Beruflich Dokumente
Kultur Dokumente
Are We
More Than
This?
By Mark O’Flynn
So picture this, you are one of the oldest drink as the only reason to cross waters? standards. “Well yeah everyone always said
members of the Simpsons and you have a Some might find this as a humorous idea but that the Irish are really friendly and really
list of things to do before you die- what I decided to look into this further by asking chatty. It is quite easy to socialise with the
would be on this precious list though? Why a few of our foreign students in Griffith Irish. Going on a night out in Ireland is
to have one final drink in O’ Flanagan’s pub College about what they think of our world pretty much the same as going out back in
back in good ol’ Ireland of course! I am of famous drinking culture. England.” So how come when we think of
course talking about the much publicised England and its culture, drink would not be
episode of “The Simpsons” where America’s at the top of the list? One thing was still
I decided to start in the SU building,
most famous family travelled to taste a bit bothering me, so I asked “Anna, have you
where I came across two Chinese 2nd year
of Irish stout, better yet, culture. found yourself drinking more since you
accounting students (Grace and William)
came to Ireland?” “Oh yeaaahhhh!!”
who gave some insight on their thoughts of
I could not help but notice, however, that the Irish before they came here.
drink seemed to have been the only part Well so far I have gathered that the Irish
of our culture that was dominant in this certainly have the gift of the gab, and are
“Apart from educational reasons, why did
episode. Are we not known for anything good old drinkers but are we really so
you two come to Griffith?” I asked. “Well
else? How about our wonderful skills on one dimensional? I decided to ask Peter,
because Ireland is not as busy as Beijing.
the hurling field where champions all over from Slovakia, one of the employees of
Here it is much quieter. We also heard
Ireland have a final combat in our glorious Arthurs Bar “Well the history of Ireland
that the Irish are very friendly people and
Croke Park stadium to declare who the is very attractive. I find it very interesting
welcoming to foreign students.”
champion of the sport really is? Is that and, to me, it is something that would bring
recognised abroad? As also, there is our tourists over here. The scenery is also very
unique language that no one can ever take So far I gather that we are perceived as beautiful.” And our drinking habits? “Oh yes,
away from us – Gaeilge! “Tir gan teanga, tir an accommodating bunch that welcomes it is very bad with young people here and I
gan anam” (A country without a language, is different nationalities with open arms. Good think that it is getting worse.
a country without a soul) is the saying and to hear I thought! “We also knew that the
I believe that there is no greater truth than Irish like their beer very much and drink
We are a nation of drinkers. Am I ashamed?
that! But is this recognised in foreign places? much more alcohol than the Chinese.” I
Absolutely not. Am I a bit bothered? I’m
Most folk would say that people all over knew it was going to come out sooner or
afraid so. I am of the opinion that we, as
the world are very aware of our country’s later. “And have you drank more since the
people, should be known for something
history, but I have to disagree with that. two of you arrived in Griffith?” Both Grace
more than just drinking. What about the
and William looked and each other and
Arts? We have writers such as Oscar Wilde,
laughed ashamedly.
Recently, I had the pleasure of going on a Seamus Heaney and our very own Griffith
ski holiday to celebrate the New Year, and College graduate Cecelia Ahern. As well
on my last night, I went out with a group of Looking for my next victim of questions I as that, we have U2 and actors such as
people who were very welcoming. “Slainte!” wandered around the Halls of Residence, Brendan Gleeson and Liam Neeson.
we shouted every time we had another when all of a sudden a very non Irish accent
round of Bier and they became enthralled bursts into the air “Cup of Yorkshire tea
So can their body of work come out on
with this new word that I thought them. “Is Mark?” I look up to see Anna Topham from
top in our cultre list? Maybe not in the near
that an English slang word or something?” Yorkshire waving out her kitchen window.
future….but in the mean time…..SLAINTE!
