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Abstract
Verbal Aggression Within Sibling Relationships
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This study examined the relationship between verbal aggression and closeness. Students
statements and questions. Analyses revealed that if a sibling was verbally aggressive during
childhood, then there is less of a chance of them being close later in life. These results prove that
the null hypothesis- verbal aggression does not affect closeness in sibling relationships from
childhood- was rejected. When verbal aggression is perceived as negative and closeness is
Sibling relationships are very unique types of relationships. They are “forced” and
involuntary meaning they spend a large portion of their lives together (Fitzpatrick & Badzinski,
1994; Vangelisti, 1994). One reason it is unique is the way siblings grow and develop in the
same familial structure and environment, from childhood to adulthood. Another reason sibling
relationships are unique is because of their biological or legal relation attributes; an inescapable
relationship in which the siblings are bound together for life. This kind of relationship differs
Not all parts of the sibling relationship are positive. There can be conflict that can occur
for a variety of reasons, and can become a form of aggression as a result. There are several kinds
of aggression that can be examined regarding relational closeness. However, in this study we
look closer into the aspects of verbal aggression with the understanding that this communication
trait plays an important role in sibling relationships, ultimately defining their levels of relational
With all of these factors in mind, some may experience more aggression as a child versus
an adult. The purpose of this study is designed to explore the effects of verbal aggression as a
child into adulthood. Because verbal aggression contributes to the decrease of relational
satisfaction, we can predict that relationship closeness between siblings will also decrease.
Literature Review
Relational Closeness
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Malcolm R. Parks and Kory Floyd’s (1996) study discussed the various ways that people
perceive their interpersonal relationships with one another as being close. The group that was
surveyed was 270 college students. The survey contained multiple questions on what people
perceive as being in a close relationship. The researchers had four hypotheses. Those hypotheses
were regarding cross sex relationships different from same sex relationships. The four
hypotheses, themselves, do not necessarily pertain to our study, but the scale of the study do.
Their results included multiple traits that the participants identified as being in a close
relationship.
The respondents were asked two open-ended questions about their closest relationships.
Twelve traits stood out amongst the rest that continuously came up in the open responses. Those
twelve traits include the following; self disclosure, help and support, shared interests, relational
expression, comfort and ease, trust, acceptance, frequent interaction, global effect,
understanding, length of relationship, advice and perspective, and respect. However only four
Self disclosure was mentioned by over two-thirds of the participants at 71% (Parks &
Floyd, 1996). Self disclosure is defined in the communication field of study as sharing
information with others to create a closer interpersonal relationship. As one party self discloses
Help and Support was the second highest trait mentioned by participants with 37% (Parks
& Floyd, 1996). This included both emotional support along with instrumental support.
Emotional support is the ability to give empathy within the relationship. Instrumental support is
given in an interpersonal relationship. This form of support helps them make decisions about
their lives.
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The next trait mentioned by respondents was shared interests and activities at 30.7%
(Parks & Floyd, 1996). The way this relates to closeness is the fact that if two parties have shared
interests and activities, they will have a larger breadth and depth of topics to discuss. It can also
The final trait that was substantially mentioned by participants was relational expression.
The number of respondents that defined a close relationship as having relational expression was
30% (Parks & Floyd, 1996). Relational expression is defined as respondents seeing displays of
communication displays can be verbal or nonverbal communication that reflects a positive light.
Weaver, Coleman, and Ganong (2003) discuss the relationship between sibling pair type,
sibling functions, perceived sibling functions, and perceived closeness. Their first hypothesis
states that sister and brother pairs will be more likely to perform the sibling functions compared
to opposite-sex siblings. To support this, the researchers took into account how women have
been taught to care and assist those around them. There is then a cultural expectation that they
would provide support for each other more often during young adulthood compared to other
A second hypothesis proposes that sisters will be more likely than brother-brother,
brother-sister, or sister-brother pairs to perform the sibling functions for each other. Branching
off of this, female sibling pairs will be more likely to provide services more-so than male sibling
pairs. Finally, the fourth hypothesis states that closeness and the performance of sibling functions
will be positively related for all siblings (Weaver, Coleman, & Ganong, 2003). Factors of
closeness can be identified as sharing of confidences, listening to problems, and providing help
and services.
