(1) Why does my girlfriend want me in women's panties

all the time?

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Your girlfriend must be very special girl in your life! Take advantage of
her request.

A large proportion of guys do enjoy wearing panties. There's certainly

no harm in it. It's just fabric that feels and looks better. Guys just
like/enjoy the way they feel versus guy underwear.

The vast majority of guys who prefer wearing panties are

heterosexual, and are actually much more likely to be 100% straight
than the general population.

It is unknown how many guys wear panties because, it is a very

private thing. One thing for sure is when I go shopping online for
panties, there are a lot of guys giving their ratings, reviews, and
thoughts on their recent purchase(s).

From what I have seen on the internet, panties are the preferred
choice of an estimated 9 million American men (and growing). Also,
the ladies working at my local VS store and other panty department
stores I shop at tell me they are seeing a lot more guys coming into
their store to purchase panties for themselves and it is also
increasing.

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There are many reasons why your girlfriend wants you to wear
panties.

She probably knows guy’s underwear is dull and boring with very
few styles, colors, designs, prints, and fabrics that will give you
better support and comfort all day.
Wearing nice looking panties is becoming part of the entire outfit
for guys now too. Women have done this for many years and
men are just starting to catch on
Sexual excitement all day for the two of you
She is wanting to make sensuality part of your every day.
Self expression is getting more popular these days, a guy wearing
panties is a guy who doesn't mind taking a risk a lot of the time
Extremely comfortable — cotton, microfiber, tactical and nylon
Sofer fabrics against me all day
Thinner material to stay cooler
Feels like I'm not wearing anything with the thin elastic around
waist and legs
Clings just like second skin to move around with you
Feel closer to your girlfriend — More loving and trusting
Prove society and stereotypes wrong - Straight guys who wear
panties are real men
Relieve tension with the constant release of happy endorphins
Feel more empowered
Carry myself better
Even more confident
Feel sexy/Sometimes flirty

Guys are very sensitive about wearing anything that closely resembles
girls clothing. What guys fear most is being giggled/laughed at, labeled
something we are not, or rejected by our girlfriend/wife, and our
friends.

I would suggest to sit down with your girlfriend to have a very open
and honest conversation with her to understand just how far she
wants you to go with the conversion of your guy underwear to
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panties. If it's too much for you, it is okay to set boundaries. A good
relationship is a two way street. Decisions to keep your panty
preferences private vs public should always be made together, just
like any other aspect of your sex-life details. It's just common mutual
respect.

If you decide to wear panties, I suggest to buy your own and cut out
the gusset. I am so very happy for you both! Take full advantage of
this great girlfriend of yours. It may be strange in the beginning, but
you will soon love and embrace it like I did when my girlfriend had me
wear panties.

It may be strange in the beginning, but you will soon love and
embrace it.

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Geo Ashe
Answered July 12, 2019

I understand the question, but I fail to see the problem. Years ago, my
wife did the same thing. She was afraid I would cheat on her and her
thinking was that if I was wearing very feminine panties, with lots of
lace and frills, I would be too embarrassed to climb into bed with
another woman. She was right, but I wouldn’t have done it no matter
what!

My suggestion to you is to go with the flow. First thing to do is sit

down with her and set some ground rules. Things like they had to be
comfortable panties. And she had to shop for and buy them (with
your money). Another might be that she not tell anyone. Or you could
quit after a month if you didn’t like it. This list could go on and on,but I
think you get the idea.

Remember, communication is the most important part of this. My

guess is that you will end up enjoying it and you will have the time of
your life!

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Julia Reece, Sex Educator
Answered May 31, 2018

Question answered: Why does my girlfriend want me in panties all the

time?

If you have a girlfriend who wants you to wear panties all the time,
you’ve just struck gold.

Lucky you!

This is a sign that your girlfriend has a kinky side and you are in for a
wild ride with her.

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This may be the first step in her completely feminizing you. Or it may
be her way of slowly dominating you.

Please look online under panty training for guys to learn more
about this erotic activity between men and women.

Your girlfriend may have good reasons to believe that you are ripe for
feminization. Unless you strongly object to this (which hopefully you
don’t) then I would let her take the lead and do whatever she says. If
you’re as lucky as I believe you are, she may ask you to wear nylon
stockings or other lingerie items.

