-
cult people often exploit others' emotions to render these people off balance and
vulnerable. For example, an employee with a negative attitude may share a sympa-
thetic story with another coworker to gain approval and support for himself An
argumentative board member may use silent treatment during a decision-making
meeting to pique other board members' anger or empathy and thus cause distur-
bance and delay. In these cases, knowing your personal emotional triggers may
be your best defense and preparation—that is, other people cannot use emotional
tactics on you if you are aware of how you respond and how you can control your
response. Using emotional tactics to subdue a difficult person is problematic, as it
can cause a confrontation and can quickly escalate out of control.
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COMMUNICATION
EXPECT P L E A S A N T CONFLICTS
Challenging people can be charming, polished, and persuasive. However, do not
be misled, as such people are also very determined to get an advantage over you.
A pleasant difficult person is more enjoyable to deal with than a bitter, offensive
opponent, but both groups have the same agenda: to get what they want at your
expense.
BE PATIENT
Time can work for you in conflict situations. By delaying a confrontation, you
create pressure for the other party while demonstrating your control over the sit-
uation. Waiting also allows a volatile situation to depressurize.
P R E V E N T " L O S S OF F A C E "
Showing respect for the other person's opinions, even if you do not agree, is often
enough to stem "loss of face"—that is, embarrassment from either not convincing
the other party to back down or not achieving the intended goal. Your acceptance
of the difficult person's arguments does not suggest agreement. Rather, it provides
the person an avenue for a graceful retreat, at least for the time being.
CONCLUSION
The pressures of caregiving; limitations of operating and managing under tight
budgets and strict regulations; and emotional components of medicine, illness.
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workplace politics, and basic human interaction are the sources of healthcare con-
flicts that in turn fuel problematic or difficult behavior. The effective leader is able
to deal with this behavior professionally, not personally. By doing so, the leader
encourages high level of commitment and performance from all the stakeholders
of the organization.
Reference
Atlanta Journal-Constitution. 2001. "WorkSmart." Atlanta Journal-Constitution (June 24): Rl.
For more information on the concepts in this column, please contact Paul
Preston at ppreston@www.com.
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