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empathy and ability to communicate successfully with others. It is a sense of timing and
social appropriateness, having the courage to the acknowledge weakness and respect
differences. Prior to the, when EQ became a hot topic, it was sometimes described as
right brain capacity, as distinguished from left- brain capacity. The left-brain considered
the more analytic and right- brain is more to creative. Combining thinking and feeling
Therefore, in Darven¶s case his emotion has affect his performance and also his
behavior and we can classify emotions in terms of whether they cause us to avoid
something with acceptance (joy, love). Emotion can either help or hinder performance.
Due to his failure in six subjects, his performance has affected and he started to isolate
himself and he was avoiding interaction with his peers even his class teacher.
where he shows huge changes in himself, for examples he is not anymore a good
positive thinker, losing his self-esteem, losing his confidence, directionless or aimless;
he even cannot make better decisions in order to solve his problems, anger,
undergo the problems, as his class teacher I have suggested a few ways to help him to
solve the problems so that he can be normal like other students in his school.
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The first step is, as his class teacher I will attempt to help him to get back his
self-confidence so that he would be able to interact with his friends and as well to me.
she has said that self-confidence is an actually a package. In that package we would
expect to find a good-enough supply of eight key ingredients. Some of these are
personal qualities, which feed our inner confidence, and others are learned social skills,
which enable us to handle the outside world in a confident manner. There are eight key
ingredients of super confidence, which divided into two part, inner confidence and outer
confidence.
Inner confidence:
a Self-love
a Self-knowledge
a Clear goals
a Positive thinking
Outer confidence:
a Communication
a Self-presentation
a Assertiveness
a Emotional control
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In this case, as a class teacher, I would teach him what self-love is in order to avoid
Darven to hate himself. In order to achieve that, first he has to eat highly nutritious, well-
balanced, regular meals; and also keeping away from all kind of junk food and going
very easy on toxic drinks. This will prevent Darven¶s health problems because if he does
not take care himself he will do anything that would lead him to problem especially
regarding to the food that he consume every day. Therefore, taking right amount of food
would prevent him from falling in sick and stay strong and healthy. Besides that, I will
feed him with a high degree of self-knowledge and having clear goals in order to gain
his confidence. This will ensure Darven to achieve his goals because he will identify
exactly what his strengths and weaknesses are, and he would play on one and avoid
Consequently, he would change into new person with clear mindset. Then, I will
teach him on how to control the emotion correctly. First, I will suggest him to do things
exams or interview. This method will help him re-motivating himself and positive self-talk
when he faces panic situation during exam hour or before he entering the exam hall. As
his failure in his examination and he started to isolate himself from taking to his peers
and even to his class teacher. Therefore, to solve the problem I conduct four activities
that would develop his inner self-acceptance and this activity will help him to examine
his self-talk, please refer to Appendix 1 for more information regarding to these
activities.
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Building study skills would be essential for Darven to solve his problem.
Schoolwork is one area in which students can all succeed and take pride. The more
hard work they put, the more they can achieve. As Darven begin to believe that he may
be able to succeed, certain skills, when learned, can help him succeed at a higher level
especially during examination. Finding a special place and time for doing homework and
rewarding themselves when they have done it helps many learners like Darven to
conduct four activities in order to provide practice in study skills critical to him to
success in school. In addition, I will talk to Darven about his study habits at home, and
help him become more efficient. Please refer to Appendix 2 for more information
because he will able expressing opinions or desires strongly and with confidence, so
that people take notice about him. On the other hand, people sometimes choose not to
ask for what they want like Darven because they do not feel that they have a right to do
so. At other times, people choose to demand what they want, using more energy than
they need and imposing on others¶ rights, that is acting aggressively. There is way to
use the right amount of energy for asking something and refuses what is not wanted. As
a concern educator, I will carry on four activities in order to develop assertiveness and
these will Darven offering in-class opportunities to replay problematic situations using
assertive behaviors. Therefore, for further information please refer appendix - regarding
these activities.
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reflect on ones¶ own life, grow in self-knowledge, and use that knowledge to improve
oneself and either overcome or compensate for weakness, personal motivation, which
deals with what really excites people- the vision, values, goals, hopes, desires, and
passion that make up their priorities. In Darven case, as a teacher I know that his
feelings are acceptable but that not all behavior is acceptable. If he does not imply this
personal competence, he will unable to recognize how his feelings affect his
on how to be a good self-awareness person and student. Besides that, I will buy him
some good motivation books like The 8th Habit From Effectiveness to Greatness written
motivation books also help Darven to understanding better on inner behavior and
emotions that would be extra booster for him to banish his negative attitude.
In order to dealing with Darven feelings, I would suggest him to consult a good
therapist regarding to his emotion problems because emotion conflict could lead to
psychotherapy. Boston: Houghton Miffin, states that is to help clients become fully
functioning, to open them up to all of their experiences and to all of themselves. They
have learned that love and acceptance are conditional on becoming what other people
want them to be. So, they try to reflect clients¶ statements, sometimes asking question
and sometimes hinting at feelings that clients have not put into words. Therefore, I think
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this treatment would be excellent treatment for Darven. Other than that, time
will not able to organize his personal matter and his studies especially. As a teacher, I
would ask him to prepare suitable and good time management table so that he would
divided his time wisely. As a teacher I would try to sensing what others need in order to
develop, and bolstering Darven´s abilities and acknowledge and rewards his strengths,
accomplishment, and develop his skills on his studies. Therefore, he can become
someone and successful student in studies as well as in his future. These few ways
could help him to overcome his problems in studies, behaviors and emotions. Overall
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