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Clear Your

Clients’
Limiting Beliefs

... and clear your own beliefs


while you’re at it!

Lion Goodman, PCC


Published by Inward Press • Box 253 • Petaluma, CA 94953

THE AUTHOR
Lion Goodman, PCC is the creator of the Clear Beliefs Method for healing
and transforming the psyche.

He is an international expert on beliefs and belief change, a professional


certified coach, and a subconscious pattern detective.

He is the author of Creating On Purpose, Clear Your Beliefs,


Menlightenment, and The Narcissism Primer.

Entire Contents © Copyright 2018-2020 by Lion Goodman

All rights reserved.

BeliefCloset®, The BeliefCloset Process®, Clear Beliefs™ and Clear Beliefs Coach Training™
are trademarks of Lion Goodman. This is a proprietary work product and may not be
distributed or duplicated without express written permission by the author.

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What is YOUR Definition of Success?

How do you define success?


Coaches, healers, therapists, and practitioners answer this
question with similar answers, pointing to both external and
internal indicators:

External Success Definitions


§ I am seen and recognized as an expert in my field.
§ I am a featured speaker on summits and programs.
§ Clients come to me without having to do a lot of marketing.
§ I’m making a significant contribution to people, and to the world.
§ I pay all my expenses easily, and have money left over.
§ I can buy what I want, when I want, and provide well for my family.
§ I get to take luxurious vacations.

Internal Success Factors


§ I am loved, cared for, and secure in my relationships.
§ I am a loving and generous person.
§ There is peace and harmony in my life.
§ I experience abundance and prosperity.
§ I am a good person, with strong moral and ethical values.
§ I am always learning and growing.
§ I am manifesting my life purpose.

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What is the Secret to Success?

You want to be more successful in your life,


… and so do your clients. That’s why they come to you!

Success is...
It depends on what you believe.
Your beliefs are the crucial factor – in how happy you are, how effective
you are, and how successful you are.

You already know that your limiting beliefs hold you back and prevent you
from being as successful as you want to be.

You know that you should get rid of your limiting beliefs, somehow.

You may have tried many different methods for clearing them out of the way,
but they persist, limiting what you can do, how you express yourself, and
how good you feel.

Would you like to know how to clear limiting beliefs completely, and
permanently, so stop interfering with your life?

If so, you’re in the right place at the right time.

Let’s look at what you believe about success.

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How do you define success?

Begin your exploration by writing down your definitions of success.

Then, identify what you believe about each definition, and how it
shows up in your life. (You may have many beliefs about each definition).

Here’s an example of what your list could look like:

What Success Is… What I believe…


Success is having a full practice. I want that, and I don’t have that.

Success is getting new clients easily, I don’t know how to do that. What
without having to do any marketing. I’ve tried hasn’t worked.

Success is being well known as an I’m not qualified. I’m not worthy.I
expert in my field. need to learn more to be an expert.

Success is having work-life balance. I am completely out ofbalance.

Success is having enough money to


Uhhh, no.
take a luxury vacation.

Success is looking and feeling good in my


Frankly, I don’t feel so hot…
body.

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We’ll make use of your answers later. Take time now to do
this simple exercise:

What Success Is… What I Believe…

You’ve probably seen some version of this graphic:

The path to success is twisted, gnarly, dark and confusing at times. If


you want to become more successful, you have to deal with the stuff that
comes up along the way: resistance, blocks, difficulties, losses, and failures.

Most of us have spent thousands of dollars learning how to be successful.


We purchase programs, attend seminars, read books and pay experts to
guide us to the Promised Land – only to find ourselves stuck, stymied,
frustrated, or depressed because it isn’t happening fast enough, or at all.

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Your clients are trying to achieve success, too.

Have you heard them say this?


§ I did everything the experts say to do, and I still haven’t achieved mygoals.

§ I just couldn't do what I knew I should do, and I don't know why.

§ What did I do wrong? What’s wrong with me?

Have you made comments like this on your own path?

Success IS possible for you AND your clients.

IF… you learn to transform your clients at the deepest level of their
psyche – the place where they’re telling their story about their life,
about their limitations, and their negative thoughts and feelings.

