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About Me 5
Chapter 1: The Ungettable Girl 7
Chapter 2: Health, Wealth And Relationships 13
Health 18
Wealth 18
Relationships 19
How To Have A Positive Impact On Your Wealth 29

Chapter 3: Creating An Ungettable Girl Avatar 33


Avatar Quality One- The Looks 35
Avatar Quality Two- She Is Wanted By Other Men 38
Avatar Quality Three- She Always Leaves A Man Wanting More 42
Avatar Quality Four- Flirt, Friend Zone, Flirt, Friend Zone 45
Avatar Quality Five- She’s Ungettable 47

Chapter 4: Becoming “The Avatar” 56


Being Wanted By Other Men 65
Leaving Him Wanting More (Locating The High Point) 72
Locating A Texting High Point 77
Locating A Phone Conversation High Point 79
Locating An In-Person High Point 80
How To End The Conversation 84
Without Warning 85
With Warning 88
The Flirt/Friend Zone Method 90
How To Flirt 94
Sex 95

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Wit 97
Closeness 100
Admiration 101
Physical Touching 103
Friend Zoning A Man 104
Combining Flirting/Friend Zoning 107

Chapter 5: Becoming “Ungettable” 111


Category One- The Holy Trinity 113
Category Two- The UG Avatar 113

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About Me

My name is Chris Seiter and I have a passion for


helping people.

I know that may sound ridiculous because "why on


earth would anyone help anybody these days?" But I
swear to you that I legitimately love helping people.
Don't believe me?

Just take a look at my site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, any


time anyone asks a question there, I answer it.
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Even if they tell me their whole life story and get a
little bit too emotional, I answer them.
I really want everyone who visits my site to succeed.

I currently run two of the most popular websites


online about Exes.

Ex Boyfriend Recovery & Ex Girlfriend Recovery

So, I guess what I am trying to say is that I know my


stuff when it comes to exes.

But rather than telling you my whole life story lets just
skip all the fluff and get to the real reason you are
here.

You want to learn how to become an Ungettable Girl,


right? Well, you came to the right place!


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Chapter 1: The Ungettable Girl

Have you ever heard of François Truffaut before?

No?

François Roland Truffaut was a French film director,


screenwriter, producer, actor, and film critic, as well
as one of the founders of the French New Wave.

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Should that mean anything to you?

Not really..

Here’s what matters.

He once said,

“In love, women are professionals, men are


amateurs.”

I think it was incredibly interesting that he said that


and it’s perfect for what I am trying to teach you here
because in two weeks time you are going to be well
on your way to becoming a professional in men.

Do you understand the significance of that?

No?

Ok, well let me break it down for you.

To men there are five types of women,

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1. Below Average
2. Average
3. Above Average
4. Beautiful
5. The Ungettable Girl (Professional)

Every single woman walking this earth falls into one of


these five categories.

As you may have noticed only one of these women is


considered to be a “professional” in men.

The UG or Ungettable Girl.

What is an Ungettable Girl?

Good question.

In order to fully understand that we have to do a little


role playing.

Ok, imagine for a moment that a woman walks into a


bar and is immediately hit on by every man who

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speaks to her. Imagine she has that X factor that you
can’t quite put your finger on.

“What does she have that I don’t have?” you think to


yourself.

The answer is actually quite simple.

The X Factor = The Ungettable Girl

In other words, she is the UG and you are not.

She is beautiful…

Smart…

Sophisticated…

Witty…

Mysterious…

Knows when to end conversations…

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All in all this girl is everything that any man could ever
want.

No man has ever turned her down and she has


always gotten whatever she has wanted in
relationships.

Oh, and here is the best part.

Once a man does decide to commit to her he stays


committed to her.
He doesn’t cheat on her or do anything that would
put his relationship with her at risk.

She truly is a goddess…

That is the Ungettable Girl.

It’s an idea I came up with one day when trying to


show women (who were trying to get their exes back)
what they need to become in order to fully maximize
their chances of getting their boyfriends or husbands
back.

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The idea kind of took off from there as I got hundreds
of inquiries to write more about this idea of the
perfect woman.

The coolest part of the whole thing is that I am a man


so I know exactly what men like in women.

I know what attracts us.

I know what is irresistible to us.

So, by using this book I am going to teach you how to


become the ungettable girl.

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Chapter 2: Health, Wealth And
Relationships

We have a goal we are trying to achieve,

You = Ungettable Girl

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So, every single thing I talk about from this point on is
going to be written with one purpose in mind.

To make YOU the UG.

Now, I have a simple question for you.

Have you ever ridden a bike before?

I want you to think back to when you were a small


child.

As a small child there was no way you rode the big


bike without training wheels first, right?

Speaking personally, when I was a child I rode with


the training wheels until I became competent enough
to ride the bigger bike without training wheels.

This book is going to work in the same way.

I am going to start off by talking about the more basic


ideas revolving around the ungettable girl and then I

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am going to slowly but surely segue into the more
advanced strategies.

Right now we are going to tackle a very fundamental


quality that an ungettable girl will have.

Hmm…

Perhaps it’s more accurate if I say qualities instead of


quality.

It’s really ironic if you think about it.

You are most likely here for one of two reasons,

1. You want to learn how to become more attractive


to your ex boyfriend, husband or lover.

2. You want to learn how to make any man your b**h


(for lack of a better word) by wrapping them around
your finger.

What is the one common denominator with these two


reasons?
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MEN!

So, I find it ironic that this first lesson for becoming an


ungettable girl has nothing to do with attracting them.

Instead, this lesson is all about focusing on yourself.

More specifically, your life.

When I look at an ungettable girl one thing becomes


clear.

They always seem to have their lives in order.

This is by design.

It’s true what they say, you know?

Men are attracted to women who have their lives in


order as opposed to the women who don’t.

For example, if a man was given the choice between


two women (of equal attractiveness) except the only
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difference between them is that one had her life in
order and the other didn’t which one do you think the
man would pick?

The woman with her life in order, of course.

So, I guess the question now becomes how the heck


do you get your life in order and how can it help you
become an ungettable girl?

Good question.

I would like to introduce you to a little something I like


to call,

THE HOLY TRINITY…

FYI this has nothing to do with religion.

(Sorry if that mislead a few people.)

When you look at your life in a very general sense you


can essentially categorize it into three separate parts.

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1. Health
2. Wealth
3. Relationships

If you don’t know what these three categories are


then allow me to educate you.

Health
This category includes everything from how you look
to what you eat.

Think of everything that affects the health in your life


and you will have essentially summed up the health
category.

Wealth
Do you have a job?

How well are you doing at your job?

Are you making a lot of money?

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Are you not making a lot of money?

All of these questions fall under the wealth category.

Anything job related or money related will be found


here.

Relationships
This one is pretty obvious.

It’s why you are here.

