Fr. Arsie - Family Rituals During The Pandemic

Family Rituals During Covid-19
Prepared by Fr. Arsie A. Lumiqued, Jr., MSC

Objectives:
1) Learn what family rituals
are.
2)Reflect on how to be able
to maximize family rituals
during Covid-19.
3)Creatively come up with About Us
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Webinar:
Rituals in couples & families in

the time of Covid-19 (Online).
By: Evan Imber-Black
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Family: group of
persons with
significant
relationships. . .
Family as a About Us
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Healthy &
Dysfunctional
Families
John Friesen, 1985, 1990

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1. Family Goals &
Purpose
2.Boundaries
3.Roles
4.Power
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Family Rituals:
behaviors or activities
Rituals stimulate left and

right parts of the brain
(Friesen, 1990)
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Key Elements:
(Imber-Black, 2020)

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Rituals:
Symbols!
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•Symbolic action:
• Meaningful action
• E.g., spontaneous
cheering from frontline
medical workers
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•Open &
structured parts
Special Time-
breakfast
Special Place-
breakfast table
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4 Types:
(Imber-Black, 2020)
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Daily Rituals
Meals, bedtime, entrances &
exits
Co-create a meaningful ritual:
Don’t assign!
“Tell me what’s a typical day like
for your family.”
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night?”
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Task:
You ask them to do it!
“Why don’t you spend 20
minutes after supper.”
Rituals-More creative!
vs. Routine-watching TV:
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Special Traditions:
More people are involved!
Debut- Use Technology to
invite people to join. . .
Marking celebrations: About Us

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Create something
meaningful
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Holiday
Celebrations:
“outside religious calendar–
secular”
In a given culture
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exceptions (Berg, 2000)
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Family Life Cycle:
-Marriage, Birth, Adolescent-
Rite of Passage, Midlife,
Death (McGoldrick & Prieto, 2010)
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Zoom Weddings:
Baby shower
Invite children to participate
in planning. . .
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Secrecy: Privacy
Losses: ritualize
Loss memory box
Marking endings
Acknowledging: Parents
should not pretend (not
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Symbols are helpful to let go!

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Rigid Rituals:
Persons wanted to escape!
“How is it like to have dinner
in your house?
A choice!
Going home. . . About Us
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Story-telling
Rituals:
Bed time ritual!
Healing (Friesen, 1990)
Different for every family.
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Ritual’s Purpose:
(Imber-Black, 2020)
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Relationship
shaping & building
Facilitation of coordination
between individuals,
families, and communities.
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Healing from losses
& traumas: (Friesen, 1990)
Stress- physiological response to
change
Fear- response to immediate
threat (Bishop, 2020)
Anxiety- long term threat (panic
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Hypervigilance- helps us to
evolve. . . Resilience!
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Talk about
memories
Rituals provide support and

containment for strong
emotions. (Friesen, 1990)
Parents can initiate! About Us
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Belief expression
Rituals facilitate the
transmission of values and
beliefs. (Friesen, 1990)
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Affirmation &
Celebration
Rituals make changes

manageable. (Friesen, 1990)
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Walking holding
hands
Rituals contribute to a
family identity. (Friesen, 1990)
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Family Meetings
Who does what?
Sense of continuity:
family expresses its beliefs
about how decisions are
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ThankYou
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References:
Friesen, John. (1985) Structural-strategic marriage & family therapy: A training handbook.
New York: Gardner Press.
Imber-Black, E., and Roberts, J. (1992). Rituals for our times: Celbrating, healing, and
changing our lives and our relationships. New York: HarperPerennial.
Imber-Black, E., Roberts, J.. Whiting, R. (Ed.). (2003). Rituals in families & family
therapy: Revised edition. New York: W.W. Norton.
Imber-Black, E. (2020). Rituals in couples & families in the time of Covid-19 (Online).
New York: Ackerman Institute for the Family.
McGoldrick, M., Carter, B., & Garcia-Preto, N. (Eds.) (2010). The expanded family life
cycle: Individual, family, and social perspectives (4th Ed.). Boston: Allyn & Bacon.
National Geographic (2020). How fear and anxiety drove human evolution.

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Family Rituals During Covid-19

Prepared by Fr. Arsie A. Lumiqued, Jr., MSC

LUMIQUED, A. (2020) PGCA TREY

Rituals in couples & families in

LUMIQUED, A. (2020) PGCA TREY

LUMIQUED, A. (2020) PGCA TREY

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Rituals stimulate left and

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Marking celebrations: About Us

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Symbols are helpful to let go!

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Rituals provide support and

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Rituals make changes

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