When you change people from the inside out, they shift their view of
themselves, their view of others, and their view of the world. This
opens new possibilities for success and happiness.

That’s what your clients are looking for – not just good ideas and hand-
holding, but a profound shift in who they are and how they show up in their
world.

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PREMISE
People get stopped, stymied, and frustrated in their pursuit
of success because of their negative and limiting beliefs
(story, schemas, perspectives, paradigms, viewpoints), not
because of their external circumstances.

Assumptions (Beliefs)
Assumption 1: Limiting beliefs can be cleared from the psyche
permanently.

Assumption 2: When you change a core belief that you’ve built your
life around, everything in your life changes.
Assumption 3: You can learn to clear your own beliefs.
Assumption 4: You can learn to help others clear their beliefs.
Assumption 5: By enhancing their success, you will enhance yours.

All you need now is a


methodology for clearing beliefs
rapidly and permanently.

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Why Other Methods Are Only Temporary

Most belief-change methods


produce only temporary results.
Why? Because they focus on
only ONE aspect of the Self.

Some methods take a purely


intellectual or cognitive approach
to changing the mind. Others focus
on emotions, emphasizing the release
of pent-up feelings. There are physical
body approaches and spiritual approaches – and they all help some people some
of the time – for awhile.

Every training claims that if you do that thing often enough, the effects will
magically ripple out into the whole self and become permanent.

Unfortunately, their claim isn’t true.

What IS true is that you are a complex, unique, multidimensional being.


Your whole Self is integrated, and it isn’t divisible into distinct parts. It’s not
made of a bunch of component parts strung together.

Is there a subconscious mind, a conscious mind, and a superconscious mind?


It’s a useful model… but there is really only one Mind, one Consciousness, and
you are part of it.

Is there an ego, id, and superego? Freud said there was, and people still refer to
them as if they are separate things. They’re not. They are aspects of Self.

Is there a “limbic system” that’s separate from the rest of the brain? No, it’s
connected to everything, but we talk about it as if it could be lifted out and
studied by itself.

All “components” of the Self are merely useful conventions. Our analytical mind
tends to ”thing-ify” every concept – we turn them into “things.”

We can only truly heal (to make whole) if we work with the Whole Self – all
aspects of our nature – and leave nothing out.

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ALL beliefs are limiting!
Because they divide the world up into partial bits of information.
We then judge them as right or wrong, good or bad, true or false.
Beliefs limit our vision and shrink our possibilities.

Our beliefs create our experience of reality


by acting as colored lenses we see life through.

Beliefs are the infrastructure of human consciousness. They filter,


shape, and color our experience of the world around us. They filter out all
evidence to the contrary. In psychology, this is called confirmation bias.
We see what we expect to see, and we do, it verifies the belief we held in
the first place.

Beliefs are the alphabet we use


to create the language of our experience.

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Do our beliefs really create our experience?
Try this experiment to find out:

Feel what it feels like to hold each of the following beliefs. Say each one
to yourself – out loud – as if you believe it 100%. Notice how you feel
when you believe it.

This is like trying on an outfit at the clothing store. You check to see how it
looks on you, and how it makes you feel. (“Does this belief make my butt look
big?”)

Try each one on, and notice the feelings produced by the belief. Then,
take it off. Toss it aside and try on the next one. Take a minute to feel
each one:

There’s something wrong with me.


I don’t belong.
I can’t do it.

Then try these on:

I am a sacred and worthy being.


I am a part of precious humanity.
I’ll do whatever it takes.

Did you notice how each one generated a different feeling? That’s what we
mean when we say, “Our beliefs create our experience.”

Now go back to the beliefs you wrote down about success. Do the same
exercise. Try each one on, as if it’s 100% true, and notice the feelings it
produces inside you.

Do your beliefs make you feel empowered? Ready to go out and get things
done? Confident in your ability to create success? Or do they produce fear,
doubt, weakness, or overwhelm? Do you feel like giving up?

You can see how your beliefs impact your perceptions, thoughts,
feelings, decisions, and ultimately your actions.

