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Part One
Theory With Brief Examples Needed for Teaching
Page 1 - 7
Part Two
An In-Depth Report on Anorexia Nervosa
Page 8 - 69
Part Three
Birth Trauma as Source for Chronic Pain
Page 70 - 86
Part Four
Teaching Outlines With Transcribed Sessions
Page 87 - 124
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"The scene you're now in holds the answers you need in this session
..... (1) say the first words you think of coming from where you are.....(2) feel
the physical stress in your body and tell me the first physical position that
coexists with the stress.....sitting, walking, lying down.....recognize where you
are as you become conscious of your situation.....(3) tell me the strongest
emotion of which you're consciously aware."
The primary mode of perception is of importance here only as a means
of determining the strengths and weaknesses of the client. The weaknesses in
perception will be addressed as part of the therapy, thus developing for the
client a feeling, thinking, sensate balance.
Once the client responds, focus is deepened and maintained by a
repetition of phrases and sentences that lead through the experience.
Repeated phrases will lead to accessing either emotions or physical affect. A
cathartic release is the goal of this procedure and will be experienced if
continued long enough.
There is a structure of past life incidents that therapist should know and
use to assure completion of the issues uncovered. Presentation of this
structure and techniques for its use require greater detail than I can provide
here. The therapist uses this structure and composition to establish
experiential boundaries that provide grounding needed to clear confusion and
uncertainty.
The content of past life experiences is important only in how it relates
to present time and how it reveals the reason why the trauma is still
unconsciously alive. Once the script is revealed, a process is directed to locate
and erase trauma from various points of the experience. The final trauma to
be cleared is that occurring at the time of death. After all emotions, words,
pain, and confusion are cleared from the complete experience, including
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death, the soul is easily and freely released from the body. Resistance to this
separation indicates some emotional attachment still exists somewhere in the
experience. The mind will easily find this and release it.
Once free of the past trauma, the client recognizes a greater truth
about the experience and is guided to "say and do now what you couldn't say
and do then. Finish it!"
A point of identification carried from the past life death is located
during present life conception and the process of resolution is put in place for
continuation. Further reinforcements are found when mother first recognizes
her pregnancy consciously. This occurs in the second or third month of
pregnancy when her reaction is unconsciously recorded by the fetus.
Another vulnerable point for the fetus comes in the seventh - eighth month
when the physical and emotional pressures on the mother are reaching a peak
of intensity.
During the birth experience, the body experientially survives that
which caused death in the past life. Because of this survival, a negative
survival pattern is created as part of the life script.
The client is encouraged to change this script by consciously resolving
these experiences much as the past experience was changed.
My earliest sessions revealed a client's confusion as the greatest block
to completion of unconscious experiences. The client becomes lost in words
and emotions which lead to an escalating swirl of images and the repeated
answer, "I don't know....."
Once I began using the physical body's reality as an anchor, confusion
no longer controlled the session. The body memory is not subject to the
confusion of the mind. The body's experience remains literal regardless of the
illusions and "tricks" of the mind.
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The physical symptoms that are part of a past life death are carried to
the next conception and reintroduced as part of the new DNA code. During
the first six to eight weeks of pregnancy, the mother's experience will provide
the verbal and emotional components to the physical development of the
glands, organs, nervous system, and indeed, the entire body. Thus, mother's
statement, "My back is killing me" will define the physical formation of the
fetus' spine and connects to a past life by hanging. Sessions during this early
period of pregnancy reveal the process by which physical memory is carried
into this life.
The diabetic body remembers starving to death. Migraine headaches
are physical memories of hanging or blows to the head. Multiple Sclerosis is
the result of memories of lingering battlefield deaths with injuries that
paralyze the physical body. These are only a few of the body memories
carried from past life to the next incarnation.
The most recent advancement in body memory comes with the
research findings of Dr. Candace Pert. Her discovery of emotional receptor
centers and neuropeptides link the mind and body as one entity. These
receptors are encrusted throughout the body in locations ranging from the
brain to the bone marrow of the entire skeletal system – They are ordered by
the DNA, thus placing the receptors present at conception. The receptors
serve as the mechanism that sorts out the emotional information exchange in
the body.
The findings of Dr. Pert and Dr. Rossi may lead to a reevaluation of
some practices dismissed as quackery by modern medicine.
Their findings prove that any emotions can be centered and felt in any
part of the body.
When the doctor declares the baby to be "alive and well," the earlier
promise now becomes a way of life. This "good girl" is now mother's victim
who must keep everybody happy.
Therapy will often change the core identity from victim to victimizer.
At this point, friends and family of the client will declare therapy a failure.
"It's not working. Things are getting worse." The therapist must anticipate
this change and discuss it with the client before it's onset. Sessions must
continue to resolve this opposite positioning in the client's behavior.
Both victim and victimizer must be addressed in sessions until neither
can control the client. A new position will emerge as these two fade away.
The client experiences the role of the benign observer increasingly present in
making daily decisions and interactions with friends and family. Free of
reactive impulses, choices are made that reflect consideration for the optimum
good of all.
During the prenatal period of transition from past life to present life the
fetal unconscious mind is developing with mother's experience, words,
feelings, and physical sensations, providing the second level of conscious
function. Because of this attachment to mother, a process of separation will
begin, at birth, when the umbilical cord is cut. At this point, the baby's
conscious mind begins its own function with the unconscious mind formed by
the entire nine month prenatal experience. The unresolved issues from past
life as continued by mother's prenatal experience through birth now form the
basis for unconscious beliefs and feelings. The process of separation from
mother also continues the process of past life resolution. I am often
challenged as to the baby's ability to "think" and "know" in uterus. If a
developing fetus had a conscious mind, it could self-identify and think for
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"I see a brick wall in front of me. I'm afraid to leave it, afraid to
step forward, afraid I'll die if they see me. I feel sick in my
stomach and I have intense pain in my head. Many people are
moaning and walking aimlessly with blank, empty expressions
on their faces. They are thin. Oh, God, they are starving!"
"Look at the starving people, Ana. See yourself among them. Sense
your connection with them."
"They're my people."
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I direct her to the first experience in which "THEY" come for her,
urging her to say words as they come.
"Let me go."
"What physical sensation do you feel in your body now? Say the first
words that come to mind."
"What are you feeling, Ana? Where do you feel the pain?"
"Say the painful words from your stomach, Ana, what words come to
you?"
"Hear the voices around you talking, Ana. What are the voices
saying?"
"They're talking about me. They don't care about me, they're
talking about me like an animal. Not even an animal, like I'm
an experiment."
"This one has not yet started monthly periods. The uterus now
contains 1800 cc of water. As we have seen before, there is an
average difference of 1000 cc in the uterus before and after the
onset of menstruation."
I ask Ana to go over this scene again, telling me where her body is
located.
"Ana, feel your body on the table. Are they doing anything else to
you? Say the first words that come to mind."
"Ana, move forward into this experience. As these guards hurt you,
give me the first part of your body that feels pain. What are you
feeling?"
"What part of your body is filling. Ana? How are they doing this?"
"What is he saying?"
"What's the very next thing he is doing to you, Ana? Be in your body,
what do you feel?"
"Oh, God. Oh, no, he's forcing himself inside me. I'm only a
little girl -- he's forcing himself inside me. It hurts. He's filling
me up. He's killing me. He's hurting me."
Ana is totally caught in trauma as the three assistants brutally rape her.
The pain creates emotional shock as she keeps saying over and over, "It's
filling me up. It's killing me, I'm going to die."
Ana re-experiences the physical pain associated with this multiple rape
from beginning to its conclusion and discovers these guards do not kill her,
"We use the bodies of the Jews as we please."
"If they come again, I'll help you. I can't let them hurt you. If
the guards come, I will signal you. Run to the fence and grab it,
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press your body to it tightly. Hold the fence, they will not touch
you. It will kill you, but at least you will deny these butchers."
"What are you physically doing here against the wall, Ana?"
"I'm afraid. My back is against the wall. I'll be safe here if they
don't see me. I can't let them see me."
Suddenly her mother is beside her, touching her lightly with love and
compassion.
Her hands reach quickly for the wire that forms the physical
boundaries of her existence in this camp. She knows that she can use these
wires to remove the physical boundaries of her life; to free herself from
further pain and torture. It is hard to separate the jolting surge of electricity
from the scream coming so strongly within her, only when she releases this
deeply impacted scream can she push through the experience to a point
beyond physical death.