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Weaver etc. all collected data from 224 college students whose ages ranged from 18-24
and completed the SRQ (The Sibling Relations Questionnaire) and the FRSD (Family Relations
Semantic Differential) measures. Surprisingly, it was discovered that the sex of the sibling dyad
did not have an impact on the performance of sibling functions as it was assumed to be.
However, it was found that sisters are found to consider and listen to each others’ opinions and
input more highly compared to other sibling dyads. Additionally, they are more likely to give
more verbal or non-verbal feedback since they are more socialized to share feelings and be
The first hypothesis addressing that same-sex siblings would be more likely than brother-
sister, or sister-brother pairs, to perform the sibling functions was supported by the data for
sisters but not brother. The second hypothesis stating that sister pairs would be more likely to
perform the functions than all other sibling pair types, was supported for in that they provide
direct service. The third hypothesis, that sibling pairs with women (sister-sister, sister-brother,
brother-sister) would provide more services than all male dyads was actually not supported. It
was found that only sister-sister pairs differed consistently from brother-brother sibling pairs
Overall, young adult siblings (particularly sisters), are providing the roles and services
that fit the sibling functions above. This in turn is positively related to perceptions of closeness in
the relationship. This ties into our study because we discovered that the more verbally aggressive
siblings are during childhood, the less of a chance there is that they will be close later in life. The
opposite is also true. The relationship between teaching behaviors and perceptions of closeness
indicates that verbal communication and exchange is more important to female’s perceptions of
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Verbal Aggression
Verbal aggression is a factor in perceived closeness and can be defined in many different
ways. A simple way of defining verbal aggression comes from Infante and Rance (1996),
explaining that verbal aggression is a type of message that is intended to hurt or offend another
person. However, Baron and Richardson (1994) argue that verbally aggressive messages are only
harmful to an individual if they decode the message as such. Therefore, it can be seen or
In regards to sibling relationships, a study by Wiehe (1990) stated that “...this verbal,
emotional abuse between siblings is often difficult to detect”, since it does not leave behind any
physical evidence proving that verbal aggression occurred, while at the same time claims to be
an accepted behavior amongst the individuals. Another study by Stomshak, Bellanti, and
Bierman (1996) has examined the actions of verbal aggression occurring outside of parental
supervision, therefore contributing to the statement of Wiehe and his claim of verbal aggression
Many studies relating to verbal aggression have found that this communication attribute
is not only related to closeness, but also related to relational satisfaction, having ‘negative’
effects on the two. In one study by Teven, Martin, and Neupauer (1998), they focused on sibling
relationships and how verbally aggressive messages affect relationship satisfaction. In their
study, they state that “...verbally aggressive messages degrade individuals and negatively affect
individuals’ feelings about their relationships…” Based on their study and previously stated
closeness, how the two are intertwined and affected by verbal aggression.
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Martin et. al’s (1997) study focuses on verbal aggression in sibling relationships, verbal
aggression with satisfaction, interpersonal trust, whether receiving verbal aggression is hurtful
personally, and whether sibling sex had an influence on any of the above. Results revealed that
there was a positive relationship between sibling satisfaction and being personally hurt from
associated with relational closeness, but at the same time, it is expected that individuals tease
each other more than those “non-close” individuals (Gorman & Jordan, 2015).
Infante, Riddle, Horvath, & Tumlin (1992) found that there are primarily four causes or
reasons for verbal aggression. They include psychopathology, “attacking someone who reminds
argumentative skill deficiency, “attacking a person’s self-concept because one is unable to think
of counterarguments”. In their study, they explain how each cause of verbal aggression
90% of men and women acknowledge engaging in verbal aggression, (Malik, Sorenson, &
Aneshensel, 1997). It has also been seen that aggressive communication can cause harm to the
emotional well-being of those receiving it. This can lead to aggression, anger, anxiety,
depression, and distress (Block, Block, & Morrison, 1981). This anger can also act as a catalyst
Evidence suggests that people’s emotional reactions are highly variable when it comes to
expressing and suppressing verbal aggression. Both theory and research show that the expression
of verbal aggression can be positive and cathartic, (e.g., Bushman, 2002). This same situation
can also cause feelings of guilt and anxiety (Eagly & Steffen, 1986). Because these feelings
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affect interpersonal conflict and future encounters with aggression, we usually try to clarify these
messages.