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WHETHER YOU THINK YOU CAN OR YOU
THINK YOU CAN’T, YOU’RE RIGHT
~ Henry Ford

Henry Ford understood how beliefs work. If you believe you will fail,
you won’t learn from your mistakes, or take corrective action needed to
succeed. You’ll quit trying and prove that you really are a failure.

Negative beliefs produce negative feelings, experiences, and thoughts.


You hold back from taking action. You stop shining your light.

We choose from among the options we can see. Since beliefs limit our
perceptions, our choices get reduced to a small number of possibilities.

If your beliefs are limited, your reality is limited.


Negative self-beliefs can create internal resistance, confusion, stuckness,
indecision, distractions, isolation, and complete collapse.

On the other hand, positive self-beliefs motivate you to take action, move
toward your goals, solve problems as they arise, and push through internal
and external barriers with courage and resilience.

It all depends on what you believe,


so why not change your beliefs?
You’ve accumulated tens of thousands of beliefs, and many of them are
contradictory. This is why life can feel so confusing. Some of your beliefs
are doing battle with other beliefs, which creates a mixed reality.

With some detective work, you can discover the beliefs at the source of
any experience and pull them up by the roots – like weeds in a garden.

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Where Do Beliefs Come From?

Most of our beliefs were indoctrinated into us – by our parents, family,


teachers, friends, religious authorities, culture, the social groups we belong
to, and the media. (This list goeson and on.)
Indoctrination means a doctrine (a belief) is put into you. For the first four
to seven years of your life, your mind is on “record” mode. You take in
everything you can absorb about the world and the people around you.

Our most primitive instinct is to survive – by any means necessary!


The best strategy for survival is to adopt the language, mannerisms,
behavior, and beliefs of the people around you – as quickly as possible.

Children do this eagerly! Why? We know instinctually that if we become like


our parents, they will like us – and they won’t throw us out to the wolves. So
we adopt every belief those big people show us or tell us.

We also want to belong – which ensures our survival as social creatures. The
best way to belong is to adopt the beliefs of the group you want to belong
to. Choose any group: the family, the church, the cool kids, the trouble-
makers, the smart kids, the athletes, the rich folks, the powerful…

If we take on their beliefs and behaviors, we'll be accepted and welcomed. If


we don't, we'll be pushed out or kept out. If that happens, we’ll be alone,
therefore vulnerable to predators, and we'll die. This is a good reason to
adopt other people’s beliefs!

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Are beliefs beneficial or detrimental?

Here’s a beneficial belief:


“Always look both ways before
you cross the street.” It keeps
us safe!
“I can accomplish anything I
set my mind to,” is a very
empowering belief. It spurs us
forward and enables us to
handle difficulties.

“I am loved” is a wonderful belief to have. It produces the feeling of


security, comfort, and self-esteem.

There’s no reason to change beliefs that are beneficial.

On the other hand, many beliefs interfere with how we want to


feel, and what we want to do.
The belief “I’m unlovable” makes us feel separate and alone. Instead
of reaching out to others for connection, we remain separate and
alone. This is more evidence that the belief is true. “I’m obviously
not lovable!”

ALL beliefs are self-verifying, because


we perceive what we believe.
You’ve seen that it's virtually impossible to convince a strongly
opinionated person that their ideas might be wrong. Evidence to the
contrary can’t get through their filters. They’re firmly entrenched in
their point of view.
Are you firmly entrenched in any of your points of view?

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Track Your Beliefs To Their Source
If you believe, “I’ll never play the piano well,” you won’t take piano lessons,
study musical theory, or practice the scales. Having this belief
automatically limits your decisions and actions. The resulting reality:
You’ll never play the piano well. Which proves your belief to be true!

Negative self-beliefs produce unpleasant feelings that can last a


lifetime. The belief, “There’s something terribly wrong with me,” is the
core of shame – a highly toxic emotion. The belief, “I’ve done something
wrong,” can produce feelings of guilt, regret, sadness, or fear. It can easily
lead to disconnection from others, loneliness, and depression.