"Ana, now connect with any feelings or emotions that are unresolved."
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"I can see myself holding onto the fences. My body is shaking
and moving out of control."
"Are there any physical sensations you feel? Connect with any
feelings of physical pain."
She frowns a little and says, "I'll never let my mother get too close to
me."
"Say that again, Ana, so you can consciously recognize why you feel
this statement is true."
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"True, but realize these are feelings you carry with you when you
leave your physical body after that painful and fearful state. Mother
loving you means you'll die. Say that again and release it."
"If this is what happens when I'm seen, I'll never be seen again."
"Tell me all the feelings you have about being singled out."
"I was afraid they were killing me. I could feel it. I was so full
I wanted to die."
"I'll never have that feeling again. I will never, ever have that
feeling again."
"Why not? Say the words that will release that feeling."
"I will never, never have that feeling of fullness again because
it will kill me. I will die."
Ana opens her eyes and looks at me with a sense of amazement. She
can connect this past life experience with her current life problems which
indicates we have worked one of the experiences causing her current
unresolved issues. The intensity of her issues indicate a pattern of evolvement
through other past lives. Therefore we will explore other life experiences to
discover how these patterns were created. The influence of this particular
death experience on Ana's current life is shown clearly as our work continues.
information about her life, her family, and, more directly, her understanding
of her current problems.
Ana previously tried other therapies but found they left her with a
pseudo-intellectual understanding of herself and her problems. She saw a
psychiatrist for three years. Every week she sat with him for fifty minutes
and talked. She had tried two other therapies during this three-year period
while continuing with the psychiatrist, but found no sense of emotional
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resolution of her problems. She had spent a lot of money and time and she
now has only a deep sense of frustration.
Now Ana feels her issues will never be solved by talking about them.
These issues must be accessed within her "unconscious" mind because their
source lies beyond the level of her conscious awareness.
Ana is a thinking, hearing, seeing, and feeling being. She has emotions
and physical sensations with these emotions. She also has words and
thoughts that accompany these physical sensations. They are not separate.
Ana is learning how they coexist within the mind/body in a very interrelated
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state. Unless she experiences her human consciousness within all of these
perceptual fields, she can not effect therapeutic change.
Thus, the overweight woman who was afraid of her father found no
release in the conscious recognition of this fear. She could not release this
fear until repeated experiencing found her father raping her starting at age
four and ending at age eleven. She had no conscious memory of these
experiences as they all were hidden in her unconscious mind. It was hidden
there because the fear was so great she had to repress her memories of these
brutal incestuous experiences to survive.
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Ana spent three years in "therapy" with a highly educated man talking
about her anorexia but coming to no point of resolution. The theoretical
framework from which this therapist operated was too limited to see trauma
at all perceptual levels. He also did not believe that trauma could originate
prior to the current lifetime. Because of this, Ana's therapy was incomplete
and her resolution nonexistent.
Ana had attended a Past Life Therapy seminar and had seen a
demonstration with another individual. She became enthused about this form
of therapy as a means of resolving problems she had known for so long. She
was frustrated with prior therapy and resistant to taking the tranquilizers
prescribed for her. She had enough problems without taking tranquilizers.
Ana had also been active in fighting her anorexia through these past few
years and is now transferring all her energy toward this new process called
Past Life Therapy.
Her questions, while attending the seminar, are asked over and over
from countless patients throughout the years. I list them here as they are so
common.
"How could he have seen and felt and heard all those things?"
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The answers to the previous questions actually form the framework for
the definition of Past Life Therapy which can be defined as a therapeutic
approach to the unconscious mind which traces problems to their original
source wherever that source may be. Past Life Therapists accept past lives as
fact, however the therapy does not require this belief to be effective.
Giving Ana the answers to all these questions would give her nothing
more than another "intellectual exercise," lacking in completeness and
resolution for her. Her actual experience on the couch will answer her
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She expresses obsessive fear of being fat as this will make her an
"outcast." She fears "not belonging" if she gains even the slightest amount of
weight. She feels her need to be thin comes from her fears of "being seen."
She is fearful of having a responsible, visible position in life.
"Sometimes I feel like I'm against a brick wall with nowhere to go. I'm
cornered, waiting, anticipating something that is unknown."
"Every time she tries to help me it only gets worse. I know she
loves me, but it doesn't help. Whenever she comes near me, the
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All these issues are present in my initial interview with Ana and are
recognized as symptoms rather than caused factors. It is important to
correlate these with the material from her death experience in the
concentration camp. The relationship between her current life situation and
past trauma is:
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Ana is living out those old patterns in her current life, unconsciously
striving for resolution of these issues. The stress from work we have started
at the unconscious level makes her anorexic symptoms more intense and
debilitating.
At the end of this initial interview, Ana is quite enthusiastic about doing
the therapy. She reflects upon her state of health, her experiences with prior
therapies, and especially upon the one Past Life therapy session at the seminar
in which a young man experienced his prenatal period and birth.
She feels introspective and hopeful that she will discover the root of
her "uncontrollable and incurable" problems. She continues to express her
sense of anticipation.
She is ready to take the step from watching another person to her own
experience. We begin the process of exploration with a life experience in
which she finds the expression of a mother's love as the signal for her own
traumatic death.
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"I can't go on with this marriage. When I think of it, I feel sick
to my stomach and panic takes over. I feel angry at being
forced to do this. I'm afraid to go any further. If I tell my
family, they get angry and accuse me of things that aren't true.
They say I'm selfish and don't want children, but it's not true.
I'm frightened. I feel sick, alone and lost."
"After our last session I thought it would all go away, that I'd be
better. But it's worse! I feel worse now than when we started!"
I ask her to lie down, close her eyes, and focus on her sick feelings,
allowing her unconscious mind to trace these same feelings to wherever they
are to be found.
She is in a tense silence again, her body taut and her face frowning.
"Just say the words from the one voice that you don't want to
hear."
"I love your soul more than your body. I had to tell them
about you to save your soul. I love you, I did it because I
love you."
Other voices are interjecting new words causing new feelings for Ana.
The fear pours from her with these words.
"She's no good."
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"Burn her!"
The crowd is beyond hearing her and has an energy of its own. The
fire's heat blends with her stark terror into one overwhelming and engulfing
experience as she screams:
"It's just like the fence, it's just like the fence."
"Ana, let's move into this unresolved area relating to your mother and
the child's death. Connect back into that same lifetime at the point of trauma
with the baby."
"I'm sorry, I'm so sorry. I love you, little baby, but I don't
know what to do. All I can do is love you while you
die."
"Say that again, Ana. Listen to the words, know they are coming
from this past life."
"All I can do is love you while you die. It's almost like
the words my mother said to me at the fence. Her loving
me means my death."
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"That's right, Ana. Keep moving forward to the very next words that
come to mind."
"I love him, but there's nothing I can do. All I can do is
let him die."
"Listen to the words, Ana. Recognize the voice. Say the words."
"Say it again."
"Listen to the words, Ana. Who is saying those words from behind
you?"
This intense phobia of witchcraft and demons causes her Mother's fears
and accusations to spread rapidly through the village, leading to the ultimate
purging of the "evil that possessed her" to save her soul and deliver her from
these satanic practices.
2) Her intense fear of "being seen" or "singled out" comes from the
two death experiences in which she is singled out from a crowd
and sent to a painful, traumatic death.
After this session Ana reveals she had an abortion at age 17 and that
her mother had one abortion prior to Ana's birth. As you will see in the next
chapter, these abortions evolve directly out of the mother/child death
interplay.
Ana starts our next session in a markedly different mood. The contrast
from her previous fear and panic lends a certain humor to her question,
"How far back does this stuff go?" A Past Life Therapist appreciates the fun
in this.
"You'll find out today. You'll answer your own question," I told her.
I ask Ana of her feelings since our last session. She talks of the
vomiting she often does as a means of avoiding weight gain. At times, she
cannot avoid eating due to pressure from her family. When this happens she
discreetly excuses herself and forces herself to throw up the food she has
eaten. She is quite adept at vomiting as she will show me during this
particularly stressful session.
Closing her eyes, she focuses to the source for these compulsive
actions. Her entry to the source is easier this time, however, and as she comes
into contact with the actual situation, she begins to choke and cough with a
violent convulsion in her abdomen.