asked Stefan from Holland. I then decided to
start throwing more Irish at him, convinced
While sipping her brewing Yorkshire tea,
he would eventually recognize my native
Anna is in a pensive mood, trying to recall
tongue. However, he had never heard of
her reasons for studying in Ireland. Having
Irish and assumed that the Irish only spoke
no knowledge of Irish history, she was really
English. “Isn’t that a shame” I thought to
diving headfirst into the unknown. But did
myself,
her fellow people tell her anything about us
Irish before she arrived on our shores? “Oh
My point is, will we ever exceed beyond yeaaah! They said that the Irish are well into
our stereotypical drinking culture? Is it our their partying so I should have a great time!
imaginative Guinness ads that represent The drinking reputation is unreal over here”
us abroad as a nation that is only good at
one thing? And why is it that when a world
But did she have any idea of what the Irish
famous cartoon series gets the opportunity
were like apart from our high drinking
to explore our culture, they have to use
“My school did a very good job of wasn’t a great joy to them (her school). I you sitting down? Because you’ve got Pan’
convincing me that I was stupid and would just assumed that I ought to get on with and I was left thinking ‘now I’m going to
never amount to anything” muses Geraldine fairly menial jobs and confine writing into have to write it’ (laughs). I knew instantly it
McCaughrean over tea and crumpet. being a hobby. So I lacked that drive to was going to be not only the biggest, most
Born and raised in Enfield, North London, get published”. Would a more supportive important book of my career but that it was
McCaughrean sits up straight in front of teaching staff have helped nurture and going to invite hatred and loathing from lots
me after almost twenty years of being a full develop her budding talent? “I don’t know of people for different reasons.”
time writer. She is incredibly well spoken. if it would have made any difference” she
Born the third youngest to a fireman of a ponders, “in the long run it’s always luck When did the inevitable pressure hit her?
father and a mother who was a teacher, when you get that first novel published. It “I was looking forward to the prospect
McCaughrean has gone from strength to would have been nice to set out with that of writing it until I started doing the
strength and defied her critics since giving burning ambition to do something and the newspaper interviews and without fail they
writing all of her time in 1989. belief that I was capable of doing it.” would say ‘It must be very daunting to be
treading in the footsteps of J.M Barrie’.
She has written over 140 books for children Everyone wanted me to say it (writing the
and adults won the Carnegie Medal,
Whitbread Children’s book award (3 times) “My school did a very story) was daunting and difficult but really it
was quite fun.”
and the Guardian Children’s Fiction award good job of convinc-
among other things. So would this shy “It’s a great scenario, the whole Neverland
cockney lass, who went so far without the ing me that I was stu- set up and they’re very interesting
support of her teachers, change anything? characters, all of them. I would have found
pid and would never it quite difficult to do with two dimensional
“I wouldn’t change my chosen career, I just amount to anything” characters, Famous Five, Secret Seven
would have started earlier and with more something like that. But actually Peter is a
confidence” she offers. “In comparison very interesting, evil little toad some of the
to my brother and sister admittedly I time.”
In 2005 Geraldine McCaughrean put the
final nail in the coffins of all of her doubters McCaughrean’s Pan tale, ‘Peter Pan in
when she was selected by Great Ormond Scarlet’ was widely critically acclaimed
Street hospital to write the first sequel to and has been read in the deepest darkest
J.M Barrie’s Peter Pan in over 100 years. I corners of the land. At what point was the
of course, like every journalist, wanted to shy girl inside the author drowned out by a
know how McCaughrean dealt with the mature, imaginative, storyteller who had the
legacy of J.M Barrie. How did she feel when confidence to take on a challenge as big as
she heard this career altering news? How Peter Pan.
did she go about writing a new story with
these characters, when Barrie’s tale seemed “I don’t know that I ever gained the
so stitched up? confidence” offers McCaughrean before
pausing for a sip of tea, I’m still left with
So much to ask, where should I begin? The that feeling that someone is going to tap
beginning is always a good place. Getting me on the shoulder and say ‘your not a real
selected must have been an incredible author ‘cos your not clever enough, your
honour….. “It was an honour, it was a gift. not an academic are you? You’re not even
I only went in for it in the way that you well read’”. McCaughrean admits that she
do when you go in for competitions in a struggled to hold an interest in books while
newspaper, which is quite literally what I growing up, how did she compensate for
did. And I got this telephone call to say ‘Are this in her bid to write professionally?
