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Developing Skills
for
Language Acquisition
(A Practical Course in English Language
for 1st Year Students)
Course tutor:
Associate Professor Steluta Stan, PhD
Galati
2016
6 Developing Skills for Language Acquisition
Tenses of the Indicative - Exercises
CONTENTS
The judge hears/is hearing the key; witness tomorrow morning and I don't
see/am not seeing why, as to my mind, it's not the right time.
I hear/am hearing from Tim a lot these days and he is keen on learning
whether Mary sees/is seeing his father.
Thalia thinks/is thinking it right not to sell her car yet but her father thinks/is
thinking of doing it behind her back.
My little son looks/is looking at that clown and is telling me that he looks/is
looking very funny.
Jane smells/is smelling the roses her boyfriend has just given her and she
is happy as they smell/are smelling very nice.
I don't mind/am not minding if your sister minds/is minding our little
daughter while we are away as we've got nobody else to do it.
Janice considers/is considering moving into a new flat this winter but her
parents don't consider/are not considering it prudent to let her do as she
wishes.
III. Rewrite each of the following sentences so that the meaning stays
the same and use Past Tense Simple/Continuous, Past Perfect
Simple/Continuous. Do not alter the capitalized words in any way.
Terry would ride to the lake every summer to meet her boyfriend! TO
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My cousin had the irritating habit of borrowing our car and returning it with
no gas. ALWAYS
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When the team arrived at the hotel they learnt that their rooms had been
cancelled. BY
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I had been in front of the cinema for two hours when he finally arrived.
WAITING
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Food in Romania wasn't always as expensive as that. USE
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Last year we intended to spend our New Year's Eve in Vienna but
something unexpected came up and we had to cancel. WERE
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We haven't seen our neighbours so happy for quite some time. SINCE
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Terry locked the front door and then left for school. BEFORE
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Mary said, "It isn't my fault that he has lost his money gambling”. THAT
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He had planned to take his wife out on her birthday. WAS
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They came to Israel in 1990, and five years later the bombing raids
started. FOR
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They haven't visited Egypt since 1998. LAST
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The little girl started feeling sick when she was two years old; ten years
later she was not cured. BEFORE
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In 1990 they were having a new house built. UNDER
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Sheila was playing in the sandpit; a stranger came and threatened her.
WHILE
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IV. Put each verb in brackets into a suitable past tense form.
And yet it (be) perfectly true that she (have) a dreadful night. Even after
Mrs. Penniman (leave) her she (have) no sleep; she (lie) staring at the
uncomforting gloom, with eyes and ears filled with the movement with which her
father (turn) her out of his room, and of the words in which he (tell) her that she
was a heartless daughter. Her heart (break); she (have) heart enough for that.
At moments it (seem) to her that she (believe)'him and that to do what she (do)
a girl must indeed be bad.
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VI. Rewrite each of the following sentences so that the meaning
stays the same. Pay attention to ail means of expressing future time. Do
not alter the capitalized words in any way.
1. They have arranged to meet their son's teachers tomorrow. MEETING
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2. John intends to get a scholarship next year. IS
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3. When this academic year ends, our principal is already 50. HAVE
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4. The family living next door are on the point of leaving on a trip to the
mountains. VERGE
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5. She is about to get married to the man of her dreams. TO
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6. They have made arrangements to sell this flat by the end of the month.
ARE
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7. Next week Tom is sure to be driving about Paris to clinch some deals
for his company. BE
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8. The plane is scheduled to take off at noon. OFF
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9. My cousin has arranged to leave by the 10:15 train tomorrow morning.
IS
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10. If you look at the clouds in the sky you can tell that rain is close.
GOING
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11. Will the writer finish his novel by Christmas? WRITING
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12. The coach with Romanian tourists is bound to reach Budapest
tomorrow evening. DUE
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13. Her intention is to become the manager of her department this year. IS
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14. Next week I will be sent to the construction site to interview people. BE
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15. She is having an appointment with her lawyer tonight. IS
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VII. Correct any mistakes you find in each of the following sentences.
Tick the correct ones.
1. When I will finish my homework J will go out and play.
2. Before she will take pills she goes to the doctor.
3. By the time they will have retired they have worked in this office for 25
years.
4. Look at the dark clouds! It is going to rain!
5. Next week I'll be looking for this book in all the bookshops in the town, I
promise.
