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12 Types of Conflict, Conflict Lifecycle Allama Maqsood Ahmad Salafi Presentation 3:00-3:40
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13 Conflict Stages Ishtiaq Ahmad PPT Presentation, Q/A 3:40-4:30
DAY 2, 17-11-2018
Recitation Participant Led Recitation from holy books 9:00-9:15
Recap Ishtiaq Plenary 9:15-10:00
15 Understanding Peace and Peace building Ishtiaq Ahmad / Summayya Kanwal Role Play , Discussion Q/A 10:00-11:30
17 Importance of Peace education in sustainable Allama Maqsood Ahmad Salafi Ppt. Presentation and Q/A 12: 30 – 1:20
peace
Lunch Prayer (Jumma Prayer) Break ( (1hours)
18 Methodology of Peace Education within Ishtiaq Ahmad /Allama Maqsood Ahmad Ppt. Presentation and Q/A 2:20-3:00
children and youth Salafi
E XECUTIVE S UMMARY
Khwendo Kor (KK) is a non-profit, non-governmental and non-partisan organization established in 1993 in
response to a strong need expressed by women for a forum to address their issues. Now KK has grown to become
one of the leading women’s rights organizations in Pakistan, registered under Societies Act 1860, Directorate of
Social Welfare FATA and Government of Pakistan Economic Affairs Division (EAD) through a memorandum of
understanding (MOU).
Khwendo Kor (Peshawar) is implementing a project to enhance the capacity of the minority community members,
CSOs and duty bearers with the objective to promote peace and harmony among the people living in district
Peshawar for resilient communities and inclusive societies.
KK has planned to build capacity of 25 women activist from diverse faiths on Peace Building (Social Cohesion)
Strategies and Peaceful Co-Existence. The women group includes members from minority community,
government officials, human rights, social activist and students.
O B S E RV E R S & M O N I T O R I N G
Madam MaryamfromKhwendo Kor (KK).
Subhan Ali, Khwendo Kor (KK)
Suliman Ali,Khwendo Kor (KK)
Baqir Ali,Khwendo Kor (KK)
Nisha Javeed,Khwendo Kor (KK)
D E T AI L S O F T HE E V E N T
DAY ONE
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16 November 2018
Ishtiaq asked participants that if they want to have discussion on any other related topic or clear anything, they can
write it on parking lot by themselves and similarly if they want to give any suggestion or complains, then they can
write that as well on charts.
To build the capacity of women activist on meaningful participation in social cohesion efforts, dispute
resolution techniques, equal citizenship and human rights including women rights and leadership.
To promote values of acceptance for diversity, co-existence and social cohesion.
To narrow the space created by the society and local people on the bases of faith and sect among the
communities.
U N DE R S T A N D I N G C O N FL I C T C OM M ON U N DE R S T A NDI N G OF C O NFL I CT .
Misconception and misperception can cause conflict and complicate conflict resolution. Conflict occur when there
is disagreement over a particular subject matter and the individuals cannot by themselves, reach a compromise
situation. This disagreement may happen over perceived or actual goals, values or interests. Therefore defining
factors of conflict involve opposition, contradiction, and disagreement over beliefs, perceptions, ideas, views,
interests and/or needs of people.
Definition of “Conflict”
Tentatively, we can define conflict as “A clash of contradictory beliefs, values, interest, needs, opinions, and/ or
views of the parties”. Conflict is an expressed struggle between at least two independent parties who perceive
incompatible goals, scarce resources, and an interference from others in achieving their goals.
Positive and Negative conflicts
V I OL E N CE
Violence is a behavior of domination or enslavement using physical, verbal or psychological force against
someone. Killing, Beating, Rape, Torture, Insults, Harassment, Deprivation of liberties and rights, etc. are all forms
of violence.
Types of Conflict
1. Intra-personal Conflict
Refers to conflicts occurring within a person. Usually people need to work on their own inner struggles and issues
in order to be constructive in social cohesion and harmony.
2. Inter-personal Conflict
Conflict Lifecycle
Conflict Stages
Other peace building practitioners such as, Ayindo et al., 1995; Mcbeth and Fine, 1995, compare the conflict
process to a burning fire and identify five stages in that process: Gathering materials, Confrontation, Crisis, Coals,
and Regeneration. It is so important to understand these stages so that we are able to apply effective peace building
remedies that respond well to conflicts at any stage we tackle them.