This may be the beginning of something BIG. (And I’m not just
referring to your erections, but those too ;)

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Are panties comfortable to wear? My girlfriend wants me to wear
panties, instead of men's boxers. I just want some women's point of
view.

How many of you let your boyfriends wear your panties and clothes
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Lisa Corbett, former Disabled Veteran at U.S. Air Force (1985-1992)

Answered December 11, 2018

Could be nothing or she may want you to be feminized. It took me a

little prodding before my ex would let me wear panties in public,
covered up with pants. Then she began to help me be the best
woman I can be. You should ask her why if you don't want to do it. I
personally could not wait to wear all girl clothes all the time. I do know
that just because a man wears women's clothes and heels make up
nylons, does not mean he is like me, transgender or gay. Their are so
many men who really like wearing ladies clothes and do not want to
have any sexual contact with men. So you should only do what you
want to do and don't comprise your values and morals for anyone
and you will be happier.

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Kevin Anderson Leong, Hosiery, Lingerie, Short Skirts & Clothing

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Updated January 4, 2019

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WELL, you’re really the most luckiest boyfriend in the world! Honestly,
just ask your girlfriend directly without any hesitation.

Maybe in her mind, she just likes you or she thinks that you're looking
great in those panties all the time. Otherwise, she might have a strong
lingerie fetish.

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Just enjoy her fetish together, have some fun with her & embrace the
feeling of that soft fabric against your skin. Maybe you might enjoy &
love it too.

If your girlfriend might want to crossdress you, this is the first step of
dominating & feminizing you which you might be strongly reject on
her crazy request.

However, just let your girlfriend take control & do whatever she says.
Next time, she might ask you to wear hosiery or other lingerie items &
female clothing as well.

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Andrew Sheppard, Experienced former swinger of over two years.

Answered Feb 3

To misquote The Life of Brian, “You lucky b*stard!”

My gf tolerates my wearing of girls knickers, but is not turned on by it

at all. She has simply normalised it to the point that if she sees me in
knickers all she sees if her bf in his underwear. We don’t share, as
much as I would love to (I would likely stretch hers out of shape!) and
our styles don’t agree. (I adore lace, nylon, silks and satins and she
prefers cotton full briefs).

Her reasons could be many and widespread! Ask her. Talk to her. Find
out why yourself. Is she fearful of your infidelity? Does she want to
sissify you? Does she just like the look of a cock in lace? Etc etc. But
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you will only KNOW when you talk to her.

Again, just to say how lucky you are, you lucky lucky LUCKY b*stard!!!!

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Katie Laura, Owners of Katie & Laura’s Fancy Satin Panty Shop &
Brand
Updated April 27, 2019
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If it does not bother you, then just enjoy her kinks! Panties are Sweet
& Pretty & Lovely!! Wearing women’s Panties to please your Lover is
wonderful and exciting gesture! :)

We exclusively make women’s Stretch Satin Panties, but even in our

tiny 2 Girl business, we have thousands of men buying and wearing
our Fancy Satin Panties, so you should not feel like you are alone, or
that this is unusual. If you really want to make her smile, ask her to
take you Panty Shopping! If you are too shy, you can always shop
together online :)

Have a great day! Kisses xox Katie & Laura

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Pia Diwan
Answered Mar 6
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A plausible explanation for this is that she has carved out a very
comfortable niche for herself in the relationship. I mean that it's
mostly because she feels that you people are quite comfortable with
your sexuality and are willing to take things to the next level through
such perceived idiosyncrasies.

Don't get me wrong. If you were one thing are not comfortable with
this, confront her. At the end of the day, a healthy communication is
the key to a successful relationship :)

But I honestly feel that you've struck gold. Don't let her go man

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Jack Richards
Answered May 31, 2018

She has a fetish and you should feel lucky. She may be dominant by
nature but this shouldn’t scare you. Save your masculinity for outside
the bedroom and surrender yourself to her fetish inside.

Explore her kinks and you may find that you enjoy it too. Embrace the
feeling of the fabric against your skin and let her take control.

You can’t deny that they feel great against your skin so just have fun
with it.

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I agree with Sai, just ask her…but if she likes you in them who cares,
enjoy! Hell, if my wife wanted me to wear just about anything that
would possibly turn her on, I’d do it in a heartbeat.

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