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ABSTRACT
Recent research in cognitive neuroscience, as well as in therapeutic
approaches such as Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) and
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, offer ways of empowering psychoanalytic
therapy within the framework of contemporary psychoanalysis’s basic prin-
ciples. A clinical vignette illustrating an effective application of psychother-
apy integration is presented. In order to benefit from importing these
outside insights and methods, some analysts will need to overcome single-
mindedness and relax elitist notions of the superiority of their staunch
approach. As the hegemony of psychoanalysis continues to decline, an
integrative strategy of this sort can vitalize psychoanalysis and ensure its
legacy while also helping nonanalytic therapists realize the ways their
approaches intersect with and can benefit from ours.
Historical background
During the 1970’s and 80’s, American psychoanalysis found itself in the throes of a major shift. For
decades, the orthodox mainstream had dominated, suppressing alternative approaches. But then, as
Robert Wallerstein (1988) observed in his Presidential Inaugural Address to the International
Psychoanalytic Association, a new psychoanalytic pluralism was developing. Because, at the time,
factions were forming – among classical analysts, object-relations analysts, and psychoanalytic self
psychologists, for example – concerns arose over the fragmentation of psychoanalysis as a unified
science and profession. If not enthusiastic, Wallerstein was at least reassuring about the effects of the
new pluralism. He opined that psychoanalysis could successfully retain its identity while accommo-
dating a variety of substreams based on a shared desire to use psychoanalytic principles and methods
to heal people’s psychic distress. Quoting Freud (1914), he cited the requirement that “Any line of
investigation which recognizes [transference and resistance] and takes them as the starting-point of
its work has a right to call itself psycho-analysis” (p. 16).
Today, most practitioners would agree that pluralism turned out to be a positive development.
During the late 1980’s and beyond, the consolidation of Object-Relations theory, Psychoanalytic Self
Psychology, and Interpersonal Psychoanalysis, an integration that became known as Relational
Psychoanalysis (Mitchell, 1988), continued constructively to reshape our discipline while preserving
its basic ideological integrity. Gradually, the relational “movement” gained ascendency over the
constraining orthodox position. And its “two-person” (versus classical “one-person”) conceptualiza-
tions have resulted in a liberalization of psychoanalytic methodology.
My thesis in this article is that pluralism followed by consolidation, has represented a very
positive trajectory for psychoanalysis; yet it is a path whose potentialities are far from fully devel-
oped. I wish to advance that trend here. For instance, as psychoanalysts struggled narrowly in the
1980’s and beyond, exploring avenues that would advance their own discipline, others in the field of
psychotherapy, mostly academic psychotherapy researchers, defined their fundamental professional
objective more broadly – if no less self-servingly – as the pursuit of best therapy outcomes. Those in
that specialty area, called psychotherapy integration, showed that combining diverse therapies, like
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Cognitive and Behavior Therapy (CBT) can produce superior outcomes. Except for a small handful
of individuals, we analysts are arriving quite late to the integration party.
individual psychology, on one hand, and psychoanalytic practice narrowly defined (Gill, 1993), on
the other. We undertake the integrative project with Freud’s (1919) prophecy in mind – that “the
pure gold of psychoanalysis” (p. 168) be retained. In what I propose here, the defining features of the
psychoanalytic point of view have not been lost. These include: (1) the influence of the past on
current functioning; (2) the enduring effects of interpersonal patterns laid down in childhood; (3) the
importance of unconscious cognitive, affective, and motivational processes; (4) conflicting mental
processes; (5) the role of sexual, aggressive, and other motives, such as the need for self-esteem and
relatedness to others; (6) reliance on defenses and self-deception; and (7) compromises among
competing psychological tendencies that may be negotiated unconsciously (Westen et al., 2008).
Further, the analytic process continues to play a centrally grounding role in this methodology.
Essential elements include the analyst’s associative listening, the joint articulation of subsymbolic
processes, the shared re-narration of the patient’s life story through retrospective insight, internali-
zation of self-regulating and other therapeutic interactions, and the pair’s openness to uncertainty
and surprise.
