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Limiting Beliefs
THE AUTHOR
Lion Goodman, PCC is the creator of the Clear Beliefs Method for healing
and transforming the psyche.
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Success is...
It depends on what you believe.
Your beliefs are the crucial factor – in how happy you are, how effective
you are, and how successful you are.
You already know that your limiting beliefs hold you back and prevent you
from being as successful as you want to be.
You know that you should get rid of your limiting beliefs, somehow.
You may have tried many different methods for clearing them out of the way,
but they persist, limiting what you can do, how you express yourself, and
how good you feel.
Would you like to know how to clear limiting beliefs completely, and
permanently, so stop interfering with your life?
Then, identify what you believe about each definition, and how it
shows up in your life. (You may have many beliefs about each definition).
Success is getting new clients easily, I don’t know how to do that. What
without having to do any marketing. I’ve tried hasn’t worked.
Success is being well known as an I’m not qualified. I’m not worthy.I
expert in my field. need to learn more to be an expert.
§ I just couldn't do what I knew I should do, and I don't know why.
IF… you learn to transform your clients at the deepest level of their
psyche – the place where they’re telling their story about their life,
about their limitations, and their negative thoughts and feelings.
When you change people from the inside out, they shift their view of
themselves, their view of others, and their view of the world. This
opens new possibilities for success and happiness.
That’s what your clients are looking for – not just good ideas and hand-
holding, but a profound shift in who they are and how they show up in their
world.
Assumptions (Beliefs)
Assumption 1: Limiting beliefs can be cleared from the psyche
permanently.
Assumption 2: When you change a core belief that you’ve built your
life around, everything in your life changes.
Assumption 3: You can learn to clear your own beliefs.
Assumption 4: You can learn to help others clear their beliefs.
Assumption 5: By enhancing their success, you will enhance yours.
Every training claims that if you do that thing often enough, the effects will
magically ripple out into the whole self and become permanent.
Is there an ego, id, and superego? Freud said there was, and people still refer to
them as if they are separate things. They’re not. They are aspects of Self.
Is there a “limbic system” that’s separate from the rest of the brain? No, it’s
connected to everything, but we talk about it as if it could be lifted out and
studied by itself.
All “components” of the Self are merely useful conventions. Our analytical mind
tends to ”thing-ify” every concept – we turn them into “things.”
We can only truly heal (to make whole) if we work with the Whole Self – all
aspects of our nature – and leave nothing out.
Feel what it feels like to hold each of the following beliefs. Say each one
to yourself – out loud – as if you believe it 100%. Notice how you feel
when you believe it.
This is like trying on an outfit at the clothing store. You check to see how it
looks on you, and how it makes you feel. (“Does this belief make my butt look
big?”)
Try each one on, and notice the feelings produced by the belief. Then,
take it off. Toss it aside and try on the next one. Take a minute to feel
each one:
Did you notice how each one generated a different feeling? That’s what we
mean when we say, “Our beliefs create our experience.”
Now go back to the beliefs you wrote down about success. Do the same
exercise. Try each one on, as if it’s 100% true, and notice the feelings it
produces inside you.
Do your beliefs make you feel empowered? Ready to go out and get things
done? Confident in your ability to create success? Or do they produce fear,
doubt, weakness, or overwhelm? Do you feel like giving up?
You can see how your beliefs impact your perceptions, thoughts,
feelings, decisions, and ultimately your actions.
Henry Ford understood how beliefs work. If you believe you will fail,
you won’t learn from your mistakes, or take corrective action needed to
succeed. You’ll quit trying and prove that you really are a failure.
We choose from among the options we can see. Since beliefs limit our
perceptions, our choices get reduced to a small number of possibilities.
On the other hand, positive self-beliefs motivate you to take action, move
toward your goals, solve problems as they arise, and push through internal
and external barriers with courage and resilience.
With some detective work, you can discover the beliefs at the source of
any experience and pull them up by the roots – like weeds in a garden.
We also want to belong – which ensures our survival as social creatures. The
best way to belong is to adopt the beliefs of the group you want to belong
to. Choose any group: the family, the church, the cool kids, the trouble-
makers, the smart kids, the athletes, the rich folks, the powerful…
Negative self-beliefs limit your ability to see who you really are. You
can’t see your infinite potential, or your true nature, which is glorious.
You focus on a few tiny flaws in the middle of the awesome magnificence
of being human. Would you like to free yourself? Let’s get started.
Then ask, “Was this belief indoctrinated into me by someone in authority, such
as a parent, teacher or older sibling? Or did I come to that conclusion by
myself, based on what was happening at the time?
Take time now to trace the source of all negative beliefs you have about
yourself (most of us have dozens). Write them down this way:
You can clear these beliefs permanently when you join us for one of our
programs, or work with a Certified Clear Beliefs Coach.