"I'm drowning."
"Help me!"
This feeling is taken forcefully into her unconscious mind during the
moments of her panic-stricken death. We will work this feeling repeatedly
and release it.
I ask her again to direct her unconscious mind to the infant in the
basket and release especially this sensation of fullness. She describes the
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feelings of panic, beginning with the choking and retching movements she
previously experienced. Her abdomen is heaving forcefully as she screams
from the intense sense of fullness. Suddenly, she jerks up violently as the
reality of this past death spills up and over into this current time on the couch.
She vomits into the container I place at her face. It is a satisfying emptying of
herself. Ana has done, here and now, what she could not do then as the
drowning baby. She achieved resolution a thousand years later, but
resolution gained by eliminating the water. She changed this death
experience on the unconscious level by finally expelling the sense of fullness
and experiencing her survival of the ancient trauma. She no longer has to
strive for survival by continually trying to empty herself. She looks at me
with teary, smiling eyes and says, "Well, I guess we took care of vomiting,
didn't we?"
We continue to complete the story of her being set adrift on the river.
Her focus next brings a ritual scene conducted by a primitive tribal people to
appease the gods. The tribe members believe the crops have failed because
the gods are angry with her and her mother.
Her mother was very young when she gave birth. She had not yet
been given in marriage to the father of the baby by the tribal elders. The
baby is born with a deformed spine, causing the village elders to declare the
gods angry and sending bad crops. The only way to appease their anger is to
sacrifice the cursed infant.
Ana's mother is forced to place her in a basket and push her into the
river. She speaks in a dialect that Ana does not understand until I ask her for
the meanings in English –
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"I love you, baby but you must go. If you stay here,
they'll hurt you, they'll never let you be happy. Go now,
so they can't hurt you."
Ana can hear her mother crying as the basket is swept down the river.
As the basket overturns, she hears her mother's scream becoming a part of
the panic of drowning. It is the same scream that came from her in the death
by fire and her death at the concentration camp fence. Basically, this death
has again defined:
Ana opens her eyes and begins making connections for herself. She
talks about her feelings prior to seeking her abortion in her current life
experience. She connects past life experiences with behavior and emotions to
this current life when she found herself pregnant and unmarried as in the
tribal incident. She realizes why the baby's death, by abortion, became the
only solution for her. On every level, she felt her own survival was
threatened.
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In fact, the pregnancy had made things much worse. She had existing
unconscious programming that causes panic with feelings of fullness. She
vomited after eating and took laxatives three or four times a week. Her
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abortion, unconsciously, was essential for her survival as she had to be rid of
that growing fullness.
Finally, she speaks in a halting voice that indicates her reaction to the
scenes she now envisions.
"Feel your own body," I tell her. "Tell me what you are physically
doing watching this pup." She pauses a moment, then begins:
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Ana's mother comes toward her and Ana is happy that she will be fed.
When mother reaches her, she slowly and deliberately lays down on top of
Ana and begins smothering her.
"She knows I must die. I'm deformed and she must kill
me."
"You're not perfect. You could never feed and care for
yourself. I can't let you live. You would only suffer."
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She is slipping into death as she hears the loud, mournful howl of her
mother. Her cry speaks of all the sadness in the world when pain is mixed
with a mother's love at the death of her child.
death involved her mother in an act of animal love that caused her death as
the only way of expressing that love.
The concept of animal lives causes problems for many people. It is not
necessary to accept this as reality. What is acceptable is Ana's psychological
resolution of a past reality, thus, making this work effective.
Due to this past reality, Ana connected her mother's love with death
and pain. She believed acceptance by those around her brought fear and
starvation as in the concentration camp. She experiences sex with pain, fear,
and death, as these also were in the camp, as the camp sexual trauma also
occurred prior to the onset of her menstrual periods. The procedures were all
done as experiments on her uterus that caused fear and death. The act of
being "singled out" was found in four different lifetimes. She identified
feelings of fullness with stark panic and death found in two lifetimes and to be
found in her mother's abortion. These all were a part of the reality of Ana's
current psychological makeup as she entered this lifetime with these
experiences unresolved.
Ana's issues started with her death as a tiny wolf-like animal. Because
this painfully ended her life at an incomplete stage, she continually attempted
resolution in later lifetimes. Each evolutionary stage she passed contained
elements she needed to complete the unresolved issues from the animal life.
However, each experience also added a new dimension of complexity to the
original issues. The animal life had no malice, no anger, no distorted intent; it
was simply a fact of nature. However, the need to complete that ancient life
experience created Ana's unconscious programming for repeated destructive
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and fearful behavior in on-going attempts for resolution. With our sessions,
she can finally release all the pain and trauma from the past here and now.
Our next session will make clear how these elements were re-
stimulated in the prenatal period thus activating them as a pattern in her
current lifetime.
In the years I have used this therapy, I have consistently found these
prenatal and birth experiences to form the basis for the behavior and
perception of one's Self throughout life. If a mother is depressed or uses
drugs and alcohol, the infant's way of coping with trauma and stress can go
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to one of two extreme polarities: it can become depressive with alcohol abuse
or it can overcompensate to the opposite polarity causing an ability to cope
that needs stimulation in a variety of forms -- going to bars, promiscuity, the
use of chemical stimulants, dangerous sports, or sugar binges -- whatever will
overcome the unpleasant feelings of depression that accompany stress and
trauma.
He runs up a hill to get over a ridge to the river where he can lose the
dogs. He hears the dogs getting closer, causing his anguished desperation to
rise. The stimulation is further heightened:
He reaches the top of a steep hill, faint with exhaustion, his strength
gone; fear and adrenaline are all that keep him going. He scrambles along the
ridge to the other side only to come to a steep drop. He's losing time and his
pursuers are rapidly closing distance.
He climbs down the rocky face finding finger holds here and toeholds
there, finally collapsing on a ledge thirty feet below. Their voices are above
him. Gasping for air, he's fighting panic and nausea.
Ezzy's panic turns to despair. His energy drains from him as the
depression caused by years of brutal slavery numbs him all at once.
"I ain't going down there after you, Ezzy. You get back on up
here now."
A single shot rings out and hits Ezzy in the stomach, followed by a
second shot in the throat. He falls back off the ledge and down many feet to
the ground below.
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She feels the affects of drinking large amounts of alcohol which the
fetus experiences with her. Mother's overwhelming depression re-stimulates
the existing unconscious programming in the fetus for depression and non-
survival. Later, as an adult, he carries this stress/depression programming
with him. Under stress, he feels, "I can't stand it anymore." He feels he will
not survive. His behavior will find one of the two polarities and will, at times,
swing back and forth between the two extremes of behavior. He may stay in
one of the two extremes, becoming either a chronically depressed alcoholic or
a chronic seeker of drug experiential hyper-stimulation.
In our work with Ana, releasing her past life experiences is not enough.
We also must release her prenatal and birth trauma to make effective changes
in her life current life.
Ana's feelings for her mother have changed. Previously, she couldn't
stand having her mother around her. If her mother showed her love, Ana
unconsciously felt that she was about to die. Now instead of pushing mother
away, she is beginning to feel a defensive attachment for her mother.
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Lingering with these new feelings, however, she still has a diminished fear of
dying if she allows her mother too close.
On the couch, her eyes closed, Ana breathes easily with a slight smile
on her face. This significant work will completely release the past life
programming as we begin a very intense prenatal session.
"Focus all the work we've done so far, all the feelings, pain, thoughts,
and emotions into your mother's pregnancy. Consciously connect to that
part of the experience that activates the past life experiences."
Her breathing slows, her relaxed smile dissolves as her face becomes
very tense, her words emphatic.
"My mother's."
"Whose words are those, Ana? Who are you listening to now?"
(Mother) "I want the baby. I don't want to get rid of it.
Now can you say that?"
Ana is crying. Tears run down her cheeks as she holds herself. In
reaction to these emotions which stem from the unconscious memories of
rejection.
"Ana, if you could talk to your mother, what would you say to her?"
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Ana's words come as her adult mind speaks for the fetus. The words
she is saying are her adult conscious reaction to her sensory experience as a
threatened unconscious being. This conscious reaction is formed by her past
life programming.