Stage 1: Gathering materials for the fire / Potential conflict
In the early stage, materials for the fire are collected. Some of these materials are
drier than others, but there is no fire yet. However, there is movement towards
fire and the materials are readily available. During this stage of conflict people
usually experience violence because of unjust structures and social systems.
C O N FL I C T A N A L Y S I S
Conflict analysis is done in order to:
Inform peace building program on how to respond to conflict with relevant activities
Determine who is involved in the conflict
3) Divide large group into sub-groups to use the framework to analyze a conflict.
4) After sufficient time of discussion, have groups return for large group reporting and discussion.
T HE W H O , W H A T AND H OW OF C ON FL I CT
Who is involved in the conflict? How do they interact with each other?
Where is the conflict centered? Which people or groups have strong
positive relationships with each other? These relationships are
expressed in the drawing with each party (including secondary and
other peripheral or stakeholder parties) represented by a circle and their
relationships by different types of lines
The“What” of a Conflict
Using the Iceberg example, we can identify the root causes of conflict
under the water, the core problems as the middle and main support of
CONFLICT MANAGEMENT
PROCEDURE
Acknowledge the conflict
Agree on a procedure
Define the conflict
Explore possible solution
Reach an agreement
Put the plan into action
Evaluate the solution
FACTORS INFLUENCING CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Create a climate of co-operation
Communicate effectively
Control the emotions
Accept and understand the situation
DAY TWO
R E CI T AT I O N FR OM T HE H OL Y Q UR AN
At the Day twoTraining started with the Recitation of Holy Quran by Hafsa, Holy Bible by Shalim, Holy Gheeta
by Jaswinder and Holy Granth Sahab by Kiran Kour. The registration & attendance process was facelifted by
Nisha Kaur, Program Support Officer Khwendo Kor.
Review of the day 1
The trainer commenced the session with questionanswers s to share the previous day learning and followed by
concluding and consolidating the session’s leanings and linking them to the forthcoming sessions. Active and
effective participation have been ensured to analyze their findings and how they will use the information to achieve
the collective and shared vision .Participants reviewed the work done and consolidated things happen yesterday
and now ready to link it with next day presentations.
C O M M ON U N D E R S T A N D I N G OF P E ACE
Peace is when:
People are able to resolve their conflicts without violence and can work together to improve the quality of their
lives,
Everyone lives in safety, without fear or threat of violence, and no form of violence is tolerated in law or in
practice,
Everyone is equal before the law, the systems for justice are trusted, and fair and effective laws protect people’s
rights,
Everyone is able to participate in shaping political decisions and the government is accountable to the people
Everyone has fair and equal access to the basic needs for their wellbeing – such as food, clean water, shelter,
education, healthcare and a decent living environment
Everyone has an equal opportunity to work and make a living, regardless of gender, ethnicity or any other aspect of
identity
Dialogue
The openness, willingness and space for dialogue are key principles of peace-building.
To bring about sustainable change, people have to develop a sense of joint ownership of the process and
become stakeholders in identifying new approaches to address common challenges
Cooperation
Peacebuilding requires cooperation that reflects responsibility, accountability and participation by diverse
actors.
Sharing crucial resources such as grazing land, water, forests, etc. creates an enormous opportunity and
motivation to cooperate, and brings stakeholders to the negotiating table.
Definitions of Power
Power exists in all relationships and determines our ability to affect the world around us.
Everyone needs and uses power to make decisions about their own life. Some people have access to more
sources of power than others.
Power can either refer to a situation in which one person or group dominates and controls others or to a
situation in which people use power together with others to achieve an agreed-upon goal.
Power is usually considered related to money, military, or physical strength but there are other sources of
power including information, knowledge or wisdom; moral or spiritual beliefs, people power, or the power
that a group of people have together when they decide they want to change their lives. Even beauty and
charisma can affect how “powerful” a person is in shaping her/his environment.
Civil society is distinct from government, but is seen as essential for the good functioning of any society.
For generations, individual communities lived in peaceful coexistence – not because the central
governments were effective, but because the local mechanisms were. However, as a result of the war, the
role of elders and respect for fundamental values, have been weakened, and local structures have
repeatedly failed to furnace solutions.
• Relating to the classification of mankind into groups, esp. on the basis of racial characteristics.
