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Introduction
You have the power to design your life. Designing
your life is a process. Nothing magic, just follow the steps
Core Beliefs
Your core beliefs determine your actions. If you want
your circumstances to change, you must change your core
beliefs.
Mindset
Mindset is an established set of attitudes. We need to
have an open mindset. A closed mindset will not allow us to
expand, grow and accept new things.
Getting Clear
Too often we do not reach our goals because we are
not totally clear. You must get clear about what you want.
Hitting a target requires that we know what we are aiming at.
Setting Goals
Learn how to set goals. Learn what a SMART goal is.
Set goals that are positive.
Taking Action
Nothing matters unless you take action on your goals.
Become a person of action. Aim, fire and adjust.
Overcoming fear
Fear keeps more people from achieving their goals
than lack of skill, education or money. Learn to recognize
and overcome fear.
Associates
The people that we associate with will always have a
direct bearing on the quality of our lives. This is in terms of
money and satisfaction. We need to choose our friends very
carefully. Although we do not get much choice in who are
relatives are, we do have some control over the time we
spend and the influence we allow them to have on our lives.
Making money
Most people are concerned about money or the lack
of money. Yet they do not study money. They really do not
understand what money represents.
Persistence
The most successful people are not necessarily the
smartest people. The most successful people are the ones
who decided on a particular path in life and stuck to it long
enough to become successful.
Summary
Designing Your Life is simple and can be reduced to
two concepts – Getting clear about what you want and taking
focused action toward your goals.
Appendix A
Goals Worksheet
Introduction
Are you getting all you want from life? Is your life what you
had always hoped and dreamed it would be?
What if I told you that you had the power to design whatever
life you wanted? How would you feel knowing that you could
design whatever lifestyle you wanted? Pretty powerful stuff,
right?
Well the truth is you have that power. You have always had
that power. Now here is the part you may not like, you
actually designed your life as it is now. Well maybe you did
not design it at all. Maybe you just took what came your
way. Maybe your life has been totally reactive. But even
then you choose to be reactive rather than proactive. So by
default, you designed your current life. We will go much
deeper into this, but just for now, realize that you are
responsible for your current situation.
Now I know very well what you may be thinking. That there
is no way to get from where you are to where you would like
to be. There is no magic that will make you a rock star, a
standout movie star or a professional athlete. I am not about
to tell you that you can ever achieve anything that is totally
unrealistic. But if you have average intelligence, are willing
to clearly focus on your goals and do the necessary work,
there is nothing that can hold you back. There are two
problems that most people face. The first in getting a clear
focus on what they want and of course then doing the
necessary work.
Open mindset
Getting clear
You will need to be very clear about the life you want to
design. Achieving happiness is not designing a lifestyle.
Setting Goals
Taking action
When all is said and done, it does not matter how much you
know, how clear you are or how solid your belief system.
Unless you take focused action, all it for naught. The results
you want in life can only be achieved with focused action.
There are generally two reasons that people do not take
focused action. One is they are not quite sure where to start
or exactly how to do what they are supposed to do. The
other reason, the big one, is fear. We will address both of
these roadblocks.
Time
Associates
It has been said that our income will never exceed the
average income of our five closest friends. Who we
associate with has a direct impact on our quality of life.
Making money
Persistence
The truth is they are not lucky. Except for random acts,
there is no such thing as good luck or even bad luck. Luck
has been defined as “to meet or acquire by accidental good
fortune.” This would apply to winning the lottery or any other
such random event. But the person whose life is a total
success did not obtain that position by accident.
• Work/career goals
• Physical health
• Emotional health
• Financial goals
• Spiritual balance
Your emotional and physical goals are personal and will only
be dealt with here in the most general terms. However, it will
It is very easy to tell yourself that you had little control over
your present circumstances. That you are a victim of
circumstances. That is was not your fault that you lost your
job, or that your wife/husband left you. If you are looking for
excuses, you probably do not need to look very far to find
someone or something to blame.
And for a lot of people, that makes them feel better. After all,
it is not their fault. But those people will never achieve
success in life. As long as you give up the responsibility for
your life to outside events, you will continue to be tossed
about like a ship without a rudder.