Boyfriend…

Girlfriend…

Friends…

Brother…

Sister…

Mom…
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Dad…

If you have any type of relationship with another


human being it will fall under this category.

So basically the holy trinity is comprised of all three


categories above.

An UG (Ungettable girl) is a superstar in all three


categories of the holy trinity.
• She is in great shape (Health)
• She looks hot to men (Health)
• She dresses well (Health)
• She has great relationships with friends and
family (Relationships)
• She has an awesome job (Wealth)
• She enjoys her work (Wealth)
• Oh, and she is a master at seducing any man
she wants (Relationships)

Do you see what I am getting at here?

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If you want to become an ungettable girl you are
going to have to master the holy trinity.

But there is still something that I haven’t told you


about the holy trinity yet…

The health, wealth and relationships in your life are all


interconnected.

What happens to one affects the other.

What do I mean by that?

I am assuming you are going through a breakup,


right?

If you aren’t and just purchased this course because


you wanted to learn how to become more attractive
to men then just indulge me for a moment and lets
pretend that you are going through a breakup.

Breakups negatively affect the relationship aspect of


your life.

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When the relationship aspect of your life takes a hit
the other two aspects are negatively impacted as well.

For example, lets pretend that you have taken your


breakup so hard that you just can't even seem to
down any food.

You know that you should eat but you are so


heartbroken that you don't feel like eating.

So you don't...

Your lack of food negatively impacts the health


portion of your life.

Now, initially when you look at that example it only


seems like the breakup (relationships) only negatively
impacted the health area of your life.

Well, that may not entirely be true.

Lets dig a little deeper.

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Lets say that in your "fasting mode" you decide to
report to work and you are so weak that you can't
concentrate and you make a big mistake. 

Your boss calls you in and because of this big mistake


he fires you.

Well, all of a sudden the "wealth" area of your life is


being impacted by this breakup.

Do you see how these three major areas of your life


are interconnected?

Now, the example I just gave is a bit extreme but I had


to illustrate my point somehow. 

Now, here is the beauty of how this


interconnectedness works.

(Interconnectedness... is that even a word?)

By working to improve the other two areas of your life


(health and wealth) you can also work to improve the
lagging area of your life (relationships.)
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So, while it may be true that something negative that
happens in the relationship aspect of your life can
negatively impact the other two areas it is also true
that something positive happening to the other two
areas of your life can positively impact the
relationship area of your life.

Do you see how it works both ways?

Here's the coolest part,

You have already demonstrated that you are working


hard on the "relationships aspect" by buying this
product.

So, all you have to do to really create a trifecta of


awesomeness (man I am on fire with these words
today) with your life is to improve the other two areas
of your life.

But how can you improve the other two areas of your
life?

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Raise your hand if you have ever heard this quote
before,

"When you look good, you feel good and when you feel
good, you do good.”

I tried looking up where this quote originated from


but I couldn't find out where.

I got tons of results from Maria Sharapova (tennis


superstar) to Georges St. Pierre (UFC superstar.)
Where the quote originated from doesn't matter.

All that matters is what it stands for.

When I look at my own life there is a definite


correlation to looking good, feeling good and
confidence.

For example, whenever I go through a hard workout I


always feel really good about myself. I feel like I
accomplished something.

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This feeling of accomplishment creates a certain
amount of confidence in myself and that confidence
is essential to my well being. 

In fact, without it I would probably be a shell of


myself.

The point I am trying to get at here is that if you feel


like you look good then you are going to have more
confidence in yourself and right now confidence is
something you definitely need more of.

We are going to rebuild you from the ground up into


something incredible but in order for that to happen
you need a bit of a boost of confidence right now and
the best way to do that is to look at the factors you
can control and your ability to look good is a factor
that you are able to control.

So, during this no contact rule I want you to hit the


gym like you never have before.

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I would also like you to clean up your diet so you not
only feel good about what you are eating but your
body begins to transform into something special.
So, what I am asking you to do essentially is to get
into the best shape of your life.

We are going to be focusing on turning you into the


best version of yourself. 

The coolest thing about what I do is that sometimes


women who purchase my products get back in touch
after they have completed the process so I get to hear
their results. 

Last year there was a woman who emailed me one


day telling me that she took my advice of improving
her fitness and she lost over 100lbs!

I was extremely honored to have made such an


impact on her that she was willing to put in the hard
work to completely transform her body for the better.
A couple of things before I move on to wealth.

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I realize that I am talking to women here and women
tend to be more developed emotionally than
physically and what I am asking you to do is a very
physical thing.

So, as an attempt to keep you in line I am going to lay


down a challenge for you.

I want you to work out 6 days a week.

YES, 6 days a week I want you to find a minimum of


an hour to exercise.

I want you to bring an iPod, iPhone or some type of


mp3 player to listen to the music of your choice and I
want you to go to the gym alone. 

Why?

Simple, because when women go to the gym in


groups they don't get any exercise done. Instead, all
they do is sit around and gossip.

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For the two weeks (and hopefully longer) you are my
student and I actually want you to be productive with
your workouts.

This is a time to transform your body so get to it!


Now, if you are already a big gym rat then just up the
intensity of your workouts even more. I want you to
get in the best shape of your life.

That is the point I am getting at here.

Alright, lets move on to wealth.

How To Have A Positive Impact


On Your Wealth
I wanted to start with the health aspect of your life
because it's the easiest of the three aspects to
control.

The second easiest aspect of your life to control is


wealth but it's not like you have full control of it all the
time.

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For example, and I realize that this is a horrible
example, but lets pretend that you work at
McDonald's and you have a goal of becoming a
manager by the end of the year.

Well, technically you don't have to FULL control over


whether you get promoted or not, your boss does.
However, you are in control of the extent that you can
influence your boss to give you that promotion.

How do you do that?

By becoming the best at what you do.

Look, women are always asking me,


"What should I do to take that next step to being the
ungettable girl?”

So, when I tell them, “focus on your job,” it isn't a very


popular answer.

All I am asking them to do is to try to have a positive


impact on the wealth aspect of their life.

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Lets talk a bit about becoming the best at what you
do.

What do you think I mean by that?

Its rather simple.

Rather than giving a mediocre effort at your job do


the best job you possibly can. Give it your all.

If you are a fry cook then become the best possible


fry cook that you can.

If you are a sales woman then become the best


possible sales woman you can.

What I would like to do now is end with a personal


story from me.

It's the story that led me to you actually.

You see, my website, www.exboyfriendrecovery.com


wasn't my first venture into the world of making
money online.
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Nope, I had created 16 websites before and all of
them were pretty much utter failures. 

Would you like to know the difference between those


16 failures and Ex Boyfriend Recovery?

The difference is that with Ex Boyfriend Recovery I


started giving my all into every single post I wrote and
people responded to my advice.

I truly strove to create the best online resource for


women trying to get their exes back and I had a major
success on my hands.