However, in contrast with Freud’s psychoanalysis, in this view, outside methods are imported
precisely to facilitate integrative functions. Freud (1919) was at pains to emphasize the reductive aim
of analysis, which he explicitly contrasted with therapists adopting “psychosynthetic, i.e., integrative”
approaches. He saw the latter as both unnecessary and inimical to psychoanalytic work. It is not that
Freud saw synthesis as undesirable but as something that automatically and inevitably arises within
the patient and in which the analyst plays no direct part. Nor was Freud’s rejection of “psychosynth-
esis” based on rejection of the notion of personality integration, but on the term’s association with
mystical, directive, holistic, and interpersonal connotations resulting from the work of Assagioli
(1927) and others.1
Another building block is the relationality of this integrative psychoanalytic point of view, which
asserts that while methods can and do make a significant difference, either alone or in combination,
the core of any successful therapy is a strong relationship. In a book I edited forty years ago, called
“The Human Dimension in Psychoanalytic Practice” (Frank, 1977), I stated emphatically that
psychotherapy:
… is of limited value unless implemented within a relationship characterized by an affectional bond of mutual
trust and respect (and with a therapist who is) willing to fully experience and to be experienced, on an
authentically human level. [Frank, 1977, p. 6]
That assertion, which I stand by and is shared by many others today, was radical forty years ago,
before relational psychoanalysis as such existed. In a subsequent paper, I (Frank, 2005) privileged the
healing role of the personal, or person-to-person relationship between patient and analyst, and that
of the developing new relationship, and framed much transference analytic work as the protector of
that essentially healthy relational bond. That relationship is at the core of our work, both as an
accomplishment in itself, and as the fertile soil for further growth.
Relational psychoanalysis, with its scholarly articulation of the therapeutic relationship and its
ideas about approaching it therapeutically, is, on that basis alone, well suited as the therapeutic
baseline for an integrative approach. Although no single framework, including the psychoanalytic,
can entirely explain or implement the complexity of psychological change, only analysis so sensi-
tively and informedly explains and fosters the role of the therapy relationship itself as the crucible of
change.
1
Assagioli began publishing his ideas as early as 1906 in Italian. His correspondence with Jung, with whose model he found
greater agreement than Freud’s, began in 1907 (Rosselli & Vanni, 2014).
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Change in any one system leads toward, or results in change in the others (Rosenzweig, 1936). This
latter observation, suggested many years ago, deserves renewed attention and elaboration as we
expand our psychoanalytic model of therapeutic action.
I will summarize the major integrative methods I used with my patient, “Richard,” a chapter from
whose treatment I will describe shortly. I’ll begin with the psychoanalytic and then cover three
additional nonanalytic modalities spanning the SIBAM channels. I’ll include each’s therapeutic entry
point and channel of action.
what we know. Often, the body, speaking procedurally, can express what the dissociated patient
could not verbally articulate. SMP helps clients become aware of and track their bodily sensation,
and implement physical actions that promote awareness, empowerment, and competency.
reframing. The depressed patient says, “I feel hopeless.” The therapist reflects: “You’re feeling
hopeless,” but adds, “just now,” encouraging the patient that now is not forever. This is a state
and will pass. As you will see, my work with Richard seamlessly and thematically blended analytic,
CBT, and other approaches.
Many therapists are at first intimidated by the prospect of switching explicitly (rather than
blending) to another modality that alters the usual therapeutic ambience. However, the introduction
of an ancillary method can be far simpler than expected and can be handled straightforwardly.
A decision to switch is a co-created development and can be arrived at collaboratively. One might
simply say, “A method occurs to me that you might find helpful,” and describe the method. Once it
is outlined and accepted, the specifics are worked out jointly and the pair switches. With experience,
practitioners usually prefer seamlessly integrative ways of working. This is not surprising, for each of
us tends to develop our own “personal therapeutic approach” (Rihacek & Roubal, 2017), “integrat-
ing,” if you will, or selecting from the vast array of ostensibly “single” theories and methods and
metabolizing them into a uniquely personal mélange. Some who have followed a staunch approach –
analytic or otherwise – may have concerns that shifting from strict practice might reflect a loss of
confidence in the baseline approach. This does not occur if, for example, the practitioner embraces
and conveys a metabolized “analytic/integrative” model, rather than a strictly analytic one.
Patients’ autonomy
Promoting a patient’s sense of personal agency is important, even while fostering the attitude that
one must accept, rather than try to change something distressing. In implementing outside methods,
therapists try to minimize to the extent possible the taking of initiative from the patient. After
a method is introduced as a potential resource, without undue pressure from the therapist, the
patient can decide whether s/he wishes to pursue it. The therapist might encourage a patient to
attempt a formal exposure technique, for example, but not too forcefully. Unlike the strict behavior
therapist overcoming a simple “compliance” problem, we hope to promote understanding as we help
the patient master that avoidance. Even if the patient rejects these techniques, their introduction
alone often stimulates important associative material. Rejection may be used interpretively to
advance the therapy, to develop alternative methods, and/or to facilitate their effective use later in
treatment. The rejection also can crystallize a patient’s unwillingness to face change and, sometimes
clarifies the reasons.