• Sociological Essentialism is a sociological (as opposed to philosophical) theory which states that
positions on gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity or other group characteristics are fixed traits, not allowing
for variations among individuals or over time.
perennialism is a normative educational philosophy. Perennialists believe that one should teach the things
that are of everlasting pertinence to all people everywhere, and that the emphasis should be on principles, not
facts
• Modernism is a philosophical movement that, along with cultural trends and changes, arose from wide-
scale and far-reaching transformations in Western society during the late 19th and early 20th centuries.
• instrumentalism is directly opposed to scientific realism, which is the view that the point of scientific
theories is not merely to generate reliable predictions but to describe the world accurately.
...Instrumentalism is a form of philosophical pragmatism as it applies to the philosophy of science.
Awareness
• Meet with a small group of mixed ethnic peers on a regular basis and discuss their perceptions and
observations.
• Beware of “us – them” thinking and speech. Monitor how often the “us vs them” is used in your own
family.
• Identify how ethnically diverse your church/mosque is. Discuss with other leaders and members how it can
be more welcoming if it is ethnically narrow.
• How power and privilege are preserved (this includes your church/mosque)
Action
• Make ethnic peace, justice and reconciliation a priority
• Be intentional and proactive; develop friendship groups with a wider ethnic network
• Choose to give up comfort, power or privilege so that someone normally kept from it might have it.
• Choose to speak out on others’ behalf among your ethnic group, especially when there may be something
demeaning that is only ethnic
• Celebrate and encourage diversity by drawing attention to diversity and praising it in your church/mosque,
workplace or community.
• Learn to listen well to the stories of other ethnic communities. Bring healing into those stories.
Peace education therefore is concerned with helping learners to develop an awareness of the processes and
skills that are necessary for achieving understanding, tolerance, and good-will in the world today. Through
these processes, the youth and young adults would be able to contribute positively to the community by
building network of peace clubs and spreading the message of peace throughout their communities.
• Examining and discussing our values and attitudes towards diversity, cultural differences, tolerance, and
human dignity;
• Developing language and social interaction skills to promote peaceful relations among people, among
nations, and between human beings and the natural environment; and
• Learning to solve problems and to think critically regarding issues of conflict and violence.
Through that exposure, the child can easily get influenced by the violence exhibited by adults.
It is disheartening to realize that we live in a world of unprecedented violence in different forms. Terrorism,
war, crimes, injustice, oppression and exploitation of the populace by the minority seems to be the order of the
day. Gone are the days of chivalry, where the strong protect the weak.
• Since they are the so called leaders of tomorrow, the dangers are that they will grow to become leaders of a
violent society, having been steeped and nurtured in violence.
• The urgent need therefore exists that were we to mold our children into the near perfect leaders of
tomorrow, we should start now to nurture them in understanding the essence of peace and availing them
with the opportunities of acquiring the relevant skills to resolve disputes in a pleasant manner.
Through the use of topics that raise issues related to peace and cultural understanding in the classrooms. The
teacher can share a story with the students which tease out basic information to help them develop positive
attitudes and values related to living in peace as a community.
Maqsood Salafi discussed a perfect recipe of a leader comparing the personalities of Nelson Mandela, Mother
Teresa and Hitler. After this, all the participants were grouped into 3 groups on the basis of age and their study
level and they were asked to share their views as a group on how they can promote peace in daily life, they were
asked to show a Community Action plan for peace building & conflict resolution on which all the 3 groups starting
from college students, university students to PhD Scholars. They brilliantly made action plan and showed the best
approaches from themselves for the promotion of peace and harmony. They also shared their personal approaches
like a group member from college group that was the youngest one said that I have a Hindu fellow and she always
wishes us Eid in a great way but when it comes to Diwali, no one does anything for her so I decided to wish her
and celebrate with her then all the other fellows also came forward and made her day. University students said that
we should arrange trips to our religious places and can give the message of peace in this way .Similarly teachers
The 1994 Rwandan genocide was a key trigger for the evolution of the conflict early warning field. Over time, it
led to three generations of early warning systems, each with a specific mandate, organizational set-up, information
sources/analytical methods, links to response decision-making, and strengths and weaknesses.
R E CI T AT I O N FR OM T HE H OL Y Q UR AN
At the Day twoTraining started with the Recitation of Holy Quran by Madiha, Holy Bible by Remsha Robin, Holy
Gheeta by Jaswinder and Holy Granth Sahab by Kiran Kour. The registration & attendance process was facelifted
by Nisha Kaur, Program Support Officer Khwendo Kor.
REVIEW O F T HE D A Y 2
The trainer commenced the session with a warm up exercise of revising and sharing the previous days learning and
followed by concluding and consolidating the session’s leanings and linking them to the forthcoming sessions.