And it was all made possible because I showed up


every day and tried my very best.

100% of my effort!

All I am asking is for you to do the same with your job


and you might be surprised by how much your wealth
grows.

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Chapter 3: Creating An
Ungettable Girl Avatar

Do you know what an avatar is?

If you are guessing the James Cameron movie with


blue people then you are wrong.

Typically when businesses do research on customers


they create an avatar or,

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“A made up person of an ideal customer.”

Once they have created an avatar of their ideal


customer they can figure out how to sell to that type
of customer.

Well, what I have decided to do today is to create an


avatar for the ideal UG.

Why is this important?

Because, once we have this avatar created it will give


you something to strive towards. It will give you a
game plan for success.

You will be able to sit back and think to yourself,

“Ok, here is what I personally need to do to become


the ungettable girl.”

Lets get started!

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A man is sitting at a bar with a couple of friends
talking about the three big things that men talk about,
sports, women and work.

When in walks a woman.

Immediately upon seeing this woman the man is


captivated.

Avatar Quality One- The Looks


You didn’t think the UG would be ugly did you?

Of course not.

Men at their core are very visual creatures so it makes


sense that they are going to be drawn to pretty
women like women are drawn to sparkly rings.

Now, I am sure I am going to take a lot of flack for this


but you are not paying me to be nice to you. You are
paying me to make sure that you become an UG.

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Whoever told you that looks don’t matter to men is a
complete liar.

Of course looks matter to men.

Hey, I am a man and I can tell you that looks matter to


me.

Let me give you an example.

If you were to put two women in front of me where


everything was identical about them.

They had the same color eyes…

They had the same personality…

They were even wearing the same close…

Everything is identical about them except for one


thing.

One of them weighed 300lbs and one of them


weighed 110lbs.
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Which one do you think I would be more likely to
date?

Hint Hint… It’s not the big one.

Again, I want to reiterate.

LOOKS MATTER TO MEN.

The UG is not an ugly woman.

Rather, she is drop dead gorgeous.

Think of Helen from the Illiad.

Do you know what I am talking about?

The Illiad is an epic poem composed by Homer way


back in 800-725 B.C.

The premise of the book is actually quite simple.

A prince of Troy, Paris stole Menelaus’ wife, Helen.


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It was said that Helen was the most beautiful woman
in the world.

So beautiful in fact that Menelaus and his brother


Agamemnon started a war over her.

She has since been dubbed as,

“The face that launched a thousand ships.”

Do you see what I am getting at here?

An ungettable girl is the most beautiful woman in the


room at any given time.

Lets move on to another quality of our avatar.

Avatar Quality Two- She Is


Wanted By Other Men
I am going to tell you an amusing story.

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Well, I am sure it will be amusing to you (it’s still not
amusing to me though.)

Some of my more devoted fans know that I am a


married man.

Yup, sorry if I just broke your heart.

Anyways, before I was married to my wife and we


were in the “talking” phase of our relationship I did
what any man in my position would do.

I Facebook stalked her.

Hey, I had to know what I was getting myself into.

So, what do you think I found when I went on to her


profile?

Well, she was a lot more popular than I had imagined.

She had a lot of happy/fun photos out with her


friends.

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Heck, she even had quite a few photos of her out with
guys… (which is the part I did not find too amusing.)

I’ll admit, I was a little bit scared when I saw all of this.

I am a very introverted person by nature and I


perceived her as very extroverted.

Why?

Because she had a ton of social proof.

She looked so popular based on her photos.

Especially with other guys…

I remember looking at those photos and thinking to


myself,

“She must play around with mens feelings for a living.


I need to be careful around her.”

Then an interesting thing happened.

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The more and more I got to know her and the more I
began to develop feelings for her the more the
pictures of her and other men began to annoy me.

What I am about to say I have never told anyone


before (not even my wife) because I am a little
embarrassed about it.

I eventually became so jealous of those pictures with


her and other guys (after I had developed feelings for
her) that any time I would do a workout I would pull
up those photos on my phone and use them as
motivation.

You see, in my mind I figured that I had to be better


than these guys she had pictures with.

For example, I would be doing push ups and then


after my set was completed I would walk over to my
phone, pull up the pictures with her and a guy and it
would make me so angry and focused that I quickly
ran over and cranked out 25 more push ups.

It actually made for some great workouts.


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Truthfully when I look back at that time I think the fact
that she garnered so much attention from other men
made me look at her as a very high value woman.

After all, a little rivalry between men over a woman is


never a bad thing if you are the woman.

The more and more I think about it the more I realize


that this is an ungettable girl quality.

Avatar Quality Three- She Always


Leaves A Man Wanting More
The ungettable girl is a master of employing the
zeigarnik effect.

In other words, she always leaves a man wanting


more.

I talk a lot about this a lot in my (insert product link)


but I think it’s best if I give you an example here first.

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Lets say that a man is texting an UG and the two of
them are having a very nice conversation back and
forth with each other.

Well, an UG never gets too caught up in a


conversation until a man has proven himself to her.

What do I mean by proving himself to her?

I mean committing to her.

So, what does the UG do when she is texting in this


instance?

She simply ends the conversation by not responding.

For example, if the two of us are 12 text messages


into a conversation and the last text I send to you is,

“What do you think of that?”

This would be the opportune for you to slip out of the


conversation.

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If I send you a text message like that then you know
for a fact I am interested in a response from you. In
other words, I am going to sit there constantly
checking my phone for a response from you that is
never going to come.

It puts me in the role of the chaser as I have to chase


after you to get a response to my question.

This is the role that you want a man in.

Oh, and I haven’t even gotten to this best part.

This works like gangbusters over the phone.

Lets say that you and I are 20 minutes into a


conversation on the phone and things are going really
well between us. Then lets say that at 21 minutes into
the call you suddenly “have to go” because there is an
emergency but you promise to call me back.

Here is the kicker.

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Instead of calling me back like every other woman in
the world would do you do the exact opposite and
don’t call me back. Instead, you wait until the next day
and text me like nothing is wrong.

No man ever has this done to him so he can never


figure out how to handle it.

FYI this was done to me by my wife and I married the


damn woman.

So, it definitely works.

Avatar Quality Four- Flirt, Friend


Zone, Flirt, Friend Zone
This is a relatively new idea for me but I think it’s
genius if it’s implemented correctly.

I was thinking back to not just my experience with an


UG and my male friends experiences and I found a
trend between all the women who were “ungettable.”

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Guess what that trend was?

MIXED SIGNALS.

Yup, the UG knows exactly what to do to spin a man’s


head around.

Ok, lets imagine that a man is chasing after an UG and


clearly shows interest in her.

What kind of mixed signals does she give to him?

Lets say that she flirts with him first and makes him
think that he has a chance and then when he is really
hooked on thinking he has a chance with her she puts
him in the friend zone.