Enactments
Because when practicing integration, we are prepared to break from the traditional analytic frame,
we do so thoughtfully; the therapist must try to be aware of enacting detrimental past relational
patterns, for example, and instead offer interventions constructively, hoping they will contribute
beneficially to new relational experiences. We remain alert to enactments, in which the analyst is
given a specific role to play that has historical relevance. Both the patient and the analyst may lose
their sense of distance from the process in this context, interacting unreflectively with each other
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verbally and nonverbally in a manner leading to interactions within the therapeutic relationship that
express problematic psychodynamics. A central aspect of therapeutic change is through the libera-
tion of the patient and the analyst from repetitive unconscious patterns. Knowledge of the potentially
counterproductive role of enactments gives us pause, quite literally. That is, a therapist is usually best
able to evaluate the indications and contraindications for introducing an outside technique over time
once the therapist is relatively confident that the technique is responsive to a patient’s valid
therapeutic needs. They must be considered in relation to the changing clinical and psychodynamic
context, including transference and countertransference. While we try to mindfully guide our
behavior, we may at times need to draw quite spontaneously from our knowledge of outside
techniques to productively engage an emergent clinical moment.
Therapeutic “standstills”
Unfortunately, there are no specific formulas clarifying when to use integrative methods.
Psychotherapy is a highly individualized process; each pair is unique, and, to a large extent, analytic
therapy is improvisational. One development that frequently invites a supplemental intervention is
when therapy stalls. Imported interventions can revitalize a stalled therapy that involves unduly long
periods of time when the pair shares a sense that there is interrupted movement toward goals. When
a standstill is occurring, one might well be able to reactivate movement via clarifying material
provided by a different approach and/or channel. The therapist can only estimate, but not predict
with certainty when and which outside intervention to use or what its impact necessarily will be on
the patient and the relationship. That is why, afterward, it is important to remain open to consider-
ing the patient’s reactions, as well as results.
Strangers to ourselves
Any intervention, analytic or nonanalytic, involves unconscious or unformulated elements of our
own personalities that may come to light as we engage in the analytic inquiry that follows. Here we
initiate more than is customary and are likely to reveal more of ourselves, with our actions subject to
patients’ interpretations. Given our implicit influence, we do well to know as much as possible about
our motives. The pair’s open and mutual exploration and understanding of their differing percep-
tions creates a basis for furthering the analytic work, which also may involve our own grappling with
formerly unrecognized aspects of our personal participation (Frank, 2012).
including a loveless, asexual marriage, Richard felt it was time for him to leave his wife. Threatened
by the prospect of single life, he came for therapy.
I learned that his extremely simple lifestyle was emblematic of his need to play down his wealth,
along with his other personal resources. This defined an issue we would spend a good deal of time
discussing during his twice weekly sessions. We would understand this as his pervasive fear of
standing up, feeling and being seen as a competent male. On a psychodynamic level, I came to
understand Richard’s development as impeded by several factors. His father, generally indifferent to
him, was subject to rages when he felt threatened. His mother, afraid of her volatile husband, had
fostered a mutually protective bond with Richard. A prime example was her support of her son’s
preadolescent school phobia, which was masterfully hidden from the no-nonsense father. The closely
interdependent mother-son bond, being oedipally tinged, apparently infuriated the father, causing
him to feel disdain toward his sissified son. A brother, five years older, and openly preferred by the
father, intensified Richard’s beaten down sense of self by constantly tormenting, ridiculing, and
bullying him. In addition, his mother, with the father’s extramural sexual activities in mind,
constantly preached to Richard, “Don’t be like your father,” a directive that inhibited Richard’s self-
assertive as well as sexual development.
Richard described an anguished history of trying desperately and failing to win his indifferent
father’s love and appreciation. Yet he feared him as well, and remained at a distance. Unfortunately,
his needy mother’s credibility was low, so her generous praise and support had little traction. Still,
Richard was no sissy. He was determined to overcome the fragility resulting from these childhood
experiences and became a strong athlete and fine classical musician. His unusual sense of determi-
nation was a terrific asset throughout his therapy.
