REFLECTION

IN
ENGLISH

SUBMITTED BY:
RAZZEL FAITH M. INDENCIA
10-MAGNOLIA

SUBMITTED TO:
MS. MICAH ADRIATICO
LESSON 1: FINDING COMMON GROUND
Have you had conflicts with others? How did these make you feel? What did you do?
Ofcourse I already experienced having a conflict with others It’s so hard to be in that situation. It made
me feel sad because Im not a war freak or a person who always fight or always in an argument. I don’t
want to have some enemies. Im such a friendly person that’s why when someone is ignoring me and I
don’t know the problem I always ask them what did I do so that I can say sorry or I can fix the problem
immedietly cause I don’t want to be stuck in a situation where I can feel the awkwardness I want the
people around me is happy with me that’s why when someone’s ignoring me I ask them right away what
is the problem. Cause when you have a problem about me and I don’t know that you’re mad at me and
Im talking to you and you’re just nodding at me while me is chilling without knowing that you’re mad at
me. So if you have some problem referring to me tell me right away so that I can do my side to say sorry.
This kind of situation is really happening in real life I will give an example base on my own experience I
have a lot of friends we’re really close I treat them as my siblings I tell them all my secrets. But I have
this friend of mine since I was young she’s my childhood friend. I love her ofcourse because she’s my
friend I don’t know what did I do wrong to deserve what she did to me. She used my facebook acc. For
about 3 to 4 times I don’t know how did she know my fb pass. But I still forgive her everytime she say
sorry because like what ive said I don’t want to have some enemies so I forgive and forgive. But the last
thing she did to me is she took a video of her self saying bad things about me that obviously isn’t real I
know my self and she send that video to my other bestfriend and my bestfriend send me the video I
can’t stand it I cried a lot knowing that the girl I know for too long the girl I treat as my sibling or ate is
back stabbing me Im so speechless that time I don’t even know what to feel and how I will going to react
on that situation. I can’t believe that the person I trust is the one I shouldn’t trust. And that is how my
trust issue started. She say sorry again guess what I forgive her again but our friendship is not the same
before she’s ignoring me until now but I don’t care why would I care and Im not seeking for her
attention and she’s actually an insecure person whenever I receive an award she’s always staring at me
as if I don’t deserve the award that I do for my self. Im happy for her achievements but she’s not happy
for me and that is sad. In that example of mine Im pointing out is It’s really hard to have an argument or
a conflict to the person who is really close to you because when pride is there it is really hard to fix.
Because in some friendship when there’s a conflct the hardest part to do is the part where one of them
need to say sorry or just do the first move so that everything will be fine. But the pride is there the one
who will say sorry is the one who is the cause of the argument that is their belief when it comes to this
kind of situation between bestfriends. The best thing to do is to talk about it listen to her opinion and
she’ll listen to yours. Let her tell the problem or the reason why she’s mad at you let her explain her side
and after that do your explanation wait for her sign to make you start to explain your reason so that you
guys can understand each other. Because when you let the small problem and ignore each other
everyday nothings gonna happen so lower the pride and talk about it after that say sorry to each other
and after that be happy again. That is part of the process of making you guys strong and giving you
lessons that in every problem there’s a solution. Try to fix it and accept what is your fault then
everythings gonna be alright. It hurts to have a conflict with your friend that’s why try to avoid
misunderstanding because now that is the main cause of friendship problems and also in love life. For
the love life topic I will just share what I have read on the internet because I never experienced to be in
a relationship because Im too young for that and I prioritize my studies for now crush is what I have but
yeah for the love life the most common conflict is always about jealousy and about the trust. Because
when you love someone ofcourse you need to have a trust to that person. But nowadays that is the
hardest thing that they can give to their partner their reason is that It’s hard for them to trust another
person because someone they love in their past relationship broke their trust that’s why It’s hard for
them to give their trust to the person they love in their current relationship but in my opinion if they’re
not ready to give their trust again because I know it takes time to build the trust of a person who
experienced being lied to but why would you go in a relationship if you cannot give that person your
trust how sure are you that the person will not hurt you especially when you love him but you don’t