Your beliefs allow you to take certain actions. The very first
time you consider doing something, your beliefs tell you it is
okay to take that action. If you continue taking that action,
soon the action becomes a habit. Our lives are ruled by our
habits. But the habit started with our core beliefs.
The first and most important step is to accept that you have
total control over but one thing in life. And that is your
thoughts. You have no control over what someone else
does. You have no control over the financial markets, the
weather or any other of the numerous things that can affect
our lives. We cannot control what happens in our lives, we
can control how we react to things that happen in our lives.
Locus of Control
The son was out riding the beautiful horse. The horse
stopped short, the son fell off and broke his leg. The man
again was in a state of depression.
A few days later, the army came through the village and
took all young men to fight in a far off war. Because of the
broken leg, they did not take the son. The man was so
grateful.
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Our beliefs come from all we have met – from our parents,
friends, associates, the information we read in books,
magazines and newspapers, radio, television and movies.
In short we filter information from a number of sources and
accept that which fits our basic belief system. Those things
we accept and those concepts we reject both serve to
strengthen our belief system.
If you are going to achieve all you want to in life, you will
need to do some serious questioning of your beliefs and
value systems. This will not be easy. It will also take a lot of
I have often said that habits are the most powerful force in
the world. I then qualify that by saying; at least to you habits
are the most powerful force in the world. Habit start off
innocently enough. When we first take an action, we consult
our belief system to make sure the action is in accordance
with our core values. But each time we repeat the action, it
becomes more an integral part of who we are. Eventually
we come to accept that the action is totally okay and no
longer consult our belief system. We react out of habit.
Now I believe that you should read material that moves you
toward your goals in life. There is nothing wrong with an
occasional good mystery or other work of fiction. But most
What things have I done in the last few days that I praise
myself for? Most of us are very good at kicking ourselves for
things we have done. But we very rarely praise ourselves
for the good that we do. A good habit to develop is to write
down the positive things you have done. It could be as
simple as acknowledging yourself for some actions you have
taken. But if you develop the habit of praising yourself for
the good things you are doing each day, you will gradually
raise your self-esteem. You will become aware of how much
good you are doing in life.
If you hope to achieve what you truly want in life, you must
come to the conclusion that your thoughts eventually lead to
your circumstances. In order to change your circumstances,
you must start by changing your thoughts.
Exercises:
One of the big ways that our mindset determines our future
is how we think about talent versus work. As a society, we
praise talent. In our society, tall men earn more than their
shorter brothers. Attractive women get ahead faster and go
farther than their homely sisters. Our society has a fixed
mindset about these attributes. However, as employers we
often shortchange our companies by taking such a short
sighted view of things. We should praise hard work, not
talent. We need to look beyond the surface and see the
deeper qualities a person possesses.
But you need to stop and ask yourself if this is the best way?
Is competition the way nature intended us to live? Could we
actually stand a better chance of achieving our goals is we
learned to collaborate with others?
We could learn a lot from ants and bees. These are very
primitive animal life forms. Yet they can construct elaborate
anthills and beehives. And they do it by working together.
If you planted a fruit tree, how long would you wait for it to
produce the fruit? Probably a few years. The tree needs to
grow to a certain size before it produces fruit. During this
time, you will need to water and fertilize the tree. You will
also need to prune the tree and protect it from insects and
plant disease. In short, even after you planted the tree you
need to continue working on the tree and you have to wait
until the tree has reached the proper size to produce fruit.
The same is true of your goals. You can set your goals but
you will need to do the work necessary to for the goals to
bear fruit. You need to nurture your goals and do the work
for you to learn and grow. If your goals are stretching you,
you will need to learn new skills, develop new relationships
and make new connections. It takes time. To rush the
process can often result in a premature death.
As you can see from the above examples, our mindset has a
significant bearing on our ability to achieve our goals. Our
mindset literally shapes our lives. What we think about, we
bring about. Therefore it is vitally important that we develop
9. Do you want to make sure you get the proper credit for
your contribution to a task?
10. Do you want to make sure that you get none of the
blame for something you were not really responsible for?
While you might think it only makes sense to get credit for
what you do and not to get blamed for what you really had
no part if doing, this represents a self-centered way of
thinking. Part of an open mindset is to get away from the
self-centered way of thinking. Your concern should be on
getting results – not who gets credit. As previously
discussed, blame should not be part of your way of thinking
or acting. If you get blamed for something – whether it was
your fault or not – simply learn from the experience and do
not try to defend yourself.
