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Family
1. How often do you meet with your family?
I stay with my family. I meet my family members every day.

2. How do you spend the time with your family?

I spend time with family in many ways. We eat together, cook together, watch TV
together and do many things together.

4. Do you want to live with your family in the future?

Yes, definitely. My family is my life Even though I go to some foreign country
temporarily, I finally want to be with my family.

4. Are you close to all of your family members?

Yes, we are a very closeknit family.

5. How has your family influenced you?

My family has influenced me in many ways. We depend on each other for many
things. We guide each other from time to time and we do many things together.

Family:
•    Do you have a large family or small family?
I have a small family and there are only five members including my dad, mom,
younger sister, younger brother and I am (the eldest son of the family).
•    Tell me something about your family.
Well, as I said we have got five family members in our family including me. My
father is a Doctor and my hero. My mother is a school teacher and a loving and
caring person. We love our parents very much. My younger sister is in grade 7 and
she has got all the crazy and creative ideas and she shares most of her secrets with
me. My younger brother is studying mathematics at a university and he has got a
passion for playing football. He dreams to become a professional football player
someday though I have my doubts about it. I have recently completed my Bachelor
degree in Computer Science and have a plan to finish my Master degree from a
reputed foreign university. We are a happy family and share a strong bonding that
makes us care for each other a lot.
•    How much time do you manage to spend with members of your
family?
I usually try to spend most of the time with my family. But I cannot manage time
when I am out for my university. But after my return from the university, I do not
make any late to share the day-long events with the family members, especially with
my mom.
•    In what way is your family important to you?
Well, my family is the centre of my universe. My parents did everything humanly
possible to raise me up and ensure my education and well-being. Their sacrifices and
contributions for my life are unparalleled. I will always be grateful to be a member of
such a happy and caring family. My family members know me better than any other
person and they will always be with me no matter what. They are the people who had
always been with me and supported me every way possible. I believe that family
comes first and that’s why my family is the most important aspect of my life.
•    What sorts of things do you like to do together?
Frequently we watch movies in theatres and also go for some day outs during the
holidays. Actually, my dad likes a lot to go out with the family members when he is
free from his professional engagements. But my mum prefers going to the cinema
and thus we, the kids, are to settle the issues.
•    Did/Do you get well with your family? Why?
Yes, I get very well with my family members. They are supportive, positive,
intelligent and caring. I would not say that we never had any disagreement but that’s
usually momentary. Love is stronger among us and that conquers any
misunderstanding that might arrive among us. In fact, I am happy to be a part of
such a wonderful family. They love me as much I love them.
•    Who are you close to in your family?
I am close to every single family member in my own way. However, in terms of
sharing personal secrets and spending time, I am more close to my mother than my
father. My younger sister considers me her best friend and thus we have a unique
relationship.
•    Should we rely heavily on our families or is it better to try to be
independent?
I believe that being independent does not contradict our reliance on our family.
Every single person should be economically and personally independent at a certain
age and should be close to his/ her family at the same time. If being independent
means living separately and not having a strong relationship with the family, I do not
want such independence and freedom. We all possess unique personality and a
desire to be independent, but that should not harm our family relationship.
•    Do you get along well with your family?
Yes, I do get along well with my family members. We have a strong bond among us
and that makes us a happy family.
•    What is your special moment with your family?
Celebrations are remarkable, particularly the celebration of any special occasions
like a birthday, the anniversary of my parents or any special achievement by my
siblings etc. These events have so many special memories and we consider those
occasions as our special moments.
•    Are people in your country generally close to their families?
Most the people prefer to be with their families and do everything for the members.
But exceptions are everywhere. The people living just opposite of our apartment do
not have a strong bond among the family members and always engaged in
quarrelling with each other which is unwanted and indecent.