6. It isn't long before the boy's parents will realize that he is a drug addict.
7. By the time she has taken the entrance exam, she has studied
everything she needs.
8. Some friends of my brother's spend this weekend with us.
9. You will be having to improve your drawing skills if you really want to
become a designer.
10. The students finish their projects by mid July.
11. The new academic year is starting on September 15 th.
12. Unless she will not stop lying to people, she will soon feel rejected.
13. If you will be in her shoes what do you do?
14. She will be driving her Mercedes while he will be walking to work this
time next year.
15. By the time the train will pull in at this platform all of us will have
arrived.
Translation exercises
I.
1. Ploua. ................................................................................................
2. In Anglia ploua des. .............................................................................
3. Ploua de doua ore. ...............................................................................
4. A plouat. ............................................................................................
5. A plouat de la 3 la 5. ............................................................................
6. Ploua cind am ajuns la Ploiesti. .............................................................
7. Plouase cind am ajuns. .......................................................................
II.
1. Desi de obicei George merge cu tramvaiul la serviciu, astazi merge cu
masina lui, caci are o intalnire importanta si vrea sa se asigure ca nu va
intarzia. ..................................................................................................
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2. Fluviul Dunarea isi are izvorul in Germania si se varsa in MareaNeagra.
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3. Autorul spune despre personajele sale ca sunt copii fidele ale diferitelor tipuri
de oameni din societatea anilor '90.
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4. Pentru a face acest tort trebuie sa aveti: oua, faina, fructe, stafide, frisca,
zahar. Spargeti ouale, separati galbenusul de albusuri, amestecati zaharul cu
galbenusurile pana obtineti o pasta omogena apoi adaugati cacao, etc.
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5. Va dam cuvantui nostru ca acceptam oferta dv. chiar daca el zice ca nu
facem bine si ca avem numai de pierdut prin semnarea acestui acord.
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6. Regele intra in sala insotit de regina si de suita acesteia; cei doi se asaza la
cate un capat al mesei, iar damele de/companie ale reginei raman undeva in
fundal. ..........................................................................
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8. Pentru a pune masina in miscare calci ambreiajul, scoti din viteza si pornesti
motorul; apoi bagi in viteza intaia cu ambreiajul calcat si ridici progresiv piciorul
de pe ambreiaj, in timp ce accelerezi putin. .....................
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9. La fizionomie seamana din ce in ce mai mult cu mama sa, desi,
comportamental tinde sa-1 copieze pe tatal sau. .......................................
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10. Baietelul lor intotdeauna da de bucluc atunci cand tatal sau nu poate sa
vina sa-1 ia de la scoala si vine acasa singur pe jos. ..............................
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III.
IV.
1. In prima jumatate a lunii acesteia m-am intalnit cu John cand se ducea la
spital cu bunica lui, iar in a doua jumatate a lunii m-am intalnit cu fratele sau
care venea de la-aeroport. ................................................................
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2. Telefonul a sunat adineauri, dar n-am apucat sa raspund, caci am ajuns la el
prea tarziu. ......................................................................................
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3. Varul nostru tocmai s-a mutat in casa noua si ne-a dat aceasta veste
adineauri. ...............................................................................................
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4. leri am scris la noul meu roman sase ore dar nu am terminat inca capitolul
respectiv. ....................................................................................
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5. Il cunosc de zece ani si in tot acest timp nu m-a dezamagit niciodata, dar ieri
mi-a facut bucata. ........................................................................
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6. — L-ai auzit vreodata pe ziaristul acesta spunand gogomanii? — Da, l-am
auzit chiar de curand, dar aseara la emisiunea lui Tuca a spus cele mai mari
prostii pe care le poate spune un om. ..........................................
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7. N-am fost niciodata la Paris, dar mi se tot repeta in ultima vreme ca daca ai
fost o data, sigur vei merge si a doua oara. ....................................
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8. Tocmai am terminat de ascultat CD-ul pe care il ascult de 50 de minute; este
pentru prima data cand ascult un CD de la un capat la altul fara sa-1 intrerup.
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9. Este pentru ultima data cand iti spun sa te apuci de invatat; iti tot spun lucrul
asta de la inceputul semestrului. .......................................................
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10. Adevarul este ca el nu si-a vazut sora de cand aceasta s-a maritat si s-a
mutat la Toronto cu sotul si cu socrii ei. ...............................................
