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I think a better name for this phenomenon would be dark night of the ego. This is
because the soul or spirit represents the deepest energetic layer of true self, and the cause
of this symptom has nothing to do with the soul. Rather the cause of this symptom is due
to one’s attachment to an energetic layer of ego. Ego as used in this article is a synonym
for ‘me’, my personality, bodily representation of self, how one views oneself or self-
image. Ego is held together through identification with physical manifest aspects of self
(that which we can observe or see), which exist at different vibration or energetic levels.
As we move through each level of transformation of self, we encounter the next vibration
level.
On our journey of awakening there are four dark nights of the soul and three
awakenings that happen between them, where each happens as one passes through the
stage of dropping identification with one of the energetic layers of ego. There is then the
4th stage of awakening at the end of the process which can be seen as full enlightenment.
The ego is held together from the three main ways that we attach to and identify with
manifested energetic aspects of self. The three layers that make up the ego and to which
we identify with are mind, emotions and body, where spirit is the base of all of them.
The journey to become our true self in body is like a healing of the personality,
which happens in reverse order of how these layers were laid down in the building up of
our personality. The first layer is cognitive (mental imprinting) which we learn
approximately from the ages of 3 to 26 years, to the end of physical growing of the body
and mind. The second layer is precognitive (emotional or fetal imprinting) which we
learn approximately from the ages of conception to 3 years, before we have highly
developed cognitive mind, and exist at a deep unconscious level. The last layer is the
physical body at the DNA level, which we amassed over many lifetimes and also has
ancestral imprinting influences due to our inherited genes from our mother and father.
2. We process internally thinking about what we have seen and ask questions about it.
We then decide what we want to do with it, of which answer to our question can come
either from inspiration or from thinking itself, depending upon our ability. Having made
the decision this forms our intention and direction for the use of our energy with action.
3. Once we have decided what to do, we need one more step and that is to use our will to
actually do it. With our idea and will to do it, intention gets set and energy follows our
focus. Energy charges move from the brain to the appropriate body muscles, allowing us
to move our energy from thought to feeling to action or doing in the external world.
4. We move and do the action and the desired thing is created in the physical world.
Being an individual, as personality in a body, one might say one is created as that
when one is born. To transform ourselves as we are in a body, we have to recreate that
body by ourselves using the same principles of how we create some other object. This
time the object we focus on is ourselves.
Each layer of personal transformation goes through distinct phases. First there is
identification or attachment with that layer of self. Due to this attachment misery and
dissatisfaction eventually becomes the norm and because of this pain one becomes ready
to give up another layer of attachment. At this point, you are on the verge of letting go of
identification with the ego layer you are hanging onto. How many of the four cycles you
will experience in your lifetime is not certain, it depends upon your starting point, from
all you have learned so far and your current state of evolution. One can spend an entire
lifetime in any one or these cycles.
Awakening
In the instant one truly is able to stop clinging, spiritual awakening or rising of
being happens, and a huge amount of energy you were previously holding in ‘tension’ as
that energetic form is released. A transformation process ensues which is being fueled by
this huge amount of energy, which is the biological aspect of awakening accompanied
with profound healing and spiritual reactions. One feels elated and joyous for many days
following the spiritual awakening. It is typical you encounter your true self as a spiritual
being and you feel fully awake. You normally experience many charismatic symptoms
such as tones, flashing lights, rushes of internal wind, numbness, tingling, going out of
body, insights, crystal clarity, visions, repressed memories, telepathy, hyper-hearing,
enhanced vision, loss in weight, elation, laughing, etc. The majority of these symptoms
are a side-effect due to a biological transformation process going on in your body which
is changing your nervous system including your mind.
Eventually, the big energy that was released appears to settle and one starts to feel
like normal again. But one is not the same; one now knows oneself as essentially spiritual
and through the process many revelations and insights have increased one’s knowledge
which one will never forget. With this deepening of the healing and a feeling of return to
normalcy, there is a growing sense that what was gained is now lost. It is typical that your
entire value system changes after an awakening event, due to new information you
receive. You reprocess everything known with the new information, and arrive at a new
set of values, you see everything differently. Because of this one tends to let go of
identification with all objects that were associated with the level you are going through. It
is normal that one loses interest in old friends, family values, geographical location,
money, possessions, beliefs, religious attachments, habits and career interest, to name the
most common.