trust him that’s weird right. When you love someone make them feel that they’re special and you trust
them because that’s the strongest weapon when it comes to the lovelife topic. And if you’re really
contented with your partner you will never cheat. Cheating is a choice and a mistake. If you’re in a
relationship and you’re talking or chatting with someone else with sweet words and you delete the
conversation because you’re scared that your partner will know that you’re talking with somebody else
that is consider as cheating that is the cause of a big conflict. If you are really contented with your
partner you will never cheat but if you do it means that you’re not contented cause you’re aiming for
another love. Why would you court a girl for a long time, giving her flowers, giving her a love letter,
giving her chocolate and waiting for her yes, making her fall inlove with you and but in the end you’re
just gonna break her heart Im not saying that boys is always the cheater there are girls who is also
cheating but mostly boys is the one who is doing that. Learn to appreciate your partner so that there will
be no conflict. And this is also part of the topic this is called COMMON GROUND BY: KODALINE on the
first line It’s easy to win It’s harder to lose to admit that you’re wrong when you’ve got something to
prove. For me that is really deep It is easy to win when you work hard for it to achieve what you want
but it is harder to lose, to lose in every challenges that you’re facing and to admit that you’re wrong
even though it is not your fault that is really hard you’re claiming a situation that you don’t event know
just to end the conflict and claiming that, that is your fault even though you have something to prove
that it is not your fault. And on this line People will tell you what you want to hear but the people who
know you well can make it all clear. Base on my understanding some people who don’t like you, the
people who hate you, the people who want to see you suffer they will do everything to make you feel
the hell they’ll bring you down they will do fake news about you all you need to do is to let them do
what they want because the people who know you well and the people who really believe in you will be
there at your back and they will never believe to the people who is making fake news about you. You,
yourself is what you need. YOU need to love yourself appreciate your worth and know your worth don’t
let people around you who hates you bring you down show them that you’re a fighter in a proper way.
And also on this line Life isn’t easy you got to be strong so get busy learning are you already gone? To
be honest this is my favourite line it’s so meaningful. Life isn’t easy so we have to be strong all we have
is ourselves so we gotta be strong and face all the challenges and on every failures we learned
something and failures is part of the process it is for making us strong day by day reminding us that life
isn’t easy so we need to work hard for ourselves if we fail at something don’t give up because life is full
of unending obstacle that we need to finish so we will able to feel the success don’t lose youself in the
process. We gotta be strong so that in the end there will be no conflict.
LESSON 2: BUILDING TIES
Conflicts usually happen everywhere. It happens in the family, in a group of
friends in the classroom. The most common problem is about family problem when the parents is
starting to fight because of a cheating issue or financial problem that is were the family problem
started. I know some of the person I met they always have issue about about family problem and
it make me feel sad because how do they celebrate Christmas if they don’t have a complete
family it’s really hard to celebrate every occasion if the family is not complete right especially in
family days it really hurts to their child because their child is the one who will suffer a lot to
asking their selves why they don’t have family picture. Asking for a father or a mother that is
really sad. If Im also in that situation I guess there’s no time especially at night that I will not
gonna ask my self why I don’t have a complete family? Why I does my parents relationship
didn’t work? it’s Christmas why we’re not complete like other families? See it’s really sad when
you’re going to imagine yourself in that situation. So I wish this coming December there will be
no sad people and all families will be united so that there will be no sad people this coming
Christmas and new year. Another conflict being compared to other’s that is one of the biggest
conflict also I know the feeling of being compared. Im very sorry for being me. Im sorry if i
can’t be the person you guys want me to be. This is me I can’t change my self for you guys to
appreciate me. If im gonna change Im going to changed for a better version of my self not for
you guys. But when someone compared you to other’s it really hurt as hell because yeah I know
that person is obviously better than me but can you guys please appreciate me even just a little
bit Im also doing my best make me feel that I deserve to be treated the way you treat those so
called better people. Being compared by your parent is really in another level It hurts like hell.