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V.
1. — Cunosti de mult membrii familiei Smith? — Nu, ii cunosc cam de o luna si
ceva si mi-au facut o impresie buna pana in prezent, deci nu cred ca e cazul sa
ne facem griji. .....................................................................
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2. Locuim in Londra de 25 de ani si trebuie sa ne mutam intr-un oras de
provincie, caci preturile au crescut foarte mult in ultimul timp, iar noi fiind
pensionari cu greu facem fata cheltuielilor lunare. .......................................
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3. In ultimul timp a fost o epidemie de rubeola printre colegii de clasa ai copiilor
mei, dar acestia nu sunt expusi riscului de a contacta boala, caci ambii au avut-
o deja. ...............................................................................
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4. Nu a vazut in viata ei un concert de Craciun asa de minunat si de aceea sper
din tot sufletul ca acesta sa nu fie unica ocazie cand vede asa ceva.
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5. Cineva le-a spart casa vecinilor nostri, iar ei nu s-au dus inca la politie sa dea
declaratie. .....................................................................................
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6. Zona este supravegheata de politie de cateva zilevpentru ca s-a primit un
telefon anonim amenintand ca in ambasada este o bomba. ...................
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7. Inca n-am citit toate piesele lui Harold Pinter caci nu le-am gasit, si de aceea,
de cateva zile le caut pe la toate librariile. ......................................
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8. Centralista incearca sa-mi faca legatura cu Madridul de azi diminea si nu a
reusit inca, pentru ca liniile sunt ocupate. ..........................................
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9. Vecinul de deasupra bate cuie in pereti de azi dimineata, astfel innebunindu-
si vecinii care tocmai au hotarat sa-i faca reclamatie la primarie pentru
deteriorarea avutului public. ..............................................
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10. Mike mananca de jumatate de ora si nu s-a oprit inca, si spune ca va
continua sa manance pana se va satura. ..................................................
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VI.
1. Monica avea ora de dans impreuna cu prietenele ei, iar Doru isi facea.temele
la limbi straine ieri dupa amiaza. ...........................................
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2. Din masina vedeam cum picura apa din copacii care margineau drumul catre
cabana. ..........................................................................................
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3. Poteca pe care mergeau turistii serpuia printre copacii inalti si desfrunziti de
la capatul padurii si se intersecta cu un parau a carui apa cristalina curgea
clipocind la vale. .............................................................
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4. Domnul Smith dormea bustean cand a fost trezit brusc de taraitul telefonului;
asta l-a speriat nespus, caci tocmai visa ca este pe malul marii Mediterane
stand.la soare. ......................................................................
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5. Cand eu eram student mergeam sa studiez la biblioteca si stateam cate 8
ore pe zi, caci acasa nu aveam materialele necesare pregatirii examenelor.
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6. In anul 1993, sora mea se pregatea pentru examenul de admitere la ASE si
rezolva cate 70 de probleme la matematica pe zi. ..........................
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7. Joi, cand m-am intalnit cu Marius din intamplare.se ducea grabit la banca sa
ceara un imprumut pentru ca avea de gand sa-si cumpere o masina de spalat.
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8. - M-ai chemat?
- Da, ma intrebam daca ai putea oare sa-mi tii locul maine, pentru ca trebuie sa
stau acasa sa am grija de copil.
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9. Cand eu eram inca la liceu, el lucra ca hamal in gara sau era zilier pe unde
putea. ............................................................................................
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10. Copii dormeau si parintii lor citeau si se uitau la televizor, cand brusc cineva
le-a sarit in casa pe geam. ................................................................
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VII.
1. Marcel s-a alaturat demonstrantilor care marsaluiau deja de trei zile numai
atunci cand a fost intru totul de acord cu cererile lor. .......................
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2. Ciocnirile dintre palestinienii si israelienii din fasia Gaza incepusera cu mult
inainte de intalnirea presedintelui american cu primul ministru israelian.
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3. Bombardierelor americane li s-a cerut sa loveasca numai tintele dinainte,
alese inainte ca trupele britanice si franceze sa le promita ajutorul.
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4. Maiorul american conducea raiduri aeriene de trei ani, cand, dintr-o data, i s-
a spus ca altcineva va comanda atacul din noaptea aceea. ..........