Two prior, failed therapies defined him. The second, major one, occurred when Richard entered
a Freudian analysis after flunking out of a small, southern college. He began to make significant
strides, resuming college coursework locally and dating with some success. But then he developed
what I’m quite certain was a Panic Disorder. However, as Richard recalled it, his therapist thought he
had become psychotic. The psychiatrist rushed him off to a hospital psych ward and, as Richard
remembered it, abandoned him there. We cannot know with certainty what happened, but appar-
ently the analyst failed to help Richard understand critical, internalized object relationships; on
a subsymbolic level, his success meant renouncing mother’s protection and challenging father, which
triggered a terrifying fear of retaliation. Moreover, intense anxiety was likely to have intensified in
a paternal transference that, as far as I could tell, was not addressed. On a subconscious level, we
later realized, Richard experienced that scarring episode, including hospitalization and abandon-
ment, as the father’s overwhelming retaliation for Richard’s showing strength. Keenly aware of his
earlier therapy abandonments, I handled that point of vulnerability in our relationship as sensitively
as I could. For instance, I interpreted his abandonment fears, attributing them largely to prior
therapist abandonments, and also explicitly committed to work with him until he no longer chose or
needed to work with me.
When I first met Richard, he felt himself as deeply and hopelessly flawed – undeveloped as a male,
unattractive and unlovable. His fear of psychosis, or “falling off the edge of the earth again,” as he
put it, defined and tortured him, causing him to lead a life that minimized taking risks.
Understandably, his mood was melancholy. After assessing what occurred, I reassured him of his
sanity, and in the spirit of CBT’s psychoeducation, explained our newer understanding of Panic
Disorder (Barlow, 2004), which I believed was the syndrome he had experienced. Discussing this
syndrome with him, and providing appropriate readings, I emphasized that panic could be terrifying,
but was self-limiting and ultimately benign. Because I saw no clinical signs, I reassured him
truthfully that I would be shocked if ever he were to become psychotic (which is as far as I ever
go in offering clinical “guarantees”). In a variation on CBT’s cognitive restructuring, whenever he
became highly anxious and feared he would “flip out,” we worked collaboratively with his negative,
anxiety engendering thoughts, relating to them simply as “old habit patterns.” We went over actual
evidence repeatedly. After a while, he realized his reasoning was emotional and grew able to reassure
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himself, “This is just anxiety – not psychosis, scary but ultimately I’m safe.” As he mastered this
exercise in the fuller context of our work together, gradually, his alarmist thoughts diminished and
virtually dropped out. He became more trusting of his integration and felt himself on solid new
ground.
How did I frame the therapeutic action with Richard? My primary and basic treatment approach
was psychoanalytic, or psychodynamic. Attending to his personal narrative, together we undertook
to understand and progressively revise how he saw himself, present, past, and future, based on the
major sources of his difficulties along the psychogenetic lines I have outlined. That outline provided
an understanding of how his problems developed and what could help him heal. Interpretive work
with negative transference, limited though it was, helped him identify sporadic reactions to me “as if”
I was his distracted or scornful father. Different from his previous analyst, he noted that I remained
approachable, encouraging transference disclosures. I handled them authentically and therapeuti-
cally. We could discuss our relationship to repair ruptures, so our relationship offered a healing
corrective emotional experience, radically different from his pathogenic attachments to both his
parents.
We followed another, intersecting theme that I formulated in CBT terms as an experience of
exposure and mastery, involving his undertaking and mastering progressively challenging outside
experiences that he had avoided and failed to master earlier in life. Throughout the process of
therapy, it was necessary to support Richard’s shaky belief that he was capable of the next step,
sustain him through facing each successive challenge, and make sure his takeaway was balanced
rather than skewed toward the negative. Accordingly, he progressed.
Gradually, he was realizing he was not the shameful loser his father, mother, and brother all had
related to, each from their own perspective, but could be a capable man. We worked productively
together for four years when Richard decided to sell his business and relocate to the West Coast near
friends. I heard from him occasionally over the years, and then one day I received an S.O.S. He was
entering a relationship with an exceptional woman, who unlike many he had dated before, was
highly capable, socially prominent, and immensely attractive to him. In her idealized presence, he
felt damaged and puny again, and feared he never could measure up to her
We resumed our work, largely by telephone but with periodic in-person sessions whenever he
came east. The basic treatment themes – insightful new relational experience and exposure and
mastery – continued. But now I introduced an additional therapy approach. Since Richard left, I had
become influenced by progress in psychoanalytic dissociation and self-states theory, especially its
intersection with IFS “Parts” theory, and I was applying these understandings.