Are you not happy on what I achieve? Is it not enough? Hey Im still doing my best for you guys
and still it is not good enough? I know a lot of people experienced that. Please learn to appreciate
simple people they’re also trying their very best. And the problem also in friendship is making
other people laugh by bullying their frinds in my opinion that’s wrong making other people
laugh by making fun of your bestfriend is kinda alarming what if your friend is just laughing but
in reality she’s not really happy. What if she’s laughing because she/he thinks the she/he deserve
to be treated like that. Even if that is your friend learn to know other peoples privacy stop
making fun of your friend that is kinda alarming don’t make them feel that they’re like a toy or a
clown being laugh by other people. And also bullyng your friend because of physical appearance
is sad why would you do that. A friendship without bullying is boring but bullying your friend
always with the same hurtul words without asking her if she’s okay is bad what if she’s
esprencing depression? And she take it seriously. So stop making fun of others. Bullying started
at schools in every rom there’s a student that they will always bully and that is bad It’s kinda
alarming there’s a lot cases when it comes to bullying because bullying is the one of the biggest
conflict i the philppines that is need to be solved or else bullying cases will increase we really
need o make a wish. We need to build ties so that we will be as one unity is what we need. We
need to help each other to solve every problem that we’re facing right now. Let’s help each other
because this is what we really need. As one we will achieve anything we want for our country if
we support each other. Let’s make the impossible possible when we’re going to help each other
everything will be alright and all the problems will be solved also. So what we’re waiting for let
us have unity and make this team work dream work. If we will help each other we will solve the
problem step by step we can pass every conflict that our world is facing. All we need is to learn
how appreciate each everyone of us because in every pain there’s a success we may all feel right now is
full of pain but don’t worry time passes by everything will be alright. I hope rape cases in our country will
be done I hope drug cases here also in our country will be done and I hope everything will be alright. We
can really survive all the problem that the whole world is experiencing if we’re gonna have unity a strong
bond that no one can break. And to this topic there’s a song by JOHN LENNON the title is IMAGINE. The
song IMAGINE sends a message of peace to everyone. It mentions the two primary reasons why people
and nations have conflicts which is the jingoistic allegiance to one’s country and religious faith. He views
the love of possessions as an unnecessary hindrance to sharing with everyone. The song illustrates the
wonderful but unachievable dream of John Lennon and most of the world’s people. In this line “Imagine
there's no heaven It's easy if you try No hell below us Above us only sky Imagine all the people Living
for today” Beautiful and simple lyrics right? Yes, and quite deep at the same time. John Lennon asks us
to imagine that there’s no heaven and hell. He says we may have to try a little-because we have been
spoon-fed that above us is the heaven and below us is the hell from our very childhoods. So it may need
a little effort, but you can imagine it. And who teaches us of heaven and hell? Well, the religion. I’m not
hating on any religion, but the chaos we have brought upon this world in the name of ‘religion’ is
beyond justifiable under any faith. It’s as if, the world would have been a better place without
religions.We go to heaven or hell ‘tomorrow’-not today. What if people focused on the present? Living
in the present. How would that impact our behavior? Would we treat people differently if we knew we
had to endure the consequences of our actions today? We go to heaven or hell after our death. Well,
what if we had to pay off our debts in this life itself? Would we still be doing all the inhumanities that we
do today? And on this line “Imagine there's no countries It isn't hard to do Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion, too Imagine all the people Living life in peace” John Lennon asks us to imagine that
there are no countries. Why? Well, what are countries? Goggle defines a country as “a nation with its
own government, occupying a particular territory.” That’s a red sign right there. How many wars have
been fought in the name of patriotism, sovereignty, imperialism and territory? What if the whole world
was one nation? Would people still fight for boundaries? Wealthy and powerful nations thrive on
acquiring and pondering smaller and weaker nations. ‘Peace’ is the shield they use to cover their dirty
hands. We take pride in saying “we are willing to die for our country”. True, there’s nobility in that,
because we are already divided into territories. But what if there were no territories? Would people still
have to die for a piece of land? Probably not. “You may say Im a dreamer but Im not the only one I
hope someday you’ll join us and the world will be as one” Keep dreaming, we could say and shrug off
Lennon. But this is not John Lennon speaking. This is him speaking on behalf of all of us. This is a
common dream we all have. A world of peace. But world peace requires the contribution of everybody. I
mean everybody. If there’s even a single spoke that is bent or broken, this wheel would collapse.
“Imagine there’s no possessions I wonder if you can no need for greed and hunger a brotherhood of a
man Imagine al the people sharing for all the world John Lennon gets a little spiritual in the third verse.
Imagine a life without possessions. What are possessions? Well, pretty much everything that we love
and adore and cannot let go. Can we imagine a life without our smart phone? Probably, we can’t. And
that’s why John Lennon says he wonders if we are capable of such a feat. John Lennon invites us to let
go of worldly possessions. There’s no need for greed over material things-we leave it all behind when we
have to go. We have to share our things with the less fortunate. That’s how we end world hunger.