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5. Violentele dintre cele doua grupari adversare au inceput numai dupa trei luni
de amenintari cu bomba din partea grupului militant islamic, desi in decursul
acestor trei luni avusesera loc convorbiri pentru rezolvarea sjtuatiei de criza.
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6. Numai dupa ce a stat trei ani in inchisoare in tara sa, s-a hotarat sa ceara azil
politic, in Franta. ......................................................................
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7. Locuia intr-o zona in care se patrula zi si noapte, pentru ca toata lumea se
astepta ca acel loc sa se transforme in zona de lupta dintr-o clipa in alta.
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8. Se faceau presiuni asupra inamicului pentru a depune armele de doua
saptamani, cand acestia au fost incoltiti si in cele din urma fortati sa se predea.
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B. Ca la noi, la nimenea
(sau istoria Romaniei prin straini, pentru copii)
1.
E Romania, intr-adevar, o tara de neinteles? Asa se zice. Aceasta
plingere transanta bintuie cu o frecventa folclorica si domina, de fapt, din
capul mesei, o dezbatere pe care o invita la disparitie. Ideea dupa care
Romania nu poate fi descifrata e un bun egal impartit de „gura lumii“ si de
opinia educata. Studiile academice ale ONG-urilor, editorialele grele ale
presei cotidiene si vorba din popor sint de acord: Romania e ceva de
pomina si inexplicabil. Asa e Romania: fara sens si fara leac. Multiplicata
in nenumarate variante si drapata in cele mai surprinzatoare camuflaje,
ideea e asezata solid in gindirea publica. Exemplele vin unul dupa altul.
Iata, de pilda, studiile docte care masoara datele si evolutiile politico-
economico-electorale ale tarii. Aproape toate reclama declinul, scandalul
si contradictiile necontenite ale unei lumi pe care nu indraznesc sau nu
reusesc sa o explice. Concluzia implicita a acestei literaturi stimabile si
perplexe e, bineinteles, zadarnicia. Tiparele de vot, nivelul coruptiei de
stat, preferintele de consum radio-tv, lipsa desavirsita de interes pentru
cultura inalta si deruta scolara, toate aceste date circula cu girofar si
sirena prin sondaje si rapoarte. In lipsa unei explicatii minime, ele conduc,
prin repetitie persistenta, la impresia de stagnare, de realitate data si
incurabila. Citeva din temele de mare frecventa ale editorialelor sint parte
2. Blestemul nu da rau
Interesant, acum un an, toata aceasta enorma presupozitie pesimista
a fost pusa in dubiu de ipoteza si de speranta intr-un moment istoric de
ruptura. Romania urma sa fie admisa in UE si toata lumea s-a grabit sa
presupuna sau mai degraba sa invoce prefacerea miraculoasa a
Romaniei. Ce nu s-a putut face cu mijloace interne se va putea, desigur,
cu mijloacele din afara, ne-romanesti. Dupa primul nostru an european,
aceasta forma de speranta superstitioasa a cazut, iar concluzia sceptica
despre unicitatea negativa a Romaniei a reaparut, intarita: o tara cu doua
fete, locul unui paradox insuportabil, in care „una vorbim si alta facem“,
spatiul in care, asa cum se stie, „avem“ toate cite sint necesare vietii
democratice dar nimic „nu merge“. Tot e adjudecat si tocmai acest lucru
demonstreaza ca Romania e asa cum e: o tara ciudata si, in cele din
urma, de neinteles. Nimic nu se misca si, fiindca nimeni nu stie sau nu
poate afla de ce, concluzia e ca avem o tara fara egal. De doua ori, fara
egal: o data prin damnatie, caci Romania, spre deosebire de aproape
orice alt loc pe pamint, e o soarta, nu un stat, si isi confirma traiectoria
transformind fiecare clipa viitoare intr-un prezent asemanator pina la
identitate cu trecutul. Lumea de miine are toate sansele sa fie copilul
demult infiat de lumea de ieri. A doua oara, Romania acestor observatii e
unica prin caracterul ei special: ceva, nu se stie ce, a dat romanilor un fel
de a fi cu totul si cu totul aparte, o capacitate de a fi altfel si deosebiti, un
„mister“ pagubos si, in acelasi timp, innobilat de splendoarea citorva
kitsch-uri care vor sa inchipuie o traditie ilustra: doina, dorul, risu’-plinsu’,
latinitatea intr-o mare slava. Sintem deci, damnati, dar speciali. Purtam un
blestem care doare, dar nu da rau. Sintem pierduti si, in acelasi timp,
daruiti. Defecti si fascinanti. Cum am ajuns la aceste concluzii istorice si
de ce intirziem in ele? De unde scepticismul si de unde atit agnosticism
declarat si suficient? De unde aceasta credinta difuza si solida in filozofia
lui „ca la noi la nimenea“?