Ana sobs her mother's tears and grieves the death of this unknown
child. As she regains her own identity she is outside both her mother's body
and that of the aborted embryonic body. She is deeply connected with her
mother and her overwhelming sadness. She wants to give words to these
feelings.
With these thoughts, Ana feels herself gently lifted away from the scene
as the picture of her mother fades. Her body becomes relaxed and peaceful.
She is panicky and tense and in acute respiratory distress. She is again
experiencing trauma.
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Ana has returned to the same mother in her following pregnancy. Her
mother now suffers double pneumonia with periodic asthma attacks. Her
unconscious mind is drawn to this pregnancy at a point of parallel dynamics.
This line of thought keeps spinning through the mother's mind as she
takes medication that eases her asthma attack. Her breathing is greatly
improved as she pats her stomach, saying quietly:
"I'm sick."
As Ana repeats these words, she realizes they form the foundation for
her feelings about marriage and pregnancy. Mother's feelings about marriage
and pregnancy reactivate Ana's past unconscious programming and marriage
is seen as movement forward, as being singled out and taken from an area of
safety to her own death. It also reinforces the experience in her of this
current life with the dance company. Before we worked her past lives, the
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The final phase of our prenatal work uncovers a traumatic incident that
was told to Ana by her mother earlier in her life. However, it was told to her
in general terms and Ana now relives a suicide attempt by her mother during
her early pregnancy.
"I'm dying."
"Where am I going?"
Ana feels hands suddenly grabbing her mother and pulling her to her
feet. Both father and grandmother are yelling at her.
Father forces his fingers down mother's throat causing Ana to wretch
and gag with tears streaming down her cheeks.
Mother becomes more awake and crying uncontrollably now that the
pills are gone from her body. Fortunately, father and grandmother have
found her shortly after she has taken the pills.
Ana now knows another cause for her need to vomit. It is easy to
recognize the commanding tone her father used with her mother. Mother
had been depressed by the sleeping pills thus allowing these commands to be
printed forcibly into the unconscious minds of both her and the fetus. She
has been ordered to vomit to save her life which causes the bulimic
component of the anorexia.
"We may be able to save the mother, but I'm afraid we'll
lose the baby."
"It's stuck."
"Push! Push!"
"There's no heartbeat."
Later, as she attains verbal skills, these words emotionally charged, will
be related to experiences of present time. This happens with Ana as she
relives the anxieties of the medical team as her mother moves close to death
during the next stage of delivery of the baby.
Ana feels the uterine walls around her go dead. The pulsing heartbeat
that has been a part of her existence since conception now stops. Blackness
invades the space where she is immobilized. She feels the panic of those
around her as they try to resuscitate this woman who has suddenly gone into
cardiac arrest.
Ana goes back and forth between her own infant experiences and her
mother's fear and nausea. She feels dazed by the electrical shocks and the
extreme anxiety, tension, and anger of the doctor as he tries to complete this
difficult forceps delivery.
The words and feelings of her mother are implanted into Ana's
unconscious mind thus re-stimulating the dormant mother/love death issues.
Again, death because of mother's love becomes a powerful reality.
Ana feels less pressure around her body as the forceps finally pull her
free. She still feels the forceps in place when there is a sudden coldness and
light. She is pulled, again, from a safe place into a place of fear, pain, and
death, where her screams echo from the electric fence and the burning stake.
She is pulled into another place where people coldly "do their job" and can
"do with me as they wish." She is removed from mother and roughly passed
to other hands. She feels pain in her feet and ankles as they are held together
in one hand with her head upside down. The doctor says, "She's on her
own," bringing a feeling of desperation and fear.
She feels alone and abandoned with feelings of imminent death. These
are all past life feelings triggered within this birthing process. They are
physical and they feel real. There are no words at this infant level -- it is pure
sensation. It could be pure love, joy, and acceptance in some births, but with
Ana, it is panic, anger, pain, abandonment, and a sense of impending death.
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These are experimental realities defining her entrance into this world, this life,
and this time.
Slap! Her backside stings as she feels a sudden surge in her chest and
abdomen. The burning pain intensifies as her lungs open and expand for the
first time.
Mother has entered this delivery with tremendous fear and anxiety.
Her conscious experience of this fear is expressed as anger. The slightest
irritation is magnified to an unbearable intensity. It is these maternal
dynamics that are creating the unconscious boundaries of Ana's feelings for
marriage and birth. Her definition of marriage and child-bearing are, thus,
totally dominated by both fear and anger.
"I can't eat this God damn stuff. Get it away from me."
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Mother angrily shoves a tray of food away from her as she awaits
delivery. Anger is in total control of her behavior as a response to her fear
and pain. Her fear is activating her own past issues and Ana's as well.
Because this fear is motivated by unconscious programming, the staff around
mother sees her behavior as totally irrational. Mother, however, knows only
that she is extremely angry and needs to be left alone with no one touching
her.
"Leave me alone."
Mother says a burst of angry words to the nurse caring for her and
lapses into a brooding silence between her contractions. She breathes deeply
and tries to relax but an angry tirade keeps rushing through her mind being
experienced by both Ana and her mother.
Ana's mother is going into cardiac arrest with her consciousness fading
rapidly. The anxiety of the doctor and nurses hits a sudden peak as the
adrenaline rush comes due to this unexpected incident. Ana repeats her
mother's fading thoughts during this emergency.
"I'm dying."
These last words are choked as Ana relives the electric jolts used to
revive her mother. This jolt activates the baby's past experience of death by
electrical shock.
Ana sits up. She is content and at ease with her birth as she talks
about its implications.
Ana has discovered the natural cycle of birth and death as a very direct
experience in the evolution of the human consciousness. This consciousness
has been evolving process are present, microcosmically, at the time of
conception for a being that is incarnating. The following nine-month prenatal
period will create a pattern of behavior that will assure the continued
movement toward resolution by the physical and spiritual being.
therapy, has given her a sense of peace and satisfaction that these areas are
finished.
One final session with Ana relates her therapeutic work with the
changes in her current life. She will find most of the questions she asked
prior to therapy have been answered by the therapeutic work she has done.
Ana is now making these choices. Joy is reflected in her voice and
expressed in her graceful, relaxed movements. She now experiences an
inner-spiritual renewal. She is elated at the elimination of her anxiety,
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depression, and anorexia. She had difficulty accepting her good feelings with
a few days of depression immediately after finishing intensive therapy.
However, now her anorexia is gone. The underlying anorexic behavior
resolved after a period of time in which her eating patterns changed.
The final phase of Ana's life I shared was her first pregnancy. Her note
simply said, "Somebody is on the way to join us. As soon as birth takes
place, we'll let you know who. Love, Ana."
Like Ana, could you change your life to make it better? What do you
need to change in order to accomplish your inner potential? What stops you
from doing things to improve your life? Why do you feel blocked?
When Ana decided to enter therapy, she came with issues that
prevented her from enjoying life. My role as therapist was to help her
untangle these issues and facilitate the change of her conscious programming.
She was unable to be fully in charge of her life. She was incapable of choices
and decisions that affected the way she lived. Some people make the right
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choices easily and their lives are effortless. Others are totally incapable of
making any healthy choices. Most of us are somewhere in-between as our
lives are working and functioning, yet, we know we do not approach our true
potential.
confusion and fear that existed in but one part of her entire life. I helped her
find her own answers and know her own choices. She now has the ability to
create her life and accept responsibility for her own happiness. After our
brief period together, she continued her journey.
The results achieved by Ana were not unusual. I have worked with
thousands of clients who have come to a point of self-reliance and self
knowledge. The human consciousness has a natural drive towards resolution.
Success, as a therapist, comes when that tendency is used to resolve ingrained
harmful issues. The drive is motivated from a much larger context than that
provided by most traditional psychotherapeutic theories.
unconscious trauma. People who release past issues on the unconscious level
through their dreams and through daily living do not need therapy.
Resolution, at the unconscious level, is reflected in the way they live their
lives. People who do enter therapy are unable to maintain a healthy process
for movement in their lives.
Therapy should bring a change for the better. It should make life
healthier on a practical day-to-day basis. These results should reflect in daily
decisions and make a difference when it "comes time to pay the rent and
discipline the kids." The client has not been helped if positive change is not
seen in the daily manner in which life is lived. They have learned to "see"
their problems, and have learned to "cope" with or to "handle" their
problems. Coping with problems is not solving problems. It is another way
of saying, "I'm adapting to this problem that I can't totally resolve." The
problem still exists. I want clients no longer "coping" with problems -- I want
them free of problems.