Imagine a world where the USA did not dump tons and tons of crops in to the ocean without giving it to
the poor, just to keep the market prices stable. Imagine, what would have happened if we shared our
excess food with the less fortunate. World hunger would probably end overnight.It’s interesting to see
the change of tonality in the imaginations by Lennon.”Imagine there’s no heaven it’s easy if you try
imagine there’s no country it isn’t hard to do imagine there’s no possessions I wonder if you can” on
this line John Lennon want us to imagine what if there’s no heaven and countries there’s world peace
becase the only problem here is us we wdon’t have a strong bond.
 LESSON 3: BEING SENSITIVE TO OTHER’S
1. I will start my reflection with this quote “always try to be sensitive about other people’s
feelings. Because there are times that a tear means happiness and a smile means hurt. A lot of people
do not possess sensitivity. They do not think of what others might feel when they have done something
wrong. They just keep going. They just go on with their actions, decisions and keep saying words without
knowing that they might hurt others, they’re insensitive. People should be careful when it comes to the
feelings of others. People with high sensitivity to others emotion can be an asset for you. Why? Because
if other sees your characteristics as being sensible and sensitive as to what they feel and think, you will
get their attention and that’s the beginning of friendship that might become deeper. You are careful of
the feelings of others. You are considerate and sensitive in the sense that before you do and say
something, you think of them, you consider their feelings or you put you shoes on their feet. That
attitude will make them like you. Sometimes we forgot to be sensitive to the feelings of others that even
our classmate experiences out attitude of being insensitive. Because sometimes we focus to ourselves,
to our happiness that we become selfish that we were not able to consider feelings of others. In that
way they are affected without knowing our knowledge. You will just realize what you did something
wrong to them. You are sensible sensitive if you were able to ask forgiveness to them, to the people you
have done something wrong. Being sensitive to the feelings of others will give us a strong self-
awareness, increases our empathy, appreciative of small things we will be able to find beauty in both
sadness and joy and an opportunity to gain good friends towards a close relationship. But how can we
sensitive to others? If you are a sensitive person, it will give you actions, decisions and cues you to the
environment/surroundings. Being sensitive might protect as you can sense if you are entering into a
trouble or bad situation. But in doing so, you should be aware of the consequences of your actions. How
will you show your being sensitive to others? A good manners and right conduct, if you have that It will
radiate back to you. Allow yourself to feel what other’s are feeling. When they listen without any
criticism and do not react quickly especially if you really don’t get the point. These are the signs that we
should observe if we’re talking to a sensitive person. 1.) Pay attention to the person’s face. The face
is the part of the body that is most likely to show emotions. If you’re trying to determine whether
someone is sad, upset, lonely or otherwise in pain, start by looking closely at the person’s facial
expression.Unlike some social cues, the seven basic facial expressions are said to be universal
in expression across all cultures.]These expressions are joy, surprise, contempt, anger, disgust,
sadness, and fearFacial expressions change rapidly, and may communicate more than one
emotion at a time. For example, the person’s face may show both amusement and fear if
something very surprising has happened.2.) Learn the signs of sadness. When someone is sad,
you’ll likely be able to see it on his face. It won’t look like a cartoon drawn with an upside-down
smile, but the corners of the person’s lips are likely to be slightly drawn down, while the jaw
comes up.The inner corners of the person’s eyebrows will be pulled slightly inward, and up
towards the forehead.Look for the skin below the person’s eyebrow to appear slightly
triangulated, with inner corner turning up.3.) Be aware of signs of fear. Being sensitive to when
someone's afraid can help you alter your own behavior. When someone is afraid, her mouth will
likely be held open with her lips slightly stretched and drawn back. Her brows are usually raised
and drawn together in a flat line.Examine her forehead, and look for wrinkles in the center
between the brows, not across.If someone's afraid, the upper eyelid will be raised, while the
lower lid is tense. The upper white of the eye will be visible, but not the lower.4.) Consider body
movement and posture.Signs of someone’s fatigue might include slumping shoulders and
loosely held limbs. If a person feels defensive, he may cross his hands, or shake his head. If
you’re attentive to these cues, you’ll be more aware of another person’s feelings.