The way to get through this most efficiently and with least amount of pain is to
seek center as much as you can, no matter which phase you are experiencing. The reason
this is so, is to know that changes are being done to the brain itself, and thus thinking and
feelings are very unreliable during this phase. The best thing to do is not to cling to the
edges – meaning the symptoms happening (that which is visible and formed), which
includes mind, emotions and body. One must seek center over and over to the space that
provoked this event and that which is the source of everything. Being as one with your
center, in your place of stillness, is like riding out the hurricane force that is happening
now in your body and mind, by staying safely in the calm center which is like the eye of
the hurricane.
There are many meditation tools that can help one go to center or achieve ‘quiet
mind’ state so as to ride out this storm. Which tools works for you are partly personal
preference, part experimentation and part what has worked for you in the past. Indeed
before the awakening happened you were able to achieve quiet mind state and be fully in
center, because that is how a surge in energy happens and what precedes an awakening
event. Try to do that again. To repeat, the most I can say about it is to know you can’t
trust your thinking and feelings at this point in time and to do everything you can to tune
them out and get quiet. The more you practice with meditation tools, the better you will
get at going to center, and the easier it will be to ride out this storm. On another note,
each dark night you pass through will require a deeper level of getting quiet.
As we drop identification with one object, it is still our nature to grab the next
one, the newest one, and so we do. This can be another long dark night, but not as long as
the previous one, each dark night gets shorter over time. After awakening one identifies
now with one’s spiritual aspect and tends to totally ignore one’s mind and emotions,
which results in creating a split in ones identity. This is very similar to what happens
when people go crazy, just with normal craziness one tends to identify fully with the
mind, while here it’s with the spirit. The split that is created, is one of non-reality where
one is not really in the world, rather one is floating on a pink and fluffy cloud of
spirituality which is not based in reality. One feels awake, one feels enlightened as one
knows they went through the previous steps, it all feels so real, but it’s not. This is a hard
phase to get out of, because one doesn’t trust the viewpoints of others. One doesn’t
believe others, because one feels special having awakened and tends to think they can see
better clearer than anyone else. If someone tells you that you’re acting crazy or irrational
you will tend to dismiss it.
Hopefully, luckily, the message gets through and you see the new split you’ve
created, you let it go and then come crashing down from the pink fluffy cloud you were
on back to earth and into the 2nd dark night of the soul. And you will cry harder than
you’ve ever cried before, but is this crying has a purpose it is releasing a ton of held
emotional energy, it is cleaning old beliefs and values, it is very healing. After that big
release of energy you will feel very spiritual. It’s like coasting downhill, as your
awareness is high and as long as you keep working at it, insights continue to come and
slowly you whittle away more cognitive layers of your personality and as you do your
awareness keeps rising.
4th dark night – dropping all identification, the physical death & transformation
When there is enough energy withdrawn from the old structure of personality, a
latent DNA growing instruction is triggered to start the growth of the new body. This
trigger point is what I call full blown kundalini awakening.
After a few months of preparatory nervous system changes to the body, then
eventually the changes move up through the chest and into the neck to make changes into
the physical structure of the skull and brain. The fourth dark night at its most intense is
experienced as a physical death. To be reborn in the flesh, you truly will have to die in
the flesh. When dying you gasp as you take your last breath of air and make gurgling and
choking sounds as the air is compressed out of you, as energy moves up the chest into
deep tissues of body. You will stop breathing when this happens, now the challenge is to
allow this death and go to center as the observer, knowing you are dying and allowing it.
All physical changes are made this way. You can only get through the 4th dark night with
a total physical surrender. But don’t worry when you reach this step you are strong
enough to do it, all you have done before has prepared you for this step. In this step you
are present as the observer, and of course you live through it… After you have passed
through the physical death, then you are at the end of being ‘this personality’. You will
never go back to having that personality in any future life, you are now well on your way
to growing the new structure which will serve you for the next part of your journey.
There is no going back, and no reason to do so.
Betsy
December 6, 2010