Negative self-beliefs limit your ability to see who you really are. You
can’t see your infinite potential, or your true nature, which is glorious.
You focus on a few tiny flaws in the middle of the awesome magnificence
of being human. Would you like to free yourself? Let’s get started.

Track Your Beliefs To Their Source


Negative self-beliefs can usually be traced back to their source in your
childhood. Ask yourself: “Who first told me that? Who convinced me?”

Then ask, “Was this belief indoctrinated into me by someone in authority, such
as a parent, teacher or older sibling? Or did I come to that conclusion by
myself, based on what was happening at the time?

Take time now to trace the source of all negative beliefs you have about
yourself (most of us have dozens). Write them down this way:

My Belief About Myself Where It Came From

You can clear these beliefs permanently when you join us for one of our
programs, or work with a Certified Clear Beliefs Coach.

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What’s Required to Finally, Completely, Change a Belief?

Beliefs are based on experiences, which


involve all aspects of the Self: physical,
mental, emotional, and spiritual.
To clear a belief completely, all aspects of
Self must be involved in deleting it –
otherwise, the belief is retained inside other
parts of your system.

This is why most methods of belief change achieve only temporary


results and are only partially effective.

For example, methodologies that view beliefs as intellectual constructs use


mental and verbal processes to disrupt or change the mind. The activity is only
in the mental realm. It doesn’t touch the deep emotions, or the physical body
where beliefs can be stored. And it certainly doesn’t impact the spiritual self.

Most methodologies help you identify beliefs and consciously recognize them as
not true. This is a good first step. You may actually clear the belief in the
conscious mind, but the process doesn’t touch the subconscious mind – where
beliefs live and operate – nor the superconscious mind, the Higher Self.
Consequently, the old beliefs creep back in, like an unwanted ghost.

Have you tried to get rid of your limiting beliefs, but they still remain?

There are methods that use tapping on your acupressure points while reciting
beliefs. This may clear the energetic signature of the experience, but the
underlying belief remains lodged in all the other aspects of Self. So you have to
do the process again, and again, and again. Because the belief isn’t really gone.

Have you tried saying affirmations? The hope is that your negative belief will
eventually get the hint and go away, or you’ll finally convince yourself that the
new belief is true. It doesn’t work, because whenever you affirm a new belief, it
stimulates the old belief to re-assert itself, strengthening its firm hold on you.

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Talk therapy works for many
people, but it’s expensive and
takes a long time. Most forms of
psychotherapy focus on the story
you tell yourself, or on your
emotions and reactions.

Occasionally, you get a break-


through, a big realization that
changes everything. That’s good
if you have the time, money and
patience, and dedication.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is aimed at changing your patterns of
thinking and behavior that are underneath your difficulties. That’s akin to
changing your beliefs, however it’s an outside-in, logic and conscious
approach. Why not delete the beliefs directly and skip the middleman?

Body-centered therapies are better because they utilize physical movement


and practices that can reach visceral memories such as trauma. Because they
involve both body and mind, they are effective for many people. But they're
still not a complete solution.

Yoga and Ayurveda integrate all aspects ofthe Self and bring it into balance
and wholeness, but it takes years of study and practice to clear your system
and find true peace and happiness. But keep at it! One of these days…

Every therapeutic technique is at least partially effective, and each one has
its fans and true believers. Most provide temporary relief, failing to create
significant, permanent change. They take a long time, require many
repetitions, or cost a lot to achieve the healing you’re seeking.

I spent decades researching and experimenting with dozens of techniques,


teachers and methodologies, looking for a method that would finally clear
my issues (and I had a lot of issues to clear…).

Being scientifically minded, I asked: “When it worked, why did it


work? What are the underlying principles that make it effective?”

Have you asked similar questions?

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The Clear Beliefs Method

After years of research and questioning, I noticed a pattern. Whenever


significant transformation occurred, there had been a change in my
belief system, deep down at the core of my psyche. It rippled out into
all parts of me, throughout my entire self, and into my external world,
including my actions. The transformation was complete and permanent.