If you’re not sure if you’re interpreting the person’s body language correctly, it’s usually okay to
ask the person verbally.However, if the person himself isn’t aware what he’s communicating, he
might respond by telling you everything’s fine when it really isn’t.5.) Think about what vocal
tone might communicate. Most people naturally modulate their tone of voice to suit the
size of the room, i.e., in order to be heard. If you’re in a large room, and the person is
speaking loudly, it’s likely that she’s just trying to be heard. However, the same vocal
tone in a small space can indicate frustration, anger or fear.
If the person is finding it difficult to talk, it’s possible that she’s upset or close to tears.
If she’s speaking in an arch, overly articulate manner, it’s likely that she’s being
sarcastic. Since sarcasm is a form of teasing, this might indicate that she’s angry but
trying to pretend not to be. We should listen to them with empathy,
Clarify that you understand what another person said. Summarizing or paraphrasing what the
other person has said will allow you to share your understanding of his meaning, and offer him a
chance to let you know if you’ve understood him correctly. If you’ve not understood what he
meant, this practice can help prevent misunderstandingThis step might feel like it slows down a
conversation. That’s okay, because it will also keep feelings from getting hurt through
misunderstanding. However, you can also ask someone to repeat what he's said. Saying,
“Excuse me?” or “Would you mind repeating that?” are polite ways to ask someone for
clarification.Remember that this will be most important to do when you’re talking about sensitive
topics.Give your full attention to the person speaking. Your undivided attention will increase your
sensitivity to another person’s feelings. If you’re looking around the room, or distracted by
another activity, you’re unlikely to be tuned in to another person’s feelings. We should be really
careful on the things that we are doing especiall when we are around the people who is very
sensitive.
LESSON 4: EMPATHIZING WITH OTHER’S
Empathy is one of the most important aspects of creating harmonious relationships,
reducing stress, and enhancing emotional awareness yet it can be tricky at times. I consider myself to be
quite empathetic, but notice that with certain people (especially those I don’t like or agree with and also
with myself at times) and in particular situations, my natural ability and desire to empathize can be
diminished or almost non-existent.I also notice that when I feel empathy for others and for myself, I feel
a sense of peace, connection, and perspective that I like. And, when there is an absence of empathy in a
particular relationship, situation, or in how I’m relating to myself, I often experience stress,
disconnection, and negativity.What is empathy? mpathy is not sympathy. When we’re sympathetic, we
often pity someone else, but maintain our distance (physically, mentally, and emotionally) from their
feelings or experience. Empathy is more a sense that we can truly understand, relate to, or imagine the
depth of another person’s emotional state or situation. It implies feeling with a person, rather than
feeling sorry for a person. And in some cases that “person” is actually us.Empathy is a translation of the
German term Einfühlung, meaning “to feel as one with.” It implies sharing the load, or “walking a mile in
someone else’s shoes,” in order to understand that person’s perspective. What stops us from
empathizing? There are a number of things that get in the way of us utilizing and experiencing the
power of empathy. Three of the main ones, which are all interrelated, are as follows: Feeling
Threatened : When we feel threatened by another person or a particular situation, it’s often hard to
empathize. This makes perfect sense from a survival standpoin if someone is trying to hurt us, we want
to protect ourselves, rather than have compassion and understanding about where they’re coming
from). However, we often feel “threatened” based on our own fears, projections, and past experiences
not by what is actually happening in the moment or in a particular relationship or situation. Whether the
threat is “real” or “imagined,” when we feel threatened in any way, it often shuts down our ability to
experience empathy. Being Judgemental : Judgments are a part of life, we all must make lots of
judgments and decisions on a daily basis (what to wear, what to eat, where to sit, what to watch/listen
to/read, what to say, and on and on). Making value judgments (the relative placement of our
discernment) is essential to living a healthy life. However, being judgmental is a totally different game.
When we’re judgmental, we decide that we’re “right” and someone else is “wrong.” Doing this hurts us
and others, cuts us off from those around us, and doesn’t allow us to see alternative options and
possibilities. We live in a culture that is obsessed with and passionate about being judgmental. And
many of us, myself included, are highly trained in this destructive and damaging “art.” When we’re being
judgmental about another person, group of people, or situation, we significantly diminish our capacity
to be empathetic. Fear: The root of all this is our fear. Feeling threatened is all about fear. Being
judgmental is all about fear. And, not feeling, experiencing, or expressing empathy is also all about fear.