Most methodologies help you identify beliefs and consciously recognize them as
not true. This is a good first step. You may actually clear the belief in the
conscious mind, but the process doesn’t touch the subconscious mind – where
beliefs live and operate – nor the superconscious mind, the Higher Self.
Consequently, the old beliefs creep back in, like an unwanted ghost.
Have you tried to get rid of your limiting beliefs, but they still remain?
There are methods that use tapping on your acupressure points while reciting
beliefs. This may clear the energetic signature of the experience, but the
underlying belief remains lodged in all the other aspects of Self. So you have to
do the process again, and again, and again. Because the belief isn’t really gone.
Have you tried saying affirmations? The hope is that your negative belief will
eventually get the hint and go away, or you’ll finally convince yourself that the
new belief is true. It doesn’t work, because whenever you affirm a new belief, it
stimulates the old belief to re-assert itself, strengthening its firm hold on you.
Yoga and Ayurveda integrate all aspects ofthe Self and bring it into balance
and wholeness, but it takes years of study and practice to clear your system
and find true peace and happiness. But keep at it! One of these days…
Every therapeutic technique is at least partially effective, and each one has
its fans and true believers. Most provide temporary relief, failing to create
significant, permanent change. They take a long time, require many
repetitions, or cost a lot to achieve the healing you’re seeking.
When you change your core belief, your experience of life changes. You
can feel it immediately. What was bugging you, or causing pain or
frustration, is simply… gone. It no longer exists in your universe.
Talk therapy engages with your story about what happened, and how it’s
currently affecting you. The Clear Beliefs process bypasses the story level
completely, diving down into the subconscious infrastructure – the belief,
or meaning, you made from what happened. When you clear the belief,
you recognize who you really are – the Being who made up the story.
With the Clear Beliefs Method, you can delete old beliefs that
interfere with your life, and replace them with beliefs that
support your success, progress, evolution, and happiness.
The Clear Beliefs Method is a powerful tool-set for facilitating deep and
profound transformational change that you can immediately feel and see
in your life. Because it is a change at the foundational level, it lasts.
You can learn this methodology in only three months of study and practice.
Use it to clear your own limiting and negative beliefs, then use it with your
clients. Help them transform their lives from the inside out.
Your clients will become more successful, and so will you. Your
reputation will soar.
If you’re a healer, coach, therapist or practitioner, you simply MUST learn this methodology.
After practicing medicine, I learned EFT, EMDR, Reiki, and many more healing modalities.
The Clear Beliefs Method is the fastest, most efficient process I’ve seen to help my clients
eliminate their blocks, repattern neural pathways, heal deep core wounds, and become
whole again. It borders on the miraculous. This is not “woowoo.” It’s neuroscience. It’s an
investment and opportunity you can’t afford to miss.
~ Irena Kay, M.D, Executive and Relationship Coach, New Jersey
It's the same process when you clear the psyche of old beliefs. Once
they’re gone, you have space for something new and wonderful.
You can plant a new empowering belief in the cleared subconscious mind. It
will easily and naturally take root and blossom into all parts of our life.
Your client feels the results immediately. They look younger and feel lighter.
Their face lights up with new possibilities. They see a different world.
Clear Beliefs Coaches take their client through these seven steps:
1. Help the client identify the belief at the root of the problem or issue
they want to change. The belief could have been indoctrinated,
unconsciously adopted, or consciously chosen.
2. Encourage the client to feel the belief and experience it fully,
feeling the impact that belief has had on their entire life.
3. Investigate the belief back to its source to understand where it came
from, why it was adopted, and the situation that caused it.
4. Allow the client to consciously decide whether to keep the belief or
delete it permanently from the psyche.
5. Guide the client through the process of deleting the belief from all
aspects of the Self. This causes a shift in awareness and identity.
6. Help the client craft a new belief that will support them in achieving
their goals and manifesting their highest vision for their life.
7. Guide the client to plant and anchor the new belief in all areas of
the Self so it can grow and blossom in their life.
Are you ready to get started? If so, begin with the following exercise.
You will take inventory of your beliefs in many different areas of your life,
whether they're positive or negative, empowering or limiting.
You can’t clear a belief until you know exactly what it is and where it came
from. Most of our beliefs are stored in the subconscious mind, where they
hide out and operate below the level of the conscious awareness.
As you do the inventory, you'll expose a lot of your beliefs that you’re familiar
with, and many beliefs you didn’t even know you had.
You’ll recognize that some of these beliefs you limit you or stop you from
making forward progress toward your goals. In the steps that follow, you’ll
learn how to delete them those problematic permanently from your psyche
and eliminate them from your life.
