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Ephesians 5:17 Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
Everybody wants to know their future. Imagine having the super power of foresight. The
rise in demand for fortune telling, feng shui, and horoscopes indicates that people are
indeed fascinated in knowing their future. Growing up, I saw feng shui experts come into
our house, telling us how to position our rooms, doors, furniture, and even discouraging us
from having our swimming pool because it would cause us bad luck and is said to be bad for
business. Time and time again, our church receives calls and e-mails asking our pastoral
team which direction they should take or which decisions to make.
Does he really have a will for my life? For my family? My business? My nation?
Romans 12:1-2
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living
sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God — this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform
any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is — his good, pleasing and perfect
will.
Yes, you read that right – God’s will is good, pleasing and perfect.
But I thought God was this giant cosmic killjoy whose main goal is to make me miserable
with all the do’s and don’ts. I thought God only communicates to spiritual giants like the
pastors and the ministers, but not to ME! And I thought that only old religious people can
know God’s will.
Here is the good news: Everybody can know God’s will for his or her life.
Jeremiah 33:3 Ask me and I will tell you remarkable secrets you do not know about things to come.
Psalms 25:4-5 Show me the right path, O LORD; point out the road for me to follow. Lead me by
your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in you.
“For I know who holds the future and I know who holds my hand.”
God knows the future and we don’t. One of the craziest practices which always leaves me
dumbfounded is when people seek a fortuneteller to ask what the future holds for them. They pay
someone who doesn’t have a clue about the future their hard-earned money. How can I say they don't
have a clue? If fortunetellers did know the future, they would have been rich by now and would not be
fortunetellers!
Proverb 27:1 Donʼt brag about tomorrow, since you donʼt know what the day will bring.
Here are some Scriptures on why we need to trust on God for our future.
Isaiah 46:9-10 Remember the things I have done in the past. For I alone am God! I am God, and
there is none like me. Only I can tell you the future before it even happens. Everything I plan will come
to pass, for I do whatever I wish.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and
not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 1:5 “I knew you before I formed you in your motherʼs womb. Before you were born I set you
apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.”
Ephesians 2:10 For we are Godʼs masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can
do the good things he planned for us long ago.
Ephesians 5:17 Donʼt act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.
We need to understand what the Lord wills for us to do. And the call is not just to understand but to
fully obey His will.
Ephesians 6:6 Try to please them all the time, not just when they are watching you. As slaves of
Christ, do the will of God with all your heart.
GOOD
Good will means not bad. He wants what’s best for us. You don’t want what’s bad for you, right?
Imagine this God of the universe who wants what is best for us. Before you start thinking of a
sports car, a beautiful model as your wife, three mansions, a 3D TV – let me put this into proper
perspective.
Here is where a lot of Christians don’t get it. They think that God is this genie in a lamp that they
can just rub and ask for three wishes that would make them happy, prosperous, and healed.
Jesus’ goal at the cross was not our happiness but our holiness. That we might be conformed to
His likeness and that makes it good.
Romans 8:29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his
Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.
Not conformed to this world but conformed to His son, Jesus. The good will God wants is for us to
be Christ-like. If you think financial prosperity is the crux of the cross then you are in for a
disappointment. I have seen more people destroyed by riches than poverty. I have seen more
people destroyed by the material things of this world. Christ’s heart is to prepare you for His will
and if it means pruning you and delaying material blessings, then He will be glad to do so.
I remember an incident in church when a young lady approached me wanting to be prayed for. I asked
her what her concern was and she told me that she wants to get married to this guy because God told
her that he was “The One”. So I asked, “Why do we want us to pray?” Her answer, “because he is
married”. I told her that I can’t pray for God to bless your relationship – it is not pleasing to Him and it
is not glorifying.
Let me illustrate: A woman suddenly gives you the cold shoulder and you ask her if you did anything
wrong, and she says “Nothing”. Nothing means SOMETHING. So you follow up with, “Are you okay?”
And she says, “FINE”. Fine means NOT FINE. What does this mean? It means communication is more
than just words. It goes beyond words. As what they say, talk is cheap .
Instead of just talking and listening, a man must learn how to sync with their woman. Let me first define
the word sync.
The art of syncing with my wife means that even without words, we can communicate. The gestures
she uses or the silence I feel is enough to tell me how she feels. It is a spiritual oneness that you
feel when you are one with your wife.
It is the same way with our relationship with God. Even before we can know God’s will, we must be
in harmony with God first. To be in sync is having the same heartbeat.