There’s nothing inherently wrong with fear, it’s a natural human emotion – which, in fact, has many
positive aspects to it, if we’re willing to admit it, own it, express it, and move through it. Fear saves our
lives and keeps us out of trouble all the time. However, the issue with fear is our denial of it, our secret
obsession with it, and our lack of responsibility about it. We deem things, people, or situations to be
“scary,” when in truth there is nothing in life that is inherently “scary.” There are lots of things, people,
and situations that cause fear in us – however, we make it about “them” instead of owning that the fear
comes from within us. When we allow ourselves to be motivated by fear – which often leads to us
defending ourselves against “threats,” be judgmental, and more – it becomes difficult, if not impossible,
to access the power of empathy. Where in your life and relationships can you see that feeling
threatened, being judgmental, and experiencing fear stop you from being empathetic? The more willing
you are to look at this, acknowledge it, own it, and take responsibility for it (with compassion for
yourself), the more able you’ll be to expand your capacity for empathy. Understanding other people’s
feeling. Empathy is the ability to share and understand the emotions of others. It is a construct of
multiple components, There are three ways of looking at empathy.First there is affective empathy. This
is the ability to share the emotions of others. People who score high on affective empathy are those
who, for example, show a strong visceral reaction when watching a scary movie.They feel scared or feel
others’ pain strongly within themselves when seeing others scared or in pain.Cognitive empathy, on the
other hand, is the ability to understand the emotions of others. A good example is the psychologist who
understands the emotions of the client in a rational way, but does not necessarily share the emotions of
the client in a visceral sense.Finally, there’s emotional regulation. This refers to the ability to regulate
one’s emotions. For example, surgeons need to control their emotions when operating on a patient
Another way to understand empathy is to distinguish it from other related constructs. For example,
empathy involves self-awareness, as well as distinction between the self and the other. In that sense it is
different from mimicry, or imitation.Many animals might show signs of mimicry or emotional contagion
to another animal in pain. But without some level of self-awareness, and distinction between the self
and the other, it is not empathy in a strict sense. Empathy is also different from sympathy, which
involves feeling concern for the suffering of another person and a desire to help.That said, empathy is
not a unique human experience. It has been observed in many non-human primates and
even rats.People often say psychopaths lack empathy but this is not always the case. In fact,
psychopathy is enabled by good cognitive empathic abilities - you need to understand what your victim
is feeling when you are torturing them. What psychopaths typically lack is sympathy. They know the
other person is suffering but they just don’t care. Why do we need empathy? Empathy is important
because it helps us understand how others are feeling so we can respond appropriately to the situation.
It is typically associated with social behaviour and there is lots of research showing that greater empathy
leads to more helping behaviour.However, this is not always the case. Empathy can also inhibit social
actions, or even lead to amoral behaviour. For example, someone who sees a car accident and is
overwhelmed by emotions witnessing the victim in severe pain might be less likely to help that
person.Similarly, strong empathetic feelings for members of our own family or our own social or racial
group might lead to hate or aggression towards those we perceive as a threat. Think about a mother or
father protecting their baby or a nationalist protecting their country.People who are good at reading
others’ emotions, such as manipulators, fortune-tellers or psychics, might also use their excellent
empathetic skills for their own benefit by deceiving others.Interestingly, people with higher
psychopathic traits typically show more utilitarian responses in moral dilemmas such as the footbridge
problem. In this thought experiment, people have to decide whether to push a person off a bridge to
stop a train about to kill five others laying on the track.The psychopath would more often than not
choose to push the person off the bridge. This is following the utilitarian philosophy that holds saving
the life of five people by killing one person is a good thing. So one could argue those with psychopathic
tendencies are more moral than normal people who probably wouldn’t push the person off the bridge
as they are less influenced by emotions when making moral decisions.Can empathy be selective?
Research shows we typically feel more empathy for members of our own group, such as those from our
ethnic group. For example, one study scanned the brains of Chinese and Caucasian participants while
they watched videos of members of their own ethnic group in pain. They also observed people from a
different ethnic group in pain. These results correspond to observations in daily life. We generally feel
happier if our own group members win something, but we’re unlikely to harm others just because they
belong to a different group, culture or race. In general, ingroup bias is more about ingroup love rather
than outgroup hate. All in all we need to be very careful in our daily lives especially when we are talking
to someone we don’t know eve e know the person let us feel what the person’s feeling so that we can
relate to their situation and we can give them advices.