The way you view the world, your attitude toward the world
will have a significant bearing on how the world treats you. If
you have a negative attitude, think the world owes you
something, then you are going to have a difficult time
designing the life you want. On the other hand, if you
approach life with a positive outlook, realizing that there are
sufficient resources available to you, you will be able to
design the life you wish.
Lewis Carroll
Alice in Wonderland
Unless and until you become clear, you will not be able to
take focused actions. You will not have a good sense of
direction about where you want to go or how to get there.
Most people, when uncertain about where they want to go or
how they want to get there simply do nothing. Uncertainty
breeds inaction. Inaction is the death of any goals program.
The point of all the above questions is to get rid of all the
normal excuses we give about why we can’t do something.
For example, lots of people will tell you they want their own
business, but they don’t have the financing, the education or
any other excuse. You need to get rid of excuses. The
Where am I living?
One thing you need to realize. You are designing a life. You
are not going to design a life. See designing is a process.
As you start to get clear about what you truly want, make it a
habit to write things in your journal. There is something
about writing things down that forces clarity of thought and
makes the commitment stronger. When we write things
down, we become more committed to them. It is much too
easy to change or make adjustments to an idea in our head.
If you are truly going to achieve success, you must have a
fixed target. You cannot be pursuing one goal today and a
slightly different one tomorrow. Your subconscious mind
cannot focus on a fuzzy goal. You need to be specific. So
once you are clear about what you want, write it down.
Setting Goals
Like any journey, there will be some bumps in the road, and
more than likely some detours. But you will not lose sight of
your goals. You will keep focused on your destination.
When roadblocks appear, you will simply alter your course to
get around the obstacles without changing your intended
destination.
And since you have already taken the first step, the second
and subsequent steps should be much easier. But once you
have begun, it is imperative that you keep moving toward
If you will simply follow the plan, the rewards will be greater
than anything you have ever imagined. The wonderful news
is that each success builds other successes and the rewards
are compounded. It is like the proverbial snowball rolling
downhill. Your rewards will just keep getting bigger and
bigger. And the only limits are the ones you place on
yourself.
You would do well to read the above quote and memorize it.
If you link thought with purpose, gather your thoughts and
take focused action you can accomplish anything.
Your Goals
Once you have worked with a list of goals over a few days
and narrowed it down or eliminated goals that were merely
wishes, it is time to put the goals in some order. This is very
important. Take some time to think about your priorities.
You want your most important goal to be at the top of your
list. You should have a real purpose associated with your
most important goal. It is the strong purpose that gives you
the drive to achieve the goal. So take some time to write
down why you want to achieve a particular goal – how
accomplishing your goal will benefit you and change your
life. The stronger the purpose, the stronger the desire to
achieve.
You must also realize that you can only acquire money or
any other thing of value by providing service of equal value.
Money is simply a medium of exchange. It is the benefit
gained by providing goods or services. So if you need or
want a certain amount of money, your goal should be to
identify a valuable service you would enjoy providing.
Concentrate on doing a good job and the money will surely
follow. The sad truth is, if you concentrate on just obtaining
money, you will not provide an exceptional level of service
and will surely not achieve your desired income. But if you
SMART Goals
As you are listing your goals, you need to make sure that
your goals are SMART goals. The following is a definition of
SMART goals.
S - Specific
M - Measurable
A - Attainable
R - Realistic
T - Time
Specific
Attainable
Realistic
Time
All goals must have a target time frame for achieving the
goal. A deadline spurs you to action. You must set a
realistic deadline and take the necessary action to achieve
your goal. Without a deadline, there is no commitment. The
time must be measurable, attainable and realistic.
Relationship Goals
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If I were to ask you how much time you spend in the past or
spend in the future, you would probably give me a bit of a
puzzled look. You might think to yourself that you don’t
spend any time in the past and you certainly can’t travel to
the future.
But the simple truth is that most people do not live their lives
in the present moment. We spend far too much time in the
past. How do we spend time in the past? We are constantly
replaying past events, trying in our mind to change the
outcome. We play past events over and over, trying out
We often try to shape how the future will unfold for us. We
get caught up in playing out how future events will play out.