I began to gather the best elements of everything I had studied and


practiced, and I brought them together into a new, integrated system.
This was the birth of the Clear Beliefs Method. It’s a unique
combination of processes that produce deep, profound change, rapidly
and permanently.

It works because we focus on the actual cause of the problem or issue –


the belief residing at the core of the subconscious mind. This is the causal
level. When you clear a belief here, it gets deleted from ALL aspects of the
Self – the physical body, mental body, emotional body, and spiritual body.

When you change your core belief, your experience of life changes. You
can feel it immediately. What was bugging you, or causing pain or
frustration, is simply… gone. It no longer exists in your universe.

Talk therapy engages with your story about what happened, and how it’s
currently affecting you. The Clear Beliefs process bypasses the story level
completely, diving down into the subconscious infrastructure – the belief,
or meaning, you made from what happened. When you clear the belief,
you recognize who you really are – the Being who made up the story.

Intrigued? Read on…

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Remove Limiting Beliefs Permanently

With the Clear Beliefs Method, you can delete old beliefs that
interfere with your life, and replace them with beliefs that
support your success, progress, evolution, and happiness.

The brain doesn’t make much of a


distinction between what occurs in the
real world and what occurs in the
imagination. This is how a great books
and movies are able to drive our
emotions and create powerful inner
experiences.

The Clear Beliefs Method uses the


power of the imagination to impact the
subconscious mind and the underlying belief structure. We use a unique
form of guided imagery to help our clients explore the subconscious, and
feel, see, and understand the actual source of their limiting or negative
belief. Then, like a skilled surgeon, we show them how to remove it
completely from all aspects of the Self.

The Clear Beliefs Method is a powerful tool-set for facilitating deep and
profound transformational change that you can immediately feel and see
in your life. Because it is a change at the foundational level, it lasts.

You can learn this methodology in only three months of study and practice.
Use it to clear your own limiting and negative beliefs, then use it with your
clients. Help them transform their lives from the inside out.

Your clients will become more successful, and so will you. Your
reputation will soar.
If you’re a healer, coach, therapist or practitioner, you simply MUST learn this methodology.
After practicing medicine, I learned EFT, EMDR, Reiki, and many more healing modalities.
The Clear Beliefs Method is the fastest, most efficient process I’ve seen to help my clients
eliminate their blocks, repattern neural pathways, heal deep core wounds, and become
whole again. It borders on the miraculous. This is not “woowoo.” It’s neuroscience. It’s an
investment and opportunity you can’t afford to miss.
~ Irena Kay, M.D, Executive and Relationship Coach, New Jersey

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Plant the Seeds of a Better Future
When you want to grow flowers or
vegetables, you don’t throw your seeds
onto rocky, weedy ground. You first
prepare your garden, removing rocks and
weeds, and tilling the soil.

Then the seeds you plant can take root,


grow, and blossom. You receive a harvest
of beauty and nutrition. Your life improves.

It's the same process when you clear the psyche of old beliefs. Once
they’re gone, you have space for something new and wonderful.
You can plant a new empowering belief in the cleared subconscious mind. It
will easily and naturally take root and blossom into all parts of our life.

This is a change that changes everything:


Your experience of who you are, what
you’re capable of, how you relate to others,
and how you respond to the world and your
circumstances.
When you facilitate this process in
others, you experience true joy.

Your client feels the results immediately. They look younger and feel lighter.
Their face lights up with new possibilities. They see a different world.

Many practitioners refer to the Clear Beliefs Method as


“A magic wand for creating deep, transformational healing.”

Can you see the Lie in every Belief?


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The 7 Steps Of The Clear Beliefs Process

Clear Beliefs Coaches take their client through these seven steps:
1. Help the client identify the belief at the root of the problem or issue
they want to change. The belief could have been indoctrinated,
unconsciously adopted, or consciously chosen.
2. Encourage the client to feel the belief and experience it fully,
feeling the impact that belief has had on their entire life.
3. Investigate the belief back to its source to understand where it came
from, why it was adopted, and the situation that caused it.
4. Allow the client to consciously decide whether to keep the belief or
delete it permanently from the psyche.
5. Guide the client through the process of deleting the belief from all
aspects of the Self. This causes a shift in awareness and identity.
6. Help the client craft a new belief that will support them in achieving
their goals and manifesting their highest vision for their life.
7. Guide the client to plant and anchor the new belief in all areas of
the Self so it can grow and blossom in their life.