4. Ce nu ne pindeste
Asadar, nimic nou in destinul aparent special al lumii romanesti.
Ceea ce nu vesteste un armistitiu si nu promite calmul istoriei viitoare.
Problemele ramin si cea mai serioasa dintre ele e rezultatul direct al lipsei
de substanta a revolutiei formale din 1989 si al excesului de succes al
revolutiei comuniste. Enuntata in citeva cuvinte, aceasta problema suna in
felul urmator: istoria viitoare a Romaniei nu e pindita de nici o rasturnare
sociala. Nici o acumulare de energie colectiva, nici un curent de opinie,
nici o colectie de idealuri coerente si subversive nu a incoltit si nu creste
pentru a pune, la un moment dat, in dubiu cursul vietii interne a Romaniei.
Nici o clasa, nici un grup, nici o suita de convingeri nu si-a pierdut
rabdarea. In viata de zi cu zi, aceasta absenta e marcata de lipsa
exasperanta de evenimente care stabilesc sau fondeaza ceva insemnat si
transmisibil. Durata medie a evenimentelor e sub-orara, iar intinderea
intentiilor si rezistenta proiectelor bate, arareori, un sezon. Cind ati avut
ultima oara senzatia ca asistati la aparitia unui lucru pe care il vor intelege
si apara copiii dumneavoastra?
2.2.1. Lyrics
"Life Is Wonderful", Jason Mraz
It takes a crane to build a crane
It takes two floors to make a story
It takes an egg to make a hen
It takes a hen to make an egg
There is no end to what I'm saying
It takes a thought to make a word
And it takes some words to make an action
It takes some work to make it work
It takes some good to make it hurt
It takes some bad for satisfaction
La la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Al la la la la
It takes a night to make it dawn
And it takes a day to make you yawn brother
And it takes some old to make you young
It takes some cold to know the sun
It takes the one to have the other
And it takes no time to fall in love
But it takes you years to know what love is
It takes some fears to make you trust
It takes those tears to make it rust
It takes the dust to have it polished
Ha la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is so full of
Ah la la la la la la life is so rough
Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Introduction
Women have not always been able to escape the role of housewife
or gain a political voice. Only in recent human history have women been
able to obtain relative equality. They have been able to make great gains
through a considerable amount of achievements, no need to list here. Yet
to this day, men and women have specialized roles within societies,
differing only slightly in some countries and greatly in other countries.
Cultural Differences
Each culture deals differently with heterosexuality. Most cultures
encourage monogamy, while countries like Saudi Arabia have adopted
polygyny. Even within societies that safeguard or promote monogamous
relations, there are allowances for citizens to have many types of sexual
relations. People can remain monogamous to one person at time or date
multiple partners simultaneously. People can have open marriages (a.k.a.
swinging) or exist within monogamous relationships and be covertly
promiscuous (Hughs, 1990). There are also people who frequent
prostitutes regardless of the law.
When we examine sex as a trade, the combination of philosophy,
cultural precedence, religious influence and politics made each country
select how to handle it in its own way. In Singapore, sex for money is open
and commonplace. Denmark women can be legal prostitutes so long as it
is not their sole means of income. Canada, France and Mexico allow it.
Prostitutes must be contained within brothels in the Netherlands, unlike
within England and Wales where prostitution is limited to individual
providers. Israel, the historical stage for the Bible, allows it, too.
Meanwhile, the United States has made prostitution illegal (misdemeanor)
in all states, except certain counties of Nevada (Decriminalize Prostitution
Now Coalition, 2000).
Sex Within Monogamous Societies
Sex sometimes becomes a bartered service even within the sanctity
of marriage. One provides sex for love, while another provides love for
sex. Someone else finds warmth and attention within the act of sex. Like
ants who send chemical messages to each other to convey both intricate
and basic messages, sex becomes part of that type of communication
even within civilized relationships (Pines, n.d. & Malick, n.d.). It is also a
healthy outlet, too. We may not be animals who forage in forests but our
desire for sex, or at least the actions, thoughts and feelings that come with
it, are deeply part of whom we are.