While we certainly need to prepare for the future, we do not
need to spend time trying to predict the future. We have no
control over others or outside circumstances. We only have
control over our reaction to events as they happen. Spend
your time learning and growing. You will be better prepared
for the future.
Housecleaning
You will need lots of time and energy to focus on the things
you really want. Take the time now to rid your life of some of
the clutter that is draining your time and energy.
If you are like most people, you have way too many options.
Most of us find it difficult to make choices. Rather than
choose between belonging to organization A or club B, we
choose both. We have too many options. On the one hand
it might seem like a blessing to live in so much abundance
where we can pick and choose. But having too many
options really keeps us from developing a very narrow focus.
If you truly want to achieve your goals, you will need to
narrow your focus.
If I asked you what was necessary for failure, how would you
answer? That is an interesting question. I would like you to
think about it for a few minutes. What is necessary for
failure?
I am sure that right now you are scratching your head and
wondering what can possibly be common to all failures.
Well the answer will surprise you. But here it is. Excuses.
Just think about it. All the failures I have been associated
with, mine, in a group or with a client … no matter what, the
one thing that all failures had in common was excuses. And
the excuses can run from the bland to the unbelievable. But
in the end, they are still excuses. They often start with
something like, “I thought …” or “I didn’t know … “or “How
was I to know …”. It really does not matter how simple or
elaborate they are, when you strip them down to the bare
essentials, they are still excuses.
Next time you begin to offer an excuse, stop and think. Are
you giving up a real learning opportunity to escape short
term embarrassment?
Some tools
Now do not expect them to baby sit you. But most will be
willing to share some ideas and insights with you. They will
also point you in the right direction and give you some
guidance. But at the first sign that you are not doing the
work, taking responsibility for your own actions and are not
really serious, they will cease offering any help. If you are
going to seek help from successful people, you must honor
their time and advice. Don’t try to fool them or make
excuses for your lack of progress.
But if you find a mentor that will give you a couple of hours
per month, you will have found a gold mine. Treasure it like
one. If you are showing progress, doing what you have
committed to do, it is highly like that the mentor will introduce
you to additional valuable resources.
Epictetus
A lot of people will start strong and then when they meet the
least bit of resistance, they fold their tent and go home.
Here is where the strength of your commitment really shows.
You can absolutely count on some bumps in the road and
some setbacks. If it were a cake walk, everyone would be
successful. That does not mean it is impossible. It does
mean that when you meet resistance, when you feel like
quitting, you will need some extra reserves to push you
through the resistance. Your commitment must be strong.
Calvin Coolidge
If you are like most people, you have a lot of material items
on your goals list. It might be a newer, more expensive
automobile, a bigger house, a county or beach home. You
probably have also listed a certain amount of liquid assets
(cash and securities) which is intended to provide a certain
degree of security.
Action plan
Here is where you will separate yourself from all the goal
setters and become a goal achiever. You will need to make
a list of all the things you will need to achieve your goal. List
Let’s recap the steps we have taken. The first thing you
need to do is to make a list of resources you need to
complete your goal. Then take an inventory of the skills and
tools you already possess. Next make a list of possible
sources for the resources you do not currently possess. The
best way to obtain these resources is to ask. Ask your
Most people will not do this simple step. Why? Most people
really do not want to be held accountable. They want the
luxury of being able to let their schedule slip. They want to
be able to do things that are not taking them towards their
goals without having to account for it. This simple step,
getting an accountability partner, will do more to help you
achieve your goals than anything else I can recommend. It
works.
With your detail plan for achieving your goals, you should
have measurable milestones. Each time you reach a
milestone, mark it on your goal worksheet. Also you should
celebrate your small victories. By acknowledging your
progress, you give yourself the necessary energy to keep
pushing forward.
In some respects, you can think of fear a lot like you think of
love. Everyone talks about it, but very few people can really
explain what it is, how it affects our lives and what we can do
about it.
But that is not the most damaging type of fear. It is the fear
of failure and the fear of success that really keep us trapped
in what is all too often called our comfort zone. I have a lot
of trouble with the term comfort zone. Very few people are
truly comfortable. I think the term really means that we
would rather deal with the devil we have than deal with the
devil that we might get if we did something to change our
circumstances. Changing our circumstances involves
dealing with the unknown. And for most of us, that involves
a certain amount of fear.