The aim with every client is to obtain freedom from the issues which
are affecting their behavior. This goal is not always attainable on an
outpatient basis which does not provide 24-hour support for serious cases, but
complete resolution is followed by the greatest possible therapeutic change.
Some therapists say they are successful if they gain a minimal degree of
behavioral change in fifty percent of their clients. The definition of success
should come when the client achieves complete resolution of the issues
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presented. They must not return a few weeks or months later. Success then,
comes from a therapeutic process when results motivate positive changes that
last for a lifetime.
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PART I
reality the pre-existing unconscious content. The mind's two interacting levels
are in place to provide motivation and meaning throughout the lifetime ahead.
The birth experience determines how stress will be processed
throughout life as it occurs at the basic survival level. Negative survival
patterns are formulated unconsciously and will determine the chronology by
which survival can include depression, pain, paralysis, and struggle to name
but a few. Consciously, these dynamic patterns make no logical sense;
however, the conscious mind takes orders from the unconscious which knows
nothing of logic or rational thinking.
From the onset of labor through the transition stage, fear is
exacerbated by uncertainty, dread, and increased physical pain. Within the
most intensely painful moments, mother experiences her greatest fears for
herself and her baby. Mother feels an intense fear of dying which permeates
her entire being including her uterus and the cord connecting her to her baby.
Physical pain of this baby becomes attached to the fear of dying. As this
reaches its deepest point, the fetus experiences what feels like death. If
numbing drugs are used, this death feels even more realistic as physical
boundaries are taken away. The process is now ready to experience survival
as "pushing," "contraction," and "pulling" move the baby forward to
completion of a live birth.
The progression of events, emotions, and expressions create the first
half of a negative survival pattern. It is an experimental connecting point for
the immediate past life death with its accumulation of dynamics from even
earlier lives. Once re-stimulated, these past dynamics are in place for
continued movement towards resolution. If birth ended here, these past
experiences would motivate death very soon into life after birth. Fortunately,
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the second stage completes the pattern by adding survival following the
feelings of death. The dynamics which existed as part of an earlier death have
been survived at birth into current time. The survival pattern is in place
unconsciously and will control all experiences which threaten basic survival
for the system.
The following outline describes the progressive creation of a pattern
which holds in place pain as a needed component for survival.
1. Start of Labor
This point forms the beginning (or opening phase) of the survival pattern
established by the total birth experience.
B. Loss of control with panic and hysterics or use of drugs causes the
appearance of Mother's own unconscious experiences (i.e. her own birth;
past-life experiences).
A. External sources:
B. Internal sources:
4. First Breath:
A. External source:
B. Internal Source:
If drugs were a part of the birth, they can be felt beginning to leave
the body. This process can take up to 3 to 4 days.
5. Cord Cut:
Note: Numbers 4 and 5 can be in reverse order. This does not change
the manner in which the session is conducted.
If drugs were used, the session must continue until the baby finds the
place where the drugs are completely gone from feelings.
Incubator:
A. External Source:
B. Internal Source:
Note: Baby is still part of group identity and must have the
individual boundaries defined. Baby must be able to know self as
separate and apart from others.
Other Locations:
Susan feels the experience as the baby. "What do you feel in your
body, Susan? Recognize the first physical sensation that comes to mind."
"Let the pain and words come together. Say the first words that come
to mind."
" ' Everything is just fine, everything is just perfect. Just a little
longer now and it will be over. That's ridiculous, everything is
not perfect!' "
The doctor's words define the experience of pain and stress as Susan's
head passes through the birth canal. Pain's definition becomes, "Everything is
just fine. Just wait a little and it will all be over." Mother is depressed in
response to pain. The infant now experiences Mother's depression as her
own. She experiences the physical stress of the delivery, receives words that
the headache is perfect, and slips into a depressive state.
When she takes pain pills, she experiences the depression that follows
her headache. The headache with depression becomes Susan's response
when things "go well" and she is told that she is beautiful. Her husband's
reassuring words become the words of the doctor at birth, her underlying
psychological reality is distorted.
circumvents the need to explain the damage caused by this and other current
medical procedures. If the infant is neurologically immature, he cannot feel or
remember any pain or trauma. It also blocks these procedures from being
included as source experience for problems. Health care professionals believe
they need not know techniques to
access these experiences as there "is no memory retained" and "it can't be the
cause of your problems, you were too young to remember it."
Susan experienced relief from her chronic pain as her unconscious
mind continued processing this session for several days. Upon her next
appointment, she stated: "I've always believed pain kept me alive. As long as
I felt it, I could move forward in my life and know everything would be fine.
No more! I'm really alive when pain free, and I intend to maintain this new
way of living."
A follow-up note from Susan eight months later stated she had been
completely pain free and very happy in her marriage and her life.
1. Start of Labor
"Will the pain get worse?"
"Can I die in labor?"
"How long will it take?"
"I don't want to go any further with this."
2. Increase in intensity of pain and fear.
"How long has it been?"
"The pain is unbearable."
"It never stops."
"Somebody help me."
"I'm afraid I won't make it."
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B. Internal sources
5. Cord cut
Her conscious mind begins developing. All previous experiences are
consciously accepted as reality.
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Pain was the last feeling before death; before the simulated death
during birth; and with the slap that started her breathing. Feeling pain is
attached to being alive. Eventually, being alive will be chronic pain.
A second case revealed memory birth, as a child of nine years, in
therapy exploded with a memory. He saw his mother lying flat on her back
partially covered by green cloths, her face masked, stomach cut open, and
dead. He was being lifted up all bloody and believed that he must have killed
his mother by cutting open her stomach. He had remembered his Cesarean
delivery. Once home from the hospital, finding himself in an angry
environment and afraid he might be killed himself, he quickly
deduced that it would please his mother "if my mind is dead," and he
proceeded to be retarded. This is what he was for nine years until his
unconscious memories of birth suddenly burst forth in therapy. A short time
after this revelation, he was placed in a class of normal children his own age,
where he proceeded to act normally. This clinical report is a warning to us
about newborn cognition.
In hypnotherapy, womb memories are nearly as common as birth
memories. Like many birth memories, they come without request and can
sometimes be verified as true. Some memories are pleasant reports of
everyday life; most, however, deal with life and death issues that have
persisted into adult life as mental health problems.
remedy to wash me away. It feels real hot....I know she is trying to get me
out of there. I'm just a little blob. I don't know how I know, but I know.
My aunt seems to be giving my mom directions. I can hear her voice and
another woman in the background. She is not supposed to get pregnant.
She doesn't know me....It didn't work either. It had a strong harsh smell,
almost a disinfectant smell, like ammonia, strong, a vile, strong smell....I can
see where I was too; I was way up there, just teeny. I knew nobody really
wanted me then....but I was determined. I was a fighter even then. Poor
mom would die if she knew I knew all this stuff!"
Again, pain is associated with survival. The feeling of "real hot"
persists in vaginal pain each time Irene is confronted with being recognized,
accepted, and wanted. She is unconsciously motivated to feel that friends and
relatives want "to get rid of me." She is constantly aware of intense vaginal
pain that has now become chronic in nature.
After completing our session, she was treated medically for vaginal
infection and the pain was alleviated. She reports a pain-free experience for
over one year.
Chronic Pain
Part II
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PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT IN
PRE-NATAL TO BIRTH
End
of
Month Conception
1st Eyes, nose, and ears not yet visible. Backbone and vertebra canal form. Small buds
will develop into arms and legs. Heart forms and starts beating. Body systems
begin to form.
2nd Pregnancy confirmed or recognized (2nd or 3rd month). Limbs become distinct as
arms and legs. Digits are well formed. Major blood vessels form. Many internal
organs continue to develop.
3rd Eyes almost fully developed but eyelids still fused, nose develops bridge, and
external ears are present. Heartbeat can be detected. Body systems continue to
develop.
4th Head large in proportion to rest of body. Face takes on human features. Skin
bright pink. Many bones ossified, joints begin to form. Continued development of
body systems.
5th Head less disproportionate to rest of body. Fine hair (lanugo) covers body. Rapid
development of body systems.
6th Head becomes even less disproportionate to rest of body. Eyelids separate and
eyelashes form. Skin wrinkled and pink.
