� Write down all the things that you dislike about him/her.

Admiring and
longing for them won't help you feel better, it will make you feel even more
desperate to be liked by them, and this could lead to infatuation and depression,
if it hasn't already. Listing all the bad points will bring a downfall on the
admiration you feel for them. List your hobbies, friends, family, where you hope to
be in the future. In the end, all you have is yourself. You can't go your whole
life wishing you had someone else, and depending on them with all your might. Think
about future careers, and remember: you don't need that one person for you to be
successful, there will be others. Don't contact this person. The contact will make
you want to be drawn even closer, and if you're not liked by this person, you're
going to get even more heartbroken. Accept that this person doesn't return the
feelings for you, for whatever reason. But there will always be someone who does.
If you have a social network, don't look at their profile. List all the things you
like about yourself. And don't write nothing! Ask friends and family how they would
describe you, and build from that. There is only one of you in the whole world and
anyone would be blind not to realise. Show them how much better you are without
them. If they don't like you as much as you like them, it's their loss. You should
be the more superior person because you are YOU. Show him/her what they're missing
out on. And 99.9% of the time, they will be back. Keep yourself occupied. Moping
around in your dark room in bed won't solve anything. Go out and get some fresh
air, read a good book, spend time with friends. It's your own life and you deserve
a chance to live it. Don't let one petty person get you down. The more active you
stay, the more you will come to realise that there is a whole world out there, and
that is not dominated by that one individual. Delete their number. Erase their
email. Push them out of your lives completely. It's harsh, but it is the only way
to get over them. The pain hurts more without them at first, but imagine the pain
it would be if you were to stay in your isolated state. Send a silent goodbye and
move on with your growing life. Remember that there are more people in the world.
Even though that one person doesn't reciprocate your feelings, doesn't mean other
people won't. Don't rush love. Do not be rude to this person. Be normal and
pleasant, act as if you're not bothered, they're just another person like everyone
else.
� If you ever feel an urge to get near to this person, make sure you stop
yourself. If you want to talk to someone, talk to friends.
� Actually talk to friends and family about your crush. Keeping the problem
bottled up inside you could make it worse. A problem shared is a problem halved.
� it's not like this is true love, remember that you'll find someone else.
� if this person goes to your school, its ok to talk just don't get attached to
them and feel awkward. Act casually, as if nothing ever happened and you've moved
on.