In regards to both positive and negative outcomes, most studies have shown that the
this is in Koh, Kim, Kim, and Park (2005) study found that the anger expressed is directly
correlated with a feeling of depression. Eagly and Steffen (1986) found that those who express
verbal aggression often feel guilt and anxiety after. Some research has also been conducted that
shows the negative reaction is due to the individual’s personal qualities. One particular study that
examined this was Frodi, Macauley, and Thome (1977). This study argued that the relationship
between guilt and the expression of verbal aggression is mediated by empathy. It was concluded
that women are more likely to regret acting in a verbally aggressive way than men.
There is also research that looks at the positive side of venting through verbal aggression.
Based on the hydraulic model of anger, the Catharsis Theory states that the suppression of
frustration causes anger to increase in the individual. This anger must eventually be released in
order to restore the individual’s well-being. This aggressive release leads to an emotional release
that reduces tension between the two members involved and enables people to control negative
emotions (Baron & Richardson, 2004). Along with this idea, a study by Bushman et al. (2001)
found that individuals report feeling better after using verbal aggression to vent anger. Martin et
al. (2010) found that a sender might feel relieved and satisfied after venting their anger.
Since all verbally aggressive messages are hurtful, it makes sense that an aggressive
message would be considered a type of hurtful messages (Martin, Anderson, & Horvath, 1996).
wounds the person receiving the message (Vangelisti & Young, 2000). The three characteristics
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of a hurtful messages are the perceived hurtfulness of the message, the perceived intensity of the
message, and the perceived intent of the message (Young, 2004). Perceived hurtfulness is the
degree of ‘hurt’ associated with the message itself. Perceived intensity is the strength the
message is brought with. Perceived intent is the reason for which the message is sent. While
hurtful messages often result in negative relational outcomes, including devaluation, emotional
insecurity, and dislike (Leary, Springe, Negal, Ansell, & Evans, 1998), not all messages have the
In addition, a study conducted by Martin, Anderson, and Rocca (2005) have also argued
that verbal aggression is more commonly found in family relationships, since they have “less
pressure to communicate in socially desirable ways.” As previously stated in other studies and
including Martin, Anderson, and Rocca’s 2005 article, verbally aggressive messages come off as
the most offensive when the source and receiver are involved in close relationships, therefore
Rationale
Perceived verbal aggression has a big impact on the closeness of the relationship and the
type of relationship. In this case, we are discussing sibling relationships and how concepts such
as closeness and verbal aggression impact this involuntary relationship. We know that
individuals who grow up in a verbally aggressive environment or close relationship will more
likely be less satisfied in their relationships, and in return negatively affecting the closeness
levels with one another (Beatty & Dobos, 1992a, 1992b, 1993a, 1993b, 1993c; Beatty, Zelley,
Dobos, & Rudd, 1994; Martin & Anderson, 1995a). The biggest impact will be felt as a child
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when the shaping of an individual’s values are vital. Therefore, our hypothesis proposes a
negative relationship in which the perceivability of certain factors may change overtime:
H1: The more perceived verbal aggression a person experienced as a child from a
Methods
The participants chosen to complete the questionnaire were undergraduate students from
a small, private university in the Northeastern region. Each participant in the study were required
to have at least one sibling in order for the research to be valid and reliable. The reasoning for
this requirement is to ensure that our data is congruent to the information we are specifically
researching; we are solely seeking information about sibling relationships and not those whom
are a single child. The questionnaire was administered to the participants just a few short days
after being reviewed and approved by the IRB. The questionnaire was administered to 126
students over an online distribution (Facebook). All subjects were of various ages and class
The type of research our group has chosen is a likert scale questionnaire. This form of
research data collecting is the most appropriate for this particular study, because it will reach our
targeted group- university students of ages 18 and above. Included in the survey are a series of
25 statements and questions that the participants will address, particularly thinking about one
sibling when they were at the age of 10-12 years old and now.