7th Head and body become more proportionate. Skin wrinkled and pink. Seven-month
fetus is capable of survival.
8th Subcutaneous fat deposited. Skin less wrinkled. Testes descend into scrotum.
Bones of head are soft. Chances of survival much greater at end of eighth month.
9th Additional subcutaneous fat accumulates. Lanugo shed. Nails extend to tips of
fingers.
Labor on-set with Birth pain and trauma increasing with progression to:
The experience of a death-like period of time just before or during actual birthing.
Locate place where birth experience is recognized as complete thus creating the
negative survival pattern that will govern the rest of this life experience.
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Second Month:
Internal organs and body systems continue to develop carrying all
memory for survival.
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Third Month:
Pregnancy confirmed.
"I'm going to be a mother."
"I'm so happy."
("Home to mother" is now an unconscious achievement for the fetus.
The past death is reactivated to also include its physical reality.)
Fourth Month:
Fetal head is large in proportion to rest of the body. Fetus experience
discomfort in her head due to shifting positions in uterus.
(Father) "This headache is killing me."
"I've got to get away from this job."
"My head keeps pounding and pounding."
Fifth Month:
Fetal head development continues with father's verbal descriptions for
headaches recorded unconsciously.
Sixth Month:
Fetal head development continues with distinct formation of eyes.
Seventh Month:
Head and body become more proportionate.
Eighth Month:
Bones of the head are soft and continue to carry pain as part of a
survival pattern.
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Ninth Month:
Development is complete causing fetus to signal birth. As the head
passes through the birth canal, pain is again experienced as a basic component
to being alive. The young soldier, now a girl who doesn't have to fight wars,
is "home with mother" where she will begin healing the intense pain from the
battlefield death.
Susan's example shows the formation of pathology that excludes
abusive or dysfunction parents with a childhood relatively free of trauma.
Source of the pain is clearly the Self while its causes and motivations are at an
unknown level. As the cause is revealed and re-experienced the negative
survival pattern is changed to a positive pattern which affects the entire life
experience.
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FETAL PERIOD
During the fourth and fifth months, and the end of the first half of
intrauterine life the fetus lengthens rapidly and its CH, or crown-heel length is
approximately 23 cm. This is about one-half the total length to the full-term
newborn.
There are many presumptive signs of pregnancy, but the three positive
signs occur during the fetal period and include hearing the fetal heart between
the eighteenth and twentieth weeks, visibility of the fetal skeleton by x-ray,
and physical observance of fetal movement during the fifth month. The
mother is usually able to discern fetal movements during the fifth month
(quickening).
The weight of the fetus increases considerably during the second half of
intrauterine life, from 500 gm at the end of the fifth month to 3200 gm by
the end of the ninth month. Subcutaneous fat is formed during the last
months before birth so that the fetus loses much of its former wrinkled
appearance. At birth the fetus is approximately 50 cm long, and the skull has
the largest circumference of the body. At birth the testes have usually
descended through the inguinal canal and into the scrotum.
Table 26-1 outlines the development during embryonic and fetal
periods.
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Table 26-l
Developmental Timetable
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First Week
Fertilization usually in fallopian tube:
Second maturation division occurs, polar body expelled from ovum,
tail separates from spermatozoon.
Male pronucleus combines with female pronucleus to form zygot.
As zygote passes down tube cleavage occurs, forming several small
blastomeres.
After three days, morula (ball of 16 or more blastomeres) enters uterus.
Cavity forms in morula, converting it to blastocyst:
inner cell mass, or embryoblast
blastocyst cavity
outer layer of cells, or trophoblast
By sixth day blastocyst adheres to endometrium, invading epithelium
Embryonic endoderm begins to form on ventral surface of inner cell mass
Second Week
Rapid proliferation and differentiation of trophoblast
Lacunar network develops, fills with maternal blood
Trophoblast erodes endometrium
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Embryonic Period
Third Week
Formation of head, tail, and lateral folds
Dorsal part of yolk sac enclosed during folding to become primitive gut
Transverse folding forms lateral and ventral body walls
Gut pinches off from yolk sac, forming yolk stalk
Amnion expands
Primitive streak appears in ectoderm
Third primary germ layer (embryonic mesoderm) forms, except at
oropharyngeal and cloacal membranes and in midline (notochord)
Notochord formed
Neural tube formed from neural groove in ectoderm
Somite formation begins cranially by end of third week
Celom forms (to become body cavity)
Blood islands form
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Fourth Week
Arm and leg buds develop
Otic pits visible
Heart is ventral prominence
Head and tail folds give curved shape to embryo
Fifth Week
Head grows markedly due to growth of brain
Elbow and wrist regions identifiable; digital ridges appear in hand plates
Eye developing retinal pigment
Auricle of ear begins to form with groove in center (to become auditory
meatus)
Sixth Week
Head larger than trunk, is bent over heart prominence
Head and trunk begin to straighten at end of week
Yolk sac is small, now called vitelline duct
Intestines enter extraembryonic celom
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Seventh Week
Head more rounded and erect
Ears not fully developed
Neck forms
Eyelids more obvious
Extremities lengthen, fingers and toes well differentiated
Abdomen less protuberant
Umbilical cord decreases in size
Intestine still within umbilical cord
At end of this week embryo has developed from undifferentiated cell mass to
recognizable human shape.
Fetal Period
Third Month
Head is half of fetal length; body grows to double crown-rump length
Arms grow, almost reaching final length; have separated fingers
Legs grows have separated toes
Heart begins to beat
Intestinal coils visible in umbilical cord until tenth week when they reenter
abdomen
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Eyelids closed; eyes widely separated and ears low set, begin to move to
correct position
External genitalia similar at ninth week; different by twelfth week and have
begun their descent
Placenta develops to final form (two layers)
Fourth Month
Growth rapid, legs lengthen
Ossification of skeleton begins
Ears and eyes in mature position
Fifth Month
Growth rate slows; legs achieve final length
Fatty tissue forms (special type: brown fat)
Hair grows on head, eyebrows visible, fine hair (lanugo) covers body
Skin develops covering of fatty, cheese-like material (verni caseosa) that
remains until birth
Fetus moves extremities
Sixth Month
Gain in weight
Skin wrinkled and translucent
Organs fairly well developed, but respiratory system still immature
Body is lean, better proportioned
Subcutaneous adipose tissue forming
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Seventh Month
Nervous system matures - body temperature control and rhythmical
respiration are possible
Eyelids reopen
"Ugly little thing, isn't it?" Low self-esteem with denial of actual
physical beauty
"This one will never walk right." Negative self-imaging – Fear of being
(Said about newborn with clubfoot) seen by others.
"It's a funny little thing, isn't it?" Negative sexual self-imaging with
(Said during circumcision trauma) possible dysfunction, repressed anger
and rage.
(At this point, the therapist refers to the prenatal chart to pinpoint the
critical stages of development for the pancreas. For these demonstrations,
conceptions had already been cleared.)
The outline reveals the onset of body systems development in the first
month of pregnancy continuing each month until rapid development is
observed in the fifth month. This indicates this period of time as vital to the
developing functional ability of the pancreas and supporting systems. Mother
became conscious of her pregnancy in the third month after missing two
previous menstrual periods.
Therapist – "Jane, let's realize we are going to locate and change the
physical beliefs and functioning patterns in which diabetic symptoms are
included. You will focus on those times when the developing cells of your
body become embedded with the spoken and emotional language of the
environment which is keeping you alive. We will release these embedded
beliefs and replace them with ones you choose to make you healthy. We'll
begin in the first month of pregnancy, after conception, when your pancreas
is in its earliest stage of formation. Listen to your mother's thoughts that are
enmeshed with this cellular structuring. Let her thoughts become very clear
for you. Quote the first words mother is thinking."
(The technique of sentence repetition is used throughout each session,
but is not indicated in the transcript.)
Jane (quoting Mother) – "I'll die if I get fat. He won't love me if I'm
fat. He'll leave me for a younger woman. I can't eat anything or it'll show.
I'd rather starve than be alone."
Therapist – "Jane, focus on Mother's physical feelings. What are her
physical reactions to her fear of eating and gaining weight?"
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Jane – "She has a headache, is very agitated, her hands are shaking,
and she's very confused. She also feels panic as the time for my father to
come home nears."