A primal desire must not be ignored or suppressed, but instead
managed. Within the sanctity of marriage, balancing acts must be
performed to ensure each member of the team is getting what he or she
needs. From cleaning the house, buying new furniture, displaying one's
affection and releasing stress, sex gets caught up in the mix and can
sometimes become a bargaining chip. It is as normal as doing a favor or
performing an act of kindness, when one is not in the mood. Much like
when a chore must be done, one may choose or not choose to do it,
depending on extenuating circumstances or immediate pressing demands.
Sex, like everything else, is up on the table for 'sale' within marriage
and other relationships. It is not a foreign concept to anyone who has ever
been in a sexual relationship over an extended period of time. Usually
there is no direct exchange of money, but natural exchanges in a give-
and-take situation do occur when things are normal and healthy. So long
as there are no heavy demands and freedom of choice exists, sex is a
commodity of sorts.
Benefits of Legalization
Currently most everywhere in the United States, our legal system
penalizes prostitutes and their customers for what they do as consenting
adults. Money is still spent on law enforcement efforts to catch prostitutes
and their customers. Once caught, justice departments have to process
these people through very expensive systems.
What are the end results? Police personnel and courtrooms are
overburdened with these cases, having little or no impact on prostitution.
The prostitutes and their customers pay their fines and are back to the
streets in no time in a revolving door process. Catch and release may
work for recreational fishing but it has no deterring affect on prostitution.
Making prostitution legal will allow the act to be managed instead of
ignored. Pimps and organized crime figures, who regularly treat their
workers on subhuman levels, would no longer control women. In some
countries, prostitute rings buy and sell women on the black market, force
their women to comply through violence and create unhealthy working
conditions. When prostitutes operate independently and in secret, many
times they become abused by their own customers.
Legalizing prostitution would prevent underground prostitution that
occurs today. When men want to pay for sex, they find prostitutes. These
people work in massage parlors, escort services, strip bars and modeling
agencies or still work corners as traditional streetwalkers. There are
legitimate parlors, dating services, bars and agencies but of the hundreds
that exist within newspaper classified advertisements and telephone
directories, there are a large number that provide sexual services. A
routine search through Google's Internet news engine for 'prostitution'
routinely reveals connections between prostitution and these falsetto
agencies (Google, 2004).
It is estimated that 100,000 to 3 million teens are nearly invisibly
prostituted per year in the United States (Walker, 2002). If we allow
prostitution to remain hidden from view and basically invisible to the law as
it is today, we allow a number of teens to be swept up into prostitution
every year. When adult women decide to exchange money for sex, it is a
personal choice open to them under the philosophy of a free, democratic
society. When troubled minors who do not yet have the social survival
skills decide to prostitute, they are often manipulated by opportunists who
exploit these teens, typically leading to horrific ends. Legalizing prostitution
will help prevent these instances through regulation.
Legalized, regulated prostitution has many benefits. Encounters can
happen within controlled environments that bring about safety for both the
customers and the prostitutes. Prostitutes would no longer be strong
No one can dispute the fact that the position of woman has changed
very decidedly in the English-speaking countries of the world, in the past
twenty-five years. While many will declare that she has gained materially
in all things which go toward a more advanced civilization, there are others
who look upon the changes with disfavor, not to say antagonism,
unfavorable opinions coming at times from quarters least expected. Nikola
Tesla, in an article in The Century, deplores the condition arising from the
new order of things:
"Society life, modern education and pursuits of women, tending to
draw them away from their household duties and make men out of them,
must needs detract from the elevating ideal they represent, diminish the
artistic creative power, and cause sterility and a general weakening of the
race."
It is singular how advanced a mind may be in one direction and how
behind the times in another. The statement made by Tesla in his otherwise
remarkable article seems born of a prejudice coming from the belief in
man's superiority over woman. Notwithstanding my great admiration for
the writer, I must say this statement is weak in the extreme, if not
absolutely false. One naturally expects a judicial utterance from a scientific
mind that is supposed to weigh the evidence in the case. In viewing any
subject from an impartial standpoint, one must look beyond the present
conditions and consider the case in all its bearings.