She does this process to him about three times over


and over again.

Now, you’d think if a woman did that to a man he


would eventually give up but I have found the
opposite to be true. In fact, I think that it actually
intensifies the feelings he has for her since men
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ultimately do like challenges (even though they would
never admit it.)

Speaking of challenges…

Avatar Quality Five- She’s


Ungettable
You are going to hear this a lot from me throughout
this training.

Men always want what they can’t have.

In fact, this quality is instilled in us at an early age.

Two boy babies are sitting in a playpen.

One of the babies is playing with a toy and after a few


minutes of picking it up and throwing it down he
grows bored of it and pushes it aside.

A few minutes later the other boy baby crawls over


and picks up the toy.

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He looks at it like it’s the most amazing toy he has
ever seen in his life.

It is at this point that the other baby begins to take


notice. Somewhere in this baby’s brain a singular
thought consumes him.

“I want that toy”

So, what does the baby do?

He throws a tantrum, pushes the other baby around


and takes the toy for himself.

Now, what just happened here?

Some people will point to jealousy.

The fact that the original boy baby saw the new boy
baby playing with “his” toy made him jealous and
want the toy for himself.

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While I am certain that is true on some level I think
that there is something deeper going on.

At the root of this original baby boy’s “jealousy” is the


fact that he realizes on a primal level that he can’t
have the toy anymore.

This quality follows the boy from childhood to teen to


when he matures into a man.

This “wanting what he can’t have” makes things more


appealing to him.

Ok, let me tell you a little story about myself now.

I am a 26 year old man (so you should know I am


mature.)

I am also married to a beautiful woman (you will find


out why that is relevant in a second.)

For Christmas my wife got me an amazing gift.

She got me a Bose Home Theater Sound System.


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This thing was super high quality. I mean, the day I
hooked it up it was so loud that I am pretty sure we
made the neighbors super angry.

AWESOME…

There was just one problem

It was too high quality.

My TV didn’t have all the connections needed to make


the system sound perfect.

So, what did I do?

I did what any self respecting male would do.

I used it as an excuse to buy a brand new TV.

Now, I had a very specific criteria in mind for what I


wanted to buy.

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I knew I wanted to buy something in the 55 inch range
priced anywhere from $800 - $1200.

Of course, being the guy that I am I had to see the TV


in person before I would make a purchase that big.

I went to quite a few places and sampled a lot of TV’s


and then I saw it…

It was glorious.

65 inches…

Curved…

4k HD…

EXPENSIVE…

It was everything that I had promised myself that I


couldn’t have.

But I wanted it.

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I wanted it so bad but I told myself that I couldn’t have
it.

After all, my max price range was $1200 and this baby
was $2100.

But then the devil on my right shoulder had my ear.

It was saying things like,

“You work hard. You deserve something like this.”

“Sure it’s expensive but this is the last big purchase


you will make in a long time (it wasn’t.)”

“It’s literally the nicest TV on the market. Other people


will come over and envy it and it will feel so good.”

It took a day in a half before I had convinced myself


that this oversized high quality and expensive TV was
the one I absolutely had to have.

All of a sudden I wanted the thing I couldn’t have.

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Pretty funny, right?

It gets funnier.

When I went to go to try to buy this TV they told me


that it was out of stock.

I looked at 3 different places and it was out of stock


everywhere I looked.

The only one that they had available was the $2700
version of the TV.

Essentially they tacked on an extra $600 for the ability


to play movies in 3D (which I could care less about.)

However, if we stick to our avatar quality of


ungettableness this was an even more ungettable TV
which tells you what?

I HAD TO HAVE IT.

So, I bought it.

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$2,700.

I went in with very specific criteria.

No more than $1200 and I came out $1500 over


budget.

Why?

Because I kept getting seduced by things I couldn’t


have.

Let this be a lesson on how men operate and why


some women get all the men.

Men always want the things they can’t have and the
UG is a master at accomplishing this.

Seriously, go back to avatar quality four in the email I


sent you yesterday.

Do you want to know why flirting, friend zoning,


flirting and friend zoning works?

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It works because an UG will trick a guy into thinking
he’s got a shot and then when he takes his shot she
carefully turns him down only to trick him into
thinking he’s got a shot again.

Every time this process repeats itself the man


becomes more and more invested in “winning her”
and as a result his attraction for her increases.

It’s like a good friend of mine said about dating.

The funnest part of dating (for a guy) is the “courting”


aspect.

If you play your cards right during this aspect you can
lay an incredible foundation for an incredible
relationship.

So, that’s it.

We have rounded out our avatar for the ideal UG.

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Chapter 4: Becoming “The
Avatar”

You remember what the very first ungettable girl


avatar quality was, right?

LOOKS!

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Well, today I am going to give you some insight into
how you can leverage looks to your advantage to be
attractive to any man.

But first I feel it’s important that I start things off with


a quick disclaimer.

**DISCLAIMER**
Some of what I say in this lesson is going to be pretty
brutal. I am sure I am going to receive a few emails
from women who are offended. You know what, if you
get offended by what I say here I am NOT sorry.

Why?

Because I know men better than you. Heck, I am a


man so everything I am saying here is very true (and I
have probably thought it at one point.)

If it offends you then all that tells me is that you are in


denial and refuse to accept the truth.

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In other words, I aim to misbehave here.

Hopefully you can take the heat!


**END OF DISCLAIMER**

Looks matter a lot.

Anyone who feeds you that BS line that “looks don’t


matter” has no idea what they are talking about.

This may be a little blunt but I am just speaking my


mind here.

Men do not find ugly women attractive.

Why anyone believes that they do is beyond me.

Look, I am a man (who is happily married) but I am


not quite sure that I would have married my wife if
she looked like bigfoot.

Heck, she says the same thing about me.

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I highly doubt I would have even gotten her to agree
to go on a date with me if I was unattractive.

It is unfortunate.

Personally I wish that more men would look on the


inside as opposed to the outside because when it’s all
said and done how a person is on the inside is what
keeps a relationship thriving.

But we aren’t hardwired that way.

The other day I was thinking about men and women


in general. Now, since I carry the Y chromosome my
view may not be super objective but I still think I have
a lot of insight to put forth here.

I think mother nature made women more attractive


than men on purpose.

Men are hardwired to be the hunters.

In other words, we have to hunt our women or in


modern times “court” them.
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Well, when women were created I am sure that they
were made more beautiful on purpose so that men
were forced to hunt for them.

Look at that, looks even mattered to mother nature.

I guess the main point I am trying to get at here is that


looks are important to men.

BUT..

They aren’t everything.

Have you ever heard the phrase,

“Looks get you in the door but personality keeps you


in it?”

This phrase is basically premised on the fact that men


are drawn to women for the way they look but when
it comes to the longevity of a relationship it is the
woman’s personality that keeps him around.