Therapist – "Express her panic. Say the first words of panic Mother is
thinking."
Jane (Mother) – "I'm so hungry I could die. Maybe if I lay down I can
forget about food. Just until I hear him coming home, then I'll get up and get
his dinner. I'll tell him I ate earlier so I won't have to eat with him."
Mother falls into a deep sleep and fails to hear her husband come
home. He awakens her.
Therapist – "Quote the first words your father says to Mother to
awaken her."
Jane (quoting father) – "Wake up, you lazy bitch."
Jane notes he has been drinking as he shoves Mother roughly to get
her up.
"Come on, you cow. What do you do all day? Lay around the house
eating? You're starting to look like an elephant. Get up and feed me if
there's anything left to eat in this house."
Jane's mother awakens slowly and with confusion until her husband's
voice gets her attention. She faints while preparing his dinner.
Jane (father) – "Hell, there's always something wrong with this bitch.
She's always in bed or crying. Go back to bed. I'll fix my own dinner."
Father puts Mother back to bed where she re-enters her semi-coma
sleep induced by hunger and fear.
This session is reworked to redefine hunger, eating, love, and
acceptance in a healthy manner. Jane's negative survival pattern is changed
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from "I know I'm alive as long as I'm starving and afraid" to "I am free of my
mother's fears of abandonment and compulsive eating behavior. I am alive
when healthy and happily in charge of my own life."
Jane's second session starts in the fifth month of pregnancy when body
systems are rapidly being completed.
Therapist – "In the fifth month of pregnancy, development of your
glands, organs, and physical systems is being completed. As your pancreas is
readied for functioning, hear your mother's words that repeat her earlier fears
about eating. Say the first words you hear from Mother's thoughts."
Jane (Mother) – "This baby is making me fat. He'll leave me! I'll be
alone! Nobody will love me! He'll hate me if I'm fat. This baby makes me
fat. I hate it! I hate this baby. I wish it'd die. I don't want to get bigger.
He'll leave me! He told me he would! I'll stop eating. Maybe that'll kill it.
At least he will see I'm not fat from eating."
The rest of the pregnancy is described as hazy, confused, fearful, and
tenuous for mother. Finally, at eight months and two weeks, mother can no
longer starve herself and begins to compulsively binge on ice cream,
chocolate cake, and chocolate chip cookies. She sits eating from a half-gallon
carton of ice cream with the cake and cookies on the table in front of her.
She rotates the three eating with rapid, panic-induced behavior.
Therapist – "Think out loud, Jane. As Mother devours these foods, say
her thoughts out loud."
Jane (Mother) – "I don't care what he says, I deserve this. I've got to
eat something. I can't stop. I can't stop until it's all gone. When it's gone,
he'll never know it was here. I'll burn the carton so he won't know."
"I feel sick. I'm dizzy. There must be something wrong with me."
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The therapist notes this last sentence, "there must be something with
me" and continues through the session. Mother finally moves to the couch
where she feels weak and helpless. Almost paralyzed, she drifts into an
insulin reaction resulting in deep sleep. When she awakens, father has found
the cartons on the kitchen table and begins his ritual of drunken abuse. As
this is completed, Jane is directed back to her mother's statement "there must
be something wrong with me." She is made to understand its function as an
absolute command from within her unconscious mind. There can be no
expectations, Jane must have something wrong with her. As long as she
does, she can survive. She then is asked to consciously evaluate this
command from her mother and recognize how it has controlled her life.
Jane – "Growing up, I always had something wrong with me. Bad
colds, earaches, headaches, broken bones, accidents, you name it. My first
husband divorced me because I was always sick. He couldn't take my
complaining any more. My son, today, doesn't speak to me because I'm
always whining about how sick I am and complaining he doesn't love me. I
divorced my second husband because I thought he didn't love me. Nothing
he could do convinced me he really cared about me. It was during that
second divorce the diabetes was diagnosed. I felt if I ignored it, I'd get so sick
he'd finally love me. If I could just keep something wrong with me, maybe
someone would notice and finally love me."
Other of Jane's sessions covered her past life experiences, her birth, and
her infancy, childhood, and adolescent years with her parents. The core
negative unconscious belief was found to be in the prenatal stages of
development when her mother's fears and beliefs were embedded with her
own developing physical functioning abilities.
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Therefore, the entire pregnancy provides the boundaries for the causal
experience for scoliosis.
Therapist – "Becky, we're going to examine the experiences during
which your spine is being pre-conditioned to create scoliosis after your birth.
Let's begin by entering your mother's experience with you in uterus during
the second week after conception. Visualize your spine as a soft milky
substance just appearing to form the basis for your body's development. As
you are aware of this vulnerable condition, Mother's words and feelings are
being embedded within the cellular formation. Say the first words that come
to mind when you hear your mother's voice. Let her words and emotions be
very clear."
Becky (Mother) – "I don't know.....I don't know....there's nothing....I
can't do this...."
The therapist recognizes these as Mother's incomplete sentences
indicating her confusion.
Therapist – "Becky, those are Mother's words. They indicate her
confusion. Let's finish the first - 'I don't know.' Just finish her sentence.
What does Mother 'not know'?'
Becky (Mother) – "I don't know if I love him or not?"
Therapist – "The second 'I don't know'?"
Becky (Mother) – "I don't know if he loves me?"
Therapist – "There's nothing...?"
Becky (Mother) – "There's nothing I can do but sit and wait for him to
marry me."
Therapist – "And 'I can't do this'?"
Becky (Mother) – "I can't do this without him. He's got to marry me."
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Karl – "She's going into darkness. I am, too. We're both dying."
(Mother breathes herself into unconsciousness as the other voices
(external sources) become prominent.)
Morris – "Let the other voices come clearly. Realize you're
unconsciously recording voices other than Mother's. Quote me these words."
Doctor – "Check her vitals. Keep close monitor on her. I'm working
the incision now. Get ready for the baby."
(Karl registers mother's reaction to the incision and recoils at efforts to
get forceps on his head.)
Doctor – "It's in the wrong position. We've got to shove it up and out
of the canal. There's the head. Get the forceps on it. Lift it up and out the
incision. Keep pulling, we're almost there. There! It's a boy! A fine healthy
boy!"
Morris – "Be aware of what you have to go through to be a fine,
healthy boy, Karl. Realize the negative pattern formed by these words."
Karl – "I have to be unconscious, in pain, and helpless for my life to be
fine."
Morris – "Let's move on. Do you take your first breath before or after
the cord is cut?"
Karl - "Before. I start screaming immediately and that makes me
breath."
Morris – Be just at the point where the cord is cut. Quote me the first
words being said as you're disconnected from Mother."
Doctor – "You're on your own, young man. Have a good life."
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Karl is encouraged to breath and feel the drugs leave his body causing
him to feel life come through his body. His experience of surviving becomes
complete; and he is fully capable of hearing, seeing, thinking, and feeling.
He is directed back to the point, prior to surgery, where the decision is
made to complete his birth by surgery. He accesses the external voices first:
"This isn't working."
"We have to do something else."
"Prepare her for surgery."
"We don't want to lose the baby."
Additional dialog is uncovered as some confusion has been lifted:
Doctor – "We're going to help you finish this."
"Nothing to worry about."
"Just a little change in plans."
"You're going to be fine."
Cl. (doctor) – "God damn war! How can we run a hospital with
bombs falling outside? Put something in her mouth to stop her from
screaming!"
A towel is placed in Mother's mouth, and she is told to bite on it
instead of screaming. The client reports distant sounds of explosions which
increases the confusion and panic in the delivery room.
Std. – "Focus into the experience. Focus on the words and feelings
within this confusion. Say the next words that come to mind."
Cl. (doctor) – "Give me the forceps. We've got to deliver this baby
and run for cover. Hurry!"
Forceps are used to pull the baby from the uterus at which time the
cord is cut and the baby slapped to start breathing. The client shows signs of
impaired breathing as the supervisor demonstrates techniques for re-directing
this physical trauma.
Std. – "What happens next?"
The client completely re-enters the trauma of these moments after his
birth. The student is signaled to remain quiet and let him "run the
experience." He reveals that a nurse wraps him in a blanket and runs from
the delivery room to a bomb shelter just outside the hospital. He will not see
his mother again for almost two months.