Drugs are popular among the rich and famous but they are even over the past months. One centre has reported that the number of
more among the poor and the down and out. Drugs to some are people seeking help for crack cocaine addiction has doubled over the
just about having a good time and flaunting how much spare cash you past year. If Ireland is to remain known as the green country we must
have but to others they are the only thing that keeps them going and ensure the streets do not become tainted with the red and white
it seems that even when times are tough the drugs business is among of blood and drugs. With countless families already tormented by
the very few that continue to thrive. financial troubles this is yet another obstacle over which they must
come.
Well Circular has searched around and found the answer to all
your fashion problems.
Just check out the prices of these gorgeous dresses and get your-
self down to the Irish Cancer Society Shop on Camden Street.
Inter-railing is fast becoming a rite of pas- There is also the likelihood that you may straps begin to chafe their skin in the
sage for many students. It is up there with miss a train, or get off at the wrong stop and burning heat. The key is not to over pack.
travelling to Thailand and a year in Australia. have to pay €60 to stay in a hotel in Dres- Bring three-quarter lengths, light tops and
Its popularity resides in the fact that you den. It is impractical to have every hostel comfortable shoes, but also bring a heavy
visit so many countries in such a short time, booked, as one delay could result in your jumper and rain jacket. Remember you can
making great new friends and consuming carefully constructed itinerary becoming a wash your clothes so you don‘t need a new
vast amounts of the local tipple along the mess. Before you go, only book very popular outfit for each night.
way. For those under 26, unlimited rail trav- hostels that are likely to fill up in advance, or
el around 30 countries from Austria to Tur- one in a very busy area. It is generally easy If you travel on the night trains, a supple-
key will cost €309 for 22 days, and €399 for to find a hostel on the internet a couple of ment will apply for bunks or couchettes.
a month. Unfortunately for mature students, days in advance, which is fine. Alternatively there are compartments with
the price is €469 and €599 respectively. The three seats on either side,that you can lie
average hostel is €20 per night, and you can across if it is not too busy. Police check
survive very comfortably on €50 spending passports at borders and conductors have
money a day for food and alcohol. A month to check your tickets every few hours so it
costs a maximum of €2500, including the rail won’t be the best night sleep you have ever
ticket. had. Beware of thieves on trains, especially
in Italy and Eastern Europe, as there are
a lot of horror stories. It’s a good idea to
“.. the hardcore backpack- buy a money belt and keep passports and
ers look at you in disdain, money etc in it, and sleep with it under your
clothes. For some trains a reservation is
and others give you frighten- necessary and high speed trains also require
a supplement which is about €8.
ing glares of hatred as their
shoulder straps begin to The most important thing to bring is a
digital camera with substantial memory, and
chafe their skin in the burn- preferably someone you get on well with. It
ing heat. “ may seem like a good idea to go in a group
of ten, but its very difficult to please every-
Once your ticket is paid for, it’s time to one and after a couple of weeks tensions
start planning where to go. There is so much can run high and you may be tempted to
choice and it is impossible to go every- throw certain people into the Seine or the
where. Research what each place has to Vltava River.
offer and then make the tough decision of
what to leave out.You should definitely find The worst thing about inter-railing is that it
how long it takes to get to each destina- It is important not to try fit too much in, can be a bit stressful figuring everything out,
tion, because the distance from Rome to although it is hard when you want to go and that you may want to kill your travel
Bari may look very short on the map, but everywhere. It is better to cut back and stay companions at times. But the good cancels
don’t be deceived as it takes about 8 hours. at least three days in the majority of places. the bad when you get that smug feeling
‘Lonely Planet’s Europe on a Shoestring’ is Don’t forget you can always leave early if after finding the right train and locating your
the backpacker’s bible, and will make your you’re not impressed and go somewhere hostel in a strange country, which makes
trip a lot easier as it has so much helpful else. That is the magic of inter-railing! you feel like a seasoned professional. Or
information. A backpack is a necessity. If you’re really when you realise that you have just seen
clever, you’ll invest in one with wheels. It is the Eiffel tower, the Berlin Wall and Dachau
It is impossible to plan every detail of the worth the money and you’ll be the envy of concentration camp in the space of a week,
trip, as inter railing doesn’t work like that. everyone else weighed down by their pack. or when you have a list of new friends from
You may fall in love with one place and stay The only downside is feeling like a bit of an New Zealand, Canada and Chile and have
another night (or three in some cases!) or amateur when the hardcore backpackers been on three bar crawls in three differ-
you may meet up with fellow backpackers look at you in disdain, and others give you ent European cities and that you still have
and decide to make a detour with them. frightening glares of hatred as their shoulder another two to go!
