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TA B L E O F Just a few months ago, you watched your student toss their
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high school graduation cap in the air.
Financial Support for Your
Student Now, in the blink of an eye, you’re waving goodbye in the rearview mirror
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The support you give will take many forms. Maybe you want to help them
learn to manage their own expenses, or even apply for their first student
credit card.
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Or maybe you want to be sure that you stay scheduling weekly check-ins, learning how to
emotionally connected while your student goes step back and let your student problem solve,
through many new experiences: adjusting to the and creating a thoughtful care package.
college workload, getting to know their campus,
finding friends and joining activities. Last, we’ll offer guidance on how you can talk to
your student about important issues and social
In this guide, you’ll learn how to sort through pressures in college — and why you need to.
financial issues like creating a list of monthly These conversations aren’t always easy, but
expenses, deciding on an allowance, and they’re worth it.
helping your student find an on- or off-campus
job.
Here’s your complete guide to
You’ll also get 5 tips on how to provide emotional surviving and thriving during your
support to your student from the sidelines, like college freshman’s first semester.
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Before they leave home, or as early in the fall term as possible, talk to your student about these
common expenses:
Sit down together (or video chat) and list all their typical monthly expenses along with other potential
expenses that may come up during this first year of college.
Decide which of these expenses your student will be responsible for, and which you will cover or
help pay for so there is mutual understanding as your student kicks off the fall term.
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Student allowance
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In the same way, you might buy new clothes • Location: The cost of everything
before your student’s first semester at college tends to be higher at an urban
but they’ll be responsible for new clothing after campus (though internet
this (except maybe a few special items like an shopping can be an equalizer).
interview suit, a nice dress or a winter coat).
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Your student may feel ready to pick up an on- or more important for them to prioritize their studies
off-campus job during their first year at school. A and activities over working.
job can help them pay for extra expenses, save
money and make new friends. But if your student is looking for a part-time or
seasonal job, they can seek employment on or off
Some parents prefer their students to settle in campus.
and wait until the second half of freshman year or
sophomore year to get a campus job.
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First, your student may qualify for federal work Off-campus jobs are a great way for your
study as part of their financial aid package. student to get involved in the broader university
community beyond the boundaries of campus.
For students without work study, there are still
many on-campus employment opportunities. From waiting tables to working at a gym or
in retail, your student can meet local people
Recycling truck driver, writing tutor, climbing from different generations and make social
wall instructor, research or teaching assistant, and professional connections while they make
cafeteria worker — these are all examples of money.
on-campus jobs that may be available to your
student.
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Unexpected costs
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Instead of being the main guide in your student’s Here are 5 ways to provide emotional
life, you’ll be coaching from the sidelines.
support for your student as they
navigate their first year of college and
But that doesn’t mean your student doesn’t need
beyond.
your guidance and support. They may be more
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Their old bedroom is their home base, whether they visit once a month or
once a year.
You do not have to preserve the room as a shrine to their childhood, and
chances are they’ll understand (eventually!) that it makes sense for their
room to be given to a younger sibling or repurposed as a guest room or
family office.
But if you can, try not to leap straight into a remodel during their first term,
or even the first year. They will be so grateful and relieved to come home
to their own safe, comfortable, familiar space for Thanksgiving and winter
break.
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D I S C OV E R M O R E T I P S F O R M A K I N G I T
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Include home-baked cookies, a gift card to a • First aid supplies (including cough
local restaurant or coffee shop, a cozy hat or pair drops)
of warm socks, and a heartfelt note.
• Note cards and stamps
A great way to create a unique care package and • Microwavable quick meals
have fun while you’re at it is to get together with
other college parents for a care package party.
Everybody brings multiples of a single item —
you can coordinate to avoid duplicates and so
people know about any food allergies. Click here
for more ideas.
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consent? What kinds of situations might require Here’s a resource for parents to talk to their
that your son or daughter stand up as an active students about sexual health and consent.
bystander?
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One of the most important things to do before It’s likely you’ll never regret the conversations
and after any conversation with your student? you have with your son or daughter. But you may
regret the ones you didn’t have.
Trust that you’ve done a good job.
Despite the occasional fumbling, the important
No parent is perfect — we all misspeak, say thing is that you’re trying.
things we don’t mean, or have trouble saying the
things we wish we could. Even if your student doesn’t feel like talking
about something right now, they’ll get the
You may not get to every topic on your mind and message that you’re there for them when they’re
in your heart. But sometimes one conversation ready to reach out.
will lead to another, whether it’s right away or
days or weeks later.
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