One day, while reflecting on his childhood experience together, I with Parts in mind, Richard and
I accessed and gradually became acquainted with a shameful, disavowed part of him that we came to
call “Little Ricky.” When we first met Little Ricky, he was hiding anxiously in his room, his ear
pressed to the wall listening to a parental quarrel. Would they divorce? Would there be violence?
And then there was his big brother, Marshall, on the prowl, seeking to torment him. This terrified
child part told us he was afraid of his father’s raging eruptions and brother’s bullying in a home
charged with marital strife. He felt like he was living in a battle zone or concentration camp, in other
words, in mortal danger. Little Ricky learned to survive by hiding.
During our explorations, Richard recalled a traumatizing childhood experience. He estimated his
age at six or so. That was a time when Marshall, age eleven, would unpredictably sneak upstairs
beforehand and terrorize Ricky when he went upstairs to bed. He never knew if, when, or from
where Marshall might leap out at him from hiding and scare or pummel him. Ricky felt helpless.
Marshall’s motives, hardly playful, seemed sadistic (a paternal identification?). This pattern repeated
for some time without his parents’ stepping in.
Over several sessions, we followed what came up in a way of working that was informed by CBT,
Guided Imagery, Sensorimotor, and IFS therapies, among others. I asked him if he would be willing
to “go inside” himself and describe what he was feeling as he remembered these events. He agreed
and reported feeling dread, a generalized body tension, shoulders drawn tight and up, pronounced
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tightness in his upper back and neck, and holding his breath. He described that he was hunching his
back and drawing up his shoulders, as if to protect against an attack from behind. He felt a physical
sense of disgust and nausea and nearly threw up as he called up this repugnant memory. A surreal
visual alteration hinted at childhood dread and depression; through his eyes, his childhood home
was achromatic, in shades of gray, with hidden, menacing figures, as in a child’s night terror. The
dimly lit house felt cold. I found the telephonic experience facilitative, more couch-like and hence
freeing the patient for intrapsychic imaginal work.
My aim was to help him recollect and constructively reexperience these distressing events that
had lasting negative effects on him. As we did this work, I had in mind the importance of
experiential arousal and neuroscientific evidence that in such states the brain does not necessarily
distinguish between mental imagery and that which is externally occurring (See Kappes &
Morewedge, 2016; Ji et al., 2016, for example). Richard, as it turned out, had quite a flare for
visualization – such a flare that at times during this work he seemed to be revealing an altered state
of consciousness, a hypnotic-like state of receptiveness, what imaging theorists call absorption, or
openness to absorbing self-altering experiences. Usually, the capacity for such concentrative atten-
tional ability develops with practice. Remember, too, these sessions were telephonic; being at
a distance, and not seen, ironically may have facilitated his ability to go inside by suspending
practical reality and reducing self-consciousness.
Agreeing to attempt an experiment, Richard was willing to “be” his six-year-old self. He soon
became activated as he fearfully imagined his boyhood self hesitating at the foot of the stairs of his
childhood home. Immersing himself in the memory of that experience, his eyes closed, he visualized
the scene in the moment. Now Richard virtually became Little Ricky. He said, “I’m afraid Marshall’s
up there waiting to scare me or beat me up. I call my mother to do something, maybe go up with me,
but she doesn’t respond. She seems very far away in the dark house. She couldn’t handle Marshall,
anyway. And, of course, my father isn’t there at all.” Gathering himself, bracing himself, Little Ricky
began tentatively crawling upstairs on hands and knees, hoping he wouldn’t be noticed. But feeling
intense fear, he turned back halfway.
With IFS and EMDR in mind, I switched the imagery from memory to fantasy and asked what might
allow him to feel safe. It didn’t occur to him at first to have a protective adult accompany him or wait at
the foot of the stairs to assure his safe passage. He couldn’t even imagine at six that such help might be
forthcoming. I explained, “Remember, this is fantasy. Now you can have anyone or anything that would
help you.” Addressing the six-year-old. I offered a menu of possibilities – having his idealized Uncle
David there, one of the “big kids” from the block, me, the Lone Ranger (a childhood hero), anyone or
anything. “Back then,” I said, “there was little you could do to protect yourself, but this time, if there’s
trouble with Marshall, there’s help. You’re safe.” He asked if I would stand at the foot of the stairs and
come upstairs if he called. “Of course,” I agreed. Cautiously, he continued his imagined climb upstairs,
narrating his journey step by step – his thoughts, feelings, and body sensations. We tracked and observed
his experience together as, this time, despite his fear, he made it safely to his room. No Marshall.
