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Liz Horgan
! The narratives that guide my life stem from childhood. I was raised to be
independent; my parents were older and had to deal with my sister who had significant
health issues, so I was on my own a lot. Academics were valued, as a way to get
ahead, to prosper, and were assumed to be very important. I did well in school with
minimal effort, and that allowed me freedoms. I am generally an optimist and view the
world from a positive vantage point; I see that came from my mother, who was religious
and drummed into me that God was “good” and by extension life was “good” (and if
things didnʼt seem “good”, it was up to me to make them “good”). My father epitomized
his New England roots with virtues of working hard and saving/investing his money. He
was self effacing, lived simply in a nice place, yet used his money sparingly most of the
Independence, intellectual curiosity and educational success, being capable and helpful
to others are things that I value as “good” in my life. Because my mother was so strong
in her religious beliefs, I have reacted and am not a supporter of organized religion, but
not try to foist my beliefs on others, as I hated it when that was/is done to me. I am
politically independent, tending to a view of society that has obligations to help those
less fortunate.
example, they guide what I say, how I say it, and how I listen. I donʼt talk a lot, unless I
have something important to say (independence, self reliance, thrift). I listen a lot (I
learn, I understand where people are coming from, I use this to frame my
communications with people). I ask a lot of questions. I love language, and use “big
words” to express complexity and to pepper conversations with challenge and layers of
interest. I am selective about what I talk about; as a new mother, I could only talk
diapers for about 5 minutes (remarkable, you say) before getting totally bored, while
other mothers could wax poetically on the subject for what felt like hours. I find that I
can “chit chat”, but am soon bored with it and tend to look for more interesting
conversations/conversationalists.
! How do I ACT the “good” from these frames? I volunteer and give of my time and
money to help animals, to build at Habitat. I talk about environmental stewardship, and
promote protection of non-developed land. I hike, camp, and enjoy nature as well as
work to protect her. I work with international visitors, welcoming them to our culture and
working to provide opportunities for their learnings about the US while asking them
about their experiences. I have volunteered for several political campaigns when I have
felt the swing too far from my belief system, and occasionally converse with people
that conversation can occur, where persuasion and rhetoric can sway change. I have to
work at being open minded. But when positions are based on ignorance, or on fictions,
I become passionate about my “right”ness, where reading this chapter I see that
communicating (as opposed to calling someone an “ignorant slut”, for example) and
their personal narratives and lives lived according to them, is one also shown in the
book The Calligrapherʼs Daughter by Eugenia Kim. Here the privileged daughter, Najin,
is raised in a high class, tradition-bound Korean family in the early part of the 20th
century. She is taught to value her past, and is raised with a father who insists on the
“old” ways while she sees the Korean world changing - she is caught between two
worlds. She marries and has to live with her husbandʼs parents for several years while
he is away. While Korean tradition demands unswerving service to her new family, her
in-laws treat her like a servant. Najin, even though educated and capable, is made to
do the lowest of tasks while the family turns a blind eye her unhappiness. Her
husbandʼs family is led by Reverend Cho, a Christian minister centered fully on his
“flock” and his Christian mission. Instead of practicing charity and Christian virtues in the
home, the Reverend tells Najin to pray, and because she does not embrace the
Christian way, becomes suspicious of her. His world is his ministry. Najin and Rev. Cho
come from different worlds, and are unable to find a way to connect; their belief systems
and their life experiences are so different that they each view the other with distrust.
Najin doubts Christian faith, and Rev. Cho dismisses the “old” ways and sees nothing
but his mission. With different narratives and a total lack of dialog, there can be no
! Fiction mirrors life, and whether it is Jean Valjean and the Thenardiers, Najin and
Rev. Cho, or real world situations at work or between Palestinians and Jews, narratives
differ and are affected by historical moments. Communication, listening, and reflection
based upon an acceptance that narratives can be different and historical moments do