Have you ever thought of combining help young journalists tackle the problem of person should go through it. Because of the
travelling with the relevant professional communicating with other young specialists people, fun, freedom, beauty, ideas, design,
experience and making important contacts in the industry and making some important songs, collaboration. EASA is everywhere.
while all the time partying and taking in the contacts, while learning something new and It’s an absolutely ideal community, you
atmosphere of a foreign country? up-to-date about their profession. know, through the course of life EASA
people support each other.”
If this sounds exciting and new to you, then FEJS hold a conference that takes place in a
look no further. different country each year. Over a hundred If you always wanted to set up a business
students join a five day session during or perhaps have one on its feet already,
At first, abbreviations such as FEJS,YP, which they have meetings with high echelon then Young EU- Russia forum welcomes you
EASA,YEUR, ERA (AEL) may seem as journalists and have fun at some of the on board. This organisation was set up to
obscure and irrelevant as they come, but numerous workshops and parties. provide a platform for young businessmen
in reality. nothing could be further than the from across west and east Europe and
truth. They are words in the vocabulary of At the same time, EASA brings together,
Russia to have serious debates on the
the language that every ambitious young now prepare yourself, almost five hundred
current issues that they face every day
businessman, journalist, architect or lawyer architecture students from around the
when they deal with taxation office, banks
should be fluent in. world for one month every year. Any ideas
administration or labour unions.
of luxury can be thrown out the window
They stand for Federation for European for these students as they spend their days A young entrepreneur from Russia
Journalism Students (FEJS),Youth Press (YP), leading a backpacker’s lifestyle, sleeping in describes what his experience with Young
European Architecture Students Assembly tents, eating food from their own plastic or EU-Russia Business Summit was like : “I’ve
(EASA),Young EU-Russia (YEUR) and iron plates that they’ve brought from home participated in conference called Young
Academy of European Law (ERA-AEL). But and singing songs in a camp. EU-Russia Business Summit. The most
what exactly do those organisations do and important thing is that I’ve gained from
how do they relate to you? One of the participants, when asked what
this conference many new friends and
makes her come back to the EASA each
Most of these organisations are non- business contacts. This helps me to build
year, told us: “Well, I come back annually
profit and run by young dedicated and my own career. The second thing is deeper
because of the people that I met there.
truly enthusiastic people. Take FEJS as an understanding of different countries culture.
It’s a great emotional thing, every creative
example: it was set up in 1988 in order to The Academy of European Law is
somewhat different to EASA, FEJS and
YEUR as it is run by the European Union
officials. It was launched to provide young
lawyers with opportunities to communicate
while participating in various conferences
and schools in summer and applying to
their academic courses during the rest of
the year.
If this sounds like the sort of thing that
might interest you then visit the following
websites for more information:
http://www.easa2010.tk/
http://www.fejs.org/
http://www.young-eu-russia.org/
events
If you only read one preview COMEDIES familiar. Oh this one’s in 3D. Well then,
of movies appearing in Irish that’s different. Wait, No it isn’t.
cinemas this Summer, make it John Year One(June 19)
O’Donnell’s. Jack Black and Michael Cera are ROM COMS
cavemen who get kicked out of their
village and set off on an adventure. The Ghosts of Girlfriends Past
BLOCKBUSTERS (May 1)
Brüno (July 10): Matthew McConaughey runs into an
X-Men Origins: Wolverine(May 1) Sacha Baron Cohen follows the Borat ex at a wedding and blah blah blah.