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In other words, initially a man is drawn to a woman’s
looks above all else.

Hmm…

How can I put this in a way for you to understand?

Oh, I know!

Three men are sitting in a waiting room at a doctors


office.

All of a sudden a beautiful woman walks by.

What’s the first thing that pops into these three mens
heads?

Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that they aren’t


sitting there wondering,

“What is her personality like?”

No, all three of those men are probably thinking


something like,
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“LOOK AT HOW HOT SHE IS”

This is scientifically proven.

I actually was reading an article the other day about a


test that was performed on men who were in the
company of attractive women.

Basically researchers decided to give a simple


memory test to a man by having him say his address.

Then they let him talk to an attractive woman.

Turns out he was so busy trying to impress this


beautiful woman (who he knew nothing about) that
he forgot where he lived (for a little while.)

The explanation?

Men can temporarily use up their cognitive resources


when trying to impress pretty girl.

In other words, LOOKS MATTER!


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Now, lets move on to a more interesting topic.

The UG and looks.

I mentioned that an UG is drop dead gorgeous.

For me this is the biggest compliment a woman can


get from a men.

Drop Dead Gorgeous > Beautiful > Gorgeous

There’s just one problem…

Not every woman is drop dead gorgeous.

I mean, if every woman was DDG (drop dead


gorgeous) then every woman would be the same and
would render the idea of a DDG woman useless.

So, since not every woman is DDG is it safe to assume


that not every woman can become an Ungettable Girl.

Not necessarily…
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While it is true that looks matter a lot they aren’t all of
the UG equation.

Remember, there are five other qualities that make


up an ungettable girl.

So, while some women reading this may not be as


genetically gifted as others that doesn’t mean that the
jig is up entirely.

It also means that they shouldn’t give up on their


looks entirely.

I am going to ask you to do something a little strange


but I want you to pause for a moment and go back to
one of the first emails I sent you.

You remember my work on the holy trinity right?

Health…

Wealth…

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Relationships…

Well, do you remember what category looks fall


under?

Health, right?

Being Wanted By Other Men


Have you ever watched a sitcom on television?

I am assuming you have.

During a sitcom you may notice that in the


background that there is a laugh track.

For example, a joke is told in the sitcom and then


after the joke a laugh track is played.

The idea behind it is that when the audience hears


the laugh track they will be more inclined to laugh
because they will feel they are among a group of
people.

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The history of a laugh track is actually quite
fascinating.

According to Wikipedia (which even though every


single academic professor berates I have found to be
oddly accurate) the first laugh track started all the way
back in 1946 on the radio.

Think about that for a moment.

The year after World War 2 is when the first instance


of a “laugh track” was recorded and it’s still going
strong today.

So, what does that tell us?

Well, the fact that big business like FOX, CBS and ABC
still haven’t thrown out the laugh track means that
they have found it to be extremely successful (STILL.)

Now, I know what you are wondering.

What the heck does any of this have to do with being


more attractive to a man?
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Well, being wanted by other men works very similarly
to a laugh track.

The more men that want you, or more specifically, the


more men that your “target” sees wanting you will
raise your attractiveness and make him more likely to
chase after you.

What it all really boils down to is social proof.

I can’t believe I am about to admit this but have you


ever heard of the PUA community?

PUA Community = Pickup Artist Community

It’s basically this community of nerdy/pathetic/loser


men who master the art of “picking up” women. In
fact, some of these nerdy guys end up becoming so
talented at it that there have been legendary stories
of them picking up celebrities.

Now, when it comes to gaining knowledge about


relationships I am not above anything.
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I want to provide the most useful information for my
audience and sometimes that means going outside of
the box.

I have to admit that the PUA community have some


pretty clever ideas.

In fact, some of those ideas were so good I even put


them into my system (insert product link)

One of those ideas was this theory of social proof.

Social proof is predicated around the fact that a


woman who sees a man surrounded by a lot of other
woman is going to consider that man higher value
and as a result it will raise his attractiveness.

Well, the more I sat there and thought about it I


realized that this is also true of men.

Men who see women surrounded by other men are


going to consider her higher value and as a result her
overall attractiveness will be raised.
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Think back to that story I told in lesson 3 about when I
met my wife for the first time and I was pathetic
enough to Facebook stalk her.

What did I do when I noticed that she had a lot of


pictures with other men?

I went absolutely ballistic with workouts trying to


become better than any men she had ever met
before.

Do you think I would have done that if she had a


conservative Facebook profile with no pictures of
other men?

NO WAY!

Now, would I have preferred her to have a plain jane


Facebook profile?

You bet.

However, I can tell you this.


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I wouldn’t have found her as challenging in that case.

The fact that I had “competition” for her meant that I


had to work extra hard to get her. In other words, I
had to invest more time into winning her.

More investment = More attraction

If you can get a silent competition going between two


men you will find some amazing things happen.

Of course, I am here to teach you and part of teaching


means that I have to show you what you need to do
to implement these ideas.

So, how the heck to you properly project an image


that you are wanted by other men?

Good question.

There are a number of ways.

First things first, you want to go on dates.


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Not a ton of dates but enough to where you can get
some good pictures out of it.

Why are the pictures important.

Well, you can post them to Facebook and to other


social media platforms. So, that means that any man
that you are trying to be attractive to whether it be
your ex, a co-worker or even a random stranger will
stumble across them and believe certain things about
you.

The image you are trying to project here is that you


have a lot of men hitting on you.

What’s the importance of this?

Simple, you are trying to create a sense of


competition. A sense that any man who tries to get
you is not going to have an easy time.

What’s our credo in this training?

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Men want what they can’t have?

Well, other men wanting you plays right into that.

Leaving Him Wanting More


(Locating The High Point)
Man, we are really getting up there now with these
“ungettable qualities.”

What is this?

The third quality so far?

Well, don’t snooze on me now because this one is a


biggie.

Leaving a man wanting more is an essential part of


becoming twice as attractive to him.

Have you ever heard of the ziegarnik effect?

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It’s this psychological principle that I try to instill in
women who are trying to get their exes back. In fact, I
talk a lot about it in my (insert product link.)

But more on that later.

For now all you have to know is what the ziegnarik


effect stands for.

Ziegnarik Effect = People remember uncompleted


tasks better than completed ones.

When I talk about leaving a man wanting more what I


am really talking about is leveraging the ziegnarik
effect to your advantage.

Hmm… perhaps before I go on I should talk a little


about the cliffhanger principle.

A long time ago someone came up with the genius


idea of implementing cliffhangers within TV shows.
They figured that since an audience had to wait an
entire week before the show ran again that they had
to do something to keep them hooked.
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Insert the Ziegnarik Effect.

Show runners soon began to realize that if they ended


every one of their shows on a cliffhanger or an
uncompleted task that their audiences were more
inclined to stick around for the next episode.