Suppose great wrong and injustice are found; in the righting of those
wrongs, in abolishing the injustice, there must inevitably follow a certain
amount of friction and discord until society has readjusted itself to the new
conditions. And the more complex the wrongs the greater will be the
temporary disturbance of social conditions; but the final outcome is no less
sure and no less to be desired. The onlooker who sees nothing except that
which has taken place on the surface, and compares that with previous
conditions, may find apparent reason for believing the old order of things
better than the new. Nevertheless, in the most highly civilized countries,
women enjoy the greatest amount of freedom. Would the United States or
England care to go back and take lessons from Turkey or Persia in regard
to women? Are the women of England and America any the less womanly
because of their greater freedom and their consequent greater
intelligence? If, therefore, we acknowledge a little liberty as a good thing,
why should not more of it be still better?
The Master said, "the truth shall make you free." Was this freedom meant
for man alone, or was woman to have some share in it?
The Declaration of Independence affirms that all are born free and
equal. If there is any truth in this statement, why should men turn later and
repudiate it, denying to women equality and the same rights and privileges
that men enjoy. No, gentlemen. The day is certainly coming when no right
or privilege looked upon by man as his sole prerogative shall not be as
fully and freely enjoyed by woman. Some day in a free country right not
might shall prevail. In the meantime, unrest and controversy must
engender friction and disorder until the new order becomes thoroughly
established.
But should the social friction of a generation be allowed to stand in
the way when we are trying to work out the highest welfare of the human
race? In the larger freedom which has come to woman there can be
nothing which in the end will prove in any way detrimental to the well-being
of the race. The highest development on any plane of life is attained only
when there is perfect freedom. Resistance offered to freedom of natural
thought and action in the life of man hinders and dwarfs growth and brings
about abnormal conditions of mind and body. And that which in any way
retards the highest development of woman interferes to exactly the same
degree with the natural growth and development of man. The sinner and
the one sinned against are both made to suffer because of the violation of
the law of growth.
The conservative mind considers any innovation which sets aside the
old order of things as being contrary to the law of orderly progression; but
if the opinions of the conservative mind were considered as final there
would be neither growth nor development, simply stagnation - inaction -
death.
Let us point out a few instances in which the new order of things is
preferable to the old, and which will in the end prove beneficial to men and
women alike. Not only this, but it will have a very decided effect on the
generations to come. Just a word as to former conditions and the belief
still retained in the minds of many people of the present day.
The Bible student will quote the Apostle Paul to make good the old
order; the scientific mind will dwell on the physical limitations and put
forward the thought that the principal office of woman is the reproduction
of the race; while the mind that is neither Biblical nor scientific will try to
show that there have been but few great women in original or creative
thought in the world, and therefore a great woman is an abnormal
production of Nature. All this is on a par with nine-tenths of the reasoning
that is now in vogue in opposition to the continued advancement and
freedom of woman. But these arguments, and a thousand more like them,
would not be sufficient to justify the slavery of woman from time
immemorial to the present, for we can not in all truth and candor say that
woman has been, or is, free. Granting that a greater degree of freedom
has come to her, we still contend that nothing short of absolute equality of
the sexes will fulfill the eternal law of right. When men pride themselves on
intellectual development, do they realize that a development of heart is
quite as important as a development of head? Is not he who has
developed both head and heart a more complete man than the one who
has developed only the intellect? And if this is true of a man is it not
equally true of a woman? It would be true of woman to-day if the
advantages so freely given to the men had not been withheld from her. In
spite of opposition and all the disadvantages women labor under, they are
insisting on rights and privileges denied them in the past. In this they are
not always successful. The chivalry of many of our college undergraduates
is far from what it might be. Coeducation is frowned upon by nearly all
young men in college who are yet in their adolescence, and who have not
yet lived out the savagery of bygone ages; but why the heads of colleges
and universities should be dictated to by the students is more difficult to
explain, save on the ground that many college men, through having
formed the habit of drawing their opinions from the subconscious mind -
the storehouse of accumulated knowledge - are sometimes prone to see
the vital questions of the day in the light of past conditions, therefore in
only a partial way, because of the automatic action of their minds.
beautiful woman who devoted her life to her family. She had married his
father when she was quiet young. Not quite eighteen. And hardly out of
high school. As a result, her plans too enter college had to be deferred for
a while. « It’s all a metter of priorities, » she said. Filling that she was in
love and wanted to start a family. « I’ll get back to my schooling one day, »
she told her friends. She did. Allthough it took over fifty ears.