Amos 3:3 - Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?
The young organist was angered and asked Mendelssohn to leave the building saying, “No
inexperienced hands dare touch the keyboard of this new organ.” Again Mendelssohn retreated and
even left the sanctuary, but try as he would, he could not go away. His soul was filled with desire, and
he yearned for an opportunity to play the new instrument. For the third time, he returned and said, “
My friend, excuse me, but I feel I must ask you once again. Please let me sit down and play the
organ, just a little.”
Exasperated by his eagerness and persistence, the young organist consented to let him play.
Mendelssohn sat down and began adjusting the instrument to suit him, while the young organist
started to leave the sanctuary but as soon as Mendelssohn began to play, the young man rushed
back to the organ and looking earnestly at the composer asked, “Tell me sir, who are you?” He said,
“My name is Mendelssohn.” “Oh forgive me, I didn’t know who you were. Just think, I wouldn’t let the
master musician take my place and play my instrument!” exclaimed the young organist.
Ephesians 1:9 having made known to us the mystery of His will, according to
His good pleasure which He purposed in Himself,
The basic foundation of any relationship isTRUST , but if we don’t have a close relationship with
God, then how can we trust him? Many have grown up believing that this God is a distant God or a
God who doesn’t really care, so why bother?
Some people relate God with their earthly father. Some see God as the rule maker. Some see God as a
distant God. These misconceptions about God have hindered us from knowing who He really is. The
Bible paints us a picture of who we are before Christ saved us.
Romans 3:10-11 As it is written: “There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who
understands; there is no one who seeks God.
It is also very important to remember that God reveals Himself and His will in His word, the Scripture.
The will of God and the word of God are inseparable.
“Has it ever struck you that the vast majority of the will of God for your
life has already been revealed in the Bible?” – Paul Little
We have embraced what the world tells us to embrace. We have defined ourselves by how the world defines us.
Our very identity is based on how the world system has valued us.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 Godʼs will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. Then each of you
will control his own body and live in holiness and honor—
1Thessalonians 4:7 God has called us to live holy lives, not impure lives.
2Corinthians 6:17 Therefore, come out from among unbelievers, and separate yourselves from them, says
the LORD. Donʼt touch their filthy things, and I will welcome you.
Romans 12:2
Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is — his good, pleasing and perfect will.
One of my favorite TV series is “Lie to Me”, not because I love lying but because the show reflects a great
reality people experience every single day which is lying to themselves. Since our will is not aligned with
the will of God, we lie to ourselves to convince ourselves that what we are about to do is right. We are
good at self-deception.
Have you ever heard yourself saying, “This won’t hurt anybody,” “I’ll only do it once,” “I’ll be careful,” “I can
handle it,” or “I can quit whenever I want to”?
Genesis 45:18
I will give you the best of the land of Egypt and you can enjoy the fat of the land.’
Ecclesiastes 2:24
A man can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in his work. This too, I see, is from the
hand of God,
Sometimes it is not God’s will or even our will, but the will of the people around us that which we try to live out. I
have seen young people live the life that their parents want for them, even if it is in clear contradiction of God’s
will. I also have heard of stories of people who, out of embarrassment or shame, follow the will of their friends. I
have also heard of women give in to pre-marital sex because they are afraid that their boyfriend will leave them if
they don't. Against their will, they give up their virginity in exchange for temporary security.
1John 2:15 Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the
love of the Father in you.
Others have simply succumbed to the will of the world. Following the patterns of this world, men have walked in
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Philippians 2:13 for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.
God will work in you and teach you to do His will when the matter seems grey. He gives us His wisdom, the
power of the Holy Spirit and His mind to make decisions and to choose His will.
1Corinthians 2:16 For “who has known the mind of the LORD that he may instruct Him?” But we have the
mind of Christ.
“On the surface, it might appear more spiritual to seek God’s leading than just to go ahead and do the
obvious thing but it isn’t. If God gives you a watch, are you honoring Him more by asking Him what
time it is or by simply consulting the watch? If God gives a sailor a compass, does the sailor please
God more by kneeling in a frenzy of prayer to persuade God to show him which way to go, or should
he just steer according to the compass? Except for those things that are specifically commanded or
forbidden in the Scriptures, it is God’s will that we be free to exercise our own intelligent choice…. In
almost everything that touches our everyday life on earth, God is pleased when we are pleased. He
wills that we be as free as birds to soar and sing our Maker’s praise without anxiety. God’s choice for
us may not be only one but rather any one of a score of possible choices.