The student is helped to direct him past the air raid and forward to the
point where he is returned to his mother. This locates a place of safety for
him which he is asked to maintain until the next small groups session.
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A. Blocks
Resistance
B. Procedures used by facilitator to move through and past these
difficulties.
All difficulties in processing a session are caused by unconscious
motivation. As such, the actual reasons are unknown to the client. The client
will not deliberately and knowingly block in a session and refuse to continue
through to resolution. The client is doing the only thing possible at any point
of difficulty during a session. People are never blocking or being resistant
"just to irritate you, the therapist." (However, it can certainly seem that way,
at times. Patience, patience, patience.)
The client presents chronic pain and partial paralysis in her left hand
and arm which was dominant for the first few years of her life. Paralysis is
exacerbated by efforts to treat the pain with physical therapy and pain is
exacerbated if no treatment is undertaken. She has been forced to develop
her right hand as dominant. The beginning stages of atrophy are noted.
Morris – "Let's focus here into your left arm for a moment. Just feel it
from your shoulder to your finger tips. Let all the physical feelings come into
focus. Remember, numb is a feeling. Keep your focus on your arm. Let's
just become your arm. You feel, sense, think, and react as your arm. What's
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the strongest emotion you feel now, left arm? Under the numbness and
paralysis, what's the strongest emotion?"
Cl. – "Fear."
Morris – "Okay. Now locate the part of your arm where fear is the
most intense."
Cl. – "Here..." (Points to an area above the elbow and below the
shoulder.)
Morris – "Stay with the fear. Recognize it. Say the first words of fear
that come from your arm right here. The first words contained within the
fear, the feeling."
Cl. – "Don't hurt me."
This is repeated several times until emotions surface with the words.
Morris – "Say the next words."
Cl. – "I can't, I can't, I don't know how."
Morris – (Increasing pressure on the client's arm.) "What causes this
pain? What's hurting your arm?"
Cl. – "A hand."
Morris – "Whose hand?"
Cl. "My father's. He's shaking my arm and yelling at me."
Morris – "Quote his words. Hear them very clearly. Say the first
words he's yelling at you."
Cl. (father) – "Do as you're told!" "Do as you're told! The teacher
says you'll use your other hand! Use your other hand! Not this hand. The
other hand!"
These words are repeated and intensified emotionally until they lose
impact and physical sensations are available.
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Morris – "As father says these words into your arm, what physical
feelings do you have?"
Cl. – "I can't feel my arm. It's numb."
Morris – "Connect your father's words with this numbness. What is
your father telling you about your arm?"
Cl. – "It's too numb, I can't use it anymore."
This unconscious decision is repeated and intensified until the client's
conscious mind overrides the father's messages and releases his words from
the client's arm. Morris still clutches the arm.
Morris – "Free your arm from his hand. Move your arm. Take his
hand off your arm. Get the feeling back!"
The client moves her arm until she finally jerks it free.
Morris – "Talk to your father. Replace his words with your own."
The client yells at her father while verbally reversing the messages of
numbness and paralysis.
As the client releases the emotions from her arm, she begins crying and
clutching her left hand.
Cl. – "Don't hurt me! Don't hit my hand! That hurts!"
The client identifies her first grade teacher who is slapping her left hand
with a ruler.
Cl. (teacher) – "Not this hand! You use the other hand. Use your
pencil in the other hand. Do as you're told. I'll tell your father."
As her hand is hit, the client feels it go numb and helpless. The
teacher's words are recognized as being contained in the pain she inflicts with
a ruler.
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Morris – "Recognize the messages your teacher inflicts into your hand
with pain. As she hits your hand over and over again, what words does she
embed?"
Cl. – "Don't use it. She keeps yelling at me to stop using my left
hand."
This second unconscious message is focused for release until the client's
conscious mind redefines reality in her left hand. This reaches a climax when
the client pounds a pillow with her left fist and screams at her father and the
teacher.
Cl. – "I will use it! I will! I will! I don't hear you anymore. I can do
anything I wish." The client is gaining greater cognitive ability to self-identify.
She spontaneously enters the core issue with the following:
"You make me feel different. I'm not normal. Not as good as
everyone else. All the other kids use their right hands, and that makes them
better than me. You punish me as if I deliberately use my left hand just to
spite you. Using my left hand makes me different, not bad, not abnormal.
Leave me alone! Shut up! Go away! My left arm and hand are just fine!"
The session ends with the client writing on a large pad used for
demonstrating charts during lectures. She writes with her left hand, her right
hand, and waves both arms together with equal energy and flexibility.
Small groups meet to continue work with clients for physical memory
release.
Students continue working with the client who was born during an air
raid. He has continued the breathing impairment from his birth as asthma
throughout his life. The group of four decide to re-enter his experience at
birth at the point where his breathing is impaired.
Std. – "Be at the moment, after birth, when your breathing is difficult.
Let your body feel the panic and stress in your lungs. Say the first words
that come with this experience."
The client's breathing becomes irregular as he says the following
words:
Cl. (doctor) – "Good. He's alive. Keep him breathing while we get to
safety."
The supervisor demonstrates the techniques to disconnect the traumatic
onset of breathing from survival as established by the doctor's words "he's
alive." This is a two-step process as his impaired breathing must also be
separated from "feeling safe."
As the supervisor completes this process, the client is allowed to leave
while the group discusses the session.
One of the small supervision groups asks Morris to work with their
client for this training period. They have not reached a satisfactory
conclusion as confusion still interferes with clear insights and emotional
releases. Established is a past life which ended in 1943 in a Nazi
concentration camp. The death experience is complicated as several periods
of prolonged shock precede actual physical termination. The client's name is
James, who clearly is still at affect of this experience.
Morris – "James? Listen to me. You will hear my voice throughout
this session. It will anchor you in reality and guide you through the
confusion. Now, very quietly and easily allow your unconscious mind to
enter this death experience at the moment when actual physical death is
occurring. Recognize the death of your body. Your soul lives on. It will rise
free of this camp where your body is located when death becomes final."
James – "Why has God forsaken us? Why has he let this happen to
us?"
Morris – "James. Listen to my voice. Focus on your physical body.
Do not hear voices around and do not hear your own thoughts. What
position is your physical body in when death comes?"
James – "I don't know......" (repeated)
Morris – "James, did you die in a gas chamber or in another place?
Just answer the question. Gas chamber or another place? Focus on my
voice and answer my question."
James – "Somewhere else. A big grave with many, many more."
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Morris – "James, feel your body in the grave. How many other bodies
are touching yours? First answer your body gives!"
James – "Many. They're crushing me."
Morris – "Listen to all the other voices around you. Recognize all the
voices other than our own. Quote me all the words from the other voices.
Release these words from your mind, they're not yours, they belong to those
dying around you. Recognize the difference between you and the others."
James – "I don't want to die." (After each quote he is asked to
identify a male or female voice he hears.)
"Momma, I want momma."
"Let me die, God, let me die."
James slowly recognizes the many voices of those dying with him as he
repeats the litany of horror being absorbed by his own unconsciousness.
Morris – "James, when you have released all the other deaths, focus on
your own. Where in your body does your own physical death start?"
James – "My head. All my thoughts are gone. I'm numb. I can't
breath."
James is directed through a monitored physical death until he finally
separates from his dead body and rises above the scene of a mass grave. He
is encouraged to say and feel everything necessary to complete his camp
resolved for you. Now, move forward in time to the point of conception by
your mother in your present life. Say the first words of that experience."
James is processed through conception and resonating incidents during
the nine months of pregnancy. He is lastly processed through birth as his
negative survival pattern is uncovered and resolved.
Morris – "James, let your unconscious mind recognize this negative
pattern and change it. You will no longer live at survival level. You will live
a happy, creative, healthy life."
James – "I can have my own boundaries and still be alive. I don't have
to be everyone's whipping boy. I don't have to pretend to be stupid so
people will love me. I don't have to hide behind others' opinions of me. I can
have my own opinions, express my own beliefs and be happy or sad or
anything else I want to be."
James opens his eyes and sits up completely free of the cloudy
confusion from the start of the session. He is clear and smiling as he
announces:
"I can also admit I'm Jewish. My real name is Joshua, but my mother
made me use 'James' when I started school. She didn't want anyone to know
we were Jewish."
Final large group meeting to review and present outline for the next
training period in six months. Closure comes with the group, and they leave
for their homes.
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END