The Summer blockbuster season kicks formula to bring the other other
off hard on Mayday with X-Men Origins: character from Ali G in da USAiii to The Proposal(August 7)
Wolverine. This not a sequel to X-Men the big screen.The alternative name for Sandra Bullock forces Ryan Reynolds
3, it’s the first in a series of prequels. the movie is “Bruno: Delicious Journeys into a marriage of convenience. What
This explains where Wolverine comes Through America for the Purpose of are the chances they will fall in love
from and why he’s such a badass Making Heterosexual Males Visibly for real? Good question, but I’m more
Uncomfortable in the Presence of a puzzled by this one – Isn’t she about
Star Trek(May 8): Gay Foreigner in a Mesh T-Shirt”. Need twenty years older than him?
J.J. Abrams directs, as the crew of the I say more?
Enterprise get lost in space. The Ugly Truth(August 14)
Adventureland(July 17) Gerard Butler tutors Catherine Heigl
Terminator: Salvation(June 5) Superbad writer Greg Mottola covers in how to get a man. Apparently Butler
T4 is directed by McG - the man who the same basic premice, but sets it in and Heigl’s agents are battling it out for
brought you Charlie’s Angels: Full 1987. the title of ‘least imaginative hollywood
Throtle and The O C. He has described hack’.
the story’s theme as “individual’s free The Land of the Lost(July 31)
will versus their destiny”. If I were This parody of a 1970s TV show, that DRAMA
him, I’d go with Christian Bale versus nobody remembers, sees Will Ferrell
big robots with guns. You saw how he and Anna Friel travel through space/ Angels and Demons(May 14)
reacted to the lighting guy walking on time vortex to a land of fantastic Audiences lapped up the da Vinci Code
set, imagine how pissed he’ll get when creatures. Will Ferrell + Dinosaurs - despite a rinsing from critics. Many
Johnny 5 starts poppin’ caps. beat that. put this down to the media furore
surrounding the book. Can the prequel
Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen(June Funny People(August 28) generate the same hype?
26) Judd Apatow directs Adam Sandler and
This is the big one (literally). Michael Seth Rogen – That sounds hilarious! Public Enemies(July 3)
Bay has been leaking false information Sandler’s character has an inoperable Michael Mann directs as Christian Bale
to keep audiences geusing as to what health condition – That sounds less plays a cop chasing a gangster played
will happen. Financial info from the funny. Lets hope Apatow can do by Johnny Depp during 1930s Chicago
studio as well as the trailer have given comedy-drama as well as he does the crime spree. Put down this paper and
us three tid-bits though. 1) Bigger gross-out thing. go mark the date in your calender.Then
budget; $200million pre-marketing. 2) come back to the paper.
Bigger cast; nearly 40 transformers. 3) HORROR
Bigger robots; check out devastator in Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince
the trailer! The Haunting in Connecticut (June 19) (July 17)
Family move into a house, that used to HP has been getting darker and darker
G.I. Joe:The Rise of Cobra (August 7) be a mortuary. Weird shit happens. as the series has rolled on. The sixth is
Attractive people in tight clothes expected to continue in that vein. Due
blow stuff up. Check out the trailer on Final Destination: Death Trip 3D(August for release at Christmas, the Half Blood
youtube. 21) Prince was delayed, apparently because
Teenagers cheat death and then death of the writers’ strike.
comes looking for its dues. Sounds
Years
Years Of
O Refusal
by Malin Aambakk BOSKA
This is Morrissey the way we like to sound and more up tempo songs than At times it can get a bit boring, but the
hear him. Catchy guitar based rock, with his two previous albums, and this actually overall impression is not bad, mostly due
lyrical themes such as morality, lost love suits the aging musician. He might to songs such as Black Cloud and That’s
and death. You can even find hints of however have problems transferring the How People Grow Up. The last song on
humour in between the lines, whether energy of these songs onto the stage. Still Years Of Refusal is by no means a bad
this is intentional or not, is not clear. With it really works on your stereo. way to end the record, and shows that
Morrissey one thing remains undisputed; Morrissey has more than enough self-
he always has a message to deliver. His The opening track proves this. Something irony to go around.
performance does at times sound whiny, Is Squeezing My Skull is by all means
but this is also some of the reason we a brilliant opening track, and does not Years Of Refusal may very well be
like him. only show the best of the 50 year old considered one of Morrissey’s best solo
Morrissey, but also excites the listener releases, because there is no shortage of
Where critics and fans alike thought and makes us curious whether he can quality. But the boring and less enthralling
that Morrissey had found his ”comeback maintain the high level throughout the parts of the record stops it from being
sound” with 2006s Ringleader Of The record. the very pinnacle of his solo career.