The coach guides their client through each step,


gently and slowly. The entire process may take
anywhere from ten minutes to an hour.

This Clear Beliefs Method works so deeply in the


psyche that the resulting impact is immediate
and profound. What was there, bothering the
client, is simply… gone.

There is ease where there was struggle, clarity


where there was confusion, and freedom where
barriers once stood.

An additional benefit is seeing the client shift


perspective and awaken into Source Beingness.

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Now Clear Your Own Beliefs

Are you ready to get started? If so, begin with the following exercise.

You will take inventory of your beliefs in many different areas of your life,
whether they're positive or negative, empowering or limiting.

You can’t clear a belief until you know exactly what it is and where it came
from. Most of our beliefs are stored in the subconscious mind, where they
hide out and operate below the level of the conscious awareness.

Because we live through through our


beliefs, it’s not easy to uncover them.

This exercise begins to flush them out


into the light of your awareness.

You may be surprised at what you find.


That’s a good thing!

You’ve probably heard this quote from Carl Jung:

"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will


direct your life – and you will call it fate."

Are you ready to dive in and


make your unconscious
beliefs conscious?
If so, this is the first step.
Ready? Here we go…

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Your Belief Inventory

We all experience problems in our life.


The question is: what is the cause?
This is an opportunity to identify your beliefs in many different areas of
your life and begin to uncover the root causes of your problematic life issues,
and the circumstances in your life that you’d like to change.

As you do the inventory, you'll expose a lot of your beliefs that you’re familiar
with, and many beliefs you didn’t even know you had.

You’ll recognize that some of these beliefs you limit you or stop you from
making forward progress toward your goals. In the steps that follow, you’ll
learn how to delete them those problematic permanently from your psyche
and eliminate them from your life.

You need courage to look directly into your own mind. You might discover
what’s underneath the negative feelings, bad choices, and habitual behaviors
that prevent you from living the joyful and successful life you want.

The beliefs you adopted in childhood are deep programs that still drive your
experience of yourself, other people, and the world – your Human Operating System.

This inventory process brings those hidden programs up into


awareness so you can consciously reprogram your own software.

At the end of the exercise, you’ll choose


three negative beliefs that you want to
clear out of your system forever.

Learn how to free yourself from their


influence in my upcoming webinar:

How to Clear Your


Clients’ Limiting Beliefs.

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Inventory Step One: Uncover Your Beliefs

Take out a journal, pad of paper, or open a new e-document. Contemplate each
question by saying to yourself (either out loud or silently):

“Something I believe about ______[topic]_______ is...”


(For example, “Something I believe about myself is…”)

Listen to your mind’s first response to the question and write it down.
Stay open and neutral. See what comes up. Listen for any voice or
automatic internal response to the statement.

Write down whatever comes up. For example, “I’m an idiot.” Don’t judge the
answers that emerge. Don’t argue with yourself, or censor unpleasant
opinions. Allow them all to appear and present themselves, whatever they are.

Honor each one and write it down, even if it sounds absurd or strange. Even if
you have the thought, “I don’t believe that!” When your subconscious talks,
it’s a good time to listen!

Then say the phrase again. “Something else I believe about __[topic]__
is…” and write down whatever comes up next. Repeat this process,
over and over, until no new beliefs come up, or you feel empty. It may
take a while. Keep going until you feel it’s complete. You may come
up with 25 or more beliefs in each topic area.

Let your thoughts flow and keep your pen (or fingers) moving. Give yourself
at least ten minutes to write freely on each topic. Keep going! The best ones
emerge when you push past the belief, “I’m done!” and say the phrase again.

There are 18 topic areas on the next


page. Do the exercise with as many
categories as you can in one sitting.

Pick your “hot button” topics first.


Feel free to add others! Come back
and explore remaining topics later.