rather than his or her position. The scale used to measure verbal aggression was the Infante and
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Wigley’s (1986) Verbal Aggression Scale (VAS). This measure was the most thoroughly found
scale which our group believes will work the best for our research. This is a 20-item Likert scale
that asked students to think back to when they were under the age of 12 and how they interacted
with one sibling. They classified different ways they treated or were treated by their sibling
(0 = Almost Never True, 5 = Almost Always True). Scores ranged from 31 to 94 (M = 61.70,
in a relationship. The scale used to measure this was Gorman and Jordan’s Closeness Scale. This
is a 5-item Likert scale asking students to think about the relationship they have with their sibling
now (1-Almost Never True, 5-Almost Always True). Scores ranged from 8 to 25 (M=16.43,
Everyone will be administered the questionnaire online so that the researchers will not
have influenced the answers given. This will increase validity because there will not be any
external factors affecting the participants. To increase the reliability of the survey has detailed
instructions and the questions are straightforward. A potentially confounding effect would be if
the students have a sibling or not. To try and circumvent this problem we have included a “yes”
or “no” question that asks if the participant has a sibling. If they answer “no” they are then taken
to the end of the questionnaire and their participation will not be recorded. If they answer “yes”,
The two characteristics that are being measured in the study are verbal aggression and
closeness between siblings. The variables will be measured on a Likert scale. The scale consists
of six different points of measurement ranging from “almost never true” to “almost always true”.
The participants completing the questionnaire will be Bryant University students. The unit of
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analysis is measured online because the questionnaire is administered via the web. The sample is
from one university in the northeast and is representative of that region of the country. The age
of respondents are college students. Therefore, they will be the representative sample observed.
Results
Our hypothesis predicted that higher verbal aggression during childhood would result in
lower levels of perceived closeness in adulthood. A correlation was used to test how related these
two variables were. Results showed that the correlation was significant at the .05 level (r = -.273,
n = 76, p = .01). The coefficient of the correlation was a value of 7%. This means that verbal
aggression is only 7% of how close siblings are later in life (r^2 = .07). If a sibling was verbally
aggressive during childhood, then there is less of a chance of them being close later in life. These
results prove that the null hypothesis- verbal aggression does not affect closeness in sibling
Discussion
All of our results showed a minimal correlation amongst verbal aggression and closeness
within sibling relationships. The p-value fell below the respected .05 level (p < .05), with a
correlation of 7%. Therefore, we rejected our null hypothesis. The data that was collected from
our survey and questionnaire greatly relates to the information provided from the literature
(Malik, Sorenson, & Aneshensel, 1997). In regards to this, the article by Weaver, Coleman, &
Ganong (2003) discussed within their study that their fourth hypothesis stated that closeness
functions positively to siblings. Our data supports both these claims; if verbal aggression is
perceived as degrading and closeness is perceived as positive, then it makes sense that as verbal
There were multiple limitations to the study. One was the reliability of the Closeness
scale that was used. After running statistics on the scale, the cronbach alpha score was 0.76. This
level is not optimal and should have a higher value. One question on the scale was the root of the
problem. Question Number five “I attack the character of my sibling when attempting to
influence him/her.” This question was worded poorly and may have confused the participants of
the survey. If the study were to be replicated again, this question should be reworded so the
cronbach alpha number would be better correlated to the rest of the data.
Secondly, after distributing our survey to students of the university, we received just over
120 respondents. However, only 76 of our respondents could be used in our research due to the
fact that a majority of the remaining participants were a single child; others simply did not finish
completing the survey. This limited the amount of data we could use for our research. As a
group, we did not expect so many participants to have been a single child after the distribution of
our survey. It would have been important for our group to check more periodically with our
The third limitation to the study was the memory of the respondents. Respondents were
asked to think back to when they were young children. While thinking back respondents could
have a different memory than what is actual fact. Perceived memory can be far from the true
events that occured. Memory limits the amount of information the respondents are able to recall,
also limiting the validity of the data collected for our research.
Due to the fact that our research was confined to a small college campus in the northeast,
which has a 72.7% white population, this study would qualify to be ran again within a different
geographical location. If more responses came from other racial backgrounds where family
norms differ from those of our participants, the results may be different. It would be interesting
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to compare it to the results we found; if family norms associated with racial backgrounds affects
how siblings treat each other growing up and how close they stay as they become older.
Another future study that should be conducted is to explore if there is a difference in the
relationships between full siblings, half siblings, and stepsiblings. Step siblings are not born into
the relationship, they are forced. Half siblings only share one parent and may not be around each
other at all times. Because both of these situations include a forced relationship, they differ from
full siblings. Most step siblings and half siblings feel as though they are obligated to become
close with each other. This relationship will be different than that of siblings that have spent their
entire lives together. A study should be conducted in which these three groups are compared on
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