2
There are some people who cant seem to concentrate in a quiet
room. « Its too quite, » they complaint. They seem to thrive on some level
of noice, and so while theyre studying, they turn on the radio or the
television set. Theyre parents, not understanding the situation, may ask,
assignment with all that noice ! » Yet its precisely the « noice » that helps
start the days work. As my friends brother once said, « Everyone has the
right to choose his own place to work. Whats important is that the
Their are many reasons for students to go too college. First of all,
college has a definite effect on our lifes, since its a place were we are
abilities. All considered, people should follow the advise of those who
We have been told that there has always been a generation gap
children and parent is at best difficult. My own mother often tell me that
when she was young she could not discuss many important subject with
hers parents and so she relied on her few close friend for these
discussion. Yet today she does not fully understand why it so difficult for
me too bridge this gap and communicate openly. She fill that now it
diffrent, and she is more understanding than either of her parents was. Oh
It is better to build bridges not walls. Figure out the message and
share it with your team.
If you have enough will, you can move the mountains but if you’re
smart, you leave them there. Illustrate with examples.
If you are used to thinking that stress is something that makes you
worry, you have the wrong idea of stress. Stress is many different kinds of
things: happy things, sad things, allergic things, physical things. Many
people carry enormous stress loads and they do not even realize it!
Describe the role model person for you, the person you are trying to
be. Do not ignore the flaws that are part of anyone’s charm.
People say it’s hard to do the right thing. Others say that what is hard
is to know what the right thing is, and once you know it, it’s hard not to do
it. If you agree, find an example to illustrate. If not, do the same.
How and to what extent do you think that money and power influence
people? Do you have such an example?
Which do you think are the most relevant traits of character that
make a person accepted by the smaller or larger community s/he is part
of?
You see a man and a woman, about the same age, sitting on a
bench, each at one end of it. What kind of story does this trigger in your
mind?
Comment on: “Take advantage of/ Seize every moment in your life
as if it were the last.” Give pros and cons.
What are the main objectives that the educational system in Romania
has in view, and to what extent do you consider them appropriate for the
demands of the labour-market? Were you to have the power to change
something, what would you change?
“Some day, I’ll…” List some of the plans you have made for yourself
and name the methods you think you will use to accomplish them.
Suppose you had the chance of having three wishes fulfilled. Which
were those?
If you were to change something in your life, what would you change
and why?
Name three qualities you think a successful career would require and
three flaws that one should avoid so as to succeed.
FINAL TEST
1. The Smiths … for Brasov by the 9 o’clock train as they have already made plans
for that.
a) are leaving b) are going
c) will go d) will be leaving
2. By the time they … their destination, their grandson … last week.
a) reach/will have been born b) reached/has been born
c) reach/will be born d) reached/had been born
3. Your daughter … so shy if you … the time to talk to her along the years.
a) wouldn’t be/found b) weren’t/would find
c) wouldn’t be/would find d) wouldn’t be/had found
4. If you repeatedly … their offer, of course they … .
a) will reject/will give up b) are rejecting/give up
c) would reject/ would give up d) have rejected/have given up
5. It was not until he … that she … on him that he left her.
a) had realized/has been cheating b)has realized/has cheated
c) realized/ had been cheating d) had realized/had been cheating
6. Not until …, … taken to the hospital.
a) had the police arrived/was the victim b) arrived the police/the victim was
c) the police arrived/the victim was d) the police had arrived/was the
victim
7. By the time the writer … 50, he … famous.
a) turns/will have become b) will turn/will become
c) has turned/has become d) will have turned/has become
8. Unless you … learning English and computer operating, you … to get a well-paid
job.
a) don’t start/will not be able b) start/don’t be able
c) start/will not be able d) don’t start/don’t be able
9. She told me that she … on us when they came to town if they … enough time.
a) would call/had had b) will call/had
c) will call/will have d) would call/ had
10. He … for Timisoara as soon as he … his project.
a) is leaving/will finish b) is leaving/will have finished
c) was leaving/ had finished d) leaves/had finished
III. Choose any of the three issues illustrated by the texts in 2.2. and write a
2,000-word essay.
IV. Choose any one of the conversation topics suggested in 2.3 and write a
1,000-word essay.