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Explore Your Beliefs in Each of These Topic Areas

Myself My attitude
My body My circumstances
My health My relationships
My work The world
My finances The past
Money The future
Success My beliefs
My abilities My Soul / Spirit
My limitations God / Source / Creator

Instructions: Pick one topic, and say the following phrase out loud,
using that topic. [For example, if you are exploring your work, say:]

“Something I believe about [my work] is…”


Write down whatever comes to mind in response. Then say the phrase again
and write down each response. Repeat this pattern until your mind doesn’t
respond, or it starts to repeat itself. The more times you say the phrase, the
deeper your mind will dig into your earliest beliefs, which are more likely to
be the cause of a problem or issue in that area of your life.

This is a powerful exercise – give


it your serious attention.

Work with as many topics as you


can in one sitting.

This is only a partial list. Feel free


to add topics of your own, in any
area of your life that isn’t ideal!

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Inventory Step Two: Understand Your Beliefs

This step helps you understand the


beliefs that have been bothering you for
years, or your entire life.

Review each belief you wrote down in


your inventory. Say it to yourself and
note how much of a negative reaction
it causes, whether mentally, physically,
or emotionally.

Then, go back and circle five to ten beliefs that generated the
strongest negative reactions. Gather those beliefs into a new
document.

Next, review the following questions, and write down your answers
to each question about each of those beliefs:

1. Has this belief been beneficial to me in my life? Or detrimental to me?

2. Was this belief indoctrinated into me? If so, by whom?

3. Did I ever consciously choose to believe it? If so, when, and why?

4. What advantage did I get or gain by having this belief? What did I
avoid by having it? How did this belief serve me in my life?
5. What would be different if I didn’t have this belief? Who would I be?
What could I do?

6. Would I be willing to delete this old belief, and replace it with


something positive, beneficial, and empowering? When?

After completing this part of the exercise, go back over your answers,
and choose the top three negative beliefs you would like to delete,
change, or transform.

Take those three beliefs, along with your answers to these questions, and
move them to a new page. You’ll use them in the upcoming webinar.

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Step Three: Create New, Empowering Beliefs

When you delete an old belief from the psyche, you create space – an
opening for something new. This is an opportunity to install a new,
positive, and empowering belief in that fresh soil.

Enjoy the space of “no-belief.” It’s a beautiful place to hang out for awhile.
We’ve noticed, though, that if you don’t fill the space with something new, the
old belief can sneak back in out of habit (like weeds in a garden).

Look at your #1 most negative belief. What would you prefer to believe
instead? A good place to start is its opposite, but don’t stop there. Since
you’re in charge, you can create anything you want. Enhance your new belief
so it feels wonderful, completely positive and supportive. (If you know you
can’t believe the new belief, it’s too big. Reduce it to one you can believe.)

Every belief produces a specific feeling and experience. Try on the new belief
as if you’re trying on a new suit or dress to find out what it feels like. Say it to
yourself and feel what it feels like to believe it 100%. Modify it and try on the
new version. Keep changing it until it’s right for you.

For example, if your old belief is, “There’s something wrong with me,” you
could replace it with, “There’s something right about me.” That belief is better,
but it’s not very empowering. If you push it all the way up the scale of
positivity, you might come to: “I am the light of my soul, shining with my own
perfect light.” Can you feel the difference? Go for that WOW! feeling.

Here’s another example: If you hold the old belief, “I am not loved,” you could
replace it with “I am loved,” which is a very good belief to have. But feel what
it would feel like to believe, “I am unconditionally loved by God, the Universe,
and every important person in my life.”. Or try this one on: “I AM love.”

You have the power to choose your own beliefs – so you might as well
choose the most empowering, enlightening belief you can imagine.

You can also imagine having your life be exactly the way you want it, so you
feel fantastic. Then ask yourself, “What would someone have to believe in
order to experience this?”

The answer to that question may be the belief you’re looking for!

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Now write down the positive replacement beliefs you want to have in
place of your three negative or limiting beliefs.

Congratulations!

You’ve completed the Step 1 of the Clear Beliefs Process: Identify the
beliefs you want to change.