Becoming emboldened over similar sessions, Ricky decided spontaneously that he would like to stand up
to Marshall if he were to attack. “Let the chips fall where they may,” he said, “I’m just sick and tired of
being scared.” At age 6, he didn’t realize that standing up for himself or fighting back were options. He
had to be his mother’s good boy, and unlike his father, nonaggressive. But he was now feeling courage,
and wanted to change that, to go upstairs to prove and free himself.
I asked if he’d like to take a time out to first rehearse and he agreed. With new relational
experience in mind, I coached him by offering possibilities and exploring associated feelings. As in
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, we explored different postures as he imagined confronting Marshall.
Guided through some experiments, he agreed to stand up very tall, legs braced, hands extended as if
to form a protective barrier; then hands on his hips, chin up, chest protruding, boldly leaning
a shoulder forward into the imagined Marshall. He noticed how in this position he felt bolder, more
grounded in physical space, sturdier. I encouraged him to slow down and notice what he felt as he
imagined confronting Marshall again, alone, in this position. He said with surprise and pride, “Solid,
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safe, actually bigger and stronger.” I was imagining how enormously helpful a strengthening father
figure’s support would have been to him as a struggling child.
Again, he closed his eyes and we returned to the staircase. He reported beginning to feel
determination and courage swelling within against the more familiar shame and shrinking.
I remain at the foot of the stairs as he imagines himself slowly going upstairs, this time, erect,
braced, and ready. Marshall then leaps out at the top of the stairs, blocking his way. Ricky is
surprised to notice that at first, he is inclined to play the familiar role of willing prey. But he resists
that impulse, and instead, checking inside and recalling the body work we did, girds himself by
assuming his strongest position. Now he is confronted by Marshall. As we rehearsed, he turns his
shoulder, raises a hand like a police officer stopping traffic, and says, “You have to stop this. And I’ll
do whatever I have to, to get you to stop.” With a twinge of fright at hearing his own strong words,
he nevertheless maintains his firm physical stance and takes time to sense the unfamiliar solidness
within and beneath him. As he imagines speaking firmly to his brother, he observes that Marshall is
responding reasonably, respectfully, and yields.
Safely in his room now, Ricky has a new experience – freedom from intimidation associated with an
ability to stand up for himself and a readiness even to fight back if needed. I ask Richard, “How do you
feel toward Little Ricky now?” He answers, “More compassionate; actually, some pride in him.”
Reflecting on the avoidant pattern he had adopted and brought to adulthood, he said, “He – I – did
what I could to survive. Under those circumstances, that little guy was acting in an understandable
way.” He continued, “It could have been different. It should have been! I should have been protected,”
followed by his sadness, squelched tears, and then relief. “It wasn’t, it isn’t me – not something wrong
with me,” he says. “The situation was all fucked up. I did what I could. I feel good, relieved, lighter.”
The adult Richard apparently was ready for this inner shift to occur. Following our psychoanalytic
model, we could frame this as a shift in an influential internal object relationship. Following
a sensorimotor model, we might say that a virtually real “moment of triumph” had been achieved.
The damaged exile was healed through qualities of curiosity, connectedness, compassion, and
calmness. The next time we met at the base of the stairs he felt secure enough to go upstairs
alone. He told me I could leave. So we resumed our more traditional analytic work.
Concluding comment
Each valid psychotherapy approach, having its own theory of therapeutic action, illuminates our under-
standing of different, interacting aspects of the overall change process. Focusing on only one channel is too
limiting. But we can conduct a psychotherapy practice in which psychoanalytic understanding and essential
analytic methods play a primary grounding role, yet not an exclusive one, and allows us to constructively
look beyond it for understanding and methodology. If the narrative flow of psychoanalysis is the river, its
current is strengthened as we selectively introduce into it the source streams of other modalities.
Disclosure statement
No potential conflict of interest was reported by the author.
Notes on contributor
Kenneth A. Frank, Ph.D., is Co-Founder and Board member of the National Institute for the Psychotherapies, where
he is also Founder and Co-Director of its Psychotherapy Integration Training Program. He is formerly Clinical
Professor in Psychiatry (Part-time), Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons, is Senior Consulting
Editor of the journal, Psychoanalytic Perspectives, and has published more than 60 articles, chapters, and books, many
on psychoanalysis and psychotherapy integration. He practices in New York City and Bergen County, New Jersey.
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