The first will is called the providential will of God. It means things that God is going to do because He is
God. You don’t have to pray for it to happen. Some example of the providential will of God includes:
We cannot stop God from doing that and no amount of prayer would have made him change His mind.
And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened. Another
book was opened, which is the book of life. The dead were judged according to what they had done as
recorded in the books. Revelation 20:12
You don’t have to pray for it to happen. It will happen and you have to be ready when it happens. No
amount of human intervention can change God’s schedule when it comes to Judgment Day.
Throughout history, God has used people to fulfill His providential will. The Virgin Mary was chosen to
carry Jesus in her womb. It was prophesied thousands of years ago and it was a prophecy that was
fulfilled according to God’s timeline and providential will.
Lord, is it your will that I cheat on my wife and marry this other girl?
Lord, is it your will for me to be yoke together with someone who doesn’t worship and acknowledge you as Lord
and Savior?
Lord, is it your will for me to not leave my parents as I start my own family?
Lord, is it your will for me to cheat in my business? My tests?
Anything that contradicts the Scriptures and God’s moral standards is considered a sin and thus cannot be called
God’s will – no matter how everything is falling perfectly into place.
1Peter 2:15-17
For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish men. Live as free men, but do
not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as servants of God. Show proper respect to everyone: Love the
brotherhood of believers, fear God, and honor the king.
“Can you think of a Father who has no will or plan for the life of his son? Can you imagine a mother
who has no clear will or define ambition for her daughter? Can you imagine a man who has no special
desire or pattern in the one he chooses to be his wife? Can you conceive of a king or ruler who has no
will or desire or law to govern the conduct of his people? A captain who has no plan for his soldiery? An
employer who has no plan or pattern to guide the labor of his workers? If so, then you may also think
that God does not have a plan for your life, for every one of these symbols is used in the Bible to
represent the relation the Christian bears to his Lord.”
2Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is
longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.
Hebrews 1:1 Long ago God spoke many times and in many ways to our ancestors through the
prophets.
Hebrews 1:1 talks about how God would communicate to our ancestors through the prophets
revealing His sovereign will over our lives. His will is so that we would not perish but that we would
come to repentance.
This is where the rubber meets the road. A lot of tension happens in the personal will of God. It is not
because we can’t hear from God or that He does not reveal His will, but we as Christians have a
tendency to say, “God show me your will and I’ll consider it.”
I love how in one of Andy Stanley’s preaching he pointed out that: God does not give us directions for
consideration, but he assumes participation. When we talk about syncing with God we are saying
“Lord your kingdom come, your will be done.” We have assumed the role of a passenger while God
drives the car to his destination.
Saul, while walking in Damascus was blinded by a strange light and God radically changed him
without asking for permission. How dare He? Yes, don’t dare Him. Moses was working peacefully
in the desert when God showed up and gave him the mantle of leadership to lead the millions of
Israelites out of Egypt. Talk about invasion. God is in the business of invading the lives of people
without their permission.
Come to the point in where you are totally surrendered to God so that when
he says something, all you say is “Yes Lord.”
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge
him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6
The last time I checked my Bible, “all” means ALL. We acknowledge God’s participation in all our ways.
1Corinthians 10:31 So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
Isaiah 55:8-9 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. “As
the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your
thoughts.
God doesn’t say, “Here are some options” or “If you like you can, but only if
you like”.
Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. Psalms 37:4
A lot of people think it is God’s business to give us the desires of our heart and that the world revolves around us,
but if you carefully look at the verse it begins with, “Delight yourself in the Lord– which means submit to His
authority.
Love what he loves and hate what he hates. Pray what he wants us to pray,
like what he wants, be consumed with what He is consumed with.
Luke 22:42 “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.”
Luke 22:43 An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him.
Luke 22:44 And being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat was like drops of blood
falling to the ground.
As much as I don’t want to be in Jesus’ shoes, we are faced with a choice everyday to either sync with
God and His will or choose our own path. I pray that this small book would help you not just discern
God’s will for your life, but get you syncing with God himself. Are you ready to Sync?
Dennis Sy is the Senior Pastor of Victory Greenhills which was planted last
November 2007. He is the husband to Thammie Sy (http://thammiesy.com), and
father to two beautiful girls, Alyanna and Mika.
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Friday, November 26, 2010