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Yes, one lover’s needs should be a high priority, but The second rule of love is the most important for having
every desire expressed by one partner cannot always be high principles and morals throughout life. This means
automatically the goal of the other, no matter what the not lying to yourself, your partner, or to anyone at all.
circumstances. No partner deserves to be automatically The main point of this rule is that people who are close
held accountable to meet them. to you always deserve the truth out of love and respect
for them. Not telling any lies and being honest is always
10. Continue to grow beyond your own limitations. the best choice because sometimes lies can get too deep
and out of control, which can affect a person's life in the
All human beings need both security and challenge, present time and for many years to follow.
whether alone or in a relationship. Too much
predictability seduces boredom and eventual decay. Too 3. Cheaters Never Prosper.
many risks can undermine the comfort of familiarity. The
partners in long-term, successful relationships know that
The third rule is the most important for maintaining
they must preserve discovery, both within and between
healthy and positive relationships throughout life,
themselves. Every person knows where he or she is
intimate or platonic. This includes cheating while playing
“locked-in” and where they are flexible. Openness to
games but also on your partner, with anyone else's
new ideas and adventures challenges the status quo, but
partner, or even when you think no one will know about
introduces the differences that make for depth and
it. Love involves being honest and having respect for
possibility.
yourself and for all other people around you. Cheating
can be hurtful, harmful, damaging, and can cause a bad
reputation to be started. This rule of love pertaining to Don't get stuck in a repetitious pattern. if things
cheating is often broken during these modern times and aren't working, change your approach your
with extremities. This rule should never be broken and is perception, actions, responsibility frame, etc.
very important for remaining respectful and respectable.
Never Threaten the relationship.
4. Always Forgive.
Commit to CANI (constant and never -ending
The fourth rule is the one rule that most people have a improvement) in your relationship. It's the key
hard time following because pride and bitterness get in to fulfillment.
the way. This rule means so much because forgiveness
can set anyone free. Letting go of the hurt and pain, Each day, take pride in your consistent ability to
putting it away and forgiving someone who has brought notice, appreciate and compli-ment all of the
pain can free the soul from the past and all of the great, wonderful, fantastic, awesome, exciting
negative emotions. The first rule, the golden rule, and and unique aspects of your partner.
this rule go hand in hand because a person wants to be
forgiven as much as the person who does the forgiving. Never compare your relationship to that of
This rule is showing love, and respect, for the other others- a sure formula for disaster.
person and their feelings aside from the fact that they
did something wrong and or hurtful. Forgiving someone Remember that all upsets with anothers person
for something small or very large can bring peace and are rules upsets. Decide to value your
reduce stress. This rule applies to both men and women. relationship over your rules. Create a fun
pattern interrupt that you and your partner can
5. Actions Speak Louder Than Words. use in order to change states easily.