Remember, the ziegnarik effect states that people will


remember uncompleted tasks better than completed
ones.

What I want you to do is treat every interaction with


the man you are trying to attract this way.

Treat it like a very well written soap opera and every


time you leave his presence has to be like a
cliffhanger for him.

Why is this important?

Because a cliffhanger is going to leave him wanting


more and as long as he wants more of you he is going

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to find you ten times more attractive than any other
woman in his life.

But how?

How can you accomplish this?

First things first, you have to become a master of


locating the high point of every conversation.

I have found that every conversation is the same.

There is a beginning, a middle and an end.

However, between the middle and the end of a


conversation there is also what I like to call the “high
point.”

Locating the high point is important because it is


going to tell you when you need to exit the
conversation but more on that later.

Things can get really complicated when the venues of


the conversation change.
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For example, locating the high point in a texting
conversation is going to be a little different than
locating it in a face to face conversation.

The thing to remember here is that while it can be a


little challenging each venue has it’s high point.

Lets talk a little about locating the high point in each


venue.

So, there are three main venues I would like to cover


in today’s lesson.

1. Texting High Point

2. Phone Conversation High Point

3. In Person High Point

You know what… I just realized I haven’t even properly


defined “the high point” for you.

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The High Point = The point in a conversation where
the conversation can’t get any better. Both
participants in the conversation are stimulated to the
point where they don’t want the conversation to end.

Ok, so now that you have grasped what the high point
is and all of that good stuff lets talk about locating it
for a texting conversation.

Locating A Texting High Point


I wanted to start off by talking about the texting high
point because it is probably the most challenging to
locate.

Why?

Texting is less personal than a conversation on the


phone or in person where you can hear the emotion
in someones voice or you can actually see their facial
expressions.

Texting is more robotic.

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However, I believe I have worked out a very effective
formula for locating the high point in a texting
conversation.

The formula is,

High Word Count + Good Emotion = The High Point

Imagine that we are texting back and forth and you


begin to notice that the word count of my text
messages are on the rise and there is a lot of positive
emotion behind them.

Now, lets say that the next three texts are just like this
(high word count + good emotion.) Well if you get a
string of these type of texts then you have probably
hit the high point of a texting conversation.

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Locating A Phone Conversation
High Point
I have found that locating a high point in a phone
conversation is all about emotion.

Ironically, it’s about your emotion.

Usually if you are having a really good conversation


with someone and you think to yourself,

“Wow, I really don’t want this to end.”

Then you have hit the high point of that conversation.

In other words, feel it out.

Trust your feelings on this one.

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Locating An In-Person High Point
Locating the high point here is essentially the same as
the phone conversation above.

If you are sitting on a date with a man thinking,

“I don’t want this to end”

Then welcome to the high point of an in-person


conversation.

It’s ironic, I feel like I am some sort of Jedi master


telling a padawan to “trust her feelings.”

Ok, I let a little bit of the nerd out.

Anyways, once you identify the high point in a


conversation it’s your job to end the conversation
immediately.

Why?

Well, there are two main reasons.

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Reason 1 = It Leaves Him Wanting More

The ZE strictly states that people remember an


uncompleted task better than a completed one.

What’s more uncompleted than a conversation that


abruptly ends?

Essentially what happens when you abruptly end the


conversation at the high point is it puts a man in a
position where he is going to wonder what happens
next.

Much like a good TV show that gets him hooked.

I can’t tell you how many times I have watched a TV


show and then at the end of the show I literally
SCREAM in disappointment because right as it was
about to get good the show just ended.

In other words, I want more.

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You will achieve this affect in a man if you
continuously end the conversation at the high point.

Of course, by ending conversations at the high point


you will also achieve something else,

Reason 2 = It Puts A Man In A Position To Chase


After You

Lets stick to the TV example I just gave above.

What do you think I do when a TV episode ends on a


cliffhanger?

I GO CRAZY TRYING TO FIND OUT WHAT HAPPENS


NEXT.

In other words, I chase after an answer.

Well, hypothetically lets say that you are talking to a


man and the two of you are having a very pleasant
conversation. During this conversation you correctly
identify the high point and abruptly end the
conversation with him.
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Now, identifying the high point and leaving the
conversation at that point leaves him with a strange
feeling.

He throuoghly enjoyed talking to you and can’t


understand why the conversation ended so quickly.

“I want more of the feeling I felt with her when we


were talking” he thinks to himself.

So, what does he do?

He chases after you.

He tries to start a conversation with you in any way he


can imagine all because he needs that awesome
conversation completed.

Here’s where things get interesting though.

If you keep interrupting the conversation at the high


point by leaving it this creates this endless

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uncompleted task and for some reason humans just
can’t stand that.

The result = him constantly chasing you.

How To End The Conversation


Lets switch gears for a moment now and talk a little
about the proper way to exit a conversation after the
high point.

There are really two ways that come to mind,

1. Without Warning
2. With Warning

Each can be effective if used correctly. So, that’s what I


would like to talk about now. When and where do you
use these ways.

Lets start with the “without warning”

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Without Warning
Perhaps I should describe exactly what this way is
before I explain when to use it.

Imagine that the two of us are texting and you locate


the high point of our texting conversation. Well, once
you do this and I send a text to you (to continue the
high point) instead of responding like a normal
woman would do you take the opposite approach and
just not respond at all.

This is what I like to call ending the conversation


without warning.

I have found that it’s very effective through text


messages and sometimes on the phone.

I don’t think the text messages need too much


explaining but perhaps ending a phone conversation
without warning does.

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I would like to tell you a little story about something
my wife did to me that worked like gangbusters over
the phone.

For my wife’s birthday this year I ended up buying her


a new phone because her old one was so bad.

Seriously, this thing was so bad that you couldn’t even


send videos through text (which is a big deal now-a-
days.)

Oh, and lets not forget the dropped calls and the
horrible battery life.

There would be times where we would be talking for a


good hour and a half and then all of a sudden her
phone would just hang up on me.

Here’s the relevant part.

When this would happen I did what any person in my


situation would do.

I would just call her back.


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Unfortunately, her “battery had died” so when I would
call back I would be greeted by her voicemail.

Now, I know how it felt on my end.

I wanted so badly to talk to her and I felt helpless to


be able to do it.

BUT something good did come out of it.

It gave me an idea.

What if you were talking on the phone with a man


who you liked or who you were trying to get back (for
my “get your ex back” readers out there) and once you
located the high point you simply turned your phone
off.

While it may seem a little unethical at first to fake a


dead battery the results will be incredible.

That’s pretty much the only way I would end a


conversation on the phone without warning though.
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Lets move on and talk about ending a conversation
with a warning.

With Warning
Ending a conversation with a warning can be done
through texting, phone calls and in person
encounters.

