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ISSUES:
1. What is Love?
2. What is the difference of Infatuation and Love?
3. Where does Love comes from? Who is Love?
Weigh every sentiment, and watch every development of character in the one with
whom you think to link your life destiny. The step you are about to take is one of
the most important in your life, and should not be taken hastily. While you may
love, do not love blindly. {Counsel on Courtship and Marriage}
Love Must Be Worked At
Love is a plant of heavenly growth, and it must be fostered and nourished.
3. It is in a Hurry 3. It takes Time Affectionate hearts, truthful, loving words, will make happy families and exert an
elevating influence upon all who come within the sphere of their influence.
{Counsel on Courtship and Marriage}
4. It is concerned with Internals True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. On the contrary, it is calm and
4. It is obsessed with External (Pangloob na ugali/karakter) deep in its nature. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities
(Panlabas na anyo) alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding.{AH 51.2}
See: 1 Samuel 16:7
5. It is Childish- ‘Give-me-
5. It is Mature
attitude’
{Adventist Home, Chapter 8} 1. Spiritual life/ Personal relationship with the Lord
2. Family relationship
3. Personality
4. Ambition
5. Health
6. Wealth
7. Culture
8. Age
D. What should a Young Man should look for in a Wife (Please see the reading C. What should a Young Man should look for in a Wife (Please see the reading
materials) materials)
E. What should a Young Woman should look for in a Husband? (Please see the D. What should a Young Woman should look for in a Husband? (Please see the
reading materials) reading materials)
ISSUES:
A. What are the factors that needs to be considered in making the right choice
of a marriage partner?
B. What are the questions that need to be asked to one self in making choice of
a marriage partner?
C. What should a Young Man should look for in a Wife?
D. What should a Young Woman should look for in a Husband?
Jesus Did Not Enforce Celibacy—Those who regard the marriage relation as one of
God’s sacred ordinances, guarded by His holy precept, will be controlled by the
dictates of reason.1 AH 121.1 Jesus did not enforce celibacy upon any class of men.
He came not to destroy the sacred relationship of marriage, but to exalt it and restore
it to its original sanctity. He looks with pleasure upon the family relationship where
sacred and unselfish love bears sway. {AH 121.2}
A. Factors