You’re ready for the next steps, and I'd like to show you Steps 2 and 3.

I can’t do it here, but I can demonstrate them in my free online webinar,


How to Clear Your Clients’ Limiting Beliefs.

I’ll show you the next steps and demonstrate two of my favorite
techniques for deleting beliefs at the core of the psyche – in a live demo
with a volunteer from the audience.

It's coming soon! We meet on Zoom. Click THIS LINK to reserve your seat.

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Take the next step toward belief mastery.
Register for the free webinar here:
www.ClearYourClientsBeliefs.com

Join me for this free online class to find out how you can quickly
produce dramatic results for your clients (and for yourself!).

Your client can feel the transformation as it happens. No waiting for


results! What was bothering them is simply… gone.

Can it really be that easy? Yes. It can, and it is, if you have the right
technology.

In our Clear Beliefs Coach community, we’ve seen incredible changes in


our clients:

§ Old childhood traumas no longer cause psychological pain or reactions.

§ Doors of opportunity that were previously closed suddenlyopen.

§ Weight issues – and the weight – dissolve, because the cause is dissolved.

§ Students learn faster and perform better.

§ Discord and arguments in a relationship are dramatically reduced.

§ Resistance to marketing is replaced by excitement and energy.

§ (We have a very long list of these…)

Click HERE to register for the webinar. There’s no cost!

FREE BONUS FOR ATTENDING – Attend the live webinar and you’ll receive
a very special gift: complete instructions for guiding one of our most
powerful transformation tools: The BodyWisdom Process™.

You can use it in your practice immediately to help your clients get relief
from physical pain, discomfort, upsets, and distress. It’s only one of the
dozen tools you’ll acquire if you join the Clear Beliefs Coach Training,
which you’ll learn about in our free webinar.

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How to Clear Your Clients’ Beliefs: The Webinar

In the upcoming free webinar, you’ll learn:

• How beliefs form – beginning while we’re still in the womb!

• How our “love beliefs” impact our ability to sustain and thrive in an
intimate relationship.

• How to help your clients uncover the hidden drivers of their


uncomfortable feelings, negative thoughts, and automatic reactions.
• Two powerful transformational techniques that you can apply in your
own practice immediately.

Join this free webinar if:

• You’re fascinated by the human mind, and how it works.

• You’re curious about why people do what they do.


• You’re a coach, healer, therapist, or change agent, and want to
produce dramatic shifts in yourself and in your clients!

I look forward to seeing you there!

Warmly,

Lion Goodman, PCC


Creator of the Clear Beliefs Coach Training
Author, Coach, and Subconscious Pattern Detective

Register for the free webinar:


How to Clear Your Clients’ Beliefs
www.ClearYourClientsBeliefs.com

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About the Author

Lion Goodman, PCC is the creator of


the Clear Beliefs Method, a process for
healing childhood trauma, transforming
beliefs at the core of the psyche, and
clearing the path of manifestation.

Hundreds of coaches, therapists, and


healers around the world have graduated
from his Clear Beliefs Coach Training.

He is a Professional Certified Coach,


healer, teacher, consciousness
explorer, and author. He has been
called a subconscious pattern detective
because of his skill of finding the
original cause of life problems.

Lion has studied and practiced many forms of psychology, neurology,


spirituality, philosophy, and the principles of success for more than 40 years.
His first career was in executive search and executive coaching, where he
worked with hundreds of CEOs and senior managers in businesses across
the U.S., from early stage start-ups to Fortune 500 corporations.
He has taught workshops and trainings across the U.S., Canada, Europe, and
China. He is the author of 4 books: Creating On Purpose; Clear Your Beliefs;
The Narcissism Primer; and Menlightenment, as well as dozens of articles on
consciousness, beliefs, psychology, and personal development.
With his partner, Carista Luminare, Ph.D., he founded Luminary
Leadership Institute, an initiatory program for leaders of businesses and
organizations. They provide personal counseling to executives and couples,
helping them heal damaged relationships to create family and business life
they’ve always wanted.

Register for the upcoming free webinar:

www.ClearYourClientsBeliefs.com

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