This is basically when you are talking to a man and


you say something like,

“Hey, they are calling me back into the meeting but it


was great talking to you.”

Essentially you are warning the person that you are


leaving the conversation.

It is really important that the warning is the last text


or thing you say before you actually leave.

The only exception here is with an in-person


encounter.
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Lets pretend that you are on a date with a man and
you locate the high point of the date (see yesterdays
lesson for info on how to do that.)

Well, once you find this high point you want to say
something like,

“It’s been great talking to you but I have a dog at


home that needs to be fed.”

After this say your goodbyes and leave the date.

Here is the exception with an in person encounter.

You only want to do this on the first date with a guy.


After that you want the dates to slowly but surely get
longer and more romantic.

The idea here is that as his feelings grow for you the
length and intensity of the date grow until he can’t
take it any more and wants to commit to you.

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It takes a lot of discipline on your part but you are
definitely capable of it.

The Flirt/Friend Zone Method


Hypothetical situation…

Lets say that you really like a man and you think that
he likes you back. The two of you have been talking
romantically for a month.

Things are looking good in this hypothetical situation,


right?

WRONG.

No matter how hard you try you can’t seem to get him
to commit to you.

In other words, instead of you being the hunter you


are being the hunted.

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How can you turn this situation around and instead of
him being on the fence about you, you make him fall
for you so much that he asks you to be his girlfriend?

I would like to introduce you to the flirt/friend zone


method.

A couple of years ago I started noticing an interesting


trend on Ex Boyfriend Recovery.

I started getting a ton of questions like,

“My ex boyfriend friend zoned me..”

or

“I am afraid of being friend zoned..”

This got me thinking.

Everyone is frightened to death of being friend zoned


that they will do almost anything to prevent it from
happening (including acting really crazy.)

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In other words, how the women usually act on Ex
Boyfriend Recovery when they are afraid their exes
have friend zoned is how the men usually act in the
same situation.

So, how can we use this to our advantage when it


comes to attracting/re-attracting men?

Good question.

Well, the first thing you need to understand is the


basic principle that men want what they can’t have
(which I will teach you about in a lesson very soon and
you can recap in Day 5 of this training.)

The next thing you need to know is how to flirt.

What we are going to combine these two principles,

Flirting/Friend Zoning

It’s interesting.

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When you look at these principles apart they are polar
opposites of one another. However, when you put
them together they can work in tandem to really
ramp up the attraction.

This is going to sound nerdy but have you ever played


that video game “Mario Kart?”

Well, if you haven’t then bear with me here I promise I


will arrive at the point soon.

The premise of the game is actually very simple.

It’s a racing game in which classic nintendo characters


race against one another in these very exotic
locations.

When you are racing in the game there are these


certain spots on the track that are marked that allow
you to go faster.

In other words, if you hit these spots then you have


the potential to pass the person in front of you in the
race.
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Well, the flirting/friend zoning tactic I am about to
teach you is a lot like that.

It’s a power up that can propel a mans attractiveness


to you even higher that it already is.

However, that’s only if you implement it correctly.

This begs the question, how do you implement this


correctly?

Well, the first thing I need to teach you is how to


properly flirt.

How To Flirt
What do men like when it comes to flirting?

Rather than give you some long in-depth explanation


of what we like I am just going to give you a simple
list.

Sex
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Wit
Closeness
Admiration
Physical Touches

What I want you to do is leverage all of these in a very


clever way to your advantage.

Lets go down the list so I can teach you the proper


way to utilize all of these topics.

Sex
Nothing holds more power over a mans brain than
sex.

NOTHING.

Oh, and don’t let society make you think that it’s not
all about sex for a man because a lot of it is.

I know that may be shallow of me to say but hear me


out.

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Lets say that you had some sort of rare disease that
prevented you from having sex with anyone… EVER.

How many men do you think would chase after you?

Not many…

In fact, no man I know would.

The possibility of making sweet sweet love to a


woman is an underlying though every time a man
flirts with a member of the opposite sex.

The thought is there so lets use this to our advantage.

What I want to teach you about is what I like to call


the “sex joke” method.

Imagine you are talking to a man and sex somehow


gets brought up. Well, instead of cowering like the shy
person you are you decide that you are going to take
this head on and make a joke about sex.

This joke is going to accomplish something really big.


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It’s going to make him think,

“Wow, she must think about sex as much as I do. I


wonder if she has ever thought about me?”

The second you get him thinking,

“I wonder if she has ever thought about me?”

Is the second that his attractiveness raises for you.

Wit
Back when my wife and I were still in the “talking
phase” of our relationship there was something that I
noticed that she did really well.

She was incredibly witty when we would flirt back and


forth.

A perfect example of this occurred when I sent her a


“cuddle application.”

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Perhaps I should explain this a little better.

I pride myself on being witty.

So, one day I came up with the ingenious idea that I


would send her a “cuddle application.” It was basically
this silly picture I found online of an application you
would send in to a place you would want to work
except instead of work related questions they were
cuddle related.

For example, there were questions like,

“Will there be pillow fights?’

or

“What are your five favorite movies?”

or

“Will there be an opportunity for kissing?”

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Essentially this was an application that you would
send to someone who you were considering cuddling
with.

Get it?

Well, I thought I was some super clever flirter when I


sent this thing to her. However, her wit was what
really won out in the end.

Instead of telling me I was funny or something


generic like that she went out of her way to print the
cuddle application out, fill it out and send it back…

I was floored when I got her text back with the


application filled out.

I don’t know why but her wit made me ten times more
attracted to her in that moment.

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Closeness
Hmm… how can I explain this one?

Ok, usually you hear about women who need to feel


“close” to a man. However, men need to feel “close”
too.

Don’t ever discount that fact.

The best way I can think of taking advantage of this


flirting tactic is to bring up things you haven’t done
together yet (or if you previously dated) bring up
things that you had done together.

Since I am assuming most of the people reading this


training are indeed trying to win their ex back I am
going to use an example of bringing up things that
you have done together as a couple.

Think back to a time where you had a great time with


your ex significant other.

What I want you to do is to bring that up to him.

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For example, my wife just recently treated me to a
surprise trip to Times Square in New York City for my
birthday.

Now, this meant a lot to me because of how badly I


have wanted to go there my entire life.

Seriously…

She got us a five star hotel overnight in Times Square


and we explored New York City.

It was amazing and it made us feel closer together.

This is the perfect type of memory for bringing up to


manufacture that closeness.

Admiration
How many times have I told you in this training that
men love to feel wanted or needed by women?

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(I honestly have no idea but the point I am trying to
get at here is that they DO LOOOOVE It)

What you want to do here is thrown in subtle


compliments here and there.

NOT ABOUT LOOKS THOUGH…

At least at first.

You don’t want a man to think he’s hot sh*t until later
down the road.

First you want to start complimenting him on his


intelligence and slowly move up the value ladder.
Eventually you can end up complimenting his looks
but that’s the last thing I would do.