Tormentors, this album might come as Nevertheless, we are enticed as to what
a bit of a surprise. It has both a rougher Regretfully I will have to say no to that. lies ahead.
By Cormac Coughlan
When people think about great chance. Jason was diagnosed with autism standing ovation after touching the wall.
moments in sport, you are forced to think at age of two but he never let that hold “I send hugs and kisses to the crowd,”
about decorated heroes, who overcame him back. Having not made the varsity Moussambani said. “They kept me
all the odds to win. But for a moment to basketball team he took up the role of going.”
be great, you don’t have to win. Be it a student manager at his school, Greece
single act of incredible courage or just Athena High. For three years J Mac paced
an individual’s attitude towards life. Truly up and down the sidelines in his blue shirt Do you believe in miracles?
great moments in sport have very little and black tie missing only one game.After
to do with winning. an air ball on his first attempt from the The 1980 Olympics in Lake Placid will
court, 17 year old Jason McElwain, who forever be associated with ice hockey.
is autistic, caught fire. He nailed six three The Soviet Union entered the Olympic
Lean on me pointers and finished with 20 points in tournament as heavy favorites and with
those four minutes.An outstanding score good reason. They had won every ice
Derek Redmond didn’t finish in 1st place by anyone ones standards. He was the hockey gold medal since 1964, and all
in the 1992 400m race in Barcelona. games highest scorer. When the final but one gold medal since 1956. Though
He didn’t come 2nd or 3rd; both he and game buzzer went off the crowd went classed as amateurs, the soviet players
his father came dead last. Derek had wild. After being carried off the court on essentially played professional in a well
battled with injuries his entire career his teammate’s shoulders, McElwain said developed league with excellent training
and was forced to drop out of the 1988 accurately, “I was hot as a pistol.” facilities. Their team consisted of some
Olympics four years previous with an of the best players ever to take to the
Achilles tendon injury. Seconds after the ice. Including Boris Mikhailov and Sergei
Paddling into History Makarov. Just to give you an idea of how
gun sounded to start the semi final of
the men’s 400m race, Derek lay on the good this team was, in a warm up game
ground writhing in agony. He had pulled Eric Moussambani learned to swim just the Soviets played the NHL All-Stars.The
his hamstring but this time he was going eight months before in a river near his Soviets Destroyed them 6-0. So when
to finish the race no matter what. He home in Malabo, Equatorial Guinea.Yet he the 1980 Olympics came around, nobody
struggled to his feet and began to hobble found himself competing in the Olympics gave a group of American college kids a
his way towards the finish line. By now in the 100 meter freestyle, thanks to a snowballs chance in hell. But those bunch
the other athletes had finished the race. wildcard rule that allows each country of kids were about to shock the world.
Derek’s father Jim then broke through to enter one athlete in each event even
the line of security and ran to his son’s if he or she doesn’t meet the qualifying
“Eleven seconds, you’ve got ten seconds,
aid. “You don’t have to do this,” Jim said standard. So you might be wondering
the countdown going on right now!
to his son.“You don’t have to put yourself how did he manage to get past the
Morrow up to Silk. Five seconds left in
through this.” When Derek insisted wildcard heats. Well, the other entrants
the game. Do you believe in miracles?
that he was going to finish the race, Jim all managed to false start leaving Eric as
Yes!”
replied, “Well, then were going to finish sole swimmer in the wild card race. At
this together”. Derek wrapped his arm first the spectators thought it was a joke
around his father’s as he began to head as they watched a man from Equatorial When the clock ran out on the U.S.
