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In more than one video I explained that this course is not about verbal communication
techniques, nonetheless, here are a few tips. Whether they are of help to you or not will
probably depend on whether or not you are skilled when it comes to effective
communication.
Sometimes a manager’s efforts during performance management can produce negative
consequences. And this is most often due to the choice of words used by the manager. For
example, staff may feel that they are being interrogated, or bullied, or accused.
It is so very important to weight your words, because the words you choose to use can
help to make or break the effectiveness of a performance management session.
Tip No 6: Understand the distinction between using ‘I’ ‘you’ and ‘we’.
It is said that the sign of a true leader is when he/she uses the all-inclusive word ‘we’
during a conversation, such as:
“How can we solve this?”
There are times when using ‘we’ is not appropriate, and either ‘I’ or ‘you’ should be used
instead. If you perhaps have not done any studies in this area, you may find it valuable to
read up on it.
So there you have them, some tips, which are by no means exhaustive. They are primarily
there as food for thought:
• When having a constructive feedback conversation, how good are your
communications skills?
• Are the words that you use, your body language, and tone of voice, helping to build
the relationship? Are they relaxing the staff member, getting them to open up and be
engaged in the conversation?
• In order to get the desired outcomes from a constructive feedback session, do you
need to improve your communication skills? If so, when and how will you do this?