Active and effective participation have been ensured to analyze their findings and how they will use the
information to achieve the collective and shared vision..Participants reviewed the work done and consolidated
things happen yesterday and now ready to link it with next day presentations.
P E A CE BUILDING S KI L L S
Life Skills Based Education for Violence Prevention and Peace Building promotes the development of knowledge,
skills, attitudes and values needed to bring about behavioral change that will enable children, youth and adults to:
When applied to the issue of violence prevention, one or a combination of life skills can enable students to:
identify and implement peaceful solutions for resolving conflict (e.g., problem solving, decision making,
critical thinking, coping with stress, coping with emotions, communication skills, interpersonal relationship
skills )
identify and avoid dangerous situations (e.g., critical thinking, problem solving, decision making)
evaluate violent solutions that appear to be successful as depicted in the media (e.g., critical thinking)
resist pressure from peers and adults to use violent behaviour (e.g., problem solving, decision making, critical
thinking, coping with stress, coping with emotions, communication skills, interpersonal relationship skills )
become a mediator and calm disputants (e.g., self awareness, problem solving, decision making, critical
thinking, coping with stress, coping with emotions, communication skills, interpersonal relationship skills)
help prevent crime in their community (e.g., problem solving, decision making, communication skills, coping
with emotions)
reduce prejudice and increase tolerance for diversity (e.g., critical thinking, coping with stress, coping with
emotions, communication skills, interpersonal relationship skills)
C O N FL I C T M A N A GE M E N T
Conflict management refers to techniques and ideas designed to reduce the negative effects of conflict and enhance
the positive outcomes for all parties involved.
Emotional Intelligence
Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand one’s own feelings and those of others, and to handle those
feelings well. People who have high emotional intelligence are good at identifying and meeting the needs of others
while taking responsibility for their own needs and feelings. A few ways they do this are:
Empathy
Empathy means feeling what others feel. The ability to see a situation
from someone else’s viewpoint, to understand their needs, motivations,
and possible misunderstandings, is critical to effective conflict
management. Some people are naturally more empathic than others, but
empathy can be developed.
C O N FL I C T M A N A GE M E N T S KI L L S
Communication Skills
Accommodating
The accommodating strategy essentially entails giving the opposing side what it wants. The use of accommodation
often occurs when one of the parties wishes to keep the peace or perceives the issue as minor. For example, a
business that requires formal dress may institute a "casual Friday" policy as a low-stakes means of keeping the
peace with the rank and file. Employees who use accommodation as a primary conflict management strategy,
however, may keep track and develop resentment.
Collaborating
Collaboration works by integrating ideas set out by multiple people. The object is to find a creative solution
acceptable to everyone. Collaboration, though useful, calls for a significant time commitment not appropriate to all
conflicts. For example, a business owner should work collaboratively with the manager to establish policies, but
collaborative decision-making regarding office supplies wastes time better spent on other activities..
Compromising
The compromising strategy typically calls for both sides of a conflict to give up elements of their position in order
to establish an acceptable, if not agreeable, solution. This strategy prevails most often in conflicts where the parties
hold approximately equivalent power. Business owners frequently employ compromise during contract
negotiations with other businesses when each party stands to lose something valuable, such as a customer or
necessary service.
Competing
Competition operates as a zero-sum game, in which one side wins and other loses. Highly assertive personalities
often fall back on competition as a conflict management strategy. The competitive strategy works best in a limited
number of conflicts, such as emergency situations. In general, business owners benefit from holding the
competitive strategy in reserve for crisis situations and decisions that generate ill-will, such as pay cuts or layoffs.
Below are the some widely accepted reasons why inclusion of women in peacebuilding is vital.
Because women are half of every community and the tasks of peacebuilding are so great, women and
men must be partners in the process of peacebuilding.
Women and men experience conflict and violence differently. The costs of conflicts are borne
disproportionately by women and children. Since women pay the primary price when peace is absent, they
are important stakeholders in peacebuilding.
Women play important roles in peacebuilding and are essential to creating long-term, sustainable
peace. Women’s peace initiatives have facilitated multi-track interaction and have transcended the
boundaries of nationality, religion, class, and socioeconomic background in their work for peace.
Direct violence against women is an important dimension of civil unrest, and therefore needs to
be included in peacebuilding programs.
Structural or cultural violence against women in the form of unequal access to education, jobs, and
leadership opportunities, for example, is an obstacle to building peace and therefore needs to be included
in peacebuilding programs.