Start off with something very basic and slowly move


your way up the value chain.

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Physical Touching
This is the kind of flirting that can only be done in
person.

The way this works is pretty simple.

Every once in a while you are going to laugh and


slowly place your hand on his.

Quickly hug him…

Grab his hand…

Touch him on the shoulder…

Your a woman for gods sake… This is in your DNA.


You don’t need me explaining this to you.

Little touches is what we are shooting for here.


Enough to make him feel good and enough to make
him want more.

Get it?

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Good!

Friend Zoning A Man


There is a very specific way that I want you to friend
zone the man that you want to be more attracted to
you.

What’s the way?

You have to make him think that there is a small


chance that you can be more than friends while friend
zoning him.

How do you accomplish that?

Let’s do a little role playing to illustrate that.

Imagine that I have a crush on you and you have a


crush on me but I won’t take the next step of actually
committing to you.

So, you decide to try the flirt/friend zone method.


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Specifically you are interested in the friend zoning
part because it is admittedly a little tricky.

Why?

Because if you don’t do it correctly you could make a


man think he doesn’t have a chance with you at all.

What we are trying to accomplish is for him to be


disappointed and discouraged but still hold on to the
hope that he can have you.

I am constantly advising women to treat him like you


would a gay best friend.

You can’t be open with him like you would a boyfriend


though.

For example, lets say that you are going to move out
of your apartment into a bigger one and you need
some help with the move. So, you decide to call me
up and ask me to help.

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Now, since I am the great guy that I am I agree to do
so.

When moving day finally comes I drive over to your


apartment, knock on your apartment door and you
answer the door and let me in.

That’s when I see it….

You have invited over a few of your other guy friends.

Now, making the drive over to your apartment I was


thinking,

“She must really be into me. I mean, she invited ME to


help her move.”

Of course, upon seeing the other men at your place


helping you move as well I begin to think,

“Wow, I guess I am just one of these guys to her. I


guess I am not as important to her as I thought.”

WELECOME TO THE FRIEND ZONE!


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What’s next?

Combining Flirting/Friend Zoning


No one really talks about this but I think flirting is the
perfect compliment to friend zoning.

As I just described above, friend zoning kind of takes


the life away from a man. It makes him think,

“I don’t have a shot with her anymore.”

Flirting on the other hand restores that hope.

So, when you combine the two together an


interesting thing begins to happen.

A man goes through a rollercoaster of emotions all


resulting in him being more attracted to you.

Why?

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Because the more he gets sucked back into your web
the stronger he is going to feel for you because the
more he has invested into your relationship.

Thus, the flirting/friend zoning method is premised


behind two ideas.

1) Men want what they can’t have (Friend Zoning


accomplishes this.)
2) The more he has invested into a relationship
the stronger he feels (Flirting accomplishes this)

Lets do another role play to describe how to properly


combine this method so a mans attractiveness for
you skyrockets.

Lets pretend that the two of us are talking to each


other and from the get go I am not that into you.

It’s not that you are unattractive or anything like that


but you are just not very interesting to me.

Of course, since I am AWESOME you are totally into


me and you want me to ask you to be my girlfriend.
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As a result, you decide to employ the flirting/friend
zone method.

Action 1- You start by flirting with me.

Result 1- I start to grow more intrigued by you (but


not enough to warrant a commitment)

Action 2- You friend zone me in a small way

Result 2- My ego takes a hit since I was under the


belief that you liked me. Your value to me has risen.

Action 3- You flirt with me again

Result 3- I am starting to see you as a worthy


candidate for dating (but not all the way yet.)

Action 4- You friend zone me again

Result 4- The feeling of not having you is wildly


attractive to me. I start to realize how much I want
you to want me.
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Action 5- You flirt with me once more

Result 5- I find myself happy that you are flirting with


me. I am in the beginning stages of falling for you so I
ask you out on a date.

Do you see how this method works?

Notice how slowly but surely my feelings for you grew.


They started off as almost nonexistent and then as
time went on (through employing the flirt/friend zone
method) they grew to the point where I was actively
seeking your approval.

Pretty cool, huh?

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Chapter 5: Becoming
“Ungettable”

I taught you about the holy trinity…

I created an UG avatar for you…

Heck, I even went down the list of those UG avatar


qualities for you one by one…

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But are these lessons enough to make you twice as
attractive to any man?

No…

Not alone at least.

I am a very big believer in synergy.

You know what synergy is, right?

Synergy- Two or more things working together to achieve


a result that the things alone could not.

Well, you need to look at these lessons as very


synergetic.

What do I mean by that?

Everything I taught you in these two weeks is meant


to work together seamlessly.

Still don’t get it?


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Ok, I will slow it down for you.

There are really two main categories that you can put
the things I taught you in this training into.

Category One- The Holy Trinity


Think back to lesson 2 & 3.

Remember all that stuff about health, wealth and


relationships and how you need to have these aspects
in perfect balance to become more attractive to a
man?

Category Two- The UG Avatar


How could you forget what I taught you all about in
lessons 4-13?

Essentially I created my version of the perfect


ungettable girl and really took an in-depth look at all
of the qualities that made her ungettable.

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In case you forgot those qualities were as follows,

• Looks
• Social Proof (Being Wanted By Other Men)
• Leaves A Man Wanting More
• Flirt, Friend Zone, Flirt, Friend Zone
• Being Ungettable (What I Am Teaching You In This
Lesson)

So, here is the interesting thing about all of this.

What separates the UG from the normal girl is the fact


that the UG can seamlessly weave all of these things
together.

For example, most girls are born pretty so men are


naturally drawn to them.

Right off the bat a girl who is born pretty is going to


have check marks next to the looks and social proof
columns…

But what about the other columns?

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What about the holy trinity?

The leaving a man wanting more?

The flirting/friend zone method?

Having a pretty face and being wanted by other men


isn’t going to be enough to attract a man so much
that he acts like a buffoon trying to get you.

No, the ungettable girl is truly set apart by her ability


to weave all of the aspects together.

In other words, she has all of the following,

• Has figured out how to master the health, wealth


and relationships equation.
• Has figured out how to improve her looks as much
as she possibly can.
• Knows how to accumulate social proof in the form
of other men chasing her.
• Knows how to identify the high points of a
conversation and leave a man wanting more.

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• Knows how to skyrocket his attractiveness with the
flirting/friend zone method.

All in all, she just knows how to be ungettable.

I know it sounds easy when I put it like that but if it


was easy every woman would be ungettable.

Figuring out the synergy between each of the things I


mentioned above requires time, discipline and a lot of
hard work on your part.

Look, I essentially gave you the road map to


becoming the ungettable girl.

All you have to do is implement the information I gave


you.

Of course, 90% of the women reading this won’t.

Prove me wrong!

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