You need courage to look directly into your own mind. You might discover
what’s underneath the negative feelings, bad choices, and habitual behaviors
that prevent you from living the joyful and successful life you want.
The beliefs you adopted in childhood are deep programs that still drive your
experience of yourself, other people, and the world – your Human Operating System.
Take out a journal, pad of paper, or open a new e-document. Contemplate each
question by saying to yourself (either out loud or silently):
Listen to your mind’s first response to the question and write it down.
Stay open and neutral. See what comes up. Listen for any voice or
automatic internal response to the statement.
Write down whatever comes up. For example, “I’m an idiot.” Don’t judge the
answers that emerge. Don’t argue with yourself, or censor unpleasant
opinions. Allow them all to appear and present themselves, whatever they are.
Honor each one and write it down, even if it sounds absurd or strange. Even if
you have the thought, “I don’t believe that!” When your subconscious talks,
it’s a good time to listen!
Then say the phrase again. “Something else I believe about __[topic]__
is…” and write down whatever comes up next. Repeat this process,
over and over, until no new beliefs come up, or you feel empty. It may
take a while. Keep going until you feel it’s complete. You may come
up with 25 or more beliefs in each topic area.
Let your thoughts flow and keep your pen (or fingers) moving. Give yourself
at least ten minutes to write freely on each topic. Keep going! The best ones
emerge when you push past the belief, “I’m done!” and say the phrase again.
Myself My attitude
My body My circumstances
My health My relationships
My work The world
My finances The past
Money The future
Success My beliefs
My abilities My Soul / Spirit
My limitations God / Source / Creator
Instructions: Pick one topic, and say the following phrase out loud,
using that topic. [For example, if you are exploring your work, say:]
Then, go back and circle five to ten beliefs that generated the
strongest negative reactions. Gather those beliefs into a new
document.
Next, review the following questions, and write down your answers
to each question about each of those beliefs:
3. Did I ever consciously choose to believe it? If so, when, and why?
4. What advantage did I get or gain by having this belief? What did I
avoid by having it? How did this belief serve me in my life?
5. What would be different if I didn’t have this belief? Who would I be?
What could I do?
After completing this part of the exercise, go back over your answers,
and choose the top three negative beliefs you would like to delete,
change, or transform.
Take those three beliefs, along with your answers to these questions, and
move them to a new page. You’ll use them in the upcoming webinar.
When you delete an old belief from the psyche, you create space – an
opening for something new. This is an opportunity to install a new,
positive, and empowering belief in that fresh soil.
Enjoy the space of “no-belief.” It’s a beautiful place to hang out for awhile.
We’ve noticed, though, that if you don’t fill the space with something new, the
old belief can sneak back in out of habit (like weeds in a garden).
Look at your #1 most negative belief. What would you prefer to believe
instead? A good place to start is its opposite, but don’t stop there. Since
you’re in charge, you can create anything you want. Enhance your new belief
so it feels wonderful, completely positive and supportive. (If you know you
can’t believe the new belief, it’s too big. Reduce it to one you can believe.)
Every belief produces a specific feeling and experience. Try on the new belief
as if you’re trying on a new suit or dress to find out what it feels like. Say it to
yourself and feel what it feels like to believe it 100%. Modify it and try on the
new version. Keep changing it until it’s right for you.
For example, if your old belief is, “There’s something wrong with me,” you
could replace it with, “There’s something right about me.” That belief is better,
but it’s not very empowering. If you push it all the way up the scale of
positivity, you might come to: “I am the light of my soul, shining with my own
perfect light.” Can you feel the difference? Go for that WOW! feeling.
Here’s another example: If you hold the old belief, “I am not loved,” you could
replace it with “I am loved,” which is a very good belief to have. But feel what
it would feel like to believe, “I am unconditionally loved by God, the Universe,
and every important person in my life.”. Or try this one on: “I AM love.”
You have the power to choose your own beliefs – so you might as well
choose the most empowering, enlightening belief you can imagine.
You can also imagine having your life be exactly the way you want it, so you
feel fantastic. Then ask yourself, “What would someone have to believe in
order to experience this?”
The answer to that question may be the belief you’re looking for!
Congratulations!
You’ve completed the Step 1 of the Clear Beliefs Process: Identify the
beliefs you want to change.
You’re ready for the next steps, and I'd like to show you Steps 2 and 3.
I’ll show you the next steps and demonstrate two of my favorite
techniques for deleting beliefs at the core of the psyche – in a live demo
with a volunteer from the audience.
It's coming soon! We meet on Zoom. Click THIS LINK to reserve your seat.
Join me for this free online class to find out how you can quickly
produce dramatic results for your clients (and for yourself!).
Can it really be that easy? Yes. It can, and it is, if you have the right
technology.
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• How our “love beliefs” impact our ability to sustain and thrive in an
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Warmly,
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