Stress levels
Today, most of the encounters with the unknown are not life
threatening. But our body reacts the same way. The
adrenaline gland produces energy boosting secretions and
the immune system shuts down. But for most encounters
we cannot physically fight or run. Most of the encounters
today are not threats of physical harm. The threats are to
our ego.
Our typical day is filled with other situations like the above
two examples. If could be a co-worker saying something
about what we did, the way we are dressed or some other
negative comment about us. We could be on the receiving
end of a complaint or unreasonable request from our boss.
The truth is our lives are filled with stressful situations –
situations that are not going the way we want them to do.
We have our idea of how the world should work. And when
things happen that do not conform to our ideal world, we
become stressed. Actually it is even worse than that. We
begin to imagine things happening that are not in
accordance with our ideal world and we get stressed out.
Now when we start to imagine things that could happen that
is just another way to describe fear.
Miguel Cervantes
Fear of failure
As I was driving her to class on that first day, she was not
her usual bubbly self. She was very quiet. As we
approached the school she said, “You are not going to just
drop me off are you?”
Identify fear
But here is one exercise that you should do. If you are
reluctant to move ahead on a project or idea, here is one
way to try and overcome the fear. Take a sheet of paper
and draw a line down the middle. On one side, list all the
good that you expect to gain from completion of the project.
On the other side, list all the unpleasant things that might
come about from the failure of the project. Then consider all
the bad things that might happen. Arrange those items from
the least likely to the most likely outcome. This is a method
of evaluating the risk. If the most likely negative outcome is
not that bad and the most likely positive outcome brings you
And the last method is the kaizen method. Set the steps so
small that anyone could do them. By taking small but
consistent steps to achieve your goals, you will get there
Time
One of the most often heard phrases today is, “I don’t have
any time.” Of course there are lots of variations of that
phrase. I am too busy. I don’t know where the day went.
And of course – time flies.
We often let the urgent take control of our lives and therefore
put off the really important task until some future time. The
more important things we allocate to some future time
period, the more likely we will become overwhelmed at all
the important things that need to be done. The end result is
none of the important things ever get done. They are always
put off until tomorrow. And unfortunately we allow more and
more things to become urgent.
The very best way to make sure that we are handling things
in their order of importance is to plan our time. We need to
decide on our most important tasks and rank those tasks in
order of importance.
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The first thing you need to remember is you are not going to
change them. It is difficult enough to change yourself. You
have no ability to change another person. So save all your
energy and efforts for yourself. The second thing to
remember is their actions really do not affect you. It is your
reaction to their actions. Learn to accept what they do with
calmness. I am not saying that you must like all or any of
the things the troublesome relative does. But since you
actually have no control over what anyone else does, you
must not let their actions derail yours.
Making Money
So what is money?
First I will say what money is not. It is not dirty. Having a lot
of money does not mean you were involved in anything
illegal. And there is no correlation between hard work and
money. Money is actually not scarce at all. And in fact it
can seemingly grow on trees or out of thin air. I’ll explain
that a little later.
Now you may think that you know what money is. You
probably have a few dollars in your purse or wallet and can
easily recognize that as money. But do you really
understand at a deeper level what money is?
But the money you receive is the value of the services you
render. If you want to make more money, you can do so in
only two ways. Give higher value services or give the same
value services to more people.
Let’s talk about your job. You probably get paid for a certain
amount of time worked – either per hour or per month. But
you are not really getting paid by the hour. You are getting
paid for the value you bring to that hour. It is not your time, it
is the value you bring to the marketplace during and it is
measured in a period of time.
Now if you want to earn more, you must find out how to bring
more value to the market place. You can earn as much as
you wish so long as you are supplying what other people
want or need.
But if you look beyond the idea, you will see that all these
people, the writer, artist and business executive either
brought very high value to a few people or a little value to the
masses of people.
On the other hand, the firms that are highly selective, that
appeal only to a select few or to highly specialized situations
will be able to charge significantly higher fees. And often
Just because you have the potential for a huge market does
not necessarily mean that is the ideal market for you.
However, limiting yourself to a certain geographical area can
have some serious limitations on the potential size, growth
and profitability of your business. You need to be aware of
the number of potential consumers of your product or
services. And to a large extent that is determined by the
distribution channels available to you.