for the finish line, while a capacity crowd Guinea thrashing about, struggling to Olympic Hockey team’s 4-3 semifinals
roared its approval even as security make the finish. But then people realized win over the fearsome Soviet Union, the
guards and track officials tried to halt that they were witnessing one of those shaggy haired college kids who made up
the pair. “I don’t speak Spanish,” said Jim, rare sporting moments when somebody the squad flooded the ice and instantly
“and I wasn’t going to be stopped by says I am going to do this no matter what. and inextricably became linked to the
anything. The crowd rose to their feet and began word of “miracle”. I know I said wining
cheering for Eric. When Eric reached had very little to do with great sporting
one end of the pool he made a speed moments. But it was the perfect moment,
J Mac turn which he had learned the previous a marriage of hope and improbability that
evening. By the time he had swam the became extinct when professionals were
With four minutes left in the final home 100 meters he had been in the pool for later allowed in Olympic competition.
game of the season, Jason McElwain or J nearly two minutes, which double the
Mac to his friends got his one and only record time. Moussambani received a
Not only does indulging in the unavoidable I know that you can’t be friends with every-
phenomenon of social networking highlight body.
the primal self indulgence inherent in all of
us, it is also damaging to our social environ- Recently I reviewed my friend list of 180, and
ment and growth. after deleting those who failed to meet the
criteria of what I consider a friend, I was left
It isn’t difficult to comprehend the popular- with a slightly more realistic number of 115.
ity of sites such as bebo, my-space or face- Of those 115 I could have probably sacri-
book because they provide a global forum of ficed another 20 for the cause, but I didn’t
interaction – predominantly for the 18 -35 relish the thought of explain my rejection to
demography - unlike no other. Allowing us them later.
to communicate with “friends” (and in this
context I use that term very loosely) we are
able to share videos, photographs and ex-
“In all honesty do you really
change text in an instant. think that you should meet
So where is the catch? My cynicism is in- Sophie, who you haven’t seen
stinctual and tells me that when something since 4th class, for drinks? “
is too good to be true, it’s usually false. And
that’s exactly the case here. Social Network- Of the 65 people I deleted, only 1 re-re-
ing is false; the arena of interaction it pro- quested my friendship. The fact that I wasn’t
vides is semi fictional and lacks the intimacy missed showed me that I didn’t need this
of real face to face contact. Aside from that, many friends, but on some level I believe
many of the “friendships” we form on these we want them. We want them because we
sites are with friends we ordinarily wouldn’t Rasher McGinty enjoying a bit of social banter, see them as a reflection, albeit an inaccurate
chose in the real world. one, on who we are, how outgoing we are
798 “friends” and almost involuntarily send
and most importantly how “popular” we are.
“I am not nearly narcissistic out invitations of friendship to people they
These friends, whether we believe them to
would ordinarily never engage with.
enough to believe that peo- It’s at this point that I myself must
be real of not, relieve our social insecurities.
ple give a f*ck about my two admit to being somewhat guilty of this
In much the same way that mobile
shameless self promotion. I do have a Face-
week holiday orienteering in phone texting has robbed communication of
book account and ashamedly I use it. Quite
vocal intimacy; social networking sites are
a lot. However I don’t upload photos nor do
Spiddle” I accept or make friend requests to people
replacing the public sphere of interaction,
the true domain of friendship, where ora-
whom I don’t consider to be a friend. I don’t
tion and imagination was how information
Is there any harm if, like most users, you en- claim to be an exceptional case or to have
was once processed. This is why those few
joy a healthy social life away from the com- more dignity than the next social network
of you that are left who do not engage with
pany of your computer? No there isn’t but user. I believe friendship has value. Also, I am
any of these sites refuse to do so with pride.
I must question the motives of those (and not nearly narcissistic enough to believe that
Your distaste for facebook/bebo/myspace is
there are many) who use these sites as ex- people give a f*ck about my two week holi-
a symptom of your lust for life, where the
tensions of their personalities. Those who day orienteering in Spiddle, nor do I believe
more honourable, humane way to interact is
obsessively advertise their daily lives to their they wish to see the photos. Above all else,
in person or at least verbally. For this, I salute
you.