When groups try to infuse a gender analysis into their programs by hiring gender advisors, they
often inadvertently ghetto-ize gender issues, leaving them isolated rather than integrated into programming
It encompasses threats of violence and coercion. It can be physical, emotional, psychological, or sexual in nature,
and can take the form of a denial of resources or access to services. It inflicts harm on women, girls, men and boys.
Gender-based violence is a violation of human rights. It denies the human dignity of the individual and hurts
human development.
Gender-based violence is largely rooted in individual attitudes that condone violence within the family, the
community and the State.
Kofi Annan, Secretary-General of the United Nations, declared in a 2006 report posted on the United Nations
Development Fund for Women (UNIFEM) website:
“Violence against women and girls is a problem of pandemic proportions. At least one out of every three women
around the world has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime with the abuser usually
someone known to her”.
Violence against women can fit into several broad categories. These include violence carried out by "individuals"
as well as "states". Some of the forms of violence perpetrated by individuals are: rape, domestic violence, sexual
harassment, reproductive coercion, female infanticide, prenatal sex selection, obstetric violence, and mob violence;
as well as harmful customary or traditional practices such as honor killings, dowry violence, and female genital
mutilation, marriage by abduction and forced marriage. Some forms of violence are perpetrated or condoned by the
state such as war rape; sexual violence and sexual slavery during conflict; forced sterilization; forced abortion
trafficking and forced prostitution.
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Globally, one in three women have experienced physical or sexual violence at the hands of an intimate
partner. Roughly 20 percent of women have experienced sexual abuse before the age of 18, while just over 7
percent of women and girls older than 15 have experienced no partner sexual violence. This violence has
immediate and long-lasting impacts on the health and welfare of women and children, with ripple effects in the
broader community and country.
Gender-based violence is a significant barrier to the achievement of every development outcome. Sustainable
Development Goal 5 recognizes that gender equality is the foundation for a “peaceful, prosperous and sustainable
world” and that this includes a world free of gender-based violence. Goal 5 explicitly calls for the elimination of
“all forms of violence against all women and girls in the public and private spheres.”
These are the right goals. But, how do we get there? We would focus on six key areas:
1. Funding women’s full participation in civil society. Women who are active in civil society can be highly
effective in influencing global, regional and national treaties, agreements and laws and in exerting pressure
to ensure their implementation. More money needs to flow toward supporting women’s active participation
in civil society.
3. Bringing gender-based violence clinical services to lower-level health facilities. The provision of
gender-based violence clinical services has focused on “one-stop shops” at high-level facilities, such as
hospitals, where all services are offered in one place. But, the majority of people who access services at
high-level facilities do so too late to receive key interventions, such as emergency contraception and HIV
post-exposure prophylaxis. For faster access, we should focus on bringing services closer to the
community, particularly in rural areas.
4. Addressing the needs of child survivors, including interventions to disrupt the gender-based violence
cycle. In shelters and services for women, it is common to see children of all ages in waiting rooms or safe
houses. But, it is rare to see anyone working with these children, who have experienced a traumatic event.
Sometimes they are victims, but most likely they are witnesses to violence against their mothers. We lack
trained professionals to work with children who have experienced gender-based violence, especially when
the perpetrators are parents or other family members.
5. Developing guidance for building systems to eliminate gender-based violence. There is ample global
guidance on how to address gender-based violence through certain sectors, such as health, or through
discrete actions, such as providing standards for shelters or training for counselors. But, we are missing
practical guidance for building the whole system from A to Z — putting laws into practice, raising
awareness of services and creating budgets.
6. Developing support programs for professionals experiencing secondhand trauma. After three years of
working with a program to address school-related gender-based violence, I had to walk away. Despite my
commitment to ending gender-based violence, I simply could not hear another awful story. My experience
is not unique. Burnout is a reality, and we lack qualified people to deal with gender-based violence
survivors.
P O S T T E S T & C L OS I N G C E R E M O NY
The facilitator conducted the post tests to assess the knowledge of the participants after the training. Training was
evaluated by distributing the printed evaluation sheet among all the participants; the evaluation sheets are designed
to take views of the trainees on training design, contents, support material, facilitator way of facilitation etc.
Mr.Subhan Ali Sb said a few words about the importance of the Programme and how this approach is going to
becontributing in achieving the sustainablePeace in the community. All the participants will be awarded
certificates for successfully completing the training.