Value position
Once you have narrowed down your target market, you need
to develop your USP – unique selling proposition. This is
your message to your market. It tells your market the
benefits of your product or service. Too many people get
hung up on telling all the features of the product or service.
The market really does not care about the features. The
potential user is interested in one thing – what’s in it for me –
this is often shown as an acronym WIIFM.
If you are like most marketers and squeeze all you can out of
the first sale, it may be the only sale you will make to that
customer. But if you learn to over deliver, to spend the
money getting the customer and making sure that customer
Now you might say if you lose money on the first sale, how
do you ever make it back? Well once you have a satisfied
customer, you will find it much easier to sell to them again
and again. And your marketing cost will be much lower.
Most of the money you spend on the marketing on the front
end will not need to be spent on the second and subsequent
sale. Therefore the profit margins will be much higher.
If things are going a little slow, put a little more energy into
the business. Giving up or switching directions too soon runs
a great risk. You must learn to hang in there and be
persistent. If something is basically wrong with your
business model, don’t be stubborn. Learn to tell the
Summary
If you are not achieving what you want, check on your clarity
of purpose. If your purpose is clear, examine how much
action you are taking toward your goals.
Reading
When you are just starting out, the least expensive method
of learning and growing is to read good books. You will do
best to take a systematic approach to your reading. That is,
develop the habit of reading for a fixed amount of time each
day. You should read those types of books that will assist
you in your growth. This can be biographies of successful
men (and unsuccessful for that matter – so you learn what
not to do), how-to business books, marketing and
management. You should also read some psychology
books. You need a good understand of why people do what
You can put any of the above names in your search engine
and it will give you any number of web sites where you can
buy their material. Of course, you can and should check
ebay. As long as you are buying CDs the material should be
in good condition and you can get it at a fraction of the cost.
You are not going to learn million dollar ideas from the shoe
shine boy. I am not trying to be mean to the shoe shine boy.
There is a need for them and I am glad that some people
have decided that is their calling in life. It is just that as
stated before, your income will depend in part on the caliber
of people you associate with. And if you want to be in the
circle of millionaires, you have to think and act like a
millionaire. You can only learn that one way. Associate with
them.
Goals Worksheet
If you are going to achieve all the goals you have listed, you
will need to follow a system. You cannot approach your
goals in a casual manner and expect to achieve them.
Some people are under the mistaken impression that all you
need to do is write down your goals and by keeping them in
front of you they will by some magic appear. While you must
keep your focus on what you want, you still need a system to
follow. The following is a basic path to achieve any goal.
You should make copies of this worksheet and use one copy
for each goal.
Is it specific?
Is there any way for you to get more specific about the goal?
Remember the more specific you are, the easier it will be to
obtain. Your subconscious mind works best when the
directions are very clear.
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Is it attainable?
Your goal needs to stretch you from where you are now to
where you want to be. But while the goal should stretch you,
make you learn more and try new and different things, it
should not be so far that you give up before you even start.
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Is it realistic?
You must make sure that the goal you have set is realistic
for you. Are there things in your physical make-up that make
achieving the goal unrealistic? For example if you are under
5 feet tall, having a goal to play professional basketball is
probably unrealistic. Don’t set goals that are totally out of
the realm of possibilities.
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Plan of Action
Now that you are totally confident that your goal qualifies as
a SMART goal we are ready to design a plan of action.
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You may be able to break your goal down into more steps.
On the other hand you may find that there are not that many
separate steps, If you find you want to break the goal down
into more than 10 steps, that is perfectly okay. Remember
the smaller the step, the easier it should be to accomplish
and the more confident you will be as you are making
progress toward your goal. If you need additional steps, just
make a separate worksheet with the additional steps.
What actions will I take if the results are different from those
that I expected? You may not be able to answer this
because the different results might have a significant
influence on the actions. Just realize that if your results are
different than what you expect, you will need to make some
adjustments.
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You need to repeat this question each and every day until
this step of the plan is complete.
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Your initial reaction might be that this is a lot of work.
Actually it will ultimately result in less work and a faster and
more direct path to achieving your goals. You will need to
do all the steps anyway. Why not do them in a systematic
fashion?